Sound Federal Bancorp
                              300 Mamaroneck Avenue
                           Mamaroneck, New York 10543
                                 (914) 698-6400

                    NOTICE OF SPECIAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                         To Be Held On December 30, 2002

     Notice  is  hereby  given  that a  Special  Meeting  of  Stockholders  (the
"Meeting") of Sound Federal  Bancorp (the  "Company")  will be held at the Hyatt
Regency-Greenwich,  1800 East Putnam Avenue,  Greenwich,  Connecticut,  at 11:00
a.m., local time, on December 30, 2002. As of the date hereof,  the Company owns
100% of the common  stock of Sound  Federal  Savings and Loan  Association  (the
"Bank")  and is  majority-owned  by  Sound  Federal,  MHC (the  "Mutual  Holding
Company").

         A Proxy Statement and Proxy Card for the Meeting are enclosed.

         The Meeting is for the purpose of considering and acting upon:

     1. A plan of conversion and  reorganization  (the "Plan") pursuant to which
the Mutual Holding Company will be merged into the Bank, and the Company will be
succeeded by Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc., a Delaware  corporation that has been
established for the purpose of completing the conversion and reorganization.  As
described  in the  enclosed  material,  the  rights of  stockholders  of the new
Delaware corporation will be more limited than the rights stockholders currently
have. The differences in stockholder rights include the following:  (i) approval
by at least 80% of the  outstanding  shares is required to remove a director for
cause; (ii) stockholders may not call special meetings;  (iii) greater lead time
is required for stockholders to submit stockholder  proposals;  (iv) approval by
at least 80% of  outstanding  shares is  required  to amend the  certificate  of
incorporation and bylaws; (v) a residency requirement exists for directors;  and
(vi)  approval  by at least 80% of  outstanding  shares is  required  to approve
business  combinations  involving  an  interested  stockholder.  As  part of the
conversion and  reorganization,  shares of common stock  representing the Mutual
Holding Company's  ownership interest in the Company will be offered for sale in
a subscription  and community  offering by Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.  Common
stock of the Company currently held by public stockholders will be exchanged for
new shares  pursuant to an exchange ratio that will ensure that  stockholders at
the time of the exchange will own the same percentage of Sound Federal  Bancorp,
Inc. after the  conversion  and  reorganization  as was held  immediately  prior
thereto,  exclusive of any shares  purchased by the  stockholder in the offering
and cash received in lieu of fractional shares;

and  such  other  matters  as may  properly  come  before  the  Meeting,  or any
adjournments thereof. The Board of Directors is not aware of any other business
to come before the Meeting.

     Any action may be taken on the  foregoing  proposal  at the  Meeting on the
date  specified  above,  or on any date or dates to which by  original  or later
adjournment the Meeting may be adjourned. Stockholders of record at the close of
business  on  November  5,  2002 are the  stockholders  entitled  to vote at the
Meeting, and any adjournments thereof.

     EACH  STOCKHOLDER,  WHETHER  HE OR SHE  PLANS TO  ATTEND  THE  MEETING,  IS
REQUESTED TO SIGN, DATE, AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED PROXY CARD WITHOUT DELAY IN THE
ENCLOSED  POSTAGE-PAID  ENVELOPE.  ANY  PROXY  GIVEN BY THE  STOCKHOLDER  MAY BE
REVOKED  AT ANY TIME  BEFORE IT IS  EXERCISED.  A PROXY MAY BE REVOKED BY FILING
WITH THE SECRETARY OF THE COMPANY A WRITTEN  REVOCATION OR A DULY EXECUTED PROXY
BEARING A LATER DATE. ANY  STOCKHOLDER  PRESENT AT THE MEETING MAY REVOKE HIS OR
HER PROXY  AND VOTE  PERSONALLY  ON EACH  MATTER  BROUGHT  BEFORE  THE  MEETING.
HOWEVER,  IF YOU ARE A STOCKHOLDER  WHOSE SHARES ARE NOT  REGISTERED IN YOUR OWN
NAME, YOU WILL NEED ADDITIONAL DOCUMENTATION FROM YOUR RECORD HOLDER IN ORDER TO
VOTE PERSONALLY AT THE MEETING.

