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                                                                   Exhibit 10(f)

                            RETENTION BONUS AGREEMENT

This Agreement is made as of the 1st day of April, 1999 by and between Mechanics
and Farmers Bank, a North Carolina banking corporation with its principal office
in Durham, North Carolina (the "Bank"), and E. Elaine Small, a resident of North
Carolina (the "Executive").

                                    RECITALS

A.   The Bank and Executive acknowledge the ownership consolidation that is
     occurring in the financial institutions industry, particularly among
     community banks, and the Bank and Executive acknowledge that at some point
     it may be appropriate for the Bank to participate in this industry
     consolidation.

B.   The Bank recognizes the value of Executive's services to the Bank and
     desires to insure that Executive has adequate incentive to continue in the
     employment of the Bank.

C.   Given the current consolidation occurring within the financial institutions
     industry, Executive desires to continue in the employment of the Company
     with appropriate financial incentives.

NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the foregoing Recitals and of the promises
and mutual agreements set forth below, and for other good and valuable
consideration, the receipt and sufficiency of which are acknowledged, the Bank
and Executive agree as follows:

1.   DEFINITIONS. For purposes of this Agreement, the following terms shall have
     the meanings indicated:

     (a)  "Cause" shall mean (A) the rendering of a final judgment against
          Executive by a court of competent jurisdiction, which is not subject
          to further appeal, for the willful and continued failure by Executive
          to substantially perform his or her duties to the Bank, the Bank's
          policies or federal and/or state law (other than any such failure
          resulting from his or her incapacity due to physical or mental
          illness); which breach of duty has materially and adversely affected
          the safety and soundness of the Bank; or (B) Executive's conviction of
          a felony which is not subject to further appeal. For purposes of this
          definition, no act, or failure to act on Executive's part, shall be
          considered "willful" unless done, or omitted to be done, by him or her
          not in good faith and without reasonable belief that his or her action
          or omission is in the best interest of the Bank.

     (b)  "Change in Control" shall mean either:

          (A)  the acquisition, directly or indirectly, by any person or group
               of persons of shares in the Bank other than by M&F Bancorp, Inc.
               in connection with the formation of the Bank's holding company or
               otherwise, which, when added to any other shares the beneficial
               ownership of which is held by such acquiror(s), shall result in
               ownership by any person(s) of greater than 50% of such stock or
               which would require prior notification under any federal or state
               banking law or regulation; or

          (B)  the occurrence of any merger, consolidation, exchange or
               reorganization to which the Bank or, if formed, the Bank's
               holding company is a party and to which the Bank, or the Bank's
               holding company (or an entity controlled thereby) is not a
               surviving entity, or the sale of all or substantially all of the
               assets of the Bank or the Bank's holding company.

          For purposes of this definition, "person" shall be as defined in
          Sections 13(d) and 14(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934.


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          (c)  "Coincident With" shall mean any time within nine months prior to
               the occurrence of a Change in Control of the Bank.

2.   CHANGE IN CONTROL AND RETENTION BONUS. If a Change in Control of the Bank
     is consummated and on the date of the consummation of the Change in
     Control, Executive is employed by Bank, Bank shall pay to Executive in a
     lump sum, in cash, within five days following the consummation date of the
     Change in Control, a Retention Bonus of twelve (12) months base salary.

     If the lump sum payment under this Section 2, either alone or together with
     other payments which Executive has the right to receive from the Company,
     would constitute a "parachute payment" [as defined in Section 280G of the
     Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended, (the "Code")], such lump sum
     payment shall be reduced to the largest amount as will result in no portion
     of the lump sum payment under this Section 2 being subject to the excise
     tax imposed by Section 4999 of the Code. The determination of any reduction
     in the lump sum payment under this Section 2, pursuant to the foregoing
     provision, shall be made by the Bank in good faith.

