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                                                                   Exhibit 10.20

                 SEPARATION AND MUTUAL GENERAL RELEASE AGREEMENT

            This Separation and Mutual General Release Agreement ("Agreement"),
made this 23rd day of March, 1999, by and between Howard G. Phanstiel, an
individual ("Phanstiel"), and ARV Assisted Living, Inc., a corporation, and its
parent, subsidiaries, affiliates, and related entities ("ARV") is a separation
agreement which includes a mutual general release of claims. Lazard Freres Real
Estate Investors L.L.C., LF Strategic Realty Investors II L.P., LFSRI II
Alternative Partnership LP, LFSRI II-CADIM Alternative Partnership L.P., Atria
Communities, Inc., Kapson Senior Quarters Corp., and Prometheus Assisted Living
LLC ("Lazard") are parties to this Agreement only with respect to Sections 2,
13-25, and 27-39.

            In consideration of the covenants undertaken and the releases
contained in this Agreement, Phanstiel and ARV agree, and Lazard agrees with
respect to Sections 2, 13-25, and 27-39 as follows:

            1. Phanstiel's position as Chief Executive Officer of ARV and as an
employee of ARV in any other capacity is terminated, such termination to be
effective March 23, 1999 (the "Separation Date"). Phanstiel hereby resigns as a
member of the Board of Directors of ARV effective as of March 23, 1999.

            2. That certain December 21, 1998 Amended and Restated Executive
Employment Agreement ("Amended Employment Agreement") between Phanstiel and ARV
shall terminate, such termination to be effective March 23, 1999. All payments
due to Phanstiel from ARV shall be determined under this Agreement, and no
payments shall be made under the Amended Employment Agreement. All payments due
to Phanstiel under this Agreement shall be the sole responsibility of ARV, or
its surviving or successor entity in the event of a Change of Control as that
term is defined in Section 7.5 of the Amended Employment Agreement, sale, or
merger, and such payments shall not be the responsibility of Lazard or any of
Lazard's affiliates.

            3. Phanstiel agrees that he will not, for a period of one year
following the Separation Date, directly solicit any ARV employee earning an
annual salary of $75,000 or more to work for any business, individual,
partnership, firm, corporation or other entity then in competition with the
business of ARV or any subsidiary or affiliate of ARV.

            4. ARV shall pay to Phanstiel severance in the total amount of
$1,000,000.00 less standard withholding and authorized deductions (the
"Severance Payment"). That sum shall be paid to Phanstiel via wire transfer in
equal installments over the twelve month period commencing on the eighth day
after the execution of this Agreement, subject to the acceleration provisions of
this Agreement. In the event of Phanstiel's death, the Severance Payment shall
be made to Phanstiel's estate pursuant to the provisions of this Agreement.
Simultaneously with the issuance of ARV's Quarterly Report, ARV's auditors shall
advise Phanstiel if any acceleration event has occurred during the previous
quarter.

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            5. ARV agrees to accelerate unpaid portions of the Severance Payment
in the event of ARV's receipt of Cumulative Net Proceeds from asset sales
pursuant to the following schedule:

                  (a) Cumulative Net Proceeds of at least $15,000,000.00 but no
                  greater than $17,500,000.00 will result in acceleration of
                  $200,000.00;

                  (b) Cumulative Net Proceeds of at least $17,500,000.00 but no
                  greater than $20,000,000.00 will result in acceleration of
                  $333,333.33 less any amounts previously paid under Section
                  5(a); and

                  (c) Cumulative Net Proceeds of $20,000,000.00 will result in
                  acceleration of $650,000.00 less any amounts previously paid
                  under Sections 5(a) and/or 5(b).

            For purposes of this Agreement, Cumulative Net Proceeds shall mean
the net amount received by ARV after the deduction of all transaction costs,
repayment of debt secured by such assets, and partnership distributions that are
required to be made pursuant to the applicable partnership agreement.

