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                    [Staten Island Bancorp, Inc. Letterhead]







                                                                  March 30, 2001



Dear Stockholder:

         You are cordially  invited to attend the Annual Meeting of Stockholders
of Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc. The meeting will be held at the Excelsior Grand,
located at 2380 Hylan Boulevard,  Staten Island, New York, on Thursday,  May 10,
2001 at 10:00 a.m.,  Eastern Time. The matters to be considered by  stockholders
at the Annual Meeting are described in the accompanying materials.

         It is very  important  that you be  represented  at the Annual  Meeting
regardless of the number of shares you own or whether you are able to attend the
meeting in person. We urge you to mark, sign, and date your proxy card today and
return  it in the  envelope  provided,  even if you plan to  attend  the  Annual
Meeting.  This will not prevent you from voting in person,  but will ensure that
your vote is counted if you are unable to attend.

         Your continued  support of and interest in Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.
is sincerely appreciated.

                                                     Sincerely,



                                                     /s/Harry P. Doherty
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                                                     Harry P. Doherty
                                                     Chairman of the Board
                                                     and Chief Executive Officer






                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
                                 15 Beach Street
                          Staten Island, New York 10304
                                 (718) 447-7900



                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                           To Be Held on May 10, 2001


         NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the Annual Meeting of Stockholders ("Annual
Meeting") of Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc. (the  "Company")  will be held at the
Excelsior Grand,  located at 2380 Hylan Boulevard,  Staten Island,  New York, on
Thursday,  May 10, 2001 at 10:00 a.m., Eastern Time, for the following purposes,
all of which are more completely set forth in the  accompanying  proxy statement
("Proxy Statement"):

         (1) To elect three (3) directors  for a three-year  term or until their
successors are elected and qualified;

         (2) To  ratify  the  appointment  by the Board of  Directors  of Arthur
Andersen L.L.P. as the Company's independent auditors for the fiscal year ending
December 31, 2001;

         (3) To consider and vote upon a stockholder  proposal,  if presented at
the Annual Meeting; and

         (4) To transact  such other  business as may  properly  come before the
meeting or any  adjournment  thereof.  Management is not aware of any other such
business.

         The Board of  Directors  has fixed March 12, 2001 as the voting  record
date for the determination of stockholders  entitled to notice of and to vote at
the  Annual  Meeting.  Only  those  stockholders  of  record  as of the close of
business on that date will be entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting.

                                              BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS




                                              /s/Patricia A. Smith
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                                              Patricia A. Smith
                                              Corporate Secretary

Staten Island, New York
March 30, 2001



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YOU ARE CORDIALLY  INVITED TO ATTEND THE ANNUAL  MEETING.  IT IS IMPORTANT  THAT
YOUR SHARES BE REPRESENTED REGARDLESS OF THE NUMBER YOU OWN. EVEN IF YOU PLAN TO
BE PRESENT, YOU ARE URGED TO COMPLETE,  SIGN, DATE AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED PROXY
PROMPTLY  IN THE  ENVELOPE  PROVIDED.  IF YOU ATTEND THE  MEETING,  YOU MAY VOTE
EITHER IN PERSON OR BY PROXY.  ANY PROXY  GIVEN MAY BE REVOKED BY YOU IN WRITING
OR IN PERSON AT ANY TIME PRIOR TO THE EXERCISE THEREOF.
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                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.


                                 PROXY STATEMENT


                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS

                                  May 10, 2001

         This Proxy Statement is furnished to holders of common stock,  $.01 par
value  per  share  ("Common  Stock"),  of  Staten  Island  Bancorp,   Inc.  (the
"Company"),  the  Delaware-chartered  thrift holding company for SI Bank & Trust
(the  "Savings  Bank").  Proxies are being  solicited  on behalf of the Board of
Directors  of the  Company  to be used at the  Annual  Meeting  of  Stockholders
("Annual  Meeting")  to be held at the  Excelsior  Grand,  located at 2380 Hylan
Boulevard,  Staten  Island,  New York, on Thursday,  May 10, 2001 at 10:00 a.m.,
Eastern  Time,  for the  purposes  set forth in the Notice of Annual  Meeting of
Stockholders.  This Proxy  Statement is first being mailed to stockholders on or
about March 30, 2001.

         The proxy  solicited  hereby,  if properly  signed and  returned to the
Company and not revoked prior to its use,  will be voted in accordance  with the
instructions  contained  therein.  If no contrary  instructions are given,  each
proxy  received will be voted for the nominees for directors  described  herein,
for ratification of the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P.  ("Arthur Andersen
") for fiscal 2001,  against the stockholder  proposal and, upon the transaction
of such other  business as may properly  come before the meeting,  in accordance
with the best  judgment of the persons  appointed  as proxies.  Any  stockholder
giving a proxy has the power to revoke it at any time before it is  exercised by
(i) filing with the Secretary of the Company written notice thereof (Patricia A.
Smith, Corporate Secretary, Staten Island Bancorp, Inc., 15 Beach Street, Staten
Island, New York 10304);  (ii) submitting a duly-executed  proxy bearing a later
date; or (iii)  appearing at the Annual Meeting and giving the Secretary  notice
of his or her  intention  to vote in  person.  Proxies  solicited  hereby may be
exercised only at the Annual Meeting and any adjournment thereof and will not be
used for any other meeting.

                                     VOTING

         Only  stockholders of record at the close of business on March 12, 2001
("Voting  Record Date") will be entitled to vote at the Annual  Meeting.  On the
Voting Record Date, there were 33,758,687 shares of Common Stock outstanding and
the Company had no other class of equity securities  outstanding.  Each share of
Common  Stock is  entitled  to one vote at the  Annual  Meeting  on all  matters
properly  presented at the meeting.  Directors are elected by a plurality of the
votes cast with a quorum  present.  The three  persons who receive the  greatest
number of votes of the holders of Common Stock represented in person or by proxy
at the Annual Meeting will be elected directors of the Company.  Abstentions are
considered in determining  the presence of a quorum and will not affect the vote
required for the election of directors. The affirmative vote of the holders of a
majority  of the total  votes  present in person or by proxy at the  meeting and
entitled  to vote is  required  to ratify  the  appointment  of the  independent
auditors and to approve the stockholder proposal. Abstentions will be counted as
present  and  entitled to vote and will have the effect of a vote  against  such
proposals.  Under  rules of the New York Stock  Exchange  ("NYSE"),  each of the
proposals,  except for the stockholder proposal, is considered a "discretionary"
item upon which brokerage firms may vote in their  discretion on behalf of their
clients if such clients have not furnished voting instructions and, accordingly,
there will be no "broker  non-votes"  with  respect to the election of directors
and  the  ratification  of  the  Company's  independent  auditors.   Stockholder
proposals are  considered  "non-discretionary"  items and brokerage  firms which
have received no  instructions  from their clients will have no discretion  with
respect to voting on such  items.  Broker  non-votes  will have no effect on the
stockholder proposal.

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               INFORMATION WITH RESPECT TO NOMINEES FOR DIRECTOR,
                   CONTINUING DIRECTORS AND EXECUTIVE OFFICERS

Election of Directors

         There currently are 10 directors of the Company. In accordance with the
Company's Bylaws,  two current  directors,  Messrs.  Charles Bartels and Kenneth
Nelson, are retiring and will not stand for re-election.  The Company's Board of
Directors  has adopted a resolution  that, as of the Annual  Meeting,  the Board
will  be  reduced  in  size  to  nine  members.  The  Company's  Certificate  of
Incorporation  provides  that the Board of  Directors  of the  Company  shall be
divided into three classes as nearly equal in number as possible, with one class
to be  elected  annually.  Stockholders  of the  Company  are not  permitted  to
cumulate their votes for the election of directors.

         At the Annual  Meeting,  stockholders  of the Company  will be asked to
elect one class of directors,  consisting of three  directors,  for a three-year
term expiring in 2004, and until their successors are elected and qualified.

         No director or executive officer of the Company is related to any other
director or executive officer of the Company by blood, marriage or adoption, and
each of the  nominees,  except  Mr.  Allan  Weissglass,  currently  serves  as a
director of the Company.  Mr. Weissglass has served as a director of the Savings
Bank since November 2000.

         Unless  otherwise  directed,  each proxy  executed  and  returned  by a
stockholder  will be voted for the election of the nominees for director  listed
below.  If the person or persons named as nominee  should be unable or unwilling
to stand for  election  at the time of the  Annual  Meeting,  the  proxies  will
nominate and vote for one or more replacement  nominees recommended by the Board
of Directors.  At this time,  the Board of Directors  knows of no reason why the
nominees listed below may not be able to serve as directors if elected.

         The following  tables present  information  concerning the nominees for
director of the Company and each director whose term continues.



                            Nominees for Director for a Three-Year Term Expiring in 2004
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                                                                               Director
              Name and Position                        Age(1)                  Since(2)
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James R. Coyle                                           54                      1990
Director, President and Chief Operating Officer
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John R. Morris                                           62                      1986
Director
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Allan Weissglass                                         66                      2000
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The Board of  Directors  recommends  that you vote FOR the election of the above
nominees for director.




Members of the Board of Directors Continuing in Office - Directors Whose Terms Expire in 2002
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                                                                                Director
                Name and Position                          Age(1)               Since(2)
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Harold Banks                                                77                    1983
Director
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Denis P. Kelleher                                           62                    1988
Director
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Julius Mehrberg                                             71                    1996
Director
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                      Directors Whose Terms Expire in 2003

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                                                                               Director
              Name and Position                        Age(1)                  Since(2)

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Harry P. Doherty                                         58                      1989
Chairman of the Board and Chief Executive
                                  Officer
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William G. Horn                                          77                      1968
Director
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William E. O'Mara                                        70                      1994
Director
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(1)      At March 12, 2001.
(2)      Includes service as a director of the Savings Bank.

         Information  concerning the principal position with the Company and the
Savings Bank and  principal  occupation of each nominee for director and members
of the Board continuing in office during the past five years is set forth below.

         Harold  Banks.  Mr.  Banks  is a  cemetarian  and  has  been  Executive
Director,  Secretary and Treasurer of Ocean View The Cemetery Beautiful,  Staten
Island, New York, since 1979. Mr. Banks also serves on the Boards of the Elmweir
Cemetery Association and Mt. Zion Cemetery.

         James R. Coyle.  Mr. Coyle has served as President and Chief  Operating
Officer of the Savings  Bank since June 1990.  Previously,  Mr.  Coyle served as
Executive Vice President from 1987 to 1990 and as Chief  Financial  Officer from
1989 to 1990.  Mr. Coyle has been  employed by the Savings Bank since 1970.  Mr.
Coyle is a member of the Board of the Center for Financial  Studies,  Fairfield,
Connecticut,  and is a member of Community Bankers Association of New York State
("CBANYS").

         Harry P. Doherty.  Mr.  Doherty has served as Chairman of the Board and
Chief  Executive  Officer of the Savings  Bank since May 1990.  Previously,  Mr.
Doherty  served as President and Chief  Operating  Officer from 1989 to 1990 and
Executive Vice President from 1987 to 1989. Mr. Doherty has been employed by the
Savings Bank since 1966. Mr.  Doherty serves as a director of the  Institutional
Investors Capital  Appreciation Mutual Fund as well as the MSB Fund. Mr. Doherty
serves as a director of both CBANYS and America's Community Bankers.

         William G. Horn. Mr. Horn is currently  retired.  Previously,  Mr. Horn
was a Senior Account Agent for the Allstate Insurance Company.

         Denis P.  Kelleher.  Mr.  Kelleher is Chief  Executive  Officer of Wall
Street Access (formerly Wall Street Investors  Services),  a financial  services
company and member firm of the NYSE, located in New York City. Mr. Kelleher also
serves as a director  of the Irish  Investment  Fund,  a closed  end  investment
company  listed  on the NYSE  having  a main  investment  focus  in  Irish-based
securities.

         Julius  Mehrberg.  Mr.  Mehrberg is a principal  and partner in various
real estate development and management companies,  primarily Fingerboard Estates
Corp., located in Staten Island, New York.

         John R. Morris. Mr. Morris retired from Merrill Lynch in May 1997 where
he served as a Vice President of the Capital  Markets and Private Client groups.
Mr. Morris has over 35 years of experience in the financial  services  area. Mr.
Morris currently is a private investor and is self-employed as a consultant.

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         William E. O'Mara.  Mr. O'Mara is an employee with the firm of Wohl and
O'Mara, civil engineers and land surveyors,  located in Staten Island, New York.
Prior to January 2, 1998, he served as a partner in the firm.

         Allan  Weissglass.  Mr. Weissglass is the President and Chief Executive
Officer of  Magruder  Color  Company,  Inc.,  a  family-owned  organic  pigments
manufacturer, located in Elizabeth, New Jersey.

Stockholder Nominations

         Article IV, Section 4.15 of the Company's  Bylaws  governs  nominations
for election to the Board of Directors and requires all such nominations,  other
than those made by the Board of Directors  or committee  appointed by the Board,
to be made at a meeting of  stockholders  called for the election of  directors,
and only by a stockholder  who has complied  with the notice  provisions in that
section.  Stockholder  nominations  must be made  pursuant  to timely  notice in
writing  to  the  Secretary  of  the  Company.   Generally,   to  be  timely,  a
stockholder's  notice must be delivered to, or mailed,  postage prepaid,  to the
principal  executive offices of the Company not later than 120 days prior to the
anniversary  date of the mailing of proxy materials by the Company in connection
with the  immediately  preceding  annual meeting of stockholders of the Company.
Each written notice of a stockholder nomination is required to set forth certain
information  specified in the Bylaws.  Any such nomination by a stockholder must
have been  delivered or received no later than the close of business on November
30, 2000 with respect to the Annual Meeting. No such nominations by stockholders
were received with respect to the Annual Meeting.

