DIPLOMAT CORPORATION
                               25 Kay Fries Drive
                           Stony Point, New York 10980

                                          August 7, 1997

Mr. Robert Selame
268 Newbury Street
Boston, Massachusetts 02116

Dear Mr. Selame:

     This will confirm the understanding and agreement (the "Agreement") between
Diplomat Corporation ("Diplomat") and Robert Selame ("Selame") as follows:

     1.   Diplomat hereby engages Selame (a) to provide consulting services with
          regard to new product ideas and concepts in the baby and youth
          products area generally, supported by sketches, plans and the like in
          a number such that Diplomat might be expected reasonably to select
          among them so as to be able to implement between 5 and 10 new ideas
          per year during the term hereof and (b) to provide general marketing
          consulting services to Diplomat.

     2.   Selame agrees to act as a consultant to Diplomat with respect to the
          matters set forth in paragraph 1.

     3.   As compensation for services to be provided by Selame hereunder,
          Diplomat agrees to pay Selame as follows:

          (a)  A 3% royalty on all net sales (defined as gross sales less
               returns, discounts and the like, whenever occurring) made by
               Diplomat of any products implemented or improved (as well as
               product line extensions and variations) as a result of the ideas
               and concepts presented by Selame pursuant to paragraph 1
               ("Products"). For purposes of this royalty calculation, a Product
               shall be considered "sold" upon the date of payment. If a sale is
               made otherwise than at arms length, the net sales for such sale
               shall be based on the gross invoice price for corresponding sales
               to unaffiliated parties at arm's length. Each royalty payment
               made pursuant to Section 3(a) shall be made on the last day of
               each month for products sold 




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               during the preceding month. All late payments under this

               agreement shall bear interest at the prime rate. With respect to
               sales of Products made in foreign currency, the amount of such
               sales shall be converted to United States Dollars at the buying
               sight rate for dollars at any internationally recognized bank in
               the country of sale on the last business day of the period for
               which the royalty is to be calculated.

          (b)  Non-cancellable options to purchase 150,000 shares of Diplomat
               common stock exercisable at a price of $1 7/8 per share (the
               public trading price of said shares as of the date this agreement
               was reached in principle), to be registered pursuant to a Form
               S-8 presently being prepared by Diplomat . Any options not
               exercised, shall expire ten years from the date hereof. The
               Option shall be exercised by the delivery of written notice from
               Selame to Diplomat stating the number of Shares with respect to
               which the Option is being exercised and accompanied by payment in
               full of the aggregate exercise price ("Aggregate Exercise Price")
               of such Option in immediately available funds. Such written
               notice shall be delivered to Diplomat at its principal office or
               at such other address as may be established by the Board of
               Directors (attention: Secretary). Diplomat shall immediately
               instruct its transfer agent to make delivery of such Shares. In
               the event that the outstanding Shares are hereafter changed by
               reason of reorganization, merger, consolidation,
               recapitalization, reclassification, stock split-up, combination
               or exchange of Shares and the like, or dividends payable in
               Shares, an appropriate adjustment shall be made by the Board of
               Directors in the number of Shares and price per Share subject to
               the Option granted hereunder. If Diplomat shall be reorganized,
               consolidated, or merged with another corporation, or if all or
               substantially all of the assets of Diplomat or any subsidiary
               shall be sold or exchanged, Selame shall at the time of issuance
               of the stock under such a corporate event, be entitled to receive
               upon the exercise of his Option the same number and kind of
               shares of stock or the same amount of property, cash or
               securities as he would have been entitled to receive upon the
               occurrence of any such corporate event as if he had been,
               immediately prior to such event, the holder of the number of
               Shares covered by his Option. Any adjustment under this paragraph
               in the number of Shares subject to the Option shall apply
               proportionately to only the 




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               unexercised portion of any Option granted hereunder. If fractions
               of a Share would result from any such adjustment, the adjustment
               shall be revised to the next higher whole number of Shares.


          (c)  Options to purchase 100,000 shares shall be exercisable
               immediately and options to purchase the remaining 50,000 shares
               shall be exercisable in blocks of 10,000 shares, one such block
               for each $1,000,000 by which the net sales of Products exceed
               $2,000,000.

          (d)  Diplomat shall also reimburse Selame for all reasonable
               out-of-pocket expenses incurred by Selame at the request of, or
               with the permission of, Diplomat in connection with the services
               provided hereunder.

     4.   The term of Agreement shall commence as of the date hereof and shall
          expire on July 31, 1998 and royalties payable pursuant to Section 3(a)
          hereof shall survive termination of the Agreement.

