July 8, 2004


Dear Stockholder:

We are  pleased to invite you to attend the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders  of
Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc. (the "Company").  The Annual Meeting will be held at
the Company's  corporate offices at 1311 Mamaroneck  Avenue,  White Plains,  New
York at 4:00 p. m., (local time) on August 12, 2004.

The enclosed  Notice of Annual Meeting and Proxy  Statement  describe the formal
business to be transacted.

At the  Annual  Meeting,  stockholders  will be  given an  opportunity  to elect
directors  and to  ratify  the  appointment  of  KPMG  LLP as  auditors  for the
Company's  2005 fiscal year.  The Board of  Directors  has  determined  that the
matters to be considered  at the Annual  Meeting are in the best interest of the
Company and its stockholders.  For the reasons set forth in the proxy statement,
the Board of  Directors  unanimously  recommends  a vote "FOR" each matter to be
considered.

On behalf of the Board of  Directors,  we urge you to sign,  date and return the
enclosed  proxy card as soon as possible,  even if you currently  plan to attend
the Annual Meeting.  Your vote is important,  regardless of the number of shares
that you own.  Voting by proxy will not prevent  you from voting in person,  but
will assure that your vote is counted if you are unable to attend the meeting.


Sincerely,

/s/ Richard P. McStravick

Richard P. McStravick
President and Chief Executive Officer




                           Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.
                             1311 Mamaroneck Avenue
                          White Plains, New York 10605
                                 (914) 761-3636

                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                          To Be Held On August 12, 2004

         Notice  is  hereby  given  that the  Annual  Meeting  of Sound  Federal
Bancorp, Inc. (the "Company") will be held at the Company's corporate offices at
1311 Mamaroneck Avenue, White Plains, New York on August 12, 2004 at 4:00 p. m.,
local time.

         A Proxy Card and a Proxy Statement for the Annual Meeting are enclosed.

         The Annual Meeting is for the purpose of considering and acting upon:

         1.       The election of three directors of the Company;

         2.       The  ratification  of the  appointment of KPMG LLP as auditors
                  for the Company for the fiscal year ending March 31, 2005; and

Such other  matters as may  properly  come  before  the Annual  Meeting,  or any
adjournments  thereof. The Board of Directors is not aware of any other business
to come before the Annual Meeting.

         Any  action  may be  taken on the  foregoing  proposals  at the  Annual
Meeting on the date specified  above,  including all  adjournments of the Annual
Meeting.  Stockholders  of record at the close of  business on June 21, 2004 are
the  stockholders  entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting,  and any adjournments
thereof.  A list of stockholders  entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting will be
available for inspection at our corporate  office for a period of ten days prior
to the Annual  Meeting and will also be available  for  inspection at the Annual
Meeting.

         EACH STOCKHOLDER, WHETHER HE OR SHE PLANS TO ATTEND THE ANNUAL MEETING,
IS REQUESTED TO SIGN,  DATE AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED  PROXY CARD WITHOUT DELAY IN
THE ENCLOSED  POSTAGE-PAID  ENVELOPE.  ANY PROXY GIVEN BY THE STOCKHOLDER MAY BE
REVOKED  AT ANY TIME  BEFORE IT IS  EXERCISED.  A PROXY MAY BE REVOKED BY FILING
WITH THE SECRETARY OF THE COMPANY A WRITTEN  REVOCATION OR A DULY EXECUTED PROXY
BEARING A LATER DATE. ANY  STOCKHOLDER  PRESENT AT THE ANNUAL MEETING MAY REVOKE
HIS OR HER PROXY AND VOTE  PERSONALLY ON EACH MATTER  BROUGHT  BEFORE THE ANNUAL
MEETING.  HOWEVER,  IF YOU ARE A STOCKHOLDER  WHOSE SHARES ARE NOT REGISTERED IN
YOUR OWN NAME, YOU WILL NEED ADDITIONAL DOCUMENTATION FROM YOUR RECORD HOLDER IN
ORDER TO VOTE PERSONALLY AT THE ANNUAL MEETING.

                                              By Order of the Board of Directors

                                              /s/ Anthony J. Fabiano

                                              Anthony J. Fabiano
                                              Corporate Secretary


White Plains, New York
July 8, 2004


IMPORTANT:  A  SELF-ADDRESSED  ENVELOPE IS  ENCLOSED  FOR YOUR  CONVENIENCE.  NO
POSTAGE IS REQUIRED IF MAILED WITHIN THE UNITED STATES.




                                 PROXY STATEMENT

                           SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP, INC.
                             1311 Mamaroneck Avenue
                          White Plains, New York 10605
                                 (914) 761-3636

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                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                 August 12, 2004
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         This Proxy Statement is furnished in connection  with the  solicitation
of proxies on behalf of the Board of Directors of Sound  Federal  Bancorp,  Inc.
(the "Company"), to be used at the Annual Meeting of Stockholders of the Company
(the "Meeting"),  which will be held at the Company's  corporate offices at 1311
Mamaroneck  Avenue,  White Plains,  New York 10605 on August 12, 2004 at 4:00 p.
m., local time, and all adjournments  thereof. The accompanying Notice of Annual
Meeting of  Stockholders  and this Proxy  Statement  are first  being  mailed to
stockholders on or about July 8, 2004.

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                              REVOCATION OF PROXIES
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         Stockholders  who execute  proxies in the form solicited  hereby retain
the right to revoke them in the manner described below.  Unless so revoked,  the
shares  represented  by  such  proxies  will be  voted  at the  Meeting  and all
adjournments  thereof.  Proxies solicited on behalf of the Board of Directors of
the Company will be voted in accordance with the directions given thereon. Where
no  instructions  are  indicated,  proxies will be voted "FOR" the proposals set
forth in this Proxy Statement for consideration at the Meeting.

         The Board of  Directors  knows of no  additional  matters  that will be
presented  for  consideration  at the Meeting.  Execution  of a proxy,  however,
confers on the  designated  proxy  holders  discretionary  authority to vote the
shares in accordance  with their best judgment on such other  business,  if any,
that may properly come before the Meeting or any adjournments thereof.

         Proxies may be revoked by sending  written  notice of revocation to the
Secretary of the Company,  at the address of the Company  shown above,  voting a
later  dated  proxy,  or by  attending  the  Meeting  and voting in person.  The
presence  at the  Meeting  of any  stockholder  who had given a proxy  shall not
revoke such proxy unless the stockholder delivers his or her ballot in person at
the Meeting or delivers a written  revocation  to the  Secretary  of the Company
prior to the  voting of such  proxy.  However,  if you are a  stockholder  whose
shares are not registered in your name, you will need appropriate documents from
your record holder to vote personally at the Meeting.

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                 VOTING SECURITIES AND PRINCIPAL HOLDERS THEREOF
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         Holders of record of the  Company's  common  stock,  par value $.01 per
share (the  "Common  Stock"),  as of the close of business on June 21, 2004 (the
"Record  Date") are  entitled  to one vote for each  share then held.  As of the
Record  Date,  the  Company had  12,549,541  shares of Common  Stock  issued and
outstanding. The presence in person or by proxy of a majority of the outstanding
shares of Common Stock  entitled to vote is necessary to  constitute a quorum at
the Meeting.  Broker  non-votes and proxies  marked  abstain will be counted for
purposes of  determining  that a quorum is  present.  In the event there are not
sufficient  votes  for a  quorum,  or to  approve  or ratify  any  matter  being
presented at the time of the  Meeting,  the Meeting may be adjourned in order to
permit further solicitation of proxies.

         Directors are elected by a plurality of the shares voted at the Meeting
without regard to broker  non-votes or proxies as to which the authority to vote
is being withheld.  The  ratification of auditors must be approved by a majority
of the shares voted at the Meeting without regard to broker non-votes or proxies
marked "abstain."

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         In accordance with the provisions of the  Certificate of  Incorporation
of the Company, record holders of Common Stock who beneficially own in excess of
10% of the outstanding  shares of Common Stock (the "Limit") are not entitled to
any vote with respect to the shares held in excess of the Limit.  The  Company's
Certificate of  Incorporation  authorizes the Board of Directors (i) to make all
determinations necessary to implement and apply the Limit, including determining
whether  persons or entities are acting in concert,  and (ii) to demand that any
person who is  reasonably  believed to  beneficially  own stock in excess of the
Limit  supply  information  to the Company to enable the Board of  Directors  to
implement and apply the Limit.

         As to the election of directors,  the proxy card being  provided by the
Board  of  Directors  enables  a  stockholder  to vote FOR the  election  of the
nominees proposed by the Board of Directors or to WITHHOLD AUTHORITY to vote for
the nominees being proposed. Directors are elected by a plurality of votes cast,
without  regard to either broker  non-votes or proxies as to which the authority
to vote for the nominees being proposed is withheld.

         As to the  ratification  of auditors,  the proxy card being provided by
the Board of Directors enables a stockholder to: (i) vote FOR the proposal; (ii)
vote AGAINST the proposal;  or (iii)  ABSTAIN from voting on the  proposal.  The
ratification of auditors must be approved by the affirmative  vote of a majority
of the votes cast without regard to broker non-votes or proxies marked ABSTAIN.

         Proxies  solicited  hereby  will be returned to the Company and will be
tabulated by an  Inspector  of Election  designated  by the  Company's  Board of
Directors.

         Persons and groups who  beneficially  own in excess of five  percent of
the Common Stock are required to file certain  reports with the  Securities  and
Exchange  Commission ("SEC") regarding such ownership pursuant to the Securities
Exchange Act of 1934 (the "Exchange Act").

         The following  table sets forth,  as of the Record Date,  the shares of
Common  Stock  beneficially  owned by named  executive  officers  and  directors
individually,  by executive officers and directors as a group and by each person
who was the  beneficial  owner  of  more  than  five  percent  of the  Company's
outstanding shares of Common Stock on the Record Date.



                                                        Amount of Shares                   Percent of Shares
             Name and Address of                        Owned and Nature                    of Common Stock
              Beneficial Owner                       of Beneficial Ownership                Outstanding (2)
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Significant Shareholders:
  Sound Federal Savings Employee Stock
  Ownership Plan and Trust
  1311 Mamaroneck Avenue
  White Plains, New York 10605                            1,123,654                               8.6%

Named Directors and Executive Officers:(1)

Bruno J. Gioffre (3)                                        272,976                               2.2

Richard P. McStravick (4)                                   357,911                               2.8

Roberta I. Bernhardt (5)                                     12,660                               0.1

Joseph Dinolfo (6)                                          143,411                               1.1

Donald H. Heithaus (7)                                      147,034                               1.2

Joseph A. Lanza (8)                                         124,085                               1.0

Eldorus Maynard (9)                                          77,536                               0.6

James Staudt (10)                                           109,481                               0.9

Samuel T. Telerico (11)                                      26,160                               0.2

Anthony J. Fabiano (12)                                     224,301                               1.8
                                                            -------                               ---

All executive officers and directors
  as a group (10 persons)                                   1,495,055                            11.5%
                                                            =========                            ====
_____________________________                                                                          (footnotes on following page)


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(1)      The  Company's  executive  officers and  directors  are also  executive
         officers and directors of Sound Federal Savings (the "Bank").

