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                  Notice of 2004 Annual Meeting of Shareholders
                               and Proxy Statement












                                         Interchange
                               [LOGO]    Financial Services
                                         Corporation

















                      [Logo]  Interchange
                              Financial Services
                              Corporation

                         Park 80 West/Plaza II
                         Saddle Brook, NJ 07663





Dear Fellow Shareholders:

     Please  accept  this  invitation  to attend our 2004  Annual  Shareholders'
Meeting.  The  meeting  will be held  Thursday,  April  22 at 3:00  p.m.  at the
Marriott Hotel, Garden State Parkway at Route 80 in Saddle Brook, New Jersey.

     Our  agenda  will  include  the  election  of  seven   directors   and  the
ratification  of the  appointment  of  Deloitte  & Touche  LLP as the  Company's
independent auditors for the year ending December 31, 2004.

     In order to ensure that your shares are  represented at the Annual Meeting,
please  promptly vote,  date, sign and return your proxy for the meeting even if
you plan to attend. You may vote in person at that time if you so desire.

     Please accept our thanks for your continued  confidence in our Company.  We
look forward to seeing you at the meeting.


                                       Sincerely,





                                       /s/ Anthony S. Abbate
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                                       Anthony S. Abbate
                                       President and Chief Executive Officer

March 25, 2004



                                Table of Contents



NOTICE OF THE 2004 ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1

PROXY STATEMENT

 Questions and Answers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  2

 Proposal No. 1 - Election of Directors  . . . . . . . . . . . .   . . . . .  5

   General . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  5

   Recommendation of the Company's Board of Directors . . . . .  . . . . . .  5

   Nominees and Directors  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  5

   Committees and Meetings of the Board of Directors  . . . . . . . . . . . . 7

   Compensation/Stock Option Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation . 8

   Director Compensation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8

 Proposal No. 2 - Ratification of Appointment of Independent Public Auditors .9

   General . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9

   Recommendation of the Company's Board of Directors . . . . . . . . . . . . 10

 The Company's Executive Officers, Executive Compensation and
 Other Company Information. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10

   Executive Officers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10

   Executive Compensation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11

   Stock Option Grants in Last Fiscal Year. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12

   Aggregated Option Exercises in Last Fiscal Year and Year End
   Option Values . . . . .  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12

   Pension Plan and Supplemental Executives' Retirement Plan . . . . . . . .  12

   Capital Investment Plan. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

   Change-in-Control Arrangements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

 Compensation/Stock Option Committee Report on Executive Compensation.  . . . 14

   Compensation Strategy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  14

   Base Salary . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  14

   Annual Bonus . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

   Stock Option and Incentive Plan . .. . . .  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  15

   Chief Executive Officer Compensation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . .  15

 Audit Committee Report. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . 16

   Fees Paid to Our Independent Auditors. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

 Five Year Performance Comparison . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

 Principal Shareholders and Holdings of Management of the Company. . . . . .  19

   Section 16(a) Beneficial Ownership Reporting Compliance . . . . . . . . .  19

 Certain Relationships and Related Party Transactions of the Company. . . . . 20

   Transactions with Management  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . 20

   Other Matters . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  20

   Shareholder Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  20

   Nominating Committee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

   Directors Attendance at Meetings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

   Submission of Shareholder Proposals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  21

   Solicitation Expenses . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  21

   Financial Materials . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  21

   Where You Can Find More Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  21







                Notice of the 2004 Annual Meeting of Shareholders

                                           [Logo]   Interchange
                                                    Financial Services
                                                    Corporation

                                                               March 25, 2004

To Our Shareholders:

     The Annual  Meeting  of  Shareholders  of  Interchange  Financial  Services
Corporation  will be held  at 3:00  p.m.  on  Thursday,  April  22,  2004 at the
Marriott Hotel,  Garden State Parkway at Route 80 in Saddle Brook, New Jersey to
consider and take action on the following proposals:

1.   Elect seven directors:  Anthony D. Andora, Gerald A. Calabrese,  Jr., David
     R. Ficca,  Nicholas R. Marcalus and Benjamin Rosenzweig for a term of three
     years;  John A. Schepisi for a term of two years and Joseph C. Parisi for a
     term of one year;

2.   Ratify the Board's  appointment of Deloitte & Touche LLP as our independent
     auditors for 2004; and

3.   Such other business as may properly come before the Meeting.

     Shareholders  who owned  shares of our  stock at the close of  business  on
March 12, 2004 are entitled to notice of and to vote at the Annual Meeting. This
notice,  the proxy statement,  a proxy and voting instruction card, and the 2003
Annual Report are being distributed on or about March 25, 2004.

     Regardless of whether you plan to attend the meeting in person, we urge you
to vote in favor of each of the proposals as soon as possible.


                                              By Order of the Board of Directors



                                              /s/ Benjamin Rosenzweig
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                                              Benjamin Rosenzweig
                                              Secretary


Your vote is important.  Please  complete,  date,  sign, and return promptly the
enclosed proxy in the postage-paid  envelope provided even if you plan to attend
the Annual Meeting in person. If you do attend the Annual Meeting,  you may then
withdraw your proxy and vote in person, if you wish.

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Questions and Answers
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Q: Why did I receive this Proxy Statement?

A:   The board of directors of Interchange  Financial Services  Corporation (the
     "Company" or "we" or "us") is soliciting  proxies to be voted at the Annual
     Meeting of Shareholders  ("annual  meeting") to be held on Thursday,  April
     22, 2004, and at any  adjournment of the annual  meeting.  When the Company
     asks for your  proxy,  we must  provide  you  with a proxy  statement  that
     contains certain information specified by law.

Q: Who is entitled to vote?

A:   Shareholders who own Company stock as of the close of business on March 12,
     2004 (the  "Record  Date")  may vote at the annual  meeting.  Each share is
     entitled to one vote with respect to each matter  considered  at the annual
     meeting.  There  were  12,738,449  shares of our stock  outstanding  on the
     Record Date.

Q: What is the proxy card?

A:   The proxy card  enables  you to appoint  Eleanore  S.  Nissley,  Anthony R.
     Coscia and John J. Eccleston as your representatives at the annual meeting.
     By completing  and returning the proxy card,  you are  authorizing  them to
     vote your shares at the meeting as you instructed on your proxy card.  This
     way, your shares will be voted whether or not you attend the meeting.  Even
     if you plan to attend the meeting, it is a good idea to complete and return
     your proxy card before the meeting date just in case your plans change.

Q: What am I voting on?

A:   You are voting on:

     |X|  the  election  of  seven  directors  (Anthony  D.  Andora,  Gerald  A.
          Calabrese,  Jr.,  David  R.  Ficca,  Nicholas  R.  Marcalus,  Benjamin
          Rosenzweig, John A. Schepisi and Joseph C. Parisi); and

     |X|  the  ratification of the board's  appointment of Deloitte & Touche LLP
          as our independent auditors for the 2004 fiscal year.

Q: Will there be any other items of business on the agenda?

A:   We do not expect any other items of  business  because  the  deadlines  for
     shareholder proposals and nominations have already passed.  Nonetheless, in
     case  there  is  an  unforeseen   need,   the   accompanying   proxy  gives
     discretionary  authority to the persons  named on the proxy with respect to
     any other matters that might be brought  before the annual  meeting.  Those
     persons  intend to vote that proxy in accordance  with their best judgment.

Q: How do I vote?

A:   You may vote by mail.  Mark your  choices  on the  enclosed  proxy card and
     sign, date and return it in the enclosed,  self-addressed  envelope. If you
     sign your proxy card but do not make any  selections,  your  shares will be
     voted:

     |X|  FOR the seven named nominees for directors; and

     |X|  FOR the ratification of the independent auditors.

     You may vote in person at the meeting.  We will distribute  written ballots
     to anyone who wants to vote at the meeting.  If you submitted a proxy,  you
     will first need to revoke it before you may vote in person at the  meeting.
     If you hold your shares in street name,  you must request a proxy from your
     stockbroker  in order to vote at the  meeting.  Holding  shares in  "street
     name" means you hold them in an account at a brokerage firm.

Q: What does it mean if I get more than one proxy card?

A:   Your shares are  probably  registered  differently  or are in more than one
     account.  Vote all proxy  cards to ensure  that all your  shares are voted.
     Unless you need multiple accounts for specific purposes,  we recommend that
     you  consolidate  as many of your accounts as possible  under the same name
     and  address.  If the  shares are  registered  in your  name,  contact  our
     transfer   agent,    Continental   Stock   Transfer   and   Trust   Company
     (212-509-4000); otherwise, contact your brokerage firm.

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Q:   How do I revoke my proxy?

A:   You may revoke your proxy and change your vote at any time before the polls
     close at the meeting. You may do this by:

     |X|  filing  with the  Secretary  of the  Company  at or before  the annual
          meeting a written  notice of revocation  bearing a later date than the
          proxy;

     |X|  duly  executing  a  subsequent  proxy  relating to the same shares and
          delivering  it to the Secretary of the Company at or before the annual
          meeting; or

     |X|  attending the annual meeting and voting in person (although attendance
          at the annual  meeting will not in itself  constitute  revocation of a
          proxy). You would first need to notify the Secretary of the Company of
          your desire to revoke your proxy.

     Any  written  notice  revoking  a proxy  should be  delivered  to  Benjamin
     Rosenzweig,  Secretary, Interchange Financial Services Corporation, Park 80
     West/Plaza II, Saddle Brook, New Jersey, 07663.

Q: Will my shares be voted if I do not return my proxy card?

A:   If your shares are held in your name, they will not be voted at the meeting
     unless you either submit a signed proxy,  or attend the meeting and vote in
     person.

