EXHIBIT 10(xii)

                          INVESTORS TITLE COMPANY

               AMENDMENT TO INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT
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         THIS AMENDMENT,  dated as of the _____________,  to the Incentive Stock
Option  Agreement dated as of the  ___________________(the  "Option  Agreement")
between Investors Title Company,  a North Carolina  corporation (the "Company"),
and (the "Optionee") an officer of the Company or one of its  subsidiaries  (the
Optionee's employer is hereinafter referred to as "Employer").

                         W I T N E S S E T H :

         WHEREAS,  the Company  recognizes  the value to it and  Employer of the
services of the Optionee and is desirous of furnishing him with added  incentive
and inducement to contribute to the success of the Company and its subsidiaries;
and

         WHEREAS,  the Board of Directors has adopted,  and the  shareholders of
the Company have approved,  the 1997 Stock Option and Restricted Stock Plan (the
"Plan"); and

         WHEREAS,  pursuant to the Option  Agreement  and under the terms of the
Plan, the Company granted the Optionee a stock option (the "Option") to purchase
up to ____ shares of the Company's common stock at the price of______, and

         WHEREAS,  under the Plan,  the  Committee  has sole  authority to grant
options,  accelerate the time at which options may be exercised and to amend the
terms of any stock options granted under the Plan;

         NOW,   THEREFORE,   in   consideration   of  the  mutual  promises  and
representations  contained herein and other good and valuable consideration,  it
is agreed by and between the parties as follows:

     1. The  Option  Agreement  is hereby  amended  by  deleting  clause  (d) of
paragraph 5 thereof and renumbering clause (e) as new clause (d).

     2. The Option Agreement is hereby amended by deleting  paragraph 10 thereof
in its entirety and  inserting in lieu thereof a new paragraph 10 to read in its
entirety as follows:

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     "10. Immediate Vesting of Option. The Option granted hereunder shall become
immediately  exercisable  as to all shares upon the occurrence of any one of the
following events:

     (a)  Upon the  termination  of the  Optionee's  employment  by the  Company
     following  a "change of  control"  as  hereinafter  defined  other than for
     "cause" as hereinafter defined, or

     (b)  Upon the  Optionee's  terminating  his  employment  with  the  Company
     following  a  "change  of  control,"  as  hereinafter  defined,   upon  the
     occurrence  of  the  following  events  (a  "Triggering  Event"):  (i)  his
     authority and/or  responsibility  are  substantially  reduced,  without his
     consent,  below that in effect as of the date hereof,  (ii) the Optionee is
     required to change his residence or principal place of business from Chapel
     Hill, North Carolina,  or (iii) the travel obligations of the Optionee are,
     without his consent,  increased  materially above those in effect as of the
     date hereof.

         For purposes of this paragraph 10, "cause" shall mean  termination  due
to (i)  continued  willful  or gross  neglect  of duties  for 30 days  following
receipt by the  Optionee  of one or more  written  warnings  from his  immediate
supervisor specifying in detail the duties neglected, (ii) continued intentional
refusal to perform the duties for which  employed 30 days  following  receipt by
the  Optionee of one or more  written  warnings  from his  immediate  supervisor
specifying  in detail the  Optionee's  misconduct,  (iii) fraud or  embezzlement
committed against the Company, or (iv) the Optionee's conviction for a felony.

         For  purposes  of this  paragraph  10, a "change of  control"  shall be
deemed to have occurred upon the occurrence of any of the following events:

          (i) Any "person" (as such term is used in Sections  13(d) and 14(d)(2)
          of the  Securities  Exchange Act of 1934,  as amended  (the  "Exchange
          Act") but  excluding  any employee  benefit plan of the Company) is or
          becomes  the  "beneficial  owner" (as  defined in Rule 13d-3 under the
          Exchange Act),  directly or  indirectly,  of securities of the Company
          representing 50% or more of the combined voting power of the Company's
          outstanding securities then entitled ordinarily (and apart from rights
          accruing  under  special  circumstances)  to vote for the  election of
          directors; or
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          (ii)  Individuals  who  are  "Continuing  Directors,"  as  hereinafter
          defined, cease for any reason to constitute at least a majority of the
          Board of Directors; or

          (iii)  The  Board  of  Directors  shall  approve  a  sale  of  all  or
          substantially all of the assets of the Company; or

          (iv)  Any  merger,  consolidation,  or like  business  combination  or
          reorganization  of the  Company  is  consummated  that  results in the
          occurrence of any event described in clause (i) or (ii) above.

        For purposes of the foregoing, "Continuing Directors" shall mean (i) the
directors of the Company in office on the date hereof and (ii) any  successor to
any such  director (and any  additional  director) who after the date hereof (y)
was nominated or selected by a majority of the Continuing Directors in office at
the time of his  nomination  or selection and (z) who is not an  "affiliate"  or
"associate"  (as defined in Regulation 12B under the Exchange Act) of any person
who is the beneficial owner, directly or indirectly,  of securities representing
50% or more of the combined voting power of the Company's outstanding securities
then entitled ordinarily to vote for the election of directors.

     3. Except as expressly  provided herein,  the terms of the Option Agreement
shall continue to be effective as provided in the Option Agreement.

     4. This  Amendment  shall be binding  upon and inure to the  benefit of the
Optionee, his personal representatives, heirs and legatees.

        IN WITNESS  WHEREOF,  this Amendment shall become  effective on the date
first written above.

                                                     INVESTORS TITLE COMPANY

                                                     By:
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ATTEST:

____________________
Assistant Secretary
(Corporate Seal)
                                                     _________________________
                                                     Optionee



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