                               By Order of the Board of Directors

                               /a/ Anthony J. Fabiano
                               ----------------------
                               Anthony J. Fabiano
                               Corporate Secretary
Mamaroneck, New York
November 12, 2002

     IMPORTANT: A SELF-ADDRESSED  ENVELOPE IS ENCLOSED FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE.  NO
POSTAGE IS REQUIRED IF MAILED WITHIN THE UNITED STATES.




                              QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
                    FOR STOCKHOLDERS OF SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP

You should read this document and the accompanying  prospectus (which includes a
detailed index) for more  information  about the conversion and  reorganization.
The  plan  of  conversion   and   reorganization   described   herein  has  been
conditionally approved by our regulators.

Q.   WHAT ARE STOCKHOLDERS BEING ASKED TO APPROVE?

A.   Sound Federal  Bancorp  stockholders as of November 5, 2002 are being asked
     to vote on the plan of conversion and reorganization. Pursuant to the plan,
     Sound Federal, MHC will convert from the mutual holding company form to the
     stock  form  of  organization  (the   "Conversion")  and  as  part  of  the
     Conversion,  we will offer for sale Sound Federal, MHC's ownership interest
     in Sound Federal Bancorp.

Q.   WHAT ARE REASONS FOR THE MUTUAL-TO-STOCK CONVERSION AND RELATED
     OFFERING?

A.   The primary reasons for the Conversion are to (i) obtain additional capital
     to support  internal growth by increasing our lending in the communities we
     serve,  (ii)  continue  our  expansion  within  our  market  area  and  the
     contiguous  counties,  (iii) enhance  stockholder  returns  through  higher
     earnings  and  more  flexible  capital   management   strategies  and  (iv)
     facilitate  acquisitions of other financial  institutions as  opportunities
     arise. We do not now have any specific acquisition or expansion plans.

Q.   WHAT WILL  STOCKHOLDERS  RECEIVE FOR THEIR EXISTING  SOUND FEDERAL  BANCORP
     SHARES?

A.   As  more  fully   described  in  the  prospectus   section   entitled  "The
     Conversion,"  depending on the number of shares sold in the offering,  each
     share of common stock that you own upon  completion of the Conversion  will
     be  exchanged  for between  1.7782 new shares at the minimum and 2.4058 new
     shares at the maximum of the offering range of Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc.
     common stock (though cash will be paid in lieu of fractional shares).

Q.   WHY WILL THE SHARES  THAT I RECEIVE BE BASED ON A PRICE OF $10.00 PER SHARE
     RATHER THAN THE TRADING PRICE OF THE COMMON STOCK PRIOR TO THE CONVERSION?

A.   The Board of Directors of Sound Federal Bancorp  selected a price of $10.00
     per share for the stock offered for sale because it is a commonly  selected
     per share price for mutual-to-stock  conversions of financial institutions.
     The  number of new shares  you  receive  for your  existing  Sound  Federal
     Bancorp shares does not depend on the market price of Sound Federal Bancorp
     common stock.  It will depend on the number of shares sold in the offering,
     which will in turn  depend on the final  independent  appraisal  of the pro
     forma market value of Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc.  assuming  completion of
     the  Conversion  and  offering.  The  result  will  be that  each  existing
     stockholder  will own the same  percentage of Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.
     after the Conversion as was held just prior  thereto,  exclusive of (i) any
     shares  purchased by the stockholder in the offering and (ii) cash received
     in lieu of fractional shares.

Q.   SHOULD I SUBMIT MY STOCK CERTIFICATES NOW?

A.   No. If you hold your stock certificate(s),  instructions for exchanging the
     shares  will be sent to you after  completion  of the  Conversion.  If your
     shares are held in "street  name,"  rather than in  certificate  form,  the
     share exchange will occur automatically upon completion of the Conversion.

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Q.   WILL MY DIVIDENDS DECREASE?

A.   Sound Federal Bancorp currently pays a cash dividend of $0.09 per
     quarter  or $0.36 per share per year.  After the  Conversion,  we
     intend to continue to pay cash dividends on a quarterly basis. We
     expect to pay a dividend  equal to $0.20 per share per year.  The
     amount of  dividends  that we intend to pay after the  Conversion
     will  approximately  preserve or increase the per share  dividend
     amount,  as adjusted to reflect the  exchange  ratio,  that Sound
     Federal Bancorp stockholders currently receive.

