FORM OF
                             OCEAN FINANCIAL CORP.
                     TWO YEAR CHANGE IN CONTROL AGREEMENT


          This AGREEMENT is made effective as of _______________, 1996, by and
between Ocean Financial Corp. (the "Holding Company"), a corporation organized
under the laws of the State of Delaware, with its office at
_____________________________________, and ____________________ ("Executive").
The term "Bank" refers to Ocean Federal Savings Bank, the wholly-owned
subsidiary of the Holding Company or any successor thereto.

          WHEREAS, the Holding Company recognizes the substantial contribution
Executive has made to the Holding Company and wishes to protect his position
therewith for the period provided in this Agreement; and

          WHEREAS, Executive has agreed to serve in the employ of the Holding
Company or an affiliate thereof.

          NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the contribution and
responsibilities of Executive, and upon the other terms and conditions
hereinafter provided, the parties hereto agree as follows:

1.        TERM OF AGREEMENT.
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          The period of this Agreement shall be deemed to have commenced as of
the date first above written and shall continue for a period of twenty-four (24)
full calendar months thereafter.  Commencing on the date of the execution of
this Agreement, the term of this Agreement shall be extended for one day each
day until such time as the board of directors of the Holding Company (the
"Board") or Executive elects not to extend the term of the Agreement by giving
written notice to the other party in accordance with Section 8 of this
Agreement, in which case the term of this Agreement shall be fixed and shall end
on the third anniversary of the date of such written notice.

2.        CHANGE IN CONTROL.
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          (a) Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control of the Holding Company
(as herein defined) followed at any time during the term of this Agreement by
the termination of Executive's employment, the provisions of Section 3 shall
apply.  Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, Executive shall have the
right to elect to voluntarily terminate his employment at any time during the
term of this Agreement following any demotion, loss of title, office or
significant authority, reduction in annual compensation or material reduction in
benefits, or relocation of his principal place of employment by more than 25
miles from its location immediately prior to the Change in Control, unless such
termination is because of death or termination for cause.

 
          (b) For purposes of this Agreement, a "Change in Control" of the Bank
or Holding Company shall mean an event of a nature that: (i) would be required
to be reported in response to Item 1(a) of the Current Report on Form 8-K, as in
effect on the date hereof, pursuant to Section 13 or 15(d) of the Securities
Exchange Act of 1934 (the "Exchange Act"); or (ii) results in a Change in
Control of the Bank or the Holding Company within the meaning of the Home
Owners' Loan Act of 1933 and the Rules and Regulations promulgated by the Office
of Thrift Supervision ("OTS") (or its predecessor agency), as in effect on the
date hereof (provided, that in applying the definition of change in control as
set forth under the rules and regulations of the OTS, the Board shall substitute
its judgment for that of the OTS); or (iii) without limitation such a Change in
Control shall be deemed to have occurred at such time as (A) any "person" (as
the term is used in Sections 13(d) and 14(d) of the Exchange Act) is or becomes
the "beneficial owner" (as defined in Rule 13d-3 under the Exchange Act),
directly or indirectly, of securities of the Bank or the Holding Company
representing 20% or more of the Bank's or the Holding Company's outstanding
securities except for any securities of the Bank purchased by the Holding
Company in connection with the conversion of the Bank to the stock form and any
securities purchased by any employee benefit plan of the Bank, or (B)
individuals who constitute the Board on the date hereof (the "Incumbent Board")
cease for any reason to constitute at least a majority thereof, provided that
any person becoming a director subsequent to the date hereof whose election was
approved by a vote of at least three-quarters of the directors comprising the
Incumbent Board, or whose nomination for election by the Holding Company's
stockholders was approved by the same Nominating Committee serving under an
Incumbent Board, shall be, for purposes of this clause (B), considered as though
he were a member of the Incumbent Board, or (C) a plan of reorganization,
merger, consolidation, sale of all or substantially all the assets of the Bank
or the Holding Company or similar transaction occurs in which the Bank or
Holding Company is not the resulting entity, or (D) a proxy statement is
distributed soliciting proxies from stockholders of the Holding Company, by
someone other than the current management of the Holding Company, seeking
stockholder approval of a plan of reorganization, merger or consolidation of the
Holding Company or Bank with one or more corporations as a result of which the
outstanding shares of the class of securities then subject to such plan or
transaction are exchanged for or converted into cash or property or securities
not issued by the Bank or the Holding Company shall be distributed, or (E) a
tender offer is made for 20% or more of the voting securities of the Bank or
Holding Company then outstanding.

