Exhibit 4.1
                THE TRANSFER OF THIS AGREEMENT IS SUBJECT TO
                 CERTAIN PROVISIONS CONTAINED HEREIN AND TO
                       RESALE RESTRICTIONS UNDER THE
                     SECURITIES ACT OF 1933, AS AMENDED


           STOCK  OPTION  AGREEMENT,  dated August 30,  1999,  between  Reliance
 Bancorp,   Inc.,   a   Delaware   corporation   ("Issuer"),   and  North   Fork
 Bancorporation, Inc., a Delaware corporation ("Grantee").

                            W I T N E S S E T H:

           WHEREAS,  Grantee and Issuer have entered into an Agreement  and Plan
 of Merger of even date herewith (the "Merger  Agreement"),  which agreement has
 been  executed by the parties  hereto  immediately  prior to this Stock  Option
 Agreement (this "Agreement"); and

           WHEREAS,  as a  condition  to  Grantee's  entering  into  the  Merger
 Agreement and in consideration therefor, Issuer has agreed to grant Grantee the
 Option (as hereinafter defined);

           NOW,  THEREFORE,  in  consideration  of the  foregoing and the mutual
 covenants  and  agreements  set forth herein and in the Merger  Agreement,  the
 parties hereto agree as follows:

           1. (a) Issuer hereby grants to Grantee an unconditional,  irrevocable
 option (the "Option") to purchase, subject to the terms hereof, up to 1,708,297
 fully paid and  nonassessable  shares of Issuer's Common Stock, par value $0.01
 per share  ("Common  Stock"),  at a price of  $29.00  per  share  (the  "Option
 Price");  provided,  however,  that in no event  shall the  number of shares of
 Common Stock for which this Option is exercisable  exceed 19.9% of the Issuer's
 issued and  outstanding  shares of Common Stock  without  giving  effect to any
 shares  subject to or issued  pursuant to the  Option.  The number of shares of
 Common  Stock  that may be  received  upon the  exercise  of the Option and the
 Option Price are subject to adjustment as herein set forth.

           (b) In the event  that any  additional  shares  of  Common  Stock are
 either  (i)  issued  or  otherwise  become  outstanding  after the date of this
 Agreement   (other  than  pursuant  to  this   Agreement)  or  (ii)   redeemed,
 repurchased,  retired or otherwise  cease to be  outstanding  after the date of
 this  Agreement,  the  number of shares of Common  Stock  subject to the Option
 shall be increased or decreased, as appropriate,  so that, after such issuance,
 such number equals 19.9% of the number of shares of Common Stock

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 then issued and  outstanding  without  giving  effect to any shares  subject or
 issued  pursuant to the  Option.  Nothing  contained  in this  Section  1(b) or
 elsewhere in this Agreement  shall be deemed to authorize  Issuer or Grantee to
 breach any provision of the Merger Agreement.

           2. (a) The Holder (as  hereinafter  defined) may exercise the Option,
 in whole or part,  and from  time to time,  if,  but only if,  both an  Initial
 Triggering Event (as hereinafter defined) and a Subsequent Triggering Event (as
 hereinafter defined) shall have occurred prior to the occurrence of an Exercise
 Termination  Event (as  hereinafter  defined) and the Holder is not in material
 beach of the agreements or covenants  contained in this Agreement or the Merger
 Agreement,  provided that the Holder shall have sent the written notice of such
 exercise  (as provided in  subsection  (e) of this Section 2) within six months
 following such Subsequent  Triggering  Event (or such longer period as provided
 in  Section  10),  provided  further,  however,  that if the  Option  cannot be
 exercised  on any day  because of any  injunction,  order or similar  restraint
 issued by a court of competent jurisdiction, the period during which the Option
 may be  exercised  shall be extended so that the Option shall expire no earlier
 than on the tenth business day after such injunction,  order or restraint shall
 have been  dissolved or when such  injunction,  order or  restraint  shall have
 become  permanent and no longer subject to appeal,  as the case may be. Each of
 the following shall be an "Exercise  Termination Event": (i) the Effective Time
 (as defined in the Merger  Agreement) of the Merger;  (ii)  termination  of the
 Merger Agreement in accordance with the provisions  thereof if such termination
 occurs  prior  to the  occurrence  of an  Initial  Triggering  Event  except  a
 termination  by  Grantee  pursuant  to Section  9.1(f) of the Merger  Agreement
 (unless  the  breach by Issuer  giving  rise to such  right of  termination  is
 non-volitional);  or (iii) the passage of 15 months  after  termination  of the
 Merger  Agreement  if such  termination  follows the  occurrence  of an Initial
 Triggering  Event or is a termination by Grantee  pursuant to Section 9.1(f) of
 the Merger Agreement  (unless the breach by Issuer giving rise to such right of
 termination is  non-volitional).  Notwithstanding  any other  provision of this
 Agreement,  in no event shall any of Issuer's  obligations under this Agreement
 continue six months  beyond an Exercise  Termination  Event.  The term "Holder"
 shall mean the holder or holders of the Option.

           (b)  The  term  "Initial  Triggering  Event"  shall  mean  any of the
 following events or transactions occurring after the date hereof:

               (i)  Issuer  or  any  of  its   Subsidiaries   (each  an  "Issuer
      Subsidiary"),  without having received  Grantee's  prior written  consent,
      shall  have  entered  into  an  agreement  to  engage  in  an  Acquisition
      Transaction (as hereinafter defined) with any person (the term

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      "person"  for  purposes  of this  Agreement  having the  meaning  assigned
      thereto in Sections 3(a)(9) and 13(d)(3) of the Securities Exchange Act of
      1934,  as  amended  (the  "1934  Act"),  and  the  rules  and  regulations
      thereunder) other than Grantee or any of its Subsidiaries (each a "Grantee
      Subsidiary")  or the Board of Directors  of Issuer shall have  recommended
      that  the  stockholders  of  Issuer  approve  or  accept  any  Acquisition
      Transaction with any person other than Grantee or a Subsidiary of Grantee.
      For purposes of this Agreement, "Acquisition Transaction" shall mean (w) a
      merger or consolidation,  or any similar transaction,  involving Issuer or
      any  Significant  Subsidiary  (as defined in Rule 1-02 of  Regulation  S-X
      promulgated  by the  Securities  and Exchange  Commission  (the "SEC")) of
      Issuer, (x) a purchase, lease or other acquisition or assumption of all or
      a  substantial  portion  of  the  assets  or  deposits  of  Issuer  or any
      Significant  Subsidiary  of Issuer,  (y) a purchase  or other  acquisition
      (including by way of merger,  consolidation,  share exchange or otherwise)
      of securities  representing 10% or more of the voting power of Issuer,  or
      (z) any substantially similar transaction;  provided,  however, that in no
      event shall any  merger,  consolidation,  purchase or similar  transaction
      involving only the Issuer and one or more of its Subsidiaries or involving
      only two or more of such  Subsidiaries,  be  deemed  to be an  Acquisition
      Transaction,  provided  that any such  transaction  is not entered into in
      violation of the terms of the Merger Agreement;

