EXHIBIT 4

                NORTH COUNTY BANCORP 1997 INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION PLAN
                       FORM OF INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT
                     FORM OF NON-QUALIFIED STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT




                                 NORTH COUNTY BANCORP
                                1997 STOCK OPTION PLAN
                                ADOPTED APRIL 16, 1997

         1.   PURPOSE.  The purpose of the North County Bancorp 1997 Stock 
Option Plan (the "Plan") is to strengthen NORTH COUNTY BANCORP (the 
"Company") and those corporations which are or hereafter become subsidiary 
corporations of the Company, within the meaning of Section 424(f) of the 
Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended (the "Code"), by providing to 
participating employees and directors added incentive for high levels of 
performance and for unusual efforts to increase the earnings of the Company 
and its subsidiary corporations.  The Plan seeks to accomplish those purposes 
and results by providing a means whereby such employees and directors may 
purchase shares of the Common Stock of the Company pursuant to (a) options 
granted pursuant to the Incentive Stock Option Plan (the "Incentive Plan") 
(Division A hereof), or (b) options granted pursuant to the Non-Qualified 
Stock Option Plan (the "Non-Qualified Plan") (Division B hereof) which are 
intended to be non-qualified stock options as described in Treas. Reg. 
Section 1.83-7 to which Section 421 of the Code does not apply 
("Non-Qualified Options"). (Hereinafter the term "Options" shall refer 
collectively to Incentive Options and Non-Qualified Options.)

         2.   ADMINISTRATION.  This Plan shall be administered by the Board 
of Directors of the Company (the "Board of Directors").  Any action of the 
Board of Directors with respect to  administration of the Plan will be taken 
pursuant to a majority vote of its members; provided, however, that with 
respect to action taken by the Board of Directors in granting an option to an 
individual director, such action must be authorized by the required number of 
directors without counting the interested director, who will abstain as to 
any vote on his or her option.  An interested director may be counted in 
determining the presence of a quorum at a meeting of the Board of Directors 
where such action will be taken.

         Subject to the express provisions of the Plan, the Board of 
Directors shall have the authority to construe and interpret the Plan, and to 
define the terms used herein, to prescribe, amend, and rescind rules and 
regulations relating to administration of the Plan, to determine the duration 
and purposes of leaves of absence which may be granted to participants 
without constituting a termination of their employment for purposes of the 
Plan, and to make all other determinations necessary or advisable for 
administration of the Plan, including without limitation, compliance with 
Rule 16b-3 promulgated pursuant to the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as 
amended.  Determinations of the Board of Directors on matters referred to in 
this section shall be final and conclusive.  





         3.   PARTICIPATION; LIMITATION ON AMOUNT OF OUTSTANDING OPTIONS.  
All employees of the Company and its subsidiary corporations are eligible for 
selection to receive both Incentive Options and Non-Qualified Options under 
the Plan. Directors of the Company and its subsidiary corporations who are 
not also employees of the Company or a subsidiary corporation are eligible to 
receive only Non-Qualified Options under the Plan.  Subject to the express 
provisions of the Plan, the Board of Directors shall select from the eligible 
class and determine the individuals who shall receive Options, whether such 
Options shall be Incentive Options or Non-Qualified Options, and the terms and 
provisions of the Options (which need not be identical), and shall grant such 
Options to such individuals.  An individual who has been granted an Option 
(an "Optionee") may, if such individual is otherwise eligible, be granted 
additional Options if the Board of Directors shall so determine.

         4.   STOCK SUBJECT TO THE PLAN.  Subject to adjustment as provided 
in Section 13 hereof, the stock to be offered under the Plan shall be shares 
of the Company's authorized but unissued common stock, no par value 
(hereinafter called "stock"), and the aggregate amount of stock to be 
delivered upon exercise of all Options granted under the Plan, whether 
Incentive Options or Non-Qualified Options, shall not exceed Five Hundred 
Forty Thousand (540,000) shares.  If any Option shall expire for any reason 
without having been exercised in full, the unpurchased shares subject thereto 
shall again be available for purposes of the Plan.

         5.   OPTION PRICE.  The purchase price of stock subject to each 
Option shall be determined by the Board of Directors but shall not be less 
than one hundred percent (100%) of the fair market value of such stock at the 
time such Option is granted.  As to any Incentive Option to an Optionee who, 
immediately before the Option is granted, owns beneficially more than ten 
percent (10%) of the outstanding stock of the Company, the purchase price 
must be at least one hundred ten percent (110%) of the fair market value of 
the stock at the time when such Option is granted.  The fair market value of 
such stock shall be determined in accordance with any reasonable valuation 
method, including the valuation methods described in Treas. Reg. Section 
20.2031-2.  The purchase price of any shares purchased shall be paid in full 
in cash at the time of each such purchase.

