CHANGE IN CONTROL AGREEMENT
                                   (two years)


         This  CHANGE IN CONTROL  AGREEMENT  (this  "Agreement")  is dated as of
January 19, 1999, by and among BRIDGEHAMPTON NATIONAL BANK (the "Bank"),  BRIDGE
BANCORP,  INC.  (the  "Company")  (the Bank and the Company,  collectively,  the
"Employers") and Christopher Becker (the "Employee").

     WHEREAS,   the  Employee  is  currently   serving  as  the  Executive  Vice
President/Chief Financial Officer;

     WHEREAS, the Company and the Employee have entered into a Change in Control
Agreement dated as of January 13, 1998 (the "Prior Agreement");

     WHEREAS,  the respective Board of Directors of the Employers (the "Boards")
have approved and authorized the entry into this Agreement with the Employee;

     WHEREAS,  the  Boards  believe  that  it is in the  best  interests  of the
Employers to encourage the Employee's  continued  employment with and dedication
to the Bank in the face of potentially  distracting  circumstances  arising from
the possibility of a change in control of the Company or the Bank; and

     WHEREAS,  the parties desire to enter into this Agreement setting forth the
terms and conditions for the payment of special  compensation to the Employee in
the event of a termination of the Employee's employment in connection with or as
the result of a change in  control of the  Company or of the Bank and to replace
and supersede the Prior Agreement;

     NOW, THEREFORE, it is AGREED as follows:

          1. Term.

               The  initial  term  of  this  Agreement  shall  be  for a  period
               commencing  on the date hereof and ending on December  31,  2003.
               The Employers may renew this  Agreement by written  notice to the
               Employee  for one  additional  year on  January  1, 2000 and each
               subsequent January 1 during the term of this Agreement unless the
               Employee  gives contrary  written notice to the Employers  before
               any such  renewal  date.  If at any time  during the term of this
               Agreement,  there is a "Change in  Control" as defined in Section
               2(b) hereof,  the provisions of this Agreement  shall continue to
               apply  for two  years  from the date of such  Change  in  Control
               regardless of whether the term of this Agreement is  subsequently
               renewed under this Section 1.  References  herein to the "Term of
               this Agreement" shall include the initial term and any additional
               years for which this Agreement is renewed.

          2. Change in Control.

               (a)(i) If during the term of this Agreement  there is a Change in
               Control (as defined below) and the  Employee's  employment by the
               Employers is terminated in accordance with Section 2(a)(iv),  the
               Employee shall be entitled to receive as a severance  payment for
               services

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               previously  rendered  to the  Employers  a lump sum cash  payment
               equal to 2.99  times  the sum of the  Employee's  base  salary in
               effect  as of  date  of the  Change  in  Control  or the  date of
               termination,  whichever  is  greater,  plus the amount of bonuses
               paid to the Employee during the 12 months preceding the Change in
               Control.  (Subject to Section 2(c) and 2(d) below). Payment under
               this Section 2(a) shall not be reduced by any  compensation  that
               the  Employee  may receive  from other  employment  with  another
               employer after termination of the Employee's employment.  Payment
               to the  Employee of  severance  under this  Section 2(a) shall be
               made on or before the Employee's  last day of employment with the
               Employers.