          (c) Executive shall not have the right to receive termination benefits
pursuant to Section 3 hereof upon Termination for Cause.  The term "Termination
for Cause" shall mean termination because of Executive's personal dishonesty,
incompetence, willful misconduct, any breach of fiduciary duty involving
personal profit, intentional failure to perform stated duties, willful violation
of any law, rule, regulation (other than traffic violations or similar offenses)
or final cease and desist order, or any material breach of this Agreement.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, Executive shall not be deemed to have been
Terminated for Cause unless and until there shall have been delivered to him a
copy of a resolution duly adopted by the affirmative vote of not less than
three-fourths of the members of the Board at a meeting of the Board called and
held for that purpose (after reasonable notice to Executive and an opportunity
for him, together with counsel, to be heard before the Board), finding that

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in the good faith opinion of the Board, Executive was guilty of conduct
justifying Termination for Cause and specifying the particulars thereof in
detail.  Executive shall not have the right to receive compensation or other
benefits for any period after Termination for Cause.  During the period
beginning on the date of the Notice of Termination for Cause pursuant to Section
8 hereof through the Date of Termination, stock options and related limited
rights granted to Executive under any stock option plan shall not be exercisable
nor shall any unvested awards granted to Executive under any stock benefit plan
of the Bank, the Holding Company or any subsidiary or affiliate thereof, vest.
At the Date of Termination, such stock options and related limited rights and
any such unvested awards, shall become null and void and shall not be
exercisable by or delivered to Executive at any time subsequent to such
Termination For Cause.

3.        TERMINATION BENEFITS.
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          (a) Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control, followed at any time
during the term of this Agreement by the voluntary or involuntary termination of
Executive's employment, other than for Termination for Cause, the Holding
Company shall be obligated to pay Executive, or in the event of his subsequent
death, his beneficiary or beneficiaries, or his estate, as the case may be, a
sum equal to two (2) times Executive's average annual compensation for the five
most recent taxable years that Executive has been employed by the Bank or such
lesser number of years in the event that Executive shall have been employed by
the Bank for less than five years.  Such annual compensation shall include Base
Salary, commissions, bonuses, contributions on behalf of Executive to any
pension and profit sharing plan, severance payments, director or committee fees
and fringe benefits paid or to be paid to the Executive during such years.  At
the election of Executive which election is to be made prior to a Change in
Control, such payment shall be made in a lump sum.  In the event that no
election is made, payment to Executive will be made on a monthly basis in
approximately equal installments during the remaining term of this Agreement.

          (b) Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control of the Bank or the
Holding Company followed at any time during the term of this Agreement by
Executive's termination of employment, other than for Termination for Cause, the
Holding Company shall cause to be continued life, medical and disability
coverage substantially identical to the coverage maintained by the Bank for
Executive prior to his severance, except to the extent such coverage may be
changed in its application to all Bank employees.  Such coverage and payments
shall cease upon expiration of thirty-six (36) full calendar months following
the Date of Termination.

          (c) Notwithstanding the preceding paragraphs of this Section 3, in the
event that:

              (i)   the aggregate payments or benefits to be made or afforded to
                    Executive, which are deemed to be parachute payments as
                    defined in Section 280G of the Internal Revenue Code of
                    1986, as amended (the "Code") or any successor thereof, (the
                    "Termination Benefits") would be deemed to

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                    include an "excess parachute payment" under Section 280G of
                    the Code; and

              (ii)  if such Termination Benefits were reduced to an amount (the
                    "Non-Triggering Amount"), the value of which is one dollar
                    ($1.00) less than an amount equal to three (3) times
                    Executive's "base amount," as determined in accordance with
                    said Section 280G and the Non-Triggering Amount less the
                    product of the marginal rate of any applicable state and
                    federal income tax and the Non Triggering Amount would be
                    greater than the aggregate value of the Termination Benefits
                    (without such reduction) minus (i) the amount of tax
                    required to be paid by the Executive thereon by Section 4999
                    of the Code and further minus (ii) the product of the
                    Termination Benefits and the marginal rate of any applicable
                    state and federal income tax,

     then the Termination Benefits shall be reduced to the Non-Triggering
Amount. The allocation of the reduction required hereby among the Termination
Benefits shall be determined by the Executive.
 