         6.   OPTION PERIOD.  Each Option and all rights or obligations 
thereunder shall expire on such date as the Board of Directors may determine, 
but not later than ten (10) years from the date such Option is granted, and 
shall be subject to earlier termination as provided elsewhere in the Plan.  
As to any Incentive Option granted to an Optionee who, immediately before the 
option is granted, owns beneficially more than ten percent (10%) of the 
outstanding stock of the Company (whether acquired upon exercise of Options 
or otherwise), such option must not be exercisable by its terms after five 
(5) years from the date of its grant.

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         7.   CONTINUATION OF EMPLOYMENT.  In the case of employees, nothing 
contained in the Plan (or in any Option agreement) shall obligate the Company 
or its subsidiary corporations to employ any Optionee for any period or 
interfere in any way with the right of the Company or its subsidiary 
corporations to reduce such Optionee's compensation.

         8.   EXERCISE OF OPTIONS.  Each Option shall be exercisable in such 
installments, which need not be equal, and upon such conditions as the Board 
of Directors shall determine; provided, however, that if an Optionee shall 
not in any given installment period purchase all of the shares which such 
Optionee is entitled to purchase in such installment period, such Optionee's 
right to purchase any shares not purchased in such installment period shall 
continue until the expiration of such Option.  No Option or installment 
thereof shall be exercisable except of whole shares, and fractional share 
interests shall be disregarded except that they may be accumulated in 
accordance with the next preceding sentence.  Options may be exercised by ten 
(10) days written notice delivered to the Company stating the number of 
shares with respect to which the Option is being exercised, together with 
cash in the amount of the purchase price for such shares.  No fewer than ten 
(10) shares may be purchased at one time unless the number purchased is the 
total number which may be purchased under the Option.  As a condition to the 
exercise of a Non-Qualified Option in whole or in part, by an Optionee who is 
an employee of the Company or any of its subsidiary corporations (or who was 
an employee during the term of the Option), the Optionee shall be required to 
pay to the Company, in addition to the purchase price for the shares being 
exercised, an amount equal to any taxes required to be withheld by the 
Company in order to enable the Company to claim a deduction in connection 
with the exercise of the Option.

         9.   NONTRANSFERABILITY OF OPTIONS.  Each Option shall, by its 
terms, be nontransferable by the Optionee, other than by Will or the laws of 
descent and distribution, and shall be exercisable during such Optionee's 
lifetime only by the Optionee.

         10.  CESSATION OF EMPLOYMENT; DISABILITY.  Except as provided in 
Sections 6 and 11 hereof, if an Optionee ceases to be employed by or ceases 
to serve as a director of the Company or a subsidiary corporation for any 
reason other than death or disability, such Optionee's Option shall expire 
ninety (90) days thereafter, and during such period after such Optionee 
ceases to be an employee or director, such Option shall be exercisable only 
as to those shares with respect to which installments, if any, had accrued as 
of the date on which the Optionee ceased to be employed by or ceased to serve 
as a director of the Company or such subsidiary corporation.  Except as 
provided in Sections 6 and 11, if an Optionee ceases to be employed by or 
ceases to serve as a director of the Company or a subsidiary corporation by 
reason of disability (within the meaning of 


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Section 22(e)(3)of the Code), such Optionee's Option shall expire not later 
than one (1) year thereafter, and during such period after such Optionee 
ceases to be an employee or director, such Option shall be exercisable only 
as to those shares with respect to which installments, if any, had accrued as 
of the date on which the Optionee ceased to be employed by or ceased to serve 
as a director of the Company or such subsidiary corporation.

         11.  TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT FOR CAUSE.  If an Optionee's 
employment by or service as director of the Company or a subsidiary 
corporation is terminated for cause, such Optionee's Option shall expire 
immediately; provided, however, that the Board of Directors may, in its sole 
discretion, within thirty (30) days of such termination, waive the expiration 
of the Option by giving written notice of such waiver to the Optionee at such 
Optionee's last known address.  In the event of such waiver, the Optionee may 
exercise the Option only to such extent, for such time, and upon such terms 
and conditions as if such Optionee had ceased to be employed by or ceased to 
serve as a director of the Company or such subsidiary corporation upon the 
date of such termination for a reason other than cause, disability, or death. 
In the case of an employee, termination for causes shall include termination 
for malfeasance or gross misfeasance in the performance of duties, conviction 
of illegal activity in connection therewith, any conduct seriously 
detrimental to the interests of the Company or a subsidiary corporation, or 
removal pursuant to the exercise of regulatory authority by the Board of 
Governors of the Federal Reserve System (the "FRB") or any applicable bank 
supervisory agency; and in any event, the determination of the Board of 
Directors with respect thereto shall be final and conclusive.  In the case of 
a director, termination for cause shall include removal pursuant to Section 
302 or 304 of the California Code or removal pursuant to the exercise of 
regulatory authority by the FRB or any applicable bank supervisory agency.