Board of Directors Meetings and Committees of the Company and the Savings Bank

         Regular  meetings of the Board of  Directors of the Company are held as
necessary.  Through  the  fiscal  year ended  December  31,  2000,  the Board of
Directors of the Company met 14 times. No director of the Company attended fewer
than 75% of the total number of Board meetings or committee meetings on which he
served that were held during this  period.  The entire Board of Directors of the
Company  acts as a Nominating  Committee.  The Board of Directors of the Company
has established the following committees:

 Audit  Committee.  The Audit  Committee of the Company  recommends  independent
auditors to the Board  annually and reviews the Company's  financial  statements
and the scope and results of the audit  performed by the  Company's  independent
auditors and the Company's  system of internal  control with management and such
independent auditors and reviews regulatory  examination reports. On February 1,
2000, the Audit Committee adopted an Audit Committee Charter, a copy of which is
attached  hereto as  Appendix  A. The Audit  Committee,  which is  comprised  of
Messrs.  Morris  (Chairman),  Horn,  Kelleher and O'Mara,  met four times during
fiscal 2000.

 Compensation  and Benefits  Review  Committee.  The  Compensation  and Benefits
Review  Committee  (the  "Compensation  Committee")  of the Company  reviews and
recommends compensation and benefits for the Company employees. The Compensation
Committee,  which is comprised of Messrs. Horn (Chairman),  Kelleher and Morris,
met four times during fiscal 2000.

         The Board of Directors  of the Savings  Bank meets on a monthly  basis,
and may have additional special meetings.  During the fiscal year ended December
31, 2000, the Board of Directors of the Savings Bank met 12 times.  The Board of
Directors  of the Savings Bank has  established  nine  committees,  including an
Executive Committee,  Compensation Committee,  Investment Committee, Loan Review
and Loan Real Estate  Investment  Committee.  No  director  of the Savings  Bank
attended  fewer  than 75% of the total  number of Board  meetings  or  committee
meetings on which he served that were held during this period.

Report of the Audit Committee


         The  Audit   Committee  of  the  Board  is  responsible  for  providing
independent,  objective  oversight  of the  Company's  accounting  function  and
internal controls. Management is responsible for the Company's internal controls


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and  financial  reporting  process.  The  Company's   independent  auditors  are
responsible  for performing an independent  audit of the Company's  consolidated
financial  statements in accordance with generally  accepted auditing  standards
and to issue a report thereon.

         The  Audit   Committee  is  composed  of  directors  all  of  whom  are
independent as defined by the NYSE listing requirements.  The Audit Committee is
governed by an Audit Committee Charter which specifies,  among other things, the
scope of the Committee's  responsibilities and how those responsibilities are to
be  performed.  A copy of such  charter is attached to this Proxy  Statement  as
Appendix A. The  responsibilities of the Audit Committee include recommending to
the  Board  an  accounting  firm  to be  engaged  as the  Company's  independent
auditors.

         The Audit  Committee has reviewed and  discussed the audited  financial
statements  with  management.   In  addition,   in  compliance  with  applicable
provisions of the Audit  Committee  Charter,  the Audit  Committee has discussed
with the Company's  independent auditors the matters required to be discussed by
Statement on Auditing  Standards No. 61 "Communication  with Audit  Committees."
The Audit Committee has received the written disclosures and the letter from the
independent  accountants required by Independence Standards Board Standard No. 1
and has  discussed  with the  independent  auditors  the  independent  auditors'
independence.  Based on the review  and  discussions  referred  to above in this
report,  the Audit  Committee  recommended  to the Board of  Directors  that the
audited  financial  statements  be included in the  Company's  Annual  Report to
Shareholders,  which financial  statements were  incorporated into the Company's
Annual  Report on Form 10-K for the fiscal  year  ended  December  31,  2000 for
filing with the  Securities and Exchange  Commission  (the  "Commission  "). The
Audit  Committee  also  recommended  the  selection  of Arthur  Andersen  as the
Company's independent auditors for the year ended December 31, 2001.


                                            John R. Morris, Committee Chairman
                                            William G. Horn, Director
                                            Denis P. Kelleher, Director
                                            William E. O'Mara, Director

 Executive Officers Who Are Not Directors

         Set forth below is information concerning the executive officers of the
Company and the Savings  Bank who do not serve on the Board of  Directors of the
Company.  All executive officers are elected by the Board of Directors and serve
until their  successors  are  elected and  qualified.  No  executive  officer is
related to any  director  or other  executive  officer of the  Company by blood,
marriage or adoption,  and there are no arrangements or understandings between a
director of the Company and any other  person  pursuant to which such person was
elected an executive officer.

John P. Brady.  Age 49 years.  Mr. Brady has served as Executive  Vice President
and Chief Lending Officer of the Savings Bank since May 1987. Mr. Brady has been
employed by the Savings Bank since 1982 and previously  served as Vice President
and  mortgage  officer  and as the  Community  Reinvestment  Act officer for the
Savings Bank.

Ira Hoberman.  Age 54 years. Mr. Hoberman has served as Executive Vice President
of the Savings  Bank since July 2000,  and served as President of the New Jersey
Division of the Savings Bank from January 2000 to July 2000. Prior to the merger
of First State Bank with the Savings Bank in January 2000, Mr.  Hoberman  served
as President and Chief Executive Officer of First State Bank since 1983.

Frank J.  Besignano.  Age 46 years.  Mr.  Besignano  has  served as Senior  Vice
President of the Savings Bank for Marketing, Business Development and Compliance
since May 1991.  Mr.  Besignano has been employed by the Savings Bank since 1982
and previously served as Vice President and marketing officer.



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Edward J.  Klingele.  Age 48  years.  Mr.  Klingele  has  served as Senior  Vice
President and Chief Financial  Officer of the Savings Bank since May 1990 and of
the Company since its inception.  Mr.  Klingele has been employed by the Savings
Bank since 1976 and  previously  served as  Controller  of the Savings Bank from
1984 to 1990.

Deborah Pagano.  Age 46 years.  Ms. Pagano has served as Senior Vice President -
Branch  Administration  for the Savings Bank since May 1989. Ms. Pagano has been
employed by the Savings Bank since 1976 and previously  served as Vice President
of the Savings Bank from 1984 to 1989.

Donald C. Fleming. Age 52 years. Mr. Fleming has served as Senior Vice President
of the Savings Bank for Strategic  Planning and Technical Services since January
1997. Previously,  Mr. Fleming served as Director,  Executive Vice President and
Chief Financial  Officer of North Side Savings Bank, Floral Park, New York, from
1988 to 1996.

             SECTION 16(a) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

         Section 16(a) of the  Securities  Exchange Act of 1934, as amended (the
"Exchange Act"), requires the Company's officers and directors,  and persons who
own more than 10% of the Common Stock,  to file reports of ownership and changes
in ownership with the Commission and the NYSE.  Officers,  directors and greater
than 10%  stockholders  are required by  regulation  to furnish the Company with
copies of all Section 16(a) forms they file.  The Company knows of no person who
owns 10% or more of the Common Stock.

         Based  solely on review of the  copies of such forms  furnished  to the
Company, or written representations from its officers and directors, the Company
believes  that with  respect to fiscal year 2000,  the  Company's  officers  and
directors satisfied the reporting  requirements  promulgated under Section 16(a)
of the  Exchange  Act,  except  that Mr.  Kelleher  did not timely file a Form 4
reporting  purchases  of Common Stock and Mr. Coyle did not timely file a Form 5
reporting a change in ownership.



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                      BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP OF COMMON STOCK
                   BY CERTAIN BENEFICIAL OWNERS AND MANAGEMENT

         The following table sets forth,  as of the Voting Record Date,  certain
information  as to the Common  Stock  beneficially  owned by (i) each  person or
entity,  including  any "group" as that term is used in Section  13(d)(3) of the
Exchange Act, who or which was known to the Company to be the  beneficial  owner
of more than 5% of the issued and outstanding  Common Stock;  (ii) the directors
and director nominees of the Company;  (iii) certain  executive  officers of the
Company and the Savings  Bank;  and (iv) all  directors,  director  nominees and
certain executive officers of the Company and the Savings Bank as a group.



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                                                             Amount and Nature
                      Name of Beneficial                       of Beneficial
                      Owner or Number of                      Ownership as of       Percent of
                       Persons in Group                       March 12, 2001(1)    Common Stock
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Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.                                        3,403,894(2)          10.1%
Employee Stock Ownership Plan
15 Beach Street
Staten Island, New York 10304
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Directors and Director Nominees:
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Harold Banks                                                         111,066(3)              *
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Charles J. Bartels                                                    78,585(4)              *
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James R. Coyle                                                       287,777(5)              *
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Harry P. Doherty                                                     394,181(6)            1.2
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William G. Horn                                                       65,383(7)              *
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Denis P. Kelleher                                                    115,689(8)              *
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Julius Mehrberg                                                       75,950(9)              *
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John R. Morris                                                       97,400(10)              *
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Kenneth W. Nelson                                                   130,000(11)              *
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William E. O'Mara                                                    64,000(12)              *
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Allan Weissglass                                                    102,072(13)              *
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Certain Executive Officers:
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Frank J. Besignano                                                  112,284(14)              *
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John P. Brady                                                       126,613(15)              *
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Donald C. Fleming                                                   102,562(16)              *
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Ira Hoberman                                                         30,000(17)              *
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Deborah Pagano                                                      107,447(18)              *
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Edward J. Klingele                                                  110,781(19)              *
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All directors, director nominees and certain executive            2,111,790(20)            6.2
officers of the Company and the Savings Bank as a group (17
persons)
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 * Represents less than 1% of the outstanding stock.


(1)      Based upon  filings made  pursuant to the Exchange Act and  information
         furnished by the respective individuals.


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         Under regulations  promulgated  pursuant to the Exchange Act, shares of
         Common Stock are deemed to be  beneficially  owned by a person if he or
         she  directly  or  indirectly  has or shares  (i) voting  power,  which
         includes  the power to vote or to direct the voting of the  shares,  or
         (ii) investment power, which includes the power to dispose or to direct
         the disposition of the shares.  Unless otherwise  indicated,  the named
         beneficial owner has sole voting and dispositive  power with respect to
         the shares.

(2)      The Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc.  Employee Stock  Ownership Plan Trust
         ("Trust") was established  pursuant to the Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.
         Employee  Stock  Ownership  Plan  ("ESOP") by an agreement  between the
         Company and Messrs. Coyle,  Doherty,  Horn, Kelleher and O'Mara who act
         as trustees of the plan  ("Trustees").  As of the Voting  Record  Date,
         2,746,849 shares of Common Stock held in the Trust were unallocated and
         657,045  shares had been  allocated  to the  accounts of  participating
         employees.  Under the terms of the ESOP,  the Trustees  will  generally
         vote  the  allocated  shares  held in the ESOP in  accordance  with the
         instructions of the participating employees. Unallocated shares held in
         the ESOP will  generally  be voted in the same  ratio on any  matter as
         those allocated  shares for which  instructions  are given,  subject in
         each case to the fiduciary  duties of the ESOP trustees and  applicable
         law. Any allocated  shares which either  abstain on the proposal or are
         not voted will be disregarded  in  determining  the percentage of stock
         voted  for  and  against  each   proposal  by  the   participants   and
         beneficiaries.  The  amount  of  Common  Stock  beneficially  owned  by
         directors  who serve as Trustees of the ESOP and by all  directors  and
         executive  officers  as a group does not include the shares held by the
         ESOP  (except  for  shares  allocated  to  an  executive  officer  as a
         participant).

(3)      Includes 24,000 shares held in the Company's  Recognition and Retention
         Plan Trust  ("Recognition  Plan") allocated to Mr. Banks, 20,000 shares
         subject to stock  options which are  exercisable  within 60 days of the
         Voting  Record Date and 48,566  shares held by the  retirement  fund of
         Ocean View The Cemetery Beautiful,  of which Mr. Banks is the Executive
         Director. Mr. Banks disclaims beneficial ownership with respect to such
         shares held in the Ocean View The Cemetery Beautiful retirement fund.

(4)      Includes 2,459 shares held individually by Mr. Bartels' spouse,  24,000
         shares held in the Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.  Bartels,  20,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         the Voting Record Date and 1,290 shares held in trust for Mr.  Bartels'
         grandchildren of which he is custodian.

(5)      Includes  67,024 shares held jointly with Mr.  Coyle's  spouse,  36,885
         shares held by the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan, 1,935 shares held by the
         Directors'  Deferred  Compensation  Plan,  82,800  shares  held  in the
         Recognition Plan allocated to Mr. Coyle, 90,000 shares subject to stock
         options which are exercisable  within 60 days of the Voting Record Date
         and 9,133 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.

