Exhibit No. 10(xvii) Form of Special Termination Agreement, as amended,
                Between MAF Bancorp, Inc. and various officers


The attached Special Termination Agreement dated April 19, 1990, as amended,
between MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Gerard J. Buccino is substantially identical in
all material respects (except as otherwise noted below) with the other contracts
listed below which are not being filed:

          Parties to Special Termination Agreement
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          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Michael J. Janssen

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and David W. Kohlsaat

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and William Haider

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Thomas Miers

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Kenneth Rusdal

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Sharon Wheeler

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Gail Brzostek

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Alan Schatz

          MAF Bancorp, Inc. and Diane Stutte

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                               MAF BANCORP, INC.
                         SPECIAL TERMINATION AGREEMENT


          This AGREEMENT is made effective as of April 19, 1990 by and between
MAF Bancorp, Inc. (the "Holding Company"), a corporation organized under the
laws of the State of Delaware, with its office at 55th & Holmes Streets,
Clarendon Hills, Illinois, and Gerard Buccin (the "Executive").  The term "Bank"
refers to Mid America Federal Savings Bank, the wholly-owned subsidiary of the
Company.

          WHEREAS, the Holding Company recognizes the substantial experience and
abilities of the Executive and the Company wishes to protect his position
therewith for the period provided in this Agreement; and

          WHEREAS, Executive has been elected to, and has agreed to serve in the
position of Vice President for the Holding Company, a position of substantial
responsibility;

          NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the contribution and
responsibilities of Executive, and upon the other terms and conditions
hereinafter provided, the parties hereto agree as follows:

1.        TERM OF AGREEMENT.
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          The term of this Agreement shall be deemed to have commenced as of the
date first above written and shall continue for a period of thirty-six (36) full
calendar months thereafter.  Commencing on the first anniversary date of this
Agreement and continuing at each anniversary date thereafter, the Agreement
shall automatically renew for an additional year such that the remaining term
shall be three (3) years unless written notice is provided to Executive, at
least ten (10) days and not more than twenty (20) days prior to expiration of
such period, then the term of this Agreement shall cease at the end of twenty-
four (24) months following the next anniversary date, or unless the Executive's
employment is voluntarily or involuntarily terminated with the Holding Company
pursuant to Section 2 hereof.

2.        PAYMENTS TO EXECUTIVE UPON CHANGE IN CONTROL.
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          (a)   Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control of the Holding
Company (as herein defined) followed at any time during the term of this
Agreement by the voluntary or involuntary termination of Executive's employment,
other than for Cause, as defined in Section 2(c) hereof, the provisions of
Section 3 shall apply. Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, Executive
shall have the right to elect to voluntarily terminate his employment at any
time during the term of this Agreement following any demotion, loss of title,
office or significant authority, reduction in his annual compensation, or
relocation of his principal place of employment by more than 50 miles from its
location immediately prior to the Change in Control.

          (b)   Definition of a Change in Control.  A "Change in Control" of the
Bank or the Holding Company shall mean a change in control of a nature that:
(i) would be required to be reported in response to Item 1 of the current report
on Form 8-K, as in effect on the date hereof, pursuant to Section 13 or 15(d) of
the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 (the "Exchange Act"); or 

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(ii) results in a Change in Control of the Bank or the Holding Company within
the meaning of the Home Owners Loan Act of 1933 and the Rules and Regulations
promulgated by the Office of Thrift Supervision (or its predecessor agency), as
in effect on the date hereof including Section 574 of such regulations; or (iii)
without limitation, such a Change in Control shall be deemed to have occurred at
such time as (a) any "person" (as the term is used in Sections 13(d) and 14(d)
of the Exchange Act) is or becomes the "beneficial owner" (as defined in Rule
13d-3 under the Exchange Act), directly or indirectly, of securities or makes an
offer to purchase securities of the Bank or Holding Company representing 20% or
more of the Bank's or Holding Company's outstanding securities, except for any
securities of the Bank purchased by the Holding Company in connection with the
conversion of the Bank to the stock form and any securities purchased by the
Bank's employee stock ownership plan and trust; or (b) individuals who
constitute the Board of Directors of the Holding Company on the date hereof (the
"Incumbent Board") cease for any reason to constitute at least a majority
thereof, provided that any person becoming a director subsequent to the date
hereof whose election was approved by a vote of at least three-quarters of the
directors comprising the Incumbent Board, or whose nomination for election by
the Holding Company's shareholders was approved by the Holding Company's
Nominating Committee, shall be, for purposes of this clause (b), considered as
though he were a member of the Incumbent Board; or (c) merger, consolidation or
sale of all or substantially all the assets of the Bank or Holding Company
occurs; or (d) a proxy statement shall be distributed soliciting proxies from
stockholders of the Holding Company, by someone other than the current
management of the Holding Company, seeking stockholder approval of the
reorganization, merger or consolidation of the Holding Company or Bank with one
or more corporations as a result of which the outstanding shares of the class of
securities then subject to the Plan are exchanged for or converted into cash or
property or securities not issued by the Bank or Holding Company; or (e) a
tender offer is made for 20% or more of the outstanding securities of the Bank
or Holding Company.