     If your shares are held in street name, your brokerage firm,  under certain
     circumstances, may vote your shares. Under NASD rules, brokerage firms have
     authority to vote customers' unvoted shares on "routine" matters.

     If you do not give a proxy to vote your  shares,  your  brokerage  firm may
     either:

     |X|  vote your shares on routine matters, or

     |X|  leave your shares unvoted.

     You may have granted to your  stockbroker  discretionary  voting  authority
     over  your  account.  Depending  on the terms of your  agreement  with your
     stockbroker,  the firm may be able to vote your shares. We encourage you to
     provide  instructions  to your  brokerage  firm by giving your proxy.  This
     ensures your shares will be voted at the meeting.

Q: How are abstentions, withholding of votes and broker non-votes treated?

A:   The  affirmative  vote of the  holders of a  majority  of the shares of our
     common  stock  present and voting at the meeting is required to approve the
     proposals   (other  than  the  election  of  directors).   Abstentions  and
     withholding  of votes as to any proposal  will not be counted as votes cast
     in favor of or against the  proposal.  In  addition,  shares held in street
     name which have been  designated  by brokers on proxy cards as not voted as
     to any proposal  (so-called  broker non-votes) will not be counted as votes
     cast with respect to the proposal. Proxies marked as abstentions,  withhold
     or as broker  non-votes,  however,  will be treated as shares  present  for
     purposes of determining whether a quorum is present.

Q: How many shares must be present to hold the meeting?

A:   To hold  the  meeting  and  conduct  business,  a  majority  of our  shares
     outstanding as of March 12, 2004,  must be present at the meeting.  This is
     called a quorum.  Shares  are  counted  as  present  at the  meeting if the
     shareholder:

     |X| is present and votes in person at the meeting, or

     |X| has properly submitted a proxy card.

Q: How many votes must the nominees have to be elected as directors?

A:   The seven  nominees  receiving  the  highest  number of "yes votes" will be
     elected as directors. This number is called a plurality. (We use the phrase
     "yes vote" to mean a vote for a proposal.)

Q:   What happens if a nominee is unable to stand for election?

A:   The  Board  may  reduce  the  number of  directors  or select a  substitute
     nominee.  In the latter case, if you have completed and returned your proxy
     card, Mrs. Nissley, Messrs. Coscia and Eccleston can vote your shares for a
     substitute nominee. They cannot vote for more than seven nominees.

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Q: How many votes must the proposal to ratify the auditors have to pass?

A:   To pass,  the  proposal  must  receive  the "yes vote" of a majority of the
     shares  present at the  meeting in person or by proxy,  but not less than a
     majority of the shares required for a quorum.

Q: How are votes counted?

A:   On the proposal to elect directors, you may vote "for" all nominees (except
     as marked),  or  "withhold"  your vote from all  nominees and to ratify the
     auditors, you may vote "for," "against" or "abstain."

     If you abstain and withhold  your vote as to any  proposal,  it will not be
     counted as a vote cast in favor of or against the  proposal.  If you return
     your proxy without  voting  instructions,  your shares will be counted as a
     "yes vote" for each nominee and for the ratification of the auditors.

     Voting  results  are  tabulated  and  certified  by  our  transfer   agent,
     Continental Stock Transfer and Trust Company.

Q: Is my vote kept confidential?

A:   Proxies,  ballots and voting tabulations identifying  shareholders are kept
     confidential  and will not be disclosed  except as may be necessary to meet
     legal requirements.

Q: Where do I find the voting results of the meeting?

A:   We will announce  preliminary voting results at the meeting.  Final results
     will be  published  in our  quarterly  report on Form  10-Q for the  second
     quarter of 2004. We will file that report with the  Securities and Exchange
     Commission.  You may obtain a copy by calling  Shareholder  Relations (201)
     703-2265  or the SEC at (800)  SEC-0330  for the  location  of its  nearest
     public  reference room. You can also get a copy on the Internet through the
     SEC's electronic data system called EDGAR at www.sec.gov

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Proposal No. 1 - Election of Directors
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General

     The first item to be acted upon at the annual  meeting is the  election  of
seven  directors  to serve  until  the 2005,  2006 and 2007  annual  meeting  of
shareholders.  The Company's  board of directors  currently  consists of fifteen
members. In accordance with the Company's restated  certificate of incorporation
and bylaws,  the board is divided  into three  classes,  each of which  contains
approximately  one-third of the board.  Approximately one-third of the directors
are elected  annually.  Directors of the Company are generally  elected to serve
for  three-year  terms or until  their  respective  successors  are  elected and
qualified.

     Each  nominee is currently a director of the Company and was elected by the
shareholders  at a  previous  annual  meeting  with the  exception  of Gerald A.
Calabrese,  Jr., Joseph C. Parisi and John A. Schepisi who were appointed to the
board in connection with the Company's  acquisition of Bridge View Bancorp. Each
nominee for director  and each  continuing  director  also serves as director of
Interchange Bank (the "Bank"), a subsidiary of the Company.  If a nominee should
become unavailable to serve as a director for any reason,  which management does
not anticipate, the proxy will be voted for a substitute nominee selected by the
board of directors or, if no substitute is selected, the number of directors may
be reduced.  There are no arrangements or understandings between any director or
nominee  and any other  person  pursuant  to which such  director or nominee was
selected. Jeremiah F. O'Connor, the Company's Vice Chairman of the Board, is the
father of Jeremiah F. O'Connor, Jr., a director of the Bank.

Recommendation of the Company's Board of Directors

     The Company's board of directors recommends that you vote "for" election of
the seven nominees  listed below.  Unless  contrary  instruction is given, it is
intended that the named proxies will vote in favor of each of the seven nominees
listed below.

Nominees and Directors
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Nominees to be elected Directors for terms of three years expiring in 2007

Anthony D.  Andora,  age 73, is a member of Andora & Romano,  LLC, a law firm in
Paramus,  New Jersey.  Mr.  Andora has been a director of the Company since 1984
and of the Bank since  1969.  He is  Chairman  of the Board and  Chairman of the
Nominating Committee,  and is a member of the Executive Committee, the Corporate
Planning  and  Finance  Committee  and serves in an  ex-officio  capacity on all
committees.

Gerald A. Calabrese,  Jr., age 54, is President of Century 21,  Calabrese Realty
and Chairman and Chief Executive Officer of Metropolitan  Mortgage Company.  Mr.
Calabrese  has been a director of the Company and the Bank since 2003. He serves
as a member of the  Nominating  Committee,  the  Governance  Committee and is an
alternate member of the Executive Committee.

David  R.  Ficca,  age  72,  is a  retired  director  of  Richton  International
Corporation  and the  retired  Vice  Chairman  of  Kidde,  Inc,  a  multi-market
manufacturing  and service  organization.  He has been a director of the Company
since  1984  and of  the  Bank  since  1983.  He is a  member  of the  Executive
Committee,   the  Governance  Committee,  the  Corporate  Planning  and  Finance
Committee and the Compensation/Stock Option Committee.

Nicholas R. Marcalus, age 60, is President and Chief Executive Officer of Marcal
Paper Mills,  Inc., a  manufacturer  of paper  products,  in Elmwood  Park,  New
Jersey, and serves on the board of directors of that organization.  Mr. Marcalus
has been a director of the  Company  and the Bank since 1997,  and serves on the
Nominating  Committee,  Governance  Committee and is an alternate  member of the
Executive Committee.

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Benjamin Rosenzweig, age 78, is Vice President of Azco Steel Company, a division
of Bushwick  Steel Corp. He has been a director of the Company since 1984 and of
the Bank since 1976 and is Secretary of the Company and the Bank. He serves as a
member of the Executive  Committee,  the Nominating Committee and the Governance
Committee.

  Nominees to be elected  Directors for terms of two years expiring in
2006

John A. Schepisi, age 59, is Senior Partner of Schepisi & McLaughlin,  Attorneys
at Law. Mr. Schepisi has been a director of the Company and the Bank since 2003.
He serves as a member of the Corporate  Planning and Finance Committee and is an
alternate member of the Executive Committee.

Nominees to be elected Directors for terms of one year expiring in 2005

Joseph C. Parisi, age 78, is President and Chief Executive Officer of Otterstedt
Insurance  Agency.  Mr.  Parisi has been a director  of the Company and the Bank
since  2003.  He serves as a member of the  Audit  Committee,  the  Compensation
Committee and is an alternate member of the Executive Committee.

Directors to continue in office for terms expiring in 2006

Donald L. Correll, age 53, is President and CEO of Pennichuck Corporation (PNNW:
NASDAQ) since August 4, 2003, a holding company whose subsidiaries are active in
public water supply, water related services and real estate. He is also a Senior
Advisor and Advisory Director of Underground Solutions Inc. (UGSI: pink sheets).
Mr. Correll retired as Chairman and CEO of United Water Resources, Inc. in 2001.
Mr.  Correll  has been a  director  of the  Company  and the Bank since 1994 and
serves on the Audit Committee,  Compensation/Stock  Option Committee,  Corporate
Planning  and Finance  Committee  and is an  alternate  member of the  Executive
Committee.

James E. Healey,  age 62, is a practicing  Certified  Public  Accountant in Park
Ridge,  New  Jersey  and is also a  Director  of Marcal  Paper  Mills,  Inc.  In
addition,  he is a Trustee of Pace University in New York City, a Trustee of St.
Joseph's  Hospital and Medical Center in Paterson,  New Jersey,  and Chairman of
the Board of  Trustees  of the  United Way of Bergen  County,  in  Oradell,  New
Jersey.  In December  2000,  Mr. Healey  retired as Executive Vice President and
Chief Financial Officer of Nabisco Holdings Corp., a position he held since June
1997,  and  retired as Senior  Vice  President  and Chief  Financial  Officer of
Nabisco Group Holdings, Inc., a position he held since June 1999. Mr. Healey has
been a director of the  Company  and the Bank since 1993.  He is Chairman of the
Compensation/Stock Option Committee and serves on the Audit Committee, Corporate
Planning and Finance Committee and the Executive Committee.

