STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT



                  THIS STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT  ("Agreement")  dated December 17,
1998, is by and between Valley National  Bancorp,  a New Jersey  corporation and
registered bank holding company ("Valley"),  and Ramapo Financial  Corporation a
New Jersey  corporation and registered  bank holding company  ("Ramapo") for The
Ramapo Bank (the "Bank").

                                   BACKGROUND

                  1. Valley,  Ramapo, the Bank and Valley National Bank ("Valley
Bank"), a wholly-owned subsidiary of Valley, as of the date hereof, are prepared
to execute an Agreement and Plan of Merger (the "Merger Agreement")  pursuant to
which Valley will acquire Ramapo through a merger of Ramapo with and into Valley
(the "Merger").

                  2. As an  inducement  to  Valley  to  enter  into  the  Merger
Agreement and in consideration for such entry and negotiation, Ramapo has agreed
to grant to Valley the Option.

                                    AGREEMENT

                  In consideration of the foregoing and the mutual covenants and
agreements  set forth  herein and in the Merger  Agreement,  Valley and  Ramapo,
intending to be legally bound hereby, agree:

                  1. Grant of Option.  Ramapo hereby grants to Valley the option
to purchase up to  1,608,159  shares (the  "Option  Shares") of Ramapo's  common
stock,  $1.00 par value ("Common Stock") at an exercise price of $7.50 per share
(the  "Option  Price"),  on the  terms and  conditions  set  forth  herein  (the
"Option").

                  2.  Exercise of Option.  This Option shall not be  exercisable
until  the  occurrence  of a  Triggering  Event  (as  such  term is  hereinafter
defined).  Upon or after the  occurrence of a Triggering  Event (as such term is
hereinafter  defined),  Valley may exercise the Option,  in whole or in part, at
any time or from time to time  subject  to the terms  and  conditions  set forth
herein.

                  The term "Triggering Event" means the occurrence of any of the
following events:

                  A person or group (as such terms are defined in the Securities
Exchange  Act of 1934,  as  amended  (the  "Exchange  Act"),  and the  rules and
regulations thereunder) other than Valley or an affiliate of Valley:

                         a.  acquires  beneficial  ownership  (as  such  term is
defined in Rule 13d-3 as promulgated  under the Exchange Act) of at least 15% of
the then  outstanding  shares  of  Common  Stock;  provided,  however,  that the
continuing  ownership by a person or group which as of the date hereof owns more
than 15% of the  outstanding  Common  Stock shall not  constitute  a  Triggering
Event;

                         b.  enters  into a letter of  intent  or an  agreement,
whether  oral or  written,  with  Ramapo  pursuant  to which such  person or any
affiliate  of such  person  would (i) merge or  consolidate,  or enter  into any
similar  transaction  with Ramapo or the Bank, (ii) acquire all or a significant
portion of the assets or  liabilities  of Ramapo or the Bank,  or (iii)  acquire
beneficial  ownership  of  securities  representing,  or the  right  to  acquire
beneficial ownership or to vote securities  representing 15% or more of the then
outstanding shares of Common Stock;

                         c.  makes a filing  with any bank or thrift  regulatory
authorities or publicly  announces a bona fide proposal (a  "Proposal")  for (i)
any merger,  consolidation or acquisition of all or a significant portion of all
the assets or liabilities of Ramapo or any other business combination  involving
Ramapo or the Bank, or (ii) a  transaction  involving the transfer of beneficial
ownership  of  securities  representing,  or the  right  to  acquire  beneficial
ownership or to vote  securities  representing,  15% or more of the  outstanding
shares of Common Stock,  and thereafter,  if such Proposal has not been Publicly
Withdrawn  (as such term is  hereinafter  defined) at least 15 days prior to the
meeting  of  stockholders  of Ramapo  called to vote on the  Merger  and  Ramapo
stockholders  fail to approve the Merger by the vote required by applicable  law
at the meeting of stockholders called for such purpose; or

                         d.  makes a bona  fide  Proposal  and  thereafter,  but
before such Proposal has been Publicly Withdrawn, Ramapo (i) willfully takes any
action in any  manner  which  would  materially  interfere  with its  ability to
consummate  the Merger or (ii)  willfully  takes any action in any manner (other
than actions taken in the ordinary  course of business)  which would  materially
reduce the value of the Merger to Valley .

