EXHIBIT 1.1


                          Farm Family Holdings, Inc.

                              2,470,000 Shares/1/
                                 Common Stock
                               ($.01 par value)

                            Underwriting Agreement



                                                                   July __, 1996

Salomon Brothers Inc
As Representative of the several
  Underwriters,
Seven World Trade Center
New York, New York  10048

Dear Sirs:

          Farm Family Holdings, Inc., a Delaware corporation (the "Company"),
proposes to issue shares of its common stock, par value $.01 per share (shares
of which class of stock of the Company are hereinafter referred to as "Common
Stock"), in connection with the reorganization (the "Reorganization") of Farm
Family Mutual Insurance Company, a New York mutual property and casualty
insurance company ("Farm Family Mutual"), into a New York stock property and
casualty insurance company pursuant to Farm Family Mutual's Plan of
Reorganization and Conversion, as adopted on February 14, 1996 by the Board of
Directors (the "FFM Board") of Farm Family Mutual (as amended on April 23, 1996
by the FFM Board, the "Plan").  Farm Family Mutual will become a wholly owned
subsidiary of the Company and be renamed Farm Family Casualty Insurance Company
("FFCIC") upon the FFM Board's declaring the Plan effective, the confirming of
the opinion of special tax counsel as specified in the Plan, and the issuance by
the New York Superintendent of Insurance (the "Superintendent") of a certificate
of authority for FFCIC (collectively, the "Effectiveness of the Plan").  For
purposes of this Agreement, the term "Farm Family" refers to Farm Family Mutual
prior to the Effectiveness of the Plan and FFCIC upon and after the
Effectiveness of the Plan.  Pursuant to the Plan, the Company proposes: (i) to
issue to certain Eligible Policyholders (as defined in the Plan) shares of
Common Stock (the "Policyholder Shares") in exchange for their Policyholder
Interests (as defined in the Plan); (ii) to issue to Participating Surplus Note
Holders (as defined in the Plan) shares of Common Stock in exchange for such
notes (collectively with the Policyholder Shares, the "Reorganization Shares");
(iii) to issue and sell shares of Common Stock to Subscription Policyholders (as
defined in the Plan) and to Participating Surplus Note Holders who elect to

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/1/   Plus an option to purchase from the Company up to 366,020 additional 
      shares to cover over-allotments.

 
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subscribe for such shares of Common Stock pursuant to the Subscription Offering
(as defined in the Plan); and (iv) to issue and sell to the underwriters named
in Schedule I hereto (the "Underwriters"), for whom Salomon Brothers Inc (the
"Representative") is acting as representative, 2,470,000 shares of Common Stock
of the Company (said shares to be issued and sold by the Company being
hereinafter called the "Underwritten Securities").  The Company also proposes to
grant to the Underwriters an option to purchase from the Company up to 366,020
additional shares of Common Stock to cover over-allotments (the "Option
Securities"; the Option Securities, together with the Underwritten Securities,
being hereinafter called the "Securities").  Upon the Effectiveness of the Plan,
the Eligible Policyholders' Policyholder Interests will be extinguished.

          1.   Representations and Warranties.
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          (a)  Each of the Company and Farm Family represents and warrants to,
and agrees with, each Underwriter as set forth below in this Section 1.

          (i)  The Company has filed with the Securities and Exchange 
     Commission (the "Commission") a registration statement (file number 333-
     4446) on Form S-1 relating to the Subscription Offering, including a
     related prospectus, in accordance with the Securities Act of 1933, as
     amended (the "Act"), and in the form heretofore delivered to you, and such
     registration statement has been declared effective by the Commission.  The
     Company has filed a post-effective amendment to such registration statement
     (the "Post-Effective Amendment"), relating to the offering of the
     Securities, including a related preliminary prospectus, each of which has
     been previously furnished to you.  The Company will next file with the
     Commission either (A) prior to effectiveness of the Post-Effective
     Amendment, a further amendment to such Post-Effective Amendment (including
     the form of final prospectus) or (B) after effectiveness of such Post-
     Effective Amendment, a final prospectus in accordance with Rules 430A and
     424(b)(1) or (4).  In the case of clause (B), the Company has included in
     such Post-Effective Amendment, as amended at the Effective Date, all
     information (other than Rule 430A Information) required by the Act and the
     rules thereunder to be included in the Prospectus with respect to the
     Securities and the offering thereof.  As filed, such amendment and form of
     final prospectus, or such final prospectus, shall contain all Rule 430A
     Information, together with all other such required information, with
     respect to the Securities and the offering thereof and, except to the
     extent the Representative shall agree in writing to a modification, shall
     be in all substantive respects in the form furnished to you prior to the
     Execution Time or, to the extent not completed at the Execution Time, shall
     contain only such specific additional information and other changes (beyond
     that contained in the latest Preliminary Prospectus) as the Company has
     advised you,

 
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     prior to the Execution Time, will be included or made therein.

          The terms which follow, when used in this Agreement, shall have the
meanings indicated.  The term "the Effective Date" shall mean each date that the
Post-Effective Amendment and any additional post-effective amendment or
amendments thereto became or become effective.  "Execution Time" shall mean the
date and time that this Agreement is executed and delivered by the parties
hereto.  The term "Initial Effective Date" shall mean the date the Registration
Statement relating to the Subscription Offering became effective.  "Preliminary
Prospectus" shall mean any preliminary prospectus referred to in paragraph 
(i) above and any preliminary prospectus included in the Registration 
Statement at the Effective Date that omits Rule 430A Information.  "Prospectus"
shall mean the prospectus relating to the Securities that is first filed 
pursuant to Rule 424(b) after the Execution Time or, if no filing pursuant to 
Rule 424(b) is required, shall mean the form of final prospectus relating to 
the Securities included in the Post-Effective Amendment at the Effective Date.
"Registration Statement" shall mean the registration statement referred to in 
paragraph (i) above, as amended, and the Post-Effective Amendment, as further 
amended, each time such registration statement and the Post-Effective Amendment
were declared effective, including in each case all exhibits and financial 
statements thereto, as amended at the Execution Time (or, if not effective at 
the Execution Time, in the form in which it shall become effective).  Such 
term shall include Rule 430A Information deemed to be included therein at the 
Effective Date as provided by Rule 430A.  "Rule 424" and "Rule 430A" refer to 
such rules under the Act.  "Rule 430A Information" means information with 
respect to the Securities and the offering thereof permitted to be omitted from
the Post-Effective Amendment, as further amended, when it becomes effective 
pursuant to Rule 430A.

          (ii)   On the Initial Effective Date and at all times from the
     Initial Effective Date through the Closing Date (or, if applicable, the
     settlement date with respect to the Option Securities as described in
     Section 3 hereof), the Registration Statement and the Prospectus (and any
     supplements thereto) did and will comply in all material respects with the
     applicable requirements of the Act and the rules thereunder; on the Initial
     Effective Date and at all times from the Initial Effective Date through the
     Closing Date (or, if applicable, the settlement date with respect to the
     Option Securities as described in Section 3 hereof), the Registration
     Statement did not or will not contain any untrue statement of a material
     fact or omit to state any material fact required to be stated therein or
     necessary in order to make the statements therein not misleading, and the
     Prospectus (together with any supplements thereto) did not and will not
     include any untrue statement of a material fact or omit to state a material
     fact necessary in order to make the statements therein, in the light of the
     circumstances

 
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     under which they were made, not misleading; provided, however, that neither
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     the Company nor Farm Family makes any representation or warranty as to the
     information contained in or omitted from the Registration Statement or the
     Prospectus (or any supplement thereto) in reliance upon and in conformity
     with information furnished in writing to the Company by or on behalf of any
     Underwriter through the Representative specifically for inclusion in the
     Registration Statement or the Prospectus (or any supplement thereto).