Jeremiah F.  O'Connor,  age 70, is currently a principal  of NW Financial  Group
(since 1996), a financial  advisory  firm. Mr.  O'Connor was formerly a Managing
Director of NatWest  Financial Markets Group (since 1994). Mr. O'Connor has been
a  director  of the  Company  since  1984 and the Bank  since  1969.  He is Vice
Chairman of the Board. He is Chairman of the Governance  Committee and serves on
the Executive  Committee,  Nominating  Committee and  Compensation/Stock  Option
Committee.

Robert P.  Rittereiser,  age 65, is  Chairman  and Chief  Executive  Officer  of
GFinancial,  L.L.C.,  formerly  known  as  Gruntal  Financial,  L.L.C.,  and GCO
Services,  L.L.C.,  formerly known as Gruntal & Co.,  L.L.C.,  which are related
investment  services firms based in New York City. On October 29, 2002,  each of
GFinancial,  L.L.C.,  and GCO Services,  L.L.C,  filed a voluntary  petition for
reorganization  under  Chapter 11 of the U.S.  Bankruptcy  Code for the Southern
District of New York. Both bankruptcy proceedings are presently in progress. Mr.
Rittereiser  also serves as Chairman of Yorkville  Associates  Corp.,  a private
investment and financial  advisory  concern formed in April 1989. He served as a
Trustee of the DBL  Liquidating  Trust from April 1992 until April 1996.  He has
been a Director of the  Company and of the Bank since July 1989.  He is Chairman
of  the  Corporate   Planning  and  Finance   Committee  and  a  member  of  the
Compensation/Stock Option Committee and the Executive Committee
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Directors to continue in office for terms expiring in 2005

Anthony Abbate, age 64, is President and Chief Executive Officer of the Company.
Mr.  Abbate has been a  director  of the  Company  since 1984 and the Bank since
1981.  He is Chairman of the  Executive  Committee and a member of the Corporate
Planning  and  Finance  Committee  and serves in an  ex-officio  capacity on all
committees.  Mr.  Abbate also serves  (since  February  2004) as an  independent
director to the Board of K-Sea General Partner  GP LLC,  (NYSE:KSP) and a member
of the company's Audit Committee.

Anthony R. Coscia,  age 44, is a partner and executive  committee  member of the
law firm of Windels Marx Lane & Mittendorf,  LLP in New York and New  Brunswick,
New Jersey.  He currently  serves as the Chairman of Port  Authority of New York
and New Jersey. Mr. Coscia has been a director of the Company and the Bank since
1997. He serves on the Audit  Committee,  Nominating  Committee  and  Governance
Committee and is an alternate member of the Executive Committee.

John J. Eccleston,  age 78, retired principal of R.D. Hunter & Company,  L.L.C.,
Certified  Public  Accountants.  Prior to January 1995, he was Senior Partner of
John J.  Eccleston  &  Company,  Certified  Public  Accountants  and  Registered
Municipal  Accountants.  Mr.  Eccleston has been a director of the Company since
1984 and the Bank since 1969. He is Chairman of the Audit Committee and a member
of the Executive Committee and Corporate Planning and Finance Committee.

Eleanore S.  Nissley,  age 71, is a  commercial  real estate  investor,  and she
serves as Vice  Chairperson of Hackensack  Meadowlands  Development  Commission.
Mrs.  Nissley has been a director of the Company and of the Bank since 1992. She
is a member of the Audit  Committee,  the  Nominating  Committee and  Governance
Committee and is an alternate member of the Executive Committee.
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Committees and Meetings of the Board of Directors

     During 2003,  the board of directors of the Company held 5 meetings and the
Bank held 12  meetings.  All  incumbent  directors  attended at least 75% of the
aggregate  meetings of each board and the committees of each board on which they
served that were held during fiscal year 2003.

     The  Company's  board of  directors  has  determined  that  Mr.  Eccleston,
chairman,  Messrs.  Correll and Healey, members of the Company's audit committee
are financial experts.

     The following committees serve both the Company and the Bank.



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Name of Committee and Members           Functions of the Committee                                           Meetings in 2003
- -----------------------------           ----------------------------------------------------------           ----------------
                                                                                                       
Audit
John J. Eccleston, Chairman             Reviews significant audit, accounting and other principles,                  9
Donald L. Correll                       policies and practices, the activities of independent auditors
Anthony R. Coscia                       and of the Company's internal auditors, and the conclusion and
James E. Healey                         recommendations of auditors and the reports of regulatory
Eleanore S. Nissley                     examiners upon completion of their respective audits and
Joseph C. Parisi                        examinations.
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Compensation/Stock Option               Administers management incentive compensation plans,                         4
James E. Healey, Chairman               including the Company's stock option and incentive plan.  The
Donald L. Correll                       committee makes recommendations to the Board of Directors
David R. Ficca                          with respect to compensation of directors and executive
Jeremiah F. O'Connor                    officers.
Joseph C. Parisi
Robert P. Rittereiser

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- -----------------------------           ----------------------------------------------------------           ----------------
Name of Committee and Members           Functions of the Committee                                           Meetings in 2003
- -----------------------------           ----------------------------------------------------------           ----------------
                                     

Corporate Planning and                  Responsible for the review of the annual budget, capital                      2
 Finance                                expenditures and other financial transactions.
Robert P. Ritterreiser,
 Chairman
Anthony S. Abbate
Anthony D. Andora
Donald L. Correll
John J. Eccleston
David R. Ficca
James E. Healey
John A. Schepisi

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Executive                               Has authority to exercise all of the powers of the Board                     12
Anthony S. Abbate, Chairman             of Directors with respect to the affairs of the Company, except
Anthony D. Andora                       that the Executive Committee may not: (1) Exercise such
John J. Eccleston                       powers while a quorum of the Board of Directors is actively
David R. Ficca                          convened for the conduct of business; (2) Declare a dividend or
James E. Healey                         approve any other distribution to stockholders; (3) Elect or
Jeremiah F. O'Connor                    appoint any officer or director; and (4) Make, alter or repeal
Robert P. Rittereriser                  the By-Laws of the Bank.
Benjamin Rosenzweig
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Governance
Jeremiah F. O'Connor,                   Develops and recommends to the Board of Directors a Code of                   1
 Chairman                               Business Conduct and Ethics and considers any waivers from
Gerald A. Calabrese, Jr.                the Company's Code of Business Conduct and Ethics. The
Anthony R. Coscia                       committee will arbitrate any issues involving conflicts of
David R. Ficca                          interest which are not in conformance with the Corporate
Nicholas R. Marcalus                    Governance Guidelines of the Company and its subsidiaries.
Eleanore S. Nissley
Benjamin Rosenzweig

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Nominating                              Advises and makes recommendations to the Board of Directors                    1
Anthony D. Andora, Chairman             concerning the selection of candidates as nominees for election
Gerald A. Calabrese, Jr.                as directors.  The committee will consider nominations
Anthony R. Coscia                       recommended by shareholders.  In accordance with the
Nicholas R. Marcalus                    Company's by-laws, such nominations, together with
Eleanore S. Nissley                     accompanying biographical material, must be in writing and
Jeremiah F. O'Connor                    should be addressed to the Secretary of the Company and must
Benjamin Rosenzweig                     be received not later than January 2 of the year of the annual
                                        meeting of shareholders.

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Compensation/Stock Option Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation

     No member of the  Compensation/Stock  Option Committee was, during 2003, an
employee of the Company.  During 2003,  no executive  officer of the Company (i)
served as a member of the compensation committee of another entity, one of whose
executive  officers  served on the  Compensation/Stock  Option  Committee of the
Company,  (ii) served as a director of another  entity,  one of whose  executive
officers served on the  Compensation/Stock  Option Committee of the Company,  or
(iii) was a member of the compensation committee of another entity, one of whose
executive officers served as a Director of the Company.

Director Compensation

     In 2003,  each director of the Company not employed by the Company was paid
a retainer of $1,000. The Company's Chairman of the Board,  Vice-Chairman of the
Board and Secretary of the Board received  additional  retainers of $1,500, $500
and $250,  respectively.  In addition, each director of the Bank not employed by
the Bank was paid a retainer at an annual rate of $10,000, a

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fee of $500 for each board meeting  attended,  a fee of $400 for each  executive
committee  meeting  attended and a fee of $300 for attendance at other committee
meetings.  The Bank's Chairman of the Board, the  Vice-Chairman of the Board and
Secretary of the Company and the Bank received additional  retainers of $16,500,
$13,500 and $4,000,  respectively.  Directors  who are  chairmen of  committees,
which act in a dual capacity for the Company and the Bank, receive an additional
retainer of $3,000  annually for the Company and $4,000 for the Bank. A director
who is an  employee  of the  Company or any  subsidiary  receives no retainer or
fees.

     Directors,  excluding directors who are employed by the Company or the Bank
and  participate  in a separate plan,  participate in a retirement  benefit plan
that  entitles the director to receive  upon  retirement  an amount equal to the
annual  retainer being paid directors  (exclusive of additional  amounts paid to
the Chairman of the Board,  the Vice Chairman of the Board, the Secretary of the
Company and the Bank and to committee  chairmen)  multiplied by his or her years
of  service  on  the  board,   multiplied  by  his  or  her  vested  percentage.
Notwithstanding  the foregoing,  the benefits payable to a participant who was a
participant  on January 1, 2002,  shall not be less than the greater of: (i) the
benefits  such  participant  had  accrued  as of such  date  under the terms and
provision of the plan in effect prior to its  restatement on January 2, 2002, or
(ii) the cash value of any life insurance policy that was purchased and owned by
the Company or the Bank for that  participant  under the terms and provisions of
the plan in effect prior to its  restatement.  The benefit may be paid in a lump
sum or paid out in five  annual  installment  payments  at the  election  of the
participant.