               (ii) In addition to the  liquidated  damages  that are payable to
               the  Employee,  the  following  shall  apply in the  event of any
               termination  without  Cause or in the  event  of any  termination
               subject  to  Section  2(a)(i)  hereof:  (1)  the  Employee  shall
               continue  to  participate  in, and  accrue  benefits  under,  all
               retirement,  pension,  profit-sharing,  employee stock ownership,
               and other deferred  compensation plans of the Company or the Bank
               for the remaining  term of this Agreement (or following a "Change
               in Control" as defined below,  if longer,  three years) as if the
               termination  of employment of the Employee had not occurred (with
               the Employee being deemed to receive annually for the purposes of
               such  plans  the  Employee's  base  salary  as  of  the  date  of
               termination  or, if applicable,  Change in Control,  whichever is
               greater),  except to the extent that such continued participation
               and accrual is expressly prohibited by law, or to the extend such
               plan  constitutes  a  "qualified  plan" under  Section 401 of the
               Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended (the "Code"),  in which
               case  the  Employers  shall  provide   substantially   equivalent
               benefits to the  Employee  under a  non-qualified  plan;  (2) the
               Employee  shall be  entitled  to  continue  to receive  all other
               employee  benefits for the remaining  term of this  Agreement (or
               following a "Change in  Control,"  if longer,  three years) as if
               the  termination  of  employment  had not  occurred;  and (3) all
               insurance or other  provisions  for  indemnification,  defense or
               hold-harmless of officers or directors of the Company or the Bank
               that are in effect on the date the notice of  termination is sent
               to the  Employee  shall  continue for the benefit of the Employee
               with respect to all of his acts and omissions while an officer as
               fully and completely as if such termination had not occurred, and
               until  the  final   expiration  or  running  of  all  periods  of
               limitation  against action that may be applicable to such acts or
               omissions;  provided,  however,  that the Employers  shall not be
               required to provide the  benefits  described in clause (1) or (2)
               of this Section  2(a)(ii) to the extent that the Employee has the
               right to receive  substantially  identical  benefits by reason of
               his employment by another  employer  following the termination of
               his employment hereunder.

               (iii) In the event the  employment  of the Employee is terminated
               by the Employers in accordance  with Section  2(a)(ii) hereof and
               the Bank fails to make timely  payment of any amount then payable
               to or for the benefit of the Employee  under this  Agreement  and
               such failure  continues for more than 30 days, the Employee shall
               be entitled to reimbursement for all reasonable costs,  including
               attorneys'  fees,  incurred by the  Employee in taking  action to
               collect such amounts or otherwise to enforce this Agreement, plus
               interest on such  amounts at the prime rate  (defined as the base
               rate on corporate  loans at large U.S.  money  center  commercial
               banks  as  published  by The  Wall  Street  Journal),  compounded
               monthly,  for the period  from the date the  payment is due until
               the payment is made. Such  reimbursement and interest shall be in
               addition to all rights that the Employee is otherwise entitled to
               under this Agreement.


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               (iv) For purposes of this Agreement, the Employee's employment by
               the Employers shall be considered  terminated "in accordance with
               Section  2(a)(iv)"  if a Change in Control  shall  occur,  and in
               connection  with such  Change  in  Control  or  within  two years
               thereafter   either  (x)  the  Employee's   employment  with  the
               Employers   shall  be   terminated  as  a  result  of  an  Actual
               Termination (as defined below), or (y) the Employee's  employment
               with the  Employers  shall  terminate  after an event  that would
               constitute  Good Reason (as  defined  below);  and the  following
               terms shall have the meanings set out below:

          (A)  "Actual   Termination"  means  involuntary   termination  of  the
               Employee's  employment  with the  Employers  for any reason other
               than Willful Misconduct, Disability, death or Retirement.

          (B)  "Willful  Misconduct"  means (I) the continued willful failure by
               the  Employee  to  substantially  perform  his  duties  with  the
               Employers  or  either  of  them  (other  than  any  such  failure
               resulting  from the  Employee's  incapacity  due to  physical  or
               mental   illness)   after  a  written   demand  for   substantial
               performance is delivered to the Employee by the Boards (or either
               of the Boards) that  specifically  identifies the manner in which
               the Employee has not substantially performed his duties and after
               a  reasonable  time  period  has run to  allow  the  Employee  to
               perform, (II) willful conduct that is a material violation of the
               Bank's  written  ethics  policy  or  applicable  law and  that is
               materially  injurious to the  Employers or either of them,  (III)
               other  willful and wrongful  conduct by the Employee  that causes
               substantial and material injury to the business and operations of
               the Employers or either of them, the  continuation  of which,  in
               the reasonable  judgment of the Boards (or either of the Boards),
               will continue to substantially and materially injure the business
               and  operations  of the  Employers  (or  either  of  them) in the
               future,  or (IV) conviction of the Employee of a felony involving
               moral  turpitude;  provided,  that an act or failure to act shall
               not be considered  "willful"  unless done, or omitted to be done,
               in bad faith and without  reasonable  belief that the  Employee's
               action or omission was in the best interests of the Employers;

