F & M BANK CORP.
                              Timberville, Virginia

                    Notice of Annual Meeting of Shareholders
                    To the Shareholders of F & M Bank Corp.

         The annual meeting of  shareholders  of F & M Bank Corp.  (the Company)
will be held on  Saturday,  May 8, 2004,  at 5:30 P.M. at Broadway  High School,
Broadway, Virginia, for the following purposes:

         1.   Election of  three  directors  for  three-year  terms  expiring in
              2007.

         2.   Ratification  of the appointment of S. B. Hoover & Company, L.L.P.
              as independent auditors for 2004.

         3.   Transaction of such other business as may properly come before the
              meeting. Management is not aware of any other business, other than
              procedural matters incident to the conduct of the Annual Meeting.

         Only  shareholders of record at the close of business on March 19, 2004
are entitled to notice of and to vote at the annual meeting or any  adjournments
thereof.

         To assure  that your  shares are  represented  at the  annual  meeting,
please  complete,  date and sign the  enclosed  proxy,  and return it as soon as
possible in the enclosed postage prepaid  envelope.  You may amend your proxy at
any time prior to the closing of the polls at the meeting.

                                             By Order of the Board of Directors



                                             Larry A. Caplinger, Secretary

April 2, 2004



                                F & M BANK CORP.
                                 P. O. Box 1111
                           Timberville, Virginia 22853


                                 PROXY STATEMENT

         This Proxy Statement is furnished in connection  with the  solicitation
of proxies  for use at the annual  meeting of  shareholders  of F & M Bank Corp.
(the  Company) to be held  Saturday,  May 8, 2004 at 5:30 P.M. at Broadway  High
School,  Broadway,  Virginia,  and  at  any  adjournments  thereof  (the  Annual
Meeting).  The  principal  executive  offices of the Company are located on Main
Street, Timberville,  Virginia 22853. The approximate mailing date of this Proxy
Statement and the accompanying proxy is April 2, 2004.

         The  accompanying  proxy is  solicited by the Board of Directors of the
Company (the Board).  The cost of the  solicitation  of proxies will be borne by
the  Company.  Solicitations  will be made only by the use of the  mail,  except
that, if necessary, officers, directors and regular employees of the Company, or
its affiliates, may make solicitations of proxies by telephone,  telegraph or by
personal  calls.  Brokerage  houses and nominees may be requested to forward the
proxy solicitation material to the beneficial owners of the stock held of record
by such  persons,  and the  Company  may  reimburse  them for their  charges and
expenses in this regard.

         All properly executed proxies  delivered  pursuant to this solicitation
will be voted at the Annual Meeting in accordance with any instructions thereon.
Any person signing and mailing the enclosed proxy may, nevertheless,  revoke the
proxy at any time prior to the  actual  voting  thereof  by (i)  filing  written
notice thereof with the Secretary of the Company (Larry A. Caplinger, Secretary,
F & M Bank Corp., P. O. Box 1111, Timberville,  Virginia 22853); (ii) submitting
a duly executed  proxy  bearing a later date;  or (iii)  appearing at the Annual
Meeting or any adjournment thereof and giving the Secretary notice of his or her
intention to vote in person.

         An  Annual  Report  to  shareholders,   including   current   financial
statements, is being mailed to the Company's shareholders concurrently with this
Proxy Statement, but is not part of the proxy solicitation materials.

         Interested  shareholders  may  obtain,  without charge,  a copy  of the
Company's  Annual  Report on Form 10-K for the fiscal  year ended  December  31,
2003, as filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission, upon written request
to Larry A. Caplinger, Secretary, F & M Bank Corp., P. O. Box 1111, Timberville,
Virginia 22853.


                      OUTSTANDING SHARES AND VOTING RIGHTS

         Only  shareholders of record at the close of business on March 19, 2004
will be  entitled  to vote at the  Annual  Meeting.  As of March 19,  2004,  the
Company  had  outstanding  2,420,478  shares of its common  stock,  $5 par value
(Common Stock),  each of which is entitled to one vote at the Annual Meeting.  A
majority  of votes  entitled  to be cast on  matters  considered  at the  Annual
Meeting  constitutes a quorum.  If a share is represented for any purpose at the
Annual  Meeting,  it is deemed to be present  for  purposes  of  establishing  a
quorum.  Abstentions  and  shares  held of record  by a broker  or its  nominees
(Broker  Shares)  that are voted on any matter are included in  determining  the
number of votes present or represented at the Annual Meeting. Conversely, Broker
Shares  that are not voted on any matter  will not be  included  in  determining
whether  a quorum is  present.  If a quorum is  established,  directors  will be
elected by a plurality of the votes cast by  shareholders at the Annual Meeting.
Votes that are withheld or  abstentions  and Broker Shares that are not voted in
the  election  of  directors  or in the  ratification  of  auditors  will not be
included in determining the number of votes cast.