            6. ARV agrees to accelerate unpaid portions of the Severance Payment
in the event of ARV's receipt of Cumulative Net Proceeds from mortgage
refinancing pursuant to the following schedule:

                  (a) Cumulative Net Proceeds of $9,000,000.00 will result in
                  acceleration of $300,000.00;

                  (b) Each $1,000,000.00 of Cumulative Net Proceeds received in
                  excess of $9,000,000.00 will result in an additional
                  $100,000.00 acceleration.

            For purposes of this Section, Cumulative Net Proceeds from mortgage
refinancing shall not include the proceeds of any bridge loan from Lazard, or
any of its affiliates, to ARV, or any of its affiliates. In addition, Cumulative
Net Proceeds under Section 5 shall be determined independently of Section 6 and
in no event shall such amounts be aggregated for any purpose under this
Agreement. In the event a portion of the Severance Payment is accelerated under
either Sections 5 or 6, the accelerated payment shall be made to Phanstiel in a
lump sum within ten (10) days of the date the Cumulative Net Proceeds reached
the applicable threshold amount. The total amount of the Severance Payment set
forth in Section 4 ($1,000,000.00) shall in no event be increased or decreased
by the occurrence of any acceleration event.

            7. In the event of a "Change of Control" as defined in paragraphs
7.5.1(i), (ii) and (iii) of the Amended Employment Agreement which occurs after
the Separation Date, ARV will accelerate the full Severance Payment or the
remaining portion thereof and shall pay Phanstiel the full Severance Payment or
the remaining portion thereof within ten (10) days of the Change of Control.


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            8. In the event ARV's unrestricted cash balance exceeds the sum of
$15,000,000.00 for a sustained period of ninety (90) days on or after April 2,
1999, ARV will accelerate the full Severance Payment or the remaining portion
thereof and shall pay Phanstiel the full Severance Payment or the remaining
portion thereof within ten (10) days. For the purpose of determining the
unrestricted cash balance, only one-half (1/2) of the Cumulative Net Proceeds
from the sale of assets shall be included.

            9. Phanstiel acknowledges that he has already received through
direct deposit his salary through March 15, 1999. On March 23, 1999, ARV will
pay to Phanstiel $34,612.95, less withholding and authorized deductions, which
amount reflects accrued but unpaid salary and accrued but unused vacation as
reflected in ARV's books through the Separation Date.

            10. Any options to purchase the common stock of ARV granted to
Phanstiel prior to the Separation Date and not otherwise vested shall terminate
as of the Separation Date.

            11. ARV will maintain coverage for Phanstiel's telephone for a
period of sixty days after the Separation Date.

            12. ARV shall pay, on behalf of Phanstiel, for the maximum period
for which COBRA coverage is available, the premiums payable in order to continue
the same coverage of Phanstiel and Phanstiel's family under ARV's health
insurance plan which exists as of the Separation Date, unless and until
Phanstiel and Phanstiel's family are otherwise covered by another health
insurance plan (the "Continuation Coverage").

            13. The Parties agree that any reference requests regarding
Phanstiel from potential employers shall be directed only to Doug Pasquale,
Laura Loda, or another individual designated in writing by Phanstiel on or after
the date of this Agreement.

            14. The parties agree that Phanstiel is hereby released from any
obligations under paragraph 9 of the Amended Employment Agreement.

            15. Phanstiel on the one hand, and ARV and Lazard collectively on
the other, agree that each shall not (1) directly or indirectly, make or ratify
any statement, public or private, oral or written, that disparages, either
professionally or personally, the other party or parties, the other party or
parties' subsidiaries and affiliates, past and present, and each of them, as
well as its and their trustees, directors, officers, agents, attorneys,
insurers, employees, stockholders, representatives, assigns, and successors,
past and present, and each of them, or (2) make any statement or engage in any
conduct that has the purpose or effect of disrupting the business of the other
party or parties. The parties hereby agree that any statement made in violation
of the foregoing shall constitute and be treated as a material breach of this
Agreement. This Section 15 shall not apply to or in any way limit (i) testimony
given by a party in any court, arbitral or governmental proceeding or (ii) a
party's private consultation with its attorneys or other professional advisors.