          (c)   Executive shall not have the right to receive termination
benefits pursuant to Section 3 hereof upon Termination for Cause. The term
"Termination for Cause" shall mean termination upon intentional failure to
perform stated duties, personal dishonesty which results in loss to the Holding
Company or one of its affiliates or willful violation of any law, rule,
regulation or final cease and desist order which results in substantial loss to
the Holding Company or one of its affiliates or any material breach of this
Agreement. For purposes of this Section, no act, or the failure to act, on
Executive's part shall be "willful" unless done, or omitted to be done, not in
good faith and without reasonable belief that the action or omission was in the
best interest of the Holding Company or its affiliates. Notwithstanding the
foregoing, Executive shall not be deemed to have been terminated for Cause
unless and until there shall have been delivered to him a copy of a resolution
duly adopted by the affirmative vote of not less than three-fourths of the
members of the Board at a meeting of the Board called and held for that purpose
(after reasonable notice to Executive and an opportunity for him, together with
counsel, to be heard before the Board), finding that in the good faith opinion
of the Board, Executive was guilty of conduct justifying termination for Cause
and specifying the particulars thereof in detail. The Executive shall not have
the right to receive compensation or other benefits for any period after
termination for Cause. Any stock options granted to Executive under any stock
option plan of the Bank, the Holding Company or any subsidiary or affiliate
thereof, shall become null and 

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void effective upon Executive's receipt of Notice of Termination for Cause
pursuant to Section 9 hereof, and shall not be exercisable by Executive at any
time subsequent to such Termination for Cause.

3.        TERMINATION BENEFITS.
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          (a)   Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, followed at any time
during the term of this Agreement by the voluntary or involuntary termination of
Executive's employment, other than for Termination for Cause, the Bank and the
Holding Company shall pay Executive, or in the event of his subsequent death,
his beneficiary or beneficiaries, or his estate, as the case may be, as
severance pay or liquidated damages, or both, a sum equal to three (3) times the
average annual base salary paid to Executive for the three (3) years immediately
preceding Executive's termination.  In the event the Executive has not been
employed by the Bank or Holding company during all or part of the three
immediately preceding years, the annual base salary paid to Executive for such
periods shall for purposes of this Section 3, be deemed to be equal to the
Executive's initial base salary upon commencing employment with the Bank or
Holding Company adjusted to reflect assumed annual salary increases of ten
percent (10%).  At the discretion of the Executive, upon an election pursuant to
Section 3(e) hereof, such payment may be made in a lump sum immediately upon
severance of Executive's employment or paid, on a pro rata basis, semi-monthly
during the thirty-six (36) months following the Executive's termination.

          (b)   Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control of the Bank or the
Holding Company followed at any time during the term of this Agreement by
Executive's voluntary or involuntary termination of employment, other than for
Termination for Cause, the Holding Company shall cause to be continued life,
health and disability coverage substantially identical to the coverage
maintained by the Bank for Executive prior to his severance.  Such coverage
shall cease upon the earlier of Executive's obtaining similar coverage by
another employer or twelve (12) months from the date of Executive's termination.
In the event the Executive obtains new employment and receives less coverage for
life, health or disability, the Holding Company shall provide coverage
substantially identical to the coverage maintained by the Bank for the Executive
prior to termination for a period of twelve (12) months.

          (c)   Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, the Executive will
have such rights as specified in the Company's Incentive Stock Option Plan or
any other employee benefit plan with respect to options and such other rights as
may have been granted to Executive under such plans.

          (d)   Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, the Executive will
be entitled to the benefits under the Bank's Management Recognition and
Retention Plans.

