Exhibit 10.r

                              EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT


  THIS  AGREEMENT,  dated and effective this 17th day of August,  1998,  between
FIRST BANCORP (a North Carolina  corporation) (the "Company") and David G. Grigg
(the "Employee"). References to the "Company" herein shall be deemed to refer to
the Company and its subsidiaries  taken as a whole,  unless the context requires
or the Agreement provides otherwise.

  The  Company  desires  to employ  the  Employee,  and  Employee  desires to be
employed by the Company, on the terms and subject to the conditions  hereinafter
set forth.  Accordingly,  in consideration  of employment,  the compensation the
Company agrees to pay the Employee,  the mutual covenants  contained herein, and
for  other  good and  valuable  consideration,  the  receipt  of which is hereby
acknowledged, the parties mutually agree as follows:

  1. Employment and Term. The Company (or one of its  subsidiaries)  will employ
Employee,  and  Employee  will be  employed by the Company for a term of two (2)
years,  initially as President of Montgomery Data Services,  Inc., commencing on
the date hereof, unless sooner terminated as hereinafter  provided.  The term of
this Agreement shall  automatically be extended for an additional  period of one
(1) year on each  anniversary of the date of this Agreement  unless either party
gives the other written  notice on or prior to such  anniversary  date that such
extension will not occur.

  2. Duties.  Employee  shall at all times  faithfully  and  diligently  perform
Employee's obligations under this Agreement and act in the best interests of the
Company and its affiliated  companies.  Employee's  duties hereunder shall be to
act in such  office or capacity as the Company may direct or change from time to
time, and Employee  shall perform all duties  necessary or advisable in order to
carry out such functions in an efficient manner. Employee shall, during the term
of Employee's  employment  hereunder,  devote Employee's full time, best efforts
and ability, skill, and attention exclusively to the furtherance of the business
objectives and interests of the Company and its affiliated companies during such
hours and in such a manner as is generally customary for employees of Employee's
position in businesses of the Company's type.

  3.  Compensation.

    (a) Salary. For services rendered by Employee  hereunder,  the Company shall
pay  Employee an annual  salary of not less than $80,000  payable in  accordance
with the customary payroll practices of the Company.  Employee's salary shall be
subject to increase upon annual reviews of the Employee's performance.  Employee
will  receive  an  annual  increase  that is at least as much as any  percentage
increase in the U.S. Consumer Price Index during the twelve months preceding the
date of  Employee's  annual  review.  Any such  increase  will be  considered in
determining the Employee's base salary for all purposes hereunder.

    (b) Reimbursement of Expenses.  The Company shall pay or reimburse  Employee
for all reasonable and necessary travel and other expenses  incurred by Employee
in  performing  Employee's  obligations  under  this  Agreement,  provided  that
Employee  shall present to the Company from time to time an itemized  account of
such expenses in any form required by the Company. The Company further agrees to
furnish  Employee  with such other  assistance  and  accommodations  as shall be
suitable to the character of  Employee's  position with the Company and adequate
for the performance of Employee's duties hereunder.

    (c) Employee shall be entitled to such  insurance,  pension,  profit-sharing
and other benefit plans as are or may be available generally to employees of the
Company to the extent  permitted by applicable  laws or government  regulations.
Employee will also be eligible for  participation in the Company's  Supplemental
Employee Retirement Plan, Split Dollar Insurance Plan and Stock Option Plan.

    (d) Employee  shall be entitled to reasonable  time off for  vacation,  sick
leave,  bereavement  leave,  jury duty and  military  obligations  as are or may
become  available to  employees of the Company in positions  similar to those of
Employee,  as provided by the  Company's  policies as they may be in effect from
time to time.

  4.  Termination.  In addition to the  termination  of the terms  specified  in
Section 1 hereunder,  employment  may be  terminated  under any of the following
provisions:

  (a) The  employment  of the Employee  under this  Agreement  may be terminated
immediately by the Company if the Company finds that the Employee shall have (i)
demonstrated  gross  negligence  or  willful  misconduct  in  the  execution  of
Employee's  duties,  (ii) committed an act of dishonesty or moral turpitude,  or
(iii) been convicted of a felony or other serious crime. All future compensation
and benefits,  not then  accrued,  will  automatically  terminate if Employee is
terminated under this subparagraph (a).

  (b) The employment of the Employee under this Agreement shall be automatically
terminated on the date of the Employee's death.