              (ii)  Issuer or any Issuer  Subsidiary,  without  having  received
      Grantee's  prior  written  consent,  shall have  authorized,  recommended,
      proposed or publicly  announced its  intention to authorize,  recommend or
      propose, an Acquisition  Transaction with any person other than Grantee or
      a Grantee  Subsidiary,  or the Board of  Directors  of Issuer  shall  have
      publicly  withdrawn  or  modified,  or  publicly  announced  its intent to
      withdraw or modify, in any manner adverse to Grantee,  its  recommendation
      that the stockholders of Issuer approve the  transactions  contemplated by
      the Merger Agreement;

             (iii) Any person, other than Grantee, any Grantee Subsidiary or any
      Issuer Subsidiary acting in a fiduciary capacity in the ordinary course of
      its  business,  shall have acquired  beneficial  ownership or the right to
      acquire  beneficial  ownership of 10% or more of the outstanding shares of
      Common  Stock  (the  term  "beneficial  ownership"  for  purposes  of this
      Agreement having the meaning assigned thereto in Section 13(d) of the 1934
      Act, and the rules and regulations thereunder);

              (iv) Any person other than Grantee or any Grantee Subsidiary

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      shall  have made a bona fide  proposal  to Issuer or its  stockholders  by
      public  announcement  or  written  communication  that is or  becomes  the
      subject of public disclosure to engage in an Acquisition Transaction;

               (v) After a  proposal  is made by a third  party to Issuer or its
      stockholders  to engage in an Acquisition  Transaction,  Issuer shall have
      breached any covenant or obligation  contained in the Merger Agreement and
      such breach (x) would entitle  Grantee to terminate  the Merger  Agreement
      and (y) shall not have been  cured  prior to the Notice  Date (as  defined
      below); or

              (vi) Any person  other than  Grantee  or any  Grantee  Subsidiary,
      other than in connection with a transaction to which Grantee has given its
      prior written consent,  shall have filed an application or notice with the
      Federal  Reserve  Board,  the  Office of Thrift  Supervision  or any other
      federal or state bank  regulatory  authority  for approval to engage in an
      Acquisition Transaction.

           (c) The term "Subsequent  Triggering  Event" shall mean either of the
 following events or transactions occurring after the date hereof:

              (i) The  acquisition by any person of beneficial  ownership of 20%
      or more of the then outstanding shares of Common Stock; or

              (ii) The occurrence of the Initial  Triggering  Event described in
      paragraph  (i) of  subsection  (b) of this  Section  2,  except  that  the
      percentage referred to in clause (y) shall be 20%.

           (d) Issuer shall notify Grantee promptly in writing of the occurrence
 of any Initial Triggering Event or Subsequent  Triggering Event of which it has
 notice (together, a "Triggering Event"), it being understood that the giving of
 such notice by Issuer  shall not be a  condition  to the right of the Holder to
 exercise the Option.

           (e) In the event the Holder is entitled to and wishes to exercise the
 Option,  it shall  send to Issuer a  written  notice  (the date of which  being
 herein  referred to as the "Notice  Date")  specifying  (i) the total number of
 shares it will purchase pursuant to such exercise and (ii) a place and date not
 earlier  than  three  business  days nor later than 60  business  days from the
 Notice Date for the closing of such  purchase (the  "Closing  Date");  provided
 that if prior  notification  to or approval of the Federal  Reserve Board,  the
 Office of Thrift  Supervision  (the  "OTS") or any other  regulatory  agency is
 required in connection  with such purchase,  the Holder shall promptly file the
 required notice or application for approval and shall expeditiously process the
 same and the period of time that

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 otherwise  would run pursuant to this sentence  shall run instead from the date
 on which any required  notification  periods have expired or been terminated or
 such approvals  have been obtained and any requisite  waiting period or periods
 shall have  passed.  Any exercise of the Option shall be deemed to occur on the
 Notice Date relating thereto.

           (f) At the closing  referred to in subsection  (e) of this Section 2,
 the Holder shall pay to Issuer the aggregate  purchase  price for the shares of
 Common Stock  purchased  pursuant to the exercise of the Option in  immediately
 available  funds by wire  transfer  to a bank  account  designated  by  Issuer,
 provided  that  failure or refusal of Issuer to  designate  such a bank account
 shall not preclude the Holder from exercising the Option.

           (g) At such closing,  simultaneously with the delivery of immediately
 available  funds as provided in subsection  (f) of this Section 2, Issuer shall
 deliver to the Holder a certificate or certificates  representing the number of
 shares of Common  Stock  purchased  by the Holder and, if the Option  should be
 exercised  in part  only,  a new  Option  evidencing  the  rights of the Holder
 thereof to purchase the balance of the shares  purchasable  hereunder,  and the
 Holder shall deliver to Issuer this  Agreement  and a letter  agreeing that the
 Holder will not offer to sell or otherwise  dispose of such shares in violation
 of applicable law or the provisions of this Agreement.

           (h)  Certificates  for Common Stock delivered at a closing  hereunder
 may be endorsed  with a  restrictive  legend that shall read  substantially  as
 follows:

           "The  transfer  of the  shares  represented  by this  certificate  is
           subject to certain  provisions of an agreement between the registered
           holder hereof and Issuer and to resale restrictions arising under the
           Securities  Act of 1933, as amended.  A copy of such  agreement is on
           file at the  principal  office of Issuer and will be  provided to the
           holder  hereof  without  charge  upon  receipt by Issuer of a written
           request therefor."

