Exhibit 10.1

                              AMENDED AND RESTATED
                         VOTING AND STANDSTILL AGREEMENT

         THIS  AMENDED  AND  RESTATED  VOTING  AND  STANDSTILL   AGREEMENT  (the
"Agreement"), dated as of November 7, 2002, is made by and among Hilb, Rogal and
Hamilton Company, a Virginia corporation (the "Company"), The Phoenix Companies,
Inc.,  a  Delaware  corporation  ("Phoenix"),  Phoenix  Life  Insurance  Company
(formerly known as Phoenix Home Life Mutual Insurance Company),  a New York life
insurance  company  ("Phoenix  Life"),  and PM  Holdings,  Inc.,  a  Connecticut
corporation  ("Holdings"),  and amends and  restates  the Voting and  Standstill
Agreement (the "Original Standstill  Agreement") dated as of May 3, 1999, by and
among the Company, Holdings and Phoenix Life.

                              W I T N E S S E T H:

         WHEREAS, the Company, Holdings, Phoenix Life and Martin L. Vaughan, III
entered  into a Stock  Purchase  Agreement  dated  March 29,  1999  (the  "Stock
Purchase  Agreement"),  under which the Company  agreed to acquire from Holdings
and  Martin L.  Vaughan,  III all of the issued  and  outstanding  shares of the
capital stock of American Phoenix Corporation, a Connecticut corporation; and

         WHEREAS,  pursuant  to  the  Stock  Purchase  Agreement,  (i)  Holdings
acquired 1,730,084 shares of the Company's Common Stock (as hereinafter defined)
and $22,000,000  principal amount of the Company's  Subordinated  Debentures (as
hereinafter  defined),  and (ii) Phoenix  Life  acquired  $10,000,000  principal
amount of the Company's Subordinated Debentures; and

         WHEREAS,  the Subordinated  Debentures acquired by Holdings and Phoenix
Life pursuant to the Stock  Purchase  Agreement are  convertible  into shares of
Common Stock pursuant to the terms of the Subordinated Debentures; and

         WHEREAS,   under  the  Original  Standstill   Agreement,   the  parties
established  certain rights and obligations in connection with the  relationship
of Holdings and Phoenix Life to the Company; and

         WHEREAS,  Phoenix, which is the parent company of Phoenix Life, Phoenix
Life and Holdings are currently effecting a series of transactions (the "Phoenix
Transactions") that will result in the conversion of the Subordinated Debentures
into  shares  of  Common  Stock  and the  sale or  other  disposition  of all or
substantially  all of (i) the  1,730,084  shares of  Common  Stock  acquired  by
Holdings pursuant to the Stock Purchase Agreement,  (ii) the 2,813,186 shares of
Common Stock into which the  Subordinated  Debentures are  convertible and (iii)
the 5,850  additional  shares of Common  Stock that  Phoenix Life owns as of the
date of this Agreement; and

         WHEREAS,  in connection with the Phoenix  Transactions,  the parties to
this  Agreement  desire to modify the rights and  obligations  that the Original
Standstill Agreement established.


         NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the mutual covenants and agreements
set forth herein, the Company,  Phoenix,  Phoenix Life and Holdings hereby agree
as follows:

                                    ARTICLE I

                   Definitions; Representations and Warranties
                   -------------------------------------------

         Section  1.1.  Definitions.   Except  as  otherwise  specified  herein,
capitalized  terms used in this  Agreement  shall have the  respective  meanings
assigned to such terms in the Stock  Purchase  Agreement.  For  purposes of this
Agreement, the following terms have the following meanings:

         (a)  "Adjusted  Outstanding  Shares"  shall mean,  at any time and with
respect to the  determination  of (i) the  Phoenix  Ownership  Percentage  as it
relates to Phoenix and its  Affiliates,  (ii) the  Standstill  Percentage  as it
relates to Phoenix and its  Affiliates,  and (iii) any other  percentage  of the
beneficial  ownership  of Common  Stock as it relates to a Person or Group,  the
total number of shares of Common Stock then issued and outstanding.

         (b)  "Affiliate"  shall have the meaning  ascribed to such term in Rule
12b-2 under the  Exchange Act as in effect on the date of this  Agreement,  and,
with respect to a  determination  of the  Affiliates  of Phoenix,  shall include
Phoenix  Life and  Holdings  and any  Affiliate  of  Phoenix  Life or  Holdings;
provided,  however,  that  (i) PXP and its  subsidiaries  and  (ii)  any  Person
registered as an investment company under the Investment Company Act of 1940, as
amended,  which might  otherwise  be deemed to be an  "affiliate"  of Phoenix or
Phoenix Life within the meaning of Rule 12b-2 under the Exchange Act (a "Related
Investment  Company"),  shall not be  deemed to be  Affiliates  of  Phoenix  for
purposes  of this  Agreement  to the  extent  that their  respective  businesses
consist  principally of investing in securities,  investment  management  and/or
advisory services,  and any shares of Common Stock or other equity securities of
the Company acquired,  or caused to be acquired,  by PXP and its subsidiaries or
such Related Investment Company in the conduct of their respective businesses in
the ordinary course for the account of, or for the benefit of, clients of PXP or
its  subsidiaries,  policyholders  or  investors  (other  than  Phoenix  or  its
Affiliates),  and not with the purpose of avoiding the provisions of Section 3.1
below, shall not be deemed,  for purposes of this Agreement,  to be beneficially
owned by Phoenix or its Affiliates.

         (c) "Beneficial  ownership,"  "beneficial owner" and "beneficially own"
shall have the meanings  ascribed to such terms in Rule 13d-3 under the Exchange
Act as in effect on the date of this  Agreement;  provided that Phoenix and each
of its  Affiliates  and any Person or Group shall be deemed to be the beneficial
owners of any shares of Common  Stock that  Phoenix  or such  Affiliate,  Person
and/or  Group,  as the case may be, has the right to acquire  within  sixty (60)
days after the determination  date pursuant to any other agreement,  arrangement
or  understanding  or upon  the  exercise  of  conversion  or  exchange  rights,
warrants, options or otherwise.

         (d)  "Board of  Directors"  shall  mean the Board of  Directors  of the
Company.

         (e) "Business Day" shall mean any day on which banking  institutions in
New York, New York are customarily open for the purpose of transacting business.

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         (f) "Common Stock" shall mean the Common Stock,  without par value,  of
the Company.

         (g) "Common Stock Offering" shall mean the underwritten public offering
of shares of Common Stock (including  shares of Common Stock sold to satisfy any
over-allotment  option granted to the  underwriters),  which  offering  includes
shares of Common Stock that Phoenix and/or its Affiliates  beneficially own, and
with respect to which shares  Phoenix,  Phoenix Life or Holdings has requested a
piggy-back  registration  pursuant  to Section  2.4 of the  Registration  Rights
Agreement,  which  offering is  described  in the  prospectus  that is part of a
Registration  Statement on Form S-3,  File No.  333-99869,  that the Company has
filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission.

         (h)  "Continuing  Directors"  shall  mean the  members  of the Board of
Directors  of the  Company  immediately  prior  to  the  date  of  the  Original
Standstill  Agreement  and any  members of the Board of  Directors  subsequently
nominated by the Board of Directors;  provided,  however, that neither Fiondella
nor the Holdings  Designee shall constitute a Continuing  Director or be counted
in determining the presence of a quorum of Continuing Directors.

