EXHIBIT 10.3
                    SECOND AMENDMENT TO AMENDED AND RESTATED
                     EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT OF JAMES A. STROUD

         This  second  amendment  (the  "Second  Amendment")  to the Amended and
      Restated Employment Agreement of James A. Stroud is entered into effective
      as of May 31, 1999, by and between Capital Senior Living  Corporation (the
      "Company") and James A. Stroud ("Employee").

         WHEREAS, the Company and Employee entered into the Amended and Restated
      Employment  Agreement  dated October 8, 1997, as amended on March 22, 1999
      (the "Employment Agreement"), and

         WHEREAS,  the  Company  and  Employee  desire to amend  the  Employment
      Agreement.

         NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the foregoing,  the mutual promises
      of the  parties  hereto and other  good and  valuable  consideration,  the
      receipt  and  sufficiency  of which are hereby  acknowledged,  the parties
      hereto agree as follows:

         1. The first and second  sentence of  Paragraph 4, shall be deleted and
      the following shall be added:

         CSL shall pay to  Employee a base  salary at an annual rate of not less
         than Two Hundred and Fifty Thousand  ($250,000.00)  per annum,  paid in
         approximately  equal installments no less frequently than semi-monthly.
         An annual bonus of  thirty-three  and  one-third  percent  (33-1/3%) of
         Employee's base salary shall be paid in quarterly installments, subject
         to  increase  by the  Compensation  Committee  and  subject  to meeting
         performance  standards that the Company's  reported  quarterly earnings
         per share is not less than the First Call consensus  earnings per share
         for that quarter.  The  Compensation  Committee will use its reasonable
         discretion to determine the amount of the quarterly bonus to be paid if
         the reported quarterly earnings per share are lower than the First Call
         consensus earnings per share.

         2. The last  sentence of Paragraph 5 shall be deleted and the following
      added:  "The  number of shares and  approximate  vesting  schedule of such
      options  shall be at least as favorable to Employee as those  contained in
      options granted to any other officer of the Company and its subsidiaries.

         3. The phrase "annual minimum bonus" in Paragraph 6(C), "minimum annual
      bonus" in Paragraph 7(A)(i), and "minimum base bonus" in Paragraph 7(B)(i)
      shall be deleted  and the  following  shall be added:  "annual  bonus paid
      during the term of this Agreement in the past twelve (12) months."

         4. In Paragraph 7(D)(i),  the last word ", and" shall be deleted and be
      replaced with a period. In addition,  Paragraph  7(D)i(B) shall be amended
      to form a new paragraph as follows:

                  a) The  parenthetical  "(i)(B)"  shall be deleted  and the new
      parenthetical "(ii)" shall be added at the beginning of the paragraph.









                  b) The parenthetical  "(D)(i)(B)" shall be deleted and the new
      parenthetical  "(D)(ii)"  shall  be  added  in the  last  sentence  of the
      paragraph.

                  c) The last sentence starting with "The Company shall..."
      shall be deleted.

                  The  remaining  parentheticals  "(ii)  through  (v)"  shall be
      deleted and the new parentheticals "(iii) through (vi)" shall be added. In
      new paragraph 7(D)(iii), the parenthetical "7(D)i(B)" shall be deleted and
      the new parenthetical "7(D)(ii)" shall be added.

                  In new Paragraph 7(D)(vi), the phrase ", family partnership or
      other family entity" shall be added after the word "trust".

         5. The phrase  "Paragraphs  7, 8, 9, and 10" in the second  sentence of
      Paragraph  14  shall  be  deleted  and  the  following   shall  be  added,
      "Paragraphs 7, 8, 9, 10, and 17".

         6. A new paragraph 17 shall be added:

                  17.  INDEMNIFICATION BY COMPANY.  The Company shall and hereby
                  does indemnify  Employee to the extent and in accordance  with
                  the terms of Attachment I to this Agreement.

         7. Except as expressly provided herein, all of the terms and provisions
      of the  Employment  Agreement  shall  remain in full  force and effect and
      unchanged.  All  capitalized  terms used  herein  which are not  otherwise
      defined  herein  shall  have the  meaning  ascribed  to such  terms in the
      Employment Agreement.

         IN WITNESS WHEREOF, this Second Amendment has been duly executed on the
      28th day of May, 1999.

                                            COMPANY:
                                            CAPITAL SENIOR LIVING CORPORATION


                                            By:  /s/ David R. Brickman
                                                 -------------------------------

                                            EMPLOYEE:

                                            By:  /s/ James A. Stroud
                                                 -------------------------------
                                                     James A. Stroud








                                                                    ATTACHMENT I
                                    INDEMNITY


         1. CAPITAL SENIOR LIVING CORPORATION (the "Corporation") will indemnify
      JAMES A. STROUD ("Indemnitee") in accordance with the following terms.