         12.  DEATH OF OPTIONEE.  Except as provided in Section 6 hereof, if 
any Optionee dies while employed by or serving as a director of the Company 
or a subsidiary corporation or during the 90-day or one-year period referred 
to in Section 10 hereof, such Optionee's Option shall expire one (1) year 
after the date of such death.  After such death but before such expiration, 
the persons to whom the Optionee's rights under the Option shall have passed 
by Will or by the applicable laws of descent and distribution shall have the 
right to exercise such Option to the extent that installments, if any, had 
accrued as of the date on which the Optionee ceased to be employed by or 
ceased to serve as a director of the Company or such subsidiary corporation.

         13.  ADJUSTMENTS UPON CHANGES IN CAPITALIZATION.  If the outstanding 
shares of the  stock of the Company are increased, decreased, or changed 
into, or exchanged for a different 


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number or class of shares or securities of the Company, without receipt of 
consideration by the Company, through reorganization, merger 
reclassification, stock split, stock dividend, stock consolidation, or 
otherwise, an appropriate and proportionate adjustment shall be made in the 
number and class of shares as to which Options may be granted.  A 
corresponding adjustment changing the number or class of shares and the 
exercise price per share allocated to unexercised Options, or portions 
thereof, which shall have been granted prior to any such change shall 
likewise be made.  Any such adjustment, however, in an outstanding Option 
shall be made without change in the total price applicable to the unexercised 
portion of the Option but with a corresponding adjustment in the price for 
each share subject to the Option.  No fractional shares of stock shall be 
issued under the Plan on account of any such adjustment.

         14.  TERMINATING EVENTS.  Not less than thirty (30) days prior to a 
"Terminating Event," i.e., a dissolution or liquidation of the Company; or a 
reorganization, merger, or consolidation of the Company with one or more 
corporations as a result of which the Company will not be the surviving 
entity; or a sale of substantially all the assets and property of the Company 
to another person; or in the event of any other transaction involving the 
Company where there is a change in ownership of at least twenty-five percent 
(25%), except as may result from a transfer of shares to another corporation 
in exchange for at least eighty percent (80%) control of that corporation, 
the Board of Directors shall notify each Optionee of the pendency of the 
Terminating Event.  Upon delivery of said notice, any Option granted prior to 
the Terminating Event shall be, notwithstanding the provisions of Section 8 
thereof, exercisable in full and not only as to those shares with respect to 
which installments, if any, have then accrued, subject, however, to earlier 
expirations or termination as provided elsewhere in the Plan.  Upon the date 
sixty (60) days after delivery of said notice, any Option or portion thereof 
not exercised shall terminate, and upon the effective date of the Terminating 
Event, the Plan and any Options granted thereunder shall terminate, unless 
provision is made in connection with the Terminating Event for assumption of 
Options therefore granted by the successor or acquirer, as applicable, or 
substitution for such Options of new options covering stock of a successor 
employer corporation, or a parent or subsidiary corporation thereof, with 
appropriate adjustments as to number and class of shares and prices.

         15.  AMENDMENT AND TERMINATION BY BOARD OF DIRECTORS.  The Board of 
Directors may at any time suspend, amend, or terminate the Plan and may, 
with the consent of any Optionee, make such modification of the terms and 
conditions of such Optionee's Option as it shall deem advisable, provided 
that, except as permitted under the provisions of Section 13 hereof, any 
amendment or modification of the Plan which would:

    (a)  increase the maximum number of shares which may be purchased 
pursuant to Options granted under the Plan; 


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    (b)  change the minimum option price;

    (c)  increase the maximum term of Options provided for herein; or

    (d)  permit Options to be granted to anyone other than a director or 
         employee of the Company or a subsidiary corporation,

requires the approval of the Company's shareholders as described below.  Any 
amendment or modification requiring shareholder approval shall be deemed 
adopted as of date of the action of the Board of Directors effecting such 
amendment or modification and shall be effective immediately, unless 
otherwise provided therein, subject to approval thereof within twelve (12) 
months before or after the effective date by shareholders of the Company 
holding not less than a majority of the voting power of the Company; 
provided, however, that the Board of Directors may amend that Plan IN TOTO 
without shareholder approval if the Plan has not yet been approved by the 
shareholders.

