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                                DS BANCOR, INC.
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                                DS BANCOR, INC.
                              33 ELIZABETH STREET
                            DERBY, CONNECTICUT 06418

                                                                  March 30, 1994
Dear Shareholder:

    You  are cordially invited to attend the 1994 annual meeting of shareholders
(the "Annual Meeting")  of DS  Bancor, Inc. (the  "Corporation") to  be held  on
Wednesday,  April 27, 1994, at 10:00 a.m., local time, at the Trumbull Marriott,
180 Hawley Lane, Trumbull, Connecticut.

    The Annual Meeting has been called for the following purposes: (1) to  elect
three directors for terms of three years each; (2) to consider and vote upon the
Corporation's  1994  stock option  plan; (3)  to ratify  the appointment  by the
Corporation's board of directors of the firm of Friedberg, Smith & Co., P.C.  as
independent  public accountants of the Corporation  for the year ending December
31, 1994; and (4) to  transact such other business  as may properly come  before
the Annual Meeting or any adjournments thereof.

    It  is  important that  your shares  be represented  at the  Annual Meeting.
Whether or not  you plan  to attend  the Annual  Meeting, you  are requested  to
complete, date, sign and return the enclosed proxy card in the enclosed envelope
for which postage has been paid.

                                          Very truly yours,

                                          HARRY P. DIADAMO, JR.
                                          PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER

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                                DS BANCOR, INC.
                              33 ELIZABETH STREET
                            DERBY, CONNECTICUT 06418

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                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS
                           TO BE HELD APRIL 27, 1994

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    NOTICE  IS HEREBY  GIVEN that the  1994 annual meeting  of shareholders (the
"Annual Meeting") of  DS Bancor, Inc.  (the "Corporation") will  be held at  the
Trumbull  Marriott, 180 Hawley Lane,  Trumbull, Connecticut, on Wednesday, April
27, 1994, at 10:00 a.m., local time, for the following purposes:

       1. To elect three directors for terms of three years each (Proposal 1);

       2. To approve the Company's 1994 stock option plan (Proposal 2);

       3. To ratify the appointment by  the Corporation's board of directors  of
    the  firm of Friedberg, Smith &  Co., P.C. as independent public accountants
    of the Corporation for the year ending December 31, 1994 (Proposal 3); and

       4. To transact such other business as may properly come before the Annual
    Meeting or any adjournments thereof.

    Pursuant to  the  Corporation's  bylaws,  the  board  of  directors  of  the
Corporation has fixed the close of business on March 18, 1994 as the record date
for  the determination of shareholders entitled to  notice of and to vote at the
Annual Meeting. Only record holders of Corporation common stock at the close  of
business  on that  date are  entitled to  notice of  and to  vote at  the Annual
Meeting or any adjournments thereof.

    In the event that there are not sufficient votes to approve any one or  more
of the foregoing proposals at the time of the Annual Meeting, the Annual Meeting
may be adjourned in order to permit further solicitation by the Corporation.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors

                                          HARRY P. DIADAMO, JR.
                                          PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER

Derby, Connecticut
March 30, 1994

    IT IS IMPORTANT THAT PROXIES BE RETURNED PROMPTLY. THEREFORE, WHETHER OR NOT
YOU  PLAN TO BE PRESENT  IN PERSON AT THE ANNUAL  MEETING, PLEASE SIGN, DATE AND
COMPLETE THE  ENCLOSED  PROXY AND  RETURN  IT  IN THE  ENCLOSED  ENVELOPE  WHICH
REQUIRES NO POSTAGE IF MAILED IN THE UNITED STATES.

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                                DS BANCOR, INC.
                              33 ELIZABETH STREET
                            DERBY, CONNECTICUT 06418
                                 (203) 736-9921

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                                PROXY STATEMENT

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF SHAREHOLDERS
                                 APRIL 27, 1994

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                SOLICITATION, VOTING AND REVOCABILITY OF PROXIES

    This  proxy  statement  is  furnished to  shareholders  of  DS  Bancor, Inc.
("Bancor" or the "Corporation") in connection with the solicitation by the board
of directors of Bancor of proxies for use at the annual meeting of  shareholders
(the  "Annual Meeting") to be held on  Wednesday, April 27, 1994, at 10:00 a.m.,
local time, at the  Trumbull Marriott, 180  Hawley Lane, Trumbull,  Connecticut,
and at any adjournments thereof.

    If the enclosed form of proxy is properly executed and returned to Bancor in
time  to be voted at the Annual  Meeting, the shares represented thereby will be
voted in accordance with the instructions marked thereon. EXECUTED BUT  UNMARKED
PROXIES  WILL BE  VOTED (1) FOR  PROPOSAL 1 TO  ELECT THE THREE  NOMINEES OF THE
BOARD OF DIRECTORS AS  DIRECTORS OF BANCOR;  (2) FOR PROPOSAL  2 TO APPROVE  THE
COMPANY'S  1994  STOCK  OPTION  PLAN;  AND (3)  FOR  PROPOSAL  3  TO  RATIFY THE
APPOINTMENT OF FRIEDBERG, SMITH & CO., P.C. AS INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS OF
THE CORPORATION FOR THE  YEAR ENDING DECEMBER 31,  1994. The Corporation is  not
aware  of any  other matters  that are  proposed to  be presented  at the Annual
Meeting. However, if further business  is properly presented, the persons  named
in  the accompanying proxy will  vote such proxy as  determined by a majority of
the board of directors.

    The presence of a shareholder at  the Annual Meeting will not  automatically
revoke the shareholder's proxy. Shareholders may, however, revoke a proxy at any
time  prior to its exercise  by filing with the  Secretary of the Corporation or
the presiding officer at the Annual  Meeting a written notice of revocation,  by
delivering  to the Secretary of the Corporation  or the presiding officer at the
Annual Meeting a duly executed  proxy bearing a later  date or by attending  the
Annual Meeting and voting in person.

    The cost of soliciting proxies will be borne by the Corporation. In addition
to  use of  the mails, proxies  may be  solicited personally or  by telephone or
telegraph by  officers, directors  and  employees of  the Corporation  or  Derby
Savings  Bank  (the  "Bank"  or  "Derby  Savings")  who  will  not  be specially
compensated for such  solicitation activities.  Arrangements will  also be  made
with  brokerage  houses  and  other  custodians,  nominees  and  fiduciaries for
forwarding solicitation materials  to the  beneficial owners of  shares held  of
record  by such  persons, and  the Corporation  will reimburse  such persons for
their reasonable expenses incurred in that connection. The Corporation has  also
retained  Kissell-Blake  Inc.,  a  proxy  soliciting  firm,  to  assist  in  the
solicitation of proxies at a fee  of $4,000 plus reimbursement of  out-of-pocket
expenses.  This  Proxy  Statement, together  with  the enclosed  proxy  card, is
initially being mailed to shareholders on or about March 30, 1994.

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    The securities which can be voted at the Annual Meeting consist of shares of
common stock, par value  $1.00 per share, of  Bancor, with each share  entitling
its holder to one vote on all matters, without any right to cumulative voting in
the  election of  directors. The close  of business  on March 18,  1994 has been
fixed by  the  board  of directors  as  the  record date  for  determination  of
shareholders  entitled to notice of, and to  vote at, the Annual Meeting. On the
record date,  2,651,616  shares of  Bancor  common stock  were  outstanding  and
eligible to be voted at the Annual Meeting.

    The  presence, in  person or by  proxy, of  at least one-third  of the total
number of  outstanding  shares  of  Bancor common  stock  entitled  to  vote  is
necessary to constitute a quorum at the Annual Meeting. Assuming the presence of
a  quorum at the Annual Meeting, directors will be elected by a plurality of the
votes of the shares of Bancor common  stock present in person or represented  by
proxy  and entitled to vote, the affirmative  votes of the holders of a majority
of the  shares present,  or represented,  and  entitled to  vote at  the  Annual
Meeting  is required to approve the 1994  stock option plan, and the affirmative
vote of a majority of  the votes cast is required  to ratify the appointment  of
the  Corporation's independent  public accountants. Shareholders'  votes will be
tabulated by  the  persons  appointed  by  the board  of  directors  to  act  as
inspectors  of election for the Annual Meeting. Abstentions and broker non-votes
will be treated as shares that are present, or represented, and entitled to vote
for purposes of  determining the  presence of a  quorum at  the Annual  Meeting.
Broker  non-votes will not be counted as a  vote cast or entitled to vote on any
matter presented  at the  Annual Meeting.  Abstentions will  not be  counted  in
determining  the number of votes cast in connection with the ratification of the
appointment of independent  public accountants. However,  abstentions will  have
the  same effect as a negative vote on Proposal 2 because approval by a majority
of the  shares represented  in person  or by  proxy at  the Annual  Meeting  and
entitled to vote is required for approval of Proposal 2.

    A  copy of the annual report to shareholders for the year ended December 31,
1993 accompanies this proxy  statement. THE CORPORATION IS  REQUIRED TO FILE  AN
ANNUAL  REPORT ON FORM 10-K FOR ITS FISCAL YEAR ENDED DECEMBER 31, 1993 WITH THE
SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION. SHAREHOLDERS  MAY OBTAIN, FREE OF CHARGE,  A
COPY  OF SUCH ANNUAL  REPORT ON FORM  10-K (WITHOUT EXHIBITS)  BY WRITING TO MR.
JOHN F.  COSTIGAN, DS  BANCOR,  INC., 33  ELIZABETH STREET,  DERBY,  CONNECTICUT
06418.

                           STOCK OWNED BY MANAGEMENT

    The following table sets forth information as of March 18, 1994 with respect
to  the amount of Bancor's  common stock beneficially owned  by each director of
Bancor, Bancor's Chief Executive Officer  and the other most highly  compensated
executive  officers of Bancor and by all the directors and executive officers of
Bancor as a group.



NAME AND POSITIONS                          AMOUNT AND NATURE OF      PERCENT OF STOCK
WITH THE CORPORATION                      BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP (A)      OUTSTANDING
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Achille A. Apicella (b).................             7,225                   *
Director
Walter R. Archer, Jr. (b)...............            34,049                   1.28%
Director
John J. Brennan (b)(c)..................             4,626                   *
Director
John F. Costigan (d)....................            49,755                   1.85
Director, Executive Vice
 President and Secretary
Michael F. Daddona, Jr. (e).............           318,439                  12.01
Chairman of the Board
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr. (f)...............            94,206                   3.45
Director, President and Chief
 Executive Officer


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NAME AND POSITIONS                          AMOUNT AND NATURE OF      PERCENT OF STOCK
WITH THE CORPORATION                      BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP (A)      OUTSTANDING
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Angelo E. Dirienzo (g)..................             2,805                   *
Director
Laura J. Donahue (b)....................             8,732                   *
Director
Christopher H.B. Mills (h)..............           106,507                   4.01
Director
John M. Rak (i).........................             3,074                   *
Director
John P. Sponheimer (j)..................            49,495                   1.87
Director
Alfred T. Santoro.......................            43,527                   1.62
Vice President and Chief
 Financial Officer (k)
Thomas H. Wells.........................            34,066                   1.27
Senior Vice President
 of Derby Savings Bank (l)
Directors and executive officers as a
group
 (13 persons)...........................           756,506                  26.52%
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 *   Less than one percent.
(a)  In accordance with Rule 13d-3 under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as
     amended, a person is deemed  to be the beneficial  owner of a security  for
     purposes  of the Rule if he or she has or shares voting power or investment
     power with  respect to  such security  or  has the  right to  acquire  such
     ownership  within 60 days  after March 18,  1994. All persons  shown in the
     table have sole voting and investment power except as otherwise  indicated.
     The  table  includes 201,477  shares of  Bancor's  common stock  subject to
     outstanding stock options which are exercisable by directors and  executive
     officers of Bancor within 60 days of March 18, 1994.
(b)  Includes  1,403 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
     may be exercised within 60 days of March 18, 1994.
(c)  Includes 3,011 shares owned by Brennan  Realty, a partnership of which  Mr.
     Brennan is a partner.
(d)  Includes 44,192 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
     may be exercised within 60 days of March 18, 1994. Also includes shares for
     which Mr. Costigan has shared voting and investment power as follows: 5,520
     shares with Virginia Costigan (wife).
(e)  Includes  1,880  shares  for  which  Mr.  Daddona  has  shared  voting  and
     investment power  with Sharon  Daddona (wife),  1,000 shares  with  Michael
     Daddona  (son), 1,000  shares with  Marielle Daddona  (daughter), and 1,000
     shares with Michaela Daddona (daughter).
(f)  Includes 79,384 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
     may be exercised within 60 days of March 18, 1994. Also includes shares for
     which Mr. DiAdamo has shared voting and investment power as follows:  7,683
     shares  with Maureen  E. DiAdamo (wife),  138 shares with  Harry E. DiAdamo
     (son), 358 shares with Kevin DiAdamo (son), and 402 shares with Christopher
     DiAdamo (son).
(g)  Includes 1,403  shares  for  which  Mr.  Dirienzo  has  shared  voting  and
     investment power with Claire S. Dirienzo (wife). Also includes 1,264 shares
     of  Bancor  common stock  subject to  stock options  that may  be exercised
     within 60 days of March 18, 1994.


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(h)  Includes 1,403 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options  that
     may be exercised within 60 days of March 18, 1994. See also footnote (b) to
     the Stock Owned By Principal Shareholders table set forth below.
(i)  Includes shares for which Mr. Rak has shared voting and investment power as
     follows:  2,714 shares  with Monica Rak  (wife), 147 shares  with Aaron Rak
     (son), 213 shares  with Michael  Rak (son), and  147 shares  with Adam  Rak
     (son).
(j)  Does  not  include 3,000  shares  owned by  Mary  Ann Sponheimer  (wife) as
     trustee for Brian  Sponheimer (son)  as to which  Mr. Sponheimer  disclaims
     beneficial  ownership. Also  includes 1,403  shares of  Bancor common stock
     subject to stock options that may be exercised within 60 days of March  18,
     1994.
(k)  Includes 39,063 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
     may  be exercised  within 60  days of March  18, 1994.  Also includes 1,169
     shares for which Mr.  Santoro has shared voting  and investment power  with
     Jane G. Santoro (wife).
(l)  Includes 29,156 shares of Bancor common stock subject to stock options that
     may be exercised within 60 days of March 18, 1994. Also includes 700 shares
     for  which Mr. Wells has shared voting and investment power with Phyllis H.
     Wells (wife). Does not include 749 shares  owned by Phyllis H. Wells as  to
     which Mr. Wells disclaims beneficial ownership.