 It is understood and agreed that: (i) the reference to the resale  restrictions
 of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended (the "1933 Act"), in the above legend
 shall  be  removed  by  delivery  of  substitute  certificate(s)  without  such
 reference if the Holder shall have  delivered to Issuer a copy of a letter from
 the  staff  of the  SEC,  or an  opinion  of  counsel,  in form  and  substance
 reasonably  satisfactory  to  Issuer,  to the  effect  that such  legend is not
 required for purposes of the 1933 Act; (ii) the reference to the  provisions to
 this  Agreement in the above legend shall be removed by delivery of  substitute
 certificate(s) without such reference if the shares

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 have  been  sold or  transferred  in  compliance  with the  provisions  of this
 Agreement  and under  circumstances  that do not require the  retention of such
 reference;  and  (iii) the  legend  shall be  removed  in its  entirety  if the
 conditions  in the  preceding  clauses  (i) and  (ii) are  both  satisfied.  In
 addition,  such certificates  shall bear any other legend as may be required by
 law.

           (i) Upon the giving by the Holder to Issuer of the written  notice of
 exercise of the Option provided for under  subsection (e) of this Section 2 and
 the tender of the applicable purchase price in immediately available funds, the
 Holder shall be deemed to be the holder of record of the shares of Common Stock
 issuable upon such exercise,  notwithstanding  that the stock transfer books of
 Issuer shall then be closed or that  certificates  representing  such shares of
 Common Stock shall not then be actually  delivered to the Holder.  Issuer shall
 pay all expenses,  and any and all United States federal, state and local taxes
 and other charges that may be payable in connection with the preparation, issue
 and  delivery  of stock  certificates  under this  Section 2 in the name of the
 Holder or its assignee, transferee or designee.

           3. Issuer agrees: (i) that it shall at all times maintain,  free from
 preemptive  rights,  sufficient  authorized but unissued or treasury  shares of
 Common  Stock  so  that  the  Option  may  be  exercised   without   additional
 authorization  of Common  Stock  after  giving  effect  to all  other  options,
 warrants,  convertible  securities  and other rights to purchase  Common Stock;
 (ii)  that it  will  not,  by  charter  amendment  or  through  reorganization,
 consolidation, merger, dissolution or sale of assets, or by any other voluntary
 act,  avoid  or seek to  avoid  the  observance  or  performance  of any of the
 covenants,  stipulations or conditions to be observed or performed hereunder by
 Issuer;  (iii) promptly to take all action as may from time to time be required
 (including (x) complying with all premerger notification, reporting and waiting
 period  requirements  specified  in  15  U.S.C.  section  18a  and  regulations
 promulgated thereunder and (y) in the event, under the Bank Holding Company Act
 of 1956, as amended, the Change in Bank Control Act of 1978, as amended, or any
 other federal or state banking law,  prior approval of or notice to the Federal
 Reserve Board, the OTS or to any state regulatory authority is necessary before
 the Option may be  exercised,  cooperating  fully with the Holder in  preparing
 such  applications  or notices and providing  such  information  to the Federal
 Reserve Board, the OTS or such state regulatory  authority as they may require)
 in order to permit the  Holder to  exercise  the  Option  and  Issuer  duly and
 effectively to issue shares of Common Stock pursuant hereto;  and (iv) promptly
 to take all action  provided herein to protect the rights of the Holder against
 dilution.


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           4. This Agreement (and the Option granted  hereby) are  exchangeable,
 without expense,  at the option of the Holder,  upon presentation and surrender
 of this  Agreement  at the  principal  office of Issuer,  for other  Agreements
 providing for Options of different  denominations  entitling the holder thereof
 to purchase,  on the same terms and subject to the same  conditions  as are set
 forth  herein,  in the  aggregate  the same  number of  shares of Common  Stock
 purchasable  hereunder.  The terms  "Agreement"  and  "Option"  as used  herein
 include  any Stock  Option  Agreements  and  related  Options  for  which  this
 Agreement  (and the Option  granted  hereby) may be exchanged.  Upon receipt by
 Issuer  of  evidence  reasonably   satisfactory  to  it  of  the  loss,  theft,
 destruction or mutilation of this Agreement, and (in the case of loss, theft or
 destruction) of reasonably satisfactory indemnification, and upon surrender and
 cancellation of this Agreement, if mutilated, Issuer will execute and deliver a
 new  Agreement  of like tenor and date.  Any such new  Agreement  executed  and
 delivered shall constitute an additional  contractual obligation on the part of
 Issuer,  whether or not the Agreement so lost,  stolen,  destroyed or mutilated
 shall at any time be enforceable by anyone.

           5. In  addition to the  adjustment  in the number of shares of Common
 Stock that are purchasable upon exercise of the Option pursuant to Section 1 of
 this  Agreement,  the  number of shares of Common  Stock  purchasable  upon the
 exercise of the Option and the Option Price shall be subject to adjustment from
 time to time as provided  in this  Section 5. In the event of any change in, or
 distributions  in respect  of, the Common  Stock by reason of stock  dividends,
 split-ups, mergers, recapitalizations, combinations, subdivisions, conversions,
 exchanges  of shares,  distributions  on or in respect of the Common Stock that
 would be prohibited under the terms of the Merger  Agreement,  or the like, the
 type and number of shares of Common Stock  purchasable upon exercise hereof and
 the Option Price shall be appropriately  adjusted in such manner as shall fully
 preserve the economic benefits provided hereunder and proper provision shall be
 made in any agreement governing any such transaction to provide for such proper
 adjustment and the full satisfaction of the Issuer's obligations hereunder.

           6. Upon the occurrence of a Subsequent  Triggering  Event that occurs
 prior to an Exercise Termination Event, Issuer shall, at the request of Grantee
 (whether on its own behalf or on behalf of any subsequent holder of this Option
 (or part thereof) or any of the shares of Common Stock issued pursuant  hereto)
 delivered within six months of such Subsequent Triggering Event (or such longer
 period as provided in Section 10),  promptly  prepare,  file and keep current a
 shelf  registration  statement  under the 1933 Act covering this Option and any
 shares issued