              Notwithstanding the above, the Board of Directors may grant to 
an Optionee, if such Optionee is otherwise eligible, additional Options or, 
with the consent of the Optionee, grant a new Option in lieu of an 
outstanding Option for a number of shares, at a purchase price and for a term 
which in any respect is greater or less than that of the earlier Option, 
subject to the limitations of Sections 5, 6, and A-2 hereof.

              No Option may be granted during any suspension of the Plan or 
after termination of the Plan.  Amendment, suspension, or termination of the 
Plan shall not, without the consent of the Optionee, alter or impair any 
rights or obligations under any Option outstanding prior to such amendment, 
suspension or termination of the Plan.

         16.  TIME OF GRANTING OPTIONS.  The time an Option is granted, 
sometimes referred to as the date of grant, shall be the date of the action of 
the Board of Directors described in the second sentence of Section 2 hereof; 
provided, however, that if appropriate resolutions of the Board of Directors 
indicate that an Option is to be granted as of and on some future date, the 
time such Option is granted shall be such future date.  If action by the 
Board of Directors is taken by unanimous written consent of its members, the 
action of the Board of Directors shall be deemed to be at the time the last 
Board member signs the consent.


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         17.  PRIVILEGES OF STOCK OWNERSHIP; SECURITIES LAWS COMPLIANCE; 
NOTICE OF SALE.  No Optionee shall be entitled to the privileges of stock 
ownership as to any shares of stock not actually issued and delivered.  No 
shares shall be issued upon the exercise of any Option unless and until any 
then applicable requirements of any regulatory agencies having jurisdiction, 
and of any exchanges upon which stock of the Company may be listed, shall be 
listed, shall have been fully complied with.  The Company will diligently 
endeavor to comply with all applicable securities laws before any Options are 
granted under the Plan and before any stock is issued pursuant to Options.  
The Company shall register the underlying shares of common stock with the 
Securities and Exchange Commission and deliver to each Optionee an 
Information Statement relating to the Plan which meets the requirements of 
Section 10(a) of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended.  With respect to 
Options granted to affiliates of the Company or its subsidiary corporations, 
the Company shall file a reoffer prospectus and any required prospectus 
supplements to facilitate the disposition of such shares of stock owned by 
such affiliates after the exercise of Options granted thereto.  Additionally, 
the Optionee shall comply with all applicable federal and state securities 
laws in connection with any sale or other disposition of such common stock.

         18.  EFFECTIVE DATE OF THE PLAN.  The Plan shall be deemed adopted 
as of the date first shown herein and shall be effective immediately, subject 
to approval hereof within twelve (12) months before or after said date by 
shareholders holding not less than a majority of the voting power of the 
Company.

         19.  TERMINATION.  Unless previously terminated by the Board of 
Directors or as provided in Section 14 hereof, the Plan shall terminate at 
the close of business on April 16, 2007 and no Options shall be granted under 
it thereafter, but such terminations shall not affect any Option theretofore 
granted.

         20.  OPTION AGREEMENT.  Each Option shall be evidenced by a written 
Stock Option Agreement executed by the Company and the Optionee and shall 
contain each of the provisions and agreements herein specifically required to 
be contained therein, including whether the Option is an Incentive Option or 
Non-Qualified Option, and such other terms and conditions as are deemed 
desirable and are not inconsistent with the Plan.

         21.  EXCULPATION AND INDEMNIFICATION.  The Company shall indemnify 
and hold harmless each member of the Board of Directors in any action brought 
against such member or members to the maximum extent permitted by then 
applicable law and the Articles of Incorporation and Bylaws of the Company 
and any amendments thereto.



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                                  DIVISION A
                          INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION PLAN

    A-1. ELIGIBLE PERSONS.  All employees of the Company and its subsidiary 
corporations shall be eligible for selection to participate in the Incentive 
Plan. Notwithstanding any provision of this Plan to the contrary, no director 
of the Company or any subsidiary corporation who is not an employee of the 
Company or any subsidiary corporation may be granted options under the 
Incentive Plan.

    A-2. LIMIT ON EXERCISABILITY OF OPTIONS.  The aggregate fair market value 
(determined as of the time the Option is granted) of the stock for which any 
employee may be granted Incentive Options which are FIRST EXERCISABLE during 
any one calendar year (under all Incentive Stock Option Plans for such 
employee's employer corporation and its parent and subsidiary corporations) 
shall not exceed One Hundred Thousand Dollars ($100,000), regardless of any 
unused limits of previous years.