                        SECURITY OWNERSHIP OF MANAGEMENT

         The following  table sets forth the number and  percentage of shares of
Common Stock beneficially  owned, as of March 19, 2004, by each of the Company's
directors and nominees,  each of the  executive  officers  named in the "Summary
Compensation  Table"  below and all of the  Company's  directors  and  executive
officers as a group.  For the purposes of this table,  beneficial  ownership has
been  determined  in  accordance  with the  provisions  of Rule 13d-3  under the
Securities  Exchange Act of 1934, as amended,  under which, in general, a person
is deemed to be a beneficial  owner of a security if he or she has or shares the
power to vote or direct the voting of the security or the power to dispose of or
direct the disposition of the security, or if he or she has the right to acquire
beneficial ownership of the security within 60 days.

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                                     Amount Beneficially           Percent of
Name of Owner                               Owned                       Class
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Larry A. Caplinger                        122,273(1)                    5.052%

Thomas L. Cline                             7,601(2)                     .314%

John N. Crist                              12,404(3)                     .512%

Julian D. Fisher                           17,620(4)                     .728%

Ellen R. Fitzwater                          3,582(5)                     .148%

Robert L. Halterman                        29,348                       1.212%

Daniel J. Harshman                            550(6)                     .023%

Lawrence H. Hoover, Jr                     39,315(7)                    1.624%

Richard S. Myers                            9,285(8)                     .384%

Michael W. Pugh                               784(9)                     .032%

Ronald E. Wampler                          10,553(10)                    .436%

Dean W. Withers                             3,190(11)                    .132%

Directors and executive officers
  as a group (13 persons)                 256,505                      10.597%

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(1)  Includes 2,256 shares owned  directly,  4,944 shares owned jointly with his
     spouse, 216 shares indirectly held for Mr. Caplinger's children and 114,857
     shares owned by the Company's Stock Bonus Plan over which Mr. Caplinger and
     Neil W. Hayslett have voting power in their capacity as plan trustees.

(2)  Includes 4,023 shares owned  directly,  3,060 shares owned jointly with his
     spouse,  168 shares owned by his spouse,  175 shares  owned by Mr.  Cline's
     Roth IRA and 175 shares owned by his spouse's Roth IRA.

(3)  Includes  4,563 shares owned  directly,  2,000 shares owned by Mr.  Crist's
     IRA,  100 shares owned by Mr.  Crist's Roth IRA,  2,500 shares owned by his
     personal 401(k) plan, 1,141 shares owned by his spouse, 100 shares owned by
     his  spouse's  Roth IRA,  1,000  shares owned by his spouse's IRA and 1,000
     shares indirectly held for Mr. Crist's daughters.

(4)  Includes 9,427 shares owned directly and 8,193 shares owned by his spouse.

(5)  Includes  3,204  shares owned  directly  and 378 shares owned  jointly with
     another person.

(6)  Includes  450 shares owned  directly and 100 shares owned  jointly with his
     spouse.

(7)  Includes 33,536 shares owned  directly,  138 shares owned by his spouse and
     5,641 shares owned by unitrusts of which he is one of the trustees.

(8)  Includes  4,800 shares owned  directly and 4,485 shares owned by Mr. Myers'
     IRA.

(9)  Includes 600 shares owned directly, 84 shares owned jointly with his spouse
     and 100 shares held by a simplified employee plan for Mr. Pugh's benefit.

(10) Includes 10,053 shares owned directly and 500 shares owned by his spouse.

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(11) Includes 910 shares owned directly, 1,500 shares owned by Mr. Withers' IRA,
     600  shares  owned by his spouse  and 180  shares  indirectly  held for Mr.
     Withers' sons.


                     SECURITY OWNERSHIP OF BENEFICIAL OWNERS

         Except for Larry A.  Caplinger,  as  disclosed  above  under  "Security
Ownership of  Management,"  management of the Company knows of no person who has
beneficial  ownership of 5% or more of the outstanding  Common Stock as of March
19, 2004.

Section 16(a) Beneficial Ownership Reporting Compliance

         Section  16(a) of the  Securities  Exchange  Act of 1934,  as  amended,
requires the Company's directors and executive officers, and any persons who own
more than 10% of the Common  Stock,  to file with the  Securities  and  Exchange
Commission  (the "SEC")  reports of ownership and changes in ownership of Common
Stock.  Officers and  directors  are required by SEC  regulation  to furnish the
Company with copies of all Section 16(a) forms they file. Based solely on review
of the copies of such reports furnished to the Company or written representation
that no other reports were required, the Company believes that, during 2003, all
filing requirements  applicable to its officers and directors were complied with
except that Lawrence H. Hoover, Jr., Chairman of the Board inadvertently  failed
to file Form 4s for four sales (one by his  unitrust  and three by his  mother's
unitrust) for August and September 2003. Corrective filings were made.