4.        NOTICE OF TERMINATION.
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          (a) Any purported termination by the Holding Company, or by Executive
shall be communicated by Notice of Termination to the other party hereto. For
purposes of this Agreement, a "Notice of Termination" shall mean a written
notice which shall indicate the specific termination provision in this Agreement
relied upon and shall set forth in detail the facts and circumstances claimed to
provide a basis for termination of Executive's employment under the provision so
indicated.

          (b) "Date of Termination" shall mean the date specified in the Notice
of Termination (which, in the case of Termination for Cause, shall not be less
than thirty (30) days from the date such Notice of Termination is given).

          (c) If, within thirty (30) days after any Notice of Termination is
given, the party receiving such Notice of Termination notifies the other party
that a dispute exists concerning the termination, the Date of Termination shall
be the date on which the dispute is finally determined, either by mutual written
agreement of the parties, by a binding arbitration award, or by a final
judgment, order or decree of a court of competent jurisdiction (the time for
appeal therefrom having expired and no appeal having been perfected) and
provided further that the Date of Termination shall be extended by a notice of
dispute only if such notice is given in good faith and the party giving such
notice pursues the resolution of such dispute with reasonable diligence.
Notwithstanding the pendency of any such dispute, the Holding Company will
continue to pay Executive his full compensation in effect when the notice giving
rise to the dispute was given (including, but not limited to his current annual
salary) and continue him as a participant in all compensation, benefit and
insurance plans in which he was participating when the notice of dispute was
given, until the dispute is finally resolved in

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accordance with this Agreement.  Amounts paid under this Section 4(c) are in
addition to all other amounts due under this Agreement and shall not be offset
against or reduce any other amounts due under this Agreement.

5.        SOURCE OF PAYMENTS.
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          It is intended by the parties hereto that all payments provided in
this Agreement shall be paid in cash or check from the general funds of the
Holding Company. Further, the Holding Company guarantees such payment and
provision of all amounts and benefits due hereunder to Executive and, if such
amount and benefits due from the Bank are not timely paid or provided by the
Bank, such amounts and benefits shall be paid and provided by the Holding
Company.

6.        EFFECT ON PRIOR AGREEMENTS AND EXISTING BENEFIT PLANS.
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          This Agreement contains the entire understanding between the parties
hereto and supersedes any prior agreement between the Holding Company and
Executive, except that this Agreement shall not affect or operate to reduce any
benefit or compensation inuring to Executive of a kind elsewhere provided. No
provision of this Agreement shall be interpreted to mean that Executive is
subject to receiving fewer benefits than those available to him without
reference to this Agreement.

          Nothing in this Agreement shall confer upon Executive the right to
continue in the employ of the Holding Company or shall impose on the Holding
Company any obligation to employ or retain Executive in its employ for any
period.

7.        NO ATTACHMENT.
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          (a) Except as required by law, no right to receive payments under this
Agreement shall be subject to anticipation, commutation, alienation, sale,
assignment, encumbrance, charge, pledge, or hypothecation, or to execution,
attachment, levy, or similar process or assignment by operation of law, and any
attempt, voluntary or involuntary, to affect any such action shall be null,
void, and of no effect.

          (b) This Agreement shall be binding upon, and inure to the benefit of,
Executive, the Holding Company and their respective successors and assigns.

8.        MODIFICATION AND WAIVER.
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          (a) This Agreement may not be modified or amended except by an
instrument in writing signed by the parties hereto.

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          (b) No term or condition of this Agreement shall be deemed to have
been waived, nor shall there be any estoppel against the enforcement of any
provision of this Agreement, except by written instrument of the party charged
with such waiver or estoppel. No such written waiver shall be deemed a
continuing waiver unless specifically stated therein, and each such waiver shall
operate only as to the specific term or condition waived and shall not
constitute a waiver of such term or condition for the future or as to any act
other than that specifically waived.