(2)      Calculated  as a percentage  of common  shares  outstanding  plus stock
         options that are exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(3)      Mr. Gioffre has sole voting power over 203,940 shares and shared voting
         power over 56,432 shares.  Includes  12,604 shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(4)      Mr.  McStravick  has sole voting power over  193,294  shares and shared
         voting power over 22,202 shares.  Includes  142,415  shares  underlying
         options exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(5)      Ms. Bernhardt has sole voting power over 4,826 shares and shared voting
         power over 1,500  shares.  Includes  6,334  shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(6)      Mr. Dinolfo has sole voting power over 98,342 shares.  Includes  45,069
         shares  underlying  options  exercisable  within 60 days of the  record
         date.

(7)      Mr. Heithaus has sole voting power over 69,026 shares and shared voting
         power over 42,939 shares.  Includes  35,069 shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(8)      Mr.  Lanza has sole voting power over 75,816  shares and shared  voting
         power over 3,200  shares.  Includes  45,069 shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(9)      Mr.  Maynard has sole voting power over 25,769 shares and shared voting
         power over 45,433  shares.  Includes  6,334 shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(10)     Mr.  Staudt has sole voting power over 60,818  shares and shared voting
         power over 3,594  shares.  Includes  45,069 shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(11)     Mr. Telerico has sole voting power over 19,526 shares and shared voting
         power  over  300  shares.  Includes  6,334  shares  underlying  options
         exercisable within 60 days of the record date.

(12)     Mr. Fabiano has sole voting power over 104,359 shares. Includes 119,942
         shares  underlying  options  exercisable  within 60 days of the  record
         date.

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                        PROPOSAL I--ELECTION OF DIRECTORS
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         The Company's  Board of Directors  currently  consists of nine members.
The Company's bylaws provide that  approximately  one-third of the directors are
to be elected annually.  Directors of the Company are generally elected to serve
for a three-year  period or until their  respective  successors  shall have been
elected and shall qualify.  Three directors will be elected at the Meeting.  The
Board of Directors has nominated to serve as directors  Joseph Dinolfo,  Eldorus
Maynard and Samuel T.  Telerico,  each to serve for a three-year  term.  Messrs.
Dinolfo, Maynard and Telerico are currently members of the Board of Directors.

         The  table  below  sets  forth   certain   information   regarding  the
composition of the Company's  Board of Directors,  including the terms of office
of Board  members.  It is intended  that the proxies  solicited on behalf of the
Board of  Directors  (other than proxies in which the vote is withheld as to one
or more  nominees) will be voted at the Meeting for the election of the nominees
identified  below. If any nominee is unable to serve, the shares  represented by
all such proxies will be voted for the election of such  substitute as the Board
of Directors may  recommend.  At this time,  the Board of Directors  knows of no
reason why any of the nominees might be unable to serve,  if elected.  Except as
indicated  herein,  there are no  arrangements  or  understandings  between  any
nominee and any other person  pursuant to which such nominee was  selected.  The
Board of  Directors  recommends  a vote "FOR" each of the  nominees for director
listed in this proxy statement.

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                                                                                                         Shares of
                                                                                                       Common Stock
                                                                                     Current           Beneficially
                                                                  Director            Term              Owned on the         Percent
         Name                 Age           Positions Held        Since (1)        to Expire            Record Date (2)     Of Class
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                                                      NOMINEES

                                                                                                              
Joseph Dinolfo                70               Director             1985               2004                143,411             1.1%

Eldorus Maynard               69               Director             2000               2004                 77,536             0.6%

Samuel T. Telerico            68               Director             2001               2004                 26,160             0.2%

                                           DIRECTORS CONTINUING IN OFFICE


Bruno J. Gioffre              69         Chairman of the Board      1975               2005                272,976             2.2%

James Staudt                  51               Director             1987               2005                109,481             0.9%

Richard P. McStravick         55           President, Chief         1996               2005                357,911             2.8%
                                           Executive Officer
                                             and Director

Donald H. Heithaus            69               Director             1978               2006                147,034             1.2%

Joseph A. Lanza               57               Director             1998               2006                124,085             1.0%

Roberta I. Bernhardt          65               Director             2003               2006                 12,160             0.1%
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(1)      Reflects  initial  appointment  to the Board of Directors of the Bank's
         mutual predecessor.
(2)      Includes shares underlying stock options  exercisable within 60 days of
         the Record Date.

         The principal occupation during the past five years of each director of
the Company is set forth below.  All directors and executive  officers have held
their present positions for all five years unless otherwise stated.

         Bruno J. Gioffre is the Chairman of the Board of Directors and has been
so since  December  1997. Mr. Gioffre is of counsel to the law firm of Gioffre &
Gioffre Professional Corporation and is a retired Senior Justice for the Town of
Rye, New York.

         Richard P. McStravick is President and Chief  Executive  Officer of the
Bank. Mr.  McStravick has been employed by the Bank in various  capacities since
1977. Mr. McStravick was appointed to the Board of Directors in 1996.

         Roberta  I.  Bernhardt,  CPA,  is a partner in the  accounting  firm of
Citrin Cooperman & Company, LLP.

         Joseph  Dinolfo is the retired  President of the Dinolfo Wilson Agency,
Inc. an insurance agency.

         Donald H. Heithaus is the President of the Happiness  Laundry  Service,
Inc.

         Joseph  A.  Lanza  is  the  President  of  Lanza  Electric,  a  private
electrical contractor.

         Eldorus  Maynard  is the  retired  Chairman  of  the  Board  and  Chief
Executive Officer of Peekskill Financial Corporation ("Peekskill").  Mr. Maynard
was employed by Peekskill  since 1958 and became a member of the Company's Board
of Directors in July 2000.


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         James Staudt is a partner with the law firm of McCullough, Goldberger &
Staudt, LLP. Mr. Staudt is also general counsel to the Bank.

         Samuel T. Telerico is a principal with Teleden Enterprises
International, an international trade and consulting firm. Mr. Telerico was
previously employed by American Can Company from 1960 until 1990.

Executive Officer Who Is Not A Director

         Anthony J. Fabiano is Senior Vice President,  Chief  Financial  Officer
and Corporate  Secretary of the Company.  He joined the Bank in July 1998. Prior
to joining the Bank, he was the Chief Financial Officer at MSB Bancorp, Inc.

Board Independence

         The  Board  of  Directors  has  determined  that  Directors  Bernhardt,
Dinolfo,  Heithaus,  Lanza,  Maynard  and  Telerico  are  each  an  "independent
director"  within  the  meaning  of  the  Nasdaq  corporate  governance  listing
standards.

Ownership Reports by Officers and Directors

         The  Common  Stock  is  registered  pursuant  to  Section  12(g) of the
Exchange Act. The officers and directors of the Company and beneficial owners of
greater than 10% of the  Company's  Common Stock ("10%  beneficial  owners") are
required to file reports on Forms 3, 4, and 5 with the SEC disclosing changes in
beneficial  ownership of the Common Stock.  SEC rules require  disclosure in the
Company's  Proxy  Statement  and Annual Report on Form 10-K of the failure of an
officer,  director or 10% beneficial owner of the Company's Common Stock to file
a Form 3, 4 or 5 on a timely  basis.  All Officers and  Directors of the Company
who are  required to file Forms 3, 4 and 5 filed  these forms on a timely  basis
except for a Form 4 for each of Joseph Dinolfo and Donald H. Heithaus.  The Form
4 for Joseph  Dinolfo was filed on May 10,  2003 and  reported  the  purchase of
7,971  shares on May 5,  2003.  The Form 4 for Donald H.  Heithaus  was filed on
December 23, 2003 and reported the purchase of 290 shares on May 11, 2000.

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                MEETINGS AND COMMITTEES OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS
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         The business of the Company's  Board of Directors is conducted  through
meetings and activities of the Board and its committees.  During the fiscal year
ended March 31, 2004,  the Board of Directors of the Company held 11 regular and
special  meetings.  During the year ended March 31, 2004,  no director  attended
fewer than 75 percent of the total  meetings  of the Board of  Directors  of the
Company or the Bank and committees on which such director  served.  Beginning in
fiscal year 2005,  independent  directors  of the Board of the Company will hold
regularly  scheduled  executive  sessions.  Although  the  Company has no formal
policy requiring board attendance at the annual meeting of stockholders,  all of
our directors attended last year's annual meeting.

         The  Executive   Committee  of  the  Bank,  which  also  acted  as  the
Compensation  Committee  during fiscal year 2004, met periodically to review the
performance of officers and employees and to determine compensation programs and
adjustments  for  recommendation  to the Board of Directors  of the Bank.  It is
comprised of Directors  Gioffre,  Staudt,  Heithaus and Dinolfo.  The  Executive
Committee  met three times  during the year ended March 31,  2004.  Beginning in
fiscal year 2005,  executive  compensation  will be  determined  by the Board of
Directors  based  on  recommendations  made  by a  majority  of the  independent
directors.

The Nominating and Corporate Governance Committee

         During  fiscal  year  2004,  the  Board  of  Directors  served  as  the
Nominating  Committee.  During the year ended March 31, 2004, one meeting of the
Nominating Committee was held. Beginning in fiscal year 2005, the Nominating and
Corporate  Governance  Committee  (the  "Nominating  Committee")  of the Company
consists  of  directors  Heithaus,  Dinolfo  and  Maynard.  Each  member  of the
Nominating  Committee  is  considered  "independent"


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as defined in the Nasdaq corporate  governance listing standards.  The Company's
Board of Directors  has adopted a written  charter for the  Committee,  which is
available at the Company's website at www.soundfed.com.

         The functions of the Nominating Committee include the following:

         o        to lead the search for individuals qualified to become members
                  of the  Board  and to  recommend  to the  Board  of  Directors
                  nominees to be presented for stockholder approval;

         o        to review and monitor  compliance  with the  requirements  for
                  board independence; and

         o        to review the committee structure and make  recommendations to
                  the Board regarding committee membership.