Q.   IF  MY  SHARES   ARE  HELD  IN  STREET   NAME,   WILL  MY  BROKER
     AUTOMATICALLY VOTE ON MY BEHALF?

A.   No.  Your  broker  will not be able to vote your  shares  without
     instructions  from you. You should  instruct  your broker to vote
     your shares,  using the directions  that your broker  provides to
     you.

Q.   WHAT IF I DO NOT GIVE VOTING INSTRUCTIONS TO MY BROKER?

A.   Your vote is  important.  If you do not  instruct  your broker to
     vote your shares,  the unvoted proxy will have the same effect as
     a vote against the plan of conversion and reorganization.

Q.   MAY I PLACE AN ORDER  TO  PURCHASE  SHARES  IN THE  OFFERING,  IN
     ADDITION TO THE SHARES THAT I WILL RECEIVE IN THE EXCHANGE?

A.   Yes.   Eligible  Sound  Federal  Savings  and  Loan   Association
     depositors  have priority  subscription  rights  allowing them to
     purchase common stock in the  subscription  offering.  Shares not
     purchased in the subscription  offering may be available for sale
     to the public in a community offering,  as fully described in the
     prospectus.  Sound Federal Bancorp stockholders as of November 5,
     2002 have a preference  in the  community  offering.  If you hold
     your stock certificate(s), you were mailed a stock order form and
     order reply envelope with this document.  If you hold your shares
     in street name with a broker, you must call the stock information
     center  if you would  like to  receive a stock  order  form.  The
     telephone number is (914) 698-9241.


                                Other Questions?

     For answers to other  questions,  please read the proxy  statement  and the
prospectus.  Questions  about the  conversion,  the  offering  or voting  may be
directed to the stock  information  center by calling (914) 698-9241,  from 8:00
a.m. to 3:30 p.m.,  Monday through  Wednesday and Friday,  and 8:30 a.m. to 6:00
p.m. Thursday, New York time.

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                                 PROXY STATEMENT
                                       of
                              SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP
                              300 Mamaroneck Avenue
                           Mamaroneck, New York 10543
                                 (914) 698-6400

                         SPECIAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS

                                December 30, 2002

     This Proxy  Statement is furnished in connection  with the  solicitation of
proxies  on behalf of the  Board of  Directors  of Sound  Federal  Bancorp  (the
"Company"),  to be used at the Special  Meeting of  Stockholders  of the Company
(the "Meeting"), which will be held at Hyatt Regency-Greenwich, 1800 East Putnam
Avenue, Greenwich,  Connecticut, on December 30, 2002 at 11:00 a.m., local time,
and all  adjournments  thereof.  The  accompanying  Notice of Special Meeting of
Stockholders  and this Proxy Statement are first being mailed to stockholders on
or about November 22, 2002.

                              REVOCATION OF PROXIES


     Stockholders  who execute  proxies in the form solicited  hereby retain the
right to revoke  them in the manner  described  below.  Unless so  revoked,  the
shares  represented  by  such  proxies  will be  voted  at the  Meeting  and all
adjournments  thereof.  Proxies solicited on behalf of the Board of Directors of
the Company  will be voted in  accordance  with the  directions  given  thereon.
Please sign and return your Proxy in order for your vote to be counted. Where no
instructions are indicated, proxies, if signed, will be voted "FOR" the proposal
set forth in this Proxy Statement for consideration at the Meeting.

     Proxies  may be revoked  by sending  written  notice of  revocation  to the
Secretary  of the  Company,  at the  address  shown  above,  or by filing a duly
executed  proxy  bearing  a later  date.  The  presence  at the  Meeting  of any
stockholder  who had given a proxy  shall  not  revoke  such  proxy  unless  the
stockholder  delivers  his or her ballot in person at the  Meeting or delivers a
written  revocation  to the Secretary of the Company prior to the voting of such
proxy.

                 VOTING SECURITIES AND PRINCIPAL HOLDERS THEREOF


     Holders of record of the Company's common stock at the close of business on
November 5, 2002 (the  "Voting  Record  Date") are entitled to one vote for each
share of common stock held. As of the Voting Record Date,  there were  4,778,292
shares of common stock issued and  outstanding,  2,810,510 of which were held by
Sound Federal,  MHC (the "Mutual Holding Company"),  and 1,967,782 of which were
held  by   stockholders   other  than  the  Mutual  Holding   Company   ("Public
Stockholders"). The presence in person or by proxy of at least a majority of the
issued and  outstanding  shares of common stock entitled to vote is necessary to
constitute a quorum at the Meeting.