         (i) "Control" shall mean the possession, directly or indirectly, of the
power to direct or cause the  direction  of the  management  and  policies  of a
Person,  whether  through the  ownership  of voting  securities,  by contract or
otherwise.

         (j) "Exchange Act" shall mean the  Securities  Exchange Act of 1934, as
amended.

         (k)  "Fiondella"  shall mean  Robert W.  Fiondella,  a director  of the
Company pursuant to the Original Standstill Agreement.

         (l) "Group" shall have the meaning  comprehended by Section 13(d)(3) of
the Exchange Act as in effect on the date of this Agreement.

         (m) "Holdings  Designee"  shall mean a member of the Board of Directors
of the Company who was  designated  by Holdings for  nomination  pursuant to the
Original  Standstill  Agreement,  but shall not include  Fiondella  or Martin L.
Vaughan,  III. As of the date of this Agreement,  the Holdings Designee is David
W. Searfoss.

         (n) "Indenture" shall mean the Indenture,  dated May 3, 1999,  executed
by the Company and Crestar Bank (now known as SunTrust Banks, Inc.), as Trustee,
in connection with the issuance of the Subordinated Debentures.

         (o) "Person" shall have the meaning set forth in Section 3(a)(9) of the
Exchange  Act as in effect  on the date of this  Agreement,  and shall  include,
without limitation, corporations,  partnerships, limited liability companies and
trusts.

         (p) "Phoenix Collateral Agreement" shall mean the Collateral Agreement,
to be entered  into at the closing of the Phoenix  Purchase  Contract  Offering,
among Phoenix,

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as pledgor,  Wachovia  Bank,  National  Association,  as collateral  agent,  and
Wachovia Bank, National Association, as purchase contract agent.

         (q)  "Phoenix  Ownership  Percentage"  shall  mean,  at any  time,  the
percentage of the Adjusted  Outstanding Shares that is beneficially owned in the
aggregate by Phoenix and its Affiliates.  As of the date of this Agreement,  the
Phoenix Ownership Percentage is 14.1%.

         (r)  "Phoenix  Purchase  Contract  Agreement"  shall mean the  Purchase
Contract  Agreement,  to be entered into at the closing of the Phoenix  Purchase
Contract Offering,  between Phoenix and Wachovia Bank, National Association,  as
purchase contract agent.

         (s) "Phoenix  Purchase  Contract  Offering" shall mean the underwritten
public offering of the Phoenix Purchase  Contracts,  which offering is described
in the prospectus that is part of a Registration Statement on Form S-3, File No.
333-99871, that Phoenix has filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission.

         (t)  "Phoenix  Purchase   Contracts"  shall  mean  the  stock  purchase
contracts issued by Phoenix pursuant to the Phoenix Purchase Contract  Agreement
(including  any stock  purchase  contracts  sold to satisfy  any  over-allotment
option granted to the underwriters in the Phoenix Purchase  Contract  Offering),
which stock  purchase  contracts  entitle the holder to receive shares of Common
Stock on the settlement date, with respect to which shares Phoenix, Phoenix Life
or Holdings has requested a demand  registration  pursuant to Section 2.3 of the
Registration Rights Agreement.

         (u) "Phoenix  Securities"  shall mean  collectively  (i) the  1,730,084
shares of Common Stock that Holdings acquired pursuant to the terms of the Stock
Purchase  Agreement,  (ii) the Subordinated  Debentures acquired by Holdings and
Phoenix Life pursuant to the terms of the Stock  Purchase  Agreement,  (iii) the
shares of Common Stock into which the  Subordinated  Debentures are  convertible
pursuant to the terms of the Subordinated Debentures,  (iv) the 5,850 additional
shares of Common Stock that  Phoenix Life owns as of the date of this  Agreement
and (v) any other  shares of Common Stock that  Phoenix and its  Affiliates  may
acquire from time to time,  including without  limitation such additional shares
of Common Stock that the Company may issue with respect to such shares  pursuant
to  any  stock  splits,  stock  dividends,  recapitalizations,   restructurings,
reclassifications or similar transactions.

         (v) "PXP" shall mean  Phoenix  Investment  Partners,  Ltd.,  a Delaware
corporation and a wholly-owned subsidiary of Phoenix.

         (w) "Registration  Rights Agreement" shall mean the Registration Rights
Agreement, dated May 3, 1999, executed by the Company, Holdings and Phoenix Life
in connection with the Stock Purchase Agreement.

         (x) "Securities Act" shall mean the Securities Act of 1933, as amended.

         (y)   "Subordinated   Debentures"   shall  mean  the  Company's   5.25%
Convertible  Subordinated  Debentures  (Due 2014),  in the  aggregate  principal
amount of  $32,000,000,  acquired by Holdings and Phoenix  Life  pursuant to the
Stock Purchase Agreement.

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         (z)  "Standstill  Percentage"  shall  mean,  at any time,  20.0% of the
Adjusted Outstanding Shares.

         (aa) "Transfer" shall mean sell, transfer, assign, pledge, hypothecate,
give  away  or in  any  manner  dispose  of any  Common  Stock  or  Subordinated
Debentures.

         Section  1.2.   Representations  and  Warranties  of  Phoenix.  Phoenix
represents and warrants to the Company as follows:

         (a) Phoenix is a corporation  duly organized,  validly  existing and in
good standing under the laws of the State of Delaware.

         (b) Except for the Phoenix  Securities,  neither Phoenix nor any of its
Affiliates beneficially owns any Common Stock or any options, warrants or rights
of any nature (including  conversion and exchange rights) to acquire  beneficial
ownership of any Common Stock.

         (c) Phoenix has full legal right, power and authority to enter into and
perform this  Agreement,  and the  execution  and delivery of this  Agreement by
Phoenix have been duly authorized by all necessary corporate action on behalf of
Phoenix.  This Agreement is enforceable  against  Phoenix in accordance with its
terms, subject to bankruptcy, reorganization,  insolvency and other similar laws
affecting  the  enforcement  of  creditors'  rights  generally  and  to  general
principles of equity (regardless of whether considered in a proceeding in equity
or an action at law).

         (d) The  execution,  delivery  and  performance  of this  Agreement  by
Phoenix  does not and will not  conflict  with or  constitute  a violation of or
default under the Charter or Bylaws (or comparable documents) of Phoenix, or any
statute,  law,  regulation,  order  or  decree  applicable  to  Phoenix,  or any
contract, commitment, agreement, arrangement or restriction of any kind to which
Phoenix is a party or by which Phoenix is bound,  other than such  violations as
would  not  prevent  or  materially  delay the  performance  by  Phoenix  of its
obligations  hereunder or otherwise subject the Company to any material claim or
liability.

         Section 1.3.  Representations  and Warranties of Phoenix Life.  Phoenix
Life represents and warrants to the Company as follows:

         (a) Phoenix Life is a life insurance  company duly  organized,  validly
existing and in good standing under the laws of the State of New York.

         (b) Phoenix  Life has full legal  right,  power and  authority to enter
into  and  perform  this  Agreement,  and the  execution  and  delivery  of this
Agreement by Phoenix Life have been duly  authorized by all necessary  corporate
action on behalf of Phoenix Life. This Agreement is enforceable  against Phoenix
Life in  accordance  with its  terms,  subject  to  bankruptcy,  reorganization,
insolvency and other similar laws affecting the enforcement of creditors' rights
generally and to general  principles of equity (regardless of whether considered
in a proceeding in equity or an action at law).