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 and issuable  pursuant to this Option and shall use its reasonable best efforts
 to cause such registration  statement to become effective and remain current in
 order to permit the sale or other  disposition of this Option and any shares of
 Common  Stock  issued upon total or partial  exercise  of this Option  ("Option
 Shares")  in  accordance  with any plan of  disposition  requested  by Grantee.
 Issuer  will  use its  reasonable  best  efforts  to  cause  such  registration
 statement  first to  become  effective  and then to remain  effective  for such
 period not in excess of 180 days from the day such registration statement first
 becomes effective or such shorter time as may be reasonably necessary to effect
 such sales or other  dispositions.  Grantee  shall have the right to demand two
 such  registrations.  The  foregoing  notwithstanding,  if,  at the time of any
 request by Grantee for  registration of the Option or Option Shares as provided
 above,  Issuer  is in  registration  with  respect  to an  underwritten  public
 offering of shares of Common  Stock,  and if in the good faith  judgment of the
 managing  underwriter  or  managing   underwriters,   or,  if  none,  the  sole
 underwriter  or  underwriters,  of such  offering the inclusion of the Holder's
 Option or Option Shares would  interfere with the  successful  marketing of the
 shares of Common Stock offered by Issuer, the number of Option Shares otherwise
 to be covered in the registration statement contemplated hereby may be reduced;
 provided,  however, that after any such required reduction the number of Option
 Shares to be included  in such  offering  for the  account of the Holder  shall
 constitute  at least 25% of the total number of shares to be sold by the Holder
 and  Issuer in the  aggregate;  and  provided  further,  however,  that if such
 reduction occurs,  then the Issuer shall file a registration  statement for the
 balance as promptly as practicable  and no reduction  shall  thereafter  occur.
 Each such Holder shall provide all information  reasonably  requested by Issuer
 for inclusion in any registration statement to be filed hereunder. If requested
 by any such Holder in connection with such registration,  Issuer shall become a
 party to any underwriting  agreement  relating to the sale of such shares,  but
 only  to the  extent  of  obligating  itself  in  respect  of  representations,
 warranties,  indemnities and other agreements customarily included in secondary
 offering  underwriting  agreements  for the Issuer.  Upon receiving any request
 under this Section 6 from any Holder,  Issuer  agrees to send a copy thereof to
 any other  person known to Issuer to be entitled to  registration  rights under
 this Section 6, in each case by promptly mailing the same, postage prepaid,  to
 the  address  of  record  of the  persons  entitled  to  receive  such  copies.
 Notwithstanding  anything to the contrary  contained  herein, in no event shall
 Issuer be  obligated  to effect  more than two  registrations  pursuant to this
 Section 6 by reason of the fact that there  shall be more than one Grantee as a
 result of any assignment or division of this Agreement.

           7. (a) Immediately prior to the occurrence of a Repurchase Event

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 (as  defined  below) and prior to twelve  months  thereafter,  (i)  following a
 request of the Holder, delivered prior to an Exercise Termination Event, Issuer
 (or any successor  thereto)  shall  repurchase  the Option from the Holder at a
 price  (the  "Option  Repurchase  Price")  equal to the amount by which (A) the
 Market/Offer Price (as defined below) exceeds (B) the Option Price,  multiplied
 by the number of shares for which this Option may then be exercised and (ii) at
 the  request  of the owner of Option  Shares  from time to time (the  "Owner"),
 delivered  within 90 days of such occurrence (or such longer period as provided
 in Section 10),  Issuer shall  repurchase such number of the Option Shares from
 the Owner as the Owner shall designate at a price (the "Option Share Repurchase
 Price")  equal to the  Market/Offer  Price  multiplied  by the number of Option
 Shares so designated.  The term "Market/Offer  Price" shall mean the highest of
 (i) the price per share of  Common  Stock at which a tender  offer or  exchange
 offer  therefor  has been made,  (ii) the price per share of Common Stock to be
 paid by any third party pursuant to an agreement with Issuer, (iii) the highest
 closing  price  for  shares  of  Common  Stock  within  the  six-month   period
 immediately  preceding  the  date  the  Holder  gives  notice  of the  required
 repurchase of this Option or the Owner gives notice of the required  repurchase
 of Option Shares,  as the case may be, or (iv) in the event of a sale of all or
 a  substantial  portion of Issuer's  assets,  the sum of the price paid in such
 sale for such assets and the current  market value of the  remaining  assets of
 Issuer  as  determined  by a  nationally  recognized  investment  banking  firm
 selected  by the  Holder  or the  Owner,  as the  case may be,  and  reasonably
 acceptable to Issuer, divided by the number of shares of Common Stock of Issuer
 outstanding at the time of such sale. In determining  the  Market/Offer  Price,
 the value of consideration  other than cash shall be determined by a nationally
 recognized investment banking firm selected by the Holder or Owner, as the case
 may be, and reasonably acceptable to Issuer.

           (b) The Holder and the Owner,  as the case may be, may  exercise  its
 right to require Issuer to repurchase the Option and any Option Shares pursuant
 to this Section 7 by surrendering for such purpose to Issuer,  at its principal
 office,  this  Agreement or  certificates  for Option  Shares,  as  applicable,
 accompanied  by a written  notice or  notices  stating  that the  Holder or the
 Owner,  as the case may be, elects to require Issuer to repurchase  this Option
 and/or the Option Shares in accordance  with the  provisions of this Section 7.
 Within the latter to occur of (x) five business days after the surrender of the
 Option and/or  certificates  representing Option Shares and the receipt of such
 notice or notices relating  thereto and (y) the time that is immediately  prior
 to the  occurrence of a Repurchase  Event,  Issuer shall deliver or cause to be
 delivered  to the Holder the Option  Repurchase  Price  and/or to the Owner the
 Option Share Repurchase Price therefor or the portion thereof that

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 Issuer is not then  prohibited  under  applicable  law and  regulation  from so
 delivering.

           (c) To the extent that Issuer is prohibited  under  applicable law or
 regulation  from  repurchasing  the Option  and/or  the Option  Shares in full,
 Issuer shall  immediately  so notify the Holder and/or the Owner and thereafter
 deliver or cause to be  delivered,  from time to time, to the Holder and/or the
 Owner,  as  appropriate,  the  portion of the Option  Repurchase  Price and the
 Option Share Repurchase  Price,  respectively,  that it is no longer prohibited
 from delivering, within five business days after the date on which Issuer is no
 longer so  prohibited;  provided,  however,  that if  Issuer at any time  after
 delivery of a notice of repurchase  pursuant to paragraph (b) of this Section 7
 is prohibited  under applicable law or regulation from delivering to the Holder
 and/or the Owner, as appropriate,  the Option  Repurchase  Price and the Option
 Share Repurchase Price, respectively,  in full (and Issuer hereby undertakes to
 use its best efforts to obtain all required  regulatory and legal approvals and
 to file any required  notices as promptly as practicable in order to accomplish
 such  repurchase),  the Holder or Owner may revoke its notice of  repurchase of
 the  Option  or the  Option  Shares  either  in whole or to the  extent  of the
 prohibition,  whereupon,  in the latter case, Issuer shall promptly (i) deliver
 to the Holder  and/or the Owner,  as  appropriate,  that  portion of the Option
 Repurchase  Price or the  Option  Share  Repurchase  Price  that  Issuer is not
 prohibited from delivering; and (ii) deliver, as appropriate, either (A) to the
 Holder,  a new Stock  Option  Agreement  evidencing  the right of the Holder to
 purchase  that number of shares of Common  Stock  obtained by  multiplying  the
 number  of shares of Common  Stock  for  which  the  surrendered  Stock  Option
 Agreement was  exercisable  at the time of delivery of the notice of repurchase
 by a fraction,  the numerator of which is the Option  Repurchase Price less the
 portion  thereof  theretofore  delivered to the Holder and the  denominator  of
 which is the Option  Repurchase  Price,  or (B) to the Owner, a certificate for
 the Option Shares it is then so prohibited from repurchasing.