          (C)  "Good Reason" For purposes of this  Agreement,  a termination  of
               employment  by the Employee for "Good Reason" shall be treated as
               an involuntary  termination  of the Employee's  employment by the
               Employers without Cause. "Good Reason" shall mean: (A) a material
               breach by the  Employers  or either of them of this  Agreement or
               (B) a  reduction,  without  the  prior  written  consent  of  the
               Employee,  in his base salary under  Section 2 hereof or benefits
               provided to him under Section 3 hereof (or both).

          (D)  "Retirement"  means  termination  of the  Employee  based  on the
               Employee's  having  reached  the  earlier of age 65 or the normal
               retirement age as defined under Bank's  employee's  pension plan,
               if permissible under applicable law.

          (E)  "Date of  Termination"  means the date specified in the notice of
               termination.

               (b) For purposes of this  Agreement,  a "Change in Control" shall
               be deemed to have  taken  place if: (i) any  person  becomes  the
               beneficial  owner of more that 50 percent of the total  number of
               voting  shares of the  Company;  (ii) any person  (other than the
               persons  named as  proxies  solicited  on  behalf of the Board of
               Directors of the Company) holds revocable or irrevocable  proxies
               as to  the  election  or  removal  of  members  of the  board  of
               directors of the  Company,  for more than 50 percent of the total
               number of voting shares of the Company; (iii) any person

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               (other than a person  controlled  directly or  indirectly  by the
               Company)  becomes the beneficial owner of more than 50 percent of
               the total  number of voting  shares of the Bank;  (iv) any person
               has  received all required  approvals  of  applicable  regulatory
               authorities to acquire control of the Company or the Bank; or (v)
               as the  result  of, or in  connection  with,  any cash  tender or
               exchange offer,  merger, or other business  combination,  sale of
               assets or contested election, or any combination of the foregoing
               transactions,  the  persons  who were  directors  of the  Company
               immediately  before such transaction shall cease to constitute at
               least  one-half of the members of the Board of  Directors  of the
               Company  or any  successor  corporation.  For  purposes  of  this
               Section  2(b), a "person"  includes an  individual,  corporation,
               partnership,  trust, association, joint venture, pool, syndicate,
               unincorporated  organization,   joint-stock  company  or  similar
               organization  or group  acting  in  concert.  A person  for these
               purposes shall be deemed to be a beneficial owner as that term is
               used in Rule 13d-3 under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934.

               (c)  Notwithstanding any other provisions of this Agreement or of
               any other agreement,  contract,  or  understanding  heretofore or
               hereafter entered into by the Employee with the Company, the Bank
               or  any  other  entity  controlled  by  the  Company,  except  an
               agreement, contract, or understanding hereafter entered into that
               expressly  modifies or excludes  application of this Section 2(c)
               (the  "Other  Agreements"),  and  notwithstanding  any  formal or
               informal  plan  or  other  arrangement  heretofore  or  hereafter
               adopted by the  Company  or the Bank for the  direct or  indirect
               provision of compensation  to the Employee is a member),  whether
               or not such  compensation  is deferred,  is in cash, or is in the
               form of a benefit to or for the Employee (a "Benefit Plan"),  the
               Employee shall not have any right to receive any payment or other
               benefit under this Agreement, any Other Agreement, or any Benefit
               Plan if such  payment or benefit,  taking into  account all other
               payments or benefits to or for the Employee under this Agreement,
               all Other  Agreement,  and all  Benefit  Plans,  would  cause any
               payment to the Employee  under this  Agreement to be considered a
               "parachute  payment" within the meaning of Section  280G(b)(2) of
               the Code (a "Parachute  Payment").  In the event that the receipt
               of any such payment or benefit  under this  Agreement,  any Other
               Agreement,  or any Benefit  Plan would  cause the  Employee to be
               considered  to have  received  a  Parachute  Payment  under  this
               Agreement,  then  the  Employee  shall  have  the  right,  in the
               Employee's  sole  discretion,  to  designate  those  payments  or
               benefits under this Agreement,  any Other Agreements,  and/or any
               Benefit  Plans,  that  should be reduced or  eliminated  so as to
               avoid having the payment to the employee  under this Agreement be
               deemed to be a Parachute Payment.