(6)      Includes 77,605 shares held jointly with Mr.  Doherty's  spouse,  1,750
         shares  held by children  of Mr.  Doherty  who reside with him,  51,493
         shares held by the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan, 4,200 shares held by the
         Directors'  Deferred  Compensation  Plan,  120,000  shares  held in the
         Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.  Doherty,  130,000 shares subject to
         stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of the Voting Record
         Date and 9,133 shares allocated to him pursuant to the ESOP.

(7)      Includes  4,010  shares held by the  Directors'  Deferred  Compensation
         Plan, 24,000 shares held in the Recognition Plan allocated to Mr. Horn,
         20,000 shares subject to stock options which are exercisable  within 60
         days of the Voting  Record Date and 5,600  shares held in trust for Mr.
         Horn's grandchildren.

(8)      Includes  1,343  shares held  individually  by Mr.  Kelleher's  spouse,
         29,346 shares held by the Directors' Deferred Compensation Plan, 20,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         the Voting Record Date and 24,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan
         allocated to Mr. Kelleher.

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(9)      Includes  10,000 shares held  individually  by Mr.  Mehrberg's  spouse,
         7,950 shares held by the Directors' Deferred  Compensation Plan, 20,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         the Voting Record Date and 24,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan
         allocated to Mr. Mehrberg.

(10)     Includes  45,000  shares held jointly with Mr.  Morris'  spouse,  3,400
         shares held  individually by Mr. Morris' spouse,  20,000 shares subject
         to stock  options  which are  exercisable  within 60 days of the Voting
         Record Date and 24,000 shares held in the Recognition Plan allocated to
         Mr. Morris.

(11)     Includes 18,000 shares held individually by Mr. Nelson's spouse, 24,000
         shares held by Tech Product,  Inc. of which Mr. Nelson is a controlling
         shareholder,  24,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan allocated to
         Mr. Nelson,  2,000 shares held in trust for Mr.  Nelson's  children and
         grandchildren  as to which he is custodian,  20,000  shares  subject to
         stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of the Voting Record
         Date and 10,000  shares held by the Margaret M. Nelson Realty Trust for
         which Mr. Nelson serves as a trustee.  Mr. Nelson disclaims  beneficial
         ownership with respect to such shares held in trust.

(12)     Includes  24,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.
         O'Mara and 20,000 shares subject to stock options which are exercisable
         within 60 days of the Voting Record Date.

(13)     Includes  25,000 shares owned by Magruder Color Company,  Inc. of which
         Mr. Weissglass is President and Chief Executive Officer,  14,091 shares
         owned by KCW Associates of which Mr.  Weissglass is a general  partner,
         25,000 shares owned by JC&O Investments,  LLC of which Mr. Weisglass is
         a general  partner and 12,981 shares held by the Weissglass  Charitable
         Trust of which Mr. Weissglass is a trustee.  Mr.  Weissglass  disclaims
         beneficial ownership with respect to the shares owned by Magruder Color
         Company, Inc.

(14)     Includes 13,052 shares held jointly with Mr.  Besignano's  spouse,  434
         shares held in his Individual Retirement Account, 27,007 shares held by
         the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan,  33,120 shares held in the  Recognition
         Plan allocated to Mr. Besignano, 31,600 shares subject to stock options
         which are  exercisable  within 60 days of the  Voting  Record  Date and
         7,071 shares allocated to Mr. Besignano pursuant to the ESOP.

(15)     Includes  24,156 shares held by the Savings Bank's 401(k) Plan,  43,200
         shares held in the  Recognition  Plan  allocated to Mr.  Brady,  41,200
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         the Voting  Record Date and 9,133  shares  allocated to him pursuant to
         the ESOP.

(16)     Includes 32,080 shares held jointly with Mr. Fleming's  spouse,  33,120
         shares held in the Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.  Fleming,  31,600
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         the Voting  Record Date and 5,762  shares  allocated to him pursuant to
         the ESOP.

(17)     Includes  25,000 shares held in the  Recognition  Plan allocated to Mr.
         Hoberman  and  5,000  shares   subject  to  stock   options  which  are
         exercisable within 60 days of the Voting Record Date.

(18)     Includes  25,707 shares held jointly with Ms. Pagano's  spouse,  37,740
         shares held in the  Recognition  Plan allocated to Ms.  Pagano,  36,000
         shares subject to stock options which are exercisable within 60 days of
         the Voting  Record Date and 8,000  shares  allocated to her pursuant to
         the ESOP.

(19)     Includes 9,090 shares held jointly with Mr.  Klingele's  spouse,  5,750
         shares held in trust for children of Mr.  Klingele who reside with him,
         11,885  shares held by the Savings  Bank's  401(k) Plan,  39,000 shares
         held in the Recognition Plan allocated to Mr.  Klingele,  37,200 shares
         subject to stock  options which are  exercisable  within 60 days of the
         Voting  Record Date and 7,856  shares  allocated to him pursuant to the
         ESOP.

(20)     Includes 605,980 shares granted pursuant to the Recognition Plan, which
         may be voted by directors and executive  officers  pending  vesting and
         distribution, 56,088 shares allocated to executive officers pursuant to
         the ESOP and 562,600  shares  which may be acquired  by  directors  and
         executive  officers  upon the  exercise  of stock  options  exercisable
         within 60 days of the Voting Record Date.


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Summary Compensation Table

         The  following  table  sets  forth a  summary  of  certain  information
concerning the compensation  paid by the Company and the Savings Bank (including
amounts deferred to future periods by the named executive officers) for services
rendered  in all  capacities  during  the last three  fiscal  years to the Chief
Executive  Officer and the four other most highly  compensated  named  executive
officers.  All cash  compensation  is paid by the Savings Bank; the Company does
not pay any  additional  cash amounts for  services  provided by the below named
executive officers.


                                            Annual Compensation                    Long Term Compensation
                               -------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------
                                                                                     Awards             Payouts $
                                                                            --------------------------- ---------
        Name and                                               Other                      Securities      LTIP
        Principal                                              Annual       Restricted    Underlying     Payouts       All Other
        Position        Year      Salary        Bonus      Compensation(1)    Stock(2)       Options        $        Compensation(3)
- ----------------------------- ------------- ------------- ----------------- ------------ -------------- ---------- ----------------
- ----------------------------- ------------- ------------- ----------------- ------------ -------------- ---------- ----------------
                                                                                                  
Harry P. Doherty        2000      $592,000       $90,975          --        $   --            --               --         $143,658
Chairman and Chief      1999       562,015       389,813          --            --            --               --          148,224
Executive Officer       1998       519,426            --          --         4,050,000      325,000            --          120,331
- ----------------------------- ------------- ------------- ----------------- ------------ -------------- ---------- ----------------
- ----------------------------- ------------- ------------- ----------------- ------------ -------------- ---------- ----------------

James R. Coyle          2000       423,000        52,020          --            --            --               --          115,680
President and Chief     1999       402,972       222,750          --            --            --               --          114,359
Operating Officer       1998       373,923            --          --         2,794,500      225,000            --          101,806
- ----------------------------- ------------- ------------- ----------------- ------------ -------------- ---------- ----------------
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Ira Hoberman            2000       328,230       175,000          --           442,188       25,000             --              --
Executive Vice
  President (4)
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John P. Brady           2000       173,669        10,906          --            --            --               --           72,864
Executive Vice          1999       164,693        60,660          --            --            --               --           65,418
  President             1998       161,554            --          --         1,458,000      103,000            --           73,257
- ----------------------------- ------------- ------------- ----------------- ------------ -------------- ---------- ----------------
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Edward J. Klingele      2000       157,815        12,255          --            --            --               --           61,641
Senior Vice             1999       149,846        38,808          --            --            --               --           54,749
  President             1998       145,497            --          --         1,316,250       93,000             --          58,084
============================= ============= ============= ================= ============ ============== ========== ================

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(1)      Does  not  include  amounts  attributable  to  miscellaneous   benefits
         received by the named executive  officer.  In the opinion of management
         of the Savings  Bank,  the costs to the Savings Bank of providing  such
         benefits to the named  executive  officer  during the fiscal year ended
         December  31,  2000 did not  exceed the lesser of $50,000 or 10% of the
         total of annual salary and bonus reported for the individual.

(2)      Represents  the grant of 200,000,  138,000,  25,000,  72,000 and 65,000
         shares of restricted Common Stock to Messrs.  Doherty, Coyle, Hoberman,
         Brady and Klingele,  respectively,  pursuant to the  Recognition  Plan,
         which were deemed to have had the indicated value at the date of grant.
         The portion of the grants which remain unvested had a fair market value
         at December 31, 2000 of $2,565,000,  $1,769,850, $534,375, $923,400 and
         $833,625 for the grants to Messrs. Doherty, Coyle, Hoberman,  Brady and
         Klingele,  respectively.  The awards vest 20% per year from the date of
         grant.  Dividends  paid on the  restricted  Common  Stock are held in a
         Recognition  Plan Trust and paid to the recipient  when the  restricted
         stock vests.

(3)      In fiscal year 2000,  consists of the Savings Bank's  contributions  to
         the Savings Bank's 401(k) plan of $10,200,  $10,200, $10,200 and $6,905
         for  the  account  of  Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle,  Brady  and  Klingele,
         respectively,  $70,794 and  $42,816  allocated  to Messrs.  Doherty and
         Coyle,  respectively,  pursuant  to  the  Savings  Bank's  Supplemental



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         Executive Retirement Plan ("SERP"), and $62,664,  $62,664,  $62,664 and
         $54,736  allocated  on  behalf of  Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle,  Brady and
         Klingele, respectively, pursuant to the ESOP.

(4)      Mr. Hoberman became an executive officer of the Savings Bank in January
         2000 in connection with the merger of First State Bank with the Savings
         Bank.

Stock Options

         The following table sets forth certain information concerning grants of
stock  options  awarded to the named  executive  officer  during the fiscal year
ended December 31, 2000.



                                          Option Grants in Last Fiscal Year

                                                                                        Potential Realizable Value
                                                                                        at Assumed Annual Rates
                                                                                            of Stock Price
                                                                                              Appreciation
                                                 Individual Grants                          for Option Term(3)
                          ------------------------------------------------------------ ---------------------------
                          Options       % of Total Options     Exercise  Expiration
          Name            Granted(1)    Granted to Employees    Price(2)     Date           5%           10%
 ------------------------ ----------- ------------------------- --------- ------------ ------------- -------------
                                                                                      
 Ira Hoberman               25000                56%            $17.6875     1/14/10     $278,089      $704,733

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(1)  Consists of stock options  exercisable at the rate of 20% per year from the
     date of grant.
(2)  The exercise  price was based on the fair market value of a share of Common
     Stock on the date of grant.
(3)  Assumes  compounded  rates of return for the remaining  life of the options
     and future stock prices of $28.8111  and  $45.8768 at  compounded  rates of
     return of 5% and 10%, respectively.


         The following table sets forth certain information concerning exercises
of stock options by the named  executive  officers  during the fiscal year ended
December 31, 2000 and options held at December 31, 2000.


                                            AGGREGATED OPTION EXERCISES IN LAST FISCAL YEAR
                                                       AND YEAR END OPTION VALUES

                                                                                                           Value of
                                                                            Number of                    Unexercised
                                                                           Unexercised                    Options at
                                       Shares                          Options at Year End                Year End(1)
                                    Acquired on        Value      ----------------------------- ----------------------------------
           Name                       Exercise       Realized       Exercisable   Unexercisable   Exercisable     Unexercisable

                                                                                                     
Harry P. Doherty                         --             --            130,000          195,000      $ --              $  --
- ---------------------------------- --------------- -------------- ----------------------------- --------------- -------------------
James R. Coyle                           --             --             90,000          135,000        --                 --
- ---------------------------------- --------------- -------------- ----------------------------- --------------- -------------------
Ira Hoberman                             --             --              --              25,000        --              92,188
- ---------------------------------- --------------- -------------- ----------------------------- --------------- -------------------
John P. Brady                            --             --             41,200           61,800        --                 --
- ---------------------------------- --------------- -------------- ----------------------------- --------------- -------------------
Edward J. Klingele                       --             --             37,200           55,800        --                 --

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(1)      Based on a per share market price of $21.375 at December 31, 2000.

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Employment Agreements

         In December  1997,  the Company and the Savings Bank (the  "Employers")
entered into employment agreements with each of Messrs.  Doherty,  Coyle, Brady,
Besignano,  Klingele  and  Fleming  and Ms.  Pagano  (collectively,  the "Senior
Executive Officers").  The Employers have agreed to employ each Senior Executive
Officer  for a term of three  years,  in each case in their  current  respective
positions.  The employment  agreements are reviewed  annually,  and are extended
each year for a successive  additional  one-year period upon the approval of the
Employers'  Boards of Directors,  unless  either party elects,  not less than 30
days prior to the annual anniversary date, not to extend the employment term.

         Each of the employment  agreements are terminable with or without cause
by the Employers. The Senior Executive Officers have no right to compensation or
other  benefits  pursuant  to the  employment  agreements  for any period  after
voluntary  termination or termination by the Employers for cause. The agreements
provide for  certain  benefits  in the event of the Senior  Executive  Officer's
death,  disability  or  retirement.  In the event that (i) the Senior  Executive
Officer  terminates his or her employment  because of failure to comply with any
material  provision  of the  employment  agreement or the  Employers  change the
Senior Executive  Officer's title or duties or (ii) the employment  agreement is
terminated  by the  Employers  other than for cause,  disability,  retirement or
death or by the executive as a result of certain adverse actions which are taken
with respect to the executive's  employment following a change in control of the
Company,  as  defined,  Messrs.  Doherty  and Coyle will be  entitled  to a cash
severance  amount equal to three times their  average  annual  compensation,  as
defined,  plus an amount to reimburse Messrs.  Doherty and Coyle for certain tax
obligations,  and the five other Senior Executive Officers will be entitled to a
cash severance amount equal to two times their average annual  compensation,  as
defined.