           (d) For  purposes  of this  Section 7, a  Repurchase  Event  shall be
 deemed to have occurred (i) upon the consummation of any merger,  consolidation
 or  similar  transaction  involving  Issuer  or any  purchase,  lease  or other
 acquisition of all or a substantial portion of the assets of Issuer, other than
 any such  transaction  which would not  constitute an  Acquisition  Transaction
 pursuant to the provisos to Section 2(b)(i) hereof or (ii) upon the acquisition
 by any person of  beneficial  ownership of 50% or more of the then  outstanding
 shares  of  Common  Stock,  provided  that no such  event  shall  constitute  a
 Repurchase Event unless a Subsequent Triggering Event shall have occurred prior
 to an Exercise  Termination  Event.  The  parties  hereto  agree that  Issuer's
 obligations to repurchase

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 the Option or Option Shares under this Section 7 shall not  terminate  upon the
 occurrence of an Exercise  Termination  Event unless no  Subsequent  Triggering
 Event shall have occurred  prior to the  occurrence of an Exercise  Termination
 Event.

           8. (a) In the event  that  prior to an  Exercise  Termination  Event,
 Issuer shall enter into an agreement (i) to consolidate  with or merge into any
 person,  other than  Grantee or one of its  Subsidiaries,  and shall not be the
 continuing or surviving  corporation of such  consolidation or merger,  (ii) to
 permit any person, other than Grantee or one of its Subsidiaries, to merge into
 Issuer and Issuer shall be the  continuing  or surviving  corporation,  but, in
 connection with such merger,  the then outstanding shares of Common Stock shall
 be changed into or exchanged for stock or other  securities of any other person
 or cash or any other  property or the then  outstanding  shares of Common Stock
 shall  after such  merger  represent  less than 50% of the  outstanding  voting
 shares and voting share equivalents of the merged company,  or (iii) to sell or
 otherwise transfer all or substantially all of its assets to any person,  other
 than  Grantee or one of its  Subsidiaries,  then,  and in each such  case,  the
 agreement  governing such  transaction  shall make proper provision so that the
 Option shall,  upon the consummation of any such transaction and upon the terms
 and conditions set forth herein, be converted into, or exchanged for, an option
 (the  "Substitute  Option"),  at the election of the Holder,  of either (x) the
 Acquiring  Corporation (as hereinafter defined) or (y) any person that controls
 the Acquiring Corporation.

           (b) The following terms have the meanings indicated:

               (1)  "Acquiring  Corporation"  shall mean (i) the  continuing  or
      surviving  corporation of a consolidation  or merger with Issuer (if other
      than Issuer), (ii) Issuer in a merger in which Issuer is the continuing or
      surviving person,  and (iii) the transferee of all or substantially all of
      Issuer's assets.

               (2) "Substitute  Common Stock" shall mean the common stock issued
      by the issuer of the  Substitute  Option upon  exercise of the  Substitute
      Option.

               (3)  "Assigned  Value"  shall mean the Market/  Offer  Price,  as
      defined in Section 7.

               (4)  "Average  Price" shall mean the average  closing  price of a
      share  of the  Substitute  Common  Stock  for  the  one  year  immediately
      preceding the consolidation,  merger or sale in question,  but in no event
      higher than the closing price of the shares of Substitute

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      Common  Stock on the day  preceding  such  consolidation,  merger or sale;
      provided  that if  Issuer  is the  issuer of the  Substitute  Option,  the
      Average  Price shall be computed  with  respect to a share of common stock
      issued by the person  merging into Issuer or by any company which controls
      or is controlled by such person, as the Holder may elect.

           (c) The  Substitute  Option  shall have the same terms as the Option,
 provided, that if the terms of the Substitute Option cannot, for legal reasons,
 be the same as the Option, such terms shall be as similar as possible and in no
 event less  advantageous  to the Holder.  The issuer of the  Substitute  Option
 shall  also  enter  into an  agreement  with the then  Holder or Holders of the
 Substitute Option in substantially the same form as this Agreement, which shall
 be applicable to the Substitute Option.

           (d) The  Substitute  Option shall be  exercisable  for such number of
 shares of Substitute  Common Stock as is equal to the Assigned Value multiplied
 by the  number  of  shares  of  Common  Stock  for  which  the  Option  is then
 exercisable, divided by the Average Price. The exercise price of the Substitute
 Option per share of  Substitute  Common Stock shall then be equal to the Option
 Price  multiplied by a fraction,  the numerator of which shall be the number of
 shares of  Common  Stock for  which  the  Option  is then  exercisable  and the
 denominator  of which shall be the number of shares of Substitute  Common Stock
 for which the Substitute Option is exercisable.

           (e) In no event, pursuant to any of the foregoing  paragraphs,  shall
 the  Substitute  Option be  exercisable  for more than  19.9% of the  shares of
 Substitute Common Stock outstanding prior to exercise of the Substitute Option.
 In the event that the  Substitute  Option  would be  exercisable  for more than
 19.9% of the shares of Substitute  Common Stock  outstanding  prior to exercise
 but for this clause (e), the issuer of the Substitute  Option (the  "Substitute
 Option  Issuer") shall make a cash payment to Holder equal to the excess of (i)
 the value of the  Substitute  Option without giving effect to the limitation in
 this  clause  (e) over (ii) the value of the  Substitute  Option  after  giving
 effect to the limitation in this clause (e). This  difference in value shall be
 determined by a nationally  recognized  investment banking firm selected by the
 Holder or the  Owner,  as the case may be,  and  reasonably  acceptable  to the
 Acquiring Corporation.

           (f)  Issuer  shall  not  enter  into  any  transaction  described  in
 subsection  (a) of this  Section 8 unless  the  Acquiring  Corporation  and any
 person  that  controls  the  Acquiring  Corporation  assume in writing  all the
 obligations of Issuer hereunder.