    A-3. INCORPORATION BY REFERENCE.  The provisions of Sections 5, 6, 9 and 
18 of the Plan are hereby incorporated by this reference into this Incentive 
Stock Option Plan.

    A-4. INTERPRETATION OF PLAN.  Options granted pursuant to the Incentive 
Plan are intended to be "incentive stock options" within the meaning of 
Section 422 of the Code, and the Incentive Plan shall be constructed to 
implement that intent. If all or any part of an Incentive Option shall not be 
deemed an "incentive stock option" within the meaning of Section 422 of the 
Code, said Option shall nevertheless be valid and carried into effect as a 
Non-Qualified Option.
                                       
                                   DIVISION B
                         NON-QUALIFIED STOCK OPTION PLAN

    B-1. ELIGIBLE PERSONS.  All directors and employees of the Company and 
its subsidiary corporations shall be eligible for selection to participate in 
the Non-Qualified Plan.

    B-2. INTERPRETATION OF PLAN.  Options granted pursuant to the 
Non-Qualified Plan are intended to be non-qualified stock options described 
in Treas. Reg. Section 1.83-7 to which Section 421 of the Code does not 
apply, and the Non-Qualified Plan shall be constructed to implement that 
intent.


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NOTWITHSTANDING ANY OTHER PROVISION OF THIS AGREEMENT, NO SHARES OF THE 
COMPANY'S STOCK SHALL BE ISSUED PURSUANT HERETO UNLESS THE COMPANY'S STOCK 
OPTION PLAN SHALL HAVE FIRST BEEN APPROVED BY SHAREHOLDERS OF THE COMPANY 
HOLDING NOT LESS THAN A MAJORITY OF THE VOTING POWER OF THE COMPANY.
                                       
                             NORTH COUNTY BANCORP 
                       INCENTIVE STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT

         THIS AGREEMENT is dated the _____ day of __________, _____, by and 
between North County Bancorp, a California corporation (the "Company"), and 
________________________ ("Optionee").

         WHEREAS, pursuant to Division A of the North County Bancorp 1997 
Stock Option Plan (the "Plan"), the Board of Directors of the Company has 
authorized granting to Optionee an incentive stock option to purchase all or 
any part of ____________________________________  (_________) authorized but 
unissued shares of common stock of the Company, for cash at the price of 
______________________________ Dollars ($__________) per share, such option 
to be for the term and upon the terms and conditions hereinafter stated; and

         WHEREAS, the Company has provided to Optionee a copy of that certain 
"Information Statement" which describes the material terms and provisions of 
the Plan and of this Agreement and contains certain other material 
information relating to the Company;

         NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the mutual covenants contained 
herein, and intending to be legally bound, it is hereby agreed as follows: 


         1.   GRANT OF OPTION.  Pursuant to said action of the Board of 
Directors and pursuant to authorizations granted by all appropriate 
regulatory and governmental agencies, the Company  hereby grants to Optionee 
the option to purchase, upon and subject to the terms and conditions of the 
Plan, which is incorporated in full herein by reference and is available to 
Optionee upon request, all or any part of __________________________________ 
_____________________ (__________) shares of common stock of the Company at 
the price of _________________ Dollars ($__________) per share, which price 
is not less than one hundred percent (100%) of the fair market value of such 
stock as of the date of action of the Board of Directors granting this option.




         2.   EXERCISABILITY.  This option shall be exercisable as to ________
_______________________________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________________________
This option shall remain exercisable as to all of such shares until ___________,
_______ unless this option has expired or terminated earlier in 
accordance with the provisions hereof.  Shares as to which this option 
becomes exercisable pursuant to the foregoing provision may be purchased at 
any time prior to the expiration of this option.  In no event, however, shall 
the value of shares of stock, which may be the subject of any incentive 
option hereunder and which are first exercisable during any one year, exceed 
$100,000.  Notwithstanding the preceding provisions of this paragraph, upon 
delivery of notice to Optionee from the Board of Directors of the pendency of 
a "Terminating Event," i.e., a dissolution or liquidation of the Company; or 
a reorganization, merger, or consolidation of the Company with one or more 
corporations as a result of which the Company will not be the surviving 
entity; or a sale of substantially all the assets and property of the Company 
to another person; or in the event of any other transaction involving the 
Company where there is a change in ownership of at least twenty-five percent 
(25%), except as may result from a transfer of shares to another corporation 
in exchange for at least eighty percent (80%) control of that corporation, 
this option shall be exercisable in full and not only as to those shares with 
respect to which installments, if any, have then accrued subject, however, to 
earlier termination or expiration as provided elsewhere in the Plan. Upon the 
date sixty (60) days after receipt of said notice, this option or any portion 
hereof not exercised shall terminate, unless provision is made in connection 
with the Terminating Event for assumption of this option by the successor or 
acquiror, as applicable, or for substitution for this option of new options 
covering stock of a successor employer corporation, or a parent or subsidiary 
corporation thereof, with appropriate adjustments as to number and class of 
shares and prices.  


