Exhibit 10.3 AGREEMENT TO EXTEND AND AMEND MANAGEMENT AGREEMENTFBR This Agreement to Extend Management Agreement (the "Extension Agreement") is made as of December 17, 2000, by and between FBR Asset Investment Corporation (the "Company") and Friedman, Billings, Ramsey Investment Management, Inc. (the "Manager"). WHEREAS, the Company and the Manager are parties to that certain Management Agreement, dated as of December 17, 1997, and extended and amended by that certain Agreement to Extend and Amend Management Agreement, dated as of December 17, 1999 (the "Management Agreement"); WHEREAS, the Management Agreement provides in Section 12 thereof that the parties may extend the term of the Management Agreement for up to 12 months by executing a written extension; and WHEREAS, the parties have determined to extend the term of the Management Agreement by 12 months, from December 17, 2000 to December 17, 2001, in accordance with Section 12 of the Management Agreement. NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the mutual agreements set forth herein, the parties agree as follows: SECTION 1. Extension. The parties hereby agree to extend the term of the --------- Management Agreement by 12 months, from December 17, 2000 to December 17, 2001. SECTION 2. Other terms. Other than as expressly extended hereby, all ----------- other terms, conditions and provisions of the Management Agreement shall remain in effect during the 12 month extension provided for hereby, unless the Management Agreement is amended in writing by the parties or is sooner terminated in accordance with the provisions thereof. IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Extension Agreement as of the date first written above. FBR ASSET INVESTMENT FRIEDMAN, BILLINGS, RAMSEY CORPORATION INVESTMENT MANAGEMENT, INC. By: /s/ RICHARD J. HENDRIX By: /s/ KURT R. HARRINGTON -------------------------- ------------------------ Name: Richard J. Hendrix Name: Kurt R. Harrington Tittle: Chief Operating Officer Title: Chief Financial Officer and Treasurer