          (iii)  The Company has as of the date hereof, and will have until
     immediately prior to the Effectiveness of the Plan, no subsidiaries.  Prior
     to the Effectiveness of the Plan, Rural Agency and Brokerage, Inc., a New
     York corporation ("Rural"), Rural Insurance Agency and Brokerage of
     Massachusetts, Inc., a Massachusetts corporation ("RIAB"), and R.A.A.B. of
     W. Va., Inc., a West Virginia corporation ("R.A.A.B."), are the only
     subsidiaries of Farm Family Mutual.  Upon the Effectiveness of the Plan,
     FFCIC, Rural, RIAB, and R.A.A.B. (collectively, the "Post-Effective
     Subsidiaries") will be the only subsidiaries of the Company.  The Company
     is duly organized and validly existing as a corporation in good standing
     under the laws of the State of Delaware with corporate power and authority
     under such laws to own, lease and operate its properties and conduct its
     business as described in the Prospectus.  Farm Family Mutual has been and,
     until immediately prior to the effectiveness of the Plan, will continue to
     be duly organized and validly existing as a mutual property and casualty
     insurance company in good standing under the laws of the State of New York;
     upon the Effectiveness of the Plan, FFCIC will be duly organized and
     validly existing as a stock property and casualty insurance company in good
     standing under the laws of the State of New York with corporate power and
     authority under such laws to own, lease and operate its properties and
     conduct its business as described in the Prospectus.  Each of Rural, RIAB
     and R.A.A.B. is a corporation duly organized, validly existing and in good
     standing under the laws of the State of New York, the State of
     Massachusetts and the State of West Virginia, respectively, with corporate
     power and authority under such respective laws to own, lease and operate
     its properties and conduct its business.  Each of the Company, Farm Family
     Mutual, Rural, RIAB and R.A.A.B. is and, upon the Effectiveness of the
     Plan, FFCIC will be, duly qualified to transact business as a foreign
     corporation and in good standing in each other jurisdiction in which its
     ownership or lease of property or the conduct of its business requires such
     qualification, except to the extent that the failure to be so qualified or
     be in good standing would not, individually or in the aggregate, have a
     material adverse effect on the Company, Farm Family Mutual or FFCIC, as the
     case may be.  All of the outstanding shares of capital stock of each of
     Rural, RIAB and R.A.A.B. have been, and, upon the Effectiveness of the
     Plan, all of the

 
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     outstanding shares of capital stock of FFCIC will be, duly authorized and
     validly issued and are fully paid and non-assessable.  Upon the
     effectiveness of the Plan, all of the outstanding shares of capital stock
     of each Post-Effective Subsidiary will be owned by the Company, directly or
     through one or more Post-Effective Subsidiaries, free and clear of any
     pledge, lien, security interest, charge, claim, equity or encumbrance of
     any kind.

          (iv)   The Company has an authorized capitalization as set forth in
     the Prospectus, and all of the issued shares of capital stock of the
     Company have been duly and validly authorized and issued, are fully paid
     and non-assessable and conform to the description thereof contained in the
     Prospectus; the Securities to be issued and sold by the Company pursuant to
     this Agreement have been duly authorized and, when issued and delivered
     against payment therefor as provided herein, will be fully paid and non-
     assessable and will conform to the description thereof contained in the
     Prospectus.

          (v)    The Reorganization Shares have been duly authorized and, when
     issued and delivered to Eligible Policyholders and Participating Surplus
     Note Holders pursuant to the Plan, will be validly issued, fully paid and
     non-assessable; no holder thereof will be subject to personal liability by
     reason of being such a holder; such Reorganization Shares are not subject
     to the preemptive rights of any stockholder of the Company and, assuming
     the FFM Board declares the Plan effective, the opinion of special tax
     counsel is confirmed as specified in the Plan, and the Superintendent
     issues a certificate of authority for FFCIC, all corporate action required
     to be taken for the authorization and issuance of the Reorganization Shares
     has been validly and sufficiently taken.

          (vi)   The offering, issuance and delivery of the Reorganization
     Shares to Eligible Policyholders and Participating Surplus Note Holders
     pursuant to the Plan is exempt from the registration requirements of the
     Act.

          (vii)  The Plan has been duly adopted by the required vote of the FFM
     Board (which adoption complied with the applicable requirements of Section
     7307 of the New York Insurance Law ("Section 7307")) and has been submitted
     to the Superintendent as required by Section 7307 and conforms in all
     material respects to the requirements of the laws of the State of New York
     applicable to the reorganization of mutual property and casualty insurance
     companies into stock property and casualty insurance companies as
     administered or interpreted by the Superintendent (collectively, the "New
     York Reorganization Laws"); on or before March 7, 1996, a notice was mailed
     (the "Hearing Notice") to all persons entitled to appear at the hearing
     regarding the Plan (the "Hearing"), in accordance with the requirements of
     Section

 
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     7307; on or before February 27, 1996, Farm Family Mutual gave notice of
     such Hearing by publication in the publications set forth on Schedule II
     hereto; on April 2, 1996, a hearing officer designated by the
     Superintendent held the Hearing; on May 1, 1996 the Superintendent issued
     an opinion and decision approving the Plan in accordance with the
     requirements of Section 7307 (the "Superintendent's Opinion and Decision");
     the Plan was duly adopted on June 17, 1996 by a vote (the "Policyholder
     Vote") of more than two-thirds of the votes validly cast at the Special
     Meeting (as defined in the Plan) by Voting Policyholders (as defined in the
     Plan) (which adoption complied with the applicable requirements of Section
     7307) and such adoption has not been rescinded or otherwise withdrawn;
     other than FFM Board's declaring the Plan effective, the confirming of the
     opinion of special tax counsel as specified in the Plan, and the issuance
     by the Superintendent of a certificate of authority for FFCIC, there are no
     conditions or other requirements remaining for the effectiveness of the
     Plan; no other approvals are required to be obtained under Section 7307 for
     the effectiveness of the Plan; upon the Effectiveness of the Plan, the Plan
     will become effective in accordance with its terms pursuant to Section 7307
     and the Reorganization will be completed in accordance with the Plan and
     the New York Reorganization Laws; and prior to or contemporaneously with
     the Closing Date (as defined in Section 3) each of the actions required to
     occur on or prior to the Effective Date pursuant to the Superintendent's
     Opinion and Decision or the Plan will have occurred.

          (viii)  The policyholder information statement for the Special Meeting
     (the "Information Statement"), as of its date and as of the date of the
     Policyholder Vote, did not contain an untrue statement of a material fact
     or omit to state a material fact required to be stated therein or necessary
     to make the statements therein, in light of the circumstances under which
     they were made, not misleading.

          (ix)    Farm Family Mutual holds such insurance licenses, certificates
     and permits from governmental authorities (including, without limitation,
     from the insurance regulatory agencies of the various jurisdictions where
     it conducts business (the "Insurance Licenses")) which are necessary to the
     conduct of its business as described in the Prospectus, except to the
     extent that the failure to hold such Insurance Licenses would not,
     individually or in the aggregate, have a material adverse effect on Farm
     Family Mutual; the Company and Farm Family Mutual have fulfilled and
     performed all obligations necessary to maintain the Insurance Licenses,
     except to the extent that the failure to fulfill and perform such
     obligations would not, individually or in the aggregate, have a material
     adverse effect on Farm Family Mutual; neither the Company nor Farm Family
     Mutual has received any notice of, or otherwise has any knowledge of, any
     action, suit, proceeding or investigation, and, to

 
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     the knowledge of the Company and Farm Family Mutual, there is no threatened
     action, suit, proceeding or investigation, that could reasonably be
     expected to result in the revocation, termination or suspension of any
     Insurance License; and neither the Company nor Farm Family has received any
     notice of, or otherwise has any knowledge of, the issuance of, or
     commencement of any proceeding for the issuance of, any order or decree of
     an insurance regulatory agency or body, which order or decree would impair,
     restrict or prohibit the payment of dividends by Farm Family to the
     Company.

            (x)   Farm Family has made no material changes in its insurance
     reserving practices since December 31, 1995.