               (d)  Notwithstanding  any other provision in this Agreement,  (i)
               the  Employers  may  terminate or suspend this  Agreement and the
               employment of the Employee hereunder, as if such termination were
               for Cause under Section 7(a)(i) hereof and for Willful Misconduct
               under Section 8(a)(ii) hereof, to the extent required by the laws
               of the  State of New  York  related  to  banking,  by  applicable
               federal  law  relating  to  deposit  insurance  or  bank  holding
               companies  or by  regulations  or orders  issued  by the  Banking
               Commissioner  of the  State  of New  York,  the  Federal  Deposit
               Insurance  Corporation  or the Board of  Governors of the Federal
               Reserve  System and (ii) no payment  shall be required to be made
               to the Employee  under this  Agreement to the extent such payment
               is prohibited by applicable law,  regulation or order issued by a
               banking  agency or a court of competent  jurisdiction;  provided,
               that it shall be the  Employers'  burden  to prove  that any such
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          3. Confidentially and Noninterference with Customers and Employees.

               (a)  Except as  authorized  or  directed  by the  Employers,  the
               Employee shall not at any time during or subsequent to employment
               with the Employers,  directly or indirectly,  publish or disclose
               to any  person  or entity  any  confidential  information  of the
               Employers  or  confidential  information  of others that has come
               into the Employers'  possession or the  Employee's  possession in
               the course of employment  with  Employers,  and the Employee will
               not use such information for the Employee's personal gain or make
               it available for others to use. All information,  whether written
               or not, regarding the business and finances of the Employers,  or
               their customers and contractors,  including,  without limitation,
               information  relating  to  existing  and  contemplated  products,
               services,   software,   systems,  methods,  business  procedures,
               construction,  operational  and  marketing  plans  and  programs,
               prices,  costs and revenues,  prospective and existing contracts,
               prospective and existing customers or other business arrangements
               and  any   additional   information   acquired  only  because  of
               employment   with  the   Employers,   shall  be  presumed  to  be
               confidential,  except  to the  extent  the same  shall  have been
               lawfully and without  breach of obligation  made available to the
               general  public  without  restriction.  All papers and records of
               every  kind,  including  all  memoranda,   notes,  lists,  plans,
               reports,  data  (written  or  recorded)  and  documents,  whether
               originals  or copies and whether  prepared by the  Employee or by
               others, relating to the business and finances of the Employers or
               their customers or  contractors,  shall be the sole and exclusive
               property  of the  Employers.  The  Employee  will  return  to the
               Employers  all  of  the  above  materials  upon   termination  of
               employment  and  will  not at any  time  give  or  disclose  such
               materials to any unauthorized person or entity.

               (b)  The  Employee   acknowledges   and  agrees   that,   because
               relationships  with  customers  and  prospective   customers  are
               expected to  constitute  a large  portion of the  goodwill of the
               Bank's business,  it is of great importance to the Employers that
               the Employee  not solicit the Bank's  customers  and  prospective
               customers (other than on behalf of the Bank) during the period of
               employment,  and that the Employee not solicit such customers and
               prospective   customers  after   termination  of  the  Employee's
               employment  while the Employee is receiving  salary  continuation
               payments  under Section 2(a) hereof,  with respect to business or
               contracts  for any  products  or  service  of the type  provided,
               developed or under  development by the Bank during the Employee's
               employment by the Bank, so that another employee of the Bank will
               have an  opportunity to develop  relationships  with such clients
               and  prospective  clients.  The Employee  agrees that,  while the
               Employee  is  employed  by the Bank and  while  the  Employee  is
               receiving salary continuation payments under Section 2(a) hereof,
               the Employee shall not, within the area comprised of the Towns of
               Southampton,   East  Hampton,   Shelter   Island,   Southold  and
               Riverhead,  New York,  and any other  town in which the  Employee
               performed material services for the Bank,  directly or indirectly
               solicit  (other than on behalf of the Bank) business or contracts
               for any products or services of the type  provided,  developed or
               under development by the Bank during the Employee's employment by
               the  Bank,  from or with  (i) any  person  or  entity  that was a
               customer  of the Bank for such  products  or  services  as of, or
               within one year before, the date of termination of the Employee's
               employment with the Bank (the  "Termination  Date"),  or (ii) any
               prospective customer that the Bank was actively soliciting as of,
               or within one year before, the Termination Date.