     The Outside  Director  Incentive  Compensation  Plan is designed to attract
qualified  personnel to accept positions of  responsibility as outside directors
with the Company and to provide  incentives  for persons to remain on the board,
as outside directors.  The  Compensation/Stock  Option Committee administers the
Outside Director  Incentive  Compensation  Plan,  reviews the awards and submits
recommendations  to the full board of directors  for action.  Options to acquire
1,500 shares of the Company's  common stock are granted to each outside director
of the Company  each year on the  anniversary  date of the initial  grant.  Each
option  represents  the  right to  purchase,  upon  exercise,  one  share of the
Company's  common  stock at an  exercise  price equal to the price of a share of
stock at the  close of  business  on the date of the  grant as  reported  by the
Nasdaq  National  Market.  Stock options may be exercisable  between one and ten
years from the date  granted.  All options  granted  under the Outside  Director
Incentive  Compensation  Plan shall be  non-qualified  stock options and are not
entitled to special tax  treatment  under the Internal  Revenue Code of 1986, as
amended.

     A total of 150,000  shares of common stock were made  available  for option
awards under the Outside Director Incentive  Compensation Plan, of which options
to  purchase  67,500  shares  have been  granted  to date.  In 2003,  options to
acquire 18,000 shares were granted to the outside directors.

Proposal No. 2 - Ratification of Appointment of Independent Public Auditors
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General

     The  Company's  board of  directors  has  selected  Deloitte & Touche  LLP,
independent  public  auditors  to audit  the  Company's  consolidated  financial
statements  for the current  fiscal year ending  December 31, 2004.  The Company
expects  that a  representative  of Deloitte & Touche LLP will be present at the
Company's annual meeting, will have the opportunity to make a statement if he or
she desires to do so and will be available to answer any appropriate questions.

     Shareholder  ratification  of the selection of Deloitte & Touche LLP as the
Company's independent public auditors is not required by the Company's bylaws or
other  applicable law.  However,  the Company's board of directors is submitting
the appointment of Deloitte & Touche LLP to the shareholders for ratification as
a matter of good  corporate  practice.  If the  shareholders  fail to ratify the
appointment,  the Audit Committee and the board of directors in their discretion
will  reconsider  whether or not to retain  Deloitte & Touche  LLP.  Even if the
appointment  is  ratified,  the  board  of  directors,  in its  discretion,  may
nevertheless appoint a different  independent public accounting firm at any time
during the year if it  determines  that such a change would be in the  Company's
best interests and in the best interest of its shareholders.

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Recommendation of the Company's Board of Directors

     The board of directors has unanimously approved the appointment of Deloitte
& Touche LLP as independent  public  auditors and  unanimously  recommends  that
shareholders vote "FOR" the ratification of the appointment of Deloitte & Touche
LLP as the  Company's  independent  public  auditors  for the fiscal year ending
December 31, 2004. Unless contrary instruction is given, it is intended that the
named proxies will vote in favor of this proposal.

The  Company's  Executive  Officers,  Executive  Compensation  and Other Company
Information
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Executive Officers



     The following tables sets forth the names,  ages, and present  positions of
the Company's principal executive officers:

Executive Officers

Name                    Age           Positions Held with Interchange
- ----                    ---           -------------------------------
                       

Anthony S. Abbate       64  President and Chief Executive Officer
Anthony J. Labozzetta   40  Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer
Patricia D. Arnold      45  Senior Vice President - Chief Credit Officer
Albert F. Buzzetti      64  Senior Vice President
Charles T. Field        39  Senior Vice President - Chief Financial Officer
Frank R. Giancola       50  Senior Vice President - Operations


Business Experience
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Anthony S. Abbate,  age 64, is President and Chief Executive Officer of the Bank
since 1981;  Senior Vice President and Controller from October 1980.  Engaged in
the banking industry since 1959.

Anthony J.  Labozzetta,  age 40,  Executive Vice  President and Chief  Operating
Officer since  February  2003;  Executive  Vice  President  and Chief  Financial
Officer from September 1997 to February 2003;  Senior Vice President & Treasurer
from 1995 to 1997. Engaged in the banking industry since 1989. Formerly a senior
manager with an  international  accounting  firm,  specializing in the financial
services industry.

Patricia D. Arnold,  age 45, Senior Vice  President & Chief Credit  Officer from
August 1998, Senior Vice President  Commercial  Lending since August 1997; First
Vice President from 1995;  Department  Head Vice President from 1986;  Assistant
Vice President from 1985; Commercial Loan Officer-Assistant Treasurer from 1983.
Engaged in the banking industry since 1981.

Albert F.  Buzzetti,  age 64,  Senior Vice  President  since May 2003.  Formerly
President,  Chief  Executive  Officer and  Director  of Bridge View  Bancorp and
Bridge View Bank from 1988 to 2003.

Charles T. Field,  age 39,  Senior Vice  President and Chief  Financial  Officer
since  February 2003.  Formerly Vice President  Finance and Treasurer of Viatel,
Inc. from 1999 to 2002 and Treasurer from 1998 to 1999,  Corporate Controller of
Horsehead  Industries,  Inc.  from  1995 to 1998 and a manager  specializing  in
financial institutions at an international accounting firm from 1987 to 1995.

Frank R.  Giancola,  age 50, Senior Vice  President - Operations  from September
1997;   Senior   Vice   President-Retail   Banking   from  1993;   Senior   Vice
President-Operations of the Bank from 1984; Senior Operations Officer from 1982;
Vice  President/Branch  Administrator from 1981. Engaged in the banking industry
since 1971.
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Executive Compensation

     The  following  table sets forth  compensation  paid by the Company and its
subsidiaries  during the years  ended  December  31,  2003,  2002 and 2001,  for
services  in all  capacities,  to Mr.  Abbate,  the  Company's  chief  executive
officer,  and all other executive officers of the Company whose total salary and
bonus exceeded $100,000 during 2003.


SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE

                                                                     Annual Compensation                     Long-term Compensation
                                                  -----------------------------------------                 ------------------------
                                                                              Other          All Other       Restricted     Options
                                                                              Annual        Compensation       Stock        (No. of
Name and Principal Position (1)        Year        Salary($)   Bonus($)   Compensation($)     ($) (2)        Awards($)(3)    Shares)
_______________________________
                                     ----------   ----------  ---------- ---------------- ----------------  -----------    ---------
                                                                                                        

Anthony S. Abbate . . . . . . . . . . .2003        $390,000     $60,450                -         $111,515      $53,625       52,500
      President and CEO                2002         375,000     187,500                -           68,418      168,750       52,500
                                       2001         360,000     166,680                -           46,118      148,680       30,000

Anthony Labozzetta . . . . . . . . . . 2003         190,000      22,800           $7,599            8,124       33,250       18,750
   Executive Vice President and        2002         175,000      61,250           20,417            7,474       37,625       18,750
   Chief Operating Officer             2001         162,000      52,650           17,552            6,539       34,425        7,000

Patricia D. Arnold . . . . . . . . . . 2003         170,000      20,400            2,789            7,466       25,500       14,000
   Senior Vice President               2002         160,000      56,000            5,100            4,928       31,600       15,000
                                       2001         140,000      46,150            2,756            4,627       23,075        7,000

Albert F. Buzzetti . . . . . . . . . . 2003         105,981      10,560                -            6,912            -        2,000
   Senior Vice President               2002               -           -                -                -            -            -
                                       2001               -           -                -                -            -            -

Charles T. Field . . . . . . . . . . . 2003         146,961      19,800                -            4,253       28,875        5,000
   Senior Vice President and           2002               -           -                -                -            -            -
   Chief Financial Officer             2001               -           -                -                -            -            -

Frank R. Giancola . . . . . . . . . . .2003         150,000      18,000                -            6,713       21,750       14,000
   Senior Vice President               2002         144,000      50,400                -            6,443       15,000       15,000
                                       2001         139,500      45,338                -            6,115       22,320        7,000

_______________________________
<FN>

   (1)Includes the President and CEO and all other executive officers whose total annual salary and bonus exceeded $100,000 in 2003.
   (2)Represents payments as shown below:
</FN>
                                       Year         Abbate     Labozzetta     Arnold          Buzzetti         Field       Giancola
                                     ----------   ----------  -----------    -------------   ------------    ---------    ---------

Amounts contributed to 401(k) plan     2003         $ 8,000      $7,584           $6,656           $4,239       $3,852       $5,993
                                       2002           7,799       6,988            4,412                -            -        5,756
                                       2001           6,533       6,070            4,183                -            -        5,473

Value of life insurance                2003           3,564         540              810            2,673          401          720
   premium paid in respect             2002           3,564         486              516                -            -          688
   to coverage excess of               2001           3,564         470              444                -            -          643
   $50,000

Premium on disability                  2003           7,860           -                -                -            -            -
   policy                              2002           7,860           -                -                -            -            -
                                       2001           7,860           -                -                -            -            -

Contribution to                        2003          92,091           -                -                -            -            -
   Supplemental                        2002          49,195           -                -                -            -            -
   Executies' Retirement               2001          28,162           -                -                -            -            -
   Plan (4)
_______________________________
<FN>
(3)  The unvested  restricted  stock awards  granted,  to date,  totaled 22,083,
     11,783,  1,100,  3,229 and 6,023 for  Messrs.  Abbate,  Labozzetta,  Field,
     Giancola  and  Mrs.  Arnold,  respectively.  The  value of such  awards  at
     December 31, 2003, were $558,700,  $298,110, $27,830, $81,694 and $152,382,
     respectively.  The value of these  shares at the date of grant is reflected
     in the table  above.  The awards for  Messrs.  Abbate,  Labozzetta,  Field,
     Giancola and Mrs.  Arnold vest in three years  following  the date of grant
     provided  they  do not  terminate  their  employment  during  that  period.
     Dividends will be paid on all restricted stock awards.