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         (c) The  execution,  delivery  and  performance  of this  Agreement  by
Phoenix Life does not and will not conflict with or constitute a violation of or
default under the Charter or Bylaws (or  comparable  documents) of Phoenix Life,
or any statute, law, regulation,  order or decree applicable to Phoenix Life, or
any contract, commitment,  agreement,  arrangement or restriction of any kind to
which Phoenix Life is a party or by which Phoenix Life is bound, other than such
violations as would not prevent or materially  delay the  performance by Phoenix
Life of its  obligations  hereunder  or  otherwise  subject  the  Company to any
material claim or liability.

         Section 1.4.  Representations  and  Warranties  of  Holdings.  Holdings
represents and warrants to the Company as follows:

         (a) Holdings is a corporation  duly organized,  validly existing and in
good standing under the laws of the State of Connecticut.

         (b) Holdings has full legal  right,  power and  authority to enter into
and perform this Agreement,  and the execution and delivery of this Agreement by
Holdings have been duly authorized by all necessary  corporate  action on behalf
of Holdings.  This Agreement is enforceable  against Holdings in accordance with
its terms, subject to bankruptcy,  reorganization,  insolvency and other similar
laws  affecting the  enforcement of creditors'  rights  generally and to general
principles of equity (regardless of whether considered in a proceeding in equity
or an action at law).

         (c) The  execution,  delivery  and  performance  of this  Agreement  by
Holdings  does not and will not  conflict  with or  constitute a violation of or
default under the Charter or Bylaws (or  comparable  documents) of Holdings,  or
any statute,  law,  regulation,  order or decree applicable to Holdings,  or any
contract, commitment, agreement, arrangement or restriction of any kind to which
Holdings is a party or by which Holdings is bound, other than such violations as
would not  prevent  or  materially  delay the  performance  by  Holdings  of its
obligations  hereunder or otherwise subject the Company to any material claim or
liability.

         Section 1.5. Representations and Warranties of the Company. The Company
hereby represents and warrants to Phoenix, Phoenix Life and Holdings as follows:

         (a) The Company is a corporation  duly organized,  validly existing and
in good standing under the laws of the Commonwealth of Virginia.

         (b) The Company has full legal right, power and authority to enter into
and perform this Agreement,  and the execution and delivery of this Agreement by
the Company  have been duly  authorized  by all  necessary  corporate  action on
behalf of the  Company.  This  Agreement is  enforceable  against the Company in
accordance with its terms, subject to bankruptcy, reorganization, insolvency and
other similar laws affecting the enforcement of creditors'  rights generally and
to  general  principles  of  equity  (regardless  of  whether  considered  in  a
proceeding in equity or an action at law).

         (c) The  execution,  delivery and  performance of this Agreement by the
Company  does not and will not  conflict  with or  constitute  a violation of or
default under the Charter or Bylaws (or comparable documents) of the Company, or
any statute, law, regulation,  order or decree

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applicable to the Company, or any contract, commitment,  agreement,  arrangement
or  restriction  of any kind to which  the  Company  is a party or by which  the
Company is bound,  other than such violations as would not prevent or materially
delay the performance by the Company of its  obligations  hereunder or otherwise
subject Phoenix, Phoenix Life or Holdings to any material claim or liability.

                                   ARTICLE II

                     Actions upon Effectiveness of Agreement
                     ---------------------------------------

         Section 2.1.  Effectiveness  of Agreement.  This Agreement shall become
effective  immediately  upon the earlier of (i) the closing of the Common  Stock
Offering and (ii) the closing of the Phoenix  Purchase  Contract  Offering  (the
"Effective  Time").  At the Effective  Time,  this  Agreement  shall replace the
Original  Standstill  Agreement in its  entirety,  and the  Original  Standstill
Agreement shall be of no further force and effect.

         Section  2.2.  Required  Conversion  of  Subordinated  Debentures.   In
connection  with the Phoenix  Transactions,  Phoenix  Life shall have caused the
Subordinated  Debentures to be converted,  in their entire  aggregate  principal
amount, into shares of Common Stock immediately prior to the Effective Time.

         Section 2.3. Required Resignation from the Board of Directors.

         (a)  The  Holdings  Designee  as of the  date  of  this  Agreement  has
delivered  to the Company a letter,  in the form  attached to this  Agreement as
Exhibit  A,  that  provides  for his  resignation  from the  Board of  Directors
effective as of December 31, 2002.  To the extent that the Holdings  Designee is
not David W. Searfoss,  but another  individual that has been designated as such
by Holdings as permitted by Section 2.4 of the  Original  Standstill  Agreement,
Holdings  shall have  caused the  Holdings  Designee to resign from the Board of
Directors  effective  as of December  31,  2002.  In the event that the Holdings
Designee  shall fail or refuse to resign from the Board of Directors by the time
specified  above,  the Company may seek such resignation or, in the alternative,
the Continuing Directors may seek the removal of the Holdings Designee.

         (b) Upon any shareholder vote relating to the removal of a director for
failure or refusal to resign  pursuant  to this  Section  2.3,  Phoenix  and its
Affiliates  shall (i) attend any  meeting  either in person or by proxy and (ii)
vote in favor of such  removal.  At such time as a director  becomes  subject to
resignation  pursuant to this Section 2.3, the Board of Directors  may amend its
Bylaws or take such other action as it deems appropriate to reduce the number of
directors  constituting  the  Board  of  Directors  proportionately  or fill the
vacancy caused by such  resignation(s)  with its own nominee in accordance  with
the applicable provisions of the Charter and Bylaws of the Company.

         Section  2.4.  Continuing  Board  Representation.  From and  after  the
Effective Time, the Company shall not be required to nominate  either  Fiondella
or the Holdings  Designee as a director of the Company nor maintain a Board seat
for either Fiondella or the Holdings Designee,  except as otherwise set forth in
Section  2.3(a) above.  Fiondella  shall be subject to the same  nomination  and
election process as other directors generally from and after the Effective Time.

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         Section 2.5.  Required Sales of Phoenix  Securities.  Phoenix,  Phoenix
Life and Holdings agree that they will sell,  convey or otherwise  transfer,  or
cause to be sold,  conveyed  or  otherwise  transferred,  a  number  of  Phoenix
Securities  so that,  on the first day  following  the  settlement  date for the
Phoenix Purchase  Contracts,  the number of Phoenix  Securities shall not exceed
4,549,120  shares of Common  Stock less (a) the number of shares of Common Stock
to be sold by Phoenix in the Common Stock  Offering and (b) the number of shares
of Common Stock to be delivered to holders of the Phoenix Purchase Contracts, as
required by the Phoenix Purchase Contract Agreement, on such settlement date.

         Section  2.6.  No  Voting  Trust.  This  Agreement  does not  create or
constitute,  and shall not be  construed as creating or  constituting,  a voting
trust agreement under the Virginia Stock Corporation Act or any other applicable
corporation law.

                                   ARTICLE III

                     Standstill Restrictions; Voting Matters
                     ---------------------------------------

         Section 3.1. Standstill Restrictions.