  (c) Employer may  terminate  Employee's  employment  hereunder  for any reason
other than as provided in  subparagraphs  (a) and (b), but in such case Employer
shall be obligated to pay  Employee's  base salary to Employee for the remainder
of the term specified in Section 1 hereof (the "Remaining Term").

  (d)  Employment  hereunder  may  be  terminated  voluntarily  by  Employee  on
forty-five (45) days' written notice to the Company's Chief Executive Officer or
Chairman  of the  Company's  Board of  Directors,  in which case  Employee  will
receive his  compensation,  vested rights and employee  benefits accrued through
the date of termination of employment.


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  5. Other  Obligations.  All  payments  and  benefits  to  Employee  under this
Agreement  shall  be  subject  to  Employee's   compliance  with  the  following
provisions:

    (a)  Assistance  in  Litigation.  During the term of this  Agreement and for
three full years after the expiration or  termination  hereof,  Employee  shall,
upon reasonable  notice,  furnish such information and proper  assistance to the
Company as may  reasonably  be required by the  Company in  connection  with any
litigation  in which it or any of its  subsidiaries  or  affiliates  is,  or may
become,  a party. In connection with such assistance,  if substantial  effort or
expense is required of Employee after the  termination of Employee's  employment
hereunder,  the Company will pay  reasonable  compensation  to Employee and will
reimburse him for reasonable out-of-pocket expenses.

    (b) Long-Term Disability.  If the Employee has become disabled as determined
under the Company's  long-term  disability  plan or policy then in effect and is
terminated from active employment, any remaining benefits of this contract shall
be  reduced  by any  benefits  received  by the  Employee  under  the  Company's
long-term  disability  plan or  policy.  Additionally,  if  such a  circumstance
occurs,  the Employee is under an  affirmative  duty to actively seek and accept
reasonable  alternative  employment  following  termination.   Any  compensation
received  by  Employee  following  termination  or  compensation  earnable  with
reasonable  diligence  will be  deducted  from any future  compensation  due the
Employee  under  this  Agreement.  In the  event  the  Employee  fails  to  seek
reasonable  alternative  employment,  the  Company's  obligation  to pay  future
compensation shall cease.

    (c) Confidential  Information.  Employee  acknowledges that in the course of
Employee's  employment he will acquire  knowledge of trade and business  secrets
and other confidential data of the Company,  its subsidiaries and any affiliated
companies.  Such trade and  business  secrets  and other  confidential  data may
include, but are not limited to, confidential  product  information,  methods by
which the Company proposes to compete with its business  competitors,  strategic
plans,  confidential  reports  prepared  by business  consultant(s)  and similar
information  relating to the  Company's,  its  subsidiaries'  or its  affiliated
companies'  products,  customers,  and operations.  Employee recognizes that the
possible  restrictions on Employee's  activities are required for the reasonable
protection  of the Company.  Employee  covenants  not to  knowingly  disclose or
reveal to any unauthorized  person such  confidential  business secrets or other
confidential data both during the term of this Agreement and for a period of two
(2)  years  following   termination  of  this  Agreement.   Upon  expiration  or
termination of Employee's  employment by the Company,  Employee agrees to return
to the Company all  documents  (both  originals and copies),  including  without
limitation,  customer lists, books and records,  form agreements,  manuals,  and
other information (in whatever form such information may exist, whether written,
recorded,  in  magnetic  media,  or  other  form)  that  comes  into  Employee's
possession  during, by virtue of and in the course of Employee's  employment and
which are in any way connected with or related to the Company's business.

  It is  further  understood  and  agreed  that the  Company's  right to require
Employee to keep  confidential  information  secret  shall not be in lieu of the
Company's  right to monetary  damages in the event  Employee is in breach of any
obligation  contained in this Agreement,  and that in the event of any breach or
threatened  breach of any of these  covenants,  the Company may either,  with or
without  pursuing  any action for  damages,  obtain  and  enforce an  injunction
prohibiting Employee from violating said covenants.