PROPOSAL ONE                  ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

         The term of office for the  current  Class B  directors  expires at the
Annual Meeting. The Board has nominated such directors,  namely Thomas L. Cline,
Robert L. Halterman and Michael W. Pugh, for election, for a three-year term, by
the  shareholders  at the Annual  Meeting.  The persons  named as proxies in the
accompanying form of proxy, unless instructed otherwise,  intend to vote for the
election of each of these nominees for  directors.  If any nominee should become
unavailable  to serve,  the proxy may be voted for the  election of a substitute
nominee  designated by the Board. The Board has no reason to believe that any of
the nominees will be unable to serve if elected.

                  The Board recommends election of the Class B
              director nominees set forth in this Proxy Statement.

                  INFORMATION CONCERNING DIRECTORS AND NOMINEES

         The following  information,  including the principal  occupation during
the past five  years,  is given with  respect to the  nominees,  all of whom are
current directors,  for election to the Board at the Annual Meeting,  as well as
all directors continuing in office.



Name, Age and Position                Director            Principal Occupation During
with the Company                      Since               the Last Five Years
- ----------------------                --------            ---------------------------

                                Director Nominees

                                CLASS B DIRECTORS
            (to serve until the 2007 annual meeting of shareholders)

                                                    
Thomas L. Cline (57)                    1991              President of Truck & Equipment Corp. and Mac Lease, Inc.;
                                                          Secretary/Treasurer of Transport Repairs, Inc.; Secretary of  Truck
                                                          Thermo King until Feb. 2003

Robert L. Halterman (68)                1980              President of Virginia Classic Mustang, Inc.; Partner, H & H Properties

Michael W. Pugh (49)                    1994              President of Old Dominion Realty, Inc. and Colonial Appraisal
                                                          Service, Inc.


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                         Directors Continuing in Office

                                CLASS C DIRECTORS
            (to serve until the 2005 annual meeting of shareholders)

John N. Crist (54)                      2001              Attorney, Partner in Hoover, Penrod, Davenport & Crist

Julian D. Fisher (63)                   1990              CEO of Farmers & Merchants Bank (the Bank) since May 1996;
President and CEO and                                     President of the Bank since Oct. 1991
Vice Chairman of the Board

Daniel J. Harshman (52)                 2001              Manager of the Town of Edinburg; Owner/Manager of The Spring
                                                          House Restaurant from Jan. 1979 to Aug. 2000

                                CLASS A DIRECTORS
            (to serve until the 2006 annual meeting of shareholders)

Ellen R. Fitzwater (57)                 1999              Partner/Financial Manager of Fitzwater Trucking, L.L.C.;
                                                          Partner/Financial Manager of F & R Leasing, L.L.C. and Blue Ridge
                                                          Transportation Service, L.L.C. since June 2000;
                                                          Corporate accountant of Rocco, Inc. from Oct. 1968 to Dec. 2001

Lawrence H. Hoover, Jr. (69)            1981              Of Counsel, Hoover, Penrod, Davenport & Crist since Jan. 2004;
Chairman of the Board                                     Attorney, Partner in Hoover, Penrod, Davenport & Crist until Jan.
                                                          2004

Richard S. Myers (56)                   1988              President of Dick Myers Chevrolet-Pontiac

Ronald E. Wampler (56)                  1991              Farmer and partner in Dove Ohio Farms, L.L.C., WWTD Ohio Farms,
                                                          L.L.C. and Dove Farms, Inc.



                            Corporate Governance and
                             The Board of Directors

General

         The business and affairs of the Company are managed under the direction
of the Board of Directors in accordance with the Virginia Stock  Corporation Act
and the Company's Articles of Incorporation and Bylaws. Members of the Board are
kept informed of the Company's business through discussions with the Chairman of
the Board,  the President and Chief  Executive  Officer and other  officers,  by
reviewing  materials  provided to them and by  participating  in meetings of the
Board and its committees.

Code of Ethics

         The Board of  Directors  has  approved a  Code of Business  Conduct and
Ethics for directors,  officers and employees of the Company and the Bank.  This
document includes the Company's Chief Executive Officer and Principal  Financial
Officer.  It is available  upon request to the Secretary of the Company at P. O.
Box 1111, Timberville, VA 22853.