         A change in control is generally  defined in the employment  agreements
to include  any change in control of the Company  required to be reported  under
the federal securities laws, as well as (i) the acquisition by any person of 20%
or more of the Company's  outstanding  voting  securities and (ii) a change in a
majority of the directors of the Company  during any  three-year  period without
the  approval of at least  two-thirds  of the persons who were  directors of the
Company at the beginning of such period.

         With respect to the  employment  agreements  with the five other Senior
Executive Officers,  each employment  agreement provides that, in the event that
any of the payments to be made  thereunder  or  otherwise  upon  termination  of
employment  are deemed to  constitute  "excess  parachute  payments"  within the
meaning of Section  280G of the Internal  Revenue Code of 1986,  as amended (the
"Code"), then such payments and benefits received thereunder shall be reduced by
the  amount  which is the  minimum  necessary  to  result  in the  payments  not
exceeding  three times the  recipient's  average  annual  compensation  from the
employer  which was includable in the  recipient's  gross income during the most
recent five taxable years.  Recipients of excess parachute  payments are subject
to a 20% excise tax on the amount by which such payments exceed the base amount,
in addition to regular  income taxes,  and payments in excess of the base amount
are not  deductible by the employer as  compensation  expense for federal income
tax purposes.

         In January 2000, the Savings Bank entered into an employment  agreement
with Mr. Hoberman. The Savings Bank has agreed to employ Mr. Hoberman for a term
of three years. The employment  agreement is terminable with or without cause by
the  Savings  Bank.  Mr.  Hoberman  has no right to receive  his salary or other
severance  benefits  pursuant to the  employment  agreement for any period after
termination  by the Savings  Bank for cause.  The  agreement  provides  that Mr.
Hoberman is entitled to continue to receive his salary for the remaining term of
the agreement in the event of death, illness, disability or incapacity, or if he
is terminated  without cause. Mr.  Hoberman's  employment  agreement  contains a
non-compete  provision effective for a period of two years after the termination
of the  agreement.  Mr.  Hoberman is entitled to receive a payment  equal to his
annual salary, as stated in the employment  agreement,  as consideration for the
non-compete provision.

         Although the above-described  employment  agreements could increase the
cost of any  acquisition  of control of the Company,  management  of the Company
does not believe that the terms thereof  would have a significant  anti-takeover
effect.  The Company and/or the Savings Bank may determine to enter into similar
employment agreements with other officers in the future.

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Director's Compensation

         Directors of the Company, except for Messrs. Doherty and Coyle, receive
$1,800  per  meeting  attended  of the Board and $1,200  per  committee  meeting
attended  ($600 in the case of each  Savings  Bank Loan Review  Committee).  The
Chairman  of each  committee  of the Board  also  receives  $1,500  per  meeting
attended  ($750 in the case of the  Savings  Bank  Loan  Review  Committee).  In
addition,  each non-employee  director received an annual retainer of $5,000 for
fiscal 2000. Beginning January 1, 2001, each non-employee  director will receive
an annual retainer of $20,000.  Board fees are subject to periodic adjustment by
the Board of  Directors.  In  addition to fees paid to  directors  for Board and
Committee  meetings,  directors of the Company participate in the Company's 1998
Stock Option Plan and the Recognition  Plan.  Stock option grants and restricted
stock awards were issued to directors in July 1998. Such stock options and grant
awards vest 20% per year.

Retirement Plan

         The  Savings  Bank has  maintained  a  non-contributory,  tax-qualified
defined benefit pension plan (the "Retirement Plan") for eligible employees. The
Savings Bank froze the  Retirement  Plan as of December 31, 1999.  Subsequent to
December 31, 1999,  there have been no new  enrollments  and no further  benefit
accruals  in the  Retirement  Plan.  Credited  service  ceases to  accrue  after
December  31,  1999,  however,  vesting  continues  for  periods  of  employment
subsequent  to such date.  The  Retirement  Plan provides for a benefit for each
participant,  including  executive officers named in the Executive  Compensation
Table  above,  equal  to 2% of  the  participant's  final  average  compensation
(highest average annual compensation  during the 36 consecutive  calendar months
during the 120 consecutive calendar months prior to the date the Retirement Plan
was frozen) multiplied by the participant's  years (and any fraction thereof) of
eligible employment (up to a maximum of 30 years). A participant is fully vested
in his or her benefit under the Retirement Plan after five years of service. The
Retirement  Plan is  funded by the  Savings  Bank on a  actuarial  basis and all
assets are held in trust by the Retirement Plan trustee.

         The following table  illustrates the annual benefit payable to eligible
employees upon normal retirement at age 65 at various levels of compensation and
years of  service  under  the  Retirement  Plan and the SERP  maintained  by the
Savings Bank. The annual retirement  benefits shown in the table are single life
annuity  amounts with no offset for Social Security  benefits,  and there are no
other offsets to benefits.



     Final Average
    Compensation (1)                                        Years of Service (2)(3)
- ------------------------ -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                15                 20                25                30                35
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                                                                                          
               $125,000            $37,500            $50,000          $62,500           $75,000            $75,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                150,000             45,000             60,000           75,000            90,000             90,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                175,000             52,500             70,000           87,500           105,000            105,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                200,000             60,000             80,000          100,000           120,000            120,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                225,000             67,500             90,000          112,500           135,000            135,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                250,000             75,000            100,000          125,000           150,000            150,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                300,000             90,000            120,000          150,000           180,000            180,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                400,000            120,000            160,000          200,000           240,000            240,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                450,000            135,000            180,000          225,000           270,000            270,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                500,000            150,000            200,000          250,000           300,000            300,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                550,000            165,000            220,000          275,000           330,000            330,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------
                600,000            180,000            240,000          300,000           360,000            360,000
 ----------------------- ------------------ ------------------ ---------------- ----------------- ------------------

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(1)      For the fiscal  year of the  Retirement  Plan  beginning  on January 1,
         1999, the average final  compensation for computing  benefits under the
         Retirement  Plan cannot  exceed  $160,000 (as  adjusted for  subsequent
         years  pursuant  to  Code  provisions).   Benefits  in  excess  of  the
         limitation  are provided  through the SERP.  For the fiscal year of the
         Retirement  Plan  beginning  on  January 1, 1999,  the  maximum  annual
         benefit  payable under the Retirement  Plan cannot exceed  $135,000 (as
         adjusted for subsequent years pursuant to Code provisions).



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(2)      The  annual  retirement  benefits  shown in the table are  single  life
         annuity amounts with no offset for Social Security benefits,  and there
         are no other offsets to benefits.

(3)      The maximum years of service credited for benefit purposes is 30 years.

         The  following  table sets forth the years of credited  service and the
average annual earnings  determined as of December 31, 2000, the end of the 2000
plan  year,  for each of the  individuals  named in the  Executive  Compensation
Table, except Mr. Hoberman.



                                          Years of Credited      Average Annual
                                               Service             Earnings(1)
               ------------------------- --------------------- ----------------
                                                                
               Harry P. Doherty.........          35                  $505,349
               ------------------------- --------------------- ----------------
               James R. Coyle...........          31                   366,407
               ------------------------- --------------------- ----------------
               John P. Brady............          19                   162,151
               ------------------------- --------------------- ----------------
               Edward J. Klingele.......          23                   143,319
               ------------------------- --------------------- ----------------

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(1)  Average Annual  Earnings are frozen as of December 31, 1999 for purposes of
     calculating benefits under the Retirement Plan.

Supplemental Executive Retirement Plan

         The Savings Bank has adopted the SERP to provide for eligible employees
benefits  that would be due under its  Retirement  Plan and 401(k)  Plan if such
benefits were not limited under the Code. SERP benefits provided with respect to
the Retirement  Plan are reflected in the pension table.  The Board of Directors
of the  Savings  Bank  also has  adopted  an  amendment  to the SERP to  provide
eligible  employees  with  benefits  that  would be due  under  the ESOP if such
benefits were not limited under the Code.

Transactions With Certain Related Persons

         In accordance with applicable federal laws and regulations, the Savings
Bank offers  mortgage loans to its directors,  officers and employees as well as
members  of  their  immediate  families  for  the  financing  of  their  primary
residences  and  certain  other  loans.   Until  November  1996,  the  Financial
Institutions  Reform,  Recovery,  and  Enforcement Act of 1989 required that all
loans or  extensions  of credit to executive  officers and  directors be made on
substantially the same terms, including interest rates and collateral,  as those
prevailing at the time for comparable  transactions  with the general public and
not involve more than the normal risk of repayment or present other  unfavorable
features.  In addition,  loans made to a director or executive officer in excess
of the greater of $25,000 or 5% of the Savings Bank's capital and surplus (up to
a maximum  of  $500,000)  must be  approved  in  advance  by a  majority  of the
disinterested members of the Board of Directors.

         Except as hereinafter indicated,  all loans made by the Savings Bank to
its  executive  officers  and  directors  are  made in the  ordinary  course  of
business, are made on substantially the same terms, including interest rates and
collateral,  as those  prevailing at the time for comparable  transactions  with
other persons and do not involve more than the normal risk of  collectibility or
present other unfavorable features.

         In accordance  with  applicable  regulations,  the Savings Bank extends
residential first mortgage loans to its directors and executive officers secured
by  their  primary  residence  pursuant  to a  benefit  program  that is  widely
available to employees of the Savings Bank and does not give  preference  to any
executive  officer or director over other  employees of the Savings Bank.  Under
the terms of such loans,  the interest  rate is 1% below that charged on similar
loans to non-employees and certain fees and charges are waived. Set forth in the
following table is certain  information  relating to such preferential  loans to
executive officers and directors which were outstanding at December 31, 2000.


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                                                      Largest Amount of
                                                     Indebtedness between
                                                       January 1, 2000        Balance as of       Interest
           Name               Year Loan Made        and December 31, 2000   December 31, 2000        Rate
           ----               --------------        ---------------------   -----------------        ----
                                                                                        
       Harry P. Doherty          1999                      $419,391                 395,804         5.375%

       John P. Brady             1998                        58,350                       0          5.250
                                 2000                       220,000                 218,416          6.625

       Frank J. Besignano        1999                       327,536                 323,795          6.125

       Donald C. Fleming         1998                       195,950                 193,192          5.875

       Edward J. Klingele        1998                       167,000                 164,336          5.625

       Deborah Pagano            1998                       120,764                 115,038          5.250


Report of the Compensation Committee

         The purpose of the  Compensation  Committee is to determine and oversee
the  compensation  practices of the Company and the Savings Bank.  In 1998,  the
Committee  retained  the  services of William M.  Mercer,  Inc. to review  these
compensation  practices and to assist in the development of an annual  incentive
program.  The purpose of the annual  incentive  program is to reinforce a formal
and objective  pay-for-performance framework that ties the achievement of annual
strategic  and  operating  goals  with  incentive  compensation  and to  provide
competitive  total cash  compensation  opportunities  with upside (and downside)
potential.

         The  objectives of the Company's  compensation  program are to attract,
develop and retain strong executive  officers that are capable of maximizing the
Company's  performance.  The total  compensation  program  provides  competitive
compensation  opportunities  that are aligned with the financial  performance of
the Company. Key compensation  elements include base salary,  annual incentives,
and  long-  term  incentives.   Base  salary  levels  are  based  on  individual
performance and targeted to approximate  the  competitive  median salaries among
the  Company's  relative  peer group of public  savings banks located in the New
York metropolitan  area.  Annual incentives are targeted to deliver  competitive
cash compensation opportunities when performance is at expectation.  The size of
the actual  awards  vary  within a range based on the  Company's  financial  and
operating  performance as well as the  achievement of certain  individual  goals
that  contribute  to the overall  success of the  Company.  Long-term  incentive
awards  (stock  options and  restricted  stock  grants) are  targeted to provide
competitive  compensation  opportunities  and to align executive awards with the
creation of shareholder value. It is intended that variable  compensation levels
(annual plus  long-term  incentives)  eventually  will  comprise the majority of
total compensation opportunities for the senior executive team.

         Based upon the above factors, the Compensation  Committee increased Mr.
Doherty's  base  salary  by  approximately  $29,000  or  5%  to  $606,500.   The
Compensation  Committee  provided for an average 4.9% increase for the six other
Senior Executive Officers. All such increases reflect contributions to the goals
and objectives of the Company and the increased cost of living within the market
from which the Company draws its workforce.

         The annual  incentive  program for 2000 provided for target  incentives
for the Chief Executive Officer equal to fifty percent (50%) of his base salary,
forty percent (40%) of base salary for the President and Chief Operating Officer
and thirty  percent  (30%) of base  salary for the five other  Senior  Executive
Officers.  The total  amount  of the  individual  awards to the Chief  Executive
Officer  and the  President  and  Chief  Operating  Officer  is  based  upon the
Company's  consolidated  financial  performance.   The  other  Senior  Executive
Officers  awards  were  similarly  computed  with  the  Company's   consolidated
financial performance comprising forty percent (40%) of the award and individual
performance  comprising sixty percent (60%).  Individual  performance awards are
not paid unless the Company's consolidated financial targets are met.