           (xi)   All ceded and material assumed reinsurance treaties and
     arrangements to which Farm Family is a party are in full force and effect
     and Farm Family is not in violation of or in default in the performance,
     observance or fulfillment of, any obligation, agreement, covenant or
     condition contained therein, except to the extent that such violation of or
     default in the performance, observance or fulfillment of any such
     obligation, agreement, covenant or condition contained therein would not,
     individually or in the aggregate, have a material adverse effect on Farm
     Family; Farm Family has not received notice from any of the other parties
     to such treaties, contracts or agreements that such other party intends not
     to perform such treaty and, to the best knowledge of the Company and Farm
     Family, the Company and Farm Family have no reason to believe that any of
     the other parties to such treaties or arrangements will be unable to
     perform such treaty or arrangement except to the extent adequately and
     properly reserved for in the consolidated financial statements of the
     Company included in the Prospectus.

          (xii)   Coopers & Lybrand L.L.P., who are reporting upon the audited
     consolidated financial statements and schedules included in the
     Registration Statement, are independent public accountants required by the
     Act and the rules and regulations thereunder.

          (xiii)  The consolidated financial statements, including the notes
     thereto, included in the Registration Statement present fairly the
     consolidated financial position of Farm Family Mutual and its subsidiaries
     as of the dates indicated and the consolidated results of operations and
     the consolidated cash flows of Farm Family Mutual and its subsidiaries for
     the periods specified.  Except as otherwise stated in the Registration
     Statement, such financial statements have been prepared in conformity with
     generally accepted accounting principles applied on a consistent basis
     throughout the periods involved.  The financial statement schedules, if
     any, included in the Registration Statement present fairly the information
     required to be stated

 
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     therein.  The selected financial data included in the Prospectuses present
     fairly the information shown therein and have been compiled on a basis
     consistent with that of the audited consolidated financial statements
     included in the Registration Statement.

          (xiv)  The statutory financial statements of Farm Family Mutual from
     which certain ratios and other statistical data filed as part of the
     Registration Statement or included or incorporated in the Prospectus have
     been derived, have for each relevant period been prepared in conformity
     with statutory accounting practices required or permitted by the New York
     State Department of Insurance, and such statutory accounting practices have
     been applied on a consistent basis throughout the periods involved, except
     as may otherwise be indicated therein or in the notes thereto, and present
     fairly the statutory financial position of Farm Family Mutual as of the
     dates thereof, and the statutory basis results of operations of Farm Family
     Mutual for the periods covered thereby.

           (xv)  Each of the Company and Farm Family maintains a system of
     internal accounting controls sufficient to provide reasonable assurance
     that (A) transactions are executed in accordance with management's general
     or specific authorizations; (B) transactions are recorded as necessary to
     permit preparation of financial statements in conformity with generally
     accepted accounting principles and to maintain asset accountability; 
     (C) access to assets is permitted only in accordance with management's 
     general or specific authorization; and (D) the recorded accountability for
     assets is compared with the existing assets at reasonable intervals and
     appropriate action is taken with respect to any differences and, as of the
     Closing Date (as defined in Section 3 hereof), each of the Company and Farm
     Family will continue to maintain such a system.

          (xvi)  The Company and Farm Family have good and marketable title in
     fee simple to all real property and good and marketable title to all
     personal property owned by them, in each case free and clear of all liens,
     encumbrances and defects except such as do not materially affect the value
     of such property and do not materially interfere with the use made and
     proposed to be made of such property by the Company and Farm Family; and
     all real property and buildings held under lease by the Company and Farm
     Family are held by them under valid, subsisting and enforceable leases,
     with such exceptions as are not material and do not interfere with the use
     made and proposed to be made of such property and buildings by the Company
     and Farm Family.

          (xvii) The Company and Farm Family have filed all federal, state and
     local income and franchise tax returns required to be filed (or have
     received an extension with respect thereto), except to the extent that the
     failure to

 
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     file such tax returns would not, individually or in the aggregate, have a
     material adverse effect on the Company or Farm Family, through the date
     hereof and have paid all taxes due thereon, to the extent such taxes are
     not being contested in good faith, and no tax deficiency has been
     determined adversely to the Company or Farm Family, except to the extent
     that such adverse determination would not have a material adverse effect on
     the Company or Farm Family.

          (xviii)  Neither the Company nor Farm Family is aware of the
     introduction of any change in any insurance laws, rules or regulations has
     been introduced which would reasonably be expected to be adopted and if
     adopted, would reasonably be expected to have, individually or in the
     aggregate with all such changes, a material adverse effect upon the
     financial condition, business affairs or results of operations of the
     Company and Farm Family Mutual considered as one enterprise.

          (xix)    The execution, delivery and performance of this Agreement by
     the Company and Farm Family, the consummation of the transactions
     contemplated hereby and the issuance and delivery of the Securities
     hereunder, will not conflict with or result in a breach or violation of any
     of the terms or provisions of, or constitute a default under, any
     indenture, mortgage, deed of trust, loan agreement or other agreement or
     instrument to which the Company or Farm Family is a party or by which the
     Company or Farm Family is bound or to which any of the property or assets
     of the Company or Farm Family is subject, except to the extent that such
     breach, violation or default would not, individually or in the aggregate,
     have a material adverse effect on the Company or Farm Family.  The
     execution, delivery and performance of this Agreement by the Company and
     Farm Family, the consummation of the transactions contemplated hereby and
     the issuance and delivery of the Securities hereunder will not result in
     any violation of the provisions of the charter or by-laws of the Company or
     Farm Family or any statute or any order, rule or regulation of any court or
     governmental agency or body having jurisdiction over the Company or Farm
     Family or any of their properties or assets, assuming compliance with the
     applicable state or foreign securities laws.  Except for the registration
     of the Securities under the Act and such consents, approvals,
     authorizations, registrations or qualifications as may be required under
     the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended (the "Exchange Act"), the
     New York Insurance Law and applicable state or foreign securities laws in
     connection with the purchase and distribution of the Securities by the
     Underwriters, no consent, approval, authorization or order of, or filing or
     registration with, any such court or governmental agency or body is
     required for the execution, delivery and performance of this Agreement by
     the Company and Farm Family Mutual or the consummation of the transactions
     contemplated hereby by the Company and Farm Family Mutual, other than the
     issuance

 
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     by the Superintendent of a certificate of authority for FFCIC.

             (xx)    This Agreement has been duly authorized, executed and
     delivered by the Company and Farm Family Mutual.

            (xxi)    There are no contracts, agreements or understandings
     between the Company and any person granting such person the right to
     require the Company to file a registration statement under the Act with
     respect to any securities of the Company owned or to be owned by such
     person or to require the Company to include such securities in the
     Securities registered pursuant to the Registration Statement or in any
     securities being registered pursuant to any other registration statement
     filed by the Company under the Act, except as disclosed in the Registration
     Statement.

            (xxii)   There are no legal or governmental proceedings pending to
     which the Company or Farm Family is a party or of which any property or
     assets of the Company or Farm Family is the subject which could reasonably
     be expected to have a material adverse effect on the consolidated financial
     position, stockholders' equity, results of operations, business or
     prospects of the Company or Farm Family; and, to the best of the Company's
     and Farm Family's knowledge, no such proceedings are threatened or
     contemplated by governmental authorities or threatened by others.

            (xxiii)  Neither the Company nor Farm Family (A) is in violation of
     its charter or by-laws, (B) is in default in any material respect, and no
     event has occurred which, with notice or lapse of time or both, would
     constitute such a default, in the due performance or observance of any
     term, covenant or condition contained in any material indenture, mortgage,
     deed of trust, loan agreement or other agreement or instrument to which it
     is a party or by which it is bound or to which any of its properties or
     assets is subject or (C) is in violation in any material respect of any
     law, ordinance, governmental rule, regulation or court decree to which it
     or its property or assets may be subject or has failed to obtain any
     material license, permit, certificate, franchise or other governmental
     authorization or permit necessary to the ownership of its property or to
     the conduct of its business.