Board and Committee Meeting Attendance

         There were 13  meetings  of the Board of  Directors  of the  Company in
2003.  Each  director  attended  greater  than 75% of the  aggregate  number  of
meetings  of the Board of  Directors  and  meetings of  committees  of which the
director  was a member in 2003.  The  Board of the  Bank,  which met 12 times in
2003,  primarily  manages  all matters for the Bank.  All the  directors  of the
Company are also directors of the Bank.

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Committees of the Board

         The Company has an Audit  Committee  and a  Compensation  Committee  is
established at the Bank level.  The Company does not have a standing  Nominating
Committee  but does  appoint a  committee  each year to handle  the  nominations
process.

Audit Committee

         The Audit  Committee  assists the Board of Directors in fulfilling  the
Board's oversight  responsibility to the shareholders  relating to the integrity
of the Company's financial  statements,  the Company's compliance with legal and
regulatory requirements, the qualifications, independence and performance of the
Company's  independent  auditor  and  the  performance  of  the  internal  audit
function.  The Audit  Committee  is directly  responsible  for the  appointment,
compensation,  retention  and oversight of the work of the  independent  auditor
engaged for the purpose of preparing  or issuing an audit  report or  performing
other  audit,  review or  attestation  services  for the  Company.  The Board of
Directors  has  adopted a written  charter  for the Audit  Committee.  The Audit
Committee Charter is set forth in Appendix A to this Proxy Statement.

         The  members  of the Audit  Committee  are  Thomas L.  Cline,  Ellen R.
Fitzwater, Robert L. Halterman, Daniel J. Harshman and Ronald E. Wampler, all of
whom the Board in its  business  judgment  has  determined  are  independent  as
defined by the listing  standards  of the Nasdaq Stock  Market  ("Nasdaq").  The
Board of  Directors  also has  determined  that all of the  members of the Audit
Committee have sufficient  knowledge in financial and auditing  matters to serve
on the Audit  Committee and that Ms.  Fitzwater  qualifies as an audit committee
financial expert as defined by SEC regulations.

         The Audit Committee met five times in 2003. For additional  information
regarding the Audit Committee, see "Audit Information-Audit Committee Report" on
page 10 of this Proxy Statement.

Compensation Committee

         The Compensation Committee reviews senior management's  performance and
compensation  and reviews and sets guidelines for compensation of all employees.
All decisions by the Compensation  Committee relating to the compensation of the
Company's executive officers are reported to the full Board of Directors.

         The  members of the  Compensation  Committee  are Robert L.  Halterman,
Lawrence H. Hoover, Jr., Michael W. Pugh and Ronald E. Wampler,  all of whom the
Board in its business  judgment has  determined  are  independent  as defined by
Nasdaq's listing standards. The Compensation Committee met one time in 2003. For
additional information regarding the Compensation  Committee,  see "Compensation
Committee Report on Executive Compensation" on page 8 of this Proxy Statement.


Director Nomination Process

         Each year,  the Company appoints a  nominating  committee  comprised of
independent   directors  to  handle  the  nominations  process.  The  nominating
committee for 2003 was composed of Directors Lawrence H. Hoover, Jr., Richard S.
Myers and  Ronald E.  Wampler.  The  Company  does not have a  separate  charter
related to the nomination process. When these individuals perform the nominating
function,  they act in accordance with the Company's  Articles of  Incorporation
and Bylaws.

         Shareholders  entitled to vote for the election of directors may submit
candidates for  consideration  by Company if the Company receives timely written
notice,  in proper form,  for each such  recommended  director  nominee.  If the
notice is not timely and in proper form,  the nominee will not be  considered by
the  Company.  To be timely for the 2005  annual  meeting,  the  notice  must be
received within the time frame set forth in  "Shareholder  Proposals" on page 11
of this Proxy  Statement.  To be in proper  form,  the notice must  include each
nominee's written consent to be named as a nominee and to serve, if elected, and
information about the shareholder making the nomination and the person nominated
for election.  These requirements are more fully described in Section 2.5 of the
Company's  Bylaws,  a copy of which will be  provided,  without  charge,  to any
shareholder upon written request to the Secretary of the Company,  whose address
is P. O. Box 1111, Timberville, VA 22853.


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         The  Company's  independent  directors  consider,  at  a  minimum,  the
following  factors in recommending to the Board potential new directors,  or the
continued service of existing directors:

     *   The ability of the  prospective  nominee to represent the  interests of
         the shareholders of the Company;

     *   The  prospective  nominee's  standards  of  integrity,  commitment  and
         independence of thought and judgment;

     *   The prospective  nominee's ability to  dedicate sufficient time, energy
         and  attention  to  the  diligent  performance  of  his or her  duties,
         including  the  prospective  nominee's  service on other public company
         boards; and

     *   The extent to which the  prospective  nominee  contributes to the range
         of talent, skill and expertise appropriate for the Board of Directors.