(4)  In 1998,  the  Board of  Directors  amended  the  Supplemental  Executives'
     Retirement  Plan to provide Mr. Abbate with the  retirement  benefits he is
     entitled to as a member of the Board of Directors.
</FN>

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Stock Option Grants in Last Fiscal Year *

     The following  table sets forth certain  information  concerning  grants of
stock  options  awarded to the named  executive  officers  during the year ended
December 31, 2003.  All options  granted  during the year were  incentive  stock
options:


                                                                                                      Potential Realized Value
                                Number of       % of Total                                             at Assumed Annual Rates
                               Securities         Options                                            of Stock Price Appreciation
                               Underlying       Granted to         Exercise or                            For Option Term (3)
                                 Options       Employees in         Base Price     Expiration     ----------------------------------
           Name                  Granted        Fiscal Year         ($/Sh) (1)      Date (2)            5%                10%
- ---------------------------   -------------    --------------      -------------   ------------   ----------------   ---------------
                                                                                                   
Anthony S. Abbate                   52,500              30.0             $26.25     1/22/2014          $2,244,820        $3,574,501
Anthony Labozzetta                  18,750              10.7              26.25     1/22/2014             801,722         1,276,608
Frank R. Giancola                   14,000               8.0              26.25     1/22/2014             598,619           953,200
Albert Buzzetti                      2,000               1.1              26.25     1/22/2014              85,517           136,171
Patricia Arnold                     14,000               8.0              26.25     1/22/2014             598,619           953,200
Charles T. Field                     5,000               2.9              26.25     1/22/2014             213,792           340,429
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<FN>
*    The grant of stock  options  presented in this table was made in early 2004
     based upon 2003 performance  criteria.

(1)  The  exercise  price  was  based  on the  closing  price  of a share of the
     Company's  stock on the date of grant as  reported  on the NASDAQ  National
     Market.

(2)  Options are exercisable starting one year from the date of grant and become
     vested 1/3 each year from the grant date.  Options  expire if not exercised
     within 10 years of grant date.

(3)  Pre-tax  gain.  The dollar  amounts  under these  columns are the result of
     calculations  at the 5% and 10% rates set by the  Securities  and  Exchange
     Commission in the proxy disclosure rules and,  therefore,  are not intended
     to forecast  possible future  appreciation,  if any, of the Company's stock
     price.  The  Company's  per share stock price would be $42.76 and $68.09 if
     the increase was 5% and 10%,  respectively,  compounded  annually  over the
     option term.
</FN>



Aggregated Option Exercises in Last Fiscal Year and Year End Option Values

                                                            Number of Securities
                                                           Underlying Unexercised             Value of Unexercised
                                                            Options at Year End              In-the-Money Options
                          No. Shares                   ------------------------------           at Year-end (2)
                          Acquired on    Value            Shares          Shares       -----------------------------------
         Name             Exercise      Realized (1)      Exercisable   Unexercisable      Exercisable       Unexercisable
- ------------------------  -----------  -------------   -------------  --------------   ----------------     --------------
                                                                                          
Anthony S. Abbate (3)          16,991       $429,855          111,000         102,500         $1,364,671          $449,500
Anthony J. Labozzetta             500         12,639           40,875          34,750            513,806           140,850
Patricia D. Arnold                  -              -           36,750          27,500            461,360           120,100
Albert F. Buzzetti                  -              -                -           2,000                  -                 -
Charles T. Field                    -              -                -           5,000                  -                 -
Frank R. Giancola              15,592        394,473           36,750          27,500            461,360           120,100
- -------------------------
<FN>
(1)  Pre-tax gain.  Amounts shown  represent  the  difference  between the stock
     option  grant  price  and the  market  value  of the  stock  on the date of
     exercise.
(2)  Pre-tax  gain.  Value  of  unexercised  in-the-money  options  based on the
     December 31, 2003 closing price of $25.30 as reported on the NASDAQ.
(3)  Mr. Abbate's exercise of options was previously  disclosed in the Notice of
     2003 Annual Meeting of Shareholders and Proxy Statement.
</FN>

Pension Plan and Supplemental Executives' Retirement Plan

     The Company, through the Bank, maintains a non-contributory defined benefit
pension plan covering all eligible  employees  including  Mrs.  Arnold,  Messrs.
Abbate, Buzzetti, Field, Giancola and Labozzetta.  Retirement income is based on
years of service under the Plan and, subject to certain limits, on final average
compensation.

     The  Company  maintains  a  Supplemental  Executives'  Retirement  Plan,  a
non-qualified  plan intended to provide  retirement  income that would have been
paid  but for  limitations  imposed  by the  Internal  Revenue  Code  under  the
qualified  plan.  In 1998,  the  Company  amended the  Supplemental  Executives'
Retirement Plan to include the director related retirement  benefits relating to
Mr.  Abbate's  membership  on  the  board  of  directors.   Benefits  under  the
Supplemental Executives' Retirement Plan are paid from the general assets of the
Company.
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     The following table shows the annual  benefits  payable based on a range of
average  compensation  (comprised  solely  of base  salary)  and years of future
service at normal retirement date.




   5-Year                     Years of Service at Normal Retirement Date
  Average          -------------------------------------------------------------
Compensation          5           10            20            30           35
- --------------   ----------- -------------- ------------ ------------- ---------
                                                         

      $100,000       $ 5,670        $11,340      $22,680      $ 34,020  $ 39,690
       150,000         9,420         18,840       37,680        56,520    65,940
       200,000        13,170         26,340       52,680        79,020    92,190
       250,000        16,920         33,840       67,680       101,520   118,440
       300,000        20,670         41,340       82,680       124,020   144,690
       400,000        28,170         56,340      112,680       169,020   197,190

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<FN>

1.   This Plan was effective January 1, 1993.
2.   Benefits  calculated are based on base salary and total credited service at
     normal retirement date from the later of (a) January 1, 1993 or (b) date of
     hire.  The benefits above are inclusive of both benefits from the qualified
     defined   benefit  plan  and  from  the  defined  benefit  portion  of  the
     supplemental plan. Currently, the supplemental plan only covers Mr. Abbate.
3.   Average  compensation  is the  average  of base  salary  over  the five (5)
     consecutive calendar years producing the highest average.
4.   The chart reflects a Social Security integration level based on the average
     age of the executive  officer group,  which was 51 years as of December 31,
     2003.
5.   Annual  benefit shown in the table above is payable as a life annuity which
     is the normal form of retirement benefit for non-married participants.  For
     married participants, the normal form of benefit is an actuarial equivalent
     joint and 50% survivor annuity.
6.   At December 31, 2003, the estimated  credited years of service for purposes
     of computing the  retirement  benefits  under the Pension Plan and the SERP
     for the named executive officers are as follows: Mr. Abbate - 11 years; Mr.
     Labozzetta - 8 years;  Mrs.  Arnold - 11 years;  Mr. Buzzetti - 1 year; Mr.
     Field - 1 year; and Mr. Giancola - 11 years.
</FN>


Capital Investment Plan

     The Company also maintains a Capital  Investment Plan covering all eligible
employees, including the named executive officers. Retirement income is based on
the value of each  participant's  account  balance and is paid upon  retirement,
termination  of  employment,  disability or death.  The  Supplemental  Executive
Retirement  Plan also  supplements  the retirement  benefits  payable to certain
participants under the Capital Investment Plan. Only Mr. Abbate  participates in
the  Supplemental  Executives'  Retirement  Plan. These benefits are intended to
provide  participants with an amount (plus earnings) that the Company would have
contributed under the Capital Investment Plan as matching employer contributions
and for fixed  employer  contributions  (in excess of the  amounts  the  Company
actually  contributed)  if it were not for  certain  limitations  imposed by the
Internal Revenue Code under the Capital  Investment Plan. The benefits under the
Supplemental  Executives' Retirement Plan with respect to the Capital Investment
Plan are to be paid in lump sum in cash at the same time as the  distribution of
a participant's account balance is made under the Capital Investment Plan.

Change-in-Control Arrangements

     The Company has a Change-in-Control  Agreement with each of Mrs. Arnold and
Messrs.  Abbate,  Giancola and Labozzetta.  The agreements provide,  among other
things, that if the executive is terminated during the two years after a "change
in control",  or if they voluntarily  terminate during the two years following a
"change in control",  unless such  termination is (i) because of the executive's
death or retirement, (ii) by the Company for cause or disability or (iii) by the
executive for other than for good reason,  they shall receive an amount equal to
two times their highest  annualized  base salary plus an amount equal to the sum
of the bonuses paid for the previous two years,  except for Mr. Abbate who shall
receive three times his highest  annualized  base salary plus an amount equal to
the greater of (i) the sum of the bonuses paid for the previous three years,  or
(ii) $300,000,  for the prior twelve months  immediately

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proceeding the date of  termination.  In addition,  the executives  will receive
their unpaid base salary up to termination,  accrued  vacation pay, a portion of
the  bonus in the year of  termination  which has not yet been  awarded  or paid
under the management  incentive  plan,  benefits and  continuation of health and
welfare  benefits,  "grossed up" to cover any excise tax imposed by Section 4999
of the Internal Revenue Code.

Compensation/Stock Option Committee Report on Executive Compensation
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     The  Compensation/Stock  Option  Committee is responsible for reviewing and
recommending  executive  compensation  to the full board of directors for action
and administering the Company's executive  compensation  programs and plans. The
Committee  reports  regularly  to the  board  of  directors.  During  2003,  the
Committee  consisted of six directors who were not employees of the Company and,
therefore, not eligible to participate in such programs and plans.