            (xxiv)   There are no contracts or other documents which are
     required to be described in the Prospectus or filed as exhibits to the
     Registration Statement by the Act or by the rules and regulations
     thereunder which have not been described in the Prospectus or filed as
     exhibits to the Registration Statement or incorporated therein by reference
     as permitted by such rules and regulations.

 
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        (xxv)  The Company and Farm Family have filed all reports, information
     statements and other documents with the insurance regulatory authorities 
     of their respective jurisdictions of incorporation as are required to be 
     filed pursuant to the insurance statutes of such jurisdictions and the
     rules and regulations of the insurance regulatory authorities thereunder,
     except to the extent that the failure to file such reports, information
     statements and other documents would not, individually or in the aggregate,
     have a material adverse effect on the Company and Farm Family.

          2.  Purchase and Sale.  (a)  Subject to the terms and conditions and
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in reliance upon the representations and warranties herein set forth, the
Company agrees to sell to each Underwriter, and each Underwriter agrees,
severally and not jointly, to purchase from the Company, at a purchase price of
$____ per share, the amount of the Underwritten Securities set forth opposite
such Underwriter's name in Schedule I hereto.

          (b)  Subject to the terms and conditions and in reliance upon the
representations and warranties herein set forth, the Company hereby grants an
option to the several Underwriters to purchase, severally and not jointly, up to
366,020 shares of the Option Securities at the same purchase price per share as
the Underwriters shall pay for the Underwritten Securities.  Said option may be
exercised only to cover over-allotments in the sale of the Underwritten
Securities by the Underwriters.  Said option may be exercised in whole or in
part at any time (but not more than once) on or before the 30th day after the
date of the Prospectus upon written or telegraphic notice by the Representative
to the Company setting forth the number of shares of the Option Securities as to
which the several Underwriters are exercising the option and the settlement
date.  Delivery of certificates for the shares of Option Securities by the
Company, and payment therefor to the Company, shall be made as provided in
Section 3 hereof.  The number of shares of the Option Securities to be purchased
by each Underwriter shall be the same percentage of the total number of shares
of the Option Securities to be purchased by the several Underwriters as such
Underwriter is purchasing of the Underwritten Securities, subject to such
adjustments as you in your absolute discretion shall make to eliminate any
fractional shares.

          3.  Delivery and Payment.  Delivery of and payment for the
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Underwritten Securities and the Option Securities (if the option provided for in
Section 2(b) hereof shall have been exercised on or before the third business
day prior to the Closing Date) shall be made at the office of Simpson Thacher &
Bartlett, 425 Lexington Avenue, New York, New York, at 10:00 A.M., New York City
time, on         , 1996, or such later date (not later than      , 1996) as the
Representative shall designate, which date and time may be postponed by
agreement between the Representative and the Company or as provided in Section
10 hereof (such date and time of delivery and payment for

 
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the Securities being herein called the "Closing Date").  Delivery of the
Securities shall be made to the Representative for the respective accounts of
the several Underwriters against payment by the several Underwriters through the
Representative of the respective aggregate purchase prices of the Securities
being sold by the Company to or upon the order of the Company by certified or
official bank check or checks drawn on or by a New York Clearing House bank and
payable in next day funds.  Delivery of the Underwritten Securities and the
Option Securities shall be made at such location as the Representative shall
reasonably designate at least one business day in advance of the Closing Date
and payment for such Securities shall be made at the office of Simpson Thacher &
Bartlett, 425 Lexington Avenue, New York, New York 10017.  Certificates for the
Securities shall be registered in such names and in such denominations as the
Representative may request not less than two full business day in advance of the
Closing Date.

          The Company agrees to have the Securities available for inspection,
checking and packaging by the Representative in New York, New York, not later
than 1:00 P.M. on the business day prior to the Closing Date.

          If the option provided for in Section 2(b) hereof is exercised after
the third business day prior to the Closing Date, the Company will deliver (at
the expense of the Company) to the Representative, at One New York Plaza, New
York, New York, on the date specified by the Representative (which shall be
within three business days after exercise of said option), certificates for the
Option Securities in such names and denominations as the Representative shall
have requested against payment of the purchase price thereof to or upon the
order of the Company by certified or official bank check or checks drawn on or
by a New York Clearing House bank and payable in next day funds.  If settlement
for the Option Securities occurs after the Closing Date, the Company will
deliver to the Representative on the settlement date for the Option Securities,
and the obligation of the Underwriters to purchase the Option Securities shall
be conditioned upon receipt of, supplemental opinions, certificates and letters
confirming as of such date the opinions, certificates and letters delivered on
the Closing Date pursuant to Section 6 hereof.

          4.  Offering by Underwriters.  It is understood that the several
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Underwriters propose to offer the Securities for sale to the public as set forth
in the Prospectus.

          5.  Agreements.
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          (a)  The Company and Farm Family agree with the several Underwriters
     that:

          (i)  The Company will use its best efforts to cause the Post-
     Effective Amendment, if not effective at the Execution Time, and any
     amendment thereto, to become effective.  Prior

 
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     to the termination of the offering of the Securities, the Company will not
     file any amendment of the Registration Statement or supplement to the
     Prospectus without your prior consent.  Subject to the foregoing sentence,
     if the Post-Effective Amendment or any amendment thereto has become or
     becomes effective pursuant to Rule 430A, or filing of the Prospectus is
     otherwise required under Rule 424(b), the Company will cause the
     Prospectus, properly completed, and any supplement thereto to be filed with
     the Commission pursuant to the applicable paragraph of Rule 424(b) within
     the time period prescribed and will provide evidence satisfactory to the
     Representative of such timely filing.  The Company will promptly advise the
     Representative (A) when the Post-Effective Amendment, if not effective at
     the Execution Time, and any amendment thereto, shall have become effective,
     (B) when the Prospectus, and any supplement thereto, shall have been filed
     (if required) with the Commission pursuant to Rule 424(b), (C) when, prior
     to termination of the offering of the Securities, any amendment to the
     Registration Statement shall have been filed or become effective, (D) of
     any request by the Commission for any amendment of the Registration
     Statement or supplement to the Prospectus or for any additional
     information, (E) of the issuance by the Commission of any stop order
     suspending the effectiveness of the Registration Statement or the
     institution or threatening of any proceeding for that purpose and (F) of
     the receipt by the Company of any notification with respect to the
     suspension of the qualification of the Securities for sale in any
     jurisdiction or the initiation or threatening of any proceeding for such
     purpose.  The Company will use its best efforts to prevent the issuance of
     any such stop order and, if issued, to obtain as soon as possible the
     withdrawal thereof.

               (ii)   If, at any time when a prospectus relating to the
     Securities is required to be delivered under the Act, any event occurs as a
     result of which the Prospectus as then supplemented would include any
     untrue statement of a material fact or omit to state any material fact
     necessary to make the statements therein in the light of the circumstances
     under which they were made not misleading, or if it shall be necessary to
     amend the Registration Statement or supplement the Prospectus to comply
     with the Act or the rules thereunder, the Company promptly will prepare and
     file with the Commission, subject to the second sentence of subparagraph
     (i) of paragraph (a) of this Section 5, an amendment or supplement which
     will correct such statement or omission or effect such compliance.

              (iii)   Not later than 45 days after the end of the 12-month
     period beginning at the end of the fiscal quarter of the Company during
     which the Effective Date occurs (or 90 days if such 12-month period
     coincides with the Company's fiscal year), the Company will make generally
     available to its security holders and to the Representative an earnings

 
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     statement or statements of the Company and its subsidiaries, covering such
     12-month period, which will satisfy the provisions of Section 11(a) of the
     Act and Rule 158 under the Act.

               (iv)  The Company will furnish to the Representative and counsel
     for the Underwriters, without charge, signed copies of the Registration
     Statement (including exhibits thereto) and to each other Underwriter a copy
     of the Registration Statement (without exhibits thereto) and, so long as
     delivery of a prospectus by an Underwriter or dealer may be required by the
     Act, as many copies of each Preliminary Prospectus and the Prospectus and
     any supplement thereto as the Representative may reasonably request.  The
     Company will pay the expenses of printing or other production of all
     documents relating to the offering.