Annual Meeting Attendance

         The Company  encourages  members  of  the  Board of Directors to attend
the annual  meeting of  shareholders.  Eight of the directors  attended the 2003
annual meeting.


Communications with Directors

         Any  director  may be  contacted by writing to him or her c/o P. O. Box
1111, Timberville, VA 22853. Communications to the non-management directors as a
group may be sent to the same  address,  c/o the  Secretary of the Company.  The
Company promptly  forwards,  without screening,  all such  correspondence to the
indicated directors.


Director Compensation

         All directors of the Company,  who are also directors of the Bank, each
received  $500 for  attending  each  board  meeting  of the  Bank in 2003.  They
received no  additional  compensation  as  directors  for Board  meetings of the
Company.  In  addition,  each  director  received a bonus of $5,500 for the year
ended  2003 and $100 for each  Investment  and  Corporate  Governance  Committee
meeting attended, $150 for each Compensation Committee meeting attended and $200
for each Audit Committee meeting attended.


Executive Officers Information

         The following  information,  including the principal  occupation during
the past five  years,  is given with  respect to each  executive  officer of the
Company,  except for Julian D. Fisher, who is discussed above under "Information
Concerning Directors and Nominees."

         Larry A. Caplinger, 51, has served as Senior Vice President of the Bank
since May 1990.

         Neil W.  Hayslett,  42, has served as Senior Vice  President  and Chief
Financial  Officer of the Bank since January 2003. Prior to that time, he served
as Vice President and Chief Financial Officer.

         Dean W. Withers,  47, has served as Executive  Vice President and Chief
Operating  Officer of the Bank since January 2003. Prior to that time, he served
as Vice President.


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                              SUMMARY COMPENSATION

         The Summary Compensation Table below sets forth the compensation of the
Company's named Executive  Officers for all services rendered to the Company and
the Bank for the last  three  fiscal  years.  During  2003,  no other  executive
officer of the Company and the Bank received compensation in excess of $100,000.

                           Summary Compensation Table
                               Annual Compensation



Name and                                                            Other Annual         All Other
Principal Position                Year    Salary($)    Bonus($)     Compensation($)      Compensation($)

                                                                           
Julian D. Fisher                  2003    $160,000      $49,500              *            $34,905(3)
President & Chief                 2002     150,000       49,500              *             44,109(3)
Executive Officer                 2001     140,000       48,750(2)           *             40,935(3)

Larry A. Caplinger(1)             2003      83,000       18,000(2)           *             17,725(4)
Senior Vice President             2002      79,000       17,500(2)           *             19,551(4)

Dean W. Withers(1)                2003      83,000       18,000              *             17,374(5)
Executive Vice President &        2002      78,000       16,500(2)           *             19,844(5)
Chief Operating Officer