      16. The parties expressly deny any violation of any policies, procedures,
state or federal laws or regulations. Accordingly, while this Agreement resolves
all issues between Phanstiel, on the one hand, and ARV and Lazard, on the other
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violation of ARV's policies or procedures or any state or federal law or
regulation, this Agreement does not constitute an adjudication or finding on the
merits and it is not, and shall not be construed as, an admission by Phanstiel,
ARV, or Lazard of any violation of ARV's policies, procedures, state or federal
laws or regulations. Moreover, neither this Agreement nor anything in this
Agreement shall be construed to be or shall be admissible in any proceeding as
evidence of or an admission by Phanstiel, ARV, or Lazard of any violation of
ARV's policies, procedures, state or federal laws or regulations. This Agreement
may be introduced, however, in any proceeding to enforce the Agreement. Such
introduction shall be pursuant to an order protecting its confidentiality.

            17. Except for those obligations created by or arising out of this
Agreement, Phanstiel on behalf of himself, his descendants, dependents, heirs,
executors, administrators, assigns, and successors, and each of them, hereby
covenants not to sue and fully releases and discharges ARV, Lazard, LF Strategic
Realty Investors II L.P., LFSRI II Alternative Partnership LP, LFSRI II-CADIM
Alternative Partnership L.P., Atria Communities, Inc., Kapson Senior Quarters
Corp., Prometheus Assisted Living LLC, their respective predecessors, successors
and assigns, and their respective past, present and future parents,
subsidiaries, affiliates, trustees, executors, administrators, officers,
directors, owners, associates, heirs, agents, insurers, stockholders, partners,
employees, licensees, representatives, lawyers, consultants, investment bankers,
accountants or any of them and including, without limitation, Robert P. Freeman,
Murry N. Gunty and Kenneth M. Jacobs, and each of them, hereinafter together and
collectively referred to as "Releasees," with respect to and from any and all
manner of action or actions, cause or causes of action, in law or equity, and
any suits, debts, liens, liabilities, claims, counter-claims, cross-claims,
demands, rights, obligations, damages, losses, costs, expenses, attorneys' fees,
judgments, orders or indemnities, or all and any nature whatsoever, whether
individual or derivative, state or federal, known or unknown, fixed or
contingent, suspected or unsuspected, and whether or not concealed or hidden,
against said Releasees, or any of them, that Phanstiel: (i) may have or may now
have up to the date of this Agreement; or (ii) may hereafter have based upon,
arising out of, related to or in any way connected with his service as a
director, officer or employee of ARV, his separation from his position as a
director, officer and employee of ARV, or his employment by, or status as an
officer or director of, any ARV affiliate, or any other transactions,
occurrences, acts or omissions or any loss, damage or injury whatever, known or
unknown, suspected or unsuspected, resulting from any act or omission by or on
the part of said Releasees, or any of them, committed or omitted prior to the
date of this Agreement including, without limiting the generality of the
foregoing, any claim that was or could have been alleged in, or any of the facts
giving rise to or allegedly giving rise to, those certain actions entitled ARV
Assisted Living, Inc. v. Lazard Freres Real Estate Investors LLC et al., Case
No. 794211, Superior Court for the State of California for the County of Orange
and related cross-actions ("ARV v. LFREI") and/or Prometheus Assisted Living LLC
v. Howard G. Phanstiel et al., Civil Action No. 16846 In the Court of Chancery
of the State of Delaware in and for New Castle County ("Prometheus v.
Phanstiel"), any claim under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, the Age
Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967, Americans with Disabilities Act, the
Family and Medical Leave Act of 1993, the California Fair Employment and Housing
Act, the California Family Rights Act, or any claim for severance pay, bonus,
sick leave, holiday pay, vacation pay, life insurance, health or medical
insurance or any other fringe benefit, workers' compensation or disability.
Notwithstanding anything to the contrary herein, the releases given


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herein do not include any claim Phanstiel now has or may hereafter have for
indemnification under that certain Indemnification Agreement between Phanstiel
and ARV dated December 5, 1997 (the "Indemnity Agreement"), and any and all such
claims are hereby specifically preserved.