Compensation Strategy

     The  objectives  of this  Committee  are to attract  and retain top quality
executives  and provide  compensation  programs  designed to motivate and reward
executives  to  achieve  business  goals that  foster  both the  enhancement  of
long-term  shareholder value through stock  appreciation and dividend yield, and
the long-term  best  interests of the  organization.  Compensation  programs for
executives are designed to link compensation to the various performance measures
of the  Company  discussed  in this  report and  generally  provide  competitive
compensation for executives at the seventy-fifth  percentile of peer group banks
(as   determined  by  the  Committee  with  the  assistance  of  an  independent
consultant) and other organizations of similar size,  performance and geographic
location.  The  committee  utilizes  professional  surveys  prepared  by outside
consultants  focusing  on  compensation  levels of this  peer  group in order to
assure  competitiveness  in its  compensation  programs.  The  compensation  mix
reflects a balance of cash awards,  including incentive awards, and equity-based
incentives.   Annual  cash  compensation  (base  salary  and  annual  bonus)  is
established  based  on  the  achievement  of  corporate  financial  targets  and
individual  performance.  The Stock  Option  and  Incentive  Plan,  approved  by
shareholders  in 1997,  is  intended  to  function  as the basis  for  fostering
alignment of executive compensation with the interests of shareholders.

     The policies with respect to each of these compensation elements as well as
the  basis  for  determining  the  compensation  level  of  executive  officers,
including the President and Chief Executive  Officer,  Mr. Abbate, are described
below.

Base Salary

     Base  salaries for  executive  officers are based on the salary ranges that
are established by the Committee  annually for each position.  The salary ranges
for  each  position  are  determined  by  evaluating  the  responsibilities  and
accountabilities  of the position and comparing it with other executive  officer
positions  in the  market  place on an  annual  basis.  The base  salary of each
executive officer,  including President and Chief Executive Officer, is reviewed
annually  and  adjusted  within the  position  range  based  upon a  performance
evaluation.  Evaluations  of  other  executive  officers  are  submitted  to the
Committee by the President and Chief Executive Officer.  These evaluations,  and
an evaluation of the President and Chief Executive Officer by the Committee, are
reviewed and submitted together with the Committee's recommendations to the full
board of directors for action.  Salary  increases  are generally  based upon the
extent to which the executive is considered to have contributed to a furtherance
of the  Company's  goals  and/or met  objectives  specifically  assigned to that
individual.

Annual Bonus

     The  Management  Incentive Plan is an incentive plan designed to reward key
management  employees for  achievement  of specific  financial,  individual  and
business  results  for the  year.  The  specific  financial  targets,  which are
weighted equally, are primarily based upon (i) the year-to-year  increase in the
Company's net after-tax  earnings and (ii)  achievement of a targeted  return on
equity. The targeted goal is established annually through the budgeting

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process,  which is reviewed and approved by the board of directors,  using input
relating  to  performance   opportunities   for  the  year  and  the  historical
performance  results  of  the  Company.  Individual  and  business  results  are
pre-established targets for specific objectives relating to the executives' area
of responsibility.  An objective of the Management Incentive Plan is to relate a
portion of the executives'  compensation to the overall financial results of the
Company for the year.  The bonus for 2003 (paid in 2004) reflects the attainment
of 96.75  percent of the financial  targets set in 2003.  The board of directors
reserves  the  right  to award  discretionary  bonus  awards  in the  event  the
financial  target is either not met or is exceeded.  In so doing, the Committee,
among other  matters,  will take into  account  whether the  Company,  while not
reaching its threshold  target,  has performed better on a comparable basis than
its peers.  In addition to the attainment of the earnings  target,  the level of
the President  and Chief  Executive  Officer's  annual bonus award is also based
upon  performance-related  factors  including  various  predetermined  strategic
objectives.

     A portion of the incentive  compensation awarded to executive management is
in the form of  restricted  stock.  The  restriction  is for three years and the
restricted stock is forfeitable upon termination of employment  during that time
period. In addition,  executive  officers were given the option to utilize their
cash bonus to purchase two-year  restricted,  forfeitable stock at a twenty-five
percent discount. The excess of market value over the purchase price is included
in the Summary Compensation Table as Other Annual Compensation.

Stock Option and Incentive Plan

     The Stock Option and  Incentive  Plan of 1997,  as amended,  is designed to
align shareholders' and executive officers'  interests.  The  Compensation/Stock
Option  Committee   administers  the  plan,   reviews  the  awards  and  submits
recommendations  to the full board of directors  for action.  Stock  options are
granted on a discretionary  basis with an exercise price equal to the price of a
share of stock at the close of  business on the date of the grant as reported by
the Nasdaq National Market. Stock options may be exercisable between one and ten
years  from the date  granted.  Such  stock  options  provide  a  retention  and
motivational  program  for  executives  and an  incentive  for the  creation  of
shareholder value over the long-term since their full benefit cannot be realized
unless an  appreciation in the price of the common stock occurs over a specified
number of years.

     The Stock  Option and  Incentive  Plan also  provides  for the  issuance of
incentive  stock awards as  determined by the board of directors of the Company.
Certain key  executives  may be awarded  incentive  compensation  in the form of
3-year  restricted  stock,  which is forfeitable  upon termination of employment
during that time period. Key employees may also use their cash bonus to purchase
two-year  restricted  stock at a twenty-five  percent  discount.  All amounts in
excess of the purchase price of this stock are forfeitable should they terminate
their  employment  during  that  time  period.  Incentive  stock  awards  are an
important  factor in attracting  and motivating key executives who will dedicate
their maximum efforts toward the advancement of the Company.

     A total of 1,384,313  shares of common stock were made available for option
and  incentive  awards under the Stock  Option and  Incentive  Plan.  Options to
purchase  1,010,389 shares (net of forfeitures) and 168,064 shares of restricted
stock have been granted to date.  Options  granted to the executives in 2003 and
those  granted in 2004 as a result of 2003's  performance  are  included  in the
Summary Compensation Table.

Chief Executive Officer Compensation

     The  compensation of the Company's  President and Chief Executive  Officer,
Mr.  Abbate,  is  reviewed by the  Compensation/Stock  Option  Committee,  which
presents its recommendations to the board for action. Mr. Abbate participates in
the same  plans as the  other  executive  officers,  including  the base  salary
program, the Management Incentive Plan, the Stock Option and Incentive Plan, and
the staff benefit programs as outlined  elsewhere in this proxy  statement.  Mr.
Abbate also  participates in the Supplemental  Executives'  Retirement Plan. Mr.
Abbate  receives no  compensation  for his duties as a director.  The  committee
bases Mr.  Abbate's  compensation  on the same  criteria  used for all executive
officers  with  particular  emphasis  on

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the factors  which will promote the  Company's  long-term  growth,  organization
stability,  and financial strength. Mr. Abbate's salary was at the seventy-fifth
percentile  of the 2003 salary  range for his position and his annual cash bonus
for 2003  performance  was  based  upon  achieving  96.75  percent  of  targeted
financial  goals for that year. Mr. Abbate  continues to provide the Company and
the Bank with exemplary leadership,  vision and commitment,  and strives to meet
the Company's long-term strategic goals.

    Submitted by the Compensation/Stock
 Option Committee:

    James E. Healey, Chairman
    Donald L. Correll
    David R. Ficca
    Jeremiah F. O'Connor
    Joseph C. Parisi
    Robert P. Rittereiser


Audit Committee Report
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     The Audit Committee consists of six directors,  each of whom is independent
as defined in the listing  standards of the National  Association  of Securities
Dealers. A brief description of the  responsibilities  of the Audit Committee is
set forth  above  under the caption  "Proposal  No. 1 - Election of  Directors -
Committees and Meetings of the Board of Directors".

     In accordance  with its written  charter adopted by the board of directors,
the Audit  Committee  assists the board in  fulfilling  its  responsibility  for
oversight of the quality and integrity of the accounting, auditing and financial
reporting  practices of the Company.  The  Committee met nine times during 2003.
The Committee  discussed  the interim  financial  information  contained in each
quarterly  earnings  announcement  with  the  Chief  Financial  Officer  and the
independent  auditors  prior to the  public  release  of this  information.  The
Chairman also discussed matters described in Statement on Auditing Standards No.
61,  as  amended  "Communication  with  Audit  Committees"  ("SAS  61") with the
independent  auditors prior to the filing of the Company's  quarterly  report on
Form 10-Q.

     In discharging its oversight  responsibility  as to the audit process,  the
Audit  Committee  obtained,  from the  independent  auditors,  a formal  written
statement describing all relationships between the auditors and the Company that
might  bear on the  auditors'  independence  consistent  with  the  Independence
Standards  Board  No.  1,  "Independence   Discussion  with  Audit  Committees",
discussed with auditors any relationships  that may impact their objectivity and
independence  and  satisfied  itself  as  to  the  auditors'  independence.  The
Committee  also  discussed  with  management,  the  internal  auditors  and  the
independent auditors the quality and adequacy of the Company's internal controls
and the internal audit  function's  organization,  responsibilities,  budget and
staffing and concurred in the appointment of internal audit staff. The Committee
reviewed with the independent and the internal auditors their audit plans, audit
scope and identification of audit risks.

     The  Committee  discussed and reviewed  with the  independent  auditors all
communications  required by generally  accepted  auditing  standards,  including
those described in SAS 61 and, with and without  management  present,  discussed
and  reviewed  the  results  of the  independent  auditors'  examination  of the
financial  statements.  The Committee also discussed the results of the internal
audit examinations.