                  The term  "Triggering  Event"  also  means  the  taking of any
direct or indirect action by Ramapo or any of its directors, executive officers,
investment  bankers or other persons with actual or apparent  authority to speak
for the Ramapo Board of  Directors,  inviting,  encouraging  or  soliciting  any
proposal which has as its purpose a tender offer for the shares of Common Stock,
a merger, consolidation, plan of exchange, plan of acquisition or reorganization
of Ramapo or the Bank, or a sale of shares of Common Stock or stock of the Bank,
or any significant portion of the assets or liabilities of Ramapo or the Bank.

                  The term  "significant  portion"  means  15% of the  assets or
liabilities of Ramapo.

                  "Publicly  Withdrawn",  for  purposes  of clauses  (c) and (d)
above,  shall mean an unconditional bona fide withdrawal of the Proposal coupled
with a public  announcement of no further  interest in pursuing such Proposal or
in acquiring any controlling  influence over Ramapo or in soliciting or inducing
any other person (other than Valley or any affiliate of Valley) to do so.

                  Notwithstanding the foregoing, the Option may not be exercised
at any  time (i) in the  absence  of any  required  governmental  or  regulatory
approval or consent necessary for Ramapo to issue the Option Shares or Valley to
exercise the Option or prior to the  expiration  or  termination  of any waiting
period required by law, or (ii) so long as any injunction or other order, decree
or ruling issued by any federal or state court of competent  jurisdiction  is in
effect which prohibits the sale or delivery of the Option Shares.

                  Ramapo  shall  notify  Valley   promptly  in  writing  of  the
occurrence of any  Triggering  Event known to it, it being  understood  that the
giving of such notice by Ramapo  shall not be a condition to the right of Valley
to  exercise  the Option.  Ramapo will not take any action  which would have the
effect of preventing or disabling  Ramapo from  delivering  the Option Shares to
Valley upon exercise of the Option or otherwise performing its obligations under
this Agreement.

                  In the event  Valley  wishes to exercise  the  Option,  Valley
shall send a written notice to Ramapo (the date of which is hereinafter referred
to as the "Notice Date")  specifying the total number of Option Shares it wishes
to  purchase  and a place  and  date  for the  closing  of  such a  purchase  (a
"Closing");  provided,  however,  that a Closing  shall  not occur  prior to two
business  days nor later than 20 business days after the later of receipt of any
necessary regulatory approvals and the expiration of any legally required notice
or waiting period, if any.

                  3.  Payment  and  Delivery  of  Certificates.  At any  Closing
hereunder (a) Valley will make payment to Ramapo of the aggregate  price for the
Option Shares so purchased by wire transfer of immediately available funds to an
account  designated  by  Ramapo,  (b)  Ramapo  will  deliver  to  Valley a stock
certificate  or  certificates  representing  the  number  of  Option  Shares  so
purchased,  free and clear of all liens, claims, charges and encumbrances of any
kind or nature whatsoever  created by or through Ramapo,  registered in the name
of Valley or its designee,  in such denominations as were specified by Valley in
its notice of  exercise  and  bearing a legend as set forth below and (c) Valley
shall pay any transfer or other taxes  required by reason of the issuance of the
Option Shares so purchased.

                  Unless  a   registration   statement  is  filed  and  declared
effective  under  Section  4  hereof,  a legend  will be  placed  on each  stock
certificate  evidencing  Option Shares issued pursuant to this Agreement,  which
legend will read substantially as follows:

                           "The   transfer   of  shares   represented   by  this
         certificate is subject to certain provisions of an agreement,  dated as
         of December 17, 1998,  between the registered  holder hereof and Ramapo
         and to resale restrictions arising under the Securities Act of 1933, as
         amended. A copy of such agreement is on file at the principal office of
         Ramapo and will be provided to the holder  hereof  without  charge upon
         receipt by Ramapo of a written request therefore."

                  It is  understood  and agreed that:  (i) the  reference to the
resale  restrictions  of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended (the "1933 Act")
in the above  legend shall be removed by delivery of  substitute  certificate(s)
without  such  reference  if Valley  shall have  delivered to Ramapo a copy of a
letter  from  the  staff of the  SEC,  or an  opinion  of  counsel,  in form and
substance  reasonably  satisfactory to Ramapo, to the effect that such legend is
not required for purposes of the 1933 Act; (ii) the reference to the  provisions
of this Agreement in the above legend shall be removed by delivery of substitute
certificate(s)   without  such  reference  if  the  shares  have  been  sold  or
transferred  in  compliance  with the  provisions  of this  Agreement  and under
circumstances that do not require the retention of such reference in the opinion
of counsel to Ramapo;  and (iii) the legend  shall be removed in its entirety if
the  conditions in the  preceding  clauses (i) and (ii) are both  satisfied.  In
addition,  such  certificates  shall bear any other legend as may be required by
law.