         The measurements utilized for the financial performance portion of such
awards were as follows:  (i) thirty  percent (30%) of the financial  performance
measure was based upon the diluted earnings per share of the Common Stock;  (ii)
forty percent (40%) was based upon the return on average shareholders' equity of
the Company; and (iii) thirty percent (30%) was based upon the return on average
assets of the Company. For each of the financial  performance  measurements,  as
well as the individual performance measurements,  a series of achievement levels
was  established.


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Each level was  assigned a  percentage  award from zero  percent  (0%) up to one
hundred  percent  (100%).  The zero percent (0%) award  represented  performance
below a  threshold  level of  achievement  deemed  reasonable.  If the  range of
performance  specified for a one hundred percent (100%) award was exceeded,  the
executive could be paid an award of up to one hundred fifty percent (150%)of the
financial performance and individual performance awards.

         For fiscal year 2000, the Company's financial  performance  resulted in
awards of thirty percent (30%) of target amounts for financial performance.  The
Senior Executive Officers also received  approximately  fifty-five percent (55%)
of their individual performance awards.

         Following review and approval of the Compensation Committee, all issues
pertaining  to  executive  compensation  are  submitted  to the  full  Board  of
Directors  for their  approval.  No officer of the Company  participates  in the
review of his or her respective compensation.


                                             William G. Horn, Committee Chairman
                                             Denis P. Kelleher, Director
                                             John R. Morris, Director



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Performance Graph

         The following  graph  demonstrates  comparison of the cumulative  total
returns  for the  Common  Stock,  Standard  and  Poor's  500  Index  and the SNL
Securities All Thrift Index for the period  commencing on December 22, 1997, the
date the Common Stock began trading on the NYSE, and December 31, 2000.




                            Total Return Performance

              [GRAPHIC-GRAPH PLOTTED TO DATA POINTS LISTED BELOW]


                                                                            Period Ending
                                    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Index                               12/22/97    12/31/97    06/30/98    12/31/98     06/30/99    12/31/99    06/30/2000   12/31/2000
- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                                                                                   
Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.          100.00      109.84      119.71       105.80       96.51       97.66         96.97        119.39
S&P 500                              100.00      101.81      119.84       130.87      147.07      158.41        157.74        143.98
Thrifts (All)                        100.00      102.51      105.75        90.16       89.71       73.65         75.44        117.61



         The  above  graph  represents  $100  invested  in the  Common  Stock at
$19.0625 per share,  the closing  price per share as of December  22, 1997,  the
date it commenced  trading on the NYSE. The cumulative total returns include the
payment of dividends by the Company.



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                     RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF AUDITORS

         The Board of Directors of the Company has  appointed  Arthur  Andersen,
independent certified public accountants,  to perform the audit of the Company's
financial statements for the year ending December 31, 2001, and further directed
that the selection of auditors be submitted for ratification by the stockholders
at the Annual Meeting.

         The Company has been advised by Arthur  Andersen that neither that firm
nor  any  of its  associates  has  any  relationship  with  the  Company  or its
subsidiaries other than the usual  relationship that exists between  independent
certified public accountants and clients.  Arthur Andersen will have one or more
representatives  at the Annual  Meeting who will have an  opportunity  to make a
statement,  if  they  so  desire,  and  who  will be  available  to  respond  to
appropriate questions.

Audit Fees

         Aggregate amount of the fees billed by Arthur Andersen for its audit of
the Company's annual financial  statements for fiscal 2000 and for its review of
the Company's  unaudited interim financial  statements included in reports filed
by the Company  under the  Exchange  Act during such year was  $235,000 of which
$188,000 had been billed through December 31, 2000.

Financial Information Systems Design and Implementation

         The  Company  did not  engage or pay any fees to Arthur  Andersen  with
respect  to  the  provision  of  financial   information   systems   design  and
implementation services during fiscal 2000.

Other Fees

         The  aggregate  amount of fees billed by Arthur  Andersen for all other
services  rendered  to the Company  during  fiscal 2000 was $18,600 all of which
were paid in fiscal 2001.  These services  consisted  primarily of due diligence
services and other tax planning related services.

         The  Board  of  Directors  and  its  Audit  Committee   considered  the
compatibility  of the  non-audit  services  provided  to the  Company  by Arthur
Andersen in fiscal 2000 on the  independence of Arthur Andersen from the Company
in  evaluating  whether to appoint  Arthur  Andersen to perform the audit of the
Company's financial statements for the year ending December 31, 2001.

         The Board of Directors recommends that you vote FOR the ratification of
the appointment of Arthur  Andersen as independent  auditors for the fiscal year
ending December 31, 2001.

                              STOCKHOLDER PROPOSAL

         The Company has been notified that Jewelcor Management, Inc., 100 North
Wilkes-Barre Boulevard,  Wilkes-Barrie,  Pennsylvania 18702, which is the record
owner of 150 shares of Common Stock and the  beneficial  owner of 134,850 shares
of Common  Stock,  intends to present the  following  stockholder  proposal  for
consideration  at the Annual Meeting.  For the reasons stated under "Response by
Your Board of Directors,"  the Board of Directors  believes that approval of the
stockholder  proposal  is not in  the  best  interests  of  the  Company  or its
stockholders and recommends a vote "AGAINST" the stockholder proposal.


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                              Shareholder Proposal
                              --------------------

         Resolved,  it is  recommended  that the  Board of  Directors  of Staten
Island  Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") take the steps necessary to implement the
following  actions to remove the  "anti-takeover"  defenses  from the  Company's
Certificate of  Incorporation  and Bylaws,  unless precluded by state or federal
law.

         1.       Repeal the following Articles of the Company's  Certificate of
                  Incorporation:

                  a.      Repeal  Article  7 (A) which  segregates  the Board of
                          Directors into three  separate  classes with staggered
                          terms of office and  prohibits  cumulative  voting for
                          the election of directors.  (This  proposed  action is
                          intended  only to affect  elections of directors  that
                          occur after Article 7 (A) is repealed).

                  b.      Repeal Article 8 which prohibits shareholder action by
                          written  consent and prohibits the  shareholders  from
                          calling a special meeting.

                  c.      Repeal Article 11 which requires the affirmative  vote
                          of at  least  80% of  shares  entitled  to  vote in an
                          election of directors  ("Voting  Shares") to approve a
                          business  combination not recommended by two-thirds of
                          the Board of Directors.

                  d.      Repeal Article 12 which  prohibits the  acquisition of
                          10% of  the  Company's  equity  securities  except  in
                          certain circumstances, including where approved by the
                          Board of Directors.

                  e.      Repeal  Article  13  which  prohibits  changes  by the
                          shareholders   to   the   Company's   Certificate   of
                          Incorporation  without  the  affirmative  vote  of the
                          holders  of  80%  of  Voting  Shares  and  which  also
                          requires  the  affirmative  vote  of at  least  80% of
                          Voting Shares to change  Sections 2.4, 2.14, 4.1, 4.2,
                          4.3,  4.4,  and 4.15 and  Article VI of the  Company's
                          Bylaws.

         2.       Repeal the following Sections of the Company's Bylaws:

                  a.      Repeal Section 2.4 which prohibits  shareholders  from
                          calling a special meeting.

                  b.      Repeal  Section  11.1 which  prohibits  changes to the
                          Company's  Bylaws  other  than  as  set  forth  in the
                          Company's Certificate of Incorporation.

         3.       Amend  Section  4.2 of the  Company's  Bylaws  to  remove  all
                  language  regarding the  segregation of the Board of Directors
                  into three separate classes.

                Supporting Statement of Jewelcor Management, Inc.
                -------------------------------------------------

         The Company's Certificate of Incorporation and Bylaws presently contain
provisions  which  restrict  the ability of the  shareholders  to  effectuate  a
proposed  acquisition  of the Company that has not been approved by the Board of
Directors.  Moreover, these provisions restrict the shareholders' ability to act
by written  consent and to alter the composition of the majority of the Board of
Directors.  If the above actions were effectuated,  we shareholders would have a
greater  ability to affect the  management of the Company.  It is the opinion of
this  shareholder,  that we shareholders  should be given more of a voice in the
future of the Company. Please vote YES on this proposal.

         Please note that any  amendments to the  Certificate  of  Incorporation
approved  by the  Board  of  Directors  must  subsequently  be  approved  by the
shareholders in order to be implemented.


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                       Response of Your Board of Directors

          Your Board of Directors  unanimously  recommends that you VOTE AGAINST
the above stockholder proposal for the reasons set forth below.

Your Board is Committed to Enhancing Shareholder Value

         The Board of Directors is committed to enhancing  shareholder value and
acting in accordance with its fiduciary duties to ALL  shareholders.  Based upon
our  experience  and track  record,  we urge you to  support  us in our  ongoing
efforts to enhance shareholder value.

         In  connection  with  our  recommendation  that you  vote  against  the
stockholder proposal, we urge you to consider the following accomplishments:

         o        Our net income has  increased in each of the last three years.
                  For the  year  ended  December  31,  2000,  we  increased  our
                  earnings  per  share to $1.61  compared  to $1.40 and $1.06 in
                  1999 and 1998, respectively.  Our core cash earnings per share
                  increased 21.0% in 2000 compared to 1999.

         o        We have  increased our dividends per share each year since our
                  initial  public  offering  in  December  1997.  During 2000 we
                  increased  our quarterly  cash dividend  twice - from $0.12 to
                  $0.13 and then to $0.14 per share.

         o        Our assets and deposits have  substantially  increased in each
                  of  the  last  four  years.   During  2000  we  completed  the
                  acquisition of First State Bancorp,  Inc., with $374.0 million
                  in assets and six branch  offices,  and of four branch offices
                  of Unity Bank with $41.0 million in deposits.

         o        We continue to be an active  purchaser of the Company's common
                  stock. Through December 31, 2000, we have completed five stock
                  repurchase  programs in which we have bought back 10.2 million
                  shares,  almost a quarter of the shares  issued in our initial
                  public offering.

         o        Our share price has  increased  significantly  during the past
                  year. We believe that the market has given some  consideration
                  to the above  factors,  among others,  and our stock price has
                  improved.  In March 2000,  our common  stock  traded as low as
                  $16.50 per share.  On March 26, 2001,  our common stock closed
                  at $24.70 per  share.  We believe  the  increase  in our stock
                  price provides some  affirmation of the Company's  efforts and
                  management's course of action during the past year.

         We believe that we are  continuing to increase the  franchise  value of
the Company.  Your Board believes that shareholders have been well served by the
Board's  leadership  and guidance,  and the Board  believes that it is in a much
better position than the proponent to determine what is in the best interests of
ALL shareholders.

         While your Board of  Directors is not aware of any effort that might be
made to obtain control of the Company,  the Board of Directors  believes that it
is  appropriate  to include  certain  provisions as part of the  Certificate  of
Incorporation  and  Bylaws to  protect  the  interests  of the  Company  and its
shareholders  from hostile  takeovers that the Board of Directors might conclude
are not in the best interests of the Company's shareholders.  It should be noted
that at the time of our initial  public stock  offering,  our  prospectus  fully
disclosed the  provisions of the  Certificate of  Incorporation  and Bylaws that
might be deemed to have an anti-takeover  effect. This disclosure was made prior
to any purchase of stock by any  shareholder,  past or current,  of the Company,
and we have not amended our  Certificate of  Incorporation  or Bylaws to add any
additional anti-takeover provisions since such time.



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Your Board  Believes  That It is in the Best  Position to Negotiate on Behalf of
All Shareholders

         The Board of Directors  believes  that the  provisions  which  Jewelcor
proposes to eliminate  are in fact in the best  interests of the Company and its
shareholders. In the opinion of the Board of Directors, the Board is in the best
position  to  determine  the true value of the  Company  and to  negotiate  more
effectively on behalf of all shareholders.  Accordingly, the Board believes that
it is in the best interests of the shareholders to encourage potential acquirors
to  negotiate  directly  with the Board of Directors  and that these  provisions
encourage such negotiations while  discouraging  hostile takeover attempts which
may not be in the best interests of all the shareholders. It is also the view of
the Board of Directors that these provisions in the Certificate of Incorporation
and Bylaws  should  not  discourage  persons  from  proposing  a merger or other
transaction  at prices  reflective of the true value of the Company and which is
in the best interests of all of the shareholders.

         Attempts to take  control of  financial  institutions  have become more
common.  Takeover  attempts which have not been  negotiated with and approved by
the Board of Directors present shareholders with the risk of a takeover on terms
which may be less  favorable  than might  otherwise be available.  A transaction
which is negotiated  and approved by the Board of Directors,  on the other hand,
can be carefully  planned and undertaken at an opportune time in order to obtain
maximum value for the Company and its shareholders.

Repeal of the Provisions Could Be Detrimental to Shareholders

         The proposed repeal of Article 7(A) of our Certificate of Incorporation
could result in a shareholder  group acquiring control of your Company through a
proxy  contest,  without  paying  any  control  premium  to  any  of  the  other
shareholders.  The  repeal of Article 8 would  allow the proxy  contest to occur
without  having an annual  meeting  of  shareholders.  Your  Board of  Directors
believes that anyone seeking control of the Company should have to pay a premium
to ALL shareholders,  and that the proposed repeal of these provisions is not in
your best interests.