                     STOCK OWNED BY PRINCIPAL SHAREHOLDERS

    The  following  table sets  forth information  with  respect to  the persons
believed by Bancor to be the beneficial owners of more than five percent of  the
issued and outstanding shares of Bancor's common stock, based on the most recent
filing with the Securities and Exchange Commission by each such person or entity
as  of March 18, 1994 or other information available to Bancor. All such persons
have reported sole voting and dispositive power over the entire number of shares
reported as beneficially owned by them, except as otherwise indicated.



                                               AMOUNT AND NATURE OF    PERCENT OF STOCK
NAME AND ADDRESS                               BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP      OUTSTANDING
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Michael F. Daddona, Jr. (a)..................         318,439                12.01%
156 Wild Rose Drive
Orange, CT 06477
Dimensional Fund Advisors, Inc...............         176,102                 6.64
1299 Ocean Avenue, 11th Floor
Santa Monica, CA 90401
J O Hambro & Company Limited (b).............         152,104                 5.74
30 Queen Anne's Gate
London SW1H 9AL England
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(a)  Includes 16,800  shares  for  which  Mr.  Daddona  has  shared  voting  and
     investment  power  with  Sharon  Daddona  (wife),  Michael  Daddona  (son),
     Marielle  Daddona  (daughter)  and  Michaela  Daddona  (daughter).  At  the
     Corporation's  1992 annual meeting, the Corporation's shareholders approved
     the acquisition  by Mr.  Daddona's  of up  to  24.9% of  the  Corporation's
     outstanding common stock through open market purchases. On May 8, 1992, the
     Federal  Reserve Bank of Boston approved such proposed acquisition, subject
     to the conditions that if the  transaction has not been consummated  within
     one  year from  such date,  or if the  terms and  conditions concerning the
     transaction should change,  the Federal  Reserve Bank of  Boston should  be
     consulted  to determine  whether any  additional action  or notification is
     required. On  June  8, 1992,  the  Connecticut State  Banking  Commissioner
     approved Mr. Daddona's proposed acquisition of such shares.
(b)  Bancor  has  been advised  by the  reporting person  that these  shares are
     beneficially owned as follows: (i) J  O Hambro & Partners Limited  ("Hambro
     Partners"),  Growth  Financial  Services Limited  ("GFSL"),  North Atlantic
     Smaller Companies  Investment  Trust  PLC  (formerly  Consolidated  Venture


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     Trust  plc)  ("NASCIT"),  Christopher  H.B. Mills,  J  O  Hambro Investment
     Management Limited ("Ham-
     bro Investment"), J O Hambro &  Company Limited ("Hambro Company") and J  O
     Hambro  Asset Management Limited ("Hambro  Asset") own or control, directly
     or indirectly, an aggregate of 145,859 shares or 5.74% of the Corporation's
     outstanding common  stock,  as follows:  (i)  Mr. Mills  beneficially  owns
     105,104  shares, which amount includes the  5,104 shares he personally owns
     and has  sole voting  and dispositive  power over  as well  as the  100,000
     shares  in respect  of which  he shares  voting and  dispositive power with
     Hambro Partners by virtue of his role as chief executive and  co-investment
     adviser  to NASCIT; (ii) NASCIT beneficially owns 100,000 shares and shares
     voting and  dispositive  power with  Mr.  Mills and  Hambro  Partners,  its
     co-investment advisers; (iii) GFSL shares voting and dispositive power with
     NASCIT  and Hambro  Partners with  respect to  the 100,000  shares owned by
     NASCIT because of its  agreement to provide to  NASCIT the services of  Mr.
     Mills;  (iv) Hambro  Partners, as  co-investment adviser  to NASCIT, shares
     voting and dispositive power with Mr. Mills and NASCIT with respect to  the
     100,000  shares owned by NASCIT; (v)  Hambro Investment controls voting and
     dispositive power with respect to 47,000 shares owned by a private  client;
     (v)  Hambro Asset, by virtue  of its control of  Hambro Partners and Hambro
     Investment, controls (in the case of the 47,000 shares controlled by Hambro
     Investment) and shares  control of (in  the case of  the remaining  100,000
     shares) the voting and dispositive power with respect to the 147,000 shares
     controlled  by  Hambro  Partners  and Hambro  Investment;  and  (vi) Hambro
     Company, by virtue  of its control  of Hambro Asset,  controls (or, as  the
     case  may  be, shares  control of)  the voting  and dispositive  power with
     respect to the 147,000 shares controlled  by Hambro Asset or in respect  of
     which Hambro Asset shares control.


                             ELECTION OF DIRECTORS
                                  (PROPOSAL 1)

    The  Corporation's certificate  of incorporation  provides for  a minimum of
nine directors and a maximum of 16.  The number of directors of the  Corporation
is   currently  set  at  11.  Pursuant   to  the  Corporation's  certificate  of
incorporation, the board of  directors is divided into  three classes, with  the
number  of directors in each class to be  as nearly equal in number as possible.
At the Annual Meeting, three directors will  be elected to terms of three  years
each.

    Unless  otherwise specified on the proxy, it is the intention of the persons
named in the proxy to vote the shares represented by each proxy for the election
as directors of the nominees listed below. The board of directors believes  that
such  nominees will stand for  election and will serve  if elected as directors.
If, however, any person nominated by the  board of directors fails to stand  for
election  or is  unable to accept  election, the  proxies will be  voted for the
election of  such  other  person  or  persons as  the  board  of  directors  may
recommend.  Assuming the presence  of a quorum at  the Annual Meeting, directors
will be elected by a plurality of the votes of the shares of Bancor common stock
present in person or  represented by proxy  and entitled to  vote at the  Annual
Meeting. There are no cumulative voting rights in the election of directors.

    There  are no arrangements or understandings between the Corporation and any
person pursuant  to  which  such person  has  been  nominated or  elected  as  a
director.

    INFORMATION  AS TO NOMINEES  AND CONTINUING DIRECTORS.   The following table
sets forth the names  of the three  nominees for election  as directors and  the
names of the eight other directors whose terms of office will continue after the
Annual  Meeting. Also set forth is certain  other information, some of which has
been supplied by  the directors, with  respect to each  nominee's or  director's
principal occupation or employment

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during  the past five years, his or her  age, the periods during which he or she
has served as a  director of the Corporation  and positions currently held  with
the  Corporation. All of the directors, except  Mr. Mills, serve as directors of
Derby Savings.



                                    AGE AT
                                 DECEMBER 31,    DIRECTOR    FOR TERM      POSITION(S) HELD
NAMES                                1993          SINCE     EXPIRING    WITH THE CORPORATION
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NOMINEES FOR 3-YEAR TERMS:
Michael F. Daddona, Jr........         40           1991        1997     Chairman of the Board
Christopher H.B. Mills........         41           1988        1997     Director
John P. Sponheimer............         46           1988        1997     Director


                                                               TERM
CONTINUING DIRECTORS:                                         EXPIRES
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Achille A. Apicella...........         50           1986        1995     Director
John J. Brennan...............         61           1986        1995     Director
John F. Costigan..............         63           1986        1995     Executive Vice
                                                                         President, Secretary
                                                                          and Director
Angelo E. Dirienzo............         63           1986        1995     Director
Walter R. Archer, Jr..........         63           1990        1996     Director
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr..........         50           1986        1996     President, Chief
                                                                         Executive Officer and
                                                                          Director
Laura J. Donahue..............         45           1986        1996     Director
John M. Rak...................         47           1986        1996     Director


    The principal occupations for the  past five years of  each of the Board  of
Directors'  three nominees and  the eight other directors  whose terms of office
will continue after the Annual Meeting are set forth below:

    MICHAEL F. DADDONA,  JR., a director  of the Corporation  and Derby  Savings
since  1991, became  Chairman of the  Board of  the Corporation and  the Bank in
November 1992. Mr. Daddona is the owner/general manager of Automated Services, a
vending machine and  food service  distribution company he  founded in  Milford,
Connecticut  in 1972.  He is  also the  managing partner  of M&M  Realty, a real
estate holding company. Mr. Daddona is  chairman of the Executive Committee  and
also  serves on the Stock Option Committee.  A member of the United Way Founders
Club, he  is also  a benefactor  of the  Toys for  Tots program,  and  Christian
Children's  Fund. Mr.  Daddona also  serves as  a corporator  of Hewitt Memorial
Hospital.

    CHRISTOPHER H.B. MILLS, who became a director of the Corporation in 1988, is
chief executive of North Atlantic Small Companies Trust PLC ("NASCIT"), a London
investment trust  company whose  investment manager  is J  O Hambro  &  Partners
Limited  ("Hambro Partners"). Mr.  Mills' services are  provided by an agreement
between NASCIT  and Growth  Financial  Services Limited,  also an  affiliate  of
Hambro  Partners. He is a member of the Stock Option Committee. Mr. Mills serves
as a director of 15  companies in the United Kingdom,  as well as the  following
companies   in  the   United  States:   American  Electronic   Components,  Inc.
(electronics),  American  Plastic   Technologies,  Inc.  (plastics),   Financial
Alliance  Processing  Services,  Inc.  (credit  card  processing  services), Oak
Industries, Inc. (electronics), W-H Holdings, Inc. (petrochemical, refinery  and
oil  industry services), Magic  Seasoning Blends, Inc.  (food preparations), and
Service Stations Inc. (petroleum industry).

    JOHN P.  SPONHEIMER, who  became a  director of  the Corporation  and  Derby
Savings  in 1988, has been a partner  in the Ansonia, Connecticut based law firm
of Hoyle & Sponheimer since 1978. He is Chairman of the Nominating Committee and
serves  on  the  Executive  Committee.  Mr.  Sponheimer  was  a  member  of  the
Connecticut  State Legislature from 1975  to 1981 and served  as the chairman of
the Banking Committee of the Connecticut General Assembly and as a member of the
Special Committee on  Interstate Banking of  the General Assembly  from 1980  to
1982.

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    ACHILLE A. APICELLA, a director of Derby Savings since 1983, is president of
the  certified  public accounting  firm  of Apicella,  Testa  & Company  P.C. in
Shelton, Connecticut. Mr. Apicella is chairman  of the Audit Committee. He is  a
director  and vice  chairman of  Hewitt Management  Corporation and  serves as a
trustee and vice  president of  Hewitt Memorial  Hospital and  as corporator  of
Valley  United Way and  Griffin Hospital. Mr.  Apicella is also  a member of the
Connecticut Society of  Certified Public Accountants  and American Institute  of
Certified Public Accountants.

    JOHN  J.  BRENNAN, a  director of  Derby  Savings since  1983, has  been the
president of  John J.  Brennan Construction  Co., Inc.  in Shelton,  Connecticut
since  1958. Mr. Brennan is a member of the Executive and Nominating Committees.
He also serves as a director of The Recreation Camp in Derby.

    JOHN F. COSTIGAN, Executive Vice President and Secretary of the  Corporation
and  the Bank, joined the staff of Derby Savings in 1961 and has been a director
of the  Bank since  1975. He  has  served in  various capacities  of  increasing
responsibility  and  since  October  1984 has  been  the  Bank's  Executive Vice
President and  Chief  Operating  Officer.  Mr.  Costigan  is  a  member  of  the
Nominating  Committee. Mr. Costigan is president of Friend A. Russ Fund, Inc. of
Shelton, an  educational and  charitable organization,  and secretary  and  past
chairman  of the Tele-media of  Western Connecticut Advisory Council. Tele-Media
is a cable television company located in Seymour, Connecticut. He serves on  the
finance  committee of Saint Mary  parish in Derby, and  is past trustee and past
vice chairman of Griffin Health Services  Corporation and past trustee and  past
chairman of Griffin Hospital, a community hospital located in Derby.

    ANGELO  E.  DIRIENZO, a  director of  Derby Savings  since 1979,  retired as
Superintendent of Schools in  Sherman, Connecticut in 1992,  a post he had  held
since  July 1987. He  had previously served as  School Superintendent in Oxford,
Connecticut, as well as in Derby. Dr. Dirienzo serves on the Audit Committee. He
is an Adjunct Professor  at Southern Connecticut  and Western Connecticut  State
Universities  and a Mediator for the  Connecticut State Department of Education.
He has  chaired the  Scholarship Committee  of the  New Haven  County  Sheriffs'
Association  since its inception  in 1972. A past  president of Griffin Hospital
and a corporator, he is also a director  of the Valley YMCA and a corporator  of
the Valley United Way, a member of the Connecticut Superintendents' Association,
the  American  Association of  College and  University Professors,  the American
Association of  School Administrators,  and  a life  member of  the  Connecticut
Association  of  Public School  Superintendents.  He chaired  the  annual giving
program of the  Olde Derby Historical  Society in 1993  and is on  the Board  of
Directors.

    WALTER  R. ARCHER,  JR., a  Director of Derby  Savings since  1988, became a
Director of the Corporation in 1990.  He serves on the Executive and  Nominating
Committees. Mr. Archer is founder of Burtville Associates, a real estate holding
company,  and founder and president of  Archer Landfill Service Company, both in
Derby. A corporator of  Hewitt Memorial Hospital, Mr.  Archer also serves as  an
executive  board member and  assistant treasurer of  the Housatonic Council, Boy
Scouts of America.

    HARRY P.  DIADAMO,  JR.,  President  and  Chief  Executive  Officer  of  the
Corporation  and the Bank, has  been a Director of  Derby Savings since 1980 and
served as Chairman  of the Board  from March 1984  to March 1985.  He is also  a
member  of  the  Executive  Committee of  the  Corporation.  Mr.  DiAdamo became
President, Treasurer and Chief  Executive Officer of the  Bank in October  1984.
Mr. DiAdamo is serving his second two-year term on the Board of the Federal Home
Loan  Bank of Boston  and is chairman of  its Audit Committee.  He serves on the
Mortgage Finance Committee of the Savings  and Community Bankers of America  and
on  the  Legislative Committee  of the  Connecticut  Bankers' Association,  as a
director of  the  New Haven  Symphony  Orchestra and  Griffin  Health  Services,
president  of the Shelton Educational Fund, past president of the board of Notre
Dame High School in West Haven, and past chairman of the United Way Campaign. He
also serves on the New Britain Downtown Council.