                  4.  Registration  Rights.  Upon or after the  occurrence  of a
Triggering Event and upon receipt of a written request from Valley, Ramapo shall
prepare and file a  registration  statement  with the  Securities  and  Exchange
Commission and any state securities bureau,  covering the Option and such number
of Option  Shares as Valley shall  specify in its request,  and Ramapo shall use
its best efforts to cause such registration  statement to be declared  effective
in order to permit  the sale or other  disposition  of the Option and the Option
Shares (it being  understood and agreed that Valley will use reasonable  efforts
to effect any such sale or other  disposition  on a widely  distributed  basis),
provided that Valley shall in no event have the right to have more than one such
registration  statement  become effective and further provided that Ramapo shall
have the right to delay for up to six  months  such  registration  if the Option
Shares  can  and  will  be  registered  in  connection  with  the  filing  of  a
Registration Statement on Form S-4 (or a successor form) by any person acquiring
Ramapo.

                  In  connection  with such  filing,  Ramapo  shall use its best
efforts  to  cause  to be  delivered  to  Valley  such  certificates,  opinions,
accountant's  letters and other documents as Valley shall reasonably request and
as are customarily provided in connection with registrations of securities under
the  Securities  Act of 1933,  as amended.  All  expenses  incurred by Ramapo in
complying with the provisions of this Section 4, including  without  limitation,
all registration and filing fees,  printing expenses,  fees and disbursements of
counsel  for  Ramapo  and blue sky fees and  expenses  shall be paid by  Ramapo.
Underwriting  discounts and  commissions to brokers and dealers  relating to the
Option  Shares,  fees and  disbursements  of  counsel  to  Valley  and any other
expenses incurred by Valley in connection with such registration  shall be borne
by Valley.  In  connection  with such filing,  Ramapo shall  indemnify  and hold
harmless Valley against any losses,  claims,  damages or  liabilities,  joint or
several,  to which Valley may become  subject,  insofar as such losses,  claims,
damages or liabilities (or actions in respect thereof) arise out of or are based
upon any untrue  statement  with respect to Ramapo or alleged  untrue  statement
with respect to Ramapo of any material fact with respect to Ramapo  contained in
any preliminary or final  registration  statement or any amendment or supplement
thereto,  or arise out of a material fact with respect to Ramapo  required to be
stated  therein or  necessary  to make the  statements  therein  with respect to
Ramapo not misleading;  and Ramapo will reimburse  Valley for any legal or other
expense  reasonably  incurred  by Valley in  connection  with  investigating  or
defending any such loss, claim, damage, liability or action; provided,  however,
that  Ramapo  will not be liable in any case to the  extent  that any such loss,
claim, damage or liability arises out of or is based upon an untrue statement or
alleged  untrue   statement  or  omission  or  alleged  omission  made  in  such
preliminary  or final  registration  statement or such  amendment or  supplement
thereto in reliance upon and in conformity with written information furnished by
or on  behalf  of  Valley  specifically  for  use  in  the  preparation  thereof
concerning  Valley or its plans or  intentions.  Valley will  indemnify and hold
harmless  Ramapo to the same  extent as set forth in the  immediately  preceding
sentence but only with reference to written information  specifically  furnished
by or on behalf of Valley  concerning  Valley or its plans or intentions for use
in the preparation of such preliminary or final  registration  statement or such
amendment or supplement thereto;  and Valley will reimburse Ramapo for any legal
or other expense reasonably  incurred by Ramapo in connection with investigating
or defending any such loss, claim, damage, liability or action.  Notwithstanding
anything to the contrary herein,  no indemnifying  party shall be liable for any
settlement effected without its prior written consent.

                  5. Adjustment Upon Changes in Capitalization.  In the event of
any change in the Common Stock by reason of stock dividends, split-ups, mergers,
recapitalizations,  combinations,  conversions, exchanges of shares or the like,
then  the  number  and kind of  Option  Shares  and the  Option  Price  shall be
appropriately adjusted.