         *The value of perquisites  and other  personal  benefits did not exceed
the lesser of $50,000 or 10% of the total of annual salary and bonus.
          1Mr.  Caplinger and Mr. Withers became  executive  officers as of July
18, 2002.
          2The amounts presented  include  compensation that was deferred at the
executive officer's election.
          3The amounts  presented  include the  Company's  contribution  for the
benefit of Mr. Fisher under the Company's  Stock Bonus Plan  ($15,345,  $11,791,
and  $10,806 in 2003,  2002,  and 2001,  respectively),  the gross value of life
insurance premiums paid by the Company on behalf of Mr. Fisher ($1,350,  $15,647
and $15,844 in 2003, 2002 and 2001, respectively) and the Company's contribution
for the benefit of Mr. Fisher under the Executive Deferred Compensation Plan for
Farmers & Merchants Bank ($18,210, $16,671, and $14,285 in 2003, 2002, and 2001,
respectively).  Prior to 2003,  the  Company  and Mr.  Fisher  were  parties  to
split-dollar  life  insurance  policies.  Under the terms of the  policies,  the
Company will be repaid the life insurance  premium payments from the proceeds of
the insurance  policies at Mr. Fisher's death or when cash surrender  values are
sufficient to carry the policies through normal life expectancy,  and Mr. Fisher
or his heirs would receive the remaining  benefits.  During 2003, these policies
were  cancelled,  and the Company  provided Mr. Fisher with term life  insurance
equal  to five  times  his base  salary.  The  amounts  presented  in the  table
represent  the  split  dollar  premiums  for 2001  and  2002  and the term  life
insurance premium for 2003.
          4The amounts  presented  include the  Company's  contribution  for the
benefit of Mr. Caplinger under the Company's Stock Bonus Plan ($7,568 and $6,773
in 2003 and 2002, respectively), the gross value of life insurance premiums paid
by the  Company  on behalf of Mr.  Caplinger  ($711 and $3,998 in 2003 and 2002,
respectively)  and the Company's  contribution  for the benefit of Mr. Caplinger
under the  Executive  Deferred  Compensation  Plan for Farmers & Merchants  Bank
($9,446 and $8,780 in 2003 and 2002,  respectively).  Prior to 2003, the Company
and Mr. Caplinger were parties to split-dollar  life insurance  policies.  Under
the terms of the policies, the Company will be repaid the life insurance premium
payments from the proceeds of the insurance policies at Mr. Caplinger's death or
when cash surrender  values are sufficient to carry the policies  through normal
life  expectancy,  and Mr.  Caplinger or his heirs would  receive the  remaining
benefits.  During 2003, these policies were cancelled,  and the Company provided
Mr. Caplinger with term life insurance equal to five times his base salary.  The
amounts  presented in the table represent the split dollar premiums for 2001 and
2002 and the term life  insurance  premium  for  2003.
          5The amounts  presented  include the  Company's  contribution  for the
benefit of Mr.  Withers under the Company's  Stock Bonus Plan ($7,226 and $6,405
in 2003 and 2002, respectively), the gross value of life insurance premiums paid
by the  Company  on behalf  of Mr.  Withers  ($702 and  $4,770 in 2003 and 2002,
respectively)  and the  Company's  contribution  for the benefit of Mr.  Withers
under the  Executive  Deferred  Compensation  Plan for Farmers & Merchants  Bank
($9,446 and $8,669 in 2003 and 2002,  respectively).  Prior to 2003, the Company
and Mr. Withers were parties to split-dollar life insurance policies.  Under the
terms of the  policies,  the Company will be repaid the life  insurance  premium
payments from the proceeds of the insurance  policies at Mr.  Withers'  death or
when cash surrender  values are sufficient to carry the policies  through normal
life  expectancy,  and Mr.  Withers or his heirs  would  receive  the  remaining
benefits.  During 2003, these policies were cancelled,  and the Company provided
Mr.  Withers with term life insurance  equal to five times his base salary.  The
amounts  presented in the table represent the split dollar premiums for 2001 and
2002 and the term life insurance premium for 2003.

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Severance Plan

         In  1996,  the  Company  and  the Bank  adopted  a  change  in  control
severance plan that became  effective  July 1, 1996.  The plan covers  employees
designated  by the  Company's  Board of Directors,  including  Mr.  Fisher,  Mr.
Caplinger and Mr. Withers.

         Under the plan, a "covered  termination"  is a cessation of  employment
with the  Company  or its then  affiliates  within 36  months  after a change in
control  (as  defined  in the plan) on  account  of either  (i)  termination  of
employment  by the  covered  employee  for  good  reason  (defined  to mean  the
occurrence after a change in control of any of the following:  the assignment of
duties  inconsistent with prior duties,  the diminution of  responsibilities,  a
reduction  in base salary,  a transfer of job location of more than 50 miles,  a
failure to pay  compensation  or deferred  compensation  within seven days after
due, a failure to continue  participation and benefits under any compensation or
benefits plan (or any successor or replacement plan) at as favorable a level, or
a failure of the Company to require any  successor to the Company to comply with
the plan) or (ii) termination  initiated by the Company or any of its affiliates
for any reason other than death,  disability,  mandatory retirement or cause (as
defined in the plan).

         In the  event of a covered  termination,  a  covered  employee  will be
entitled to the following severance benefits: (i) continuation of the employee's
base pay (as defined in the plan) through the earlier of his or her death or the
third  anniversary  of the date of the  change in  control  (the  severance  pay
period);  (ii) continuation of the availability of coverage,  and the employer's
regular  contribution  towards that coverage,  under the employer's  health care
plan during the  severance  pay period for the  employee and his or her eligible
dependents;  (iii) the right to buy any car that the employee is assigned by the
employer at its then fair market value; and (iv) a lump sum payment equal to the
value of any  qualified or  nonqualified  retirement  benefits  forfeited by the
employee on account of his or her covered termination.


Compensation Committee Report on Executive Compensation

         The  Compensation  Committee of the Bank has  furnished  the  following
report on executive compensation. All executive compensation for the Company and
the Bank is determined and paid on the Bank level.