         The Nominating  Committee  identifies  nominees by first evaluating the
current  members of the Board of  Directors  willing  to  continue  in  service.
Current members of the Board with skills and experience that are relevant to the
Company's  business  and who are  willing  to  continue  in  service  are  first
considered  for  re-nomination,  balancing the value of continuity of service by
existing members of the Board with that of obtaining a new  perspective.  If any
member of the Board does not wish to continue  in service or retires,  or if the
Committee or the Board decides not to re-nominate a member for  re-election,  or
if the size of the Board is increased,  the Committee would solicit  suggestions
for director  candidates from all Board members.  In addition,  the Committee is
authorized   by  its   charter  to  engage  a  third  party  to  assist  in  the
identification  of director  nominees.  The Nominating  Committee  would seek to
identify a candidate who, at a minimum, satisfies the following criteria:

         o        has personal and  professional  ethics and integrity and whose
                  values are compatible with the Company's;

         o        has had  experiences and  achievements  that have given him or
                  her  the  ability  to  exercise  and  develop  good   business
                  judgment;

         o        is  willing to devote  the  necessary  time to the work of the
                  Board and its  committees,  which includes being available for
                  Board and committee meetings;

         o        is familiar with the communities in which the Company operates
                  and/or is actively engaged in community activities;

         o        is  involved  in other  activities  or  interests  that do not
                  create  a  conflict  with his or her  responsibilities  to the
                  Company and its stockholders; and

         o        has the capacity and desire to represent  the  balanced,  best
                  interests of the  stockholders of the Company as a group,  and
                  not primarily a special interest group or constituency.

         The  Nominating  Committee  will  also  take  into  account  whether  a
candidate  satisfies the criteria for "independence"  under the Nasdaq corporate
governance  listing  standards  and,  if a nominee is sought for  service on the
Audit  Committee,  the  financial  and  accounting  expertise  of  a  candidate,
including  whether  an  individual  qualifies  as an audit  committee  financial
expert.

Procedures for the Nomination of Directors by Shareholders

         The Nominating  Committee has adopted  procedures for the submission of
director nominees by stockholders. If a determination is made that an additional
candidate is needed for the Board of Directors,  the  Nominating  Committee will
consider candidates  submitted by the Company's  stockholders.  Stockholders can
submit  the  names of  qualified  candidates  for  Director  by  writing  to our
Corporate Secretary at 1311 Mamaroneck Avenue, White Plains, New York 10605. The
Corporate  Secretary  must receive a  submission  not less than ninety (90) days
prior to the date of the Company's  proxy  materials  for the  preceding  year's
annual meeting. The submission must include the following information:

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         o        the name and address of the  stockholder as they appear on the
                  Company's  books, and number of shares of the Company's common
                  stock that are owned  beneficially by such stockholder (if the
                  stockholder is not a holder of record, appropriate evidence of
                  the stockholder's ownership will be required);

         o        the name,  address and contact  information for the candidate,
                  and the number of shares of common  stock of the Company  that
                  are owned by the  candidate  (if the candidate is not a holder
                  of record, appropriate evidence of the stockholder's ownership
                  should be provided);

         o        a  statement  of  the  candidate's  business  and  educational
                  experience;

         o        such other  information  regarding  the  candidate as would be
                  required to be included in the proxy statement pursuant to SEC
                  Regulation 14A;

         o        a statement  detailing any relationship  between the candidate
                  and the Company;

         o        a statement  detailing any relationship  between the candidate
                  and any customer, supplier or competitor of the Company;

         o        detailed  information  about any relationship or understanding
                  between the proposing stockholder and the candidate; and

         o        a statement of the candidate  that the candidate is willing to
                  be considered  and willing to serve as a Director if nominated
                  and elected.

         A  nomination  submitted  by a  stockholder  for  presentation  by  the
stockholder at an annual meeting of stockholders must comply with the procedural
and  informational  requirements  described in "Advance Notice of Business to be
Conducted at an Annual Meeting."

Stockholder Communications with the Board

         A stockholder of the Company who wants to communicate with the Board of
Directors or with any individual  director can write to the Corporate  Secretary
of the  Company  at 1311  Mamaroneck  Avenue,  White  Plains,  New  York  10605,
Attention: Board Administration. The letter should indicate that the author is a
stockholder  and if shares are not held of record,  should  include  appropriate
evidence of stock ownership. Depending on the subject matter, management will:

         o        forward the communication to the director or directors to whom
                  it is addressed;

         o        attempt to handle the inquiry  directly,  for example where it
                  is a request  for  information  about the  Company  or it is a
                  stock-related matter; or

         o        not forward the communication if it is primarily commercial in
                  nature,  relates to an improper  or  irrelevant  topic,  or is
                  unduly    hostile,    threatening,    illegal   or   otherwise
                  inappropriate.

         At each  Board  meeting,  management  shall  present a  summary  of all
communications  received since the last meeting that were not forwarded and make
those communications available to the directors.

Code of Business Conduct and Ethics

         The  Company  has  adopted a Code of  Business  Conduct and Ethics (the
"Code") that is  applicable  to the  officers,  directors  and  employees of the
Company,   including  the  Company's  principal  executive  officer,   principal
financial  officer,  principal  accounting  officer  or  controller,  or persons
performing similar functions.  The Code is


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available  on the  Company's  website  at  www.soundfed.com.  Amendments  to and
waivers from the Code will also be disclosed on the Company's website.

The Audit and Compliance Committee

         The Audit and Compliance  Committee (the "Audit Committee") consists of
Directors Heithaus,  Bernhardt,  Maynard and Telerico. This committee meets on a
quarterly  basis and as otherwise  required to review audit programs and reports
as well as other regulatory  compliance  issues.  The Audit Committee's  primary
function  is to assist  the  Board of  Directors  in  fulfilling  its  oversight
responsibilities. The primary duties of the Audit Committee include, but are not
limited to, the following:

         o        Prepare the report of the Committee  included in the Company's
                  annual proxy statements;
         o        Serve as an  independent  and  objective  party to monitor the
                  Company's  financial  reporting  process and internal  control
                  systems;
         o        Retain  and  monitor  the  qualifications,   independence  and
                  performance of the Company's independent auditor; and
         o        Provide an open avenue of communication  among the independent
                  auditor,  senior management,  the internal auditing department
                  and the Board.

         Each member of the Audit Committee is  "independent"  as defined in the
Nasdaq  listing  standards and under SEC Rule 10A-3.  The Board of Directors has
determined that Ms. Bernhardt qualifies as an "audit committee financial expert"
as that term is used in the rules and  regulations  of the SEC,  primarily  as a
result of her profession as a certified public  accountant.  The Audit Committee
met five times during the year ended March 31, 2004.

         The Audit  Committee  reviews the contents of and  conclusions in audit
reports prepared by the internal auditor and the Company's independent auditors;
reviews  and  approves  the  annual  engagement  of  the  Company's  independent
auditors,  the Company's audit policy,  the internal audit function and the plan
of audit coverage;  and reviews with management,  and the Company's  independent
auditor, the Company's financial statements and internal controls. The Company's
Board of Directors has adopted a written  charter for the Audit Committee of the
Company,  the current  version of which is appended to this proxy  statement  as
Exhibit  A.  The  charter  also  is  available  on  the  Company's   website  at
www.soundfed.com.

Audit Committee Report

         The  Audit   Committee  of  the  Board  is  responsible  for  providing
independent,  objective  oversight of the  Company's  accounting  functions  and
internal controls. The Audit Committee operates under a written charter approved
by the Board of Directors.

         Management  is  responsible  for the  Company's  internal  controls and
financial  reporting  process.  The  independent  auditors are  responsible  for
performing  an  independent  audit  of  the  Company's   consolidated  financial
statements in accordance  with the  standards of the Public  Company  Accounting
Oversight  Board  (United  States)  and to issue a  report  thereon.  The  Audit
Committee's responsibility is to monitor and oversee these processes.

         In connection with these responsibilities, the Audit Committee met with
management  and KPMG LLP, the  independent  auditing  firm for the  Company,  to
review and discuss the March 31, 2004  consolidated  financial  statements.  The
Audit  Committee also discussed with KPMG LLP the matters  required by Statement
on Auditing Standards No. 61 (Communication  with Audit  Committees).  The Audit
Committee  also  received  the  required  written  disclosures  from  KPMG  LLP,
concerning the firm's independence from the Company.

         Based upon the Audit  Committee's  discussions  with management and the
independent auditors, and the Audit Committee's review of the representations of
management and the independent  auditors,  the Audit Committee  recommended that
the Board of Directors include the audited consolidated  financial statements in
the  Company's  Annual  Report on Form 10-K for the year ended  March 31,  2004,
filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission.

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         This  report  shall  not be deemed  incorporated  by  reference  by any
general  statement  incorporating  by reference  this proxy  statement  into any
filing under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended,  or the Exchange Act except
to the extent that the Company  specifically  incorporates  this  information by
reference, and shall not otherwise be deemed filed under such Acts.

              This report has been provided by the Audit Committee:
           Director Donald Heithaus (Chairman of the Audit Committee)
                  and Directors Bernhardt, Maynard and Telerico












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Stock Performance Graph

         Set forth below is a stock performance graph comparing the yearly total
return on the  Company's  Common  Stock with (a) the  monthly  cumulative  total
return on stocks  included in the Nasdaq  Composite  Index,  and (b) the monthly
cumulative total return on stocks for federal savings  institutions  included in
the Company's  Standard  Industry Code ("SIC") Index. The information  presented
below is for the period beginning with the closing price of the Company's Common
Stock on March 31, 1999 and ending on March 31, 2004.  Cumulative return assumes
the reinvestment of dividends, and is expressed in dollars on an assumed initial
investment of $100.

         There can be no assurance  that the Company's  stock  performance  will
continue in the future with the same or similar trend depicted in the graph. The
Company will not make or endorse any predictions as to future stock performance.



                                [OBJECT OMITTED]




                                                                      Period Ending March 31,
                                        March 31      --------------------------------------------------------
Index                                     1999          2000         2001        2002        2003        2004
- -----                                     ----          ----         ----        ----        ----        ----
                                                                                      
Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.              100.00        102.68       129.72      212.08      495.96      591.64
SIC  Code  6035  -  Federal
Savings Institutions                     100.00         81.34       127.97      152.19      162.12      250.44
Nasdaq Market Index                      100.00        184.14        75.79       76.74       56.28       84.00





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Compensation Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation

         The Company does not independently compensate its executive officers or
employees.  The Executive Committee of the Bank had the principal responsibility
for making recommendations to the Board of Directors for the compensation of the
officers, directors and employees of the Bank in fiscal year 2004. The Executive
Committee  consists of  Directors  Gioffre,  Heithaus,  Dinolfo and Staudt.  The
Executive  Committee  reviewed the benefits  provided to the Bank's officers and
employees.  During the year ended March 31,  2004 the  Executive  Committee  met
three times.

Report of the Compensation Committee

         Under rules  established by the SEC, the Company is required to provide
certain data and information in regard to the compensation and benefits provided
to the Company's  Chief Executive  Officer and other  executive  officers of the
Company.  The disclosure  requirements for the Chief Executive Officer and other
executive  officers  include  the use of  tables  and a  report  explaining  the
rationale and  considerations  that led to  fundamental  executive  compensation
decisions affecting those individuals.  In fulfillment of this requirement,  the
Executive Committee of the Bank, at the direction of the Board of Directors, has
prepared the following report for inclusion in this proxy statement.