    LAURA J. DONAHUE, a director of  Derby Savings since 1979, has been  engaged
in the practice of law in Derby since 1973 and is presently a partner in the law
firm  of Donahue & Donahue. Ms. Donahue is  a member of the Audit and Nominating
Committees. She is a trustee of  Hewitt Memorial Hospital, a director of  Hewitt
Management   Corporation,  a  service  company  which  manages  long  term  care
facilities, a trustee and secretary of Friend A. Russ Fund, Inc., an educational
and charitable organization, and a director of Derby Neck Library. She is also a
member of the Advisory Board of the Katherine Matthies Foundation.

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    JOHN M. RAK, a director of Derby Savings since 1984, operates a real  estate
and  appraisal  company under  his  own name  in  Derby, Connecticut,  and  is a
consultant to  Insurance Management  Incorporated. Mr.  Rak is  chairman of  the
Stock  Option Committee and is  a member of the  Audit and Executive Committees.
Mr. Rak  serves  as  chairman  of  the  City  of  Derby's  Economic  Development
Commission, a director of Derby Neck Library and treasurer and past president of
Housatonic  Council,  Boy Scouts  of America,  and trustee  of Johnson  Trust of
Tulsa, OK, which benefits scouting programs in the Naugatuck Valley.

                   MANAGEMENT RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR APPROVAL
                     OF MANAGEMENT'S NOMINEES FOR DIRECTOR

    COMPENSATION OF DIRECTORS.  Non-management directors of Bancor receive  $400
for  each board of  directors meeting attended, $350  for each committee meeting
attended, $150 for each "mini-meeting" and, assuming attendance at not less than
three of the four regular meetings of  the board, a stipend of $4,000 per  annum
with  a  stipend of  $16,000 per  annum paid  to  the chairman  of the  board of
directors. Compensation to non-management directors of Derby Savings is  $12,000
per annum ($26,000 per annum for the chairman of the board), assuming attendance
at  not less than  nine of the 12  regular meetings of the  board, plus $400 for
each special meeting of the Bank's  board of directors, $350 for each  committee
meeting  and $150 for each "mini-meeting" attended. Messrs. Daddona and Dirienzo
also  receive  $100  for  each  meeting  of  the  advisory  board  of  the   New
Britian/Hartford  division of the  Bank attended. Directors  who are officers of
Bancor or  Derby  Savings receive  no  additional compensation  for  serving  as
directors or attending meetings of the board or its committees.

    In  1986, the Bank established a  deferred compensation plan for the benefit
of its directors. Pursuant to the plan, directors are entitled to defer all or a
portion of the  fees paid  to them  as directors of  the Bank  over a  four-year
period.  Directors who are officers of the Bank may also participate in the plan
and pursuant to the plan may defer compensation paid to them as officers of  the
Bank.  Although there is no limitation in the plan on the amount of compensation
that may  be deferred  by directors  who are  also officers  of the  Bank,  such
directors currently participating in the plan have only deferred compensation in
an  amount which approximates the fees that would have been paid to them if they
were non-management directors of the Bank.

    Under the plan, a director who has  participated in the plan for four  years
or  who reaches the age  of 65, whichever is  later (the "Retirement Date"), and
who is still serving as a director,  is entitled to receive benefits payable  in
monthly  installments  over  a  ten-year period.  The  aggregate  amount  of the
benefits payable to a director is actuarially determined using mortality tables.
The plan also provides for the payment of pre-retirement disability benefits  in
the  event that a director is  disabled as a result of  illness or injury to the
extent that he or she is unable to perform his or her usual service to the board
of directors. Benefit payments pursuant to  this provision of the plan would  be
paid  in the same manner and amount as normal retirement benefits under the plan
if the director had completed four years of service as a director, and would  be
in  an aggregate amount equal to 100  percent of the director's deferred fees at
10% interest per annum if the director had not completed four years of  service.
In  the event of a  director's death prior to  reaching the Retirement Date, the
plan provides for the payment of  benefits to the designated beneficiary of  the
director  on  a monthly  basis over  a  ten-year period  in an  aggregate amount
actuarially determined using  mortality tables.  The plan provides  that if  the
service  of a director  is terminated voluntarily or  involuntarily prior to the
Retirement Date, the director is entitled  to receive all amounts deferred  plus
interest thereon at a rate of 10% per annum.

BOARD OF DIRECTORS COMMITTEES AND NOMINATIONS BY SHAREHOLDERS

    The  board of  directors of the  Corporation has  designated Messrs. Archer,
Brennan, Daddona, DiAdamo, Rak and Sponheimer as the executive committee of  the
board.  Mr. Daddona currently serves as chairman of the executive committee. The
executive committee, when the board of directors is not in session, has and  may
exercise  all of  the power and  authority of  the board of  directors except as
limited pursuant to Article IV, Section 2 of the Corporation's bylaws,  pursuant
to  which  the  executive  committee  may not,  among  other  things,  amend the
Corporation's certificate  of incorporation  or bylaws,  adopt an  agreement  of

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merger  or consolidation,  or recommend to  the shareholders the  sale, lease or
exchange of  all  or  substantially  all of  the  Corporation's  assets  or  the
dissolution  of the  Corporation. During the  year ended December  31, 1993, the
executive committee met two times.

    The board of directors of the Corporation has appointed an audit  committee,
whose  members  are Messrs.  Apicella,  Dirienzo and  Rak  and Ms.  Donahue. Mr.
Apicella serves as chairman of the audit committee. The audit committee  reviews
the  Corporation's financial  statements and  reviews the  report of  the annual
audit by the Corporation's independent  accountants prior to submission of  that
report  to  the  full  board  of directors.  The  audit  committee  also reviews
management's  response  to  the  independent  accountant's  report.  The   audit
committee  annually  reviews  the Corporation's  contract  with  its independent
accountants and  makes  recommendations  to the  board  of  directors  regarding
renewal  of that  contract. During  the year ended  December 31,  1993 the audit
committee met seven times.

    The board of  directors of the  Corporation has appointed  a standing  stock
option  committee consisting of Messrs. Archer,  Daddona, Mills and Rak with Mr.
Rak  serving  as   chairman.  The   stock  option   committee  administers   the
Corporation's  stock option plan.  During the year ended  December 31, 1993, the
stock option committee met three times.

    Messrs. Archer, Brennan, Costigan and  Sponheimer and Ms. Donahue  currently
serve  as the nominating committee  for selecting the nominees  of the board for
election as  directors.  Mr. Sponheimer  currently  serves as  chairman  of  the
nominating committee. The nominating committee met one time in 1993.

    Shareholders  of Bancor may nominate directors  pursuant to timely notice in
writing to the  secretary of Bancor  in accordance with  Bancor's bylaws. To  be
timely,  a shareholder's notice must  be delivered to or  mailed and received at
the principal executive  offices of the  Corporation not less  than 30 nor  more
than  90 days prior to the Annual  Meeting; provided, however, that in the event
less than 45 days' notice or prior public disclosure of the date of the  meeting
is given or made to shareholders, notice by the shareholder to be timely must be
so  received by  Bancor not  later than the  close of  business on  the 15th day
following the day on which notice of the date of the meeting was mailed or  such
public   disclosure  was  made.  Under  the  Corporation's  bylaws,  shareholder
nominations for the Annual Meeting will be required to have been received on  or
before  April  14,  1994  in  order to  be  timely.  A  shareholder's  notice of
nomination must set forth certain information specified in Article III,  Section
13  of  Bancor's  bylaws  concerning each  person  the  shareholder  proposes to
nominate for election and the shareholder giving the notice. The bylaws  provide
that  no person shall  be eligible for  election as a  director of Bancor unless
nominated in accordance with the procedures set forth in Article III, Section 13
of the bylaws.

    During the year ended December 31, 1993 the Corporation's board of directors
held four  regular meetings  and one  special meeting  and the  Bank's board  of
directors  held 12 regular monthly meetings  and four special meetings. With the
exception of  Mr. Mills  who attended  50  percent of  the board  and  committee
meetings  on  which he  served,  no incumbent  director  attended fewer  than 75
percent of  the total  number  of meetings  of the  board  of directors  of  the
Corporation and the total number of meetings held by all committees of the board
of directors of the Corporation on which he served.

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                  EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION AND OTHER INFORMATION

    Because  the business of the Corporation  currently consists of the business
of Derby  Savings,  no separate  cash  compensation  is paid  to  the  executive
officers of the Corporation, all of whom are executive officers of Derby Savings
and receive compensation as such. The following table shows, for the years ended
December  31, 1993, 1992 and 1991, the  cash compensation paid by Derby Savings,
as well as certain other  compensation paid or accrued  for those years, to  the
chief  executive  officer and  each of  the three  other highest  paid executive
officers of Derby Savings whose cash compensation exceeded $100,000.

                           SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE



                                                                                    LONG-TERM
                                                                                  COMPENSATION
                                                  ANNUAL COMPENSATION                AWARDS
NAME AND                                  ------------------------------------  -----------------       ALL OTHER
PRINCIPAL POSITION(S)                     FISCAL YEAR  SALARY ($)   BONUS ($)   OPTIONS/SARS (#)   COMPENSATION ($)(A)
- ----------------------------------------  -----------  ----------  -----------  -----------------  -------------------
                                                                                    
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr....................        1993   $  232,113   $  --               19,000     $         3,491
President Chief Executive                       1992      228,521      25,000         --                     3,803
 Officer and Director                           1991      205,885      --             --                     3,133
John F. Costigan........................        1993      153,362      --                4,000               2,317
 Executive Vice President,                      1992      150,913      17,500         --                     2,526
 Chief Operating Officer,                       1991      139,203      --             --                     2,083
 Secretary and Director
Alfred T. Santoro.......................        1993      139,584      --               11,000               2,163
Vice President and Chief                        1992      125,997      15,000         --                     2,115
 Financial Officer                              1991      102,165      --             --                     1,619
Thomas H. Wells.........................        1993      112,291      --                2,500               1,717
 Senior Vice President                          1992      106,654      10,000         --                     1,750
 of Derby Savings Bank                          1991       95,695      --             --                     1,472
<FN>
- ---------
(a)   Consists of employer matching contributions made to the Bank's thrift plan
      for the account of each individual.


OPTION/SAR GRANTS

    The following table  contains information  with respect to  grants of  stock
options  and stock appreciation  rights ("SARs") to each  of the named executive
officers during the year ended December 31, 1993.

                     OPTION/SAR GRANTS IN 1993 FISCAL YEAR



                                                                                               POTENTIAL REALIZABLE
                                                                                                      VALUE
                                                                                                AT ASSUMED ANNUAL
                                                        INDIVIDUAL GRANTS                             RATES
                                     -------------------------------------------------------      OF STOCK PRICE
                                                     % OF TOTAL                                  APPRECIATION FOR
                                                    OPTIONS/SARS                                      OPTION
                                      OPTIONS/       GRANTED TO     EXERCISE OR                      TERM (A)
                                        SARS        EMPLOYEES IN    BASE PRICE   EXPIRATION   ----------------------
NAME                                 GRANTED (#)    FISCAL YEAR       ($/SH)        DATE        5% ($)     10% ($)
- -----------------------------------  -----------  ----------------  -----------  -----------  ----------  ----------
                                                                                        
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr...............      19,000           43.6%      $   17.63     11/30/03   $  210,601  $  533,705
John F. Costigan...................       4,000            9.2           17.63     11/30/03       44,337     112,359
Alfred T. Santoro..................      11,000           25.2           17.63     11/30/03      121,927     308,987
Thomas H. Wells....................       2,500            5.7           17.63     11/30/03       27,711      70,224
<FN>
- ---------
(a)   Estimated market value of underlying securities at assumed annual rates of
      stock price appreciation for option term minus the exercise price.


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OPTION/SAR EXERCISES AND HOLDINGS

    The following table sets  forth the 1993 year  end value of all  unexercised
options  and SARs held by the named  executive officers. No options or SARs were
exercised by any of  the named executive officers  during 1993. All options  and
SARs  held by the named executive officers as of December 31, 1993 are presently
exercisable.  SARs  are  granted  in  tandem  with  options  granted  under  the
Corporation's existing stock option plan.

              AGGREGATED OPTION/SAR EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR
                          AND FY-END OPTION/SAR VALUES



                                                                        VALUE OF SECURITIES
                                                                            UNDERLYING
                                             NUMBER OF SECURITIES           UNEXERCISED
                                            UNDERLYING UNEXERCISED     IN-THE-MONEY OPTIONS/
                  NAME                    OPTIONS/SARS AT FY-END (#)   SARS AT FY-END ($)(A)
- ----------------------------------------  ---------------------------  ---------------------
                                                                 
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr....................              79,384                $   634,596
John F. Costigan........................              44,192                    374,837
Alfred T. Santoro.......................              39,063                    250,081
Thomas H. Wells.........................              29,156                    190,972
<FN>
- ---------
(a)   Market  value of underlying securities at  exercise or year-end, minus the
      exercise or base price.


EMPLOYMENT AND CHANGE-IN-CONTROL AGREEMENTS

    Derby Savings and  the Corporation have  entered into employment  agreements
with  Harry  P. DiAdamo,  Jr. and  John F.  Costigan. The  current term  of each
employment agreement is through December 31,  1997. On each December 31,  unless
the Bank, the Corporation or the employee has previously given written notice to
the  contrary,  an  additional one-year  period  is  added to  the  term  of the
agreement. The employment agreements provided for initial annual salaries with a
six percent minimum  annual increase in  subsequent years. In  1993, the  annual
salaries  pursuant  to  their  employment  agreements  for  Messrs.  DiAdamo and
Costigan were $223,516 and $147,682 respectively. The employment agreements also
provide, among  other  things, for  participation  in discretionary  bonuses  as
authorized  by the  board of directors  and for participation  in pension, stock
option and other benefits applicable to executive personnel.