3.   TERMINATION BY BANK NOT FOR CAUSE COINCIDENT WITH A CHANGE IN CONTROL. In
     the event Executive's employment is terminated by action of the Bank not
     for Cause Coincident With a Change in Control, the Bank shall pay Executive
     within five days following the consummation date of the Change in Control
     the same Retention Bonus in amount and manner described in Section 2 above.
     In the event of Executive's termination pursuant to this Section 3,
     Executive shall not be subject to any non-compete or similar restrictions
     that exist with regard to Executive, contractually or otherwise.

4.   TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT BY EXECUTIVE/NON-COMPETITION AGREEMENT. In the
     event Executive voluntarily terminates his or her own employment at any
     time subsequent to receipt of the Retention Bonus provided for in paragraph
     2 above, Executive agrees not to compete, directly or indirectly, with the
     Bank or any successor as an employee, officer, director, independent
     contractor, consultant, or shareholder of any financial services company or
     any other entity providing financial services, including but not limited to
     lending, securities, brokerage, trust or insurance products or services
     within a sixty (60) mile radius of the main office of the Bank, or such
     other office of the Bank at which such Employee was physically located
     during the majority of Employee's work tenure for the Company, for a period
     of 12 months following the date of such termination.

5.   WITHHOLDING. All payments made by the Bank hereunder to Executive shall be
     subject to the withholding of such amounts, if any, relating to tax and
     other payroll deductions as the Bank may reasonably determine should be
     withheld pursuant to any applicable law or regulation.

6.   EMPLOYMENT AT WILL. Nothing in this Agreement should be construed to
     constitute an employment agreement for any length of time of Executive by
     the Bank. At all times, Executive shall remain an "At Will" employee of the
     Bank subject to the rights arising under this Agreement.

7.   NON-DISCLOSURE. During the term of his or her employment hereunder, or at
     any time thereafter, Executive shall not disclose or use (except in the
     course of his or her employment hereunder) any confidential or proprietary
     information or data of the Bank or any of its subsidiaries or affiliates,
     including any such information with respect to a sale or merger of the
     Bank, regardless of whether such information or data is embodied in writing
     or other physical form.

8.   POOLING OF INTERESTS TREATMENT. In the event anything in this Agreement
     will prevent, or have the effect of preventing the use of the pooling of
     interests accounting method by an acquiror in a Change in Control of Bank
     and the use of the pooling of interests accounting method is a condition
     precedent to the consummation of such Change in Control by the acquiror,
     then this Agreement shall be deemed valid only to the extent that the
     pooling of interests accounting method can be used; provided however, that
     any determination that this Agreement would prevent, or have the effect of
     preventing, the use of the pooling of interests accounting




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     method shall be supported by an opinion letter from the acquiror's
     independent accounting firm or from the Securities and Exchange Commission.

9.   SUCCESSORS; BINDING AGREEMENT. This Agreement shall be binding upon and
     inure to the benefit of the Bank and Executive and their respective
     successors, assigns, personal or legal representatives, executors,
     administrators, heirs, distributees, devisees and legatees. If Executive
     should die while any amount would still be payable to him or her hereunder
     if she had continued to live, all such amounts shall be paid in accordance
     with the terms of this Agreement to his or her devisee, legatee or other
     designee, or if there be no such designee, to Executive's estate.

10.  MODIFICATION, WAIVER OR DISCHARGE. No provision of this Agreement may be
     modified, waived or discharged unless such waiver, modification or
     discharge is agreed to in writing and signed by Executive and authorized
     officers of the Bank. No waiver by any party hereto at any time of any
     breach by the other party hereto of, or compliance with, any condition or
     provision of this Agreement to be performed by such other party shall be
     deemed a waiver of similar or dissimilar provisions or conditions at the
     same or at any prior or subsequent time. No agreements or representations,
     oral or otherwise, express or implied, with respect to the subject matter
     hereof have been made by either party which are not expressly set forth in
     this Agreement; provided, however, that this Agreement shall not supersede
     or in any way limit the rights, duties, or obligations that Executive or
     the Bank may have under any other written agreement between such parties,
     under any employee pension benefit plan or Executive welfare benefit plan
     as defined in the Executive Retirement Income Security Act of 1974 as
     amended, and maintained by the Bank, or under any established personnel
     practice or policy applicable to Executive.