         2.       DEFINITIONS.  As used in this Indemnity:

                  (a)  The  term  "Proceeding"  shall  include  any  threatened,
      pending or completed  investigation,  claim,  action,  suit or proceeding,
      whether  of a civil,  criminal,  administrative  or  investigative  nature
      (including without limitation any action,  suit or proceeding by or in the
      right of the  Corporation  or Other  Entity to procure a  judgment  in its
      favor),  in which  Indemnitee may be or may have been or may be threatened
      to be  made  or to  become  involved  in  any  manner  (including  without
      limitation as a party or a witness) by reason of the fact that  Indemnitee
      has advised the Corporation (as an officer,  director or consultant of the
      Corporation)  with respect to any matter, is alleged to have advised Other
      Entities with respect to any matter in which the  Corporation was involved
      or related or by reason of anything actually or allegedly done or not done
      by Indemnitee in any of such capacities,  and whether such advice,  action
      or inaction  occurred in the past or occurs after the date  hereof.  It is
      expressly agreed that "Proceeding" shall include any claim,  action,  suit
      or  proceeding  arising  out of or related to the  Corporation's  business
      relationships  with and proposed mergers with ILM Senior Living,  Inc. and
      ILM II Senior  Living,  Inc., in connection  with which the  Corporation's
      Board  of  Directors  in   considering   this   Agreement  has  determined
      Indemnitee's  actions  and  advice  were in  good  faith  and in the  best
      interests  of  the   Corporation.   It  is  also  expressly   agreed  that
      "Proceeding" shall include any claim,  action,  suit or proceeding arising
      out  of  allegations   that   Indemnitee's   affiliates  have  engaged  in
      transactions  with the Corporation in which  Indemnitee had a financial or
      conflicting interest.

                  (b)  The  term  "Expenses"   includes,   without   limitation,
      reasonable  attorneys'  fees and  disbursements  and all other  reasonable
      costs,  expenses  and  obligations  actually  and  reasonably  incurred by
      Indemnitee  in  connection  with  (i)  investigating,  defending,  being a
      witness in or otherwise  participating  in, or  preparing to defend,  be a
      witness in or participate in, any Proceeding, or (ii) establishing a right
      to  indemnification  under  Paragraph 6 of this  Indemnity,  but shall not
      include  the  amount  of any  judgments,  fines or  penalties  entered  or
      assessed  against  Indemnitee or any amounts paid or payable in settlement
      by Indemnitee.

                  (c) The term "Other Entity" includes,  without limitation, any
      subsidiary  or  affiliate  of the  Corporation  and any entity  with which
      Indemnitee has served or is serving as an officer or director or otherwise
      in the general  interest of the  Corporation's  business.  It is expressly
      agreed that  Indemnitee's  (i) service  with  Capital  Realty Group Senior
      Housing,  Inc.,  a  Texas  corporation,  and  with  its  subsidiaries  and
      partnerships in which it is a general  partner,  (ii) service with Capital
      Senior Living Communities,  LP, and its general partner, Retirement Living
      Communities,  L.P. and (iii) service with Tri-Point Communities, L.P. were
      all undertaken by the Indemnitee for the benefit of the  Corporation,  and
      all such  entities  and their  affiliates  are  hereby  agreed to be Other
      Entities within the meaning of this definition.








         3. SCOPE OF INDEMNIFICATION.  Subject to Paragraph 7 of this Indemnity,
      the  Corporation  shall  indemnify   Indemnitee  in  accordance  with  the
      provisions of this Paragraph 3 if Indemnitee is or was or is threatened to
      be made or to become involved in any manner,  including without limitation
      as a party or witness, in any Proceeding  (including a Proceeding by or in
      the right of the  Corporation or Other Entity to procure a judgment in its
      favor) against any and all Expenses and any and all  judgments,  fines and
      penalties entered or assessed against Indemnitee,  and any and all amounts
      reasonably paid or payable in settlement by Indemnitee, in connection with
      such  Proceeding,  but only if  Indemnitee  acted in good  faith  and in a
      manner  Indemnitee  reasonably  believed  to be in or not  opposed  to the
      Corporation's best interests and without gross negligence.  THIS INDEMNITY
      EXPRESSLY   INDEMNIFIES   INDEMNITEE  AGAINST  HIS  OWN  NEGLIGENCE.   The
      termination of any Proceeding by judgment,  order of court,  settlement or
      conviction,  or upon a plea of nolo  contendere or its  equivalent,  shall
      not, of itself, create a presumption for purposes of any provision of this
      Indemnity  that  Indemnitee  did  not act in good  faith  and in a  manner
      Indemnitee   reasonably   believed   to  be  in  or  not  opposed  to  the
      Corporation's best interests, or with gross negligence.