         (a)  During  the  term of this  Agreement,  Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life and
Holdings  covenant and agree that Phoenix,  Phoenix Life and Holdings shall not,
and shall not permit any of their Affiliates to, either  individually or as part
of a Group, directly or indirectly:

                (i) acquire (other than  acquisitions  resulting from  corporate
action taken by the Board of Directors with respect to any pro rata distribution
of shares of Common Stock in connection  with any stock split,  stock  dividend,
recapitalization,  reclassification or similar transaction),  propose to acquire
(or publicly announce or otherwise disclose an intention to propose to acquire),
offer  to  acquire,  or agree to  acquire  any  Common  Stock  (or any  options,
warrants,  rights  or  other  securities  exercisable  for,  or  convertible  or
exchangeable  into,  Common Stock) if the effect of such acquisition would cause
the Phoenix  Ownership  Percentage to equal or exceed the Standstill  Percentage
(other than as a result of any stock  purchases or  repurchases by the Company);
provided that this Section  3.1(a)(i)  shall not apply to (a) any acquisition of
Common Stock or of options,  warrants,  rights or other  securities  exercisable
for, or convertible  or  exchangeable  into,  Common Stock granted to any Person
pursuant to any  benefit  plan of the  Company or any of its  Affiliates  or the
exercise,  conversion  or exchange of any such option,  warrant,  right or other
security,  (b) any  acquisition  of Common  Stock upon the  exercise by Phoenix,
Phoenix  Life,  Holdings or their  Affiliates  of rights  pursuant to any Rights
Agreement  that may be  adopted by the  Company  for the  purpose  of  deterring
coercive takeover  activities with respect to the Company,  provided that all of
the shares of Common Stock so acquired  upon the exercise of the rights shall be
subject to all of the terms of this  Agreement or (c) any  acquisition of Common
Stock upon the exercise by Phoenix,  Phoenix Life,  Holdings or their Affiliates
of any  options,  warrants,  rights  or other  securities  exercisable  for,  or
convertible or exchangeable  into, Common Stock granted or issued to all holders
of Common Stock.

                  (ii) propose (or  publicly  announce  or otherwise disclose an
intention  to  propose),  solicit,  offer,  seek or take any  action to  effect,
negotiate with or provide any

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confidential  information  relating to the Company or its  business to any other
Person with  respect to, any tender or exchange  offer,  merger,  consolidation,
share exchange, business combination, restructuring, recapitalization or similar
transaction  involving the Company (other than (x) any of the foregoing that has
been approved by the Board of Directors or (y) in connection  with any tender or
exchange  offer in which the Board of  Directors  has (a)  recommended  that its
shareholders  accept such offer or (b) after ten (10)  business days (as defined
in Rule 14d-1 under the Exchange Act as in effect on the date of this Agreement)
from the date of  commencement  of such offer,  expressed  no opinion,  remained
neutral,  was unable to take a position or otherwise did not oppose or recommend
that its shareholders reject such offer);

                  (iii) make, or  in any  way participate in, any "solicitation"
of "proxies" to vote (as such terms are defined in Rule 14a-1 under the Exchange
Act), solicit any consent or communicate with or seek to advise or influence any
person or entity  with  respect to the  voting of any  Common  Stock or become a
"participant"  in any  "election  contest" (as such terms are defined or used in
Rule 14a-11 under the Exchange  Act) with respect to the Company;  provided that
nothing in this Section  3.1(a)(iii)  shall apply to any deemed  solicitation of
proxies by  Fiondella  that may result from his position or status as a director
of the  Company  at the  time of any  general  solicitation  of  proxies  by the
management of the Company;

                  (iv) form,  participate  in  or  join any Person or Group with
respect to any Common Stock, or otherwise act in concert with any Person for the
purpose of (x) acquiring beneficial ownership of any Common Stock or (y) holding
or disposing of Common Stock for any purpose prohibited by this Section 3.1(a);

                  (v) except as  specifically provided in  Section 3.2 below and
except as specifically required by the Collateral Agreement,  deposit any Common
Stock into a voting  trust or subject  any Common  Stock to any  arrangement  or
agreement with respect to the voting thereof;

                  (vi) initiate, propose  or otherwise  solicit shareholders for
the  approval  of any  shareholder  proposal  with  respect  to the  Company  as
described in Rule 14a-8 under the  Exchange  Act, or induce or attempt to induce
any other Person to initiate,  propose or otherwise solicit any such shareholder
proposal;

                  (vii) except  as specifically  provided in  Article II of this
Agreement,  seek election to or seek to place a  representative  on the Board of
Directors,  or seek the removal of any member of the Board of  Directors  (other
than the Holdings Designee);

                  (viii)  call  or  seek  to  have  called  any  meeting  of the
shareholders of the Company for any purpose;

                  (ix) take any other  action to  seek to Control the management
or policies of the Company;

                  (x) demand, request or  propose  to amend, waive  or terminate
the provisions of this Section 3.1(a); or

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                  (xi) agree  to  do any  of the  foregoing, or advise,  assist,
encourage or persuade any third party to take any action with respect to  any of
the foregoing.

         (b) Phoenix,  Phoenix Life and Holdings agree that they will notify the
Company  promptly if any inquiries or proposals are received by, any information
is exchanged with respect to, or any  negotiations  or discussions are initiated
or  continued  by or  with,  Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life,  Holdings  or any of their
Affiliates  regarding any matter described in Section 3.1(a) above.  Phoenix and
the Company shall mutually agree upon an appropriate  response to be made to any
such  proposals  received by  Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life,  Holdings or any of their
Affiliates.

         (c) Nothing  contained  in this Article III shall be deemed to restrict
the manner in which Fiondella may participate in deliberations or discussions of
the Board of Directors or individual  consultations with any member of the Board
of Directors,  so long as such actions do not otherwise violate any provision of
Section 3.1(a) above.

         (d) Each of Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life and Holdings  covenants  and agrees
that,  during the term of this  Agreement and so long as Phoenix,  Phoenix Life,
Holdings  or  their  Affiliates  Control  (i) PXP and its  subsidiaries  (or any
successor  of PXP and its  subsidiaries)  or (ii) any  Person  registered  as an
investment company under the Investment  Company Act of 1940, as amended,  which
might  otherwise  be deemed to be an  "affiliate"  of Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life or
Holdings  within the  meaning of Rule 12b-2 under the  Exchange  Act (a "Related
Investment Company"), it will not, and will not permit any of its Affiliates to,
cause or permit PXP and its  subsidiaries  (or any such successor of PXP and its
subsidiaries) or such Related Investment Company, directly or indirectly, to (i)
attempt to exercise  Control or  influence  over the business and affairs of the
Company,  (ii) act in concert  with  Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life,  Holdings or their
Affiliates to violate the  provisions of this  Agreement or (iii) act in concert
with any other  Person for the  purposes of  violating  the  provisions  of this
Agreement  or otherwise  effecting a change of Control of the  Company.  Each of
Phoenix,  Phoenix Life and Holdings also  covenants and agrees that,  during the
term of this Agreement, it will not direct or influence, or attempt to direct or
influence,  the voting or  disposition of shares of Common Stock owned of record
or  beneficially  by PXP and its  subsidiaries  (or any successor of PXP and its
subsidiaries).

         Section 3.2. Voting Matters.