9.        REINSTATEMENT OF BENEFITS UNDER BANK AGREEMENT.
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          In the event Executive is suspended and/or temporarily prohibited from
participating in the conduct of the Bank's affairs by a notice described in
Section 9(b) of the Change-in-Control Agreement between Executive and the Bank
dated _____________________, 1996 (the "Bank Agreement") during the term of this
Agreement and a Change in Control, as defined herein, occurs the Holding Company
will assume its obligation to pay and Executive will be entitled to receive all
of the termination benefits provided for under Section 3 of the Bank Agreement
upon the notification of the Holding Company of the Bank's receipt of a
dismissal of charges in the Notice.

10.       EFFECT OF ACTION UNDER BANK AGREEMENT.
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          Notwithstanding any provision herein to the contrary, to the extent
that payments and benefits are paid to or received by Executive under the Bank
Agreement between Executive and Bank, the amount of such payments and benefits
paid by the Bank will be subtracted from any amount due simultaneously to
Executive under similar provisions of this Agreement.

11.       SEVERABILITY.
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          If, for any reason, any provision of this Agreement, or any part of
any provision, is held invalid, such invalidity shall not affect any other
provision of this Agreement or any part of such provision not held so invalid,
and each such other provision and part thereof shall to the full extent
consistent with law continue in full force and effect.

12.       HEADINGS FOR REFERENCE ONLY.
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          The headings of sections and paragraphs herein are included solely for
convenience of reference and shall not control the meaning or interpretation of
any of the provisions of this Agreement. In addition, references herein to the
masculine shall apply to both the masculine and the feminine.

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13.       GOVERNING LAW.
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          The validity, interpretation, performance, and enforcement of this
Agreement shall be governed by the laws of the State of New Jersey.

14.       ARBITRATION.
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          Any dispute or controversy arising under or in connection with this
Agreement shall be settled exclusively by arbitration, conducted before a panel
of three arbitrators sitting in a location selected by Executive within fifty
(50) miles from the location of the Holding Company, in accordance with the
rules of the American Arbitration Association then in effect.  Judgment may be
entered on the arbitrator's award in any court having jurisdiction; provided,
however, that Executive shall be entitled to seek specific performance of his
right to be paid until the Date of Termination during the pendency of any
dispute or controversy arising under or in connection with this Agreement.

15.       PAYMENT OF LEGAL FEES.
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          All reasonable legal fees paid or incurred by Executive pursuant to
any dispute or question of interpretation relating to this Agreement shall be
paid or reimbursed by the Holding Company if Executive is successful pursuant to
a legal judgment, arbitration or settlement.

16.       INDEMNIFICATION.
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          The Holding Company shall provide Executive (including his heirs,
executors and administrators) with coverage under a standard directors' and
officers' liability insurance policy at its expense, and shall indemnify
Executive (and his heirs, executors and administrators) to the fullest extent
permitted under Delaware law and as provided in the Holding Company's
certificate of incorporation against all expenses and liabilities reasonably
incurred by him in connection with or arising out of any action, suit or
proceeding in which he may be involved by reason of his having been a director
or officer of the Holding Company (whether or not he continues to be a director
or officer at the time of incurring such expenses or liabilities), such expenses
and liabilities to include, but not be limited to, judgments, court costs and
attorneys' fees and the cost of reasonable settlements.      

17.       SUCCESSOR TO THE HOLDING COMPANY.
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          The Holding Company shall require any successor or assignee, whether
direct or indirect, by purchase, merger, consolidation or otherwise, to all or
substantially all the business or assets of the Bank or the Holding Company,
expressly and unconditionally to assume and agree to perform the Holding
Company's obligations under this Agreement, in the same manner and to the same
extent that the Holding Company would be required to perform if no such
succession or assignment had taken place.

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                                   SIGNATURES


     IN WITNESS WHEREOF, Ocean Financial Corp. has caused this Agreement to be
executed by its duly authorized officer, and Executive has signed this
Agreement, on the _____ day of _________________, 1996.

ATTEST:                               OCEAN FINANCIAL CORP.


__________________________________    By:    ___________________________
Secretary                                    Officer

WITNESS:


__________________________________           ___________________________
                                             Executive

Seal

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