     Pursuant to Office of Thrift Supervision  ("OTS")  regulations and the plan
of conversion and reorganization  (the "Plan"),  completion of the conversion of
Sound  Federal,  MHC from the  mutual to the  stock  form of  organization  (the
"Conversion")  is  subject  to the  approval  of the  Plan  by the  OTS and by a
majority of the total votes eligible to be cast by members of the Mutual Holding
Company  (i.e.,  depositors and certain  borrowers of Sound Federal  Savings and
Loan Association (the "Bank")).  In addition,  the transactions  incident to the
Conversion  and  the  Plan  must  be  approved  by at  least  two-thirds  of the
outstanding  shares of common  stock,  and a  majority  of votes  cast by Public
Stockholders.  With  respect  to  the  required  affirmative  vote  of at  least
two-thirds of the  outstanding  shares of common stock,  abstentions  and broker
non-votes  will have the effect as a vote against the Plan.  With respect to the
required affirmative vote by a majority of votes cast by stockholders other than
the Mutual Holding  Company,  broker  non-votes will be considered as shares not
voted.  No proxy  that is voted  against  approval  of the Plan will be voted in
favor of adjournment to further solicit proxies.  The Mutual Holding Company has
indicated its intentions to vote all of its shares to approve the Plan.

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        PROPOSAL I--APPROVAL OF THE PLAN OF CONVERSION AND REORGANIZATION


     In  addition  to this Proxy  Statement,  you have  received as part of this
mailing a Prospectus  that  describes the Company,  the  Conversion  and related
offering. The Prospectus is incorporated by reference into this Proxy Statement.
Therefore,  you  should  carefully  read the  Prospectus  prior to voting on the
proposal to be presented at the Meeting. Details of the Conversion are addressed
in the Prospectus sections entitled "Summary" and "The Conversion."

     Following the  Conversion,  the Mutual Holding  Company will cease to exist
and therefore  will no longer  control a majority of the issued and  outstanding
shares of common  stock of the  Company.  Existing  Public  Stockholders  of the
Company,  a federal  corporation,  will  become  stockholders  of Sound  Federal
Bancorp,  Inc., a Delaware  corporation.  The rights of  stockholders of the new
Delaware corporation will be more limited than the rights stockholders currently
have. The  differences in stockholder  rights under the Delaware  certificate of
incorporation  and bylaws are not  mandated by Delaware law but have been chosen
by  management  as being  in the best  interests  of the  newly-formed  Delaware
corporation and all of its stockholders.

     The material differences are as follows:

1.   Approval  by at Least 80% of  Outstanding  Shares is  Required to
     Remove a Director for Cause.  Under the current  federal  bylaws,
     any  director  may be  removed  for  cause  by the  holders  of a
     majority of the outstanding voting shares. Sound Federal Bancorp,
     Inc.'s Delaware  certificate of  incorporation  provides that any
     director  may be removed for cause by the holders of at least 80%
     of the outstanding voting shares of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.

2.   Stockholders May Not Call Special  Meetings.  Special meetings of
     the Company's  current  stockholders may be called by the holders
     of not less  than  one-tenth  of the  outstanding  capital  stock
     entitled to vote at the meeting.  Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.'s
     Delaware  certificate  of  incorporation  provides  that  special
     meetings of the stockholders of Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc. may
     be  called  only  by a  majority  vote  of the  total  authorized
     directors.

3.   Greater  Lead  Time  is  Required  for   Stockholders  to  Submit
     Stockholder  Proposals.  The Company's current  stockholders must
     submit nominations for election of directors at an annual meeting
     of  stockholders  and any new  business  to be taken up at such a
     meeting by filing the  proposal  in writing  with the  Company at
     least  five  days  before  the  date of any such  meeting.  Sound
     Federal  Bancorp,   Inc.'s  Delaware  bylaws  generally  provide,
     however,  that any stockholder  desiring to make a nomination for
     the  election of  directors  or a proposal  for new business at a
     meeting  of  stockholders  must  submit  written  notice to Sound
     Federal  Bancorp,  Inc. at least 90 days prior to the anniversary
     date of the mailing of proxy  materials  in  connection  with the
     immediately preceding annual meeting of stockholders.