         3.   EXERCISE OF OPTION.  This option may be exercised by ten (10) 
days' written notice delivered to the Company stating the number of shares 
with respect to which this option is being exercised, together with cash in 
the amount of the purchase price of such shares.  No fewer than ten (10) 
shares may be purchased at any one time unless the number purchased is the 
total number which may be purchased under this option.  


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         4.   CESSATION OF EMPLOYMENT.  Except as provided in Paragraph 5 
hereof, if Optionee shall cease to be employed by the Company or a subsidiary 
corporation for any reason other than Optionee's disability or death, this 
option shall expire ninety (90) days thereafter or, if earlier, on the date 
specified in Paragraph 2 hereof.  If Optionee shall cease to be employed by 
the Company or a subsidiary corporation by reason of disability (within the 
meaning of Section 22(e)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended 
(the "Code")), this option shall expire one (1) year thereafter or, if 
earlier, on the date specified in Paragraph 2 hereof.  Before any such 
expiration, Optionee shall have the right to exercise this option as to those 
shares with respect to which installments, if any, had accrued under 
Paragraph 2 hereof. 

         5.    TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT FOR CAUSE.  If Optionee's employment 
by the Company or a subsidiary corporation is terminated for cause, this 
option shall expire immediately, unless such expiration is waived by the 
Board of Directors within thirty (30) days of such termination by giving 
written notice of such waiver to Optionee at Optionee's last known address.  
In the event of such waiver, Optionee may exercise this option only to such 
extent, for such time, and upon such terms and conditions as if Optionee had 
ceased to be employed by the Company or a subsidiary corporation upon the 
date of such termination for a reason other than cause, disability, or death. 
Termination for cause shall include termination for malfeasance or gross 
misfeasance in the performance of duties, conviction of illegal activity in 
connection therewith, any conduct seriously detrimental to the interests of 
the Company or a subsidiary corporation, or removal pursuant to the exercise 
of regulatory authority by the Board of Governors of the Federal Reserve 
System (the "FRB") or any bank supervisory agency; and in any event, the 
determination of the Board of Directors with respect thereto shall be final 
and conclusive.

         6.   NONTRANSFERABILITY; DEATH OF OPTIONEE.  This option shall not 
be transferable except by Will or by the laws of descent and distribution and 
shall be exercisable only by Optionee during Optionee's lifetime.  If 
Optionee dies while employed by the Company or a subsidiary corporation, or 
during the 90-day or one-year period referred to in Paragraph 4 hereof, this 
option shall expire one (1) year after the date of Optionee's death or, if 
earlier, on the date specified in Paragraph 2 hereof.  After Optionee's death 
but before such expiration, the persons to whom Optionee's rights under this 
option shall have passed by Will or by the applicable laws of descent and 
distribution shall have the right to exercise this option as to those shares 
with respect to which installments had accrued under Paragraph 2 hereof as of 
the date on which Optionee ceased to be employed by the Company or a 
subsidiary corporation.

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         7.   EMPLOYMENT.  This Agreement shall not obligate the Company or a 
subsidiary corporation to employ Optionee for any period, nor shall it 
interfere in any way with the right of the Company or a subsidiary 
corporation to reduce Optionee's compensation.

         8.    PRIVILEGES OF STOCK OWNERSHIP.  Optionee shall have no rights 
as a stockholder with respect to common stock of the Company subject to this 
option until the date of issuance of stock certificates to Optionee.  Except 
as provided in Section 13 of the Plan, no adjustment will be made for 
dividends or other rights for which the record date is prior to the date such 
stock certificates are issued. 

         9.   MODIFICATION AND TERMINATION BY BOARD OF DIRECTORS.  The rights 
of Optionee are subject to modification and termination in certain events as 
provided in Section 15 of the Plan, but only with the consent of Optionee.  