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           9. (a) At the  request of the holder of the  Substitute  Option  (the
 "Substitute Option Holder"),  the Substitute Option Issuer shall repurchase the
 Substitute Option from the Substitute Option Holder at a price (the "Substitute
 Option Repurchase  Price") equal to the amount by which (i) the Highest Closing
 Price  (as  hereinafter  defined)  exceeds  (ii)  the  exercise  price  of  the
 Substitute  Option,  multiplied  by the number of shares of  Substitute  Common
 Stock for which the Substitute Option may then be exercised, and at the request
 of the owner (the  "Substitute  Share  Owner") of shares of  Substitute  Common
 Stock (the "Substitute Shares"),  the Substitute Option Issuer shall repurchase
 the Substitute  Shares at a price (the  "Substitute  Share  Repurchase  Price")
 equal to the  Highest  Closing  Price  multiplied  by the number of  Substitute
 Shares so designated.  The term "Highest  Closing Price" shall mean the highest
 closing price for shares of Substitute Common Stock within the six-month period
 immediately preceding the date the Substitute Option Holder gives notice of the
 required  repurchase of the  Substitute  Option or the  Substitute  Share Owner
 gives  notice  of  the  required   repurchase  of  the  Substitute  Shares,  as
 applicable.

           (b) The Substitute  Option Holder and the Substitute  Share Owner, as
 the case may be, may exercise its  respective  right to require the  Substitute
 Option Issuer to repurchase  the Substitute  Option and the  Substitute  Shares
 pursuant to this Section 9 by  surrendering  for such purpose to the Substitute
 Option  Issuer,  at its principal  office,  the  agreement for such  Substitute
 Option (or, in the absence of such an agreement,  a copy of this Agreement) and
 certificates for Substitute  Shares  accompanied by a written notice or notices
 stating that the Substitute Option Holder or the Substitute Share Owner, as the
 case may be, elects to require the  Substitute  Option Issuer to repurchase the
 Substitute   Option  and/or  the  Substitute  Shares  in  accordance  with  the
 provisions  of this  Section 9. As  promptly as  practicable,  and in any event
 within five business days after the surrender of the  Substitute  Option and/or
 certificates  representing  Substitute Shares and the receipt of such notice or
 notices relating  thereto,  the Substitute Option Issuer shall deliver or cause
 to  be  delivered  to  the  Substitute  Option  Holder  the  Substitute  Option
 Repurchase  Price and/or to the  Substitute  Share Owner the  Substitute  Share
 Repurchase  Price  therefor or, in either case,  the portion  thereof which the
 Substitute  Option  Issuer  is not then  prohibited  under  applicable  law and
 regulation from so delivering.

           (c) To the extent that the  Substitute  Option  Issuer is  prohibited
 under  applicable law or regulation  from  repurchasing  the Substitute  Option
 and/or the Substitute  Shares in part or in full, the Substitute  Option Issuer
 following a request for repurchase pursuant to this Section 9 shall immediately
 so notify the Substitute Option Holder

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 and/ or the  Substitute  Share  Owner  and  thereafter  deliver  or cause to be
 delivered,  from time to time,  to the  Substitute  Option  Holder  and/or  the
 Substitute  Share Owner,  as appropriate,  the portion of the Substitute  Share
 Repurchase  Price,  respectively,   which  it  is  no  longer  prohibited  from
 delivering,  within five business  days after the date on which the  Substitute
 Option  Issuer is no  longer  so  prohibited;  provided,  however,  that if the
 Substitute  Option  Issuer  is at  any  time  after  delivery  of a  notice  of
 repurchase  pursuant  to  subsection  (b) of this  Section 9  prohibited  under
 applicable law or regulation  from  delivering to the Substitute  Option Holder
 and/or the  Substitute  Share Owner,  as  appropriate,  the  Substitute  Option
 Repurchase Price and the Substitute Share Repurchase  Price,  respectively,  in
 full (and the  Substitute  Option  Issuer shall use its best efforts to receive
 all required regulatory and legal approvals as promptly as practicable in order
 to accomplish  such  repurchase),  the  Substitute  Option Holder or Substitute
 Share Owner may revoke its notice of repurchase of the Substitute Option or the
 Substitute  Shares  either  in  whole  or to the  extent  of  the  prohibition,
 whereupon,  in the latter case, the Substitute Option Issuer shall promptly (i)
 deliver  to  the  Substitute  Option  Holder  or  Substitute  Share  Owner,  as
 appropriate,  that portion of the  Substitute  Option  Repurchase  Price or the
 Substitute  Share  Repurchase  Price that the  Substitute  Option Issuer is not
 prohibited from delivering; and (ii) deliver, as appropriate, either (A) to the
 Substitute  Option Holder, a new Substitute  Option evidencing the right of the
 Substitute  Option Holder to purchase  that number of shares of the  Substitute
 Common Stock  obtained by  multiplying  the number of shares of the  Substitute
 Common Stock for which the surrendered Substitute Option was exercisable at the
 time of delivery of the notice of  repurchase  by a fraction,  the numerator of
 which is the  Substitute  Option  Repurchase  Price  less the  portion  thereof
 theretofore  delivered to the Substitute  Option Holder and the  denominator of
 which is the Substitute Option Repurchase Price, or (B) to the Substitute Share
 Owner, a certificate for the Substitute  Common Shares it is then so prohibited
 from repurchasing.

           10. The 90-day or  six-month  period for  exercise of certain  rights
 under Sections 2, 6, 7 and 14 shall be extended: (i) to the extent necessary to
 obtain all  regulatory  approvals for the exercise of such rights,  and for the
 expiration of all statutory  waiting periods;  and (ii) to the extent necessary
 to avoid  liability  under  Section  16(b) of the  1934 Act by  reason  of such
 exercise.

           11. Issuer hereby represents and warrants to Grantee as follows:

           (a) Issuer has full  corporate  power and  authority  to execute  and
 deliver this Agreement and to consummate the transactions  contemplated hereby.
 The execution and delivery of this Agreement and the consummation

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 of the transactions  contemplated  hereby have been duly and validly authorized
 by the Board of Directors of Issuer and no other  corporate  proceedings on the
 part of Issuer are necessary to authorize  this  Agreement or to consummate the
 transactions so contemplated. This Agreement has been duly and validly executed
 and delivered by Issuer.