         In fiscal year 2004, the Board delegated to the Executive Committee the
responsibility  of assuring that the compensation of the Chief Executive Officer
and the other executive  officer is consistent with the  compensation  strategy,
competitive  practices,  the  performance of the Bank, and the  requirements  of
appropriate  regulatory  agencies.  Beginning  in fiscal  year  2005,  executive
compensation   will  be   determined   by  the  Board  of  Directors   based  on
recommendations  made by a  majority  of the  independent  directors.  Any  cash
compensation  paid to executive  officers is paid by the Bank.  The Company does
not currently pay any cash compensation to executive officers.

         Compensation   of  senior   management   is  reviewed   annually  on  a
calendar-year  basis. In general,  the purpose of the annual compensation review
is to ensure that the Bank's base salary levels are  competitive  with financial
institutions  similar in size,  geographic  market and business profile in order
for the Bank to attract and retain persons of high quality.  In this regard, the
Executive  Committee  utilized  various  informational  sources,  including  the
"Savings and Community Bankers Annual Salary Survey." In addition, the Executive
Committee  considered  the overall  profitability  of the Bank and the executive
officer's  contribution to the Bank when making its  recommendation to the Board
of Directors.

         The Board of  Directors  approved a base  salary  for the Bank's  Chief
Executive  Officer of $214,000 for calendar year 2004, which  represented a 4.4%
increase from the Chief Executive  Officer's base salary of $205,000 in calendar
year 2003.  The 2004 base  salary was based upon the Chief  Executive  Officer's
performance, industry standards, and the performance of the Company.

         The primary goal of the Bank and its Executive  Committee is to provide
an adequate  level of  compensation  and benefits in order to attract and retain
key  executives.  The  performance  of each  officer  is  reviewed  annually  to
determine his or her contribution to the overall success of the institution.

            This report has been provided by the Executive Committee:
                 Directors Gioffre, Heithaus, Dinolfo and Staudt

Compensation of Directors

         Directors of the Company receive an annual retainer of $500, except for
the  Chairman of the Board who  receives  $1,000.  Directors of the Bank receive
$2,300  for each  meeting  attended,  except for the  Chairman  of the Board who
receives  $4,600.  In  addition,  the  Chairman of the Board  receives a $25,000
annual stipend for his services as Chairman.

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                             EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

         The  following  table  sets  forth  information  as to annual and other
compensation  for services in all capacities  for executive  officers who earned
more than $100,000 in salary and bonuses  during the fiscal year ended March 31,
2004.



==================================================================================================================================
                                                   Summary Compensation Table
==================================================================================================================================

                             Annual Compensation                                            Long-Term
                                                                                       Compensation Awards
- -------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------
                                                                    Other        Restricted
                                                                   Annual          Stock       Options/               All Other
     Name and                Fiscal       Salary      Bonus      Compensation      Award(s)      SARs      LTIP      Compensation
   Principal Position         Year         ($)         ($)         ($) (1)         ($)(2)        (#)     Payouts       ($)(3)
- -------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------

                                                                                               
Richard P. McStravick         2004        207,306     16,400       29,250         957,600      115,725     --          3,942
President and Chief           2003        185,171     10,700       27,200           --           --        --          3,942
Executive Officer             2002        171,875     12,000       18,500           --           --        --          3,800
- -------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------

Anthony J.  Fabiano           2004        166,750     13,200         --           767,600      106,370     --           --
Senior Vice President,        2003        148,250     12,000         --             --           --        --           --
Chief Financial Officer       2002        124,500      9,000         --             --           --        --           --
and Corporate Secretary
========================== =========== ============= ========= ================ ============= ========== ========= ===============


(1)      Represents  director's  fees for  service on the  Company's  and Bank's
         Board of Directors.
(2)      Represents stock awards pursuant to the 2004 Stock Plan with a value of
         $15.20 at the date of the award.
(3)      Consists of the use of the Bank's automobile.

Benefits

         Directors   Deferred  Fee  Plan.   The  Directors   Deferred  Fee  Plan
("Directors  Plan") is a  non-qualified  deferred  compensation  plan into which
directors  can defer up to 100% of their board fees earned  during the  calendar
year.  All amounts  deferred by a director are fully  vested at all times.  Upon
cessation of a director's  service with the Bank, the Bank will pay the director
the amounts credited to the director's deferred fee account. The amounts will be
paid in substantially  equal annual  installments,  as selected by the director.
The date of the first installment payment also will be selected by the director.
The Directors Plan permits each director to determine whether to invest all or a
portion of such Director's account in Common Stock of the Company.

         If the director dies before all payments have been made,  the remaining
payments will be made to the beneficiary  designated by the director in the same
form  that  payments  were  made to the  director.  If a  director  dies  before
receiving  any  payments,  the Bank  shall  pay the  director's  account  to the
director's beneficiary,  commencing within 30 days of the director's death, over
the period initially elected by the director. At the request of the beneficiary,
and with the approval of the Board,  the director's  benefits may be paid to the
beneficiary in a lump sum. The director may request a hardship  distribution  of
all or part of his or her  benefits  if the  director  suffers an  unforeseeable
emergency, defined as a severe financial hardship to the director resulting from
a sudden  and  unexpected  illness or  accident  of the  director  or his or her
dependent,  loss of the  director's  property due to casualty,  or other similar
extraordinary  and  unforeseeable  circumstances  arising  as a result of events
beyond the director's control.

         Director  Retirement Plan. The Director Retirement Plan is an amendment
and  restatement of the former  Director  Emeritus  Program.  Under the Director
Retirement  Plan,  any person who was a director on January 1, 2004, who retires
or dies  after age 70 and who  completes  15 years of  continuous  service  as a
director becomes entitled to an annual  retirement  benefit for the longer of 20
years  or  his/her  lifetime,  equal  to the  amount  of  annual  fees  paid for
attendance at regular monthly board meetings during the preceding twelve months,
plus the amount of any annual  stipend  paid to such  director  in that year.  A
director  who  retires at or after age 60 with 5 years but less than 15 years of
continuous  service will receive an annual benefit for the longer of 20 years or
for his lifetime, equal to the amount of his/her annual fees paid for attendance
at regular  monthly  board  meetings  during the  calendar  year in which he/she
retires,  plus the amount of any annual  stipend  paid to such  director in that
year, multiplied by a fraction, the


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numerator  of which is the number of years of  service  and the  denominator  of
which is 15. A director  who incurs a  disability  after 5 years of service will
receive a benefit identical to the benefit provided to a director who retires at
or after age 60 with 5 years of continuous service,  irrespective of his/her age
at disability.  In the event of a change in control,  directors will be credited
with years of service as if they had remained  members of the Board of Directors
until age 70 and be entitled  to benefits  payable in a lump sum, at the time of
the change in control.  A retired director will receive the present value of his
remaining benefit paid in a lump sum at the time of a change in control.

         Executive  Agreements.  The Bank has employment agreements with Messrs.
McStravick and Fabiano. The agreements with Messrs.  McStravick and Fabiano have
a term of three years and may be extended  for an  additional  12 months on each
anniversary date so that the remaining term shall be 36 months. If the agreement
is not renewed,  the agreement will expire 36 months  following the  anniversary
date. Under the agreements, the base salaries for Messrs. McStravick and Fabiano
are $214,000 and $172,000,  respectively.  In addition to the base salary,  each
agreement  provides for, among other things,  participation in retirement plans,
stock option plans and other  employee and fringe  benefits  applicable to other
employees.  The agreements  provide for termination by the Bank for cause at any
time, in which event, the executive would have no right to receive  compensation
or other  benefits  for any  period  after  termination.  In the  event the Bank
terminates the  executive's  employment for reasons other than disability or for
cause,  or in the event of the  executive's  termination  of employment for good
reason upon (i) failure by the Bank to comply with any material provision of the
agreement,  which  failure  has not been cured  within 10 days after a notice of
noncompliance is issued by the executive, (ii) following a change in control (as
defined) at any time during the term of the  agreement,  or (iii) any  purported
termination  of the  executive's  employment  which is not  pursuant  to a valid
notice of  termination,  the executive  would be entitled to severance pay in an
amount  equal to three times the average  annual  compensation  (computed on the
basis of the most recent five (5) taxable years)  includable in gross income for
federal  income tax purposes.  Messrs.  McStravick  and Fabiano would receive an
aggregate of  approximately  $731,000 and  $586,000,  respectively,  pursuant to
their  employment  agreements  upon a change in control of the Bank,  based upon
current  levels of  compensation.  The Bank would also  continue,  at the Bank's
expense, the executive's life, health,  dental and other applicable benefit plan
coverage  until the executive  attains the age of 70 years,  provided,  however,
that the Bank's  obligation  terminates  if the  executive  receives  equivalent
medical or dental  coverage  from a new  employer.  The executive is entitled to
participate  in the Bank's  medical,  dental  and life  insurance  coverage  and
reimbursement  plans to the extent that such plans exist,  until the executive's
death. Under each agreement,  if the executive becomes disabled or incapacitated
to the extent that the  executive  is unable to perform  his duties,  he will be
entitled  to  100%  of his  compensation  for  the  first  six  months,  and 60%
thereafter for the remaining term of the  agreement.  Any disability  payment is
reduced to the extent benefits are received under disability insurance, workers'
compensation or other similar program.

         In July 2001,  the Company  entered  into  employment  agreements  with
Messrs.  McStravick and Fabiano. The Company's  employment  agreements with each
executive  contain  substantially  similar  provisions  to the  Bank  employment
agreements, except that the Company employment agreements provide each executive
indemnification  against any excise taxes which may be owed by the executive for
any payments made in connection with a change in control which would  constitute
"excess parachute  payments" under Section 280G of the Code. The indemnification
payment would be the amount necessary to ensure that the amount of such payments
and the value of such benefits  received by the executive be equal to the amount
of such payments and the value of such  benefits as the executive  would receive
in the absence of such excise tax, including any federal,  state and local taxes
on the  Company's  payment to the  executive  attributable  to such  taxes.  The
agreements with the Company do not provide for additional compensation to either
executive.