         (a)  During  the  term of this  Agreement,  Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life and
Holdings  will take all such action as may be required so that the Common  Stock
beneficially owned and entitled to be voted by Phoenix,  Phoenix Life,  Holdings
and their Affiliates,  as a Group, are voted or caused to be voted (in person or
by proxy):

                  (i) with  respect  to  nominees to the  Board of Directors, in
accordance with the recommendation of the Board of Directors, or a nominating or
similar  committee of the Board of Directors,  if any such committee  exists and
makes a recommendation; and

                  (ii) in  accordance  with  the recommendation  of the Board of
Directors with respect to any transaction to be effected with the Company or its
Affiliates in  connection  with an  unsolicited  tender or exchange  offer,  any
"election  contest"  (as such term is defined or used in Rule  14a-11  under the
Exchange  Act as in effect on the date of this  Agreement)  with  respect to

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the Board of Directors of the Company or any other attempt to acquire Control of
the Company or the Board of Directors.

         (b) Until May 3, 2004, Phoenix, Phoenix Life and Holdings will take all
such action as may be required so that the Common Stock  beneficially  owned and
entitled to be voted by Phoenix, Phoenix Life, Holdings and their Affiliates, as
a Group,  are voted or caused to be voted (in person or by proxy) in  accordance
with the recommendation of the Board of Directors of the Company with respect to
negotiated mergers, acquisitions, divestitures,  consolidations, sale of assets,
share exchanges or other similar  transactions for which shareholder approval is
sought.

         (c)  With  respect  to  all  matters   brought   before  the  Company's
shareholders for a vote not otherwise  provided for in Section 2.3(b) or Section
3.2(a) and (b) above,  Phoenix,  Phoenix Life, Holdings and their Affiliates may
vote in accordance with their independent judgment without regard to any request
or recommendation of the Board of Directors.

         (d)  Phoenix,   Phoenix  Life,   Holdings  and  their   Affiliates  who
beneficially  own and are  entitled  to vote any of the  Common  Stock  shall be
present, in person or by proxy, at all duly held meetings of shareholders of the
Company so that the Common  Stock held by Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life,  Holdings and
their  Affiliates may be counted for the purposes of determining the presence of
a quorum at such meetings.

                                   ARTICLE IV

                         Transfers of Phoenix Securities
                         -------------------------------

         Section 4.1. Transfer Restrictions.  During the term of this Agreement,
Phoenix,  Phoenix Life,  Holdings and their  Affiliates,  shall not, directly or
indirectly,  Transfer  any of  the  Phoenix  Securities  beneficially  owned  by
Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life,  Holdings and their  Affiliates  to any Person or Group
without the prior written  consent of the Company (which consent may be withheld
in the Company's sole  discretion),  if (i) as a result of such  Transfer,  such
Person or Group would have beneficial  ownership of Common Stock representing in
the  aggregate  more than 9.9% of the  issued and  outstanding  shares of Common
Stock,  such  determination  to be  based  upon  (x) the  most  recent  publicly
available  information  as to the number of shares of Common Stock  beneficially
owned by such Person or Group (to the extent such  information  is available) or
the  transferor's  actual  knowledge,  after due inquiry,  as to such beneficial
ownership,  (y) the  number or  amount  of  Phoenix  Securities  proposed  to be
Transferred and (z) the number of issued and outstanding  shares of Common Stock
on the date of Transfer (as adjusted pursuant to Rule  13d-3(d)(1)(i)  under the
Exchange  Act),  or (ii)  prior to such  Transfer,  such  Person  or  Group  has
beneficial  ownership of Common Stock  representing  in the aggregate  more than
9.9% of the issued and outstanding shares of Common Stock, such determination to
be based  upon (x) the most  recent  publicly  available  information  as to the
number of shares of Common Stock  beneficially owned by such Person or Group (to
the extent such information is available) or the transferor's  actual knowledge,
after due inquiry, as to such beneficial  ownership and (y) the number of issued
and  outstanding  shares of Common  Stock on the date of Transfer  (as  adjusted
pursuant  to  Rule  13d-3(d)(1)(i)  under  the  Exchange  Act).  Subject  to the
foregoing  limitation  (except (1) for  Transfers  pursuant to the  Registration
Statement on Form S-3, File No.  333-99869,  in connection with the Common Stock
Offering and the  Registration  Statements on

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Form S-3, File Nos.  333-99871  and  333-99873,  in connection  with the Phoenix
Purchase Contract Offering under  subparagraph (b) of this Section 4.1, to which
the foregoing transfer  restrictions will not apply, and (2) for Transfers under
subparagraphs  (g),  (h) and (i) of this  Section  4.1,  to which the  foregoing
transfer restrictions will not apply), Phoenix, Phoenix Life, Holdings and their
Affiliates may Transfer the Phoenix  Securities  beneficially  owned by Phoenix,
Phoenix Life, Holdings and their Affiliates in the following manner:

         (a)  to the Company or any Affiliate of the Company;

         (b)  pursuant  to  an  effective   registration   statement  under  the
Securities Act as provided in the Registration  Rights Agreement;  provided that
such registration statement shall apply only to sales of the Common Stock of the
Company;

         (c)  pursuant  to  Rule  144,  Rule  144A,  Regulation  S or any  other
applicable exemption from registration under the Securities Act;

         (d)  pursuant  to  a  distribution  (including  any  such  distribution
pursuant to any liquidation or dissolution) by Phoenix, Phoenix Life or Holdings
to its shareholders; provided that, upon a change in Control of Phoenix, Phoenix
Life or Holdings  occurring after the date of this Agreement,  Phoenix,  Phoenix
Life or  Holdings  shall not  distribute  any of the Phoenix  Securities  to its
Affiliates pursuant to this Section 4.1(d) or otherwise unless Phoenix,  Phoenix
Life or Holdings has received the prior  written  consent of the Company  (which
consent  may be withheld  in the  Company's  sole  discretion)  and  obtained an
agreement in writing by the  distributee to be bound by the terms and conditions
of this Agreement,  such agreement to be  substantially in the form of Exhibit B
attached hereto;

         (e) pursuant to a merger or consolidation of the Company or pursuant to
a plan of liquidation of the Company, which has been approved by the affirmative
vote of a majority of the members of the Board of Directors then in office;

         (f)  pursuant to a tender or  exchange  offer in which more than 67% of
the issued and outstanding  shares of Common Stock have been tendered by Persons
who are not Affiliates of Phoenix, Phoenix Life, Holdings or their Affiliates or
in which the Board of Directors has (i) recommended that its shareholders accept
such offer or (ii) after ten (10)  business days (as defined in Rule 14d-1 under
the  Exchange Act as in effect on the date of this  Agreement)  from the date of
commencement of such offer,  expressed no opinion,  remained neutral, was unable
to  take  a  position  or  otherwise  did  not  oppose  or  recommend  that  its
shareholders reject such offer;

         (g) to any  Affiliate of Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life or Holdings;  provided
that such Affiliate has delivered to the Company an agreement in writing by such
Affiliate  to be bound by the  terms  and  conditions  of this  Agreement,  such
agreement to be substantially in the form of Exhibit B attached hereto;

         (h) pursuant to a merger or consolidation  of Phoenix,  Phoenix Life or
Holdings or any Affiliate to which the Phoenix  Securities have theretofore been
Transferred;  provided that the Person  surviving  such merger or formed by such
consolidation  shall have  delivered  to the

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Company an  agreement  in  writing  by such  Person to be bound by the terms and
conditions of this Agreement,  such agreement to be substantially in the form of
Exhibit B attached hereto; or

         (i) as required by the Phoenix Collateral Agreement and Section 3.15 or
3.16 of the Phoenix Purchase Contract Agreement.