            18. Except for those obligations created by or arising out of this
Agreement or the Indemnity Agreement, ARV, Lazard, LF Strategic Realty Investors
II L.P., LFSRI II Alternative Partnership LP, LFSRI II-CADIM Alternative
Partnership L.P., Atria Communities, Inc., Kapson Senior Quarters Corp.,
Prometheus Assisted Living LLC, Robert P. Freeman, Murry N. Gunty and Kenneth M.
Jacobs, hereby acknowledge full and complete satisfaction of and release and
discharge, and covenant not to sue, Phanstiel, and Phanstiel's descendants,
dependents, heirs, executors, administrators, and each of them, hereinafter
together and collectively referred to as "Phanstiel Releasees," with respect to
and from any and all manner of action or actions, cause or causes of action, in
law or equity, and any suits, debts, liens, liabilities, claims, counter-claims,
cross-claims, demands, rights, obligations, damages, losses, costs, expenses,
attorneys' fees, judgments, orders or indemnities, or all and any nature
whatsoever, whether individual or derivative, state or federal, known or
unknown, fixed or contingent, suspected or unsuspected, and whether or not
concealed or hidden, against said Phanstiel Releasees, or any of them, that ARV,
Lazard, Robert P. Freeman, Murry N. Gunty and Kenneth M. Jacobs : (i) may have
or may now have up to the date of this Agreement; or (ii) may hereafter have
based upon, arising out of, related to or in any way connected with Phanstiel's
service as a director, officer or employee of ARV, his separation from his
position as a director, officer and employee of ARV, or any other transactions,
occurrences, acts or omissions or any loss, damage or injury whatever, known or
unknown, suspected or unsuspected, resulting from any act or omission by or on
the part of said Phanstiel Releasees, or any of them, committed or omitted prior
to the date of this Agreement including, without limiting the generality of the
foregoing, any claim that was or could have been alleged in, or any of the facts
giving rise to or allegedly giving rise to, those certain actions entitled ARV
Assisted Living, Inc. v. Lazard Freres Real Estate Investors LLC et al., Case
No. 794211, Superior Court for the State of California for the County of Orange
and related cross-actions ("ARV v. LFREI") and/or Prometheus Assisted Living LLC
v. Howard G. Phanstiel et al., Civil Action No. 16846 In the Court of Chancery
of the State of Delaware in and for New Castle County ("Prometheus v.
Phanstiel").

            19. Phanstiel, ARV, Lazard, LF Strategic Realty Investors II L.P.,
LFSRI II Alternative Partnership LP, LFSRI II-CADIM Alternative Partnership
L.P., Atria Communities, Inc., Kapson Senior Quarters Corp., Prometheus Assisted
Living LLC, Robert P. Freeman, Murry N. Gunty and Kenneth M. Jacobs, and each of
them, hereby represent, warrant, and acknowledge to each other, that they have
received independent legal advice from their respective attorneys regarding the
advisability of executing this Agreement and giving the releases provided for
herein, and hereby acknowledge the provisions of Section 1542 of the California
Civil Code, which provides as follows:

                  "A GENERAL RELEASE DOES NOT EXTEND TO CLAIMS WHICH THE
            CREDITOR DOES NOT KNOW OR SUSPECT TO EXIST IN HIS FAVOR AT THE TIME
            OF EXECUTING THE RELEASE, WHICH IF KNOWN BY HIM MUST HAVE


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            MATERIALLY AFFECTED HIS SETTLEMENT WITH THE DEBTOR."