         Supplemental  Executive  Retirement  Plan. The  Supplemental  Executive
Retirement  Plan ("SERP") is a  non-qualified  plan which provides  supplemental
retirement benefits to certain key employees.  Supplemental  retirement benefits
are  calculated  annually,  based  on  certain  actuarial  assumptions,  as  the
difference  between the benefit the executive  would be entitled to receive upon
retirement  at normal  retirement  age under Sound  Federal's  pension  plan and
employee stock ownership plan,  without giving  consideration  to the applicable
limitations  under tax law, and the amount the executive is actually entitled to
receive as the result of the applicable limitations.  Such benefit is payable in
monthly  installments,  commencing  on the  later of the  first day of the month
following the month in which the executive attains his normal retirement age and
the first day of the month  following the month in which the executive  actually
retires,  and  continuing  for  the  longer  of 180  months  or the  executive's
lifetime. In the event the executive dies before attainment of normal retirement
age or following  normal  retirement  but before  completion of the payments due
under  the SERP,  the  executive's  beneficiary  will be  entitled  to a benefit
payable


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monthly or the  continuation  of the monthly  payments for the  remainder of the
payout  period.  In  the  event  the  executive's  employment  is  involuntarily
terminated prior to attainment of the executive's normal retirement age, for any
reason  other than cause,  the  executive's  death,  disability,  or following a
change in control,  or the  executive  voluntarily  terminates  employment,  the
executive  (or  designated  beneficiary)  will be  entitled  to the  executive's
accrued  benefit at the time of  termination  of  employment.  Such benefit will
commence at the  executive's  normal  retirement  age, be annuitized and paid in
monthly  installments  throughout the payout period.  The SERP administrator may
determine  to pay such  benefit  in a lump sum.  In the  event  the  executive's
employment  is terminated  voluntarily  or  involuntarily  following a change in
control,  the executive will be entitled to the supplemental  retirement benefit
as if the executive had remained  employed by Sound Federal until  attainment of
normal  retirement  age.  In the  event  the  executive  becomes  disabled,  the
executive  would be entitled to a benefit equal to accrued  benefit,  annuitized
and paid  over the  payout  period.  No  benefits  shall be paid in the  event a
participant is terminated for cause.

         Executive  Life  Insurance  Plan.  The Bank  maintains  life  insurance
policies on the lives of certain executives. Participants commence participation
in the Plan by executing a split dollar endorsement for each policy covering the
life of the  Participant.  Upon the death of a participant in the Plan while the
participant is employed by the Bank, the death benefit will be the lesser of (i)
twice the participant's  base annual salary,  less any group term life insurance
benefit payable at the time of the  participant's  death, and (ii) the remainder
of the death benefit  proceeds after payment to the Bank of 100% of the policy's
cash  value,  less any policy  loans and  unpaid  interest  or cash  withdrawals
previously  incurred by the Bank. In the event the  participant  dies  following
termination  of employment due to  disability,  retirement,  or upon a change in
control,  the  participant's  death  benefit  will be equal to the lesser of (i)
twice the  participant's  base annual salary at termination  of employment,  and
(ii) the  remainder of the death benefit  proceeds  after payment to the Bank of
100% of the policy's  cash value,  less any policy loans and unpaid  interest or
cash withdrawals previously incurred by the Bank. Participation in the Plan will
cease in the event of a  participant's  termination  of employment  for cause or
termination of employment prior to the  participant's  normal retirement age for
reasons other than disability or following a change in control.

         Severance Plan for Key  Employees.  The Bank maintains a Severance Plan
for Key Employees,  which is designed to offer a degree of economic  security to
employees who do not have an employment agreement with the Bank, in the position
of assistant vice-president and above in the event their services are terminated
as a  result  of a  change  in  control.  In the  event  of (i) the  involuntary
termination  of a key  employee  following  a change in  control  other than for
cause, or (ii) the voluntary  termination of a key employee's  employment within
one year  after a change in  control,  following  any  demotion,  loss of title,
office or significant authority, reduction in annual compensation or benefits or
relocation of the key employee's  principal  place of employment by more than 30
miles,  the key employee shall be entitled to a severance pay in an amount equal
to  one  month  of  base  salary  multiplied  by the  key  employee's  years  of
employment,  up to  twenty-four  months,  provided  that the  minimum  severance
payment  will be six months of base salary for an assistant  vice-president  and
twelve  months for a  vice-president.  In  addition,  the key  employee  will be
entitled to continued  life,  medical and dental coverage for the same period as
the number of months used for the calculation of severance  benefits.  Severance
benefits  will be  paid  in a lump  sum  within  30  days of the key  employee's
termination  of  employment.  Benefits  payable under the Severance Plan for Key
Employees will be reduced, if necessary,  to avoid an "excess parachute payment"
under Section 280G of the Internal Revenue Code.

         Defined  Benefit  Pension Plan. The Bank maintains two defined  benefit
pension  plans,  one of which was assumed at the time the Company  completed the
acquisition of Peekskill Financial Corporation  ("Retirement Plans").  Employees
age 21 or older  who have  worked  at the Bank for a period of one year and have
been  credited with 1,000 or more hours of service with the Bank during the year
are eligible to accrue benefits under the Retirement Plans. The Bank contributes
each year,  if  necessary,  an amount to the  Retirement  Plans to  satisfy  the
actuarially  determined  minimum  funding  requirements  in accordance  with the
Employee  Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended  ("ERISA").  In the
past, the Bank has contributed more than the minimum funding  requirements.  For
the year ended March 31, 2004,  the Bank made  contributions  to the  Retirement
Plans of approximately $787,000. At December 31, 2003, the total market value of
the assets in the Retirement Plans trust funds was approximately $10.2 million.

         In the event of  retirement  on or after  the  normal  retirement  date
(i.e., the first day of the calendar month coincident with or next following the
later of age 65 or the fifth  anniversary  of  participation  in the  Retirement
Plans,


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or, for a participant prior to January 1, 1992, age 65), the plan is designed to
provide a single life  annuity.  For a married  participant,  the normal form of
benefit is an actuarially  reduced joint and survivor  annuity  where,  upon the
participant's  death, the participant's  spouse is entitled to receive a benefit
equal to 50% of that paid during the participant's  lifetime.  Alternatively,  a
participant may elect (with proper spousal  consent,  if necessary) from various
other options,  including a joint and 100% survivor  annuity,  joint and 66-2/3%
survivor  annuity,  joint and 50% survivor  annuity,  years  certain  option and
social security  option.  The normal  retirement  benefit  provided is an amount
equal to the  difference  between 4% of final  earnings (as defined in the plan)
and 0.65% of the final average  compensation  (average  earnings during the last
three (3)  calendar  years of service) up to the Social  Security  taxable  wage
base, multiplied by the participant's years of credited service (up to a maximum
of 15 years).  Retirement benefits are also payable upon retirement due to early
and late retirement or death. A reduced benefit is payable upon early retirement
at age 55 and the completion of 5 years of vested  service with the Bank.  Fifty
percent of the normal  retirement  benefit will be paid to a surviving spouse if
the  participant  dies while in active  service and has  attained age 50 with 10
years of vested service. The preretirement death benefit is reduced by 1.96% for
each year the spouse is more than 10 years younger than the participant.  If the
participant has not attained age 50 with 10 years of service,  but has completed
5 years of service, the spouse will be eligible for a reduced benefit payable as
a joint and 50% annuity.  Upon termination of employment other than as specified
above, a participant who has five years of vested service is eligible to receive
his or her accrued  benefit  commencing,  generally,  on the  employee's  normal
retirement date, or, if elected, on or after reaching age 55.

         The following table indicates the annual retirement  benefit that would
be payable under the Retirement Plans upon retirement at age 65 in calendar year
2004,  expressed  in the form of a single  life  annuity  for the final  average
salary and benefit service classifications specified below.

        Final Average       Years of Service and Benefit Payable at Retirement
                            --------------------------------------------------
        Compensation            15           20           25            30
        ------------        -----------  -----------  -----------   ----------

        $   50,000          $  25,711    $  25,711    $  25,711    $  25,711
        $   75,000          $  40,711    $  40,711    $  40,711    $  40,711
        $  100,000          $  55,711    $  55,711    $  55,711    $  55,711
        $  125,000          $  70,711    $  70,711    $  70,711    $  70,711
        $  150,000          $  85,711    $  85,711    $  85,711    $  85,711
        $  170,000          $  97,711    $  97,711    $  97,711    $  97,711
        $  200,000          $ 115,711    $ 115,711    $ 115,711    $ 115,711

         As of March 31, 2004,  Mr.  McStravick and Mr. Fabiano had 26 years and
five years, respectively,  of credited service (i.e., benefit service) under the
Retirement Plans.

        401(k)  Plan.  The Bank  maintains  the Sound  Federal  Savings and Loan
Association  401(k)  Savings Plan in RSI  Retirement  Trust (the "401(k)  Plan")
which  is a  qualified,  tax-exempt  defined  contribution  plan  with a  salary
deferral  feature under Section 401(k) of the Code.  Employees who have attained
age 21 and have  completed one year of employment  are eligible to  participate,
provided,  however,  that  leased  employees,  employees  paid on an  hourly  or
contract basis, employees covered by a collective bargaining agreement and owner
employees  (as defined in the plan) are not  eligible to  participate.  Eligible
employees are entitled to enter the 401(k) Plan on a monthly basis.

        Under  the  401(k)  Plan,  participants  are  permitted  to make  salary
reduction  contributions (in whole  percentages) equal to the lesser of (i) from
1% to 10% of  compensation  or (ii)  $10,000  (as indexed  annually).  For these
purposes, "compensation" includes wages, salary, fees and other amounts received
for personal services prior to reduction for the participant contribution to the
401(k) plan, commissions, compensation based on profits, overtime, bonuses, wage
continuation  payments  due to illness or  disability  of a  short-term  nature,
amounts  paid  or  reimbursed  for  moving  expenses,   and  the  value  of  any
nonqualified  stock option granted to the extent  includable in gross income for
the year granted.  Compensation does not include  contributions made by the Bank
to any other pension,  deferred compensation,  welfare or other employee benefit
plan,  amounts realized from the exercise of a nonqualified  stock option or the
sale of a qualified stock option,  and other amounts which received  special tax
benefits.  Compensation  does not  include  compensation  in  excess of the Code
Section  401(a)(17)  limits  (i.e.,  $205,000 in 2004).  All  contributions  and
earnings are fully and  immediately  vested.  A participant  may withdraw


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salary   reduction   contributions,    rollover   contributions   and   matching
contributions  in the event the  participant  suffers a  financial  hardship.  A
participant  may make a withdrawal from his or her accounts for any reason after
age 59 1/2.

        The 401(k) Plan permits employees to direct the investment of his or her
own accounts into various investment options including an "Employer Stock Fund."
Participants  are  entitled  to direct the  trustee as to how to vote his or her
allocable shares of Common Stock in the Employer Stock Fund.

        Plan benefits will be paid to each  participant  in the form of a single
cash payment at normal  retirement age unless earlier payment is selected.  If a
participant  dies prior to receipt of the entire value of his or her 401(k) Plan
accounts,  payment will  generally be made to the  beneficiary  in a single cash
payment as soon as possible following the participant's  death.  Payment will be
deferred if the participant had previously  elected a later payment date. If the
beneficiary  is not the  participant's  spouse,  payment will be made within one
year of the date of death. If the spouse is the designated beneficiary,  payment
will be made no later than the date the  participant  would have attained age 70
1/2. Normal retirement age under the 401(k) Plan is age 65. Early retirement age
is age 55.

        At March 31,  2004,  the total  market value of the assets in the 401(k)
Plan was approximately $3.6 million.