           (b) Issuer has taken all necessary  corporate action to authorize and
 reserve  and to  permit  it to issue,  and at all  times  from the date  hereof
 through the  termination  of this  Agreement in accordance  with its terms will
 have  reserved  for issuance  upon the  exercise of the Option,  that number of
 shares of Common Stock equal to the maximum number of shares of Common Stock at
 any time and from time to time issuable  hereunder,  and all such shares,  upon
 issuance pursuant hereto, will be duly authorized,  validly issued, fully paid,
 nonassessable,  and will be  delivered  free and  clear of all  claims,  liens,
 encumbrance and security interests and not subject to any preemptive rights.

           (c) Issuer has taken all action (including if required  redeeming all
 of the Rights or  amending or  terminating  the Rights  Agreement)  so that the
 entering into of this Option  Agreement,  the  acquisition  of shares of Common
 Stock hereunder and the other transactions  contemplated hereby do not and will
 not result in the grant of any rights to any person under the Rights  Agreement
 or enable or require the Rights to be exercised, distributed or triggered.

           12. Grantee hereby represents and warrants to Issuer that:

           (a) Grantee has all requisite  corporate power and authority to enter
 into this  Agreement  and,  subject to any  approvals  or consents  referred to
 herein, to consummate the transactions  contemplated  hereby. The execution and
 delivery  of  this  Agreement  and  the   consummation   of  the   transactions
 contemplated hereby have been duly authorized by all necessary corporate action
 on the part of Grantee.  This Agreement has been duly executed and delivered by
 Grantee.

           (b) The Option is not being,  and any shares of Common Stock or other
 securities  acquired  by  Grantee  upon  exercise  of the  Option  will not be,
 acquired  with a view  to the  public  distribution  thereof  and  will  not be
 transferred  or otherwise  disposed of except in a  transaction  registered  or
 exempt from registration under the 1933 Act.

           13. (a) Grantee  may, at any time  following a  Repurchase  Event and
 prior to the occurrence of an Exercise  Termination Event (or such later period
 as provided in Section 10),  relinquish  the Option  (together  with any Option
 Shares issued to and then owned by Grantee) to Issuer in

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 exchange  for a cash fee  equal to the  Surrender  Price  (as  defined  below);
 provided,  however,  that Grantee may not exercise its rights  pursuant to this
 Section 13 if Issuer has repurchased the Option (or any portion thereof) or any
 Option Shares  pursuant to Section 7. The  "Surrender  Price" shall be equal to
 $13,880,000 (i) plus, if applicable,  Grantee's  purchase price with respect to
 any Option Shares and (ii) minus,  if applicable,  the sum of (A) the excess of
 (1) the net cash  amounts,  if any,  received by Grantee  pursuant to the arms'
 length sale of Option  Shares (or any other  securities  into which such Option
 Shares  were  converted  or  exchanged)  to any  unaffiliated  party,  over (2)
 Grantee's purchase price of such Option Shares and (B) the net cash amounts, if
 any,  received by Grantee  pursuant to an arms' length sale of a portion of the
 Option to any unaffiliated party.

           (b) Grantee may exercise its right to  relinquish  the Option and any
 Option Shares  pursuant to this Section 13 by  surrendering  to Issuer,  at its
 principal office,  this Agreement together with certificates for Option Shares,
 if any,  accompanied  by a written  notice  stating (i) that Grantee  elects to
 relinquish  the  Option and  Option  Shares,  if any,  in  accordance  with the
 provisions of this Section 13 and (ii) the Surrender Price. The Surrender Price
 shall be  payable  in  immediately  available  funds on or  before  the  second
 business day following receipt of such notice by Issuer.

           (c) To the extent that Issuer is prohibited  under  applicable law or
 regulation,  or as a  consequence  of  administrative  policy,  from paying the
 Surrender Price to Grantee in full,  Issuer shall immediately so notify Grantee
 and thereafter deliver or cause to be delivered, from time to time, to Grantee,
 the portion of the Surrender Price that it is no longer prohibited from paying,
 within  five  business  days  after  the date on which  Issuer  is no longer so
 prohibited,  provided,  however, that if Issuer at any time after delivery of a
 notice of surrender  pursuant to paragraph (b) of this Section 13 is prohibited
 under  applicable  law or  regulation,  or as a consequence  of  administrative
 policy,  from paying to Grantee the Surrender  Price in full,  (i) Issuer shall
 (A) use its reasonable best efforts to obtain all required regulatory and legal
 approvals and to file any required  notices as promptly as practicable in order
 to make such payments, (B) within five days of the submission or receipt of any
 documents relating to any such regulatory and legal approvals,  provide Grantee
 with copies of the same, and (c) keep Grantee advised of both the status of any
 such request for regulatory  and legal  approvals,  as well as any  discussions
 with any relevant  regulatory  or other third party  reasonably  related to the
 same and (ii)  Grantee  may revoke such  notice of  surrender  by delivery of a
 notice of revocation to Issuer and, upon delivery of such notice of revocation,
 the Exercise Termination Date shall

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 be  extended  to a date  six  months  from  the  date  on  which  the  Exercise
 Termination  Date would have occurred if not for the provisions of this Section
 13(c)  (during which period  Grantee may exercise any of its rights  hereunder,
 including any and all rights pursuant to this Section 13).

           14.  Neither  of the  parties  hereto may assign any of its rights or
 obligations  under this Agreement or the Option created  hereunder to any other
 person,  without the express written consent of the other party, except that in
 the  event a  Subsequent  Triggering  Event  shall  have  occurred  prior to an
 Exercise Termination Event, Grantee,  subject to the express provisions hereof,
 may assign in whole or in part its rights and obligations  hereunder  within 90
 days  following  such  Subsequent  Triggering  Event (or such longer  period as
 provided  in  Section  10);  provided,  however,  that  until  the date 15 days
 following  the  date  on  which  the  Federal  Reserve  Board  or the  OTS,  as
 applicable,  approves an application by Grantee to acquire the shares of Common
 Stock subject to the Option, Grantee may not assign its rights under the Option
 except in (i) a widely dispersed public distribution,  (ii) a private placement
 in which no one party  acquires  the right to  purchase  in excess of 2% of the
 voting shares of Issuer,  (iii) an assignment to a single party (e.g., a broker
 or investment  banker) for the purpose of conducting a widely  dispersed public
 distribution  on Grantee's  behalf,  or (iv) any other  manner  approved by the
 Federal Reserve Board or the OTS, as applicable.