                  In the event any capital reorganization or reclassification of
the Common Stock, or any consolidation,  merger or similar transaction of Ramapo
with another entity, or in the event any sale of all or substantially all of the
assets of Ramapo  shall be  effected  in such a way that the  holders  of Common
Stock shall be entitled to receive  stock,  securities or assets with respect to
or in exchange for Common Stock,  then,  as a condition of such  reorganization,
reclassification,  consolidation, merger or sale, lawful and adequate provisions
(in form reasonably satisfactory to the holder hereof) shall be made whereby the
holder hereof shall  thereafter  have the right to purchase and receive upon the
basis and upon the  terms and  conditions  specified  herein  and in lieu of the
Common Stock immediately theretofore purchasable and receivable upon exercise of
the rights  represented  by this  Option,  such shares of stock,  securities  or
assets as may be issued or payable with respect to or in exchange for the number
of shares of Common Stock  immediately  theretofore  purchasable  and receivable
upon exercise of the rights represented by this Option had such  reorganization,
reclassification,  consolidation,  merger  or sale not  taken  place;  provided,
however,  that if such  transaction  results  in the  holders  of  Common  Stock
receiving only cash, the holder hereof shall be paid the difference  between the
Option  Price and such  cash  consideration  without  the need to  exercise  the
Option.

                  6.  Filings and  Consents.  Each of Valley and Ramapo will use
its best efforts to make all filings with, and to obtain  consents of, all third
parties  and  governmental  authorities  necessary  to the  consummation  of the
transactions contemplated by this Agreement.

                  Exercise  of the Option  herein  provided  shall be subject to
compliance with all applicable laws including, in the event Valley is the holder
hereof,  approval of the Board of  Governors of the Federal  Reserve  System and
Ramapo  agrees  to  cooperate  with  and  furnish  to  the  holder  hereof  such
information  and  documents  as  may  be  reasonably  required  to  secure  such
approvals.

                  7. Representations and Warranties of the Parties.

                         a. Ramapo.  Ramapo  hereby  represents  and warrants to
Valley as follows:

                                    i.  Due   Authorization.   Ramapo  has  full
         corporate  power and  authority  to execute,  deliver and perform  this
         Agreement and all corporate  action  necessary for execution,  delivery
         and performance of this Agreement has been duly taken by Ramapo.

                                    ii. Authorized Shares. Ramapo has taken and,
         as long as the Option is outstanding, will take all necessary corporate
         action to authorize and reserve for issuance all shares of Common Stock
         that may be issued pursuant to any exercise of the Option.

                                    iii. No Conflicts. Neither the execution and
         delivery  of  this  Agreement  nor  consummation  of  the  transactions
         contemplated  hereby  (assuming all appropriate  regulatory  approvals)
         will violate or result in any violation or default of or be in conflict
         with or  constitute  a  default  under any term of the  certificate  of
         incorporation or by-laws of Ramapo or, to its knowledge, any agreement,
         instrument,  judgment,  decree,  statute,  rule or order  applicable to
         Ramapo.

                                    iv. Binding  Obligation.  This Agreement has
         been duly and  validly  executed by Ramapo and  represents  a valid and
         binding obligation of Ramapo  enforceable  against Ramapo in accordance
         with its terms.

                           b. Valley.  Valley hereby  represents and warrants to
Ramapo as follows:

                                    i.  Due   Authorization.   Valley  has  full
         corporate  power and  authority to execute and deliver  this  Agreement
         and,  subject to any  approvals  or  consents  referred  to herein,  to
         consummate the transactions contemplated hereby.

                                    ii.   Requisite    Corporate   Action.   The
         execution and delivery of this  Agreement  have been  authorized by all
         requisite   corporate   action  by  Valley,   and  no  other  corporate
         proceedings are necessary therefor.

                                    iii. Binding Obligation.  This Agreement has
         been duly and validly executed and delivered by Valley and represents a
         valid and legally  binding  obligation of Valley,  enforceable  against
         Valley in accordance with its terms.

                  8. Specific  Performance.  The parties hereto acknowledge that
damages  would be an inadequate  remedy for a breach of this  Agreement and that
the  obligations  of the  parties  hereto  shall  be  specifically  enforceable.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, Valley shall have the right to seek money damages
against Ramapo for a breach of this Agreement.

                  9. Entire  Agreement.  This Agreement  constitutes  the entire
agreement  between the parties  with  respect to the subject  matter  hereof and
supersedes all other prior agreements and understandings, both written and oral,
among the parties or any of them with respect to the subject matter hereof.

                  10.  Assignment  or Transfer.  Valley may not sell,  assign or
otherwise transfer its rights and obligations hereunder, in whole or in part, to
any person or group of  persons  other than to an  affiliate  of Valley.  Valley
represents that it is acquiring the Option for Valley's own account and not with
a view to or for sale in connection with any distribution of the Option.  Valley
is aware that  presently  neither  the  Option  nor the Option  Shares are being
offered by a registration  statement filed with, and declared  effective by, the
Securities  and Exchange  Commission,  but instead are being offered in reliance
upon the exemption from the registration  requirements  pursuant to Section 4(2)
of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended.