         In addition, an unsolicited takeover proposal can seriously disrupt the
business and management of a corporation and cause it great expense.  Although a
tender  offer or other  takeover  attempt may be made at a price  above  current
market  prices,  such  offers  are  sometimes  made  for  less  than  all of the
outstanding  shares  of a  target  company.  As a  result,  shareholders  may be
presented with the alternative of partially  liquidating  their  investment at a
time that may be disadvantageous, or retaining their investment in an enterprise
which is under  different  management and whose  objective may not be similar to
those  of the  remaining  shareholders.  Accordingly,  the  Board  of  Directors
believes that these  provisions in the Certificate of  Incorporation  and Bylaws
provide  benefits  to all of the  shareholders  of the Company and should not be
removed.

         The Board of  Directors  has a fiduciary  responsibility  to act in the
best interests of ALL  shareholders  and  accordingly has a legal duty to oppose
unfair takeover offers.  Anti-takeover  measures are intended to (a) provide the
Board  with  adequate  time  and  flexibility  to  negotiate  on  behalf  of the
shareholders  and (b) enhance the Board's  ability to negotiate with a potential
acquiror,  develop  alternatives which may better maximize  shareholder  values,
preserve the  long-term  value of the Company for the  shareholders,  and ensure
that  all  shareholders   are  treated  fairly  and  equally.   The  purpose  of
anti-takeover  defenses in general is to protect  shareholders  against  abusive
takeover practices.

Your Board Believes That the Proposal Is Vague

         Your Board of Directors believes that this proposal is inherently vague
and  indefinite  and is subject  to varying  interpretations  by  Jewelcor,  the
Company and other  shareholders.  Your Board believes that the proposal is vague
and indefinite  because the repeal of the various  provisions  referenced in the
proposal will not result in the removal of the "anti-takeover" defenses.


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         For  example,  the  repeal  of  Article  7(A)  of  our  Certificate  of
Incorporation  will not  result in  cumulative  voting  being  available  in the
election of  directors.  Under Section 214 of the Delaware  General  Corporation
Law,  cumulative voting is not available unless it is expressly  provided for in
the  Certificate.  In addition,  the repeal of Article 8 of our  Certificate  of
Incorporation  will  not  result  in  shareholders  being  able to call  special
meetings  under Section  211(d) of the Delaware  General  Corporation  Law. With
respect  to  the  proposed   repeal  of  Article  12  of  our   Certificate   of
Incorporation,  the  proponent  failed to indicate  that  federal  banking  laws
prohibit  anyone from  acquiring more than 10% of our Common Stock without first
obtaining the requisite regulatory approval.

         Under  our  Certificate  of  Incorporation,  repeal of  certain  of the
provisions  in our  Certificate  of  Incorporation  and  Bylaws  subject  to the
shareholder  proposal require the affirmative vote of a majority of the Board of
Directors  and  then  must  be  approved  by the  holders  of 80% or more or the
outstanding  voting shares (unless approved by two-thirds of the entire Board of
Directors,  which would then require  approval by a majority of the  outstanding
voting  shares).  Thus,  in  order  to  effect  the  changes  suggested  by  the
stockholder proposal, approval of the Board of Directors and subsequent approval
by stockholders at a future meeting would be required.  Accordingly, even if the
stockholder  proposal is approved at the Annual Meeting , additional action at a
future  meeting of  stockholders  with a more  onerous  vote  standard  would be
necessary to amend our  Certificate  of  Incorporation  and Bylaws in the manner
proposed.

         For the reasons set forth above,  the Board of Directors  believes that
stockholder  proposal  is not in the  best  interests  of the  Company  and  its
shareholders.  Accordingly,  the Board of Directors unanimously  recommends that
you VOTE AGAINST the stockholder proposal.

                STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS FOR THE 2002 ANNUAL MEETING

         Any proposal  which a stockholder  wishes to have included in the proxy
materials of the Company  relating to the next annual meeting of stockholders of
the Company,  which  currently  is  scheduled to be held in April 2002,  must be
received at the  principal  executive  offices of the Company,  15 Beach Street,
Staten  Island,  New  York  10304,  Attention:   Patricia  A.  Smith,  Corporate
Secretary, no later than November 30, 2001.

         Stockholder  proposals  which are not  submitted  for  inclusion in the
Company's proxy  materials  pursuant to Rule 14a-8 under the Exchange Act may be
brought  before an annual  meeting  pursuant  to Section  2.14 of the  Company's
Bylaws,  which provides that business at an annual meeting of stockholders  must
be (a) properly  brought  before the meeting by or at the direction of the Board
of  Directors,  or (b)  otherwise  properly  brought  before  the  meeting  by a
stockholder.  For business to be properly  brought before an annual meeting by a
stockholder, the stockholder must have given timely notice thereof in writing to
the  Secretary  of the Company.  To be timely,  a  stockholder's  notice must be
delivered to, or mailed and received at, the principal  executive offices of the
Company  not later than 120 days prior to the  mailing of proxy  materials  with
respect to the  immediately  preceding  annual  meeting of  stockholders  of the
Company.

                                 ANNUAL REPORTS

         A copy of the Company's  Annual Report to  Stockholders  for the fiscal
year ended  December  31, 2000  accompanies  this Proxy  Statement.  Such annual
report is not part of the proxy solicitation materials.

         Upon  receipt of a written  request,  the Company  will  furnish to any
stockholder  without  charge a copy of the Company's  Annual Report on Form 10-K
for fiscal 2000  required  to be filed  under the  Exchange  Act.  Such  written
requests should be directed to Donald C. Fleming,  Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.,
15 Beach Street, Staten Island, New York 10304. The Form 10-K is not part of the
proxy solicitation materials.



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OTHER MATTERS

         Each proxy solicited hereby also confers discretionary authority on the
Board of Directors of the Company to vote the proxy with respect to the election
of any person as a director  if the nominee is unable to serve or for good cause
will not serve,  matters  incident to the conduct of the meeting,  and upon such
other matters as may properly come before the Annual Meeting.  Management is not
aware of any business  that may properly  come before the Annual  Meeting  other
than the matters described above in this Proxy Statement.  However, if any other
matters should properly come before the meeting, it is intended that the proxies
solicited hereby will be voted with respect to those other matters in accordance
with the judgment of the persons voting the proxies.

         The cost of the  solicitation  of proxies will be borne by the Company.
The Company will reimburse  brokerage firms and other  custodians,  nominees and
fiduciaries  for  reasonable  expenses  incurred  by them in  sending  the proxy
materials to the beneficial owners of the Common Stock. The Company has retained
Georgeson  Shareholder  Communications,  Inc. to assist with the solicitation of
proxies for a fee not to exceed $4,500,  plus  reimbursement  for  out-of-pocket
expenses.  In  addition  to  solicitations  by  mail,  directors,  officers  and
employees of the Company or the Savings Bank may solicit  proxies  personally or
by telephone without additional compensation.


                                              By Order of the Board of Directors




                                              /s/Patricia A. Smith
                                              --------------------
                                              Patricia A. Smith
                                              Corporate Secretary



March 30, 2001


                                       23


                                                                      APPENDIX A


             AUDIT COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

                    STATEN ISLAND BANCORP INC.

                              CHARTER

I        PURPOSE

         The primary  function of the Audit  Committee is to assist the Board of
Directors  in  fulfilling  its  oversight  responsibilities  by  reviewing:  the
financial reports and other financial information provided by the Bancorp to any
governmental  body  and the  public;  Bancorp's  systems  of  internal  controls
regarding finance,  accounting,  legal compliance and ethics that management and
the Board have  established;  and Bancorp's  auditing  (internal and  external),
accounting and financial reporting processes. Consistent with this function, the
Audit Committee  should encourage  continuous  improvement of, and should foster
adherence to, Bancorp's  policies,  procedures and practices at all levels.  The
Audit Committee's primary duties and responsibilities are to:

         o        Serve  as  an  independent  and  objective  party  to  monitor
                  Bancorp's  financial  reporting  process and internal  control
                  system.

         o        Review and appraise the audit efforts of Bancorp's independent
                  accountants and internal auditing department.

         o        Provide an open avenue of communication  among the independent
                  accountants,  financial  and senior  management,  the internal
                  auditing department, and the Board of Directors.

II       COMPOSITION

         The Audit Committee shall be comprised of four (4) or more directors as
determined by the Board, each of whom shall be independent  directors,  and free
from any  relationship  that, in the opinion of the Board,  would interfere with
the exercise of his or her  independent  judgment as a member of the  Committee.
All members of the Committee shall have a working familiarity with basic finance
and accounting  practices,  and at least one member of the Committee  shall have
accounting or related financial management expertise.

         The  members  of the  Committee  shall be  elected  by the Board at the
annual  organizational  meeting of the Board or until their  successors shall be
duly  elected and  qualified.  Unless a Chair is elected by the full Board,  the
members of the  Committee  may  designate a Chair by  majority  vote of the full
Committee membership.


                                      A-1



III      MEETINGS

         The  Committee  shall  meet  a  least  four  times  annually,  or  more
frequently  as  circumstances  dictate.  As  part  of  its  job to  foster  open
communication,  the Committee should meet at least annually with management, the
director of the internal auditing department and the independent  accountants in
separate executive sessions to discuss any matters that the Committee or each of
these groups believe should be discussed privately.  In addition,  the Committee
or at  least  its  Chair  should  meet  with  the  independent  accountants  and
management quarterly to review Bancorp's financials.

IV       RESPONSIBILITIES AND DUTIES

         To fulfill its responsibilities and duties the Audit Committee shall:

Documents/Reports Review
- ------------------------

1.       Review and update this  Charter  periodically,  at least  annually,  as
         conditions dictate.

2.       Review the organization's quarterly and annual financial statements and
         any  reports  or  other   financial   information   submitted   to  any
         governmental body, and the public, including any certification, report,
         opinion, or review rendered by the independent accountants.

3.       Review the  regular  internal  reports to  management  prepared  by the
         internal auditing department and management's response.

4.       Review all  reports  issued by  Bancorp's  independent  accountants  to
         Bancorp management.

Independent Accountants
- -----------------------

5.       Recommend to the Board of Directors  the  selection of the  independent
         accountants, considering independence and effectiveness and approve the
         fees and other compensation to be paid to the independent  accountants.
         On an annual basis,  the  Committee  should review and discuss with the
         accountants all  significant  relationships  the accountants  have with
         Bancorp to determine the accountant's independence.

6.       Confer  with the  independent  accountants  and the  internal  auditors
         concerning  the scope of their  examination of the books and records of
         Bancorp and its  subsidiaries;  reviewing and approving the independent
         accountants'   annual  engagement   letter;   reviewing  and  approving
         Bancorp's  internal  audit  charter,  annual  audit plans and  budgets;
         directing the special  attention of the auditors to specific matters or
         areas  deemed  by  the  Committee  or  the  auditors  to be of  special
         significance; and authorizing the auditors to perform such supplemental
         reviews or audits as the Committee may deem desirable.


                                      A-2


7.       Periodically  consult  with  the  independent  accountants  out  of the
         presence of management about internal controls and the completeness and
         accuracy  of the  organization's  financial  statements  the quality of
         Bancorp's financial accounting.

8.       Review the performance of the  independent  accountants and approve any
         proposed  discharge of the independent  accountants when  circumstances
         warrant.

Financial Reporting Processes
- -----------------------------

9.       In  consultation  with the  independent  accountants  and the  internal
         auditors,   review  the  integrity  of  the  organization's   financial
         reporting  processes,  both internal and  external,  in order to ensure
         continued compliance with generally accepted auditing standards.

10.      Consider the independent  accountants'  judgments about the quality and
         appropriateness  of Bancorp's  accounting  principles as applied in its
         financial reporting.

11.      Consider  and  approve,  if  appropriate,  major  changes to  Bancorp's
         auditing and  accounting  principles  and practices as suggested by the
         independent   accountants,   management,   or  the  internal   auditing
         department.

Processes Improvement
- ---------------------

12.      Establish  separate systems of reporting to the Audit Committee by each
         of management,  the independent  accountants and the internal  auditors
         regarding any significant  judgements made in management's  preparation
         of the financial  statements and the view of each as to appropriateness
         of such judgements.

13.      Following  completion of the annual audit,  review separately with each
         of management,  the independent  accountants and the internal  auditing
         department any significant  difficulties  encountered during the course
         of the audit, including any restrictions on the scope of work or access
         to required information.

14.      Review  any   significant   disagreement   among   management  and  the
         independent   accountants  or  the  internal  auditing   department  in
         connection with the preparation of the financial statements.

15.      Review  with  the  independent   accountants,   the  internal  auditing
         department and management,  the extent to which changes or improvements
         in  financial  or  accounting  practices,  as  approved  by  the  Audit
         Committee,  have been implemented.  (This review should be conducted at
         an  appropriate  time  subsequent  to   implementation  of  changes  or
         improvements, as decided by the Committee.)


                                      A-3

Ethical and Legal Compliance
- ----------------------------

16.      Review  periodically  the  Code of  Ethical  Conduct  and  ensure  that
         management has established a system to enforce this Code.

17.      Review  management's   monitoring  of  Bancorp's  compliance  with  the
         organization's  Ethical Code, and ensure that management has the proper
         review system in place to ensure that Bancorp's  financial  statements,
         reports and other  financial  information  disseminated to governmental
         organizations and the public satisfy legal requirements.