    (d)  Noncompetition  Covenants  and Other  Covenants  For  Protection of the
Company.  During  the term of  Employee's  employment  hereunder  and during the
period  following the  termination  of such  employment  specified  below as the
"Restricted  Period,"  Employee  separately  covenants  for the  benefit  of the
Company as follows:

      (i)Employee  shall not, directly or indirectly,  promote,  be employed by,
participate or engage in any activity or business  which is in competition  with
the  business  of  the  Company,  or  any of  its  subsidiaries  and  affiliated
companies,  including acting, either singly or jointly or as agent for, or as an
employee  of, any person or persons,  firm or  corporation  whether  directly or
indirectly (as a director,  shareholder or investor,  partner,  lessor,  lessee,
proprietor, principal agent, independent contractor, representative,  consultant
or otherwise),  in the "Restricted  Territory" (as defined below).  Ownership by
Employee of 5% or less of the outstanding capital stock of any corporation which
is actively publicly traded will not be a violation of this covenant;

      (ii) Employee  covenants that Employee will not employ or assist others by
active solicitation to recruit and employ employees of the Company or any of the
Company's subsidiaries or affiliate companies; and

      (iii)Employee  agrees that Employee will not,  directly or indirectly,  on
behalf of himself or any third party,  make any sales contacts with, or actively
solicit  business  from any  customer  of the  Company  or its  subsidiaries  or
affiliate companies, for any products or services competitive with those offered
by  the  Company  or  its  subsidiaries  or  affiliated   companies  within  the
"Restricted Territory" (as defined below).

  The  "Restricted  Period"  following  termination  of employment  during which
Employee will observe the covenants  contained in this Section 5(d) shall be (A)
one year  following  termination  of employment  under Section 4(a) hereof or if
Employee  voluntarily  terminates  his  employment  hereunder  and  (B)  for the
Remaining  Term (as defined in Section 4(c) hereof) if  employment is terminated
pursuant to Section 4(c) hereof.

  "Restricted  Territory"  is defined as the area  within a fifty mile radius of
Troy, North Carolina.  Notwithstanding the foregoing,  the aforesaid limitations
on Employee  contained in this Section 5(d) shall be null and void if Employee's
employment hereunder is terminated within one year following a Change in Control
(as defined in Section 8 hereof).

    (e) It is further  understood and agreed that the Company's right to require
Employee to keep confidential  information  secret or not to compete against the
Company for the agreed upon period shall not be in lieu of the  Company's  right
to  monetary  damages  in the event  Employee  is in  breach  of any  obligation
contained in this  Agreement,  and that in the event of any breach or threatened
breach of any of these  covenants,  the  Company  may  either,  with or  without
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damages,  obtain and enforce an injunction  prohibiting  Employee from violating
said covenants.

    (f) The  parties  hereby  agree  that all of the above  obligations  in this
Section 5 are  reasonable in nature and are designed to  reasonably  protect the
Company's interests.

  6.  Source of  Payment.  Subject  to the terms of any  employee  benefit  plan
established by the Company and except as otherwise provided by law, all payments
provided  under this  Agreement  shall be paid in cash from the general funds of
the Company, and no special or separate fund shall be established,  and no other
segregation  of assets shall be made to assure  payment.  Employee shall have no
right,  title or interest  whatsoever in or to any investments which the Company
may make to aid the  Company  in  meeting  its  obligations  hereunder.  Nothing
contained in this  Agreement,  and no action taken  pursuant to its  provisions,
shall  create or be  construed  to create a trust of any kind for the benefit of
the Employee. To the extent that any person acquires a right to receive payments
from the Company hereunder,  such right shall be no greater than the right of an
unsecured creditor of the Company.

  7. Payments by Company.  If the Company shall find that any person to whom any
amount is or was  payable  hereunder  is unable to care for  Employee's  affairs
because of illness or accident, or is a minor, or has died, then the Company, if
it so elects, may direct that any payment due him or Employee's estate (unless a
prior claim therefor has been made by a duly appointed legal  representative) or
any part  thereof be paid or applied for the benefit of such person or to or for
the  benefit  of  such  person's  spouse,  children  or  other  dependents,   an
institution  maintaining  or having  custody of such  person,  any other  person
deemed  by the  Company  to be a  proper  recipient  on  behalf  of such  person
otherwise  entitled to payment,  or any of them in such manner and proportion as
the Company may deem proper.  Any such payment shall be in complete discharge of
the liability of the Company therefor.