                  11.  Amendment of Agreement.  By mutual consent of the parties
hereto, this Agreement may be amended in writing at any time, for the purpose of
facilitating  performance  hereunder or to comply with any applicable regulation
of any  governmental  authority or any applicable  order of any court or for any
other purpose.

                  12.  Validity.  The  invalidity  or  unenforceability  of  any
provision of this Agreement shall not affect the validity or  enforceability  of
any other  provisions  of this  Agreement,  which shall remain in full force and
effect.

                  13.  Notices.  All  notices,  requests,   consents  and  other
communications  required or permitted hereunder shall be in writing and shall be
deemed to have been duly given when delivered  personally,  by express  service,
cable,  telegram or telex, or by registered or certified mail (postage  prepaid,
return receipt requested) to the respective parties as follows:

                           If to Valley, to:

                           Valley National Bancorp
                           1455 Valley Road
                           Wayne, New Jersey  07474
                           Attn.:  Gerald H. Lipkin
                                   Chairman and Chief Executive Officer
                           Telecopier No. (973) 305-0024

                           Copy to:

                           Pitney, Hardin, Kipp & Szuch
                           Attn.:  Ronald H. Janis, Esq.
                           Delivery:
                           200 Campus Drive
                           Florham Park, New Jersey  07932
                           Mail:
                           P.O. Box 1945
                           Morristown, New Jersey  07962-1945
                           Telecopier No. (973) 966-1550


                           If to Ramapo, to:

                           Ramapo Financial Corporation
                           64 Mountain View Boulevard
                           Wayne, New Jersey  07470
                           Attn.:  Mortimer J. O'Shea, President
                           Telecopier No. (973) 305-4089

                           Copy to:

                           Williams, Caliri, Miller & Otley
                           Attn.: Richard S. Miller, Esq.
                           Delivery:
                           1428 Route 23
                           Wayne, New Jersey  07470
                           Mail:
                           P.O. Box 995
                           Wayne, New Jersey  07474-0995
                           Telecopier No. (973) 694-0302

or to such other  address  as the person to whom  notice is to be given may have
previously  furnished  to the others in  writing  in the manner set forth  above
(provided  that  notice of any change of address  shall be  effective  only upon
receipt thereof).

                  14.  Governing  Law. This  Agreement  shall be governed by and
construed in accordance with the laws of the State of New Jersey.

                  15.  Captions.  The captions in the Agreement are inserted for
convenience and reference purposes,  and shall not limit or otherwise affect any
of the terms or provisions hereof.

                  16. Waivers and Extensions.  The parties hereto may, by mutual
consent,  extend the time for  performance of any of the  obligations or acts of
either  party  hereto.  Each  party  may waive  (i)  compliance  with any of the
covenants of the other party  contained in this Agreement  and/or (ii) the other
party's performance of any of its obligations set forth in this Agreement.

                  17. Parties in Interest.  This Agreement shall be binding upon
and inure  solely to the  benefit  of each  party  hereto,  and  nothing in this
Agreement,  express or implied,  is intended to confer upon any other person any
rights  or  remedies  of any  nature  whatsoever  under  or by  reason  of  this
Agreement,  except as  provided  in Section 10  permitting  Valley to assign its
rights and obligations hereunder only to an affiliate of Valley.

                  18.  Counterparts.  This  Agreement  may be executed in two or
more counterparts,  each of which shall be deemed to be an original,  but all of
which shall constitute one and the same agreement.

                  19. Termination.  The Option granted hereby, to the extent not
previously exercised,  shall terminate upon either the termination of the Merger
Agreement  as  provided   therein  or  the   consummation  of  the  transactions
contemplated by the Merger Agreement;  provided, however, that if termination of
the Merger  Agreement  occurs after the occurrence of a Triggering  Event,  this
Agreement and the Option granted  hereby shall not terminate  until the later of
one month after the consummation of the transaction  constituting the Triggering
Event  or 18  months  following  the  date  of the  termination  of  the  Merger
Agreement.

                  IN WITNESS  WHEREOF,  each of the parties hereto,  pursuant to
resolutions  adopted by its Board of Directors,  has caused this Agreement to be
executed by its duly authorized officer,  all as of the day and year first above
written.

                                   RAMAPO FINANCIAL CORPORATION


                                   By: MORTIMER J. O'SHEA
                                       ------------------------------------
                                         Mortimer J. O'Shea,  President and
                                            Chief Executive Officer

                                   VALLEY NATIONAL BANCORP



                                   By: GERALD H. LIPKIN
                                       ---------------------------------------
                                         Gerald H. Lipkin, Chairman, President
                                            and Chief Executive Officer