        Stock  Option Plan.  During the year ended March 31,  2000,  the Company
adopted,  and the Company's  stockholders  approved,  the 1999 Stock Option Plan
(the  "Stock  Option  Plan").  Pursuant  to the Stock  Option  Plan,  options to
purchase  261,453 shares were granted to non-employee  directors  (including two
directors  emeriti)  at an exercise  price of $3.298 per share,  the fair market
value of the underlying shares on the date of the award. The term of the options
is ten years from the date of grant,  and the shares  subject to awards  will be
adjusted   in  the   event  of  any   merger,   consolidation,   reorganization,
recapitalization, stock dividend, stock split, combination or exchange of shares
or other change in the corporate  structure of the Company.  The awards included
an equal number of reload options ("Reload Options"), limited stock appreciation
rights ("Limited Rights") and dividend  equivalent rights ("Dividend  Equivalent
Rights").  A Limited Right gives the option  holder the right,  upon a change in
control of the Company or the Bank, to receive the excess of the market value of
the shares  represented  by the Limited  Rights on the date  exercised  over the
exercise price.  The Limited Rights are subject to the same terms and conditions
as the stock  options.  Payment upon exercise of Limited Rights will be in cash,
or in the event of a merger transaction, for shares of the acquiring corporation
or its parent, as applicable.  The Dividend Equivalent Rights entitle the option
holder to  receive  an amount  of cash at the time  that  certain  extraordinary
dividends  are  declared  equal  to the  amount  of the  extraordinary  dividend
multiplied by the number of options that the person holds.  For these  purposes,
an extraordinary  dividend is defined as any dividend where the rate of dividend
exceeds  the  Bank's  weighted   average  cost  of  funds  on   interest-bearing
liabilities  for the current and preceding  three  quarters.  The Reload Options
entitle  the option  holder,  who has  delivered  shares  that he or she owns as
payment  of the  exercise  price for  option  stock,  to a new option to acquire
additional  shares equal in amount to the shares he or she has traded in. Reload
Options may also be granted to replace  option  shares  retained by the employer
for payment of the option  holder's  withholding  tax. The option price at which
additional  shares of stock can be  purchased by the option  holder  through the
exercise of a Reload Option is equal to the market value of the previously owned
stock at the time it was surrendered.  The option period during which the Reload
Option may be exercised  expires at the same time as that of the original option
that the holder has exercised.

        2004 Incentive Stock Benefit Plan. During the year ended March 31, 2004,
the Company adopted, and the Company's  stockholders approved the 2004 Incentive
Stock Benefit Plan (the "2004 Plan"). Under the 2004 Plan, the Company may issue
to key employees,  non-employee  directors and directors emeriti up to 1,089,303
shares of Company  common  stock  pursuant to grants of stock  options,  limited
rights,  reload options,  dividend  equivalent rights or stock awards,  provided
that no more than  389,037  shares  may be issued as stock  awards.  The term of
awards under the 2004 Plan,  with the  exception of stock  awards,  is ten years
from the date of grant,  and the shares  subject to such awards will be adjusted
in the event of any  merger,  consolidation,  reorganization,  recapitalization,
stock dividend,  stock split,  combination or exchange of shares or other change
in the  corporate  structure  of the  Company.  A stock  option gives the option
holder the right to purchase  shares of common stock at a specified  price for a
specified  period of time.  The  exercise  price shall not be less than the fair
market value on the date the stock option is granted.  A limited right gives the
holder the  right,  upon a change in  control  of the  Company  or the Bank,  to
receive the excess of the market value of the shares  represented by the limited
rights on the date exercised over the exercise price. Limited rights are subject
to the same terms and conditions as the stock options.  Payment upon exercise of
limited  rights will be in cash,  or in the event of a merger  transaction,  for
shares of the  acquiring


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corporation or its parent, as applicable. Dividend equivalent rights entitle the
holder of an option to receive  an amount of cash  equal to the dollar  value of
dividends  declared  under  certain  circumstances.  The holder of an option may
receive a payment  under a dividend  equivalent  right where the  dividend to be
paid to stockholders  exceeds 200% of the Bank's weighted  average cost of funds
on interest-bearing liabilities for the current and preceding three quarters and
the annualized  aggregate  dollar amount of the dividend  exceeds the Bank's net
income after taxes for the current quarter and preceding three quarters.  Reload
options  entitle the  holder,  who has  delivered  shares that he or she owns as
payment  of the  exercise  price for  option  stock,  to a new option to acquire
additional  shares equal in amount to the shares he or she has traded in. Reload
options may also be granted to replace  option  shares  retained by the employer
for payment of the option  holder's  withholding  tax. The option price at which
additional  shares of stock can be  purchased by the option  holder  through the
exercise  of a reload  option is equal to the market  value of the shares on the
date the original option is exercised. The option period during which the reload
option may be exercised  expires at the same time as that of the original option
that the  holder  has  exercised.  For the year ended  March 31,  2004,  Messrs.
McStravick and Fabiano  received  63,000 and 50,500 shares of restricted  stock,
respectively, and options to purchase 115,725 and 106,370 shares of common stock
under the 2004 Plan.  In  addition,  our  non-employee  directors  received  the
following under the 2004 Plan: Mr. Gioffre  received 35,011 shares of restricted
stock, Messrs.  Dinolfo,  Heithaus,  Lanza,  Maynard,  Staudt, and Telerico each
received 19,296 shares of restricted  stock,  and Ms.  Bernhardt  received 4,826
shares of restricted stock and all non-employee directors other than Mr. Gioffre
received  options to purchase  31,673  shares of our common stock.  Mr.  Gioffre
received options to purchase 63,024 shares of our common stock. Restricted stock
granted  under the 2004 Plan will vest  ratably over a five year period with the
first vesting  occurring on November 1, 2004.  Option awards to employees and to
our non-employee  directors will vest at the rate of 20% over a five-year period
commencing on the date of grant and have an exercise price of $15.20.

        Set forth below is certain information  regarding options granted to the
Named Executive Officers during the fiscal year ended March 31, 2004.



===================================================================================================================
                                        OPTION GRANTS IN LAST FISCAL YEAR
===================================================================================================================
                                                Individual Grants
- -------------------------- ------------- -------------------- ----------- ------------- ---------------------------
                                           Percent of Total
                                          Options Granted to
                              Options       Employees in FY    Exercise     Expiration       Grant Date Present
      Name                    Granted            2004            Price         Date                Value
- -------------------------- ------------- -------------------- ----------- ------------- ---------------------------
                                                                                 
Richard P. McStravick        115,725            17.4%           $15.20     2/05/2014            $ 484,888
- -------------------------- ------------- -------------------- ----------- ------------- ---------------------------
Anthony J. Fabiano           106,370            16.0%           $15.20     2/05/2014            $ 445,690
========================== ============= ==================== =========== ============= ===========================


        The grant date present  value of $4.19 per share was computed  using the
Black-Scholes option pricing model and the following assumptions: dividend yield
of 1.6%,  volatility rate of approximately  21%, risk-free interest rate of 4.7%
and expected option life of seven-years.


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        Set forth below is certain information concerning options outstanding to
the Named  Executive  Officers at March 31, 2004 and  options  exercised  by the
Named Executive Officers during the fiscal year ending March 31, 2004.



====================================================================================================================
                                           FISCAL YEAR-END OPTION VALUES
============================ ================ ================= ========================= ==========================
                                                                 Number of Unexercised      Value of Unexercised
                                                                       Options at          In-The-Money Options at
                                                                      Year-End                Year-End (1)
                                                                ------------------------- --------------------------
                              Shares Acquired       Value       Exercisable/Unexercisable Exercisable/Unexercisable
     Name                      Upon Exercise       Realized              (#)                        ($)
- ---------------------------- ---------------- ----------------- ------------------------- --------------------------

                                                                                          
Richard P. McStravick             8,000           $ 97,376           142,415/92,580            $1.4 million/$--
- ---------------------------- ---------------- ----------------- ------------------------- --------------------------

Anthony J.  Fabiano              12,000           $146,424           119,942/85,096            $1.1 million/$--
============================ ================ ================= ========================= ==========================


- ------------------------------------
(1)      Based on a market  value of $14.70  per share at March 31,  2004 and an
         exercise price of $3.298 for the options granted in 2000 and $15.20 for
         the options granted in 2004.

         The Company does not have any equity compensation  program that was not
approved by stockholders other than its employee stock ownership plan.

         Set forth below is certain  information  as of March 31, 2004 regarding
equity  compensation to directors,  directors  emeriti,  executive  officers and
employees of the Company approved by stockholders.



===================================================================================================================
                                          Number of securities to be
                                            issued upon exercise of                         Number of securities
                                            outstanding options and    Weighted average    remaining available for
          Plan Category                             rights              exercise price      issuance under plans
- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                                                                      
Equity compensation plans approved by
stockholders(1)                                    1,503,587              $10.40 (2)              35,013
- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Equity compensation plans not approved
by stockholders                                       --                     --                     --
- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Total                                              1,503,587                $10.40                35,013
===================================================================================================================


- -------------
(1)      Includes  389,037 shares awarded under the 2004 Plan that were unvested
         at March 31, 2004.
(2)      Relates to 1,114,550 outstanding stock options.

Employee Stock Ownership Plan and Trust

         The Bank has an employee  stock  ownership  plan  ("ESOP") for eligible
employees. Employees age 21 or older who have worked at the Bank for a period of
one year and have been credited  with 1,000 or more hours of service  during the
year are eligible to  participate.  The ESOP borrowed funds from the Company and
used those funds to purchase  531,563  shares of the Company Common Stock in the
1998 conversion to a mutual holding company.  The ESOP purchased  622,458 shares
of the Company's Common Stock in the Company's  second-step  conversion that was
completed in January 2003. The shares were purchased with the proceeds of a $6.2
million loan from the Company.  The loans are collateralized by the Common Stock
purchased by the ESOP. The Bank will contribute to the ESOP sufficient  funds to
pay the principal and interest on the loans.  At March 31, 2004,  the loans have
balances  of  $769,000  and $6.1  million,  respectively;  have a  ten-year  and
twenty-year  term,  respectively;  and bear interest at the prime rate and 6.0%,
respectively.  Shares  purchased by the ESOP are held in a suspense  account for
allocation among participants as the loan is repaid.

         Shares are released from the suspense account in an amount proportional
to the repayment of the ESOP loans and are allocated among ESOP  participants on
the basis of compensation in the year of allocation.

         Participants  in the ESOP  received  credit  for  service  prior to the
effective  date of the ESOP. A  participant  vests in 100% of his or her account
balance  after 5  years  of  credited  service.  A  participant  who  terminates

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employment for reasons other than death,  retirement,  disability or following a
change in control  prior to five years of  credited  service  will  forfeit  the
nonvested portion of his or her benefits under the ESOP. Benefits are payable in
the form of  Common  Stock  and  cash  upon  death,  retirement,  disability  or
separation  from  service.  Alternatively,  a  participant  may request that the
benefits be paid entirely in the form of Common Stock.