    The employment agreements  may be terminated  for cause at  any time by  the
board  of directors. Each contract is also  terminable by the Corporation or the
Bank without cause, whereupon the employee would be entitled to a lump sum  cash
payment  equal to the  full amount of his  salary for the  remaining term of the
agreement, and  continuation for  the remaining  term of  the agreement  of  all
vested  retirement or employee  benefits and then  existing fringe benefits. The
employees have no right to  terminate their agreements prior  to the end of  the
terms  without  approval  of  the  boards  of  directors  of  the  Bank  and the
Corporation except in  connection with or  within two years  after a "change  in
control"  of  the Corporation  or  the Bank,  in  which case  they  will receive
severance payments of three times average annual compensation based on the prior
five-year period. The agreements include an employee covenant not to compete for
a period of the lesser of one year or the balance of the term plus six months in
the event  the  employee  terminates  his employment  during  the  term  of  the
agreement  without board  approval. Under  the terms  of the  agreements, if the
employment of Messrs.  DiAdamo or Costigan  were terminated by  the Bank or  the
Corporation  other than for cause or by  the employee during 1994, the severance
payment which each would  receive is $1,036,465  and $684,816, respectively.  If
their  employment  was  terminated  in  1994  voluntarily  or  involuntarily  in
connection with or within two years after  a "change in control," they would  be
entitled to receive severance payments of $612,506 and $401,377, respectively.

    As  defined in the agreements, a "change  in control" will be deemed to have
occurred if (i) any person  becomes the beneficial owner of  20% or more of  the
total  number of voting shares  of the Corporation; (ii)  any person becomes the
beneficial owner of  10% or  more, but  less than 20%,  of the  total number  of
voting  shares of the Corporation if the board of directors determines that such
beneficial ownership constitutes or will constitute control of the  Corporation;
(iii) any person (other than the persons named as proxies solicited on behalf of
the  board  of  directors of  the  Corporation) holds  revocable  or irrevocable

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proxies, as  to  the  election or  removal  of  two or  more  directors  of  the
Corporation,  for  25% or  more  of the  total number  of  voting shares  of the
Corporation; (iv)  any person  has  commenced a  tender  or exchange  offer,  or
entered into an agreement or received an option, to acquire beneficial ownership
of  20% or more of the total number  of voting shares of the Corporation; or (v)
as a  result of,  or in  connection with,  any cash  tender or  exchange  offer,
merger,  or other business combination, sale  of assets or contested election or
any combination of the foregoing transactions, the persons who were directors of
the Corporation  before such  transaction  shall cease  to constitute  at  least
two-thirds  of  the  board of  directors  of  the Corporation  or  any successor
institution. A "change  in control" of  the Bank  will be deemed  to have  taken
place  if the Corporation's  beneficial ownership of the  total number of voting
shares of the  Bank is  reduced to  less than  50% unless  the transaction  that
causes such reduction is approved by two-thirds of the board of directors of the
Bank. For purposes of the foregoing, the term "person" includes an individual, a
corporation, a partnership, a trust, or a group acting in concert.

    The  Bank and the Corporation have entered into severance payment agreements
with Alfred T. Santoro and Thomas H.  Wells which generally provide that in  the
event  the  employee's employment  is  terminated, voluntarily  or involuntarily
(other than by normal  retirement, disability or death),  in connection with  or
within  two years after a change in control of the Bank or the Corporation, they
would be entitled  to receive lump  sum cash severance  payments. The amount  of
this payment would equal approximately three times the employee's average annual
compensation  includible  in his  income for  federal  income tax  purposes with
respect to the five-year period  prior to the change in  control of the Bank  or
the  Corporation. For purposes  of the agreements, the  term "change in control"
has a definition substantially the same definition of "change in control" in the
employment agreements of Messrs.  DiAdamo and Costigan. Under  the terms of  the
agreements,  if the employment  of Messrs. Santoro and  Wells were terminated by
the Bank or the Corporation in 1994, in connection with a change in control, the
severance  payment  which   each  would  receive   is  $326,231  and   $290,950,
respectively.

REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

    Pursuant  to  the  rules recently  adopted  by the  Securities  and Exchange
Commission designed  to  enhance  the  disclosure  of  company  policies  toward
executive  compensation, set forth below  is a report submitted  by the board of
directors of the Bank and the stock  option committee of the board of  directors
of  the corporation addressing executive officer compensation policies for 1993.
As noted above, because  the business of the  Corporation currently consists  of
the business of the Bank, no separate cash compensation is paid to the executive
officers of the Corporation.

    Decisions on compensation (other than stock options) for Messrs. DiAdamo and
Costigan  are made by  the Bank's board  of directors (with  Messrs. DiAdamo and
Costigan not participating). Decisions on  compensation paid to other  executive
officers  of the Bank (other than stock options) are made by Messrs. DiAdamo and
Costigan. Decisions as  to the  grant of  stock options  are made  by the  stock
option committee of the board of directors of the Corporation.

    The  Bank's executive  compensation policies  provide competitive  levels of
compensation designed to  integrate pay  with the Bank's  and the  Corporation's
annual  and  long  term performance  goals.  Underlying this  objective  are the
following concepts:  supporting an  individual pay-for-performance  policy  that
differentiates  compensation  levels  based  on  corporate,  business  unit, and
individual performance;  motivating key  senior  officers to  achieve  strategic
business   objectives  and  rewarding  them   for  that  achievement;  providing
compensation opportunities  which  are  competitive  to  those  offered  in  the
marketplace,  thus  allowing the  Bank and  the Corporation  to compete  for and
retain talented executives who are critical to the Bank's and the  Corporation's
long  term success; and aligning the interests  of executives with the long term
interests of the Corporation's shareholders.

    Executive compensation  consists  of three  components:  cash  compensation,
including  base salary and cash bonuses; long term incentive compensation in the
form of stock options; and executive and retirement benefits. The components are
intended to provide incentives  to achieve short term  and long term  objectives
and  to reward exceptional  performance. Performance is  evaluated not only with
respect to earnings but  also with respect  to comparable industry  performance,
the  accomplishment of business objectives, and the individual's contribution to
earnings and shareholder value.

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    CASH  COMPENSATION.    Pursuant  to  their  employment  agreements  with the
Corporation and the Bank, Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan annually are entitled  to
receive  a  minimum 6.0%  increase  in their  base  salaries. For  1993, Messrs.
DiAdamo and  Costigan received  increases in  their base  salaries of  6.0%,  as
determined  by the board  after evaluation of  the factors set  forth above. The
Corporation's two other executive  officers received increases of  approximately
16.9%  and 9.9%,  respectively, as  determined by  Messrs. DiAdamo  and Costigan
after evaluation of the above criteria.

    Each year, upon review of the recommendations of the Bank's Ad Hoc Committee
on Bonuses,  the board  determines  whether to  award discretionary  bonuses  to
executive  officers. In 1993, the  Ad Hoc Committee on  Bonuses was comprised of
all directors of the  Bank with the exception  of Messrs. DiAdamo and  Costigan.
The board considers granting bonuses only when it determines that performance is
meritorious and exceptional, and only after consideration of such factors as the
Bank's  overall  performance for  such year,  especially  when compared  to peer
institutions, and the  time and talent  exerted by management.  No bonuses  were
awarded in 1993.

    STOCK  OPTIONS.  To encourage growth in shareholder value, stock options are
granted by  the Corporation  from time  to time  under the  Corporation's  stock
option  plan to officers and other employees. During 1993, the Company granted a
total of 43,573 stock options, in tandem with SARs, including 35,500 options  to
the Company's four executive officers. All options that were granted during 1993
had an exercise price of $17.63 per share and will expire in November 2003.

    EXECUTIVE  AND  RETIREMENT  BENEFITS.    In  addition  to  the  compensation
described above,  the  executive officers  receive  all normal  employee  fringe
benefits, as well as benefits under the Bank's thrift plan and pension plan. The
Bank also provides automobile allowances to executive officers, club memberships
(in  the case  of Messrs.  DiAdamo and Costigan),  and pays  life and disability
insurance premiums for Mr. DiAdamo.

    CEO COMPENSATION.    As  noted  above, under  the  terms  of  Mr.  DiAdamo's
employment  agreement, Mr. DiAdamo  is entitled to a  six percent minimum annual
increase in salary.  In 1993, Mr.  DiAdamo received a  salary increase of  6.0%.
During  1993, Mr. DiAdamo also  received a grant of  a ten-year stock option for
19,000 shares of  Corporation common  stock. The  per share  exercise price  was
$17.63,  which equaled the  fair market value  of a share  of Corporation common
stock on the  date of  grant. The board  believes the  compensation Mr.  DiAdamo
received  for 1993 appropriately rewards Mr. DiAdamo for the results he achieved
during that year.


                                     
BOARD OF DIRECTORS                      STOCK OPTION COMMITTEE OF THE
OF THE BANK                             BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF THE CORPORATION
Michael F. Daddona, Jr., Chairman       John M. Rak, Chairman
Achille A. Apicella                     Walter R. Archer, Jr.
Walter R. Archer, Jr.                   Michael F. Daddona, Jr.
John J. Brennan                         Christopher H.R. Mills
John F. Costigan
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr.
Angelo E. Dirienzo
Laura J. Donahue
John M. Rak
John P. Sponheimer


COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS AND INSIDER PARTICIPATION

    Messrs. DiAdamo and Costigan serve on the board of directors of the Bank. As
such, they  participate in  compensation decisions  with respect  to the  Bank's
executive  officers. Neither Mr. DiAdamo nor Mr. Costigan participate or vote in
decisions on their own compensation.

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COMPARATIVE COMPANY PERFORMANCE

    The following graph shows a five year comparison of cumulative total returns
for the Corporation,  the NASDAQ Stock  Market and the  KBW New England  Savings
Bank Index.

                                   [GRAPHIC]


                                            Dec-88       Dec-89       Dec-90       Dec-91       Dec-92       Dec-93
                                                                                         
D.S. Bancor, Inc.                                100        100.1         69.8         53.6        139.9        181.2
NASDAQ Stock Market Index (US)                   100        121.2        103.0        165.2        192.1        219.2
KBW New England Savings Bank Index               100         84.5         42.4         74.7        130.7        174.4


Assumes  $100 invested on December 31, 1988 with full reinvestment of dividends,
if any.

PENSION PLAN

    The following  table  sets forth  estimated  annual retirement  benefits  of
representative  years  of service  and annual  compensation under  the Company's
pension plan.

                               PENSION PLAN TABLE



                                 YEARS OF SERVICE (A)
   ANNUAL      --------------------------------------------------------
COMPENSATION      15         20          25          30          35
- -------------  ---------  ---------  ----------  ----------  ----------
                                              
 $   125,000   $  34,116  $  45,488  $   56,860  $   68,232  $   71,357
     150,000      41,616     55,488      69,360      83,232      86,982
     175,000      49,116     65,488      81,860      98,232     102,607
     200,000      56,616     75,488      94,360     113,232     115,641
     225,000      61,501     82,002     102,502     115,641     115,641
     250,000      62,383     83,178     103,972     115,641     115,641
<FN>
- ---------
(a)   For participants  aged  65 retiring  in  1993  and based  on  1993  Social
      Security  benefit levels.  Pension benefits  payable beginning  January 1,
      1994 are currently subject  to a statutory maximum  of $118,800 per  year,
      subject  to  cost of  living adjustments.  Additionally, for  1994, annual
      compensation earned  in  excess  of  $150,000  may  not  be  used  in  the
      calculation of retirement benefits.


    At  December 31, 1993,  Messrs. DiAdamo, Costigan, Santoro  and Wells had 8,
31, 7 and 18 years, respectively, of credited service.



    Contributions to the pension plan are  determined on an actuarial basis  for
the   benefit  of  all  qualifying  employees.  Employees  become  eligible  for
participation on attainment  of age 21  and the accumulation  of 1,000 hours  of
employment in a year. Annual normal retirement benefits are computed at the rate
of  60  percent of  the  participant's final  earnings  less 50  percent  of the
participant's social security amount for  participants with exactly 30 years  of
credited service.

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    For  participants with more than 30 years of credited service, annual normal
retirement benefits are computed  as for participants with  exactly 30 years  of
credited  service plus 1/2 of 1 percent  of the participant's final earnings for
each year  (up  to  ten)  of  credited  service  in  excess  of  30  years.  For
participants  with  less  than  30  years  of  credited  service,  annual normal
retirement benefits are  computed by  multiplying the  annual normal  retirement
benefit  of a participant with exactly 30 years of credited service by the ratio
that the number of that participant's years of credited service bears to 30. The
plan also provides for optional early retirement benefits within ten years of  a
participant's  normal retirement date provided  the participant has completed 15
years of credited service.

    A participant's final  earnings equals the  highest average annual  earnings
received  in any  five consecutive  years during the  last ten  years before the
normal retirement date. Years of credited service equals the number of years  of
employment,  not including the  first year of  service, between ages  25 (for an
employee who became a participant prior to  July 1, 1985, otherwise age 21)  and
65.  For participants  retiring at normal  or early retirement  dates, a pension
equal to 50  percent of the  participant's retirement income  is payable to  the
surviving   spouse.  As  an  alternative  to  the  50  percent  continuation,  a
participant when  he  or  she retires  may  elect  to pay  100  percent  to  the
participant's  spouse or 66 2/3 percent to  the spouse and retain 33 1/3 percent
of the benefit.

CERTAIN TRANSACTIONS

    Derby Savings  makes loans  to  its directors,  officers, members  of  their
immediate  families and other employees  and holders of five  percent or more of
the issued and outstanding shares of Bancor's common stock for the financing  of
their  homes as well as  for home improvement and  consumer loans. The Bank also
makes loans  to  business  entities  with which  such  shareholders  of  Bancor,
directors  or officers of the Bank or members of their immediate families may be
associated. It is the Bank's  policy that these loans  are made in the  ordinary
course  of business and neither involve  more than normal risk of collectability
nor present other unfavorable  features. These loans  are made on  substantially
the  same  terms  (including  interest  rate,  fees  and  collateral)  as  those
prevailing at the time for  comparable transactions with non-affiliated  persons
and  have been made in compliance with the requirements of state and federal law
applicable to loans to such persons. As  of December 31, 1993, loans to  holders
of  five  percent  or more  of  Bancor's  issued and  outstanding  common stock,
directors  and  executive  officers  of  Derby  Savings  and  their   affiliated
businesses totaled approximately $1,275,000.

    During 1993, the Bank made payments totaling $115,548 to Mr. Rak, a director
of the Corporation and the Bank, for appraisal and realtor services performed by
him.  Additionally, the Bank  made payments totaling $84,937  to John J. Brennan
Construction Co., Inc. for snow removal  services for the Bank and its  branches
and  construction  repairs to  several  of the  Bank's  offices. Mr.  Brennan, a
director of  the Corporation  and the  Bank,  is president  of John  J.  Brennan
Construction   Co.,  Inc.  The  Corporation  believes  the  terms  of  all  such
transactions were  substantially the  same as  the terms  that could  have  been
obtained at the time from an unaffiliated third party.