         The Compensation  Committee meets annually to review salaries,  bonuses
and the contributions to the Employee Stock Ownership Plan (ESOP) (also known as
the Company's Stock Bonus Plan) and the Executive  Deferred  Compensation  Plan.
The  Compensation  Committee  recommends  to the Board of  Directors  the annual
salary and bonuses of the Senior Management group.

         The committee  also  recommends  the annual  contribution  to the ESOP,
which  is  shared  on a  pro-rated  basis  by all  eligible  employees,  and the
contribution to the Executive Deferred  Compensation Plan, which was established
for  the  benefit  of  the  Senior  Management  group.  Finally,  the  committee
recommends a range of percentage  increases in salary for the  remaining  staff.
Increases  within  the range  established  by the  committee  and board are then
recommended by department supervisors and approved by Mr. Fisher.

         In establishing  salaries and bonuses for the Senior  Management group,
the committee attempts to provide competitive levels of compensation, which will
attract  and  retain  corporate  officers  and key  employees  with  outstanding
abilities  and to motivate  them through a  combination  of base salary,  annual
incentives and deferred  compensation.  The committee uses the Virginia  Bankers
Association  Salary Survey of Virginia Banks for comparison of salaries paid for
similar positions and responsibilities.  The Board, on at least an annual basis,
also reviews  qualitative  factors,  such as Return on Average Assets (ROAA) and
Return on Average Equity (ROAE) relative to peer banks. A subjective approach is
used in this  evaluation  and therefore the committee does not rely on a formula
or weights of specific factors.

                                            Compensation Committee
                                            Robert L. Halterman
                                            Lawrence H. Hoover, Jr.
                                            Michael W. Pugh
                                            Ronald E. Wampler


Compensation Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation

         During 2003, no executive officer served on the Compensation Committee.

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Indebtedness and Other Transactions

         The Company's directors and officers, and other corporations,  business
organizations,  and  persons  with  whom  some of the  Company's  directors  and
officers are  associated,  had loan  transactions  at December 31, 2003 with the
Bank totaling approximately  $3,943,440 or about 12.90% of average shareholders'
equity for the year. All such  transactions  were made in the ordinary course of
business  on  substantially  the  same  terms,   including  interest  rates  and
collateral,  as those  prevailing  at the time in comparable  transactions  with
others  and did not  involve  more than the  normal  risk of  collectibility  or
present other unfavorable features.


Stock Performance

         The  following  graph  compares  the  cumulative  total  return  to the
shareholders of the Company for the last five fiscal years with the total return
on the Russell 2000 Index and the Pink Banks ($100M to $500M) Index, as reported
by SNL  Financial  LC,  assuming an  investment  of $100 in the Common  Stock on
December 31, 1998, and the reinvestment of dividends.

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                                                                                  Period Ending
                                                     -----------------------------------------------------------------------
Index                                                  12/31/98    12/31/99    12/31/00     12/31/01    12/31/02    12/31/03
- ---------------------------------------------------- ----------- ----------- ----------- ------------ ----------- -----------
                                                                                                    
F & M Bank Corp.                                         100.00      118.02      117.38        92.11       99.09      122.34
Russell 2000                                             100.00      121.26      117.59       120.52       95.83      141.11
SNL $100M-$500M OTC-BB & Pink Banks                      100.00       91.07       76.98        88.68      106.37      144.49



PROPOSAL TWO
                         RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF
                         INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

         S. B.  Hoover & Company,  L.L.P.  of  Harrisonburg,  Virginia,  was the
auditor  for the  Company  for 2003 and is being  recommended  to the  Company's
shareholders  for the  ratification  of its  appointment  as auditor for 2004. A
representative  of S. B. Hoover & Company,  L.L.P.  is expected to be present at
the Annual Meeting,  will have the opportunity to make a statement if he desires
to do so, and is expected to be  available to respond to  appropriate  questions
from shareholders.

                  The Board recommends a vote for Proposal Two.

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                                AUDIT INFORMATION

Audit Committee

         The Audit Committee operates under a written charter that the Board has
adopted  and that is set forth as Appendix A to this Proxy  Statement.  The five
members  of the Audit  Committee  are  independent  as that term is  defined  in
Nasdaq's listing standards.

Fees of Independent Public Accountants

Audit Fees

         The  aggregate  fees  billed  by S. B.  Hoover &  Company,  L.L.P.  for
professional  services  rendered for the audit of the Company's annual financial
statements  for the fiscal years ended  December 31, 2003 and 2002,  and for the
review of the financial  statements  included in the Company's Quarterly Reports
on Form 10-Q,  and  services  that are  normally  provided  in  connection  with
statutory and regulatory  filings and  engagements,  for those fiscal years were
$35,500 for 2003 and $27,800 for 2002.