         In connection with any permitted Transfer pursuant to this Section 4.1,
the rights of Phoenix,  Phoenix Life and Holdings under this Agreement shall not
transfer to any  transferee(s)  of the Phoenix  Securities,  except upon express
assignment of such rights to the extent permitted by Section 7.3 hereof.

         Section 4.2 Lock-Up  Arrangement.  In addition to the  restrictions set
forth in Section  4.1 above,  during (i) the period of nine months from the date
of the Prospectus  that relates to the Common Stock Offering and (ii) the period
of nine  months  from the date of the  Prospectus  that  relates to the  Phoenix
Purchase Contract Offering, Phoenix, Phoenix Life and Holdings will not, without
the prior written  consent of the Company,  (x) directly or  indirectly,  offer,
pledge,  sell,  contract  to sell,  sell any  option or  contract  to  purchase,
purchase any option or contract to sell,  grant any option,  right or warrant to
purchase or  otherwise  transfer or dispose of any share of Common  Stock or any
securities  convertible into or exercisable or exchangeable for shares of Common
Stock or file any  registration  statement under the Securities Act with respect
to any of the foregoing or (y) enter into any swap or any other agreement or any
transaction  that transfers,  in whole or in part,  directly or indirectly,  the
economic  consequence  of ownership of shares of Common Stock,  whether any such
swap or  transaction  described  in clause  (x) or (y) above is to be settled by
delivery  of  shares  of  Common  Stock  or such  other  securities,  in cash or
otherwise;  provided  that this  Section  4.2 shall not apply to (a) the Phoenix
Purchase Contracts to be sold in the Phoenix Purchase Contract Offering, (b) the
shares of Common Stock to be pledged and delivered  under such Phoenix  Purchase
Contracts,  (c) the shares of Common  Stock to be sold by Phoenix as the selling
shareholder  in the  Common  Stock  Offering,  (d)  transactions  by  certain of
Phoenix's  subsidiaries  that  are  engaged  in  the  business  of  acting  as a
broker-dealer or an investment  advisor in the ordinary course of their business
or (e) sales of shares of Common Stock by Phoenix to any wholly-owned subsidiary
of  Phoenix  or  from  any   wholly-owned   subsidiary  of  Phoenix  to  another
wholly-owned  subsidiary  of  Phoenix  or from any  wholly-owned  subsidiary  of
Phoenix to Phoenix.

         Section 4.3.  Transfers to Affiliates.  In the event of any Transfer of
the Phoenix  Securities  to an  Affiliate  of Phoenix,  Phoenix Life or Holdings
under Section 4.1 above,  or such  Affiliate  otherwise  becomes the  beneficial
owner of any of the Phoenix Securities, Phoenix, Phoenix Life and Holdings shall
use its  best  efforts  to  cause  such  Affiliate  to  comply  with  all of the
provisions of this Agreement, including without limitation this Article IV.

         Section 4.4. Confidential Information. In connection with any permitted
Transfer of the Phoenix Securities pursuant to this Article IV, neither Phoenix,
Phoenix Life,  Holdings nor their  Affiliates  shall  disclose any  confidential
information  relating  to the Company or its  business  to any Person  except as
required by applicable law,  including without  limitation  Section 10(b) of the
Exchange Act and Rule 10b-5 thereunder, but only to the extent that any required
disclosure of such  confidential  information has been preceded by the execution
of a  confidentiality  agreement  by Phoenix,  Phoenix  Life,  Holdings or their
Affiliates,  as the  case  may

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be, and such Person substantially in the form attached hereto as Exhibit C. Such
confidentiality  agreement  shall be promptly  forwarded  to the Company for its
execution,  which  execution by the Company may be  subsequent  to the permitted
Transfer or disclosure to such Person;  provided that the failure of the Company
to so execute such confidentiality  agreement shall in no way be construed to be
a failure on the part of Phoenix, Phoenix Life, Holdings or their Affiliates, as
the case may be, to fulfill its obligations  under this paragraph or to limit or
affect the  validity  of such  confidentiality  agreement  as  between  Phoenix,
Phoenix Life, Holdings or their Affiliates, as the case may be, and such Person.

                                    ARTICLE V

                               Further Assurances
                               ------------------

         Each party shall execute and deliver such  additional  instruments  and
other  documents  and shall take such  further  actions as may be  necessary  or
appropriate  to  effectuate,  carry out and  comply  with all of its  respective
obligations  under  this  Agreement.  Phoenix  shall  deliver  to  the  Company,
concurrently   with  the  filing   thereof  with  the  Securities  and  Exchange
Commission,  copies of all Forms 3, 4 and 5, Form 144 and  Schedules 13D or 13G,
and each amendment thereto,  filed by Phoenix,  Phoenix Life,  Holdings or their
Affiliates with respect to the Phoenix Securities  pursuant to the Exchange Act.
Phoenix,  Phoenix Life and Holdings agree to provide any additional  information
requested by the Company regarding  Transfers of the Phoenix  Securities for the
purpose of determining compliance with this Agreement.  Phoenix shall notify the
Company promptly of any proposed Transfer of the Phoenix Securities  pursuant to
Sections  4.1(g) and (h) hereof.  If reasonably  requested by the Company at any
time during the term of this Agreement,  Phoenix agrees to confirm in writing to
the Company the number of Phoenix  Securities held,  beneficially and of record,
by Phoenix and its Affiliates as of the latest practicable date.

                                   ARTICLE VI

                                   Termination
                                   -----------

         Unless earlier  terminated by written  agreement of the parties hereto,
this Agreement shall terminate on May 3, 2009. Any termination of this Agreement
as provided herein shall be without prejudice to the rights of any party arising
out of the breach by any other party of any  provisions of this  Agreement  that
occurred prior to the termination.

                                   ARTICLE VII

                                  Miscellaneous
                                  -------------

         Section 7.1. Notices. Any notices or other  communications  required or
permitted  hereunder  shall  be  sufficiently  given  if in  writing  (including
telecopy or similar teletransmission), addressed as follows:

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         If to the Company,     Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company
              to it at:         4951 Lake Brook Drive, Suite 500
                                Glen Allen, Virginia 23060
                                Telecopier: (804) 747-3138
                                Attention: Andrew L. Rogal

         With a copy to:        Williams Mullen Clark & Dobbins
                                1021 East Cary Street, 16th Floor
                                Richmond, Virginia 23219
                                Telecopier: (804) 783-6507
                                Attention: Robert E. Spicer, Jr., Esquire

         If to Phoenix,         The Phoenix Companies, Inc.
         Phoenix Life or        One American Row
         Holdings, to them at:  Hartford, Connecticut  06115
                                Telecopier: (860) 403-5182
                                Attention: Nancy J. Engberg, Esquire

                                Phoenix Life Insurance Company
                                One American Row
                                Hartford, Connecticut 06115
                                Telecopier: (860) 403-5182
                                Attention: Nancy J. Engberg, Esquire

                                PM Holdings, Inc.
                                One American Row
                                Hartford, Connecticut 06115
                                Telecopier: (860) 403-5182
                                Attention: Nancy J. Engberg, Esquire

         With a copy to:        Debevoise & Plimpton
                                919 Third Avenue
                                New York, New York 10022
                                Telecopier: (212) 909-6836
                                Attention: Alan H. Paley, Esquire

Unless otherwise specified herein, such notices or other communications shall be
deemed received (a) in the case of any notice or  communication  sent other than
by mail, on the date actually delivered to such address (evidenced,  in the case
of delivery by overnight courier, by confirmation of delivery from the overnight
courier service making such delivery,  and in the case of a telecopy, by receipt
of a transmission confirmation form or the addressee's confirmation of receipt),
or (b) in the  case of any  notice  or  communication  sent by mail,  three  (3)
Business Days after being sent, if sent by  registered or certified  mail,  with
first-class  postage  prepaid.  Each of the parties  hereto shall be entitled to
specify a different  address by giving  notice as aforesaid to each of the other
parties hereto.