Phanstiel, ARV and Lazard, LF Strategic Realty Investors II L.P., LFSRI II
Alternative Partnership LP, LFSRI II-CADIM Alternative Partnership L.P., Atria
Communities, Inc., Kapson Senior Quarters Corp., Prometheus Assisted Living LLC,
Robert P. Freeman, Murry N. Gunty and Kenneth M. Jacobs and each of them, being
aware of Section 1542, hereby expressly waive and relinquish any rights or
benefits they have or may have thereunder in connection with the releases
provided herein, as well as under any other California or any Federal or state
statute or common law principle of similar effect. Each of Phanstiel, ARV,
Lazard, LF Strategic Realty Investors II L.P., LFSRI II Alternative Partnership
LP, LFSRI II-CADIM Alternative Partnership L.P., Atria Communities, Inc., Kapson
Senior Quarters Corp., Prometheus Assisted Living LLC, Robert P. Freeman, Murry
N. Gunty and Kenneth M. Jacobs acknowledges that it is aware that it or its
attorney may hereafter discover facts different from or in addition to the facts
which it or its attorney now knows or believes to be true with respect to the
subject matter of this Agreement but that it is their intention hereby to settle
and release fully, finally, absolutely and forever any and all claims, disputes
and differences, known or unknown, suspected or unsuspected, which now exist,
may hereafter exist, or heretofore have existed arising from, or in any way
connected with the released matters set forth in Sections 17 or 18 of this
Agreement, and without regard to the subsequent discovery or existence of such
different or additional facts. In furtherance of this intention, the releases
herein given shall be and remain in effect as full and complete releases, except
as expressly set forth herein, notwithstanding the discovery of any such
additional facts. Phanstiel, ARV and Lazard acknowledge that they understand the
significance and consequence of such release and such specific waiver of SECTION
1542.

            The parties, and each of them, hereby further represent, warrant,
and acknowledge to the other parties, and each of them, that there is a risk
that, subsequent to the date of this Agreement, they will incur damage or loss
that they deem in some way attributable to the subject matter of this Agreement,
or to the actions prior to the date of this Agreement of Phanstiel, ARV, Lazard,
LF Strategic Realty Investors II L.P., LFSRI II Alternative Partnership LP,
LFSRI II-CADIM Alternative Partnership L.P., Atria Communities, Inc., Kapson
Senior Quarters Corp., Prometheus Assisted Living LLC, Robert P. Freeman, Murry
N. Gunty or Kenneth M. Jacobs as the case may be, but which are unknown and
unanticipated as of the date of this Agreement, or that damages presently known
may become progressive, greater or more serious than is now known, expected or
anticipated, or that facts alleged in the subject matter of this Agreement are
found to be different from the facts now believed by them to be true. The
parties hereby expressly accept such risks and agree that this Agreement is and
will remain effective notwithstanding such risks, if they occur.

            20. Phanstiel expressly acknowledges and agrees that, by entering
into this Agreement, he is waiving any and all rights or claims that he may have
arising under the Age Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967, as amended,
which have arisen on or before the date of execution of this Agreement.
Phanstiel further expressly acknowledges and agrees that:

                  (a) In return for this Agreement, he will receive general
      releases that he was not already entitled to receive before entering into
      this Agreement;


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                  (b) He was orally advised by ARV and is hereby advised in
      writing by this Agreement to consult with an attorney before signing this
      Agreement;

                  (c) He was given a copy of this Agreement on March 23, 1999,
      and informed that he had 21 days within which to consider the Agreement;
      and

                  (d) He was informed that he has seven (7) days following the
      date of execution of the Agreement in which to revoke the Agreement.

            21. Phanstiel may revoke this Agreement in its entirety during the
seven (7) days following execution of the Agreement by Phanstiel. Any revocation
of the Agreement must be in writing and hand delivered during the revocation
period. This Agreement will become effective and enforceable seven (7) days
following execution by Phanstiel, unless this Agreement is revoked during the
seven-day period.

            22. Phanstiel acknowledges that by reason of his position with ARV
he has been given access to, received, and been entrusted with confidential
information, including but in no way limited to development, marketing,
organizational, financial, management, administrative, production, distribution
and sales information, data, specifications and processes owned by ARV or its
agents or consultants, or used in the course of its business that is not
otherwise part of the public domain (collectively, the "Confidential Material").
 Phanstiel represents that he has held all Confidential Material confidential
and will continue to do so, and that he will not use Confidential Material for
any business (which term herein includes a partnership, firm, corporation or any
other entity) without the prior written consent of ARV.

            Phanstiel shall return to ARV and shall not take or copy in any form
or manner Confidential Materials.