           15. Each of Grantee and Issuer will use its best  efforts to make all
 filings with,  and to obtain  consents of, all third  parties and  governmental
 authorities  necessary to the consummation of the transactions  contemplated by
 this Agreement,  including without  limitation  making  application to list the
 shares of Common  Stock  issuable  hereunder  on the  National  Association  of
 Securities Dealers Automated  Quotation/National Market Securities (NASDAQ/NMS)
 upon  official  notice of issuance  and applying to the Federal  Reserve  Board
 and/or the OTS, as  applicable,  for  approval  to acquire the shares  issuable
 hereunder,  but  Grantee  shall  not be  obligated  to apply  to state  banking
 authorities  for  approval  to  acquire  the  shares of Common  Stock  issuable
 hereunder until such time, if ever, as it deems appropriate to do so.

           16. (a) Notwithstanding any other provision of this Agreement,  in no
 event  shall  the  Grantee's  Total  Profit  (as  hereinafter  defined)  exceed
 $17,350,000 and, if it otherwise would exceed such amount, the Grantee,  at its
 sole  election,  shall  either (i) reduce the number of shares of Common  Stock
 subject to this  Option,  (ii)  deliver to the Issuer for  cancellation  Option
 Shares previously  purchased by Grantee,  (iii) pay cash to the Issuer, or (iv)
 any combination thereof, so that Grantee's actually realized Total Profit shall
 not exceed $17,350,000 after taking

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 into account the foregoing actions.

           (b)  Notwithstanding  any other  provision  of this  Agreement,  this
 Option may not be exercised for a number of shares as would,  as of the date of
 exercise,  result in a Notional  Total  Profit (as defined  below) of more than
 $17,350,000;  provided,  that  nothing  in this  sentence  shall  restrict  any
 exercise of the Option permitted hereby on any subsequent date.

           (c) As used herein,  the term "Total Profit" shall mean the aggregate
 amount  (before  taxes) of the  following:  (i) the amount  received by Grantee
 pursuant to Issuer's repurchase of the Option (or any portion thereof) pursuant
 to Section 7 of this Agreement, (ii)(x) the amount received by Grantee pursuant
 to Issuer's  repurchase  of Option  Shares  pursuant to Section 7, less (y) the
 Grantee's purchase price for such Option Shares,  (iii)(x) the net cash amounts
 received  by  Grantee  pursuant  to the sale of  Option  Shares  (or any  other
 securities  into which such Option  Shares are  converted or  exchanged) to any
 unaffiliated  party,  less (y) the  Grantee's  purchase  price  of such  Option
 Shares,  (iv) any amounts received by Grantee on the transfer of the Option (or
 any portion thereof) to any unaffiliated  party, and (v) any equivalent  amount
 with respect to the Substitute Option.

           (d) As used herein,  the term "Notional Total Profit" with respect to
 any number of shares as to which  Grantee may  propose to exercise  this Option
 shall be the Total Profit  determined as of the date of such proposed  exercise
 assuming that this Option were exercised on such date for such number of shares
 and assuming  that such shares,  together  with all other Option Shares held by
 Grantee and its  affiliates as of such date,  were sold for cash at the closing
 market price for the Common Stock as of the close of business on the  preceding
 trading day (less customary brokerage commissions).

           17.  The  parties  hereto   acknowledge  that  damages  would  be  an
 inadequate  remedy for a breach of this  Agreement  by either  party hereto and
 that the obligations of the parties hereto shall be enforceable by either party
 hereto through injunctive or other equitable relief.

           18. If any term, provision, covenant or restriction contained in this
 Agreement  is held by a court  or a  federal  or  state  regulatory  agency  of
 competent  jurisdiction to be invalid, void or unenforceable,  the remainder of
 the  terms,  provisions  and  covenants  and  restrictions  contained  in  this
 Agreement  shall  remain  in full  force  and  effect,  and  shall in no way be
 affected,  impaired or invalidated.  If for any reason such court or regulatory
 agency determines that the Holder is not

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 permitted  to acquire,  or Issuer is not  permitted to  repurchase  pursuant to
 Section 7, the full number of shares of Common  Stock  provided in Section 1(a)
 hereof (as adjusted  pursuant to Section  1(b) or 5 hereof),  it is the express
 intention  of Issuer to allow the Holder to  acquire  or to  require  Issuer to
 repurchase  such  lesser  number of shares as may be  permissible,  without any
 amendment or modification hereof.

           19. All notices,  requests,  claims, demands and other communications
 hereunder shall be deemed to have been duly given when delivered in person,  by
 cable, telegram, telecopy or telex, or by registered or certified mail (postage
 prepaid,  return receipt requested) at the respective  addresses of the parties
 set forth in the Merger Agreement.

           20. This  Agreement  shall be governed by and construed in accordance
 with the laws of the  State of  Delaware,  regardless  of the laws  that  might
 otherwise govern under applicable principles of conflicts of laws thereof.

           21. This Agreement may be executed in two counterparts, each of which
 shall be deemed to be an original,  but all of which shall  constitute  one and
 the same agreement.

           22.  Except  as  otherwise  expressly  provided  herein,  each of the
 parties  hereto shall bear and pay all costs and expenses  incurred by it or on
 its  behalf  in  connection  with  the  transactions   contemplated  hereunder,
 including  fees  and  expenses  of its own  financial  consultants,  investment
 bankers, accountants and counsel.

           23. Except as otherwise  expressly  provided  herein or in the Merger
 Agreement,  this Agreement  contains the entire  agreement  between the parties
 with respect to the  transactions  contemplated  hereunder and  supersedes  all
 prior arrangements or understandings with respect thereof, written or oral. The
 terms and  conditions  of this  Agreement  shall inure to the benefit of and be
 binding upon the parties hereto and their  respective  successors and permitted
 assigns. Nothing in this Agreement, expressed or implied, is intended to confer
 upon any party, other than the parties hereto, and their respective  successors
 and permitted assigns, any rights,  remedies,  obligations or liabilities under
 or by reason of this Agreement, except as expressly provided herein.

           24.  Capitalized  terms used in this Agreement and not defined herein
 shall have the meanings assigned thereto in the Merger Agreement.



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           IN WITNESS WHEREOF,  each of the parties has caused this Agreement to
 be executed on its behalf by its officers thereunto duly authorized,  all as of
 the date first above written.


                                       RELIANCE BANCORP, INC.


                                       By:  /s/ Raymond A. Nielsen
                                          --------------------------------
                                          Raymond A. Nielsen
                                          President and Chief Executive
                                            Officer


                                       NORTH FORK BANCORPORATION, INC.


                                       By:  /s/ John Adam Kanas
                                          --------------------------------
                                          John Adam Kanas
                                          Chairman of the Board, President
                                            and Chief Executive Officer


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