                       APPROVAL OF 1994 STOCK OPTION PLAN
                                  (PROPOSAL 2)

    On  February 28, 1994, the board of  directors adopted the 1994 Stock Option
Plan (the  "1994 Option  Plan" or  the  "Plan") for  the benefit  of  directors,
officers  and  employees of  the Corporation  and  its subsidiaries,  subject to
approval of shareholders at the  Annual Meeting. As of  the date of adoption  of
the  Plan by the board, there were nine non-employee directors and approximately
321 officers and  employees of  the Corporation  and its  subsidiaries who  were
eligible to participate in the Plan.


    THE  PRINCIPAL PROVISIONS OF THE 1994 OPTION PLAN ARE SUMMARIZED BELOW. SUCH
SUMMARY DOES  NOT, HOWEVER,  PURPORT TO  BE  COMPLETE AND  IS QUALIFIED  IN  ITS
ENTIRETY  BY THE  TERMS OF  THE 1994 OPTION  PLAN, THE  ENTIRE TEXT  OF WHICH IS
ATTACHED HERETO AS EXHIBIT A AND INCORPORATED HEREIN BY REFERENCE.

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REASONS FOR 1994 OPTION PLAN

    The board  believes  that  stock  options  are  important  to  increase  the
incentive  and  encourage the  continued  service and  employment  of directors,
officers and employees by facilitating their purchase of a stock interest in the
Corporation. The  board  believes that  adoption  of  the 1994  Option  Plan  is
appropriate  in order to assure  that a meaningful number  of stock options will
continue to be available for grant  to directors, officers and employees of  the
Corporation  and  its subsidiaries.  At December  31,  1993, 2,110  options were
available for grant to directors, officers and employees under the Corporation's
existing stock option plan.

DESCRIPTION OF THE 1994 OPTION PLAN

    Under the terms of  the 1994 Option Plan,  260,000 shares of authorized  but
unissued   common  stock  of  the  Corporation,  or  approximately  10%  of  the
outstanding shares of common  stock at December 31,  1993, will be reserved  for
issuance.  Of  such shares,  60,000 shares  are reserved  for issuance  upon the
exercise of options  granted to  non-employee directors of  the Corporation  and
200,000 shares are reserved for issuance upon the exercise of options granted to
other  eligible  individuals. The  1994 Option  Plan provides  for the  grant of
options that are intended to qualify as "incentive stock options" under  Section
422  of the Code as well as  nonqualified options. Unlike the Company's existing
stock option plan, the 1994 Option Plan does not provide for SARs.

    The 1994 Option Plan will be  administered by the Stock Option Committee  of
the  board  (the  "Option  Committee"). The  Option  Committee  will  select the
officers and  employees  and  non-employee directors  of  subsidiaries  to  whom
options  may  be  granted. As  described  below, option  grants  to non-employee
directors of the Corporation are fixed pursuant to the terms of the Plan.

    Under the terms of the 1994  Option Plan, each non-employee director of  the
Corporation  who was serving  on the board  on February 28,  1994, the effective
date of  the Plan  (each director  of  the Company  except Messrs.  DiAdamo  and
Costigan) was granted a ten-year nonqualified option to purchase 1,500 shares of
the Corporation's common stock, subject to shareholder approval of the Plan. The
per-share  option  exercise price  of each  of those  options was  $24.00, which
equaled the fair market value of a  share of common stock on the effective  date
of  the Plan, as determined in accordance  with the Plan. Thereafter, subject to
the availability of shares, on the date  of the first meeting of the board  next
following  the  1994  Annual  Meeting  and  following  each  annual  meeting  of
shareholders of the Corporation thereafter,  an option to purchase 1,000  shares
of  Corporation common stock will be granted  to each person who is then serving
as a non-employee director of the Corporation. If the number of shares remaining
available for grant is insufficient to  make any such annual option grants,  the
annual  option grants for  that year shall  be correspondingly reduced  on a pro
rata basis.

    The option exercise price of options granted under the 1994 Option Plan  may
not  be less than 100% of the fair market  value of the common stock on the date
of grant of the option, as determined  in accordance with the Plan. The  maximum
option  term is 10 years. Each option  granted to a non-employee director of the
Corporation under the  1994 Option Plan  will be exercisable  commencing on  the
date  of grant and ending upon the expiration or termination of the option. Each
option granted to persons other  than non-employee directors of the  Corporation
under  the Plan will be exercisable,  at any time and from  time to time, over a
period commencing on the date of grant and ending upon expiration or termination
of the option,  as the Option  Committee shall  determine and set  forth in  the
option  agreement relating  thereto. No person  may receive  any incentive stock
option if, at the time  of grant, such person  owns directly or indirectly  more
than 10% of the total combined voting power of the Corporation unless the option
price  is at least  110% of the  fair market value  of the common  stock and the
exercise period of such incentive option is by its terms limited to five  years.
There  is also a $100,000 limit on the value of stock (determined at the time of
grant) covered by incentive  stock options that first  become exercisable by  an
optionee in any calendar year. The maximum number  of shares subject to  options
that  can be granted  under the Plan to any executive officer or  other employee
of  the  Corporation or  any  subsidiary  is  75,000  shares.  No  option may be
granted  more than 10 years after the effective date of the Plan.

    Payment for shares purchased under the  1994 Option Plan may be made  either
in  cash  or cash  equivalents, or,  if  permitted by  the option  agreement, by
exchanging shares of common  stock of the

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Corporation  with a fair market  value  equal  to or less than the total  option
price plus cash for any difference,  or  by  a  combination  of  the  foregoing.
Options  generally  also  may  be  exercised  by  the optionee  directing   that
certificates for  the  shares  purchased  be  delivered  to a  licensed   broker
acceptable to the  Corporation  as  agent  for  the optionee, provided that  the
broker  tenders to  the  Corporation  cash  or cash  equivalents equal  to   the
option  exercise  price plus  the amount  of  any taxes  that  the   Corporation
may be required to withhold  in connection with the  exercise  of   the  option.
No fractional shares will  be issued by the  Corporation on exercise of  options
and no cash will be paid in lieu of any fractional shares.

    No option may be  exercised before the date  of shareholder approval of  the
Plan.  If an option is exercised  prior to the date that  is six months from the
later of (i) the  date of grant of  the option or (ii)  the date of  shareholder
approval  of the Plan  and the individual  exercising the option  is a reporting
person under Section 16(a) of the  Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as  amended,
the  Plan provides that the certificate  or certificates issued upon exercise of
the option shall bear a legend restricting the transfer of stock covered thereby
until the  expiration of  six months  from the  later of  the date  of grant  or
shareholder approval of the Plan.

    Options  granted under  the Plan are  not transferable and  may be exercised
only by the  optionee during his  or her lifetime.  If an employee's  employment
with  the Corporation or a subsidiary terminates by reason of death or permanent
and total disability, his or her  options, whether or not then exercisable,  may
be  exercised within  one year after  such death or  disability unless otherwise
provided in the option agreement (but not  later than the date the option  would
otherwise  expire). If the employee's employment terminates for any reason other
than death or disability, options held  by such optionee terminate three  months
after  the  date of  such termination  unless otherwise  provided in  the option
agreement (but  not later  than the  date the  option would  otherwise  expire).
Options  granted to non-employee directors of the Corporation terminate upon the
expiration of one  year following the  date on which  the non-employee  director
ceases  to be a  member of the board  by reason of death  or permanent and total
disability and  three  months  following  the date  on  which  the  non-employee
director  ceases to be a member  of the board for any  other reason (one year in
the event of the non-employee director's death during such three month  period),
but  not more than ten years  after the date of grant.  In the case of an option
granted to an employee, the Option Committee may extend the period during  which
the  option  may be  exercised (but  not later  than the  date the  option would
otherwise expire) by so providing in the option agreement.

    If the outstanding shares of the Corporation's common stock are increased or
decreased or changed into or exchanged for a different number or kind of  shares
or   securities  of  the   Corporation,  by  reason   of  any  recapitalization,
reclassification, stock  split-up, combination  of shares,  exchange of  shares,
stock dividend or other distribution payable in capital stock, or other increase
or  decrease in such shares without receipt of consideration by the Corporation,
an appropriate and proportionate adjustment will be made in the number and kinds
of shares subject to  the 1994 Option  Plan, and in the  number, kinds, and  per
share  exercise price  of shares subject  to the unexercised  portion of options
granted prior to any such change. Any such adjustment in an outstanding  option,
however,  will be  made without a  change in  the total price  applicable to the
unexercised portion of the option but with a corresponding adjustment in the per
share option price.

    Upon any dissolution or  liquidation of the Corporation,  or upon a  merger,
consolidation,  reorganization  or  other  business  combination  in  which  the
Corporation is  not  the surviving  corporation,  or upon  the  sale of  all  or
substantially  all of the  assets of the Corporation  to another corporation, or
upon any transaction (including, without limitation, a merger or  reorganization
in  which the  Corporation is the  surviving corporation) approved  by the board
which results in any person or entity  owning 80% or more of the total  combined
voting  power of all classes  of stock of the  Corporation, the 1994 Option Plan
and the options issued  thereunder will terminate, unless  provision is made  in
connection with such transaction for the continuation of  the Plan  and/or   the
assumption  of  the  options  or  for  the substitution for such options of  new
options   covering  the  stock  of  a  successor  corporation  or  a  parent  or
subsidiary  thereof, with  appropriate adjustments as to the number and kinds of
shares   and   the  per   share  exercise   price.   In   the  event    of  such
termination,  all outstanding options  shall be exercisable  in full during such
period immediately prior  to the occurrence  of such termination  as the  Option
Committee in its discretion shall determine.

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    The  board may amend the  1994 Option Plan with  respect to shares of common
stock as to  which options  have not  been granted.  However, the  Corporation's
shareholders  must approve any amendment that  would (1) change the requirements
as to  eligibility to  receive  options; (2)  materially increase  the  benefits
accruing  to participants under the Plan; or  (3) increase the maximum number of
shares that  be sold  pursuant to  options granted  under the  Plan (except  for
adjustments upon changes in capitalization).

    The  board at any time may terminate or suspend the 1994 Option Plan. Unless
previously terminated, the  Plan will  terminate automatically  on February  28,
2004,  the tenth anniversary of the effective  date of the Plan. No termination,
suspension or amendment of the Plan may, without the consent of the optionee  to
whom  an option has been  granted, adversely affect the  rights of the holder of
the option.

NEW PLAN BENEFITS

    The table  below indicates  stock options  granted to  date under  the  1994
Option  Plan, all of which  are subject to shareholder  approval of the Plan. In
each case, the option exercise price of  options granted under the Plan was  not
less  than fair market value of a share of the Corporation's common stock on the
date of grant, as determined in accordance with the Plan. All options granted to
date under the Plan to employees  are incentive options. All options granted  to
date under the Plan to non-employee directors are nonqualified options.

                               NEW PLAN BENEFITS



                                                 1994 STOCK OPTION PLAN
                                          ------------------------------------
                                              PER SHARE
           NAME AND POSITION               EXERCISE PRICE    NUMBER OF OPTIONS
- ----------------------------------------  -----------------  -----------------
                                                       
Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr....................     $24 3/4(a)             10,000
President, Chief Executive
  Officer and Director
John F. Costigan........................      24 3/4(a)              2,500
Executive Vice President,
  Chief Operating Officer,
  Secretary and Director
Alfred T. Santoro.......................      24 3/4(a)              5,000
Vice President and Chief
  Financial Officer
Non-Executive Officer...................      24 3/4(a)              1,000
Employee Group (1 person)
Non-Executive Director..................         24                 13,500
 Group (9 persons)(b)
<FN>
- ---------
(a)  These  options  were  granted on  March  16, 1994,  subject  to shareholder
     approval of the Plan. The per  share exercise price equals the fair  market
     value  of a  share of  Corporation common  stock on  the date  of grant, as
     determined in accordance with  the Plan. In each  case, the option term  is
     ten years.
(b)  On  February  28, 1994,  each of  the Corporation's  non-employee directors
     (each director of the Corporation other than Messrs. DiAdamo and  Costigan)
     was granted a ten-year option to purchase 1,500 shares.



    Shareholder approval of the 1994 Option Plan will constitute approval of the
foregoing  option  grants,  and  of the  continuing  automatic  annual  grant to
non-employee directors of the Corporation of a ten-year option for 1,000 shares,
as specified in the Plan.

    Based on the closing sale price  of the Corporation's common stock on  March
18,  1994 of  $27 1/8, the  aggregate market value  of the 260,000  shares to be
reserved under the 1994 Option Plan is $ 7,052,500.

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FEDERAL INCOME TAX CONSEQUENCES OF THE 1994 OPTION PLAN

    The grant of an option will not be  a taxable event for the optionee or  the
Corporation.

    An  optionee will not recognize taxable income upon exercise of an incentive
option, and any  gain realized upon  a disposition of  shares of stock  received
pursuant  to the  exercise of  an incentive  option will  be taxed  as long-term
capital gain if the optionee holds the  shares for at least two years after  the
date  of grant and for one year after  the date of exercise. However, the excess
of the fair market value of stock subject to an incentive option on the exercise
date over  the  option  exercise  price  will  be  included  in  the  optionee's
alternative  minimum taxable income in the year of exercise (except that, if the
optionee is subject to certain securities law restrictions, determination of the
amount included in alternative minimum  taxable income will be deferred,  unless
the  optionee elects within 30 days following exercise to have income determined
without regard to  such restrictions)  for purposes of  the alternative  minimum
tax.  An optionee may be  entitled to a credit  against regular tax liability in
future years for minimum  taxes paid with respect  to the exercise of  incentive
options.  The Corporation will not be entitled to any business expense deduction
with respect to the exercise of an incentive option, except as discussed below.

    For the exercise of  an option to qualify  for the foregoing tax  treatment,
the  optionee generally must be  an employee of the  Corporation or a subsidiary
from the date the option  is granted through a  date within three months  before
the  date of exercise of the option. In the case of an optionee who is disabled,
the three-month  period  for exercise  following  termination of  employment  is
extended  to one year.  In the case of  an employee who dies,  both the time for
exercising incentive  stock  options after  termination  of employment  and  the
holding  period for stock  received pursuant to  the exercise of  the option are
waived.