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         Section  7.2.  Amendments,  Waivers,  Etc.  This  Agreement  may not be
amended,  changed,  supplemented,  waived or  otherwise  modified or  terminated
except by an instrument in writing signed by Phoenix, Phoenix Life, Holdings and
the  Company  following  approval  thereof  by  a  majority  of  the  Continuing
Directors.

         Section  7.3.  Successors  and Assigns.  Except as  otherwise  provided
herein,  this Agreement  shall be binding upon and shall inure to the benefit of
and be enforceable by the parties and their  respective  successors and assigns,
including  without  limitation  in the case of any  corporate  party  hereto any
corporate  successor by merger or  otherwise;  provided that no party may assign
this Agreement  without the other party's prior written  consent,  which consent
will not be required in the event of the Transfer of the Phoenix  Securities  in
accordance with Sections 4.1(g) or 4.1(h) hereof. Notwithstanding the foregoing,
during the term of this Agreement, as long as Phoenix, Phoenix Life, Holdings or
any of their  Affiliates  beneficially  own any of the  Phoenix  Securities,  no
assignment of this Agreement by Phoenix,  Phoenix Life, Holdings or any of their
Affiliates  shall relieve the assignor  from its  obligation to fully perform or
comply with the terms of this Agreement and, unless  otherwise  expressly agreed
in  writing by the  Company,  such  assignor  shall  remain  bound by all of the
provisions hereof.

         Section 7.4.  Entire  Agreement.  This  Agreement,  the Stock  Purchase
Agreement, the Indenture and the Registration Rights Agreement embody the entire
agreement and  understanding  among the parties  relating to the subject  matter
hereof and supersede all prior  agreements and  understandings  relating to such
subject  matter.  There are no covenants by the parties hereto  relating to such
subject matter other than those expressly set forth in this Agreement, the Stock
Purchase Agreement, the Indenture and the Registration Rights Agreement.

         Section 7.5. Specific  Performance.  The parties acknowledge that money
damages are not an adequate remedy for violations of this Agreement and that any
party may, in its sole  discretion,  apply to a court of competent  jurisdiction
for specific  performance  or  injunctive or such other relief as such court may
deem just and proper in order to enforce this Agreement or prevent any violation
hereof and, to the extent  permitted by  applicable  law,  each party waives any
objection to the imposition of such relief.

         Section  7.6.  Remedies  Cumulative.  All rights,  powers and  remedies
provided under this Agreement or otherwise available in respect hereof at law or
in equity shall be cumulative and not alternative, and the exercise or beginning
of the exercise of any thereof by any party shall not preclude the  simultaneous
or later exercise of any other such right, power or remedy by such party.

         Section 7.7. No Waiver. The failure of any party hereto to exercise any
right,  power or remedy provided under this Agreement or otherwise  available in
respect  hereof at law or in equity,  or to insist upon  compliance by any other
party hereto with its obligations  hereunder,  and any custom or practice of the
parties at variance with the terms hereof, shall not constitute a waiver by such
party of its right to exercise  any such or other  right,  power or remedy or to
demand such compliance.

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         Section  7.8.  No Third  Party  Beneficiaries.  This  Agreement  is not
intended to be for the benefit of and shall not be enforceable by any Person who
or which is not a party hereto.

         Section 7.9. Consent to Jurisdiction.  Each party to this Agreement, by
its execution hereof,  hereby (i) irrevocably  submits, and agrees to cause each
of its Affiliates to submit,  to the  jurisdiction of the federal courts located
either  in  the  City  of  Richmond,  Virginia,  or in  the  City  of  Hartford,
Connecticut,  and in the event that such  federal  courts shall not have subject
matter  jurisdiction  over the  relevant  proceeding,  then of the state  courts
located  either in the City of Richmond,  Virginia,  or in the City of Hartford,
Connecticut,  for the  purpose of any Action  arising  out of or based upon this
Agreement  or  relating  to  the  subject  matter  hereof  or  the  transactions
contemplated  hereby, (ii) waives, and agrees to cause each of its Affiliates to
waive, to the extent not prohibited by applicable law, and agrees not to assert,
and agrees not to allow any of its Affiliates to assert,  by way of motion, as a
defense or  otherwise,  in any such  Action,  any claim  that it is not  subject
personally to the jurisdiction of the above-named  courts,  that its property is
exempt or immune from attachment or execution,  that any such proceeding brought
in one of the  above-named  courts is  improper,  or that this  Agreement or the
subject  matter  hereof may not be enforced in or by such court and (iii) hereby
agrees not to commence or to permit any of its Affiliates to commence any Action
arising out of or based upon this  Agreement  or relating to the subject  matter
hereof other than before one of the above-named courts nor to make any motion or
take any other  action  seeking or intending to cause the transfer or removal of
any such Action to any court other than one of the above-named courts whether on
the grounds of  inconvenient  forum or otherwise.  Each party hereby consents to
service of process in any such proceeding in any manner permitted by Virginia or
Connecticut  law,  as the case may be,  and  agrees  that  service of process by
registered or certified mail, return receipt requested, at its address specified
pursuant to Section 7.1 above is reasonably  calculated  to give actual  notice.
Notwithstanding  anything  contained in this  Section 7.9 to the  contrary  with
respect to the parties' forum  selection,  if an Action is filed against a party
to this Agreement,  including its Affiliates,  by a Person who or which is not a
party  to this  Agreement,  an  Affiliate  of a party to this  Agreement,  or an
assignee  thereof (a "Third  Party  Action"),  in a forum other than the federal
district court or a state court located in the City of Richmond, Virginia, or in
the City of  Hartford,  Connecticut,  and such Third Party Action is based upon,
arises from, or implicates  rights,  obligations or  liabilities  existing under
this Agreement or acts or omissions  pursuant to this Agreement,  then the party
to this Agreement, including its Affiliates, joined as a defendant in such Third
Party Action shall have the right to file cross-claims or third-party  claims in
the Third Party Action against the other party to this Agreement,  including its
Affiliates,  and even if not a defendant  therein,  to  intervene  in such Third
Party  Action with or without also filing  cross-claims  or  third-party  claims
against the other party to this Agreement, including its Affiliates.

         Section 7.10.  Governing Law. This  Agreement  shall be governed by and
construed in accordance with the domestic substantive law of the Commonwealth of
Virginia,  without  giving  effect to any choice or conflict of law provision or
rule that would cause the application of the law of any other jurisdiction.