         4.   INDEMNIFICATION  OF  EXPENSES  OF  SUCCESSFUL  PARTY;  NO  ADVERSE
      PRESUMPTION.  Notwithstanding  any other provisions of this Indemnity,  to
      the extent that Indemnitee has been successful on the merits or otherwise,
      in defense of any  Proceeding or in defense of any claim,  issue or matter
      therein,   including  the  dismissal  of  an  action  without   prejudice,
      Indemnitee  shall  be  indemnified   against  all  Expenses   incurred  in
      connection therewith.

         5. ADVANCES OF EXPENSES.  The Expenses incurred by Indemnitee  pursuant
      to  Paragraph  3 in any  Proceeding  shall be paid by the  Corporation  in
      advance,   promptly  upon  the  written  request  of  the  Indemnitee,  if
      Indemnitee  shall  undertake to repay such amount to the extent that it is
      ultimately  determined that Indemnitee is not entitled to indemnification.
      No security for the performance of any such undertaking  shall be required
      and any such  undertaking  shall be  accepted by the  Corporation  without
      regard to the financial  capacity of Indemnitee to perform his obligations
      thereunder.

         6. RIGHT OF INDEMNITEE TO INDEMNIFICATION  UPON APPLICATION:  PROCEDURE
      UPON  APPLICATION.  Without  limiting the obligation of the Corporation to
      promptly make payments in respect of Expenses in accordance with Paragraph
      5, any  indemnification  under  Paragraph 3 shall be made no later than 45
      days  after  receipt  by  the   Corporation  of  the  written  request  of
      Indemnitee,  unless a  determination  is made within said 45-day period by
      (1) the Board of  Directors  of the  Corporation  by a majority  vote of a
      quorum  consisting  of  Directors  who are not and were not parties to the
      relevant Proceeding, or (2) independent legal counsel in a written opinion
      (which counsel shall be appointed if such a quorum is not obtainable) that
      the Indemnitee has not met the relevant standards for  indemnification set
      forth in Paragraph 3.

         The right to  indemnification or advances as provided by this Indemnity
      shall be enforceable by Indemnitee in any court of competent jurisdiction.
      The burden of proving that  indemnification is not appropriate shall be on
      the Corporation.  Indemnitee's  Expenses reasonably incurred in connection
      with  successfully  establishing his or her right to  indemnification,  in
      whole or in part, in any such proceeding  shall also be indemnified by the
      Corporation.









         7.   INDEMNIFICATION   HEREUNDER  NOT  EXCLUSIVE;   CONSTRUCTION.   The
      indemnification  provided by this Indemnity shall not be deemed  exclusive
      of any other rights to which  Indemnitee may be entitled under the General
      Corporation  Law of the  State  of  Delaware,  the  Amended  and  Restated
      Certificate of Incorporation  and/or Bylaws of the Corporation,  any other
      indemnity,  any  vote  of  stockholders  or  disinterested  Directors,  or
      otherwise, either as to action in his official capacity on, prior or after
      the date  hereof or as to action in any other  capacity.  The  corporation
      hereby  agrees  and  acknowledges  that  it will  continue  to  honor  its
      indemnification  obligations  to  Indemnitee  set forth in its Amended and
      Restated  Certificate of  Incorporation  and/or Bylaws with respect to any
      existing or future lawsuit  against the  Corporation and any other actions
      pursuant to which Indemnitee would be entitled to indemnification.

         8. PARTIAL  INDEMNIFICATION.  In the event that  Indemnitee is entitled
      under  any  provision  of  this  Indemnity  to   indemnification   by  the
      Corporation for a portion but less than the entire amount of any Expenses,
      judgments,  fines, penalties and/or amounts paid or payable in settlement,
      the Corporation  shall fully  indemnify  Indemnitee in accordance with the
      applicable provisions of this Indemnity for such portion of such Expenses,
      judgments, fines, penalties and/or amounts paid in settlement.