4.   Approval  by at Least 80% of  Outstanding  Shares is  Required to
     Amend the Certificate of Incorporation  and Bylaws.  No amendment
     of the  current  federal  stock  charter may be made unless it is
     first  proposed by the Board of Directors  of the  Company,  then
     preliminarily approved by the OTS, and thereafter approved by the
     holders of a majority of the total votes eligible to be cast at a
     legal meeting. Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.'s Delaware certificate
     of  incorporation  may be amended by the vote of the holders of a
     majority of the outstanding shares of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.
     common stock,  except that the  provisions of the  certificate of
     incorporation  governing the calling of meetings of  stockholders
     and the prohibition of action by written consent of stockholders,
     stockholder  nominations  and  proposals,  limitations  on voting
     rights of 10%  stockholders,  the number and  staggered  terms of
     directors,  vacancies  on the Board of  Directors  and removal of
     directors,    approval   of   certain   business    combinations,
     indemnification  of  officers  and  directors,  and the manner of
     amending the certificate of incorporation and bylaws,  may not be
     repealed, altered, amended or rescinded except by the vote of the
     holders  of at  least  80% of the  outstanding  shares  of  Sound
     Federal Bancorp, Inc.

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The Company's federal bylaws may be amended by a majority vote of the full Board
of  Directors  of the  Company  or by a  majority  vote of the votes cast by the
stockholders of the Company at any legal meeting. Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc.'s
Delaware bylaws may only be amended by a majority vote of the Board of Directors
of  Sound  Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.  or by the  holders  of at  least  80% of the
outstanding stock of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.

5.   Residency   Requirement  Exists  for  Directors.   Sound  Federal
     Bancorp,  Inc.'s  Delaware  bylaws  provide that only persons who
     reside or work in a county in which the Bank  maintains an office
     or in a county contiguous to a county in which the Bank maintains
     an office will be  qualified  to be  appointed  or elected to the
     Board of Directors of Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc. The Company's
     federal bylaws have no similar provision.

6.   Approval  by at Least 80% of  Outstanding  Shares is  Required to
     Approve   Business    Combinations    Involving   an   Interested
     Stockholder.  Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc.'s Delaware certificate
     of incorporation requires the approval of the holders of at least
     80% of Sound Federal Bancorp's outstanding shares of voting stock
     to  approve   certain   "Business   Combinations"   involving  an
     "Interested   Stockholder"   except   where   (i)  the   proposed
     transaction has been approved by two-thirds of the members of the
     Board of  Directors  who are  unaffiliated  with  the  Interested
     Stockholder  and who were  directors  prior to the time  when the
     Interested Stockholder became an Interested Stockholder,  or (ii)
     certain  "fair  price"  provisions  are complied  with.  The term
     "Interested  Stockholder"  includes any individual,  corporation,
     partnership  or other entity,  other than Sound Federal  Bancorp,
     Inc. or its  subsidiary,  which owns  beneficially  or  controls,
     directly or indirectly,  10% or more of the outstanding shares of
     voting stock of Sound  Federal  Bancorp,  Inc. or an affiliate of
     such  person or entity.  The  Company's  federal  bylaws  have no
     similar provision.

     The Company's  Board of Directors  believes that the  provisions  described
above are  prudent  and upon  consummation  of the  Conversion  will  reduce its
vulnerability to takeover attempts and certain other  transactions that have not
been  negotiated with and approved by its Board of Directors.  These  provisions
will also assist Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc. in the orderly  deployment of the
Conversion  proceeds into productive  assets during the initial period after the
Conversion.  The Board of Directors  believes  these  provisions are in the best
interests of the Company and its stockholders.  The Board of Directors  believes
that it will be in the  best  position  to  determine  the  true  value of Sound
Federal  Bancorp,  Inc. and to negotiate more effectively for what may be in the
best interests of its stockholders. Accordingly, the Board of Directors believes
that  it is in the  best  interests  of  Sound  Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.  and its
stockholders  to encourage  potential  acquirers to negotiate  directly with the
Board of Directors of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc. and that these provisions will
encourage such negotiations and discourage hostile takeover attempts. It is also
the view of the Board of Directors that these  provisions  should not discourage
persons from proposing a merger or other  transaction  at a price  reflective of
the true value of Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc. and that is in the best interests
of all stockholders.