         Section 7.11. Name,  Captions.  The name assigned to this Agreement and
the section captions used herein are for convenience of reference only and shall
not affect the interpretation or construction hereof.

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         Section  7.12.  Counterparts.  This  Agreement  may be  executed in any
number of counterparts, each of which shall be deemed to be an original, but all
of which together shall constitute one instrument.  Each counterpart may consist
of a number of copies each signed by fewer than all, but together signed by all,
the parties hereto.

         Section 7.13. Expenses. Each of the parties hereto shall bear their own
expenses  incurred  in  connection  with  this  Agreement  and the  transactions
contemplated hereby,  except that in the event of a dispute concerning the terms
or enforcement of this Agreement, the prevailing party in any such dispute shall
be  entitled  to  reimbursement  of  reasonable  legal  fees  and  disbursements
reasonably incurred from the other party or parties to such dispute.

         Section  7.14.  Severability.  In the event that any  provision  hereof
would,  under applicable law, be invalid or  unenforceable in any respect,  such
provision shall (to the extent  permitted under  applicable law) be construed by
modifying or limiting it so as to be valid and enforceable to the maximum extent
compatible with, and possible under,  applicable law. The provisions  hereof are
severable,  and in the event any  provision  hereof  should be held  invalid  or
unenforceable in any respect, it shall not invalidate,  render  unenforceable or
otherwise affect any other provision hereof.

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         IN WITNESS WHEREOF,  the parties hereto,  intending to be legally bound
hereby, have caused this Amended and Restated Voting and Standstill Agreement to
be executed,  as of the date first above  written by their  respective  officers
thereunto duly authorized.


                                HILB, ROGAL AND HAMILTON COMPANY


                                By: /s/ A. Brent King
                                    --------------------------------------------
                                    Name: A. Brent King
                                    Title: Vice President, Associate General
                                           Counsel and Assistant Secretary


                                THE PHOENIX COMPANIES, INC.


                                By: /s/ Naomi Kleinman
                                    --------------------------------------------
                                    Name: Naomi Kleinman
                                    Title: Vice President-Corporate Finance


                                PHOENIX LIFE INSURANCE COMPANY


                                By: /s/ Naomi Kleinman
                                    --------------------------------------------
                                     Name: Naomi Kleinman
                                     Title: Vice President-Corporate Finance


                                PM HOLDINGS, INC.


                                By: /s/ Naomi Kleinman
                                    --------------------------------------------
                                    Name: Naomi Kleinman
                                    Title: Vice President-Corporate Finance


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                                                                       Exhibit A

                          Form of Resignation Agreement



Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company
4951 Lake Brook Drive, Suite 500
Glen Allen, Virginia  23060

Ladies and Gentlemen:

         As required by Section  2.3(a) of the Amended and  Restated  Voting and
Standstill  Agreement (the  "Agreement"),  dated November 7, 2002, between Hilb,
Rogal and Hamilton  Company  ("the  Company"),  The Phoenix  Companies,  Inc., a
Delaware corporation,  Phoenix Life Insurance Company, a New York life insurance
company, and PM Holdings, Inc., a Connecticut corporation,  I hereby resign from
the Board of Directors of the Company effective as of December 31, 2002.


Date:  November 13, 2002


                                                ------------------------------
                                                David W. Searfoss


Agreed to and Accepted:

Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company


By:___________________________
Name:
Title:







                                                                       Exhibit B

                          Form of Assumption Agreement



Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company
4235 Innslake Drive
Glen Allen, Virginia  23060

Ladies and Gentlemen:

         Pursuant to Section  4.1[(d),  (g) or (h)] of the Amended and  Restated
Voting and  Standstill  Agreement  (the  "Agreement"),  dated  November 7, 2002,
between Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company ("the Company"), The Phoenix Companies,
Inc., a Delaware corporation ("Phoenix"),  Phoenix Life Insurance Company, a New
York  life  insurance  company  ("Phoenix  Life"),  and  PM  Holdings,  Inc.,  a
Connecticut corporation ("Holdings"),  the undersigned hereby agrees to be bound
by all of the terms and  conditions of the Agreement to the same extent as if it
were a party  thereto and assumes all of the  obligations  of [Phoenix,  Phoenix
Life,  Holdings or their  Affiliate]  under the  Agreement  with  respect to the
Phoenix Securities (as defined in the Agreement).


                                [PHOENIX, PHOENIX LIFE, HOLDINGS
                                or AFFILIATE]


Date: _________________         By:
                                    --------------------------------------------
                                    Name:
                                    Title:

                                [TRANSFEREE]


Date: _________________         By:
                                    --------------------------------------------
                                    Name:
                                    Title:

Agreed to and Accepted:

Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company


By:___________________________
Name:
Title:




                                                                       Exhibit C


                        Form of Confidentiality Agreement



                                ________ __, 20__


CONFIDENTIAL
- ------------

[Name] [Address]

         Re:      Confidentiality Agreement
                  -------------------------

Ladies and Gentlemen:

         In  connection  with our  [soliciting,  offering,  seeking to effect or
negotiating] with you with respect to the [sale, transfer,  assignment,  pledge,
etc.] of  [shares  of Common  Stock,  without  par  value],  of Hilb,  Rogal and
Hamilton  Company  (the  "Company"),  we are  prepared to make  available to you
certain  confidential  information relating to the Company and its business (the
"Confidential  Information").  As  a  condition  to  your  being  furnished  the
Confidential  Information,  you agree to comply with the terms and conditions of
this letter agreement (this "Agreement").

         For the purposes of this Agreement,  the term  "Representatives"  shall
mean your employees, agents and advisors and the directors,  officers, employees
and agents of any of your  advisors.  The term  "Third  Party"  shall be broadly
interpreted to include  without  limitation  any  corporation,  company,  group,
partnership,  other entity or individual.  The term  "Confidential  Information"
shall not include information that (i) was or becomes generally available to the
public other than as a result of a disclosure by you or your Representatives, or
(ii) was or becomes available to you on a  non-confidential  basis from a source
other than the Company or its advisors.

         You hereby agree to treat the Confidential  Information as confidential
and,  unless  required by  applicable  law, you shall not, and shall direct your
Representatives  not to, use in any way or to disclose,  directly or indirectly,
the  Confidential  Information to any Third Party without the written consent of
the Company.

         It  is  understood  and  agreed  that  money  damages  would  not  be a
sufficient  remedy for any breach of this  Agreement by you and that the Company
shall be entitled to specific  performance  and  injunctive  or other  equitable
relief  as a remedy  for any such  breach,  and you  further  agree to waive any
requirement  for the  securing  or posting of any bond in  connection  with such
remedy.



Such remedy  shall not be deemed to be the  exclusive  remedy for your breach of
this Agreement,  but shall be in addition to all other remedies available at law
or equity to the Company.

         If you are in  agreement  with the  foregoing,  please so  indicate  by
signing and returning one copy of this  Agreement,  whereupon it will constitute
our agreement with respect to the subject matter hereof.

                                     Very truly yours,


                                     [Name]
                                     Officer of [Phoenix or Affiliate]

                                     CONFIRMED AND AGREED as of
                                     the date first written
                                     above:


                                     [NAME]



                                     By:_________________________________
                                     Name:
                                     Title:



                                     Hilb, Rogal and Hamilton Company



                                     By:_________________________________
                                     Name:
                                     Title:



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