          (e)   On an annual basis Executive shall elect whether, in the event
amounts are payable under Sections 3(a) hereof, such amounts shall be paid in a
lump sum or on a pro rata basis pursuant to such sections.  Such election shall
be irrevocable for the year for which such election is made.

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          (f)   Notwithstanding the preceding paragraphs of this Section 3, in
the event that:

          (i)   the aggregate payments or benefits to be made or afforded to
     Executive under said paragraphs (the "Termination Benefits") would be
     deemed to include an "excess parachute payment" under Section 280G of the
     Internal Revenue Code of 1986 (the "Code") or any successor thereto, and

          (ii)  if such Termination Benefits were reduced to an amount (the 
     "Non-Triggering Amount"), the value of which is one dollar ($1.00) less
     than an amount equal to three (3) times Executive's "base amount", as
     determined in accordance with said Section 280G, and the Non-Triggering
     Amount would be greater than the aggregate value of the Termination
     Benefits (without such reduction) minus the amount of tax required to be
     paid by Executive thereon by Section 4999 of the Code, then the Termination
     Benefits shall be reduced to the Non-Triggering Amount. The allocation of
     the reduction required hereby among the Termination Benefits provided by
     the preceding paragraphs of this Section 3 shall be determined by
     Executive. In the event that Executive receives the Non-Triggering Amount
     pursuant to this paragraph (f) and it is subsequently determined by the
     Internal Revenue Service or judicial authority that Executive is deemed to
     have received an amount in excess of the Non-Triggering Amount, the Holding
     Company shall pay to Executive an amount equal to the value of the payments
     or benefits in excess of the Non-Triggering Amount he is so deemed to have
     received.

4.   NOTICE OF TERMINATION.
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     Any purported termination by the Holding Company or by Executive shall
be communicated by Notice of Termination to the other party hereto.

     For purposes of this Agreement, a "Notice of Termination" shall mean a
written notice which shall indicate the specific termination provision in this
Agreement relied upon and shall set forth in detail the facts and circumstances
claimed to provide a basis for termination of Executive's employment under the
provision so indicated.  "Date of Termination" shall mean the date specified in
the Notice of Termination (which, in the case of a Termination for Cause, shall
not be less than thirty (30) days from the date such Notice of Termination is
given); provided that if, within thirty (30) days after any Notice of
Termination is given, the party receiving such Notice of Termination notifies
the other party that a dispute exists concerning the termination, the date of
Termination shall be the date on which the dispute is finally determined, either
by mutual written agreement of the parties, by a binding arbitration award, or
by a final judgment, order or decree of a court of competent jurisdiction (the
time for appeal there from having expired and no appeal having been perfected)
and provided further that the Date of Termination shall be extended by a notice
of dispute only if such notice is given in good faith and the party giving such
notice pursues the resolution of such dispute with reasonable diligence.


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5.        SOURCE OF PAYMENTS.
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          It is intended by the parties hereto that all payments provided in
this Agreement shall be paid in cash or check from the general funds of the
Holding Company. The Company guarantees payment and provision of all amounts and
benefits due to the Executive under the Special Termination Agreement by and
between the Bank and the Executive, if any amounts and benefits due from the
Bank are not timely paid or provided by the Bank, such amounts and benefits
shall be paid or provided by the Company.

6.        EFFECT ON PRIOR AGREEMENT AND EXISTING BENEFIT PLANS.
          ---------------------------------------------------- 

          This Agreement contains the entire understanding between the parties
hereto and supersedes any prior agreement between the Holding Company and
Executive, except that this Agreement shall not affect or operate to reduce any
benefit or compensation inuring to Executive of a kind elsewhere provided. No
provision of this Agreement shall be interpreted to mean that Executive is
subject to receiving fewer benefits than those available to him without
reference to this Agreement.

7.        NO ATTACHMENT.
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          (a)   Except as required by law, no right to receive payments under
this Agreement shall be subject to anticipation, commutation, alienation, sale,
assignment, encumbrance, charge, pledge, or hypothecation, or to execution,
attachment, levy, or similar process or assignment by operation of law, and any
attempt, voluntary or involuntary, to affect any such action shall be null,
void, and of no effect.

          (b)   This Agreement shall be binding upon, and inure to the benefit
of, Executive, the Holding Company and their respective successors and assigns.

8.        MODIFICATION AND WAIVER.
          ----------------------- 

          (a)   This Agreement may not be modified or amended except by an
instrument in writing signed by the parties hereto.