     Takeover  attempts that have not been  negotiated  with and approved by the
Board of  Directors  present  the risk of a  takeover  on terms that may be less
favorable than might  otherwise be available.  A transaction  that is negotiated
and  approved by the Board of  Directors,  on the other hand,  can be  carefully
planned and  undertaken at an opportune time in order to obtain maximum value of
Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc. for its stockholders,  with due consideration given
to matters such as the management and business of the acquiring  corporation and
maximum strategic development of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.'s assets.

     Although a tender  offer or other  takeover  attempt may be made at a price
substantially above the current market price, such offers are sometimes made for
less  than all of the  outstanding  shares  of a target  company.  As a  result,
stockholders  may be presented  with the  alternative  of partially  liquidating
their  investment  at a time that may be  disadvantageous,  or  retaining  their
investment  in an  enterprise  that is  under  different  management  and  whose
objectives may not be similar to those of the remaining stockholders.

     Despite the Board of Directors'  belief as to the benefits to  stockholders
of these  provisions of Sound Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.'s Delaware  certificate of
incorporation  and  bylaws,  these  provisions  may  also  have  the  effect  of
discouraging a future  takeover  attempt that would not be approved by the Board
of  Directors,  but  pursuant to which  stockholders  may receive a  substantial
premium  for  their  shares  over  then  current  market  prices.  As a  result,
stockholders  who might desire to participate in such a transaction may not have
any  opportunity to do so. Such  provisions  will also make it more difficult to
remove our Board of Directors and management.  The Board of Directors,  however,
has concluded that the potential benefits outweigh the possible disadvantages.

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     See "Comparison Of Stockholders'  Rights" in the enclosed  Prospectus for a
complete discussion of the material differences to stockholders.

                        DISSENTERS' AND APPRAISAL RIGHTS

     Under OTS regulations,  stockholders  will not have  dissenters'  rights or
appraisal  rights in  connection  with the  exchange of their  common  stock for
shares of common stock of Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc.  pursuant to the exchange
ratio described in the Prospectus.

                                  OTHER MATTERS

     The Board of  Directors  is not aware of any  business  to come  before the
Meeting other than the matters described above in this Proxy Statement. However,
if any matters  should  properly  come before the Meeting,  it is intended  that
holders  of the  proxies  will act as  directed  by a  majority  of the Board of
Directors, except for matters related to the conduct of the Meeting, as to which
they shall act in accordance with their best judgment.

     The Plan sets forth the terms,  conditions,  and provisions of the proposed
Conversion.  The  certificate  of  incorporation  and bylaws of the new Delaware
corporation are exhibits to the Plan. If you would like to receive an additional
copy  of  the  Prospectus,  or a  copy  of  the  Plan  and  the  certificate  of
incorporation and bylaws of the new Delaware corporation,  you must request such
materials in writing,  addressed to the  Secretary of the Company at the address
given  above.  Such  requests  must be  received  by the  Company  no later than
December  16,  2002.  If the Company does not receive your request by such date,
you will not be entitled to have such materials mailed to you.

     To the extent  necessary  to permit  approval  of the Plan,  proxies may be
solicited by officers, directors, or regular employees of the Company and/or the
Bank, in person, by telephone,  or through other forms of communication  and, if
necessary,  the Meeting may be adjourned  to a later date.  Such persons will be
reimbursed  by the Company  and/or the Bank for their  reasonable  out-of-pocket
expenses, including, but not limited to, telephone and postage expenses incurred
in  connection  with such  solicitation.  The  Company  and/or the Bank have not
retained a proxy  solicitation  firm to provide advisory  services in connection
with the  solicitation  of proxies.  The cost of solicitation of proxies will be
borne by the  Company.  The Company  will  reimburse  brokerage  firms and other
custodians,  nominees,  and fiduciaries for reasonable expenses incurred by them
in sending proxy materials to the beneficial owners of common stock.

     YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT! THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS THAT YOU VOTE FOR
THE PLAN. THIS PROXY STATEMENT IS NOT AN OFFER TO SELL OR THE SOLICITATION OF AN
OFFER TO BUY SHARES IN THE OFFERING.  THE OFFER IS MADE ONLY BY THE  PROSPECTUS.