18.      Review activities,  organizational structure, and qualifications of the
         internal audit department.

19.      Review,  with the  organization's  counsel,  legal  compliance  matters
         including corporate securities trading policies.

20.      Review,  with the organization's  counsel,  any legal matter that could
         have a significant impact on the organization's financial statements.

21.      Review correspondence from outside legal counsel, which is submitted to
         Bancorp's independent auditors in connection with the audit process.

22.      Review  the  programs  and  policies  of  Bancorp  designed  to  ensure
         compliance  with  applicable  laws and  regulations  and monitoring the
         results of these compliance efforts.

23.      Report  through its  Chairman to the Board of Directors  following  the
         meetings of the Audit Committee.

24.      Maintain  minutes or other  records of meetings and  activities  of the
         Audit Committee.

25.      Conducting or  authorizing  investigations  into any matters within the
         Audit committee's scope of responsibilities.  The Audit Committee shall
         consider whether the retention of independent counsel,  accountants, or
         others   would  be   appropriate   to  assist  it  in  the  conduct  of
         investigation  of  specific  matters  of  substantial  concern.  Unless
         approved or ratified by the full Board of  Directors,  retention of any
         third parties by the Audit committee must be approved by unanimous vote
         of the members of the Audit Committee.

26.      Perform any other  activities  consistent with this Charter,  Bancorp's
         by-laws  and  governing  law,  as  the  Committee  or the  Board  deems
         necessary or appropriate.

Charter Amendments
- ------------------

27.      This charter may be amended by vote of a majority of the members of the
         Audit   Committee.   Any  amendment  to  this  charter  is  subject  to
         ratification by the full Board of Directors.

                                      A-4


STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
15 BEACH STREET
STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK 10304
(718) 447-7900

                                                         March 30, 2001

To: Participants in the SI Bank & Trust 401(k) Plan

      As described in the attached materials, your voting instructions are being
solicited in  connection  with the  proposals to be  considered at the Company's
upcoming  Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on May 10, 2001. We hope you
will take  advantage of the  opportunity to direct the manner in which shares of
Common Stock of the Company  allocated to your account under the SI Bank & Trust
401(k) Plan (the "Plan") will be voted.

      Enclosed  with this letter is the Proxy  Statement,  which  describes  the
matters to be voted upon, a voting  instruction  card,  which will permit you to
vote the shares allocated to your account,  an Annual Report to Stockholders and
a return envelope.  After you have reviewed the Proxy Statement,  we urge you to
vote your shares  held  pursuant  to the Plan by  marking,  dating,  signing and
returning the enclosed  voting  instruction  card to the inspector of elections,
Registrar & Transfer  Company,  in the accompanying  envelope or you may vote by
telephone or via the Internet.

      We urge each of you to vote as a means of  participating in the governance
of the affairs of the Company.  If your voting instructions for the Plan are not
received,  the shares  allocated to your account will be voted in  proportion to
all affirmative and negative votes cast by Plan participants.  While I hope that
you will vote in the  manner  recommended  by the Board of  Directors,  the most
important thing is that you vote in whatever manner you deem appropriate. Please
take a moment to do so.

      Please note that the enclosed  material relates only to those shares which
have been  allocated  to your account  under the Plan.  You have or will receive
other voting material for those shares owned by you  individually  and not under
the Plan.

                                          Sincerely,

                                          /s/ Harry P. Doherty

                                          Harry P. Doherty
                                          Chairman of the Board
                                             and Chief Executive Officer




STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
15 BEACH STREET
STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK 10304
(718) 447-7900

                                                         March 30, 2001


To: Participants in the Staten Island Bancorp, Inc.
      1998 Recognition and Retention Plan

      As described in the attached materials, your voting instructions are being
solicited in  connection  with the  proposals to be  considered at the Company's
upcoming  Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on May 10, 2001. We hope you
will take  advantage of the  opportunity to direct the manner in which shares of
Common  Stock of the  Company  granted  to you  under the 1998  Recognition  and
Retention Plan (the "Recognition Plan") will be voted.

      Enclosed  with this letter is the Proxy  Statement,  which  describes  the
matters to be voted upon, a voting  instruction  card,  which will permit you to
vote the shares  granted to you, an Annual Report to  Stockholders  and a return
envelope.  After you have reviewed the Proxy Statement, we urge you to vote your
shares held pursuant to the  Recognition  Plan by marking,  dating,  signing and
returning the enclosed voting instruction card to the Human Resources Department
in the accompanying envelope.

      We urge each of you to vote as a means of  participating in the governance
of the affairs of the Company.  If your voting  instructions for the Recognition
Plan are not  received,  the shares  awarded to you pursuant to the plan will be
voted  by  the  Trustees  of the  Recognition  Plan  as  directed  by  the  Plan
Administrators  in their  discretion.  While I hope  that  you will  vote in the
manner  recommended by the Board of Directors,  the most important thing is that
you vote in whatever manner you deem appropriate. Please take a moment to do so.

      Please note that the enclosed  material relates only to those shares which
have been granted to you under the  Recognition  Plan.  You will  receive  other
voting  material for those shares  owned by you  individually  and not under the
Recognition Plan.


                                          Sincerely,

                                          /s/ Harry P. Doherty

                                          Harry P. Doherty
                                          Chairman of the Board
                                             and Chief Executive Officer




STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
15 BEACH STREET
STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK 10304
(718) 447-7900

                                                         March 30, 2001


To:  Participants  in the Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc.  Employee Stock Ownership
     Plan

      As described in the attached materials, your voting instructions are being
solicited in  connection  with the  proposals to be  considered at the Company's
upcoming  Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on May 10, 2001. We hope you
will take  advantage of the  opportunity to direct the manner in which shares of
Common Stock of the Company  granted to you under the Employee  Stock  Ownership
Plan ("ESOP") will be voted.

      Enclosed  with this letter is the Proxy  Statement,  which  describes  the
matters to be voted upon, a voting  instruction  card,  which will permit you to
vote the shares  granted to you, an Annual Report to  Stockholders  and a return
envelope.  After you have reviewed the Proxy Statement, we urge you to vote your
shares held pursuant to the ESOP by marking,  dating,  signing and returning the
enclosed  voting  instruction  card to the inspector of  elections,  Registrar &
Transfer Company,  in the accompanying  envelope or you may vote by telephone or
via the Internet.

      We urge each of you to vote as a means of  participating in the governance
of the affairs of the Company.  If your voting instructions for the ESOP are not
received,  the  shares  allocated  to your  account  will be  voted  in the same
proportion as the allocated shares under the ESOP have been voted.  While I hope
that you will vote in the manner recommended by the Board of Directors, the most
important thing is that you vote in whatever manner you deem appropriate. Please
take a moment to do so.

      Please note that the enclosed  material relates only to those shares which
have been  allocated to your  account  under the ESOP.  You will  receive  other
voting  material for those shares  owned by you  individually  and not under the
ESOP.


                                          Sincerely,

                                          /s/ Harry P. Doherty

                                          Harry P. Doherty
                                          Chairman of the Board
                                             and Chief Executive Officer



   PLEASE MARK VOTES
X  AS IN THIS EXAMPLE

                                REVOCABLE VOTING
                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

                                     COMMON


THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED  ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS  OF STATEN  ISLAND
BANCORP,  INC. FOR USE AT THE ANNUAL MEETING OF  STOCKHOLDERS  TO BE HELD ON MAY
10, 2001 AND AT ANY ADJOURNMENT THEREOF.

The undersigned  hereby  instructs the Trustees of the trust created pursuant to
the 1998  Recognition and Retention Plan  ("Recognition  Plan") of Staten Island
Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") to vote the shares of Common Stock of the Company
granted to me as of March 12, 2001 under the Recognition Plan upon the proposals
to be presented at the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held on Thursday,
May 10, 2001, at 10:00 a.m., Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.




                                       _________________________________________
  Please be sure to sign and date      Date
   this Proxy in the box below.
________________________________________________________________________________



________Stockholder sign above_________Co-holder (if any) sign above____________


DIRECTORS   1.  ELECTION OF DIRECTORS (except as marked to the contrary below):
RECOMMEND
  "FOR"         Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2004:

                James R. Coyle, John R. Morris and Allan Weissglass

                                                        For All
                     For              Withhold          Except
                     [_]                [_]               [_]

INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


DIRECTORS   2.  PROPOSAL to ratify the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as
RECOMMEND       the Company's independent auditors for the year ending December
  "FOR"         31, 2001.


                          For           Against          Abstain
                          [_]             [_]              [_]

DIRECTORS   3.  STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL,  if  presented  at the Annual Meeting.
RECOMMEND
"AGAINST"


                          For           Against          Abstain
                          [_]             [_]              [_]

            4.  In their discretion,  the Trustees are authorized to vote upon
                such other business as may properly come before the meeting.



     Please sign this voting  instruction card exactly as your name(s) appear(s)
on this card. When signing in a representative capacity, please give title. When
shares are held jointly, only one holder need sign.

=> Detach above card mark, sign, date and return using the enclosed envelope. =>

                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED BY THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS.  THE SHARES OF THE COMPANY'S
COMMON STOCK WILL BE VOTED AS SPECIFIED. IF NOT OTHERWISE SPECIFIED,  THIS PROXY
WILL BE VOTED FOR THE ELECTION OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTOR'S NOMINEES FOR DIRECTOR,
FOR THE PROPOSAL TO RATIFY THE AUDITORS,  AGAINST EACH STOCKHOLDER  PROPOSAL AND
OTHERWISE AT THE  DISCRETION  OF THE  PROXIES.  YOU MAY REVOKE THIS PROXY AT ANY
TIME PRIOR TO THE TIME IT IS VOTED AT THE ANNUAL MEETING.

   PLEASE COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND MAIL THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD PROMPTLY
                     IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID ENVELOPE.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

IF YOUR ADDRESS HAS CHANGED,  PLEASE  CORRECT THE ADDRESS IN THE SPACE  PROVIDED
BELOW AND RETURN THIS PORTION WITH THE PROXY IN THE ENVELOPE PROVIDED.

- ----------------------------------------------------

- ----------------------------------------------------

- ----------------------------------------------------



                        REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD

THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF
                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                  May 10, 2001
                            10:00 a.m., Eastern Time

     The undersigned  hereby instructs the Trustee of the trust created pursuant
to the Employee  Stock  Ownership Plan ("ESOP") of Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc.
(the  "Company") to vote the shares of Common Stock of the Company  allocated to
my  account  as of March  12,  2001  under  the ESOP  upon the  proposals  to be
presented at the Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on Thursday,  May 10,
2001, at 10:00 a.m., Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.

                                     COMMON

        PLEASE COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND MAIL THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                PROMPTLY IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID ENVELOPE OR
                     VOTE VIA THE INTERNET OR BY TELEPHONE.


       (Continued, and to be marked, dated and signed, on the other side)


                           => FOLD AND DETACH HERE =>

           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.-- ANNUAL MEETING, MAY 10, 2001

                             YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT!

                       You can vote in one of three ways:

1.   Call toll free  1-877-210-0269  on a Touch  Tone  telephone  and follow the
     instructions on the reverse side.  There is NO CHARGE to you for this call;
     or

2.   Via the Internet at  www.proxyvoting.com/sibk  and follow the instructions;
     or

3.   Mark, sign and date your voting  instruction card and return it promptly in
     the enclosed envelope.

                                   PLEASE VOTE



1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS (except as marked to the contrary).

     Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2004:

    (01) James R. Coyle            (02) John R. Morris
    (03) Allan Weissglass

                                           For All
        For              Withhold          Except
        [_]                [_]               [_]


INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
      The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "FOR" the election of
                           the nominees listed above.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

       Please be sure to sign and date Date this voting  instruction card in the
box below.




                                       _________________________________________
Please be sure to sign and date this   Date
voting instruction card in the box
below.
________________________________________________________________________________


________Stockholder sign above_________Co-holder (if any) sign above____________


                                                        Please Mark your
                                                        votes as indicated  [X]
                                                        in this example

2.   PROPOSAL  to ratify  the  appointment  of  Arthur  Andersen  L.L.P.  as the
     Company's  independent  auditors for the year ending December 31, 2001.


              For           Against          Abstain
              [_]             [_]              [_]

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
       The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "FOR" Proposal 2.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


3.   STOCKHOLDER'S PROPOSAL, if presented at the Annual Meeting.

              For           Against          Abstain
              [_]             [_]              [_]

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
      The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "AGAINST" Proposal 3.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

4.   In their  discretion,  the  Trustee is  authorized  to vote upon such other
     business as may properly come before the Annual Meeting.

                                     COMMON

  Please sign this voting  instruction card exactly as your name(s) appear(s) on
this card. When signing in a representative  capacity,  please give title.  When
shares are held jointly, only one holder need sign.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
        x x x IF YOU WISH TO VOTE BY TELEPHONE OR INTERNET, PLEASE READ
                          THE INSTRUCTIONS BELOW x x x
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

=> FOLD AND DETACH HERE IF YOU ARE  RETURNING  YOUR VOTING  INSTRUCTION  CARD BY
                                    MAIL =>

                           VOTE BY TELEPHONE/INTERNET
       [TELEPHONE]      QUICK o o o EASY o o o IMMEDIATE    [COMPUTER]

Your telephone/Internet vote authorizes the named proxies to vote your shares in
the same manner as if you marked,  signed and returned  your voting  instruction
card.