     The Committee  reviewed the audited financial  statements of the Company as
of, and for,  the fiscal year ended  December 31, 2003 with  management  and the
independent  auditors.  Management has the responsibility for the preparation of
the  Company's  financial  statements  and the  independent  auditors  have  the
responsibility for the examination of those statements.

     Based on the review and  discussions  with  management and the  independent
auditors,  the Committee  recommended  to the board that the  Company's  audited
financial  statements  be  included  in its  annual  report on Form 10-K for the
fiscal  year ended  December  31, 2003 and for filing  with the  Securities  and
Exchange Commission.  The Committee also recommended the reappointment,  subject
to

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shareholder  ratification,  of  the  independent  auditors,  and  the  board
concurred in such recommendation.

The Audit Committee:

John J. Eccleston, Chairman
Donald L. Correll
Anthony R. Coscia
James E. Healey
Eleanore S. Nissley
Joseph C. Parisi

                      Fees Paid to Our Independent Auditors

The  following  table  summarizes  the  aggregate  fees billed to the Company by
Deloitte & Touche, LLP our independent auditors: ($ in thousands)


                               2003           2002
                           ------------    -----------
                                     
Audit Fees (a)                 $266,020       $260,120

Audit-Related Fees (b)           44,550         54,375

Tax Fees (c)                      3,000         21,000

All Other Fees                        -              -
                           ------------    -----------
Total                          $313,570       $335,495
                           ============    ===========

(a)  Fees for audit services billed in 2003 consisted of:

     o    Audit of the Company's  annual  financial  statements
     o    Reviews of the Company's quarterly financial statements
     o    Attestation  of  management's   assessment  of  internal  control,  as
          required by section 112 of the Federal Deposit  Insurance  Corporation
          Improvement Act of 1991 (FDICIA)
     o    New Jersey State Bank Directors Examination

     Fees for audit services billed in 2002 consisted of:
     o    Audit of the Company's annual financial statements
     o    Reviews of the Company's quarterly financial statements

(b)  Fees for audit-related services billed in 2003 and 2002 consisted of:

     o    Due diligence associated with mergers/acquisitions
     o    Employee benefit plan audits
     o    Examination  of   management's   assertion   regarding  the  Company's
          compliance  with its  minimum  servicing  standards  under the Uniform
          Single Attestation Program for Mortgage Bankers (USAP)

(c)  Fees for tax services billed in 2003 and 2002 consisted of tax compliance:

     o    Tax compliance services are services rendered based upon facts already
          in existence or transactions  that have already  occurred to document,
          compute,  and obtain government approval for amounts to be included in
          tax filings and consisted of:

     i.   Federal, state and local income tax return assistance
     ii.  Sales and use, property and other tax return assistance

In considering the nature of the services  provided by the independent  auditor,
the Audit  Committee  determined  that such  services  are  compatible  with the
provision of independent  audit services.  The Audit  Committee  discussed these
services with the independent  auditor and Company  management to determine that
they  are  permitted  under  the  rules  and  regulations   concerning   auditor
independence  promulgated by the U.S.  Securities and Exchange  Commission  (the
"SEC") to  implement  the  Sarbanes-Oxley  Act of 2002,  as well as the American
Institute of Certified Public Accountants.

Pre-Approval Policy
- -------------------

The services  performed by the independent  auditor in 2003 were pre-approved in
accordance  with the  pre-approval  policy and  procedures  adopted by the Audit
Committee at its January 23, 2003 meeting.  This policy  describes the permitted
audit,  audit-related,  tax, and other services  (collectively,  the "Disclosure
Categories") that the independent auditor may perform.

Any requests for audit, audit-related,  tax, and other services not contemplated
must be submitted to the Audit  Committee for specific  pre-approval  and cannot
commence until such approval has been granted.

The policy contains a de minimis provision that operates to provide  retroactive
approval for permissible non-audit services under certain circumstances.  During
2003 no such fees were incurred.

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                        FIVE-YEAR PERFORMANCE COMPARISON

  The graph below provides an indicator of cumulative total stockholder returns
   for the Company as compared with a Peer Group (1), the Nasdaq Stock Market
                     (U.S.) Index and the Nasdaq Bank Index


[Graph]

     Assumes $100 invested on December 31, 1998 in the Company Common Stock, the
     Nasdaq  Stock  Market  (U.S.)  Index,  the Nasdaq Bank Index and Peer Group
     Common Stock. Total stockholder returns assumes reinvestment of dividends.

____________________
(1)  The Peer Group is comprised of 17 banking institutions in Connecticut,  New
     Jersey and New York with asset size of at least $250 million, but less than
     $1 billion, as of June 30, 2003 the most recently available  information as
     reported in the SNL  Quarterly  Bank Digest of December  2003.  The banking
     institutions  include are: First Litchfield  Financial (CT); Center Bancorp
     Inc. (NJ),  Community Bancorp of New Jersey (NJ), Greater Community Bancorp
     (NJ), Stewardship Financial Corp (NJ), SVB Financial Services Inc. (NJ) and
     Unity Bancorp Inc. (NJ);  Alliance  Financial Corp. (NY) Berkshire  Bancorp
     Inc. (NY),  Bridge Bancorp Inc. (NY), CNB Bancorp Inc. (NY),  Evans Bancorp
     Inc. (NY),  First of Long Island  Corporation  (NY),  Intervest  Bancshares
     Corp. (NY),  Jeffersonville  Bancorp (NY), Long Island Financial Corp. (NY)
     and Smithtown Bancorp Inc. (NY).




                                                                                Cumulative Total Return
                                                           ---------------------------------------------------------------
                                                                12/98     12/99      12/00      12/01     12/02      12/03
                                                           ----------  --------   --------    -------    ------    -------
                                                                                                  


Interchange Financial Services Corp.                           100.00    103.60      90.22     128.57    167.79     269.59
Peer Group                                                     100.00     88.48      91.64     109.51    147.63     198.15
Nasdaq Stock Market (U.S.)                                     100.00    192.96     128.98      67.61     62.17      87.61
Nasdaq Bank                                                    100.00    216.79     113.10      88.84     61.04      80.89



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Principal Shareholders and Holdings of Management of the Company
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     The following  table sets forth the  beneficial  ownership of the Company's
common  stock by (a) each  beneficial  owner of more  than five  percent  of the
common stock, (b) each director,  (c) each named executive officer,  and (d) all
current directors and executive officers of the Company as a group. Beneficially
owned shares include shares over which the named person exercised either sole or
shared voting power or sole or shared  investment power. It also includes shares
owned (i) by spouse,  minor  children or by relatives  sharing the same home, or
(ii) by entities  owned or  controlled  by the named  person.  Unless  otherwise
noted,  all  shares are owned of record and  beneficially  by the named  person,
either  directly or through the  dividend  reinvestment  plan as of February 27,
2004.



                                                Beneficially           Right to      Deferral                     Percent
             Name and Address (1)                   Owned              Acquire (2)   Plans (3)      Total        of Class
   ------------------------------------------ ----------------      ------------- ----------- ---------------  -----------
                      (a)
                                                                                        
   Banc Funds Company, LLC
   208 South Lasalle Street, Suite 1680
   Chicago, IL  60604. . . . . . . . . . . .           844,344  (4)            -            -         844,344      6.6
                      (b)
   Anthony S. Abbate. . . . . . . . . . . . .          253,029           111,000       22,083         386,112      3.0
   Anthony D. Andora. . . . . . . . . . . . .          206,948             3,000            -         209,948      1.6
   Gerald A. Calabrese, Jr. . . . . . . . . .          140,269                 -            -         140,269      1.1
   Donald L. Correll. . . . . . . . . . . . .           12,153             3,000            -          15,153       *
   Anthony R. Coscia. . . . . . . . . . . . .           12,075             3,000            -          15,075       *
   John J. Eccleston. . . . . . . . . . . . .          117,275               500            -         117,775       *
   David R. Ficca. . . . . . . . . . . . . .            87,257             3,000            -          90,257       *
   James E. Healey. . . . . . . . . . . . . .           57,066             1,500            -          58,566       *
   Nicholas R. Marcalus. . . . . . . . . . . .          13,422               500            -          13,922       *
   Eleanore S. Nissley. . . . . . . . . . . .           68,989             2,500            -          71,489       *
   Jeremiah F. O'Connor. . . . . . . . . . . .          80,198                 -            -          80,198       *
   Joseph C. Parisi . . . . . . . . . . . . .          155,132                 -            -         155,132      1.2
   Robert P. Rittereiser. . . . . . . . . . .           40,752             3,000            -          43,752       *
   Benjamin Rosenzweig. . . . . . . . . . . .          175,374             3,000            -         178,374      1.4
   John A. Schepisi . . . . . . . . . . . . .          158,808                 -            -         158,808      1.2
                      (c)
   Patricia D. Arnold . . . . .  . . . . . . .          12,921            36,750       20,775          70,446       *
   Albert F. Buzzetti . . . . .  . . . . . . .          72,002                 -           33          72,035       *
   Charles T. Field . . . . .  . . . . . . . .              -                 -         1,154           1,154       *
   Frank R. Giancola. . . . . . . . . . . . .           18,590            36,750       30,327          85,667       *
   Anthony Labozzetta . . . . . . . . . . . .           42,490            40,875       12,733          96,098       *
                      (d)
   Directors and executive officers as a
      group (20 persons). . . . . . . . . . .        1,724,930           248,375       87,105       2,060,410     16.1

   ------------------------------------------
<FN>

   * Does not exceed one percent of class
    1.    The address for all persons listed under sections (b) and (c) is c/o Interchange Financial Services Corporation, Park 80
          West Plaza Two, Saddle Brook, New Jersey 07663.
    2.    Includes stock acquirable by exercise of stock options exercisable within 60 days of the date of the Proxy Statement.
    3.    Shares held in deferred compensation accounts to which individuals have sole power to vote but no investment power.
    4.    As reported on Form 13F for the period ended December 31, 2003.
</FN>


Section 16(a) Beneficial Ownership Reporting Compliance

     Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 requires the Company's
executive officers and directors, and persons who beneficially own more than ten
percent  of the  Company's  equity  securities,  to  file  reports  of  security
ownership  and  changes  in such  ownership  with the  Securities  and  Exchange
Commission.  These persons are also required by SEC  regulations  to furnish the
Company with copies of all Section 16(a) forms they file.  The Company  believes
that all Section 16(a) forms were filed on a timely basis during and for 2003.

