SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION

                             Washington, D.C. 20549

                                    Form 8-K

                                 Current Report


     Pursuant to Section 13 or 15(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934

                     Date of Report (Date of earliest event
                            reported) August 30, 1999

                          COMMISSION FILE NO.: 0-23126


                             RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.
             (Exact name of registrant as specified in its charter)


                        Delaware                           11-3187176
(State or other Jurisdiction of Incorporation         (IRS Employer or
 organization)                                       Identification No.)


   585 Stewart Avenue, Garden City, New York                11530
(Address of principal executive officer)                 (Zip Code)


Registrant's telephone number, including area code:     (516) 222-9300
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Item 5.           Other Events


     On August  30,  1999,  Reliance  Bancorp,  Inc.,  a  Delaware  corporation,
("Reliance")  announced  that it had signed a definitive  Agreement  and Plan of
Merger,  dated as of August 30, 1999 (the "Merger  Agreement"),  with North Fork
Bancorporation,  Inc., a Delaware  corporation  ("NFB"). NFB is the bank holding
company parent of North Fork Bank and Trust Company,  a New York State chartered
stock commercial bank. The Merger Agreement  provides,  among other things, that
Reliance will merge with and into NFB, with NFB being the surviving  corporation
("Merger").  A copy of the Merger  Agreement is attached  hereto as Exhibit 2.1.
Capitalized  terms which are used but not defined herein shall have the meanings
ascribed to such terms in the Merger Agreement.

     Pursuant to the Merger Agreement,  each share of Reliance common stock, par
value  $0.01  per  share  ("Reliance  Common  Stock"),  issued  and  outstanding
immediately  prior to the Effective  Time will be converted  into and become the
right to receive 2.0 shares of NFB common stock, par value $2.50 per share ("NFB
Common  Stock").  The  exchange  ratio was based  upon the price of NFBs  stock
utilizing  its  closing  price on August 27, 1999 of $19.06 for a total value to
Reliance shareholders of $38.12 per share.

     The Merger  will be  structured  as a tax-free  reorganization  and will be
accounted under the purchase method of accounting. Consummation of the Merger is
subject to the satisfaction of certain customary conditions,  including approval
of the Merger  Agreement  by the  stockholders  of Reliance  and approval of the
appropriate regulatory agencies.

     Reliance  has the right to  terminate  the Merger  Agreement  if should the
closing price of NFB's shares decline beyond a specified price and index, unless
NFB elects to increase  the Merger  Consideration  to be received by  Reliance's
stockholders as set forth in the Merger Agreement.

     The Merger  Agreement  also  provides  that  options to purchase  shares of
Reliance Common Stock under  Reliance's  stock option plans that are outstanding
at the Effective Time shall be converted into options to purchase  shares of NFB
Common Stock in accordance with the procedure set forth in the Merger Agreement.
In connection with the Merger Agreement,  Reliance granted to NFB a stock option
pursuant to a Stock Option Agreement,  dated as of August 30, 1999, which, under
certain  defined  circumstances,  would  enable NFB to  purchase  up to 19.9% of
Reliance's  issued and  outstanding  shares of common  stock.  The Stock  Option
Agreement  provides that the total profit  receivable  thereunder may not exceed
$17.4 million plus reasonable out-of-pocket expenses. A copy of the Stock Option
Agreement is attached hereto as Exhibit 4.1.

     Following  consummation  of the  Merger,  Mr.  Raymond A.  Nielsen  will be
appointed  to the Board of  Directors  of NFB.  Apart  from Mr.  Nielsen,  those
persons who are  members of the Board of  Directors  of  Reliance  and Gerald M.
Sauvigne,  as of the  consummation  of the  Merger,  will be  invited  to become
members of the NFB Advisory Board.

     Reliance and NFB publicly  announced  the Merger in a press  release  dated
August 30, 1999, a copy of which is attached hereto as Exhibit 99.1.

     The press  release  incorporated  by reference  herein may contain  certain
forward-looking  statements with respect to the financial condition,  results of
operations  and  business  of NFB  following  the  consummation  of the  Merger,
including  statements  relating  to (a) the  expected  cost  savings and revenue
enhancements  to be realized  from the Merger and (b)  projected  2000 pro forma
earnings per share.  Factors that may cause actual results to differ  materially
from  those  contemplated  by such  forward-looking  statements  include,  among
others,  the  following  possibilities:  (1)  expected  cost  savings or revenue
enhancements  from the Merger cannot be fully realized;  (2) deposit  attrition,
customer loss or revenue loss following the Merger is greater than expected; (3)
competitive  pressure in the banking and financial  services industry  increases
significantly;  (4) changes in the interest rate environment reduce margins; (5)
general economic conditions,  either nationally or in the State of New York, are
less favorable than expected;  (6) changes in real estate values; (7) changes in
accounting  principles;  (8)  changes  in  legislation;  (9)  changes  in  other
economic,  governmental,  regulatory and  technological  factors  affecting each
company's operations, pricing, products and services; and (10) the impact of the
Year 2000.

     The  summaries of the Merger  Agreement  and the Option  Agreement  are not
complete and are qualified in their  entirety by reference to the complete texts
of such  documents  filed  as  exhibits  herewith  and  incorporated  herein  by
reference.

Item 7 (c).       Exhibits

Exhibit 2.1  Agreement  and Plan of Merger,  dated as of August 30, 1999, by and
between North Fork Bancorporation, Inc. and Reliance Bancorp, Inc.

Exhibit 4.1 Stock Option Agreement,  dated August 30, 1999, by and between North
Fork Bancorporation, Inc. and Reliance Bancorp, Inc.

Exhibit 99.1 Press Release dated August 30, 1999  announcing  definitive  merger
agreement  whereby  North  Fork  Bancorporation,  Inc.  would  acquire  Reliance
Bancorp, Inc.

Exhibit 99.2 Press  Release dated July 22, 1999  reporting the Company's  fourth
quarter and fiscal year end 1999 results.





























                                   SIGNATURES

         Pursuant to the  requirements  of the Securities  Exchange Act of 1934,
the  Registrant  has duly  caused  this report to be signed on its behalf by the
undersigned hereunto duly authorized.





                                   By:    /s/  Raymond A. Nielsen
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                                          Raymond A. Nielsen
                                          President and Chief Executive Officer



Dated:    August 31, 1999