            23. Phanstiel agrees that upon reasonable notice he shall make
himself available to cooperate in the transition of any matters to the successor
Chief Executive Officer of ARV and to provide information to the successor Chief
Executive Officer regarding any proceedings that involve the operation of ARV's
business while Phanstiel was employed by ARV.

            24. Phanstiel, ARV and Lazard agree that the terms and conditions of
this Agreement shall remain confidential as between the parties and they shall
not (except as required by law, including disclosures required to shareholders
or regulators, and in the press release attached hereto as Exhibit A) disclose
them to any other person. The parties shall mutually agree upon the text and the
substance of any other comments regarding the fact of Phanstiel's separation and
the reasons therefor. Except as provided for in the mutually agreed disclosures,
the parties will not respond to or in any way participate in or contribute to
any public discussion, notice or other publicity concerning, or in any way
relating to, execution of this Agreement or the events (including any
negotiations) which led to its execution. The parties hereby agree that
disclosure by them of any of the terms and conditions of the Agreement in
violation of the foregoing shall constitute and be treated as a material breach
of this Agreement. Notwithstanding the foregoing, this Section 24 shall not
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testimony given by a party in any court, arbitral or governmental proceeding or
(ii) a party's private consultation with its attorneys or other professional
advisors.

            25. Phanstiel, ARV and Lazard each warrant and represent that there
has been no assignment or other transfer of any interest in the released matters
set forth in this Agreement, any claims, counterclaims, cross-claims, demands,
causes of action, or any part or portion thereof, that, but for such assignment
or transfer, would be subject to the releases set forth in this Agreement and
each agrees to indemnify, defend and hold harmless the others from any
liabilities, action or actions, cause or causes of action in law or equity,
suits, debts, liens, and from any claims made upon, demands upon, damages
asserted against, and costs, expenses and attorneys' fees incurred (whether or
not litigation is actually commenced) by the other parties, or any of them,
based on or in connection with or arising out of any such assignment or transfer
made, purported or claimed..

            26. Phanstiel and ARV acknowledge that any employment or contractual
relationship between them terminated on March 23, 1999, and that they have no
further employment or contractual relationship except as may arise out of this
Agreement and that Phanstiel waives any right or claim to reinstatement as an
employee of ARV.

            27. Phanstiel agrees that Phanstiel shall be exclusively liable for
the payment of all federal and state taxes which may be due as the result of the
consideration received from the settlement of disputed claims as set forth
herein.

            28. This instrument and the Indemnity Agreement constitute and
contain the entire agreement and understanding concerning Phanstiel's
employment, separation from the same and the other subject matters addressed
herein between the parties, and supersede and replace all prior negotiations and
all agreements proposed or otherwise, whether written or oral, concerning the
subject matters hereof. This is an integrated document.

            29. If any provision of this Agreement or the application thereof is
held invalid, the invalidity shall not affect other provisions or applications
of the Agreement which can be given effect without the invalid provisions or
applications and to this end the provisions of this Agreement are declared to be
severable.

            30. This Agreement shall be deemed to have been executed and
delivered within the State of California, and the rights and obligations of the
parties hereunder shall be construed and enforced in accordance with, and
governed by, the laws of the State of California without regard to principles of
conflict of laws.

            31. Each party has cooperated in the drafting and preparation of
this Agreement. Hence, in any construction to be made of this Agreement, the
same shall not be construed against any party on the basis that the party was
the drafter.

            32. This Agreement may be executed in counterparts, and each
counterpart, when executed, shall have the efficacy of a signed original.
Photographic copies of such signed counterparts may be used in lieu of the
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            33. Any dispute arising out of or relating to this Agreement or
Phanstiel's employment by ARV shall be submitted to arbitration in Orange
County, California, before a sole arbitrator (the "Arbitrator") selected from
the American Arbitration Association ("AAA"), and shall be conducted in
accordance with the AAA's Labor Arbitration Rules (including the Expedited Labor
Arbitration Procedures) and the provisions of California Code of Civil Procedure
Section 1280 et seq. as the exclusive remedy of such dispute; provided, however,
that provisional injunctive relief may, but need not, be sought in a court of
law while arbitration proceedings are pending, and any provisional injunctive
relief granted by such court shall remain effective until the matter is finally
determined by the Arbitrator. Final resolution of any dispute through
arbitration may include any remedy or relief which the Arbitrator deems just and
equitable, including permanent injunctive relief or specific performance or
both, and the Arbitrator is hereby empowered to award such relief. Any award or
relief granted by the Arbitrator hereunder shall be final and binding on the
parties hereto and may be enforced by any court of competent jurisdiction.
Phanstiel, ARV, and Lazard understand and agree that they are hereby waiving any
rights to trial by jury in any action, proceeding or counterclaim brought by any
of the parties against another in connection with any matter whatsoever arising
out of or in any way connected with this Agreement.