Please  have this card handy when you call.  You will need this card in front of
you to complete the voting process.

VOTE BY      Call toll-free 1-877-210-0269. You  will  be  asked  to enter the
PHONE:       Control Number (look below at right).

OPTION A:    To vote as the Board of Directors recommends on ALL proposals,
             press 1. Your vote will be confirmed.

OPTION B:    If you choose to vote on each proposal separately, press 0. You
             will hear these instructions:

             Item 1:  To  vote  FOR ALL  nominees, press 1; to WITHHOLD FOR
                      ALL nominees, press 9. To vote FOR ALL NOMINEES EXCEPT
                      for certain of the nominees, press 0 and listen to the
                      instructions.
             Item 2:  To vote FOR, press 1; AGAINST, press 9; ABSTAIN, press 0.
             Item 3:  To vote FOR, press 1; AGAINST, press 9; ABSTAIN, press 0.
             Your vote will be confirmed.

          VOTE BY INTERNET: The web address is www.proxyvoting.com/sibk

      You will be asked to enter the Control Number (look below at right).

    If you vote by telephone or Internet, DO NOT mail back your voting card.

           TELEPHONE/INTERNET VOTING DEADLINE: 12 midnight-May 9, 2001

                                                  FOR TELEPHONE/INTERNET VOTING:
                                                         CONTROL NUMBER



   PLEASE MARK VOTES
X  AS IN THIS EXAMPLE

                       REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

                                       RRP

           THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE
               BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                  May 10, 2001
                            10:00 a.m., Eastern Time

The undersigned  hereby  instructs the Trustees of the trust created pursuant to
the 1998  Recognition and Retention Plan  ("Recognition  Plan") of Staten Island
Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") to vote the shares of Common Stock of the Company
granted to me as of March 12, 2001 under the Recognition Plan upon the proposals
to be presented at the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held on Thursday,
May 10, 2001, at 10:00 a.m., Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.




                                       _________________________________________
  Please be sure to sign and date      Date
   this Proxy in the box below.
________________________________________________________________________________



________Stockholder sign above_________Co-holder (if any) sign above____________


DIRECTORS   1.  ELECTION OF DIRECTORS (except as marked to the contrary below):
RECOMMEND
  "FOR"         Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2004:

                James R. Coyle, John R. Morris and Allan Weissglass

                                                        For All
                     For              Withhold          Except
                     [_]                [_]               [_]

INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


DIRECTORS   2.  PROPOSAL to ratify the appointment of Arthur Andersen L.L.P. as
RECOMMEND       the Company's independent auditors for the year ending December
  "FOR"         31, 2001.


                          For           Against          Abstain
                          [_]             [_]              [_]

DIRECTORS   3.  STOCKHOLDER'S  PROPOSAL,  if  presented  at the Annual Meeting.
RECOMMEND
"AGAINST"


                          For           Against          Abstain
                          [_]             [_]              [_]

            4.  In their discretion,  the Trustees are authorized to vote upon
                such other business as may properly come before the meeting.



     Please sign this voting  instruction card exactly as your name(s) appear(s)
on this card. When signing in a representative capacity, please give title. When
shares are held jointly, only one holder need sign.

=> Detach above card mark, sign, date and return using the enclosed envelope. =>

                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
   PLEASE COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND MAIL THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD PROMPTLY
                     IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID ENVELOPE.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

IF YOUR ADDRESS HAS CHANGED,  PLEASE  CORRECT THE ADDRESS IN THE SPACE  PROVIDED
BELOW AND RETURN THIS PORTION WITH THE PROXY IN THE ENVELOPE PROVIDED.

- ----------------------------------------------------

- ----------------------------------------------------

- ----------------------------------------------------


                        REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD

THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF
                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                  May 10, 2001
                            10:00 a.m., Eastern Time

     The undersigned  hereby instructs the Trustee of the trust created pursuant
to the Employee  Stock  Ownership Plan ("ESOP") of Staten Island  Bancorp,  Inc.
(the  "Company") to vote the shares of Common Stock of the Company  allocated to
my  account  as of March  12,  2001  under  the ESOP  upon the  proposals  to be
presented at the Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on Thursday,  May 10,
2001, at 10:00 a.m., Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.

                                      ESOP

        PLEASE COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND MAIL THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                PROMPTLY IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID ENVELOPE OR
                     VOTE VIA THE INTERNET OR BY TELEPHONE.


       (Continued, and to be marked, dated and signed, on the other side)


                           => FOLD AND DETACH HERE =>

           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.-- ANNUAL MEETING, MAY 10, 2001

                             YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT!

                       You can vote in one of three ways:

1.   Call toll free  1-877-210-0269  on a Touch  Tone  telephone  and follow the
     instructions on the reverse side.  There is NO CHARGE to you for this call;
     or

2.   Via the Internet at  www.proxyvoting.com/sibk  and follow the instructions;
     or

3.   Mark, sign and date your voting  instruction card and return it promptly in
     the enclosed envelope.

                                   PLEASE VOTE



1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS (except as marked to the contrary).

     Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2004:

    (01) James R. Coyle            (02) John R. Morris
    (03) Allan Weissglass

                                           For All
        For              Withhold          Except
        [_]                [_]               [_]


INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
      The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "FOR" the election of
                           the nominees listed above.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

       Please be sure to sign and date Date this voting  instruction card in the
box below.




                                       _________________________________________
Please be sure to sign and date this   Date
voting instruction card in the box
below.
________________________________________________________________________________


________Stockholder sign above_________Co-holder (if any) sign above____________


                                                        Please Mark your
                                                        votes as indicated  [X]
                                                        in this example

2.   PROPOSAL  to ratify  the  appointment  of  Arthur  Andersen  L.L.P.  as the
     Company's  independent  auditors for the year ending December 31, 2001.


              For           Against          Abstain
              [_]             [_]              [_]

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
       The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "FOR" Proposal 2.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


3.   STOCKHOLDER'S PROPOSAL, if presented at the Annual Meeting.

              For           Against          Abstain
              [_]             [_]              [_]

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
      The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "AGAINST" Proposal 3.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

4.   In their  discretion,  the  Trustee is  authorized  to vote upon such other
     business as may properly come before the Annual Meeting.

                                      ESOP

  Please sign this voting  instruction card exactly as your name(s) appear(s) on
this card. When signing in a representative  capacity,  please give title.  When
shares are held jointly, only one holder need sign.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
        x x x IF YOU WISH TO VOTE BY TELEPHONE OR INTERNET, PLEASE READ
                          THE INSTRUCTIONS BELOW x x x
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

=> FOLD AND DETACH HERE IF YOU ARE  RETURNING  YOUR VOTING  INSTRUCTION  CARD BY
                                    MAIL =>

                           VOTE BY TELEPHONE/INTERNET
       [TELEPHONE]      QUICK o o o EASY o o o IMMEDIATE    [COMPUTER]

Your telephone/Internet vote authorizes the named proxies to vote your shares in
the same manner as if you marked,  signed and returned  your voting  instruction
card.

Please  have this card handy when you call.  You will need this card in front of
you to complete the voting process.

VOTE BY      Call toll-free 1-877-210-0269. You  will  be  asked  to enter the
PHONE:       Control Number (look below at right).

OPTION A:    To vote as the Board of Directors recommends on ALL proposals,
             press 1. Your vote will be confirmed.

OPTION B:    If you choose to vote on each proposal separately, press 0. You
             will hear these instructions:

             Item 1:  To  vote  FOR ALL  nominees, press 1; to WITHHOLD FOR
                      ALL nominees, press 9. To vote FOR ALL NOMINEES EXCEPT
                      for certain of the nominees, press 0 and listen to the
                      instructions.
             Item 2:  To vote FOR, press 1; AGAINST, press 9; ABSTAIN, press 0.
             Item 3:  To vote FOR, press 1; AGAINST, press 9; ABSTAIN, press 0.
             Your vote will be confirmed.

          VOTE BY INTERNET: The web address is www.proxyvoting.com/sibk

      You will be asked to enter the Control Number (look below at right).

    If you vote by telephone or Internet, DO NOT mail back your voting card.

           TELEPHONE/INTERNET VOTING DEADLINE: 12 midnight-May 9, 2001

                                                  FOR TELEPHONE/INTERNET VOTING:
                                                         CONTROL NUMBER


                        REVOCABLE VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD

THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF
                           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                  May 10, 2001
                            10:00 a.m., Eastern Time

     The undersigned  hereby instructs the Trustee of the trust created pursuant
to the SI Bank & Trust  401(k)  Plan (the  "Plan")  to vote the shares of Common
Stock of Staten Island Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") allocated to my account as
of March 12,  2001  under the Plan upon the  proposals  to be  presented  at the
Annual Meeting of  Stockholders  to be held on Thursday,  May 10, 2001, at 10:00
a.m., Eastern Time, and any adjournment thereof.

                                      401-K

        PLEASE COMPLETE, DATE, SIGN AND MAIL THIS VOTING INSTRUCTION CARD
                PROMPTLY IN THE ENCLOSED POSTAGE-PAID ENVELOPE OR
                     VOTE VIA THE INTERNET OR BY TELEPHONE.

       (Continued, and to be marked, dated and signed, on the other side)

                           => FOLD AND DETACH HERE =>

           STATEN ISLAND BANCORP, INC.-- ANNUAL MEETING, MAY 10, 2001

                             YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT!

                       You can vote in one of three ways:

1.   Call toll free  1-877-210-0269  on a Touch  Tone  telephone  and follow the
     instructions on the reverse side.  There is NO CHARGE to you for this call;
     or

2.   Via the Internet at  www.proxyvoting.com/sibk  and follow the instructions;
     or

3.   Mark, sign and date your voting  instruction card and return it promptly in
     the enclosed envelope.

                                   PLEASE VOTE



1.   ELECTION OF DIRECTORS (except as marked to the contrary).

     Nominees for three-year term expiring in 2004:

    (01) James R. Coyle            (02) John R. Morris
    (03) Allan Weissglass

                                           For All
        For              Withhold          Except
        [_]                [_]               [_]


INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee, mark "For
All Except" and write that nominee's name in the space provided below.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
      The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "FOR" the election of
                           the nominees listed above.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

       Please be sure to sign and date Date this voting  instruction card in the
box below.




                                       _________________________________________
Please be sure to sign and date this   Date
voting instruction card in the box
below.
________________________________________________________________________________


________Stockholder sign above_________Co-holder (if any) sign above____________


                                                        Please Mark your
                                                        votes as indicated  [X]
                                                        in this example

2.   PROPOSAL  to ratify  the  appointment  of  Arthur  Andersen  L.L.P.  as the
     Company's  independent  auditors for the year ending December 31, 2001.


              For           Against          Abstain
              [_]             [_]              [_]

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
       The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "FOR" Proposal 2.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


3.   STOCKHOLDER'S PROPOSAL, if presented at the Annual Meeting.

              For           Against          Abstain
              [_]             [_]              [_]

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
      The Board of Directors recommends that you vote "AGAINST" Proposal 3.
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

4.   In their  discretion,  the  Trustee is  authorized  to vote upon such other
     business as may properly come before the Annual Meeting.

                                      401-K

  Please sign this voting  instruction card exactly as your name(s) appear(s) on
this card. When signing in a representative  capacity,  please give title.  When
shares are held jointly, only one holder need sign.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
        x x x IF YOU WISH TO VOTE BY TELEPHONE OR INTERNET, PLEASE READ
                          THE INSTRUCTIONS BELOW x x x
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

=> FOLD AND DETACH HERE IF YOU ARE  RETURNING  YOUR VOTING  INSTRUCTION  CARD BY
                                    MAIL =>

                           VOTE BY TELEPHONE/INTERNET
       [TELEPHONE]      QUICK o o o EASY o o o IMMEDIATE    [COMPUTER]

Your telephone/Internet vote authorizes the named proxies to vote your shares in
the same manner as if you marked,  signed and returned  your voting  instruction
card.

Please  have this card handy when you call.  You will need this card in front of
you to complete the voting process.

VOTE BY      Call toll-free 1-877-210-0269. You  will  be  asked  to enter the
PHONE:       Control Number (look below at right).

OPTION A:    To vote as the Board of Directors recommends on ALL proposals,
             press 1. Your vote will be confirmed.

OPTION B:    If you choose to vote on each proposal separately, press 0. You
             will hear these instructions:

             Item 1:  To  vote  FOR ALL  nominees, press 1; to WITHHOLD FOR
                      ALL nominees, press 9. To vote FOR ALL NOMINEES EXCEPT
                      for certain of the nominees, press 0 and listen to the
                      instructions.
             Item 2:  To vote FOR, press 1; AGAINST, press 9; ABSTAIN, press 0.
             Item 3:  To vote FOR, press 1; AGAINST, press 9; ABSTAIN, press 0.
             Your vote will be confirmed.

          VOTE BY INTERNET: The web address is www.proxyvoting.com/sibk

      You will be asked to enter the Control Number (look below at right).

    If you vote by telephone or Internet, DO NOT mail back your voting card.

           TELEPHONE/INTERNET VOTING DEADLINE: 12 midnight-May 9, 2001

                                                  FOR TELEPHONE/INTERNET VOTING:
                                                         CONTROL NUMBER