               (v)   The Company will endeavor to qualify the Securities for
     sale under the laws of such jurisdictions as the Representative may
     designate (provided that the Company shall not be required to qualify as a
     foreign corporation or to take any action which would subject it to
     taxation or service of process in suits, other than as to matters and
     transactions relating to the offer and sale of the Securities, in any
     jurisdiction where it is not now so subject) and will maintain such
     qualifications in effect so long as required for the distribution of the
     Securities and will pay the fee of the National Association of Securities
     Dealers, Inc., in connection with its review of the offering.

               (vi)  The Company will not, for a period of 180 days following
     the Execution Time, without the prior written consent of the
     Representative, offer, sell or contract to sell, or otherwise dispose of,
     directly or indirectly, or announce the offering of, any other shares of
     Common Stock or any securities convertible into, or exercisable or
     exchangeable for, shares of Common Stock other than: (A) the Reorganization
     Shares to Eligible Policyholders and Participating Surplus Note Holders in
     connection with the consummation of the Reorganization pursuant to the
     Plan; (B) Common Stock issued and sold pursuant to the Subscription
     Offering; and (C) Common Stock issued and sold pursuant to the Option
     Purchase Agreement dated February 14, 1996 between the Company and the
     shareholders of Farm Family Life Insurance Company.

              (vii)  The Company will use its best efforts to effect the
     listing of the Common Stock on the New York Stock Exchange.

                6.  Conditions to the Obligations of the Underwriters.  The
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obligations of the Underwriters to purchase the Underwritten Securities and the
Option Securities, as the case may be, shall be subject to the accuracy of the
representations and warranties

 
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on the part of the Company and Farm Family contained herein as of the Execution
Time, the Closing Date and any settlement date for the Option Securities
pursuant to Section 3 hereof, to the accuracy of the statements of the Company
and Farm Family made in any certificates pursuant to the provisions hereof, to
the performance by the Company and Farm Family of their respective obligations
hereunder and to the following additional conditions:

          (a)  If the Post-Effective Amendment or an amendment thereto has not
     become effective prior to the Execution Time, unless the Representative
     agrees in writing to a later time, the Post-Effective Amendment or an
     amendment thereto will become effective not later than (i) 6:00 P.M., New
     York City time, on the date of determination of the public offering price,
     if such determination occurred at or prior to 3:00 P.M., New York City
     time, on such date or (ii) 12:00 Noon on the business day following the day
     on which the public offering price was determined, if such determination
     occurred after 3:00 P.M., New York City time, on such date; if filing of
     the Prospectus, or any supplement thereto, is required pursuant to Rule
     424(b), the Prospectus, and any such supplement, will be filed in the
     manner and within the time period required by Rule 424(b); and no stop
     order suspending the effectiveness of the Registration Statement shall have
     been issued and no proceedings for that purpose shall have been instituted
     or threatened.

          (b)  The Company shall have furnished to the Representative the
     opinion of LeBoeuf, Lamb, Greene & Macrae, L.L.P., counsel for the Company,
     dated the Closing Date, to the effect that:

          (i)  the Company's authorized equity capitalization is as set forth in
     the Prospectus; the capital stock of the Company conforms to the
     description thereof contained in the Prospectus; the Securities being sold
     hereunder by the Company have been duly and validly authorized, and, when
     issued and delivered to and paid for by the Underwriters pursuant to this
     Agreement, will be fully paid and nonassessable; the form of the
     certificates for the Securities conforms to the requirements of the
     Delaware General Corporation Law; and, except for the subscription rights
     provided to certain Eligible Policyholders and Participating Surplus Note
     Holders under the Plan and Section 7307 of the New York Insurance Law and
     to which the Subscription Offering related, the holders of outstanding
     shares of capital stock of the Company are not entitled to preemptive or
     other rights to subscribe for the Securities pursuant to any agreement or
     instrument to which the Company is a party or by which it is bound and of
     which such counsel has knowledge, or under the Delaware General Corporation
     Law, the laws of the State of New York, or the charter or by-laws of the
     Company;

 
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               (ii)   the statements in the Prospectus under the headings "The
     Reorganization" and "Business -- Regulation", to the extent that they
     constitute matters of law or legal conclusions, have been reviewed by such
     counsel and fairly present the information disclosed therein in all
     material respects;

              (iii)   the Post-Effective Amendment, as amended, has become
     effective under the Act; any required filing of the Prospectus, and any
     supplements thereto, pursuant to Rule 424(b) has been made in the manner
     and within the time period required by Rule 424(b); to the best knowledge
     of such counsel, no stop order suspending the effectiveness of the
     Registration Statement has been issued, no proceedings for that purpose
     have been instituted or threatened and the Registration Statement and the
     Prospectus (other than the financial statements, schedules and other
     financial and statistical information contained therein as to which such
     counsel need express no opinion) comply as to form in all material respects
     with the applicable requirements of the Act and the rules thereunder; and
     such counsel has no reason to believe that at the Initial Effective Date
     and at all times from the Initial Effective Date through the Closing Date
     (or, if applicable, the settlement date with respect to the Option
     Securities as described in Section 3 hereof), the Registration Statement
     contained any untrue statement of a material fact or omitted to state any
     material fact required to be stated therein or necessary to make the
     statements therein not misleading or that the Prospectus includes any
     untrue statement of a material fact or omits to state a material fact
     necessary to make the statements therein, in the light of the circumstances
     under which they were made, not misleading;

               (iv)   no consent, approval, authorization or order of any court
     or governmental agency or body is required under the General Corporation
     Law of the State of Delaware, the Business Corporation Law of the State of
     New York or the New York Insurance Law for the consummation by the Company
     and Farm Family of the transactions contemplated herein, or for the
     execution, delivery and performance by the Company and Farm Family of this
     Agreement, except (A) such as have been obtained or made under the Act, the
     Exchange Act, the New York Insurance Law and the rules and regulations
     thereunder and (B) such as may be required under state securities or blue
     sky laws or foreign securities laws in connection with the purchase and
     distribution of the Securities by the Underwriters and such other approvals
     (specified in such opinion) as have been obtained; and

                (v)   to the best knowledge of such counsel, no holders of
     securities of the Company have rights to the registration of such
     securities under, or by reason of the filing of, the Registration
     Statement, except as disclosed in the Registration Statement.

 
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In rendering such opinion, such counsel may rely (A) as to matters involving
the application of laws of any jurisdiction other than the State of New York,
the Delaware General Corporation Law or the United States, to the extent such
counsel deems proper and specified in such opinion, upon the opinion of other
counsel of good standing whom such counsel believes to be reliable and who are
satisfactory to counsel for the Underwriters and (B) as to matters of fact, to
the extent such counsel deems proper, on certificates of responsible officers of
the Company and Farm Family and public officials.  References to the Prospectus
in this paragraph (b) include any supplements thereto at the Closing Date.