    If all of  the foregoing  requirements are  met except  the special  holding
period  rules mentioned above, the optionee  will recognize ordinary income upon
the disposition of the stock in an  amount generally equal to the excess of  the
fair  market value of  the stock at the  time the option  was exercised over the
option exercise price (but not in excess of the gain realized on the sale).  The
balance  of  the realized  gain,  if any,  will  be capital  gain.  The employer
corporation will  be allowed  a business  expense deduction  to the  extent  the
optionee recognizes ordinary income.

    If  an optionee exercises an incentive  option by tendering shares of common
stock with a  fair market  value equal  to part or  all of  the option  exercise
price,  the exchange of shares will be  treated as a nontaxable exchange (except
that this treatment  would not  apply if the  optionee had  acquired the  shares
being  transferred pursuant to the  exercise of an incentive  option and had not
satisfied the  special holding  period requirements  summarized above).  If  the
exercise  is treated as a tax free  exchange, the optionee would have no taxable
income from the  exchange and  exercise (other  than minimum  taxable income  as
discussed  above) and the tax basis of  the shares exchanged would be treated as
the substituted  basis for  the shares  received. If  the optionee  used  shares
received  pursuant to the exercise of  an incentive option (or another statutory
option) as to which the optionee had not satisfied the applicable holding period
requirement,  the  exchange  would  be   treated  as  a  taxable   disqualifying
disposition of the exchanged shares.

    Upon  exercising a nonqualified option,  an optionee will recognize ordinary
income in an amount equal to the  difference between the exercise price and  the
fair  market value  of the stock  on the date  of exercise (except  that, if the
optionee is subject to certain restrictions imposed by the securities laws,  the
measurement  date  will be  deferred, unless  the optionee  makes a  special tax
election within 30 days after exercise to have income determined without  regard
to  the  restrictions). If  the  employer corporation  complies  with applicable
withholding requirements, it will be entitled to a business expense deduction in
the same amount and at the same time as the optionee recognizes ordinary income.
Upon a subsequent sale or exchange  of shares acquired pursuant to the  exercise
of  a  nonqualified  option,  the  optionee  will  have  taxable  gain  or  loss
measured by the difference  between the amount realized  on the disposition  and
the  tax basis of the shares (generally, the amount paid for the shares plus the
amount treated as ordinary income at the time the option was exercised).

    If the optionee surrenders shares of common stock in payment of part or  all
of  the  exercise, price  for  nonqualified options,  no  gain or  loss  will be
recognized with respect  to the  shares surrendered (regardless  of

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whether  the shares  were acquired pursuant to  the  exercise  of  an  incentive
option)  and the optionee will be treated as receiving an equivalent  number  of
shares pursuant to the exercise of the  option  in a  nontaxable  exchange.  The
basis of the  shares surrendered  will  be   treated   as  the  substituted  tax
basis for  an equivalent number of option shares received  and  the  new  shares
will be treated as  having been  held  for the  same  holding  period   as   had
expired  with respect  to the transferred shares.  The  difference  between  the
aggregate option exercise  price and  the aggregate  fair market  value of   the
shares  received pursuant  to the exercise  of  the  option  will  be  taxed  as
ordinary income. The optionee's basis in the additional shares  will be equal to
the amount  included in the  optionee's income.

    Under  current  federal income  tax law,  the highest  tax rate  on ordinary
income is 36%, plus a 10% surtax,  and long-term capital gains are subject to  a
maximum  tax rate of 28%.  Because of certain provisions  in the law relating to
the "phase  out" of  personal  exemptions and  certain limitations  on  itemized
deductions,  the federal  income tax  consequences to  a particular  taxpayer of
receiving additional amounts of ordinary income  or capital gain may be  greater
than  would  be indicated  by  application of  the  foregoing tax  rates  to the
additional amount of income or gain.

REQUIRED VOTE

    The approval by the affirmative  votes of the holders  of a majority of  the
shares  present, or represented, and  entitled to vote at  the Annual Meeting is
required to approve the 1994 Option Plan. Abstentions will have the same  effect
as  a negative vote. THE BOARD RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR APPROVAL OF THE 1994 OPTION
PLAN.

         RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS
                                  (PROPOSAL 3)

    The board of  directors has appointed  the firm of  Friedberg, Smith &  Co.,
P.C.  to continue as independent public  accountants for the Corporation for the
year ending December 31, 1994. Friedberg, Smith  & Co., P.C. has been acting  as
independent  public accountants of  the Corporation since  its formation in 1987
and for Derby Savings since 1982. Unless otherwise indicated, properly  executed
proxies  will be voted in favor of ratifying the appointment of Friedberg, Smith
& Co., P.C., independent public accountants, to audit the books and accounts  of
the  Corporation and its  subsidiary for the  year ending December  31, 1994. No
determination has been made as to what action the board of directors would  take
if the shareholders do not ratify the appointment.

    Assuming  the presence  of a quorum  at the Annual  Meeting, the affirmative
vote of the  holders of  at least a  majority of  the votes cast  at the  Annual
Meeting is required to ratify the appointment of Friedberg, Smith & Co., P.C. as
the  Corporation's independent public  accountants for the  year ending December
31, 1994.

    Representatives of  Friedberg, Smith  & Co.,  P.C. will  be present  at  the
Annual  Meeting. They will be  given an opportunity to  make a statement if they
desire to do so and will be available to respond to appropriate questions.

                            SHAREHOLDERS' PROPOSALS

    Proposals of  shareholders  intended to  be  presented at  the  1995  annual
meeting  of shareholders must  be received by Bancor  at its principal executive
offices on or before November 30, 1994  in order to be considered for  inclusion
in  its proxy statement and  form of proxy relating  to the 1995 annual meeting.
Nothing in this paragraph should be deemed to require the Corporation to include
in its proxy statement and proxy  relating  to  the  1995  annual  meeting   any
shareholder proposal which may  be omitted    from   the   Corporation's   proxy
materials   pursuant  to  applicable regulations of the SEC in   effect  at  the
time such proposal is received.

    The bylaws of Bancor provide that in order for any director nominations  and
new  business to be properly brought before  an annual meeting by a shareholder,
the shareholder  must  have  given  timely notice  thereof  in  writing  to  the
secretary  of  the Corporation.  To be  timely, a  shareholder's notice  must be
delivered

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to or mailed and received at the principal executive offices of Bancor not  less
than 30  nor more  than 90  days prior  to the  date of  the  meeting; provided,
however,  that  in  the  event less  than  45  days'  notice  or  prior   public
disclosure of the date of the meeting  is given or made to shareholders,  notice
by  the shareholder to be timely must be so received not later than the close of
business on the 15th day following the day  on which such notice of the date  of
the   annual  meeting  was  mailed  or   such  public  disclosure  was  made.  A
shareholder's notice must set forth certain information specified in Article II,
Section 3  of  Bancor's bylaws  with  respect  to each  matter  the  shareholder
proposes  to bring  before the annual  meeting. Bancor's bylaws  provide that no
business shall be conducted at an  annual meeting except in accordance with  the
procedures set forth in Article II, Section 3 of the bylaws.

                                 OTHER MATTERS

    As  of the date  of this proxy  statement, the board  of directors of Bancor
knows of no matters  to be brought  before the Annual  Meeting other than  those
specifically listed in the Notice of Annual Meeting of Shareholders. However, if
further  business is properly  presented, the persons  named in the accompanying
proxy will  vote  such  proxy as  determined  by  a majority  of  the  board  of
directors.

    The  board of directors of Bancor urges  each shareholder, whether or not he
or she intends to be present at the Annual Meeting, to complete, sign and return
the enclosed proxy as promptly as possible.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors

                                          HARRY P. DIADAMO, JR.
                                          PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER

Derby, Connecticut
March 30, 1994

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                                                                       EXHIBIT A

                                DS BANCOR, INC.
                             1994 STOCK OPTION PLAN

    DS  Bancor, Inc. (the  "Company") sets forth  herein the terms  of this 1994
Stock Option Plan (the "Plan") as follows:

1.  PURPOSE

    The Plan is intended  to advance the interests  of the Company by  providing
eligible  individuals  (as  designated  pursuant to  Section  4  below)  with an
opportunity to acquire or increase a proprietary interest in the Company,  which
thereby will create a stronger incentive to expend maximum effort for the growth
and  success  of  the Company  and  its  subsidiaries, and  will  encourage such
eligible individuals to remain in the employ  or service of the Company or  that
of one or more of its subsidiaries. Each stock option granted under the Plan (an
"Option")  is intended to be  an "incentive stock option"  within the meaning of
Section 422 of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, or the corresponding provision
of any  subsequently-enacted tax  statute, as  amended from  time to  time  (the
"Code")  ("Incentive  Stock Option"),  except (i)  to the  extent that  any such
Option would  exceed the  limitations set  forth in  Section 7  below; (ii)  for
Options  specifically designated  at the time  of grant as  not being "incentive
stock options";  and  (iii) for  Options  granted to  members  of the  Board  of
Directors  of the Company who are not officers or other employees of the Company
or any "subsidiary corporation" (a  "Subsidiary") thereof within the meaning  of
Section  424(f) of  the Code ("Non-Employee  Directors") or to  directors of any
Subsidiary who are not Non-Employee Directors and who are not officers or  other
salaried employees of the Company or any Subsidiary (a "Subsidiary Director").

2.  ADMINISTRATION

    (a)  BOARD.  The Plan shall be administered by the Board of Directors of the
Company (the "Board"), which shall have the full power and authority to take all
actions, and to make all determinations required or provided for under the  Plan
or  any  Option granted  or Option  Agreement  (as defined  in Section  8 below)
entered into  hereunder  and  all  such other  actions  and  determinations  not
inconsistent  with the specific terms  and provisions of the  Plan deemed by the
Board to be necessary or  appropriate to the administration  of the Plan or  any
Option  granted or Option Agreement entered into hereunder. All such actions and
determinations shall be by the affirmative vote of a majority of the members  of
the  Board present  at a  meeting at  which any  issue relating  to the  Plan is
properly raised for consideration or without a meeting by written consent of the
Board executed in accordance with the Company's Certificate of Incorporation and
By-Laws, and with  applicable law.  The interpretation and  construction by  the
Board  of any provision of the Plan or of any Option granted or Option Agreement
entered into hereunder shall be final and conclusive.

    (b) COMMITTEE.   The Board  may from  time to  time appoint  a Stock  Option
Committee  (the  "Committee") consisting  of not  less than  two members  of the
Board, none  of whom  shall be  an officer  or other  salaried employee  of  the
Company  or  any of  its subsidiaries,  and each  of whom  shall qualify  in all
respects as a "disinterested person" as defined in Rule 16b-3 of the  Securities
and  Exchange Commission under  the Securities Exchange Act  of 1934, as amended
(the "Exchange Act"). The  Board, in its sole  discretion, may provide that  the
role  of the Committee shall  be limited to making  recommendations to the Board
concerning any determinations to be  made and actions to  be taken by the  Board
pursuant  to or  with respect  to the  Plan, or  the Board  may delegate  to the
Committee such powers and authorities related to the administration of the Plan,
as set forth  in Section 2(a)  above, as the  Board shall determine,  consistent
with  the Certificate of Incorporation and By-Laws of the Company and applicable
law. The  Board may  remove members,  add  members, and  fill vacancies  on  the
Committee from time to time, all in accordance with the Company's Certificate of
Incorporation  and By-Laws,  and with applicable  law. The majority  vote of the
Committee, or  acts reduced  to or  approved in  writing by  a majority  of  the
members of the Committee, shall be the valid acts of the Committee.

    (c)  NO LIABILITY.   No  member of the  Board or  of the  Committee shall be
liable for any action or  determination made in good  faith with respect to  the
Plan or any Option granted or Option Agreement entered into hereunder.

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    (d)  DELEGATION TO THE COMMITTEE.  In the  event that the Plan or any Option
granted or Option Agreement entered into hereunder provides for any action to be
taken by or determination to be made by  the Board, such action may be taken  by
or such determination may be made by the Committee if the power and authority to
do  so has  been delegated  to the  Committee by  the Board  as provided  for in
Section 2(b) above. Unless otherwise expressly determined by the Board, any such
action or determination by the Committee shall be final and conclusive.

    (e) ACTION BY THE BOARD.  The Board  may act under the Plan with respect  to
any Option granted to or Option Agreement entered into with an officer, director
or  shareholder of the  Company who is  subject to Section  16 of the Securities
Exchange Act of  1934, as  amended (the  "Exchange Act")  other than  by, or  in
accordance  with the recommendations of, the Committee, constituted as set forth
in  Section  2(b)  above,  only  if  all  of  the  members  of  the  Board   are
"disinterested  persons" as defined in Rule 16b-3 of the Securities and Exchange
Commission under the Exchange Act.

3.  STOCK

    The stock that  may be  issued pursuant to  Options granted  under the  Plan
shall  be shares of Common Stock, par value $1.00 per share, of the Company (the
"Stock"), which shares may be treasury shares or authorized but unissued shares.
The number of shares  of Stock that  may be issued  pursuant to Options  granted
under  the Plan shall not exceed in the aggregate 260,000 shares, of which up to
60,000 shares  may  be  issued  pursuant  to  options  granted  to  Non-Employee
Directors  and up to 200,000 shares may be issued pursuant to options granted to
other eligible  individuals. The  foregoing  numbers of  shares are  subject  to
adjustment  as provided in Section 17  below. If any Option expires, terminates,
or is terminated  or canceled  for any  reason prior  to exercise  in full,  the
shares  of Stock  that were  subject to the  unexercised portion  of such Option
shall be available for future Options granted under the Plan and such number  of
shares  shall be restored to  the number of shares  available for issuance under
Options granted  to Non-Employee  Directors or  to other  eligible  individuals,
whichever is applicable.

4.  ELIGIBILITY

    (a)  EMPLOYEES AND SUBSIDIARY  DIRECTORS.  Options may  be granted under the
Plan to  any employee  of the  Company  or any  Subsidiary (including  any  such
employee  who is an officer or director of  the Company or any Subsidiary) or to
any Subsidiary Director as the Board shall determine and designate from time  to
time  prior to  expiration or  termination of  the Plan.  The maximum  number of
shares of Stock subject  to Options that  may be granted under  the Plan to  any
executive  officer or other employee of the  Company or any Subsidiary is 75,000
shares (subject to adjustment as provided in Section 17 hereof).