         9.  SUBROGATION.  In  the  event  that  the  Corporation  provides  any
      indemnification  or makes any  payment  to  Indemnitee  in  respect of any
      matter in respect of which  indemnification or the advancement of expenses
      is provided for herein,  the Corporation shall be subrogated to the extent
      of such  indemnification  or other payment to all of the related rights of
      recovery of Indemnitee against other persons or entities. Indemnitee shall
      execute all papers reasonably required and shall do everything that may be
      reasonably  necessary  to secure  such  rights and enable the  Corporation
      effectively to bring suit to enforce such rights (with all of Indemnitee's
      reasonable   costs   and   expenses,   including   attorneys'   fees   and
      disbursements,  to be  reimbursed  by or,  at the  option  of  Indemnitee,
      advanced by the Corporation).

         10. NO DUPLICATION OF PAYMENTS.  The Corporation shall not be obligated
      under this Indemnity to provide any indemnification or make any payment to
      which Indemnitee is otherwise  entitled  hereunder to the extent, but only
      to the extent,  that such  indemnification  or payment  hereunder would be
      duplicative of any amount actually received by Indemnitee  pursuant to any
      insurance  policy,  the General  Corporation Law of the State of Delaware,
      the Amended and Restated Certificate of Incorporation and/or the Bylaws of
      the Corporation or otherwise.  With respect to the Corporation's indemnity
      obligations  concerning  Other  Entities,  the  Corporation  shall have no
      obligation  hereunder  until and unless  Indemnitee  has first  sought all
      available insurance coverage benefitting such Other Entities and indemnity
      available  from  such  Other  Entities  and such  insurance  coverage  and
      indemnity has been exhausted or has been denied.

         11.  SAVING  CLAUSE.   If  any  provision  of  this  Indemnity  or  the
      application of any provision  hereof to any  circumstance is held illegal,
      invalid or otherwise  unenforceable,  the remainder of this  Indemnity and
      the application of such provision to any other  circumstance  shall not be
      affected,  and the  provision so held to be illegal,  invalid or otherwise
      unenforceable  shall be  reformed  to the extent  (but only to the extent)
      necessary to make it legal, valid and enforceable.









         12. NOTICE.  Indemnitee shall give to the Corporation notice in writing
      as soon as  practicable  of any claim  made  against  him or her for which
      indemnification  will or could be sought under this  Indemnity,  provided,
      however,  that any  failure to give such  notice to the  Corporation  will
      relieve the Corporation from its obligations hereunder only if, and to the
      extent that, such failure results in the forfeiture of substantial  rights
      and  defenses.  Notice  to  the  Corporation  shall  be  directed  to  the
      Corporation (to the attention of the Chief Executive Officer,  with a copy
      to the General  Counsel) at its principal  executive  office or such other
      address as the  Corporation  shall  designate  in  writing to  Indemnitee.
      Notice  shall be deemed  received  when hand  delivered or  dispatched  by
      electronic facsimile transmission (with receipt thereof orally confirmed),
      or  three  calendar  days  after  having  been  mailed  by  United  States
      registered or certified mail, return receipt  requested,  postage prepaid,
      or one  business  day after  having been sent for  next-day  delivery by a
      nationally  recognized  overnight courier.  In addition,  Indemnitee shall
      give the Corporation such information and cooperation as it may reasonably
      require and shall be within Indemnitee's power. The Corporation shall give
      prompt notice to Indemnitee of any potential claims against  Indemnitee of
      which the Corporation becomes aware.

         13.  APPLICABLE  LAW. This Indemnity shall be governed by and construed
      in  accordance  with the laws of the  State of  Delaware,  without  giving
      effect to the principles of conflicts of law thereof.

         14.  SUCCESSORS.  This Indemnity  shall be binding upon the Corporation
      and its  successors,  including  without  limitation any person  acquiring
      directly or indirectly all or substantially  all of the business or assets
      of  the   Corporation   whether  by   purchase,   merger,   consolidation,
      reorganization  or otherwise (and such successor will thereafter be deemed
      the "Corporation" for purposes of this Indemnity),  but will not otherwise
      be  assignable,   transferable  or  delegable  by  the  Corporation.   The
      Corporation  shall require any successor  (whether direct or indirect,  by
      purchase,  merger,  consolidation,  reorganization or otherwise) to all or
      substantially all of the business or assets of the Corporation,  to assume
      and agree in writing to perform this Indemnity,  expressly for the benefit
      of Indemnitee,  in the same manner and to the same extent the  Corporation
      would be required to perform if no such succession had taken place.

      Dated:  May 28, 1999                         CAPITAL SENIOR LIVING
                                                   CORPORATION

                                                   By:     /s/ David R. Brickman
                                                           ---------------------
                                                   Title: Vice President