     5.   Selame hereby agrees, for himself and on behalf of his employees and
          agents not to disclose any information or materials provided hereunder
          to Diplomat by Selame or by Diplomat to Selame, without the express
          written consent of Diplomat unless such information is in the public
          domain or otherwise becomes public through no fault of Selame.

     6.   Diplomat and Selame are not, and shall not be deemed to be, partners,
          joint venturers withe each other or agents of each other.

     7.   This Agreement is binding upon and is for the benefit of the parties
          hereto and their respective successors, legal representatives, heirs
          and permitted assigns. This Agreement is personal in nature and the
          rights hereunder cannot be assigned, nor can the duties hereunder be
          delegated, without the prior written consent of the parties hereto.
          This Agreement shall not be amended or modified except by a written
          agreement executed by the parties hereto.

     8.   This Agreement supersedes any other oral or written agreements and
          understandings heretofore made relating to the subject matter hereof
          and contains the entire agreement of the parties relating to the
          subject matter hereof.



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     9.   Diplomat and Selame hereby warrant to each other that they have full
          authority to enter into this Agreement and that they are not subject
          to any restrictions which would prevent them from performing this
          Agreement.

     10.  This Agreement shall be governed by and construed in accordance with
          the laws of the State of New York, without regard to its conflict of
          laws principles. The parties agree that any legal suit, action or
          proceeding arising out of or relating to this Agreement may be
          instituted in the state or federal court in the State of New York.


     11.  Diplomat represents and warrants to, and agrees with, Selame that the
          manufacture, assembly, labeling, marketing, sale and delivery of
          Licensed Products and all material and documentation relating thereto
          shall (i) comply with the highest specifications and quality
          requirements, (ii) be free from defects in material and workmanship,
          (iii) be fit for their intended use, (iv) be of good merchantable
          quality, and (v) comply with all applicable federal, state and local
          laws, rules, regulations and executive orders. Diplomat shall maintain
          at all times product liability insurance covering its operations
          relating to Licensed Products in an amount of coverage at least equal
          to the total amount of product liability coverage generally maintained
          by Diplomat from time to time, but in no event less than $1 million
          per occurrence and $2 million in the aggregate.

     12.  Diplomat, and its successors and assigns (each, an "Indemnifying
          Party"), each hereby indemnify and agree to hold harmless the Selame
          and its representatives, shareholders, officers, directors, agents and
          employees and their affiliates (each, an "Indemnified Party"), against
          any liability, damage, loss, fine, penalty, claim, cost or expense
          (including reasonable costs of investigation and settlement and
          attorneys', accountants' and other experts' fees and expenses) arising
          out of any action or inaction in connection with the sale or marketing
          of Products, an Indemnifying Party's sale or marketing of Products and
          related materials, or the incorrectness or breach of any
          representation, warranty or covenant made by any Indemnifying Party to
          any Indemnified Party. An Indemnified Party shall give an Indemnifying
          Party prompt notice of its receipt of any claim which is subject to
          indemnification hereunder, provided, however, that the failure to give
          such notice shall not affect any Indemnifying Party's obligation
          hereunder except to the extent that the Indemnifying Party was
          materially prejudiced by an Indemnified Party's failure to give such
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     13.  Diplomat shall keep full and complete records with respect to its
          design, manufacture, inspection, testing, marketing and sale of
          Products. Diplomat shall provide Selame with monthly reports along
          with each royalty payment of the number of Products manufactured each
          month and the amount of Products sold each month. At Selame's request,
          Diplomat shall allow Selame and/or his representatives to inspect such
          records, or to inspect any manufacturing facility, at all reasonable
          times and otherwise make available to Selame all information as Selame
          may reasonably request relating to Diplomat's design, manufacture and
          marketing of Products and the performance of its obligations
          hereunder. Diplomat shall keep Selame reasonably informed of, and
          shall coordinate with Selame, its distribution and marketing plans for
          Products. Selame's rights to receive information and inspect the

          design, manufacturing and marketing of the Products, and any active
          review, or inspection, shall in no way impose any liability on Selame
          or reduce the responsibilities of Diplomat for the quality and
          appearance of Products or relieve Diplomat from any of its obligations
          hereunder or otherwise.

     14.  Any disputes arising between the Parties hereunder shall be submitted
          to arbitration before the American Arbitration Association in New
          York, New York, by one arbitrator pursuant to the American Arbitration
          Association's rules for expedited proceedings.

     If the foregoing correctly sets forth our understanding and agreement,
please so indicate in the space provided below. We very much look forward to
working with you.

                                            DIPLOMAT CORPORATION

                                            By:________________________________
                                               Jonathan Rosenberg
                                               President

By:______________________________
         Robert Selame


Date: August ____, 1997