   8. Change in Control.

                  (a) If a "Change in Control" occurs while Employee is employed
by the  Company,  and  Employee's  employment  is  terminated  by the Company or
Employee,  for any reason or no reason,  other than a  termination  pursuant  to
Section 4(a) by the Company  herein,  within  twelve  months after the Change in
Control, the Company shall pay the Severance Payment provided in Section 8(b) to
Employee  within  ten days of  Employee's  date of  termination  of  employment,
provide benefits  pursuant to Section 8(c) and cause the acceleration of vesting
of benefits described in Section 8(d) to occur.  Notwithstanding  the foregoing,
Employee's  termination  of  employment  shall not be deemed  due to a Change in
Control if such termination is due to Employee's death pursuant to Section 4(b),
Employee's  disability  pursuant  to  Section  5(b),  Employee's  retirement  in
accordance with the Company's retirement policy, or pursuant to Section 4(a).

         In the event of successive  Changes of Control,  the provisions of this
Agreement shall apply with respect to each Change of Control.

                  (b) Employee's  Severance  Payment shall be an amount equal to
the lesser of (i) 2 times the amount of Employee's  base salary in effect on the
date of the Change in Control and (ii) the product of 2.99 and the "base amount"
as  defined in Section  280G(b)(3)  of the  Internal  Revenue  Code of 1986,  as
amended, and applicable rules and regulations thereunder.

                  (c) The  Company  shall  provide to  Employee  and  Employee's
spouse or other qualified dependents,  at a cost to Employee no greater than the
cost of such  benefits to  Employee  at the time of the Change in Control,  such
hospitalization, health, medical and dental insurance benefits as were available
to Employee (and Employee's spouse or qualified dependents) immediately prior to
the Change in Control until the earlier to occur of (i) two years  following the
date of the Change in Control or (ii) Employee accepting  employment pursuant to
which he is eligible for comparable health insurance benefits.

                  (d)  Any  non-vested  option  to  purchase  securities  of the
Company will vest and become immediately exercisable upon a Change in Control.

                  (e)  "Control"  means the power,  directly or  indirectly,  to
direct the  management or policies of the Company or to vote forty percent (40%)
or more of any class of voting  securities  of the Company.  "Change in Control"
shall  mean a  change  in  Control  of the  Company,  except  that  any  merger,
consolidation  or  corporate  reorganization  in which the owners of the capital
stock  entitled to vote  ("Voting  Stock") in the  election of  directors of the
Company prior to said  combination  own  sixty-one  percent (61%) or more of the
resulting  entity's Voting Stock shall not be considered a change in control for
the purpose of this Agreement;  provided,  that, without limitation, a Change in
Control  shall be deemed to have  occurred if (i) any  "person" (as that term is
used in Sections  13(d) and  14(d)(2) of the  Securities  Exchange Act of 1934),
other than a trustee or other  fiduciary  holding  securities  under an employee
benefit plan of the Company, is or becomes the beneficial owner (as that term is
used in Section  13(d) of the  Securities  Exchange  Act of 1934),  directly  or
indirectly,  of  thirty-three  percent  (33%) or more of the Voting Stock of the
Company or its  successors;  (ii)  during any period of two  consecutive  years,
individuals  who at the  beginning  of such  period  constituted  the  Board  of
Directors of the Company or its successors (the "Incumbent Board") cease for any
reason to constitute at least a majority thereof;  provided, that any person who
becomes a director  of the Company  after the  beginning  of such  period  whose
election  was  approved by a vote of at least  three-quarters  of the  directors
comprising  the  Incumbent  Board shall be  considered a member of the Incumbent
Board; or (iii) there occurs the sale of all or substantially  all of the assets
of the Company.  Notwithstanding  the  foregoing,  no Change in Control shall be
deemed to occur by virtue of any  transaction  which  results in Employee,  or a
group  of  persons  including  Employee,   acquiring,  directly  or  indirectly,
thirty-three percent (33%) or more of the combined voting power of the Company's
outstanding securities. For purposes of this subparagraph (e), references to the
"Company"  shall  be  deemed  to refer to  First  Bancorp  only,  and not to its
subsidiaries.

  9.  Modification and Waiver.

    (a)  Amendment of Agreement.  This  Agreement may not be modified or amended
except by an instrument in writing signed by the parties hereto.



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    (b) Waiver.  No term or condition of this Agreement  shall be deemed to have
been waived,  nor shall there be any  estoppel  against the  enforcement  of any
provision of this Agreement,  except by written  instrument of the party charged
with  such  waiver  or  estoppel.  No such  written  waiver  shall  be  deemed a
continuing waiver unless specifically stated therein, and each such waiver shall
operate  only as to the  specific  term  and  condition  waived  and  shall  not
constitute  a waiver of such term or  condition  for the future or as to any act
other than that specifically waived.