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Certain Relationships and Related Party Transactions of the Company
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Transactions with Management

     Officers and  directors of the Company and their  affiliated  companies are
customers  of  and  are  engaged  in  transactions  with  the  Company  and  its
subsidiaries in the ordinary course of business on substantially  the same terms
(including   interest   rates   on   loans,    collateral   and   collectibility
considerations) as those prevailing at the time for comparable transactions with
other unaffiliated borrowers and suppliers.

     Mr. Andora, a director of the Company and the Bank, is a member of Andora &
Romano,  LLC, a firm that renders  various legal services to the Company and its
subsidiaries.  During 2003,  Andora & Romano received fees for legal services of
$329,214,  including  $95,000 paid  pursuant to retainer  contracts and $205,950
representing fees for loan related matters,  the bulk of which was reimbursed to
the Bank by its customers.  The Company  expects to transact  business with this
firm in the future.

     Mr. Calabrese,  Jr., a director of the Company and the Bank, is a member of
Gerald A. Calabrese,  Jr. & Company,  a firm that renders real estate  appraisal
services to the Company and its subsidiaries.  During 2003, Gerald A. Calabrese,
Jr. & Company received $7,775 for real estate appraisals. The Company expects to
transact business with this firm in the future.

     Mr. Marcalus, a director of the Company and the Bank, is a member of Marcal
Paper Mills,  Inc. During 2003,  Marcal Paper Mills,  Inc.  received $62,350 for
subletting space to the Bank. The Company expects to transact business with this
firm in the future.

     Mr.  Parisi,  a  director  of the  Company  and the  Bank,  is a member  of
Otterstedt  Insurance Company, a firm that renders various insurance services to
the Company and its  subsidiaries.  During 2003,  Otterstedt  Insurance  Company
received  $17,051  for  insurance  services.  The  Company  expects to  transact
business with this firm in the future.

     Mr.  Schepisi,  a  director  of the  Company  and the Bank,  is a member of
Schepisi & McLaughlin, a firm that renders various legal services to the Company
and its subsidiaries. During 2003, Schepisi & McLaughlin received fees for legal
services of $26,906.  The Company expects to transact business with this firm in
the future.

Other Matters

     The board of directors is not aware of any other matters to be presented at
the annual meeting.  If any other matter proper for action at the annual meeting
should be presented,  the persons named in the accompanying  proxy will vote the
shares  represented  by the proxy on such matter in  accordance  with their best
judgment pursuant to discretionary authority granted in the proxy. If any matter
not  proper  for action at the annual  meeting  should be  presented,  the named
proxies will vote against consideration thereof or action thereon.

Shareholder Communication

     The Company has also  adopted a procedure  by which  shareholders  may send
communications  as defined  within Item 7(h) of Schedule  14A under the Exchange
Act to one or  more  members  of the  board  of  directors  by  writing  to such
director(s)  or to the  whole  Board  of  Directors  in care of the  Interchange
Financial Services Corporation,  Park 80 West/Plaza Two, Saddle Brook, NJ 07663,
Attention:  Secretary  of the Board.  Any such  communications  will be promptly
distributed by the Secretary to such individual  director(s) or to all directors
if addressed to the whole board of directors.

Nominating Committee

     Our Nominating Committee has authority to nominate individuals for election
as directors.  Our Nominating  Committee Charter provides procedures to nominate
directors.  Nominations  may  be  made  by  the  board  of  directors  or by any
shareholder who holds stock in the Company and is entitled to vote.  Nominations
for the 2005 Annual  Meeting  (other than those approved by the Board) should be
made in writing and mailed no later than the 120th calendar day before the first
anniversary of the date of the  Corporation's  proxy  statement for the previous
year's annual meeting to the Nominating Committee, care of Interchange Financial
Services Corporation, Park 80 West, Plaza II, Saddle Brook, NJ 07663, Attention:
Secretary of the Board.

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     The criteria  and  qualifications  of director  nominees are based upon the
needs of the Company at the time the nominees are  considered.  A candidate must
possess the ability to apply good business judgment and must be in a position to
properly exercise his or her duties of loyalty and care.  Candidates should also
exhibit proven  leadership  capabilities,  high integrity and experience  with a
high level of responsibilities within their chosen fields.

     A written  statement  from the nominee is required  consenting  to serve as
director if  elected.  Nominations  must  include the  nominee's  name,  mailing
address,  telephone number, email address,  resume, business history, listing of
other past and present  directorships and director committees,  banking industry
experience, number of shares owned, and other relevant information.

Directors Attendance at Meetings

     The  board of  directors  of the  Company  is  composed  of a  majority  of
independent   directors  (as   independence  is  defined  in  the  NASD  Listing
Standards).  During  the fiscal  year  ended  December  31,  2003,  the board of
directors  of the  Company  and the Bank  held a total of 16  regular  meetings.
Various committees of the Board held meetings as needed.  Each director attended
at least  seventy-five  percent  (75%) of the total  meetings  of the  Boards of
Directors and meetings of the committees on which they served.  The Company also
encourages  all members of the Board to attend the Company's  annual  meeting of
shareholders  each year.  All members of the board of  directors  of the Company
attended the Company's 2003 annual meeting.

Submission of Shareholders Proposals

     Proposals  intended for  inclusion in the proxy  statement  for next year's
annual  meeting of  shareholders  must be in writing and must be received by the
Secretary of the Company at Park 80 West/Plaza Two, Saddle Brook, NJ 07663,  not
later than December 18, 2004.  To be  considered  for inclusion in the Company's
proxy statement and form of proxy for an annual meeting, a shareholder  proposal
must be submitted on a timely basis and the proposal and proponent  thereof must
meet the requirements  established by the Securities and Exchange Commission for
shareholder proposals.

Solicitation Expenses

     The Company is paying for distributing and soliciting  proxies.  As part of
this process, we reimburse brokers,  nominees,  fiduciaries and other custodians
reasonable  fees and expenses in  forwarding  proxy  materials to  shareholders.
Employees do not receive additional compensation for soliciting proxies.

Financial Materials

     Consolidated  financial  statements of the Company and its subsidiaries are
included  in the  Company's  Annual  Report to  Shareholders  for the year 2003.
Additional  copies of the Annual Report to Shareholders and the Company's Annual
Report on Form 10-K as filed with the Securities and Exchange  Commission may be
obtained  without  charge from the Secretary of the Company,  Park 80 West/Plaza
Two, Saddle Brook, NJ 07663

Where You Can Find More Information

     The Company files  annual,  quarterly and current  special  reports,  proxy
statements and other information with the SEC under the Securities  Exchange Act
of 1934,  as amended.  The  Company's SEC filings are available to the public on
the SEC's website at http://www.sec.gov. These filings are also available to the
public from commercial document retrieval services.

     You can also read and copy reports,  statements or other  information filed
by the  Company  with the SEC at the  SEC's  Public  Reference  Room,  450 Fifth
Street, N.W., Washington,  D.C., 20549, at prescribed rates. Please call the SEC
at  1-800-SEC-0330  for  further  information  on the  operation  of the  Public
Reference Room.

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                PROXY INTERCHANGE FINANCIAL SERVICES CORPORATION
             Park 80 West, Plaza Two, Saddle Brook, New Jersey 07663

           THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

     The undersigned hereby appoints Eleanore S. Nissley,  Anthony R. Coscia and
John J. Eccleston as proxies, each with the power to appoint his substitute, and
hereby  authorizes them to represent and to vote, as designated  below,  all the
shares of common stock of Interchange  Financial  Services  Corporation  held of
record  by the  undersigned  on  March  12,  2004,  at  the  annual  meeting  of
shareholders to be held April 22, 2004, or any adjournment thereof.

1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS
     FOR all nominees listed below                     WITHHOLD AUTHORITY
     (except as marked to the contrary below)  to vote for all  nominees  listed


For terms of three years: Anthony D. Andora, Gerald A. Calabrese,  Jr., David R.
Ficca,  Nicholas R.  Marcalus and Benjamin  Rosenzweig.  For terms of two years:
John A. Schepisi and for terms of one year: Joseph C. Parisi

(INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for an individual nominee write that
nominee's name in the space provided below.)

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2.        RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF INDEPENDENT AUDITORS

            FOR                      AGAINST                   ABSTAIN

In their discretion, the proxies are authorized to vote upon such other business
as may properly come before the meeting.


This proxy when properly executed will be voted in the manner directed herein by
the undersigned  shareholder.  If no direction is made, this proxy will be voted
FOR Proposals 1 and 2.


                         Please sign exactly as name appears below.  When shares
                    are held by joint tenants, both should sign. When signing as
                    an  attorney,   as  executor,   administrator,   trustee  or
                    guardian,  please give full title as such. If a corporation,
                    please sign in full  corporate  name by  president  or other
                    authorized  officer.  If  a  partnership,   please  sign  in
                    partnership name by authorized person.

                      DATED:               ,2004
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                      Signature

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                      Signature if held jointly

     PLEASE  MARK,  SIGN,  DATE AND  RETURN THE PROXY  CARD  PROMPTLY  USING THE
     ENCLOSED ENVELOPE.