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                    TRANSACTIONS WITH CERTAIN RELATED PERSONS
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Transactions With Certain Related Persons

         The Bank offers loans to directors,  officers,  and employees which are
made by the  Bank  to  such  persons  in the  ordinary  course  of  business  on
substantially the same terms (other than interest rate),  including  collateral,
as those prevailing at the time for comparable  transactions with other persons,
and which do not involve more than the normal risk of  collectibility or present
other  unfavorable  features.  All such loans were performing in accordance with
their terms as of the date of this proxy statement.  Federal  regulations permit
executive  officers  and  directors to  participate  in loan  programs  that are
available to other  employees,  so long as the director or executive  officer is
not given preferential treatment compared to other participating  employees. The
interest  rate on loans to directors and officers is the same as that offered to
the Bank's other employees.

         Section 402 of the  Sarbanes-Oxley  Act of 2002 generally  prohibits an
issuer  from:  (1)  extending  or  maintaining  credit;  (2)  arranging  for the
extension  of credit;  or (3)  renewing an  extension of credit in the form of a
personal loan for an officer or director.  There are several  exceptions to this
general prohibition,  one of which is applicable to the Company.  Sarbanes-Oxley
does not apply to loans made by a depository  institution that is insured by the
FDIC and is subject to the insider  lending  restrictions of the Federal Reserve
Act. All loans to the  Company's  directors  and officers are made in conformity
with the Federal Reserve Act and applicable regulations.

         Set  forth  below is  certain  information  as to  loans  made by Sound
Federal  Savings to certain of its directors and  executive  officers,  or their
affiliates,  whose  aggregate  indebtedness  to Sound Federal  Savings  exceeded
$60,000 at any time since April 1, 2003.  All of the loans are secured loans and
all loans  designated as  residential  loans are first mortgage loans secured by
the borrower's principal place of residence.


                                                                               Highest                      Interest
                                                                  Original     Balance      Balance on        Rate
                                                      Date         Loan      During 2004     March 31,      on March
 Name of Individual             Loan Type          Originated     Amount     Fiscal Year       2004         31, 2004
 ------------------             ---------          ----------     ------     -----------       ----         --------

                                                                                            
Joseph Dinolfo                  Personal            7/26/2002     $168,000   $   151,845    $  120,604          6.50%

Bruno J. Gioffre           Residential Mortgage      5/6/1998      300,000       234,154       219,801          5.00

Donald H. Heithaus         Residential Mortgage    10/15/1997      300,000       279,320       269,725          5.25
                           Commercial Mortgage      2/27/2002      600,000       577,021       551,022          6.25
                               Home Equity          6/11/2003      300,000       263,119       263,119          7.00

Joseph A. Lanza                Home Equity         12/17/2002      260,000       204,210       204,210          7.00
                           Commercial Mortgage     06/10/2003      220,000       220,000       218,258         6.125


         Bruno J. Gioffre, in addition to his duties as Chairman of the Board of
the  Company,  is  counsel  to the law firm of  Gioffre &  Gioffre  Professional
Corporation,  which represents the Bank in mortgage loan  transactions.  For the
year  ended  March  31,  2004,  the Bank paid  Gioffre  &  Gioffre  Professional
Corporation  fees of  $258,000.  The  terms  and  conditions  of these  fees and
services are substantially the same as those for similar transactions with other
parties.

         James  Staudt,  in addition to his duties as a Director of the Company,
is a partner in the law firm of McCullough,  Goldberger & Staudt, LLP which also
represents the Bank in mortgage loan  transactions.  Effective  January 1, 1999,
Mr. Staudt has also acted as general counsel to the Company.  For the year ended
March 31, 2004,


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the Bank paid  McCullough,  Goldberger  & Staudt  fees of  $95,000  and paid Mr.
Staudt legal fees of $37,500 for his services as general counsel.

         Joseph A. Lanza,  in addition to his duties as Director of the Company,
is the President of Lanza  Electric,  an electrical  contractor.  Lanza Electric
provides  services to the Bank. For the year ended March 31, 2004, the Bank paid
Lanza Electric $84,000.

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              PROPOSAL II--RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF AUDITORS
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

         The  Company's  independent  auditors for the year ended March 31, 2004
were KPMG LLP. The Audit Committee of the Company has approved the engagement of
KPMG LLP to be the Company's  independent auditors for the year ending March 31,
2005,   subject  to  the   ratification  of  the  engagement  by  the  Company's
stockholders at the Meeting.  Representatives of KPMG LLP are expected to attend
the  Meeting to respond to  appropriate  questions  and to make a  statement  if
deemed appropriate.

         Set forth below is certain information concerning aggregate fees billed
for  professional  services  rendered  during fiscal years 2004 and 2003 by KPMG
LLP. The aggregate  fees included in the Audit category were fees billed for the
fiscal years for the audit of the Company's annual financial  statements and the
review of the Company's  quarterly  financial  statements.  The  aggregate  fees
included in each of the other categories were fees billed in the fiscal years.

                                                   2004              2003
                                                ----------        ---------
         Audit Fees                             $  223,000        $ 297,000
         Audit-Related Fees                             --               --
         Tax Fees                                   41,450          113,050
         All Other Fees                                 --               --

         Audit Fees.  Audit fees of $217,500 in fiscal year 2004 and $159,000 in
fiscal year 2003 were for professional  services  rendered for the audits of the
consolidated  financial  statements  of the  Company,  review  of the  financial
statements  included  in the  Company's  quarterly  reports on Form 10-Q and the
internal   controls   attestation   required  under  Federal  Deposit  Insurance
Corporation regulations.  Audit fees also include $5,500 in fiscal year 2004 and
$138,000 in fiscal year 2003 for  professional  services in connection  with SEC
filings, including those related to the second-step conversion.

         Tax Fees. Tax fees of $41,450 in fiscal year 2004 and $73,050 in fiscal
year 2003 were for services  related to tax compliance and tax planning.  Fiscal
year 2003 also includes $40,000 for tax services associated with the second-step
conversion.

         The Audit  Committee  considered  whether the  provision  of  non-audit
services was compatible with maintaining the  independence of its auditors.  The
Audit  Committee  concluded  that  performing  such  services did not affect the
auditors' independence in performing their function as auditors of the Company.

Policy on Audit  Committee  Pre-Approval  of Audit  and  Non-Audit  Services  of
Independent Auditor

         The Audit Committee's  policy is to pre-approve all audit and non-audit
services provided by the independent auditors.  These services may include audit
services,  audit-related  services,  tax services and other services.  The Audit
Committee has delegated  pre-approval  authority to its Chairman when expedition
of services is necessary.  The independent  auditors and management are required
to  periodically  report to the full  Audit  Committee  regarding  the extent of
services   provided  by  the  independent   auditors  in  accordance  with  this
pre-approval, and the fees for the services performed to date. The tax fees paid
in fiscal year 2004 were for services  commenced prior to the  implementation of
the Audit Committee's pre-approval policies.


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         In order to ratify the  selection  of KPMG LLP as the  auditors for the
2005 fiscal year, the proposal must receive the  affirmative  vote of a majority
of the shares  represented  at the  Meeting and  entitled to vote.  THE BOARD OF
DIRECTORS  RECOMMENDS A VOTE "FOR" THE  RATIFICATION OF KPMG LLP AS AUDITORS FOR
THE 2005 FISCAL YEAR.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                              STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

        In order to be eligible for inclusion in the Company's  proxy  materials
for next year's Annual Meeting of Stockholders, any stockholder proposal to take
action at such meeting must be received at the Company's  executive office, 1311
Mamaroneck  Avenue,  White Plains, New York 10605, no later than March 10, 2005.
Any such  proposals  shall be subject  to the  requirements  of the proxy  rules
adopted under the Exchange Act.


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         ADVANCE NOTICE OF BUSINESS TO BE CONDUCTED AT AN ANNUAL MEETING
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

        The Bylaws of the Company  provide an advance  notice  procedure  before
certain  business or nominations to the Board of Directors may be brought before
an annual meeting.  In order for a stockholder to properly bring business before
an annual meeting,  or to propose a nominee to the Board,  the stockholder  must
give written notice to the Secretary of the Company not less than 90 days before
the date fixed for such meeting; provided,  however, that in the event that less
than 100 days notice or prior  public  disclosure  of the date of the meeting is
given or made, to be timely, notice by the stockholder must be received no later
than the close of  business  on the tenth day  following  the day on which  such
notice of the date of the annual  meeting was mailed or such  public  disclosure
was made. The notice must include the stockholder's  name,  record address,  and
number  of  shares  owned by the  stockholder,  describe  briefly  the  proposed
business,  the reasons for bringing the business before the annual meeting,  and
any material interest of the stockholder in the proposed  business.  In the case
of nominations to the Board,  certain information  regarding the nominee must be
provided.  Nothing in this  paragraph  shall be deemed to require the Company to
include in its proxy  statement  and proxy  relating  to an annual  meeting  any
stockholder  proposal which does not meet all of the  requirements for inclusion
established by the SEC in effect at the time such proposal is received.

        The date on which next year's annual meeting of stockholders is expected
to be held is August 11, 2005.  Accordingly,  advance written notice of business
or  nominations  to the Board of Directors to be brought  before the next annual
meeting of stockholders must be given to the Company no later than May 13, 2005.

- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                  MISCELLANEOUS
- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

        The Board of  Directors  is not aware of any business to come before the
Meeting other than the matters described above in this proxy statement. However,
if any matters  should  properly  come before the Meeting,  it is intended  that
holders  of the  proxies  will act as  directed  by a  majority  of the Board of
Directors, except for matters related to the conduct of the Meeting, as to which
they shall act in accordance with their best judgment.

        The cost of  solicitation  of proxies will be borne by the Company.  The
Company  will  reimburse  brokerage  firms and other  custodians,  nominees  and
fiduciaries for reasonable  expenses incurred by them in sending proxy materials
to the beneficial  owners of Common Stock. In addition to solicitations by mail,
directors,  officers  and  regular  employees  of the Bank may  solicit  proxies
personally or by telegraph or telephone without additional compensation.



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        A COPY OF THE  COMPANY'S  ANNUAL REPORT ON FORM 10-K FOR THE FISCAL YEAR
ENDED MARCH 31, 2004 WILL BE FURNISHED  WITHOUT CHARGE TO STOCKHOLDERS AS OF THE
RECORD DATE UPON  WRITTEN  REQUEST TO THE  CORPORATE  SECRETARY,  SOUND  FEDERAL
BANCORP, INC., 1311 MAMARONECK AVENUE, WHITE PLAINS, NEW YORK 10605.