         10.  INTERPRETATION OF OPTION.  This option is intended to be an 
"incentive stock option" within the meaning of Section 422 of the Code and 
shall be construed to implement that intent.  If all or any part of this 
option shall not be deemed an "incentive stock option" within the meaning of 
Section 422 of the Code, said option shall nevertheless be valid and carried 
into effect as a "non-qualified option" subject to Division B of the Plan.

         IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Agreement 
on the date first above written.

                                          NORTH COUNTY BANCORP

                                          By_______________________

                                          By_______________________

______________________________

______________________________
OPTIONEE

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NOTWITHSTANDING ANY OTHER PROVISION OF THIS AGREEMENT, NO SHARES OF THE 
COMPANY'S STOCK SHALL BE ISSUED PURSUANT HERETO UNLESS THE COMPANY'S STOCK 
OPTION PLAN SHALL HAVE FIRST BEEN APPROVED BY SHAREHOLDERS OF THE COMPANY 
HOLDING NOT LESS THAN A MAJORITY OF THE VOTING POWER OF THE COMPANY.
                                        
                              NORTH COUNTY BANCORP
                     NON-QUALIFIED STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT
 
         THIS AGREEMENT is dated the _____ day of __________, _____, by and
between North County Bancorp (the "Company"), and _________________________
("Optionee").
 
         WHEREAS, pursuant to Division B of the North County Bancorp 1997 
Stock Option Plan (the "Plan"), the Board of Directors of the Company has 
authorized granting to Optionee a stock option to purchase all or any part of 
___________________________________________ (__________) authorized but 
unissued shares of common stock of the Company, for cash at the price of 
____________________________________ Dollars ($__________) per share, such 
option to be for the term and upon the terms and conditions hereinafter set 
forth; and
 
         WHEREAS, the Company has provided to Optionee a copy of that certain 
"Information Statement" which describes the material terms and provisions of 
the Plan and of this Agreement and contains certain other material 
information relating to the Company;
 
         NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the mutual covenants contained 
herein, and intending to be legally bound, it is hereby agreed as follows:

         1.   GRANT OF OPTION.  Pursuant to said action of the Board of 
Directors and pursuant to authorizations granted by all appropriate 
regulatory and governmental agencies, the Company hereby grants to Optionee 
the option to purchase, upon and subject to the terms and conditions of the 
Plan, which is incorporated in full herein by reference and is available to 
Optionee upon request, all or any part of________________________________ 
(_______) shares of common stock of the Company at the price of  
____________________________ Dollars ($__________) per share, which price is 
not less than one hundred percent (100%) of the fair market value of such 
stock as of the date of action of the Board of Directors granting this 
option.  



         2.   EXERCISABILITY.  This option shall be exercisable as___________
_____________________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________
This option shall remain exercisable as to all of such shares until _________
_________________________________, ________________ unless this option has 
expired or terminated earlier in accordance with the provisions hereof.  
Shares as to which this option becomes exercisable pursuant to the foregoing 
provisions may be purchased at any time prior to expiration of this option.  
Notwithstanding the preceding provisions of this paragraph, upon delivery of 
notice to Optionee from the Board of Directors of the pendency of a 
"Terminating Event," i.e., a dissolution or liquidation of the Company; or a 
reorganization, merger, or consolidation of the Company with one or more 
corporations as a result of which the Company will not be the surviving 
entity; or a sale of substantially all the assets and property of the Company 
to another person; or in the event of any other transaction involving the 
Company where there is a change in ownership of at least twenty-five percent 
(25%), except as may result from a transfer of shares to another corporation 
in exchange for at least eighty percent (80%) control of that corporation, 
this option shall be exercisable in full and not only as to those shares with 
respect to which installments, if any, have then accrued, subject, however, 
to earlier termination or expiration as provided elsewhere in the Plan.  Upon 
the date sixty (60) days after receipt of said notice, this option or any 
portion hereof not exercised shall terminate, unless provision is made in 
connection with the Terminating Event for assumption of this option by the 
successor or acquiror, as applicable, or for substitution for this option of 
new options covering stock of a successor employer corporation, or a parent 
or subsidiary corporation thereof, with appropriate adjustments as to number 
and class of shares and prices.

         3.   EXERCISE OF OPTION.  This option may be exercised by ten (10) 
days' written notice delivered to the Company stating the number of shares 
with respect to which this option is being exercised, together with cash in 
the amount of the purchase price of such shares.  No fewer than ten (10) 
shares may be purchased at any one time unless the number purchased is the 
total number which may be purchased under this option.  As a condition to the 
exercise of this option, in whole or in part, by an Optionee who is an 
employee of the Company or any of its subsidiaries (or who was an employee 
during the term of the option), Optionee shall be required to pay to the 
Company, in addition to the purchase price for the shares being exercised, an 
amount equal to any taxes required to be withheld by the Company in order to 
enable the Company to claim a deduction in connection with the exercise of 
the option.  