          (b)   No term or condition of this Agreement shall be deemed to have
been waived, nor shall there be any estoppel against the enforcement of any
provision of this Agreement, except by written instrument of the party charged
with such waiver or estoppel. No such written waiver shall be deemed a
continuing waiver unless specifically stated therein, and each such waiver shall
operate only as to the specific term or condition waived and shall not
constitute a waiver of such term or condition for the future or as to any act
other than that specifically waived.

9.        REINSTATEMENT OF BENEFITS UNDER BANK AGREEMENT.
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          In the event Executive is suspended and/or temporarily prohibited from
participating in the conduct of the Bank's affairs by a notice described in
Section 9(b) of the Special Termination Agreement between Executive and the Bank
dated April 19, 1990 (the "Bank Agreement") during the term of this Agreement
and a Change in Control, as defined herein, occurs the 

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Holding Company will assume its obligation to pay and the Executive will be
entitled to receive all of the termination benefits provided for under Section 3
of the Bank Agreement upon the notification of the Holding Company of the Bank's
receipt of a dismissal of charges in the Notice.

10.       EFFECT OF ACTION UNDER BANK AGREEMENT.
          ------------------------------------- 

          Notwithstanding any provision herein to the contrary, to the extent
that payments and benefits are paid to or received by Executive under the
Special Termination Agreement dated April 19, 1990, between Executive and Bank,
such payments and benefits paid by the Bank will be deemed to satisfy the
corresponding obligations of the Holding Company under this Agreement.

11.       SEVERABILITY.
          ------------ 

          If, for any reason, any provision of this Agreement, or any part of
any provision, is held invalid, such invalidity shall not affect any other
provision of this Agreement or any part of such provision not held so invalid,
and each such other provision and part thereof shall to the full extent
consistent with law continue in full force and effect.

12.       HEADINGS FOR REFERENCE ONLY.
          --------------------------- 

          The headings of sections and paragraphs herein are included solely for
convenience of reference and shall not control the meaning or interpretation of
any of the provisions of this Agreement.

13.       GOVERNING LAW.
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          The validity, interpretation, performance, and enforcement of this
Agreement shall be governed by the laws of the State of Delaware.

14.       ARBITRATION.
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          Any dispute or controversy arising under or in connection with this
Agreement shall be settled exclusively by arbitration in accordance with the
rules of the American Arbitration Association then in effect.  Judgment may be
entered on the arbitrator's award in any court having jurisdiction; provided,
however, that Executive shall be entitled to seek specific performance of his
right to be paid until the Date of Termination during the pendency of any
dispute or controversy arising under or in connection with this Agreement.

15.       PAYMENT OF LEGAL FEES.
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          All reasonable legal fees paid or incurred by Executive pursuant to
any dispute or question of interpretation relating to this Agreement shall be
paid or reimbursed by the Holding Company.

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16.       SIGNATURES.
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          IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the Holding Company has caused this Agreement to
be executed by its duly authorized officer, and Executive has signed this
Agreement, on the 19th day of April, 1990.
 
ATTEST:                           MAF BANCORP, INC.
 
 
/s/ Carolyn Pihera                BY: /s/ Allen Koranda
- ------------------------              -------------------------
Secretary                             Chief Executive Officer
 
 
 
WITNESS:
 
 
/s/ Michael J. Janssen                /s/ Gerard J. Buccino
- ------------------------              -------------------------
Seal                                  Executive

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                   AMENDMENT TO SPECIAL TERMINATION AGREEMENT
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                               OF GERARD BUCCINO
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The undersigned, in consideration of their mutual promises and other good and
valuable consideration, hereby agree to amend the Special Termination Agreement
of Gerard Buccino dated April 19, 1990 (the "Agreement") by adding the following
two new sentences to the end of Section 2(b) of the Agreement:


     However, notwithstanding anything contained in this section to the
     contrary, a Change in Control shall not be deemed to have occurred as a
     result of an event described in (i), (ii) or (iii) (a), (c) or (e) above
     which resulted from an acquisition or proposed acquisition of stock of the
     Holding Company by a person, as defined in the OTS' Acquisition of Control
     Regulations (12 C.F.R. (S) 574) (the "Control Regulations"), who was an
     executive officer of the Holding Company on January 19, 1990 and who has
     continued to serve as an executive officer of the Holding Company as of the
     date of the event described in (i), (ii) or (iii) (a), (c) or (e) above (an
     "incumbent officer").  In the event a group of individuals acting in
     concert satisfies the definition of "person" under the Control Regulations,
     the requirements of the preceding sentence shall be satisfied, and thus a
     change in control shall not be deemed to have occurred, if at least one
     individual in the group is an incumbent officer.


IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Amendment effective
this August 28, 1990.
 
 
ATTEST:                          MAF BANCORP, INC.
 
 
By: /s/  Carolyn Pihera         By: /s/  Allen Koranda
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    Carolyn Pihera                  Allen Koranda
    Corporate Secretary             Chairman of the Board
 
 
                                 EMPLOYEE
 
 
                                 By: /s/  Gerard J. Buccino
                                    -----------------------
                                     Gerard Buccino

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                   Amendment to Special Termination Agreement
                               of Gerard Buccino

The undersigned, in consideration of their mutual promises and other good and
valuable consideration, hereby agree to amend the Special Termination Agreement
of Gerard Buccino dated April 19, 1990, as amended, (the "Agreement"), by
revising the third paragraph of the Agreement as shown below, and by revising
Section 1 to read as shown below, all such amendments to be effective as of the
date shown below.

(Revised third paragraph)

WHEREAS, Executive has been elected to and has agreed to serve in the position
     of Vice President and Controller for the Holding Company, a position of
     substantial responsibility which will require Executive to render
     administrative and management services to the Holding Company such as are
     customarily performed by persons in a similar executive capacity;

(Revised Section 1)

1.   TERM OF AGREEMENT.
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The term of this Agreement shall be deemed to have commenced as of the date
first above written and shall continue for a period of thirty-six (36) full
calendar months thereafter.  At each anniversary date, the board of directors of
the Holding Company ("Board") may extend the Agreement an additional year. The
Board will review the Agreement and the Executive's performance annually for
purposes of determining whether to extend the Agreement, and the results thereof
shall be included in the minutes of the Board's meeting.  In the event the
Executive chooses not to renew the Agreement, the Executive shall provide the
Holding Company with written notice at least ten (10) days and not more than
twenty (20) days prior to such anniversary date.  If either the Holding Company
or the Executive chooses not to renew the Agreement for an additional period,
the Agreement shall cease at the end of its remaining term unless the
Executive's employment is voluntarily or involuntarily terminated with the
Holding Company pursuant to Section 2 hereof.



IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Amendment effective
this August 10, 1992.
 
 
ATTEST:                          MAF BANCORP, INC.
 

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By: /s/  Carolyn Pihera          By: /s/  Allen Koranda
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    Carolyn Pihera                   Allen Koranda
    Corporate Secretary              Chairman and CEO
 
 
                                 EMPLOYEE
 
 
                                 By: /s/  Gerard J. Buccino
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                                     Gerard Buccino

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                   Amendment to Special Termination Agreement
                               of Gerard Buccino

The undersigned, in consideration of their mutual promises and other good and
valuable consideration, hereby agree to amend the Employment Agreement of Gerard
Buccino dated April 19, 1990, as amended, (the "Agreement"), as shown below.
Such amendments shall be effective as of the date shown below.

1.   Section 3(a) shall be revised to read as follows:

     Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, followed at any time during the
     term of this Agreement by the voluntary or involuntary termination of
     Executive's employment, other than for Termination for Cause, the Bank and
     the Holding Company shall pay Executive, or in the event of his subsequent
     death, his beneficiary or beneficiaries, or his estate, as the case may be,
     as severance pay or liquidated damages, or both, a sum equal to three (3)
     times the average annual compensation paid to Executive for the
     three (3) years immediately preceding Executive's termination. For
     purposes of the preceding sentence, compensation shall include only base
     salary plus payments made under the MAF Bancorp Executive Annual Incentive
     Plan (or such other annual cash incentive plan in effect with respect to
     years ending prior to July 1, 1993). At the discretion of Executive,
     upon an election pursuant to Section 3(e) hereof, such payment may be made
     in a lump sum immediately upon severance of Executive's employment or paid,
     on a pro rata basis, semi-monthly during the thirty-six (36) months
     following Executive's termination.


IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Amendment effective
this December 20, 1995.
 
 
ATTEST:                          MAF BANCORP, INC.
 
 
By: /s/  Carolyn Pihera          By: /s/  Allen Koranda
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    Carolyn Pihera                   Allen Koranda
    Corporate Secretary              Chief Executive Officer
 
 
                                 EMPLOYEE
 
  
                                 By: /s/  Gerard J. Buccino
                                     ----------------------
                                     Gerard Buccino
 

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