                                              BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

                                              /s/ Anthony J. Fabiano

                                              Anthony J. Fabiano
                                              Corporate Secretary
White Plains, New York
July 8, 2004






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                                    EXHIBIT A





      Audit and Compliance Committee Charter of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.
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Organization

This Charter  governs the operations of the Audit and Compliance  Committee (the
"Committee") of Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc. (the "Company") and its subsidiary,
Sound  Federal  Savings and its  subsidiaries.  The  Committee  shall review and
reassess  the charter at least  annually and obtain the approval of the Board of
Directors  as to any  modifications  thereof.  The  Committee  shall  consist of
members of, and shall be appointed by, the Board of Directors and shall comprise
at least three  directors,  each of whom is  independent  of management  and the
Company.  Members of the Committee  shall be considered  independent  so long as
they do not accept any consulting,  advisory, or other compensatory fee from the
Company and are not an affiliated person of the Company or its subsidiaries, and
meet all other  independence  requirements  set forth in the  applicable  NASDAQ
regulations  and  Securities  Act Rule 10A-3.  All  Committee  members  shall be
financially  literate,  and at least one  member  shall be an  "Audit  Committee
financial expert," as defined by SEC and applicable NASDAQ regulations.

Purpose

The Committee  shall provide  assistance to the Board of Directors in fulfilling
its oversight  responsibility to the shareholders,  potential shareholders,  the
investment  community,  and others  relating to: the  integrity of the Company's
financial  statements;  the financial reporting process; the systems of internal
accounting and financial  controls;  the  performance of the Company's  internal
audit function and external auditors; the external auditor's  qualifications and
independence;  and the Company's  compliance  with ethics policies and legal and
regulatory requirements.  In so doing, it is the responsibility of the Committee
to  maintain  free  and  open  communication  between  the  Committee,  external
auditors, the internal auditors, and management of the Company.

In discharging its oversight role, the Committee is empowered to investigate any
matter  brought  to its  attention  with  full  access  to all  books,  records,
facilities, and personnel of the Company and the authority to engage independent
counsel and other advisers as it determines necessary to carry out its duties.

Duties and Responsibilities

The  primary  responsibility  of  the  Committee  is to  oversee  the  Company's
financial  reporting  process on behalf of the Board of Directors and report the
results of its activities to the Board of Directors. While the Committee has the
responsibilities and powers set forth in this Charter, it is not the duty of the
Committee to plan or conduct  audits or to determine  itself that the  Company's
financial statements are complete and accurate and are fairly presented,  in all
material respects,  in conformity with generally accepted accounting  principles
in  the  United  States.   Management  is  responsible   for  the   preparation,
presentation,  and integrity of the Company's  financial  statements and for the
appropriateness  of the accounting  principles  and reporting  policies that are
used by the Company.  The external  auditors  are  responsible  for auditing the
Company's  financial  statements  and  for  performing  timely  reviews  of  the
Company's unaudited interim financial statements.

The  Committee,  in carrying out its  responsibilities,  believes its duties and
responsibilities  should  remain  flexible  and subject to periodic  revision in
order to best react to changing  conditions  and  circumstances.  The  Committee
should  take  appropriate  actions to ensure  that  Management  sets the overall
corporate "tone" for quality financial reporting, sound business risk practices,
and  ethical  behavior.   The  following  shall  be  the  principal  duties  and
responsibilities  of the  Committee.  These  are set  forth as a guide  with the
understanding that the Committee may supplement them as appropriate.

         o        The   Committee   shall  be  directly   responsible   for  the
                  appointment,  termination,  compensation, and oversight of the
                  work  of  the  external  auditors,   including  resolution  of
                  disagreements  between  Management  and the auditor  regarding
                  financial reporting.
         o        The  Committee  shall  pre-approve  all  audit  and  non-audit
                  services  provided  by the  external  auditors  and  shall not
                  engage the external auditors to perform the specific non-audit
                  services prohibited by law or regulation.
         o        The  Committee may delegate  pre-approval  authority to one or
                  more members of the Committee.  The decisions of any Committee
                  member to whom  pre-approval  authority is  delegated  must be
                  presented to the full Committee for  ratification  at its next
                  scheduled meeting.

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         o        At least  annually,  the  Committee  shall obtain and review a
                  report  or  reports   prepared   by  the   external   auditors
                  describing:
                  o        The  matters   specified  by  Statement  on  Auditing
                           Standards ("SAS") No. 61,  "Communication  with Audit
                           Committees", as amended; and
                  o        The  firm's  communication   concerning  independence
                           matters,  as  required  by rules  promulgated  by the
                           Independence Standards Board.

     The  communication  under  SAS No. 61 should  include a  discussion  of the
     critical  accounting  policies and practices of the Company and alternative
     treatments of financial  information within generally  accepted  accounting
     principles that have been discussed with management.

         o        The  Committee  shall  discuss with the external  auditors the
                  results of  inspections  and  quality  control  reviews of the
                  external audit firm conducted by the Public Company Accounting
                  Oversight Board.

         o        The Committee shall discuss with the internal auditors and the
                  external  auditors  the  overall  scope  and  plans  for their
                  respective  audits,  including  the  adequacy of staffing  and
                  compensation.

         o        The  Committee  shall  discuss with  management,  the internal
                  auditors,   and  the   external   auditors  the  adequacy  and
                  effectiveness  of  the  accounting  and  financial   controls,
                  including  the  Company's  policies and  procedures to assess,
                  monitor,  and  manage  business  risks and  legal and  ethical
                  compliance programs (e.g., the Company's Code of Conduct).

         o        Periodically,   the  Committee   shall  meet  separately  with
                  Management,  the internal auditors,  and the external auditors
                  to discuss issues and concerns warranting Committee attention.
                  The Committee  shall provide  sufficient  opportunity  for the
                  internal  auditors and the external auditors to meet privately
                  with the members of the Committee.

         o        The  Committee  shall  review  Management's  assertion  on its
                  assessment of the effectiveness of internal controls as of the
                  end of the most recent fiscal year and the external  auditors'
                  report on Management's assertion.

         o        The Committee  shall review the interim  financial  statements
                  and disclosures under Management's  Discussion and Analysis of
                  Financial  Condition  and  Results of  Operations.  Also,  the
                  Committee  shall discuss the results of the  quarterly  review
                  and any  other  matters  required  to be  communicated  to the
                  Committee by the external  auditors under  generally  accepted
                  auditing  standards.  The Chair of the Committee may represent
                  the entire Committee for the purposes of this review.

         o        The Committee  shall review with  Management  and the external
                  auditors  the  financial   statements  and  disclosures  under
                  Management's  Discussion  and Analysis of Financial  Condition
                  and results of  operations  to be  included  in the  Company's
                  Annual   Report  on  Form  10-K  (or  the  annual   report  to
                  shareholders if distributed prior to the filing of Form 10-K),
                  including  their  judgment  about  the  quality,  not just the
                  acceptability,    of   the    accounting    principles,    the
                  reasonableness  of significant  judgments,  and the clarity of
                  the disclosures in the financial statements.

         o        The  Committee  shall  establish  procedures  for the receipt,
                  retention,  and treatment of complaints received by the issuer
                  regarding   accounting,   internal  accounting  controls,   or
                  auditing matters,  and the confidential,  anonymous submission
                  by employees of the issuer of concerns regarding  questionable
                  accounting or auditing matters.

         o        The  Committee  shall  receive  a report  from  the  Company's
                  General  Counsel of any evidence of any material  violation of
                  securities laws or breaches of fiduciary duty.

         o        The Committee  shall also prepare its report to be included in
                  the  Company's  annual  proxy  statement,  as  required by SEC
                  regulations.


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         o        The Committee  shall perform an evaluation of its  performance
                  at least  annually  to  determine  whether  it is  functioning
                  effectively.







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                                 REVOCABLE PROXY

                           SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP, INC.
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                 August 12, 2004

         The undersigned hereby appoints the full Board of Directors,  with full
powers of  substitution  to act as attorneys and proxies for the  undersigned to
vote all shares of Common Stock of the Company which the undersigned is entitled
to vote at the Annual  Meeting  of  Stockholders  ("Meeting")  to be held at the
Company's corporate offices at 1311 Mamaroneck Avenue, White Plains, New York at
4:00 p.m.,  (local time) on August 12, 2004.  The  official  proxy  committee is
authorized to cast all votes to which the undersigned is entitled as follows:


                                                                                                  FOR
                                                                                WITHHOLD          ALL
                                                                FOR               ALL            EXCEPT
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1. The election as directors of all nominees
   listed   below   (except   as  marked  to  the
   contrary below)                                              |_|               |_|             |_|

         Joseph Dinolfo
         Eldorus Maynard
         Samuel T. Telerico

         INSTRUCTION:  To withhold your vote for one or
         more   nominees,   write   the   name  of  the
         nominee(s) on the line(s) below.

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                                                                FOR               AGAINST           ABSTAIN
                                                                ---               -------           -------
2. The ratification of the appointment of KPMG
   LLP as  auditors  for the fiscal  year  ending               |_|                 |_|               |_|
   March 31, 2005.



The Board of Directors recommends a vote "FOR" each of the listed proposals.

THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED AS DIRECTED, BUT IF NO INSTRUCTIONS ARE SPECIFIED, THIS
PROXY  WILL BE VOTED FOR EACH OF THE  PROPOSITIONS  STATED  ABOVE.  IF ANY OTHER
BUSINESS  IS  PRESENTED  AT  SUCH  MEETING,  THIS  PROXY  WILL BE  VOTED  BY THE
ABOVE-NAMED PROXIES AT THE DIRECTION OF A MAJORITY OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. AT
THE  PRESENT  TIME,  THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS  KNOWS OF NO OTHER  BUSINESS  TO BE
PRESENTED AT THE MEETING.





                THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS


         Should the  undersigned  be present and elect to vote at the Meeting or
at any  adjournment  thereof  and after  notification  to the  Secretary  of the
Company at the Meeting of the  stockholder's  decision to terminate  this proxy,
then the power of said  attorneys and proxies shall be deemed  terminated and of
no further  force or effect.  This proxy may also be revoked by sending  written
notice to the Secretary of the Company at the address set forth on the Notice of
Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders,  or by the filing of a later  proxy  statement
prior to a vote being taken on a particular proposal at the Meeting.

         The  undersigned  acknowledges  receipt  from the Company  prior to the
execution of this proxy of a Notice of the Meeting,  the Company's Annual Report
for the year ended March 31, 2004 and a proxy statement dated July 8, 2004.


Dated: ______________, 2004                 |_|  Check Box if You Plan to
                                                 Attend Meeting


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PRINT NAME OF STOCKHOLDER                   PRINT NAME OF STOCKHOLDER


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SIGNATURE OF STOCKHOLDER                    SIGNATURE OF STOCKHOLDER


Please sign exactly as your name appears on this card. When signing as attorney,
executor,  administrator,  trustee or guardian,  please give your full title. If
shares are held jointly, each holder should sign.





        Please complete and date this proxy and return it promptly in the
                       enclosed postage-prepaid envelope.