     (c)  The Company shall have furnished to the Representative the opinion of
Victoria M. Stanton, Executive Vice President, General Counsel and Secretary of
the Company, dated the Closing Date, to the effect that:

          (i)   each of the Company and FFCIC has been duly incorporated and is
     validly existing as a corporation in good standing under the laws of the
     jurisdiction in which it is chartered or organized, with full corporate
     power and authority to own its properties and conduct its business as
     described in the Prospectus, and is duly qualified to do business as a
     foreign corporation and is in good standing under the laws of each
     jurisdiction which requires such qualification wherein it owns or leases
     properties or conducts business, except to the extent that the failure to
     be in good standing or to be so qualified would not, individually or in the
     aggregate, have a material adverse effect on the Company or FFCIC;

         (ii)   except for the delivery of certificates for the Reorganization
     Shares and the shares of Common Stock to be issued pursuant to the
     Subscription Offering, all the outstanding shares of capital stock of each
     of the Company and FFCIC have been duly and validly authorized and issued
     and are fully paid and nonassessable, and, except as otherwise set forth in
     the Prospectus, all outstanding shares of capital stock of FFCIC are owned
     by the Company free and clear of any perfected security interest and, to
     the knowledge of such counsel, after due inquiry, any other security
     interests, claims, liens or encumbrances;

        (iii)   to the best knowledge of such counsel, no stop order suspending
     the effectiveness of the Registration Statement has been issued, no
     proceedings for that purpose have been instituted or threatened and such
     counsel has no reason to believe that at the Initial Effective Date and at
     all times from the Initial Effective Date through the Closing Date (or, if
     applicable, the settlement date with respect to the Option Securities as
     described in Section 3 hereof), the Registration Statement contained any
     untrue statement of a material fact or omitted to state any material fact
     required to be stated therein or necessary to

 
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     make the statements therein not misleading or that the Prospectus includes
     any untrue statement of a material fact or omits to state a material fact
     necessary to make the statements therein, in the light of the circumstances
     under which they were made, not misleading;

         (iv)   to the best knowledge of such counsel, there is no pending
     or threatened action, suit or proceeding before any court or governmental
     agency, authority or body or any arbitrator involving the Company or FFCIC
     of a character required to be disclosed in the Registration Statement which
     is not adequately disclosed in the Prospectus, and there is no franchise,
     contract or other document of a character required to be described in the
     Registration Statement or Prospectus, or to be filed as an exhibit, which
     is not described or filed as required; and the statements in the Prospectus
     under the heading "Business -- Legal Proceedings", to the extent that they
     constitute matters of law or legal conclusions, have been reviewed by such
     counsel and fairly present the information disclosed therein in all
     material respects;

          (v)   this Agreement has been duly authorized, executed and delivered
     by the Company and Farm Family Mutual;

         (vi)   neither the issue and sale by the Company of the Securities, nor
     the consummation by the Company and FFCIC of any other of the transactions
     herein contemplated nor the fulfillment by the Company and FFCIC of the
     terms hereof will conflict with, result in a breach or violation of, or
     constitute a default under, any indenture or other agreement or instrument
     to which the Company or FFCIC is a party or bound, except to the extent
     that such conflict, breach, violation or default would not, individually or
     in the aggregate, have a material adverse effect on the Company and FFCIC;
     nor will such actions result in any violation of the provisions of any law
     or the charter or by-laws of the Company and FFCIC or any judgement, order
     or decree known to such counsel to be applicable to the Company or FFCIC of
     any court, regulatory body, administrative agency, governmental body or
     arbitrator having jurisdiction over the Company or FFCIC;

        (vii)   FFCIC holds such insurance licenses, certificates and permits
     from governmental authorities (including, without limitation, Insurance
     Licenses) which are necessary to the conduct of its business as described
     in the Prospectus, except to the extent that the failure to hold such
     Insurance Licenses would not, individually or in the aggregate, have a
     material adverse effect on FFCIC; the Company and FFCIC have fulfilled and
     performed all obligations necessary to maintain the Insurance Licenses,
     except to the extent that the failure to fulfill and perform such
     obligations would not, individually or in the aggregate, have a material
     adverse effect on FFCIC; neither

 
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     the Company nor FFCIC has received any notice of, and such counsel has no
     knowledge of, any action, suit, proceeding or investigation, and to the
     best knowledge of such counsel there has been no threatened action, suit,
     proceeding or investigation, that could reasonably be expected to result in
     the revocation, termination or suspension of any Insurance License; and
     neither the Company nor FFCIC has received any notice of, and to the best
     knowledge of such counsel there has been no, issuance of, or commencement
     of any proceeding for the issuance of, any order or decree of an insurance
     regulatory agency or body, which order or decree would impair, restrict or
     prohibit the payment of dividends by FFCIC to the Company; and

       (viii)   to the best knowledge of such counsel, no holders of securities
     of the Company have rights to the registration of such securities under, or
     by reason of the filing of, the Registration Statement, except as disclosed
     in the Registration Statement.


In rendering such opinion, such counsel may rely (A) as to matters involving the
application of laws of any jurisdiction other than the State of New York, the
Delaware General Corporation Law or the United States, to the extent such
counsel deems proper and specified in such opinion, upon the opinion of other
counsel of good standing whom such counsel believes to be reliable and who are
satisfactory to counsel for the Underwriters and (B) as to matters of fact, to
the extent such counsel deems proper, on certificates of responsible officers of
the Company and Farm Family and public officials.  References to the Prospectus
in this paragraph (c) include any supplements thereto at the Closing Date.

          (d)   The Representative shall have received from Simpson Thacher &
Bartlett, counsel for the Underwriters, such opinion or opinions, dated the
Closing Date, with respect to the issuance and sale of the Securities, the Post-
Effective Amendment, as amended, the Prospectus (together with any supplement
thereto) and other related matters as the Representative may reasonably require,
and the Company and Farm Family shall have furnished to such counsel such
documents as they request for the purpose of enabling them to pass upon such
matters.

          (e)   The Company shall have furnished to the Representative a
certificate of the Company, signed by the Chairman of the Board or the President
and the principal financial or accounting officer of the Company, dated the
Closing Date, to the effect that the signers of such certificate have carefully
examined the Registration Statement, the Prospectus, any supplement to the
Prospectus and this Agreement and that:

          (i)   the representations and warranties of the Company and Farm 
Family in this Agreement are true and correct in

 
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     all material respects on and as of the Closing Date with the same effect as
     if made on the Closing Date and each of the Company and Farm Family have
     complied with all the agreements and satisfied all the conditions on its
     part to be performed or satisfied at or prior to the Closing Date;

         (ii)  no stop order suspending the effectiveness of the Registration
     Statement has been issued and no proceedings for that purpose have been
     instituted or, to the Company's knowledge, threatened; and

        (iii)  since the date of the most recent financial statements included
     in the Prospectus (exclusive of any supplement thereto), there has been no
     material adverse change in the condition (financial or other), earnings,
     business or properties of the Company and its subsidiaries, whether or not
     arising from transactions in the ordinary course of business, except as set
     forth in or contemplated in the Prospectus (exclusive of any supplement
     thereto).

          (f)  At the Execution Time, the Representative shall have received
from Coopers & Lybrand L.L.P. a letter dated as of the Execution Time, in form
and substance satisfactory to the Representative, together with signed or
reproduced copies of such letter for each of the other Underwriters, containing
statements and information of the type ordinarily included in accountants'
"comfort letters" to underwriters with respect to the financial statements and
certain financial information contained in the Registration Statement and the
Prospectus.

          (g)  At the Closing Date, the Representative shall have received from
Coopers & Lybrand L.L.P. a letter, dated such date, to the effect that they
reaffirm the statements made in the letter furnished pursuant to paragraph 
(f) of this Section 6, except that the specified date referred to shall be a
date not more than three days prior to Closing Date.

          References to the Prospectus in paragraphs (f) and (g) in this Section
6 include any supplement thereto at the date of the letter.

          (h)  Subsequent to the Execution Time or, if earlier, the dates as of
which information is given in the Registration Statement (exclusive of any
amendment thereof) and the Prospectus (exclusive of any supplement thereto),
there shall not have been (i) any change or decrease specified in the letter or
letters referred to in paragraphs (f) and (g) of this Section 6 or (ii) any
change, or any development involving a prospective change, in or affecting the
business or properties of the Company and its subsidiaries the effect of which,
in any case referred to in clause (i) or (ii) above, is, in the judgment of the
Representative, so material and adverse as to make it impractical or inadvisable
to proceed with the offering or delivery of the Securities as contemplated by
the Registration Statement

 
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(exclusive of any amendment thereof) and the Prospectus (exclusive of any
supplement thereto).

          (i)  Subsequent to the execution and delivery of this Agreement (i) no
downgrading shall have occurred in the A- rating of Farm Family by A.M. Best
Company Inc. and  (ii) except as and to the extent disclosed in the Registration
Statement, A.M. Best shall not have indicated that it has under surveillance or
review, with possible negative implications, its rating of Farm Family.