               (c)  While  the  Employee  is  employed  by  the   Employers  and
               thereafter while the Employee is

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               receiving salary continuation payments under Section 2(a) hereof,
               the Employee shall not solicit any person who is then employed by
               the Company,  the Bank or any subsidiary of either of them or who
               within 90 days before the Termination  Date had been so employed,
               to leave such  employment or to become  employed by any person or
               entity other than the company, the Bank or any such subsidiary.


               (d) The Employee acknowledges that the restrictions  contained in
               this  Section 3 are  reasonable  and  necessary  to  protect  the
               business and interest of the  Employers and that any violation of
               these  restrictions would cause substantial  irreparable  injury.
               Accordingly,  the  Employee  agrees  that a remedy at law for any
               breach of the foregoing  covenants  would be inadequate  and that
               the Employers, in addition to any other remedies available, shall
               be entitled to obtain preliminary and permanent injunctive relief
               to secure specific performance of such covenants and to prevent a
               breach  or  contemplated  breach  of  this  Section  without  the
               necessity of proving actual damage. The Employee will provide the
               Employers a full accounting of all proceeds and profits  received
               by the Employee as a result of or in connection  with a breach of
               this Section.  Unless prohibited by law, the Employers shall have
               the right to retain any amounts otherwise payable to the Employee
               to satisfy  any  obligations  of the  Employee as a result of any
               breach of this Section.  The Employee  hereby agrees to indemnify
               and hold  harmless the  Employers  from and against any costs and
               expenses  incurred by the  Employers as a result of any breach of
               this Section by the Employee and in enforcing and  preserving the
               Employers' rights under this Section.

          4.   No Assignments. This Agreement is personal to each of the parties
               hereto. No party may assign or delegate any rights or obligations
               hereunder  without  first  obtaining  the written  consent of the
               other  party  hereto.  However,  in the event of the death of the
               Employee,  all rights to receive payments  hereunder shall become
               rights of the Employee's estate.

          5.   Prior Agreement  Superseded;  Entire Agreement;  Amendments.  The
               Prior  Agreement is hereby  replaced and superseded and the Prior
               Agreement  shall be of no further  force or effect after the date
               of  this  Agreement.   This  Agreement   constitutes  the  entire
               agreement  among the parties  hereto with  respect to the matters
               contemplated  herein, and it supersedes all prior oral or written
               agreements,  commitments  or  understandings  with respect to the
               matters  provided  for  herein.  No  amendment,  modification  or
               discharge of this Agreement  shall be valid or binding unless set
               forth in writing and duly  executed  and  delivered  by the party
               against  whom  enforcement  of the  amendment,  modification,  or
               discharge is sought.

          6.   Section Headings. The section headings used in this Agreement are
               included solely for convenience and shall not affect,  or be used
               in connection with, the interpretation of this Agreement.

          7.   Governing  Law. This  Agreement  shall be governed by the laws of
               the United States to the extent  applicable  and otherwise by the
               laws of the State of New York,  excluding the choice of law rules
               thereof.





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Attest:                                                     BRIDGE BANCORP, INC.


/s/ Raymond Wesnofske                     By /s/ Thomas J. Tobin
- ------------------------------------       -------------------------------------
Chairman of the Board                     President and Chief Executive Officer



Attest:                                              BRIDGEHAMPTON NATIONAL BANK



/s/ Raymond Wesnofske                     By /s/ Thomas J. Tobin
- ------------------------------------       -------------------------------------
Chairman of the Board                      President and Chief Executive Officer



                                           EMPLOYEE


                                           /s/ Christopher Becker
                                           -------------------------------------
                                           Christopher Becker


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