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         4.   CESSATION OF EMPLOYMENT.  Except as provided in Paragraph 5 
hereof, if Optionee shall cease to be employed by or cease to serve as a 
director of the Company or a subsidiary corporation for any reason other than 
Optionee's disability or death, this option shall expire ninety (90) days 
thereafter or, if earlier, on the date specified in Paragraph 2 hereof.  If 
Optionee shall cease to be employed by or cease to serve as a director of the 
Company or a subsidiary corporation by reason of disability (within the 
meaning of Section 22(e)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended 
(the "Code")), this option shall expire one (1) year thereafter or, if 
earlier, on the date specified in Paragraph 2 hereof. Before any such 
expiration, Optionee shall have the right to exercise this option as to those 
shares with respect to which installments, if any, had accrued under 
Paragraph 2 hereof.  

         5.   TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT FOR CAUSE.  If Optionee's employment 
by or service as a director of the Company or a subsidiary corporation is 
terminated for cause, this option shall expire immediately, unless such 
expiration is waived by the Board of Directors within thirty (30) days of 
such termination by giving written notice of such waiver to Optionee at 
Optionee's last known address.  In the event of such waiver, Optionee may 
exercise this option only to such extent, for such time, and upon such terms 
and conditions as if Optionee had ceased to be employed by or ceased to be a 
director of the Company or a subsidiary corporation upon the date of such 
termination for a reason other than cause, disability, or death.  In the case 
of an employee, termination for cause shall include termination for 
malfeasance or gross misfeasance in the performance of duties, conviction of 
illegal activity in connection therewith, any conduct seriously detrimental 
to the interests of the Company or a subsidiary corporation, or removal 
pursuant to the exercise of regulatory authority by the Board of Governors of 
the Federal Reserve System (the "FRB")  or any bank supervisory agency; and 
in any event, the determination of the Board of Directors with respect 
thereto shall be final and conclusive.  In the case of a director, 
termination for cause shall include removal pursuant to Section 302 or 304 of 
the California Corporations Code or removal pursuant to the exercise of 
regulatory authority by the FRB or any bank supervisory agency.

         6.   NONTRANSFERABILITY; DEATH OF OPTIONEE.  This option shall not 
be transferable except by Will or by the laws of descent and distribution and 
shall be exercisable only by Optionee during Optionee's lifetime.  If 
Optionee dies while employed by or serving as a director of the Company or a 
subsidiary corporation, or during the 90-day or one-year period referred to 
in Paragraph 4 hereof, this option shall expire one (1) year after the date 
of Optionee's death or, if 


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earlier, on the date specified in Paragraph 2 hereof.  After Optionee's death 
but before such expiration, the persons to whom Optionee's rights under this 
option shall have passed by Will or by the applicable laws of descent and 
distribution shall have the right to exercise this option as to those shares 
with respect to which installments had accrued under Paragraph 2 hereof as of 
the date on which Optionee ceased to be employed by or ceased to serve as a 
director of the Company or a subsidiary corporation.  

         7.   EMPLOYMENT.  In the event Optionee is an employee, this 
Agreement shall not obligate the Company or a subsidiary corporation to 
employ Optionee for any period, nor shall it interfere in any way with the 
right of the Company or a subsidiary corporation to reduce Optionee's 
compensation. 

         8.   PRIVILEGES OF STOCK OWNERSHIP.  Optionee shall have no rights 
as a stockholder with respect to common stock of the Company subject to this 
option until the date of issuance of stock certificates to Optionee.  Except 
as provided in Section 13 of the Plan, no adjustment will be made for 
dividends or other rights for which the record date is prior to the date such 
stock certificates are issued. 

         9.   MODIFICATION AND TERMINATION BY BOARD OF DIRECTORS.  The rights 
of Optionee are subject to modification and termination in certain events as 
provided in Section 15 of the Plan, but only with the consent of Optionee.  

         10.  INTERPRETATION OF OPTION.  This option is intended to be a 
non-qualified stock option described in Treas. Reg. Section  1.83-7 to which 
Section 421 of the Code does not apply and shall be construed to implement 
that intent. 

         IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Agreement on
and as of the date first above written.

                                         NORTH COUNTY BANCORP
 
                                         BY____________________
 
                                         BY____________________
       

______________________________
 
______________________________
OPTIONEE

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