          (j)  Prior to the Closing Date, the Company and Farm Family shall have
furnished to the Representative such further information, certificates and
documents as the Representative may reasonably request.

          If any of the conditions specified in this Section 6 shall not have
been fulfilled in all material respects when and as provided in this Agreement,
or if any of the opinions and certificates mentioned above or elsewhere in this
Agreement shall not be in all material respects reasonably satisfactory in form
and substance to the Representative and counsel for the Underwriters, this
Agreement and all obligations of the Underwriters hereunder may be canceled at,
or at any time prior to, the Closing Date by the Representative.  Notice of such
cancellation shall be given to the Company in writing or by telephone or
telegraph confirmed in writing.

          7.   Reimbursement of Underwriters' Expenses.  If the sale of the
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Securities provided for herein is not consummated because any condition to the
obligations of the Underwriters set forth in Section 6 hereof is not satisfied,
because of any termination pursuant to Section 11 hereof or because of any
refusal, inability or failure on the part of the Company or Farm Family to
perform any agreement herein or comply with any provision hereof other than by
reason of a default by any of the Underwriters, the Company will, subject to the
approval of the Superintendent, if required, reimburse the Underwriters
severally upon demand for all out-of-pocket expenses (including reasonable fees
and disbursements of counsel) that shall have been incurred by them in
connection with the proposed purchase and sale of the Securities.  The Company
shall use its reasonable best efforts to obtain any such approval of the
Superintendent which may be required.

          8.   Indemnification and Contribution.  (a)  The Company and, subject
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to Section 9 hereof, Farm Family agree to indemnify and hold harmless each
Underwriter, the directors, officers, employees and agents of each Underwriter
and each person who controls any Underwriter within the meaning of either the
Act or the Exchange Act against any and all losses, claims, damages or
liabilities, joint or several, to which they or any of them may become subject
under the Act, the Exchange Act or other Federal or state statutory law or
regulation, at common law or otherwise, insofar as such losses, claims, damages
or liabilities (or

 
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actions in respect thereof) arise out of or are based upon any untrue statement
or alleged untrue statement of a material fact contained in the registration
statement for the registration of the Securities as originally filed or in any
amendment thereof, or in any Preliminary Prospectus or the Prospectus, or in any
amendment thereof or supplement thereto, or arise out of or are based upon the
omission or alleged omission to state therein a material fact required to be
stated therein or necessary to make the statements therein not misleading, and
agrees to reimburse each such indemnified party, as incurred, for any legal or
other expenses reasonably incurred by them in connection with investigating or
defending any such loss, claim, damage, liability or action; provided, however,
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that neither the Company nor Farm Family will be liable in any such case to the
extent that any such loss, claim, damage or liability arises out of or is based
upon any such untrue statement or alleged untrue statement or omission or
alleged omission made therein in reliance upon and in conformity with written
information furnished to the Company by or on behalf of any Underwriter through
the Representative specifically for inclusion therein.  The foregoing indemnity
agreement with respect to any Preliminary Prospectus shall not inure to the
benefit of any Underwriter (or any person who controls such Underwriter within
the meaning of either the Act or the Exchange Act) from whom the person
asserting any such loss, claim, damage or liability purchased Securities if a
copy of the Prospectus (as then amended or supplemented if the Company shall
have furnished any amendments or supplements thereto) was not sent or given by
or on behalf of such Underwriter to such person, if required by law so to have
been delivered, at or prior to the written confirmation of the sale of such
Securities to such person, and if the Prospectus (as so amended or supplemented)
would have cured the defect giving rise to such loss, claim, damage or
liability.  This indemnity agreement will be in addition to any liability which
the Company or Farm Family may otherwise have.

          (b)  Each Underwriter severally agrees to indemnify and hold harmless
the Company and Farm Family, each of their respective directors, officers,
employees and agents, and each person who controls the Company and Farm Family
within the meaning of either the Act or the Exchange Act, to the same extent as
the foregoing indemnity to each Underwriter, but only with reference to written
information relating to such Underwriter furnished to the Company by or on
behalf of such Underwriter through the Representative specifically for inclusion
in the documents referred to in the foregoing indemnity.  This indemnity
agreement will be in addition to any liability which any Underwriter may
otherwise have.  The Company and Farm Family acknowledge that the statements set
forth in the last paragraph of the cover page, the first paragraph of the inside
cover page and under the heading "Underwriting" in any Preliminary Prospectus
and the Prospectus constitute the only information furnished in writing by or on
behalf of the several Underwriters for inclusion in any Preliminary Prospectus
or the Prospectus,

 
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and you, as the Representative, confirm that such statements are correct.

          (c)  Promptly after receipt by an indemnified party under this Section
8 of notice of the commencement of any action, such indemnified party will, if a
claim in respect thereof is to be made against the indemnifying party under this
Section 8, notify the indemnifying party in writing of the commencement thereof;
but the failure so to notify the indemnifying party (i) will not relieve it from
liability under paragraph (a) or (b) above unless and to the extent it did not
otherwise learn of such action and such failure results in the forfeiture by the
indemnifying party of substantial rights and defenses and (ii) will not, in any
event, relieve the indemnifying party from any obligations to any indemnified
party other than the indemnification obligation provided in paragraph (a) or (b)
above.  The indemnifying party shall be entitled to appoint counsel of the
indemnifying party's choice at the indemnifying party's expense to represent the
indemnified party in any action for which indemnification is sought (in which
case the indemnifying party shall not thereafter be responsible for the fees and
expenses of any separate counsel retained by the indemnified party or parties
except as set forth below); provided, however, that such counsel shall be
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satisfactory to the indemnified party.  Notwithstanding the indemnifying party's
election to appoint counsel to represent the indemnified party in an action, the
indemnified party shall have the right to employ separate counsel (including
local counsel), and the indemnifying party shall bear the reasonable fees, costs
and expenses of such separate counsel if (i) the use of counsel chosen by the
indemnifying party to represent the indemnified party would present such counsel
with a conflict of interest, (ii) the actual or potential defendants in, or
targets of, any such action include both the indemnified party and the
indemnifying party and the indemnified party shall have reasonably concluded
that there may be legal defenses available to it and/or other indemnified
parties which are different from or additional to those available to the
indemnifying party, (iii) the indemnifying party shall not have employed counsel
satisfactory to the indemnified party to represent the indemnified party within
a reasonable time after notice of the institution of such action or (iv) the
indemnifying party shall authorize the indemnified party to employ separate
counsel at the expense of the indemnifying party.  An indemnifying party will
not, without the prior written consent of the indemnified parties, which consent
shall not be unreasonably withheld, settle or compromise or consent to the entry
of any judgment with respect to any pending or threatened claim, action, suit or
proceeding in respect of which indemnification or contribution may be sought
hereunder (whether or not the indemnified parties are actual or potential
parties to such claim or action) unless such settlement, compromise or consent
includes an unconditional release of each indemnified party from all liability
arising out of such claim, action, suit or proceeding.  An indemnified party
will not, without the prior written consent of the indemnifying parties, which
consent shall not be

 
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unreasonably withheld, settle or compromise or consent to the entry of any
judgment with respect to any pending or threatened claim, action, suit or
proceeding in respect of which indemnification or contribution may be sought
hereunder (whether or not the indemnifying parties are actual or potential
parties to such claim or action) unless such settlement, compromise or consent
includes an unconditional release of each indemnifying party from all liability
arising out of such claim, action, suit or proceeding.