                                BY THE ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS


                               /s/ Anthony J. Fabiano
                               --------------------
                               Anthony J. Fabiano
                               Corporate Secretary
Mamaroneck, New York
November 12, 2002

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                                 REVOCABLE PROXY

                              SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP
                         SPECIAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                December 30, 2002

     The  undersigned  hereby  appoints the full Board of  Directors,  with full
powers of  substitution  to act as attorneys and proxies for the  undersigned to
vote all shares of Common Stock of Sound Federal Bancorp (the  "Company")  which
the  undersigned  is  entitled  to vote at a  Special  Meeting  of  Stockholders
("Meeting") to be held at the Hyatt Regency-Greenwich,  1800 East Putnam Avenue,
Greenwich,  Connecticut,  at 11:00 a.m.,  local Time, on December 30, 2002.  The
official  proxy  committee  is  authorized  to  cast  all  votes  to  which  the
undersigned is entitled as follows:

                                                        FOR   AGAINST   ABSTAIN

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1.  A plan of conversion and  reorganization  pursuant to which Sound
    Federal,  MHC will be merged into Sound Federal  Savings and Loan
    Association,  and the Company will be succeeded by Sound  Federal
    Bancorp,  Inc., a Delaware  corporation that has been established
    for the purpose of completing the conversion and  reorganization.
    As described in the enclosed material, the rights of stockholders
    of the new  Delaware  corporation  will be more  limited than the
    rights   stockholders   currently   have.   The   differences  in
    stockholder  rights  include the  following:  (i)  approval by at
    least 80% of outstanding  shares is required to remove a director
    for cause; (ii) stockholders may not call special meetings; (iii)
    greater  lead  time  is  required  for   stockholders  to  submit
    stockholder   proposals;   (iv)  approval  by  at  least  80%  of
    outstanding  shares  is  required  to amend  the  certificate  of
    incorporation and bylaws; (v) a residency  requirement exists for
    directors; (vi) approval by at least 80% of outstanding shares is
    required to approve business combinations involving an interested
    stockholder.  As part of the  conversion,  shares of common stock
    representing the Sound Federal,  MHC's ownership  interest in the
    Company will be offered for sale in a subscription  and community
    offering  by Sound  Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.  Common  stock of the
    Company  currently held by public  stockholders will be exchanged
    for new shares  pursuant  to an  exchange  ratio that will ensure
    that  stockholders  at the time of the exchange will own the same
    percentage of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc. after the conversion as
    was held  immediately  prior  thereto,  exclusive  of any  shares
    purchased by the stockholder in the offering and cash received in
    lieu of fractional shares.


The Board of Directors recommends a vote "FOR" the listed proposal.

IF SIGNED,  THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED AS  DIRECTED,  BUT IF NO  INSTRUCTIONS  ARE
SPECIFIED,  THIS  PROXY,  IF SIGNED,  WILL BE VOTED FOR THE  PROPOSITION  STATED
ABOVE.  IF ANY OTHER  BUSINESS IS PRESENTED AT SUCH MEETING,  THIS PROXY WILL BE
VOTED BY THE ABOVE-NAMED  PROXIES AT THE DIRECTION OF A MAJORITY OF THE BOARD OF
DIRECTORS.  AT THE  PRESENT  TIME,  THE  BOARD  OF  DIRECTORS  KNOWS OF NO OTHER
BUSINESS TO BE PRESENTED AT THE MEETING.






                THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS


     Should the  undersigned  be present  and elect to vote at the Meeting or at
any adjournment  thereof and after  notification to the Secretary of the Company
at the Meeting of the  stockholder's  decision to terminate this proxy, then the
power of said attorneys and proxies shall be deemed terminated and of no further
force and effect.  This proxy may also be revoked by sending  written  notice to
the  Secretary  of the Company at the address set forth on the Notice of Special
Meeting of Stockholders, or by the filing of a later-dated proxy prior to a vote
being taken on a particular proposal at the Meeting.



Dated: _________________, 2002


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PRINT NAME OF STOCKHOLDER                     PRINT NAME OF STOCKHOLDER


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SIGNATURE OF STOCKHOLDER                      SIGNATURE OF STOCKHOLDER


     Please sign  exactly as your name  appears on this proxy.  When  signing as
attorney, executor,  administrator,  trustee, or guardian, please give your full
title. If shares are held jointly, each holder should sign.



        Please complete, date and sign this proxy and return it promptly
                     in the enclosed postage-paid envelope.