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                                                                    EXHIBIT 99.3
 
                    INSTRUCTIONS TO REGISTERED HOLDER AND/OR
                    BOOK-ENTRY TRANSFER FACILITY PARTICIPANT
                            FROM BENEFICIAL OWNER OF
                         BOOTH CREEK SKI HOLDINGS, INC.
                     12 1/2% SERIES C SENIOR NOTES DUE 2007
 
     To Registered Holder and/or Participant of the Book-Entry Transfer
Facility:
 
     The undersigned hereby acknowledges receipt of the Prospectus, dated
               , 1998 (the "Prospectus"), of Booth Creek Ski Holdings, Inc. (the
"Company"), and the accompanying Letter of Transmittal (the "Letter of
Transmittal"), that together constitute the Company's offer (the "Exchange
Offer"). Capitalized terms used but not defined herein have the meanings
ascribed to them in the Prospectus.
 
     This will instruct you, the registered holder and/or book-entry transfer
facility participant, as to the action to be taken by you relating to the
Exchange Offer with respect to the 12 1/2% Series C Senior Notes due 2007 (the
"Notes") held by you for the account of the undersigned.
 
     The aggregate face amount of the Notes held by you for the account of the
     undersigned is (FILL IN AMOUNT): $                         of the 12 1/2%
     Series C Senior Notes due 2007.
 
     With respect to the Exchange Offer, the undersigned hereby instructs you
     (CHECK APPROPRIATE BOX):
 
     [ ] TO TENDER the following Notes held by you for the account of the
         undersigned (INSERT PRINCIPAL AMOUNT OF NOTES TO BE TENDERED, IF ANY):
         $                         .
 
     [ ] NOT TO TENDER any Notes held by you for the account of the undersigned.
 
     If the undersigned instructs you to tender the Notes held by you for the
account of the undersigned, it is understood that you are authorized (a) to
make, on behalf of the undersigned (and the undersigned, by its signature below,
hereby makes to you), the representations and warranties contained in the Letter
of Transmittal that are to be made with respect to the undersigned as a
beneficial owner, including but not limited to the representations that (i) the
undersigned's principal residence is in the state of (fill in state)
                         , (ii) the undersigned is acquiring the Exchange Notes
in the ordinary course of business of the undersigned, (iii) the undersigned is
not participating, does not intend to participate, and has no arrangement or
understanding with any person to participate in the distribution of the Exchange
Notes, (iv) the undersigned acknowledges that any person participating in the
Exchange Offer for the purpose of distributing the Exchange Notes must comply
with the registration and prospectus delivery requirements of the Securities Act
of 1933, as amended (the "Act"), in connection with a secondary resale
transaction of the Exchange Notes acquired by such person and cannot rely on the
position of the Staff of the Securities and Exchange Commission set forth in
no-action letters that are discussed in the section of the Prospectus entitled
"The Exchange Offer -- Resales of the New Notes," and (v) the undersigned is not
an "affiliate," as defined in Rule 405 under the Act, of the Company; (b) to
agree, on behalf of the undersigned, as set forth in the Letter of Transmittal;
and (c) to take such other action as necessary under the Prospectus or the
Letter of Transmittal to effect the valid tender of such Notes.
 
     [ ] Check this box if the Beneficial Owner of the Notes is a Participating
         Broker-Dealer and such Participating Broker-Dealer acquired the Notes
         for its own account as a result of market-making activities or other
         trading activities. IF THIS BOX IS CHECKED, PLEASE SEND A COPY OF THESE
         INSTRUCTIONS TO JEFFREY J. JOYCE, EXECUTIVE VICE PRESIDENT, FINANCE OF
         THE COMPANY, VIA FACSIMILE: (770) 980-4905.
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                                   SIGN HERE
 
Name of beneficial owner(s):
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Signature(s):
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Name (please print):
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Address:
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Telephone number:
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Taxpayer Identification or Social Security Number:
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Date:
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