    (b) NON-EMPLOYEE DIRECTORS.  On the effective date of the Plan as  described
in  Section 5(a) hereof, each  member then serving on  the Board of Directors of
the Company  who  is a  Non-Employee  Director shall  be  granted an  Option  to
purchase 1,500 shares. Thereafter, subject to the availability of shares, on the
date of the first meeting of the Board next following the 1994 annual meeting of
shareholders of the Company and following each annual meeting of shareholders of
the  Company thereafter, an  Option to purchase  1,000 shares of  Stock shall be
granted to each person who  is then serving as  a Non-Employee Director. If  the
number  of shares remaining available for grant is insufficient to make any such
annual  option  grants,  the  annual  option  grants  for  that  year  shall  be
correspondingly  reduced  on  a  pro  rata  basis.  Each  Option  granted  to  a
Non-Employee Director shall be granted at  an Option Price equal to the  greater
of  par value or 100 percent of the fair market value of a share of Stock on the
date of grant (determined under  Section 9 below) and  upon the other terms  and
conditions specified in the Plan. The foregoing numbers of shares are subject to
adjustment  as provided in Section 17 below.  Except as provided in this Section
4(b), no Non-Employee  Director shall be  eligible to be  granted Options  under
this Plan.

    (c)  MULTIPLE GRANTS.  An individual may  hold more than one Option, subject
to such restrictions as are provided herein.

5.  EFFECTIVE DATE AND TERM OF THE PLAN

    (a) EFFECTIVE DATE.  The Plan shall be effective as of the date of  adoption
by  the Board, which  date is set forth  below, subject to  approval of the Plan
within  one   year   of   such   effective   date   by   a   majority   of   the

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votes present and entitled to vote at a duly held meeting of the shareholders of
the  Company at which a quorum representing a majority of all outstanding voting
stock is present,  either in person  or by proxy;  PROVIDED, HOWEVER, that  upon
approval  of the Plan by the shareholders of the Company as set forth above, all
Options granted under the  Plan on or  after the effective  date shall be  fully
effective  as if the  shareholders of the  Company had approved  the Plan on the
effective date. If the shareholders fail to approve the Plan within one year  of
such effective date, any options granted hereunder shall be null and void and of
no effect.

    (b) TERM.  The Plan shall terminate on the date ten years from the effective
date.

6.  GRANT OF OPTIONS

    Subject  to the terms and conditions of the Plan, the Board may, at any time
and from time to time,  prior to the date of  termination of the Plan, grant  to
such  eligible individuals as the Board  may determine ("Optionees"), Options to
purchase such number of shares of the Stock on such terms and conditions as  the
Board may determine, including any terms or conditions which may be necessary to
qualify such Options as "incentive stock options" under Section 422 of the Code.
The  date on which the Board approves the grant of an Option (or such later date
as is specified by the Board) shall be considered the date on which such  Option
is granted.

7.  LIMITATION ON INCENTIVE STOCK OPTIONS

    An  Option (other  than an  Option described in  exception (ii)  or (iii) of
Section 1) shall  constitute an Incentive  Stock Option to  the extent that  the
aggregate  fair market value (determined  at the time the  option is granted) of
the stock with respect to which Incentive Stock Options are exercisable for  the
first  time by  any Optionee during  any calendar  year (under the  Plan and all
other plans of the Optionee's employer corporation and its parent and subsidiary
corporations within the meaning of Section  422(d) of the Code) does not  exceed
$100,000. This limitation shall be applied by taking Options into account in the
order in which they were granted.

8.  OPTION AGREEMENTS

    All  Options  granted pursuant  to the  Plan shall  be evidenced  by written
agreements ("Option  Agreements"), to  be executed  by the  Company and  by  the
Optionee,  in such form or forms as the Board shall from time to time determine.
Option Agreements covering Options granted from time to time or at the same time
need not contain  similar provisions;  PROVIDED, HOWEVER, that  all such  Option
Agreements shall comply with all terms of the Plan.

9.  OPTION PRICE

    The  purchase price  of each share  of the  Stock subject to  an Option (the
"Option Price") shall be fixed by the Board and stated in each Option Agreement,
and shall be not less than the greater  of par value or 100 percent of the  fair
market  value of  a share of  the Stock  on the date  the Option  is granted (as
determined in good faith by the Board); PROVIDED, HOWEVER, that in the event the
Optionee would otherwise be ineligible to  receive an Incentive Stock Option  by
reason  of the provisions of Sections 422(b)(6) and 424(d) of the Code (relating
to stock ownership of more than ten percent), the Option Price of an Option that
is intended to be an Incentive Stock  Option shall be not less than the  greater
of  par value or 110 percent of the fair market value of a share of Stock at the
time such  Option is  granted. In  the  event that  the Stock  is listed  on  an
established national or regional stock exchange, is admitted to quotation on the
National  Association of  Securities Dealers  Automated Quotation  System, or is
publicly traded on  an established  securities market, in  determining the  fair
market value of the Stock, the Board shall use the closing price of the Stock on
such  exchange or System  or in such  market (the highest  such closing price if
there is more that one such exchange or market) on the trading date  immediately
before  the Option is granted  (or, if there is no  such closing price, then the
Board shall use the mean between the high  and low prices on such date), or,  if
no  sale of the Stock  had been made on  such day, on the  next preceding day on
which any such sale shall have been made.

10. TERM AND EXERCISE OF OPTIONS

    (a) TERM.  Each Option granted under the Plan shall terminate and all rights
to purchase shares thereunder shall cease upon the expiration of ten years  from
the  date such Option is granted, or, with respect to Options granted to persons
other than  Non-Employee  Directors,  on  such date  prior  thereto  as  may  be

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fixed  by the Board and stated in  the Option Agreement relating to such Option;
PROVIDED, HOWEVER, that in the event the Optionee would otherwise be  ineligible
to  receive an Incentive  Stock Option by  reason of the  provisions of Sections
422(b)(6) and 424(d) of the Code (relating  to stock ownership of more than  ten
percent), an Option granted to such Optionee that is intended to be an Incentive
Stock Option shall in no event be exercisable after the expiration of five years
from the date it is granted.

    (b)  OPTION  PERIOD AND  LIMITATIONS ON  EXERCISE.   Each Option  granted to
persons other than Non-Employee Directors  under the Plan shall be  exercisable,
in whole or in part, at any time and from time to time, over a period commencing
on  or after the date of grant and  ending upon the expiration or termination of
the Option, as the Board shall determine  and set forth in the Option  Agreement
relating  to such Option. Without limiting  the foregoing, the Board, subject to
the terms and conditions of the Plan, may in its sole discretion provide that an
Option may not be  exercised in whole or  in part for any  period or periods  of
time  during which such Option is  outstanding; PROVIDED, HOWEVER, that any such
limitation on the exercise of an Option contained in any Option Agreement may be
rescinded, modified or waived by the Board, in its sole discretion, at any  time
and  from  time to  time  after the  date  of grant  of  such Option,  so  as to
accelerate the time at which the Option may be exercised. Each Option granted to
Non-Employee Directors shall be  exercisable, in whole or  in part, at any  time
and  from time to time, over a period commencing on the date of grant and ending
upon the expiration of  the Option. Notwithstanding any  other provision of  the
Plan,  no Option granted to  an Optionee under the  Plan shall be exercisable in
whole or in part prior to the date  the Plan is approved by the shareholders  of
the Company as provided in Section 5 above.

    (c)  METHOD OF  EXERCISE.   An Option that  is exercisable  hereunder may be
exercised by  delivery to  the Company  on any  business day,  at its  principal
office, addressed to the attention of the corporate secretary of the Company, of
written notice of exercise, which notice shall specify the number of shares with
respect  to which the Option is being exercised. The minimum number of shares of
Stock with respect to which an Option may be exercised, in whole or in part,  at
any  time shall  be the  lesser of 100  shares or  the maximum  number of shares
available for  purchase under  the Option  at the  time of  exercise. Except  as
provided  in the next following sentence, payment in full of the Option Price of
the shares for which the Option  is being exercised shall accompany the  written
notice of exercise of the Option and shall be made either (i) in cash or in cash
equivalents;  (ii) through the tender  to the Company of  shares of Stock, which
shares shall be  valued, for  purposes of determining  the extent  to which  the
Option  Price has been paid  thereby, at their fair  market value (determined in
the manner described in Section 9 above) on the date of exercise; or (iii) by  a
combination  of the methods  described in (i) and  (ii); provided, however, that
the Board may in  its discretion impose  and set forth  in the Option  Agreement
pertaining  to an  Option granted to  persons other  than Non-Employee Directors
such limitations  or prohibitions  on the  use of  shares of  Stock to  exercise
Options as it deems appropriate. Unless the Board shall provide otherwise in the
case  of an Option Agreement relating to an Option granted to someone other than
a Non-Employee Director, payment in full of the Option Price need not  accompany
the  written notice of exercise provided the notice of exercise directs that the
Stock certificate  or  certificates for  the  shares  for which  the  Option  is
exercised  be delivered to  a licensed broker  acceptable to the  Company as the
agent for  the individual  exercising the  Option and,  at the  time such  Stock
certificate  or certificates  are delivered, the  broker tenders  to the Company
cash (or cash equivalents acceptable to  the Company) equal to the Option  Price
for  the shares of Stock  purchased pursuant to the  exercise of the Option plus
the amount (if any)  of federal and  other taxes which the  Company may, in  its
judgment, be required to withhold with respect to the exercise of the Option. An
attempt  to exercise any Option granted hereunder  other than as set forth above
shall be invalid and of no force  and effect. Promptly after the exercise of  an
Option  and the  payment in  full of  the Option  Price of  the shares  of Stock
covered thereby, the individual exercising the  Option shall be entitled to  the
issuance of a Stock certificate or certificates evidencing his ownership of such
shares.  A separate  Stock certificate or  certificates shall be  issued for any
shares purchased pursuant  to the exercise  of an Option  which is an  Incentive
Stock  Option, which  certificate or certificates  shall not  include any shares
which were purchased  pursuant to  the exercise  of an  Option which  is not  an
Incentive Stock Option. An individual holding or exercising an Option shall have
none  of the rights of  a shareholder until the  shares of Stock covered thereby
are fully paid and issued to him and, except as provided in Section 18 below, no
adjustment shall be made for dividends or other rights for which the record date
is prior to the date of such issuance.

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    (d) RESTRICTIONS ON TRANSFER OF STOCK.   If an Option is exercised prior  to
the  date that  is six months  from the later  of (i)  the date of  grant of the
Option or (ii) the date of shareholder  approval of the Plan and the  individual
exercising  the Option is a reporting person under Section 16(a) of the Exchange
Act, then such certificate or certificates  shall bear a legend restricting  the
transfer  of the Stock covered  thereby until the expiration  of six months from
the later of the  date specified in  clause (i) above or  the date specified  in
clause (ii) above.

11. TRANSFERABILITY OF OPTIONS

    During  the lifetime of an Optionee to  whom an Option is granted, only such
Optionee (or, in the event of  legal incapacity or incompetence, the  Optionee's
guardian  or legal representative)  may exercise the Option.  No Option shall be
assignable or transferable by the Optionee to whom it is granted, other than  by
will or the laws of descent and distribution.

12. TERMINATION OF SERVICE OR EMPLOYMENT

    (a)  EMPLOYEES  AND  SUBSIDIARY  DIRECTORS.   Upon  the  termination  of the
employment or service of an Optionee  (other than a Non-Employee Director)  with
the Company or a Subsidiary, other than by reason of the death or "permanent and
total  disability" (within the meaning of Section  22(e)(3) of the Code) of such
Optionee, any Option granted to an Optionee pursuant to the Plan shall terminate
three months after the  date of such termination  of employment, unless  earlier
terminated  pursuant to  Section 10(a)  above, and  such Optionee  shall have no
further right to  purchase shares of  Stock pursuant to  such Option;  PROVIDED,
HOWEVER,that  the Board may provide, by inclusion of appropriate language in any
Option Agreement, that the Optionee may  (subject to the general limitations  on
exercise  set forth  in Section  10(b) above),  in the  event of  termination of
service or employment of the Optionee with the Company or a Subsidiary, exercise
an Option, in whole or  in part, at any time  subsequent to such termination  of
service or employment and prior to termination of the Option pursuant to Section
10(a)  above, either subject to or  without regard to any installment limitation
on exercise imposed pursuant to Section 10(b) above. Whether a leave of  absence
or  leave on  military or government  service shall constitute  a termination of
service or employment for purposes of the Plan shall be determined by the Board,
which determination shall be final and  conclusive. For purposes of the Plan,  a
termination  of employment with the Company or  a Subsidiary shall not be deemed
to occur  if the  Optionee is  immediately thereafter  employed with  or in  the
service of the Company or any Subsidiary.

    (b)  NON-EMPLOYEE DIRECTORS.  Except as  provided in Section 13, and subject
to Section 17(c)  below, any  Option granted  to a  Non-Employee Director  shall
terminate  upon  the expiration  of three  months after  the termination  of the
Non-Employee Director's service with  the Company or  any Subsidiary other  than
because  of death or "permanent  and total disability" as  defined above, or, if
earlier, upon the expiration of ten years after grant of the Option.

13. RIGHTS IN THE EVENT OF DEATH OR DISABILITY

    (a) DEATH.   If  an Optionee  dies while  in the  employ or  service of  the
Company  or  a Subsidiary  or  within the  period  following the  termination of
employment or service during  which the Option is  exercisable under Section  12
above  or Section  13(b) below, the  executors or administrators  or legatees or
distributees of such  Optionee's estate  shall have  the right  (subject to  the
general  limitations on exercise set forth in  Section 10(b) above), at any time
within one year after the date of such Optionee's death and prior to termination
of the Option pursuant to  Section 10(a) above, to  exercise any Option held  by
such  Optionee at the date of such  Optionee's death, whether or not such Option
was exercisable immediately prior to  such Optionee's death; PROVIDED,  HOWEVER,
that  with respect to an  Option granted other than  to a Non-Employee Director,
the Board  may  provide by  inclusion  of  appropriate language  in  the  Option
Agreement  that, in  the event of  the death  of the Optionee,  the executors or
administrators or  legatees  or  distributees  of  such  Optionee's  estate  may
exercise  an Option (subject to the general limitations on exercise set forth in
Section 10(b)  above), in  whole or  in part,  at any  time subsequent  to  such
Optionee's  death and  prior to  termination of  the Option  pursuant to Section
10(a) above, either subject to or  without regard to any installment  limitation
on exercise imposed pursuant to Section 10(b) above.