            34. In the event of litigation or arbitration in connection with or
concerning the subject matter of this Agreement, the prevailing party shall be
entitled to recover all costs and expenses incurred by such party in connection
therewith, including reasonable attorneys' fees.

            35. No waiver of any breach of any term or provision of this
Agreement shall be construed to be, or shall be, a waiver of any other breach of
this Agreement. No waiver shall be binding unless in writing and signed by the
party waiving the breach.

            36. In entering this Agreement, the parties represent that they have
relied upon the advice of their attorneys, who are attorneys of their own
choice, and that the terms of this Agreement have been completely read and
explained to them by their attorneys, and that those terms are fully understood
and voluntarily accepted by them.

            37. ARV and Phanstiel shall each pay their own attorneys' fees
incurred with respect to Phanstiel's employment, the termination thereof, and
the negotiation, preparation, and execution of this Agreement. Neither Lazard
nor its affiliates shall be responsible for any such fees incurred by ARV or
Phanstiel.

            38. Each party acknowledges that each other party would not have an
adequate remedy at law for money damages in the event that this Agreement is not
performed in accordance with its terms, and therefore agrees that each other
party shall be entitled to specific enforcement of the terms hereof in addition
to any other remedy to which it may be entitled, at law or in equity.

            39. All parties agree to cooperate fully and to execute any and all
supplementary documents and to take all additional actions that may be necessary
or appropriate to give full force to the basic terms and intent of this
Agreement and which are not inconsistent with its terms.


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            I have read the foregoing Agreement and I accept and agree to the
provisions it contains and hereby execute it voluntarily with full understanding
of its consequences.

            I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the State of
California that the foregoing is true and correct.

            EXECUTED this 23rd day of March 1999, at Los Angeles County,
California.

                                     /s/ Howard G. Phanstiel
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                                         Howard G. Phanstiel

Approved as to form:

TROOP STEUBER PASICH REDDICK & TOBEY

By  /s/ Alisa M. Chevalier
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        Alisa M. Chevalier

Attorneys for Howard G. Phanstiel

            EXECUTED this 26th day of March 1999, at Orange County, California.

                                    ARV Assisted Living, Inc.

                                    By /s/ Douglas M. Pasquale
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                                       Its President
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Approved as to form:

O'MELVENY & MYERS LLP

By /s/ Larry A. Walraven
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       Larry A. Walraven

Attorneys for ARV Assisted Living, Inc.


            EXECUTED this _____ day of March 1999, at ________________ County,
________________.

                                    Lazard Freres Real Estate Investors L.L.C.,
                                    only with respect to Sections 2, 13-25, and
                                    27-39

                                    By /s/  Robert P. Freeman
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                                       Its  Principal
                                            ------------------------------------

Approved as to form:

QUINN, EMANUEL, URQUHART,
OLIVER & HEDGES, LLP

By /s/ John B. Quinn
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       John Corey  John B. Quinn

Attorneys for Lazard Freres 
Real Estate Investors L.L.C.


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                                   ENDORSEMENT

            I, Howard G. Phanstiel, hereby acknowledge that I was given 21 days
to consider the foregoing Agreement and voluntarily chose to sign the Agreement
prior to the expiration of the 21-day period.

            I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the State of
California that the foregoing is true and correct.

            EXECUTED this _23rd_ day of March 1999, at _Los Angeles_ County,
California.

                                       /s/ Howard G. Phanstiel
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                                           Howard G. Phanstiel


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