  10. Severability.  If, for any reason, any provision of this Agreement is held
invalid,  such invalidity shall not affect any other provision of this Agreement
not held so  invalid,  and each such other  provision  shall to the full  extent
consistent with law continue in full force and effect.  If any provision of this
Agreement shall be held invalid in part, such invalidity  shall in no way affect
the rest of such provision not held so invalid,  and the rest of such provision,
together with all other  provisions of this Agreement,  shall to the full extent
consistent with law continue in full force and effect.

  11. General Provisions.

    (a)  Nonassignability.  Neither  this  Agreement  nor any right or  interest
hereunder shall be assignable by Employee,  Employee's  beneficiaries,  or legal
representatives  without the Company's  prior written  consent;  provided,  that
nothing in this paragraph shall preclude the executors, administrators, or other
legal  representative of Employee or Employee's estate from assigning any rights
hereunder to the person or persons entitled thereto.

    (b) No Attachment.  Except as required by law, no right to receive  payments
under this Agreement shall be subject to anticipation,  commutation, alienation,
sale, assignment,  encumbrance, charge, pledge of hypothecation or to execution,
attachment,  levy or similar  process or assignment by operation of law, and any
attempt, voluntary or involuntary, to effect any such action shall be null, void
and of no effect.

    (c) Binding  Effect.  This Agreement shall be binding upon, and inure to the
benefit  of,  Employee  and the  Company  and their  respective  successors  and
assigns.

    (d) Headings.  Headings in this Agreement are for convenience only and shall
not be used to interpret or construe its provisions.

    (e)  Notice.  For  purposes  of this  Agreement,  written  notice  shall  be
effective if personally  delivered or if sent by certified mail,  return receipt
requested,  to the following  addresses or to such other addresses as either may
designate in writing to the other party:

Employee:          David G. Grigg
                   --------------

Company:           341 North Main Street
                   Post Office Box 508
                   Troy, North Carolina  27371
                   Attention:  Chief Executive Officer

For purpose of computing time, all time  requirements  under this Agreement will
start on the date mailed or if personally delivered, when delivered.

    12.  Governing  Law.  This  Agreement has been executed and delivered in the
State of North  Carolina,  and its  validity,  interpretation,  performance  and
enforcement shall be governed by the laws of such State.

  13.  Effect  of  Prior   Agreements.   This  Agreement   contains  the  entire
understanding  between the  parties  with  reference  to the  employment  of the
Employee,  and  supersedes  any prior  employment  agreement,  understanding  or
arrangement   between  the  Employee  and  the  Company,   its  subsidiaries  or
affiliates.
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         IN WITNESS  WHEREOF,  the parties  hereto have executed this  Agreement
under seal as of the day and year first above stated.


                                        FIRST BANCORP


[CORPORATE SEAL]                        By:       /s/James H. Garner
                                                 ------------------
                                                 James H. Garner

                                        Title:   President and Chief Executive
                                                 Officer
Attest: /s/ Delores George
        ------------------
        Delores George
        Assistant Secretary

                                                EMPLOYEE


                                                /s/  David G. Grigg   (SEAL)
                                                -------------------
                                                David G. Grigg

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                          Independent Auditors' Consent


The Board of Directors
First Bancorp

We  consent  to  incorporation  by  reference  in  the  Amendment  No.  1 to the
Registration  Statement  of First  Bancorp  on Form S-8  relating  to the  First
Bancorp  1994 Stock  Option  Plan and the  Registration  Statement  on Form S-3D
relating to the Dividend  Reinvestment  and Common Stock  Purchase Plan of First
Bancorp,  of our report  dated  January 18, 2000,  relating to the  consolidated
balance  sheets of First  Bancorp and  subsidiaries  as of December 31, 1999 and
1998, and the related consolidated  statements of income,  comprehensive income,
shareholders'  equity  and cash  flows for each of the  years in the  three-year
period ended  December 31, 1999,  which report  appears in the December 31, 1999
Annual Report on Form 10-K of First Bancorp.



                                                                     /s/KPMG LLP
                                                                     -----------
                                                                        KPMG LLP


Raleigh, North Carolina
March 27, 2000

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