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    (b)  DISABILITY.  If  an Optionee terminates employment  or service with the
Company or  a Subsidiary  by  reason of  the  "permanent and  total  disability"
(within the meaning of Section 22(e)(3) of the Code) of such Optionee, then such
Optionee  shall have the  right (subject to the  general limitations on exercise
set forth  in Section  10(b) above),  at any  time within  one year  after  such
termination  of service  or employment  and prior  to termination  of the Option
pursuant to Section 10(a) above,  to exercise, in whole  or in part, any  Option
held  by such Optionee at the date of such termination of service or employment,
whether or not such Option was exercisable immediately prior to such termination
of service  or employment;  PROVIDED,  HOWEVER,that with  respect to  an  Option
granted  other  than  to a  Non-Employee  Director,  the Board  may  provide, by
inclusion of appropriate language in the Option Agreement, that the Optionee may
(subject to  the general  limitations on  exercise set  forth in  Section  10(b)
above), in the event of the termination of service or employment of the Optionee
with  the  Company  or  a  Subsidiary by  reason  of  the  "permanent  and total
disability" (within  the  meaning of  Section  22(e)(3)  of the  Code)  of  such
Optionee, exercise an Option in whole or in part, at any time subsequent to such
termination  of service  or employment  and prior  to termination  of the Option
pursuant to Section  10(a) above,  either subject to  or without  regard to  any
installment  limitation  on exercise  imposed pursuant  to Section  10(b) above.
Whether a termination of service or employment is to be considered by reason  of
"permanent  and total disability" for purposes  of this Plan shall be determined
by the Board, which determination shall be final and conclusive.

14. USE OF PROCEEDS

    The proceeds received  by the  Company from the  sale of  Stock pursuant  to
Options granted under the Plan shall constitute general funds of the Company.

15. REQUIREMENTS OF LAW

    (a)  VIOLATIONS OF LAW.  The Company shall  not be required to sell or issue
any shares of  Stock under any  Option if the  sale or issuance  of such  shares
would  constitute a  violation by  the individual  exercising the  Option or the
Company of  any  provisions  of  any  law  or  regulation  of  any  governmental
authority,  including without limitation any federal or state securities laws or
regulations. Specifically in connection with the Securities Act of 1933 (as  now
in  effect  or as  hereafter amended),  upon  exercise of  any Option,  unless a
registration statement under such Act is in effect with respect to the shares of
Stock covered by such Option, the Company shall not be required to sell or issue
such shares unless the Board has  received evidence satisfactory to it that  the
holder  of such  Option may  acquire such shares  pursuant to  an exemption from
registration under such Act. Any determination  in this connection by the  Board
shall  be final, binding, and conclusive. The Company may, but shall in no event
be obligated  to,  register  any  securities  covered  hereby  pursuant  to  the
Securities  Act of 1933 (as now in  effect or as hereafter amended). The Company
shall not be  obligated to take  any affirmative  action in order  to cause  the
exercise  of an Option or the issuance of shares pursuant thereto to comply with
any law or regulation of any governmental authority. As to any jurisdiction that
expressly imposes the requirement that an Option shall not be exercisable unless
and until the  shares of  Stock covered  by such  Option are  registered or  are
subject to an available exemption from registration, the exercise of such Option
(under  circumstances in  which the  laws of  such jurisdiction  apply) shall be
deemed  conditioned  upon  the  effectiveness   of  such  registration  or   the
availability of such an exemption.

    (b)  COMPLIANCE WITH RULE 16B-3.  The intent  of this Plan is to qualify for
the exemption provided by Rule 16b-3 under  the Exchange Act. To the extent  any
provision  of the Plan does  not comply with the  requirements of Rule 16b-3, it
shall be deemed inoperative to the extent permitted by law and deemed  advisable
by  the Board and shall not  affect the validity of the  Plan. In the event Rule
16b-3 is revised or replaced,  the Board, or the  Committee acting on behalf  of
the  Board, may exercise discretion to modify this Plan in any respect necessary
to satisfy the requirements of the revised exemption or its replacement.

16. AMENDMENT AND TERMINATION OF THE PLAN

    The Board  may,  at any  time  and from  time  to time,  amend,  suspend  or
terminate  the Plan as to any shares of  Stock as to which Options have not been
granted; PROVIDED,  HOWEVER,  that no  amendment  by the  Board  shall,  without
approval  by a majority of the votes present and entitled to vote at a duly held
meeting of the  shareholders of  the Company at  which a  quorum representing  a
majority  of all  outstanding voting  stock is,  either in  person or  by proxy,
present and  voting  on the  amendment,  or  by written  consent  in  accordance

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with  applicable state law  and the Certificate of  Incorporation and By-Laws of
the Company, materially increase the benefits accruing to participants under the
Plan, change the requirements as to  eligibility to receive Options or  increase
the maximum number of shares of Stock in the aggregate that may be sold pursuant
to Options granted under the Plan (except as permitted under Section 17 hereof).
Except  as  permitted  under  Section 17  hereof,  no  amendment,  suspension or
termination of the Plan shall, without the consent of the holder of the  Option,
alter or impair rights or obligations under any Option theretofore granted under
the Plan.

17. EFFECT OF CHANGES IN CAPITALIZATION

    (a)  CHANGES IN STOCK.  If the  outstanding shares of Stock are increased or
decreased or changed into or exchanged for a different number or kind of  shares
or   other  securities  of  the  Company  by  reason  of  any  recapitalization,
reclassification, stock split, reverse split, combination of shares, exchange of
shares, stock dividend or other distribution payable in capital stock, or  other
increase or decrease in such shares effected without receipt of consideration by
the  Company, occurring  after the  effective date of  the Plan,  the number and
kinds of shares for the purchase of which Options may be granted under the  Plan
shall  be adjusted proportionately and accordingly  by the Company. In addition,
the number  and  kind of  shares  for which  Options  are outstanding  shall  be
adjusted  proportionately and accordingly so  that the proportionate interest of
the holder of the Option immediately  following such event shall, to the  extent
practicable, be the same as immediately prior to such event. Any such adjustment
in  outstanding Options shall not change the aggregate Option Price payable with
respect to shares subject to the  unexercised portion of the Option  outstanding
but  shall include a corresponding proportionate  adjustment in the Option Price
per share.

    (b)   REORGANIZATION    IN   WHICH    THE   COMPANY    IS   THE    SURVIVING
CORPORATION.   Subject  to Subsection  (c) hereof, if  the Company  shall be the
surviving corporation in  any reorganization,  merger, or  consolidation of  the
Company  with one  or more  other corporations,  any Option  theretofore granted
pursuant to the Plan  shall pertain to  and apply to the  securities to which  a
holder  of the number of shares of Stock  subject to such Option would have been
entitled immediately following  such reorganization,  merger, or  consolidation,
with  a corresponding proportionate adjustment of  the Option Price per share so
that the aggregate Option  Price thereafter shall be  the same as the  aggregate
Option  Price of the shares remaining subject to the Option immediately prior to
such reorganization, merger, or consolidation.

    (c) REORGANIZATION IN WHICH THE COMPANY IS NOT THE SURVIVING CORPORATION  OR
SALE OF ASSETS OR STOCK.  Upon the dissolution or liquidation of the Company, or
upon  a merger, consolidation,  reorganization or other  business combination of
the Company with  one or more  other entities in  which the Company  is not  the
surviving  entity, or upon a  sale of all or substantially  all of the assets of
the Company  to another  entity,  or upon  any transaction  (including,  without
limitation,  a merger  or reorganization in  which the Company  is the surviving
corporation) approved by  the Board which  results in any  person or entity  (or
persons or entities acting as a group or otherwise in concert) owning 80 percent
or more of the combined voting power of all classes of stock of the Company, the
Plan and all Options outstanding hereunder shall terminate, except to the extent
provision  is  made  in writing  in  connection  with such  transaction  for the
continuation of  the  Plan and/or  the  assumption of  the  Options  theretofore
granted,  or for the substitution  for such Options of  new options covering the
stock of a successor entity, or a parent or subsidiary thereof, with appropriate
adjustments as to the number and kinds  of shares and exercise prices, in  which
event  the Plan and Options theretofore granted shall continue in the manner and
under the terms so provided. In the  event of any such termination of the  Plan,
each  individual holding an Option shall have  the right (subject to the general
limitations on exercise set forth in Section 10(b) above and except as otherwise
specifically  provided  in  the  Option  Agreement  relating  to  such  Option),
immediately  prior to the occurrence of  such termination and during such period
occurring prior to such  termination as the Board  in its sole discretion  shall
determine and designate, to exercise such Option in whole or in part, whether or
not  such Option was  otherwise exercisable at the  time such termination occurs
and without regard to any installment limitation on exercise imposed pursuant to
Section 10(b) above. The Board shall send  written notice of an event that  will
result  in such a termination to all individuals who hold Options not later than
the time at which the Company gives notice thereof to its shareholders.

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    (d) ADJUSTMENTS.   Adjustments under  this Section  17 related  to stock  or
securities  of the Company  shall be made  by the Board,  whose determination in
that respect shall be  final, binding, and conclusive.  No fractional shares  of
Stock  or  units  of other  securities  shall  be issued  pursuant  to  any such
adjustment, and  any  fractions resulting  from  any such  adjustment  shall  be
eliminated in each case by rounding downward to the nearest whole share or unit.

    (e)  NO LIMITATIONS ON COMPANY.  The grant of an Option pursuant to the Plan
shall not affect or limit in any way  the right or power of the Company to  make
adjustments,  reclassifications, reorganizations  or changes  of its  capital or
business structure or to merge, consolidate,  dissolve or liquidate, or to  sell
or transfer all or any part of its business or assets.

18. DISCLAIMER OF RIGHTS

    No  provision  in the  Plan or  in  any Option  granted or  Option Agreement
entered into  pursuant  to  the Plan  shall  be  construed to  confer  upon  any
individual  the right to remain  in the employ or service  of the Company or any
Subsidiary, or to  interfere in  any way  with the  right and  authority of  the
Company or any Subsidiary either to increase or decrease the compensation of any
individual  at any  time, or to  terminate any employment  or other relationship
between any individual and the Company or any Subsidiary.

19. NONEXCLUSIVITY OF THE PLAN

    Neither the adoption  of the  Plan nor  the submission  of the  Plan to  the
shareholders  of the  Company for  approval shall  be construed  as creating any
limitations upon  the right  and authority  of  the Board  to adopt  such  other
incentive compensation arrangements (which arrangements may be applicable either
generally  to a class or classes of  individuals or specifically to a particular
individual or individuals) as the Board in its discretion determines  desirable,
including,   without  limitation,  the  granting   of  stock  options  or  stock
appreciation rights otherwise than under the Plan.

                                    *  *  *

    This Plan was duly  adopted and approved  by the Board  of Directors of  the
Company by resolution at a meeting held on the 28th day of February, 1994.

                                          /s/ John F. Costigan__________________
                                          SECRETARY OF THE COMPANY

    This  Plan was duly approved by the shareholders of the Company at a meeting
of the shareholders held on the             of            , 1994.

                                          ______________________________________
                                          SECRETARY OF THE COMPANY

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Solicitation, Voting and Revocability of
  Proxies......................................           1
Stock Owned by Management......................           2
Stock Owned by Principal Shareholders..........           4
Election of Directors..........................           5
Executive Compensation and Other Information...          10
Approval of 1994 Stock Option Plan.............          15
Ratification of Appointment of Independent
  Public Accountants...........................          20
Shareholders' Proposals........................          20
Other Matters..................................          21
Exhibit A......................................         A-1


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                                DS BANCOR, INC.

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                                PROXY STATEMENT

                                 MARCH 30, 1994

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DS BANCOR, INC.
33 ELIZABETH STREET
DERBY, CONNECTICUT  06418
THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS.

P
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The undersigned shareholder of DS Bancor, Inc. (the "Corporation") hereby
appoints Harry P. DiAdamo, Jr. and John F. Costigan, and each of them,
with full power of substitution, as proxies to cast all votes, as designated
below, which the undersigned shareholder is entitled to cast at the 1994
annual meeting of shareholders (the "Annual Meeting") to be held on
April 27, 1994 at 10:00 a.m., local time, at the Trumbull Marriott, 180
Hawley Lane, Trumbull, Connecticut, and at any adjournments thereof, upon
the following matters.

This proxy will be voted as directed by the undersigned shareholder. UNLESS
CONTRARY DIRECTION IS GIVEN, THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED FOR THE ELECTION OF THE
NOMINEES LISTED IN PROPOSAL 1, FOR PROPOSALS 2 AND 3, AND IN ACCORDANCE WITH
THE RECOMMENDATIONS OF A MAJORITY OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS AS TO OTHER
MATTERS.

The undersigned shareholder hereby acknowledges receipt of the Notice of Annual
Meeting and Proxy Statement and hereby revokes any proxy or proxies heretofore
given. This proxy may be revoked at any time prior to its exercise.

See Reverse side
(Continued and to be signed and dated on reverse side)



/X/    PLEASE MARK YOUR VOTES AS IN THIS EXAMPLE.

3101

FOR all nominees listed below (except as marked to the contrary below)

WITHHOLD AUTHORITY to vote for all nominees listed below

NOMINEES:  Michael F. Daddona, Jr.,
           Christopher H.B. Mills and
           John P. Sponheimer


(INSTRUCTION: TO WITHHOLD AUTHORITY TO VOTE FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL NOMINEE, WRITE
THAT NOMINEE'S NAME ON THE SPACE PROVIDED BELOW.)

        For       Against        Abstain

1.  To elect three directors each for a three-year term.

2.  To approve the Corporation's 1994 stock option plan.

3.  To ratify the appointment by the Corporation's board of directors of the
firm of Friedberg, Smith & Co., P.C. as independent public accountants of the
Corporation for the year ending December 31, 1994.

If you receive more than one proxy card, please date, sign and return all cards
in the accompanying envelope.

SIGNATURE(S)_______________________________ DATE ___________________

(Please date and sign here exactly as name appears at left. When signing as
attorney, administrator, trustee or guardian, give full title as such; and when
stock has been issued in the name of two or more persons, all should sign.)