11.  TERMINATION OF AGREEMENT. Notwithstanding any other provisions of this
     Agreement, the rights, duties and obligations of all parties to this
     Agreement shall cease, and this Agreement shall terminate, five (5) years
     from the date first listed above.

12.  GOVERNING LAW. The validity, interpretation, construction and performance
     of this Agreement shall be governed by the laws of the State of North
     Carolina to the extent federal law does not apply.

13.  VALIDITY. The invalidity or unenforceability of any provision of this
     Agreement shall not affect the validity or enforceability of the other
     provisions of this Agreement, which latter provisions shall remain in full
     force and effect.

14.  MEDIATION/ARBITRATION. In the event of any dispute, claim, question, or
     disagreement arising from or relating to this agreement or the breach
     thereof ("Dispute"), the parties hereto shall use their best efforts to
     resolve the Dispute in a manner satisfactory to both parties through
     consultation and negotiation with each other in good faith. If the Dispute
     cannot be resolved through direct negotiations within a period of sixty
     (60) days, the parties agree to attempt to settle the dispute in an
     amicable manner by arbitration. Any mediation or arbitration hereunder
     shall be conducted in accordance with the Commercial Mediation Rules or the
     Commercial Arbitration Rules, as appropriate, of the American Arbitration
     Association ("AAA"), as in effect at the time of the mediation or
     arbitration. In the event of arbitration, the final award of the Commercial
     Arbitration Tribunal shall be binding on the parties. Unless the parties
     agree otherwise, such mediation or arbitration shall also be conducted
     under the auspices of, and administered by, the AAA.

15.  MISCELLANEOUS

     (a)  No adequate remedy at law. The Bank and Executive recognize that each
          party shall have no adequate remedy at law for breach by the other of
          any of the agreements contained herein, and in the event of any such
          breach, the Bank and Executive hereby agree and consent that the other
          shall be entitled to a decree of specific performance, mandamus,
          injunction or other appropriate remedy to enforce performance of such
          agreements.



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     (b)  Non-assignability. No right, benefit or interest hereunder shall be
          subject to anticipation, alienation, sale, assignment, encumbrance,
          charge, pledge, hypothecation, or set-off in respect of any claim,
          debt or obligation, or to execution, attachment, levy or similar
          process, or assignment by operation of law. Any attempt, voluntary or
          involuntary, to effect any action specified in the immediately
          preceding sentence shall, to the full extent permitted by law, be
          null, void and of no effect. Any of the foregoing to the contrary
          notwithstanding, this provision shall not preclude Executive from
          designating one or more beneficiaries to receive any amount that may
          be payable after his or her death, and shall not preclude the legal
          representative of Executive's estate from assigning any right
          hereunder to the person or persons entitled thereto under his or her
          will or, in the case of intestacy, as applicable, to his or her
          estate.

16.  COUNTERPARTS. This Agreement may be executed in one or more counterparts,
     each of which shall be deemed an original, but which together will
     constitute one and the same instrument.

17.  NOTICES. All notices, requests, demands and other communications provided
     for by this Agreement shall be in writing and shall be sufficiently given
     if and when mailed in the continental United States by Registered or
     Certified Mail, or personally delivered to the party entitled thereto at
     the address stated below or to such changed address as the addressee may
     have given by similar notice:

     to the Bank:        Mechanics & Farmers Bank
                         116 West Parrish Street
                         Durham, NC  27701-3321
                         Attn:  Ms. Julia W. Taylor, Chairman, President and CEO

     to Executive:       ________________________

                         ________________________

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Executed and effective as of the date first above written.

                       MECHANICS AND FARMERS BANK

                       By:   /s/ Julia W. Taylor
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                                 Julia W. Taylor, Chairman, President & CEO

                       By:   /s/ Benjamin S. Ruffin
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                                 Benjamin S. Ruffin, Compensation and Management
                                 Development Committee

                       EXECUTIVE

                             /s/ E. Elaine Small
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                             E. Elaine Small









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