          (d)  In the event that the indemnity provided in paragraph (a) or (b)
of this Section 8 is unavailable to or insufficient to hold harmless an
indemnified party for any reason, the Company, the Underwriters and, subject to
Section 9 hereof, Farm Family agree to contribute to the aggregate losses,
claims, damages and liabilities (including legal or other expenses reasonably
incurred in connection with investigating or defending same) (collectively
"Losses") to which the Company, Farm Family and one or more of the Underwriters
may be subject in such proportion as is appropriate to reflect the relative
benefits received by the Company and Farm Family on the one hand and by the
Underwriters on the other from the offering of the Securities; provided,
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however, that in no case shall any Underwriter (except as may be provided in any
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agreement among underwriters relating to the offering of the Securities) be
responsible for any amount in excess of the underwriting discount or commission
applicable to the Securities purchased by such Underwriter hereunder.  If the
allocation provided by the immediately preceding sentence is unavailable for any
reason, the Company, Farm Family and the Underwriters shall contribute in such
proportion as is appropriate to reflect not only such relative benefits but also
the relative fault of the Company and Farm Family on the one hand and of the
Underwriters on the other in connection with the statements or omissions which
resulted in such Losses as well as any other relevant equitable considerations.
Benefits received by the Company and Farm Family shall be deemed to be equal to
the total net proceeds from the offering (before deducting expenses), and
benefits received by the Underwriters shall be deemed to be equal to the total
underwriting discounts and commissions, in each case as set forth on the cover
page of the Prospectus.  Relative fault shall be determined by reference to
whether any alleged untrue statement or omission relates to information provided
by the Company and Farm Family or by the Underwriters.  The Company, Farm Family
and the Underwriters agree that it would not be just and equitable if
contribution were determined by pro rata allocation or any other method of
allocation which does not take account of the equitable considerations referred
to above.  Notwithstanding the provisions of this paragraph (d), no person
guilty of fraudulent misrepresentation (within the meaning of Section 11(f) of
the Act) shall be entitled to contribution from any person who was not guilty of
such fraudulent misrepresentation.  For purposes of this Section 8, each person
who controls an Underwriter within the meaning of either the Act or the Exchange
Act and each director, officer, employee and agent of an Underwriter shall

 
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have the same rights to contribution as such Underwriter, and each person who
controls the Company and Farm Family within the meaning of either the Act or the
Exchange Act, each officer of the Company and of Farm Family who shall have
signed the Registration Statement and each director of the Company and Farm
Family shall have the same rights to contribution as the Company and Farm
Family, subject in each case to the applicable terms and conditions of this
paragraph (d).

          9.  Limitations on Indemnification and Other Liability.
              --------------------------------------------------  
Notwithstanding anything to the contrary elsewhere in this Agreement, if the
Company or Farm Family (i) are required to provide indemnification or
contribution pursuant to paragraph (a) or (d) of Section 8 or (ii) otherwise
become liable for any breach of any of the representations and warranties of the
Company or Farm Family contained in this Agreement or for any failure of the
Company or Farm Family to perform or observe, or to cause to be performed or
observed, any covenant, agreement or condition to be performed or observed by
either of them pursuant to this Agreement, such indemnification or contribution
payable as described in clause (i) above or amounts payable with respect to such
liabilities described in clause (ii) above shall be subject to the following
limitation: any such amounts shall be payable solely by the Company in the first
instance, provided that, if the Company fails to fully satisfy a claim for
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indemnification or contribution referred to in clause (i) above or other
liability referred to in clause (ii) above, Farm Family shall pay such
additional amounts as are required to fully satisfy such claim or other
liability, provided, further, that such payments by Farm Family shall not, in
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the aggregate, exceed the portion of the proceeds from the offering of the
Securities that was received by Farm Family.

         10.  Default by an Underwriter.  If any one or more Underwriters shall
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fail to purchase and pay for any of the Securities agreed to be purchased by
such Underwriter or Underwriters hereunder and such failure to purchase shall
constitute a default in the performance of its or their obligations under this
Agreement, the remaining Underwriters shall be obligated severally to take up
and pay for (in the respective proportions which the amount of Securities set
forth opposite their names in Schedule I hereto bears to the aggregate amount of
Securities set forth opposite the names of all the remaining Underwriters) the
Securities which the defaulting Underwriter or Underwriters agreed but failed to
purchase; provided, however, that in the event that the aggregate amount of
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Securities which the defaulting Underwriter or Underwriters agreed but failed to
purchase shall exceed 10% of the aggregate amount of Securities set forth in
Schedule I hereto, the remaining Underwriters shall have the right to purchase
all, but shall not be under any obligation to purchase any, of the Securities,
and if such nondefaulting Underwriters do not purchase all the Securities, this
Agreement will terminate without liability to any nondefaulting Underwriter, the
Company or Farm Family.  In the event of a default by any Underwriter as

 
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set forth in this Section 10, the Closing Date shall be postponed for such
period, not exceeding seven days, as the Representative shall determine in order
that the required changes in the Registration Statement and the Prospectus or in
any other documents or arrangements may be effected.  Nothing contained in this
Agreement shall relieve any defaulting Underwriter of its liability, if any, to
the Company, Farm Family and any nondefaulting Underwriter for damages
occasioned by its default hereunder.

          11.  Termination.  This Agreement shall be subject to termination in
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the absolute discretion of the Representative, by notice given to the Company
prior to delivery of and payment for the Securities, if prior to such time 
(i) trading in the Company's Common Stock shall have been suspended by the
Commission or the New York Stock Exchange or trading in securities generally on
the New York Stock Exchange shall have been suspended or limited or minimum
prices shall have been established on such Exchange, (ii) a banking moratorium
shall have been declared either by Federal or New York State authorities or
(iii) there shall have occurred any outbreak or escalation of hostilities,
declaration by the United States of a national emergency or war or other
calamity or crisis the effect of which on financial markets is such as to make
it, in the judgment of the Representative, impracticable or inadvisable to
proceed with the offering or delivery of the Securities as contemplated by the
Prospectus (exclusive of any supplement thereto).

          12.  Representations and Indemnities to Survive.  The respective
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agreements, representations, warranties, indemnities and other statements of the
Company and Farm Family or their officers and of the Underwriters set forth in
or made pursuant to this Agreement will remain in full force and effect,
regardless of any investigation made by or on behalf of any Underwriter, the
Company or Farm Family or any of their officers, directors or controlling
persons referred to in Section 8 hereof, and will survive delivery of and
payment for the Securities.  The provisions of Sections 7 and 8 hereof shall
survive the termination or cancellation of this Agreement.

          13.  Notices.  All communications hereunder will be in writing and
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effective only on receipt, and, if sent to the Representative, will be mailed,
delivered or telegraphed and confirmed to Salomon Brothers Inc at Seven World
Trade Center, New York, New York, 10048; or, if sent to the Company or Farm
Family, will be delivered or telegraphed and confirmed to the Company or Farm
Family, whichever is applicable, at 344 Route 9W, Glenmont, New York 12077, or
mailed to it at P.O. Box 656, Albany, N.Y. 12201-0656, attention of the General
Counsel.

          14.  Successors.  This Agreement will inure to the benefit of and be
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binding upon the parties hereto and their respective successors and the officers
and directors and

 
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controlling persons referred to in Section 8 hereof, and no other person will
have any right or obligation hereunder.

          15.  Applicable Law.  This Agreement will be governed by and construed
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in accordance with the laws of the State of New York.

          If the foregoing is in accordance with your understanding of our
agreement, please sign and return to us the enclosed duplicate hereof, whereupon
this letter and your acceptance shall represent a binding agreement among the
Company, Farm Family and the several Underwriters.

                                    Very truly yours,

                                    Farm Family Holdings, Inc.


                                    By:__________________________
                                               [Title]


                                    Farm Family Mutual Insurance 
                                    Company


                                    By:__________________________
                                               [Title]

 
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The foregoing Agreement is hereby
confirmed and accepted as of the
date first above written.

Salomon Brothers Inc


By: _______________________
         Vice President

For itself and the other
several Underwriters named in
Schedule I to the foregoing
Agreement.

 
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                                   SCHEDULE I
 
 
 
                                                  Number of Shares of
                                                Underwritten Securities
Underwriters                                        To Be Purchased
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Salomon Brothers Inc.........................
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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    Total....................................

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                                  SCHEDULE II

                PUBLICATIONS IN WHICH NOTICE OF HEARING APPEARED

                              (LeBoeuf to provide)