Exhibit 10.s

                  AMENDMENT AND WAIVER TO MERGER AGREEMENT


         THIS  AMENDMENT AND WAIVER TO MERGER  AGREEMENT  (this  "Amendment  and
Waiver"), dated as of March 24, 2000, is by and between:

         FIRST  BANCORP,  a North  Carolina  corporation  and a holding  company
registered  with the Board of Governors of the Federal  Reserve System under the
Bank Holding Company Act of 1956, as amended,  and a North Carolina bank holding
company (the "Buyer");

         FIRST BANK, a North Carolina bank and a wholly owned  subsidiary of the
Buyer (the "Buyer Bank");

         FIRST SAVINGS BANCORP, INC., a North Carolina corporation and a holding
company  registered  with the Board of Governors of the Federal  Reserve  System
under the Bank Holding  Company Act of 1956,  as amended,  and a North  Carolina
savings bank holding company (the "Company"); and

         FIRST SAVINGS BANK OF MOORE COUNTY,  INC.,  SSB, a North Carolina stock
savings bank (the "Company Bank").

                              Background Statement
                              --------------------

         The  parties  to  this  Amendment  and  Waiver  entered  into a  Merger
Agreement  (the  "Agreement")  dated as of December 15, 1999  providing  for the
merger  of the  Company  into the  Buyer,  with the Buyer  being  the  surviving
corporation (the "Holding Company  Merger"),  and the merger of the Company Bank
into the Buyer Bank,  with the Buyer Bank being the surviving  corporation  (the
"Bank Merger").

                             Statement of Agreement
                             ----------------------

         In  consideration  of the  premises  and the  mutual  covenants  herein
contained,  the parties hereto,  for themselves,  their  successors and assigns,
agree as follows:

                                   ARTICLE I.

                                   AMENDMENTS

         1.1      The Bank Merger.
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         (a)  Section  3.1(a) of the  Agreement  is hereby  amended  so that the
phrase  "Immediately  after the  consummation  of the Holding Company Merger" is
replaced  with  the  phrase  "As  soon  as  reasonably   practicable  after  the
consummation of the Holding Company Merger, as determined by the Buyer."

         (b)  Section  3.1(f) of the  Agreement  is hereby  amended  so that the
phrase "At the Closing but after the filing of the Articles of Merger in respect
of the Holding  Company Merger" is replaced by the phrase "As soon as reasonably
practicable after the filing of the Articles of Merger in respect of the Holding
Company Merger, as determined by the Buyer."

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         (c) Section  3.1(g) is hereby added to the  Agreement and shall read as
follows:

         (g)      Timing of the Bank  Merger.  Notwithstanding  anything  to the
                  contrary  in  this   Agreement,   the  Bank  Merger  shall  be
                  consummated  as  soon  as  reasonably  practicable  after  the
                  consummation of the Holding  Company Merger,  as determined by
                  the Buyer,  subject to satisfaction of all requirements of the
                  Regulatory Authorities.

         1.2 Future  Dividends.  Section  7.2(h) of the Agreement is hereby
amended so that the phrase "$0.76" is replaced with the phrase "$0.88."


                                   ARTICLE II.

                                     WAIVER

         The parties  hereto  waive the  condition to Closing (as defined in the
Agreement)  set forth in Section  9.1(b) of the  Agreement  to the  extent  such
condition  relates to the  expiration  of any required  waiting  periods for the
Merger of the  Company  Bank and the Buyer  Bank;  provided,  however,  that the
parties agree that such waiting period shall have expired prior to  consummation
of the Bank Merger.

                                  ARTICLE IIII.

                                  MISCELLANEOUS

         3.1  Amendment  and  Modification.  This  Amendment  and  Waiver may be
amended,  modified or supplemented only by a written  agreement  executed by all
parties hereto.

         3.2 Waiver of  Compliance;  Consents.  Except as otherwise  provided in
this  Amendment and Waiver,  any failure of the Buyer and the Buyer Bank, on one
hand,  and the Company and the Company  Bank,  on the other,  to comply with any
obligation,  representation,  warranty,  covenant, agreement or condition herein
may be waived by the other party or parties only by a written  instrument signed
by the party or parties  granting  such  waiver,  but such  waiver or failure to
insist upon strict  compliance with such obligation,  representation,  warranty,
covenant,  agreement or condition  shall not operate as a waiver of, or estoppel
with respect to, any  subsequent  or other  failure.  Should this  Amendment and
Waiver  require  or permit  consent  by or on behalf of any party  hereto,  such
consent shall be given in writing in a manner  consistent with the  requirements
for a waiver of compliance as set forth in Section 11.4 of the Agreement.

         3.3 Governing Law. The  execution,  interpretation  and  performance of
this  Amendment  and Waiver shall be governed by the internal  laws and judicial
decisions of the State of North Carolina.

         3.4  Counterparts.  This Amendment and Waiver may be executed in one or
more counterparts,  each of which shall be deemed an original,  but all of which
together shall constitute one and the same instrument.

         3.5 Interpretation.  The article and section headings contained in this
Amendment  and Waiver are solely for the purpose of  reference,  are not part of
the  agreement  of the  parties  and shall not in any way affect the  meaning or
interpretation of this Amendment and Waiver.

         3.6 Entire  Agreement.  The  Agreement,  including the  agreements  and
documents that are Exhibits and Schedules thereto,  together with this Amendment
and Waiver,  (a) embody the entire  agreement and  understanding  of the parties
with  respect of the subject  matter  hereof and thereof and (b)  supersede  all
prior  agreements  and  understandings  between the parties  with respect to the
subject matter hereof and thereof.


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         IN WITNESS  WHEREOF,  the Company,  the Company Bank, the Buyer and the
Buyer  Bank  have  caused  this  Amendment  and  Waiver  to be  signed  by their
respective duly authorized officers, as of the date first above written.

                                COMPANY:

                                FIRST SAVINGS BANCORP, INC.


                                By:      /s/ John F. Burns
                                         -----------------
                                         Name:    John F. Burns
                                         Title:   President and CEO


                                COMPANY BANK:

                                FIRST SAVINGS BANK OF MOORE COUNTY, INC., SSB


                                By:      /s/ John F. Burns
                                         -----------------
                                         Name:    John F. Burns
                                         Title:   President and CEO



                                BUYER:

                                FIRST BANCORP


                                By:      /s/ Eric P. Credle
                                         -------------------
                                         Name:    Eric P. Credle
                                         Title:   Chief Financial Officer



                                BUYER BANK:

                                FIRST BANK


                                By:      /s/ Eric P. Credle
                                         ------------------
                                         Name:    Eric P. Credle
                                         Title:   Chief Financial Officer

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