Audit Related Fees

         The  aggregate  fees  billed  by S. B.  Hoover &  Company,  L.L.P.  for
professional  services for  assurance and related  services that are  reasonably
related to the  performance  of the audit or review of the  Company's  financial
statements  and not reported under the heading "Audit Fees" above for the fiscal
years  ended  December  31, 2003 and  December  31, 2002 were $1,685 and $1,335,
respectively.  During  both  years,  these  services  included  FHLB  collateral
verification  audits  and  consultation   concerning  financial  accounting  and
reporting standards and other related issues.

Tax Fees

         The  aggregate  fees  billed  by S. B.  Hoover &  Company,  L.L.P.  for
professional  services for tax  compliance,  tax advice and tax planning for the
fiscal  years  ended  December  31, 2003 and  December  31, 2002 were $3,000 and
$2,425, respectively.  During both years, these services included preparation of
federal and state income tax returns.

All Other Fees

         There were no fees  billed  by S. B. Hoover & Company,  L.L.P.  for any
other  services  rendered to the Company for the fiscal years ended December 31,
2003 and 2002.

Pre-Approved Services

         All audit related  services and tax services were  pre-approved  by the
Audit  Committee,  which  concluded that the provision of such services by S. B.
Hoover & Company,  L.L.P.  was  compatible  with the  maintenance of that firm's
independence  in the conduct of its auditing  functions.  The Audit  Committee's
Charter provides for pre-approval of audit,  audit-related and tax services. The
Charter authorizes the Audit Committee to delegate to one or more of its members
pre-approval authority with respect to permitted services.


Audit Committee Report

         Management  is  responsible  for  the  Company's   internal   controls,
financial reporting process and compliance with laws and regulations and ethical
business  standards.  The  independent  auditor is responsible for performing an
independent  audit  of  the  Company's   consolidated  financial  statements  in
accordance  with  generally  accepted  auditing  standards  and issuing a report
thereon.  The Audit  Committee's  responsibility is to monitor and oversee these
processes on behalf of the Board of Directors.

         In this context,  the Audit  Committee has reviewed and discussed  with
management and the independent  auditors the audited financial  statements.  The
Audit Committee has discussed with the independent auditors the matters required
to be discussed by Statement on Auditing  Standards No. 61  (Communication  with
Audit  Committees).  In addition,  the Audit  Committee  has  received  from the
independent auditors the written disclosures required by Independence  Standards
Board  Standard  No. 1  (Independence  Discussions  with Audit  Committees)  and
discussed  with them their  independence

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from  the  Company  and  its  management.  Moreover,  the  Audit  Committee  has
considered  whether  the  independent  auditor's  provision  of other  non-audit
services to the Company is compatible with the auditor's independence.

         In reliance on the reviews and discussions referred to above, the Audit
Committee  recommended  to the Board of  Directors  that the  audited  financial
statements  be  included  in the  Company's  Annual  Report on Form 10-K for the
fiscal year ended December 31, 2003, for filing with the Securities and Exchange
Commission. By recommending to the Board of Directors that the audited financial
statements be so included,  the Audit  Committee is not opining on the accuracy,
completeness or fairness of the audited financial statements.

March 25, 2004                                    Audit Committee
                                                  Thomas L. Cline
                                                  Ellen R. Fitzwater
                                                  Robert L. Halterman
                                                  Daniel J. Harshman
                                                  Ronald E. Wampler


                              SHAREHOLDER PROPOSALS

         Under SEC regulations,  any shareholder  desiring to make a proposal to
be acted  upon at the 2005  annual  meeting  of  shareholders  must  cause  such
proposal to be delivered,  in proper form,  to the Secretary of the Company,  at
its principal executive offices, P. O. Box 1111, Timberville, Virginia 22853, no
later than  December 3, 2004,  in order for the  proposal to be  considered  for
inclusion  in the  Company's  Proxy  Statement  for that  meeting.  The  Company
anticipates holding the 2005 annual meeting of shareholders on May 14, 2005.

         The Company's  Bylaws also  prescribe the procedure  that a shareholder
must  follow  to  nominate   directors  or  to  bring  other   business   before
shareholders' meetings outside of the proxy statement process. For a shareholder
to nominate a candidate for director at the 2005 annual meeting of shareholders,
notice of the  nomination  must be received by the  Secretary of the Company not
less than 60 days and not more than 90 days prior to the date of the 2005 annual
meeting.  The notice must describe various matters regarding the nominee and the
shareholder  giving the notice. For a shareholder to bring other business before
the 2005 annual meeting of shareholders, notice of the proposed business must be
received by the Secretary of the Company not less than 60 days and not more than
90 days prior to the date of the 2005 annual meeting.  The notice must include a
description of the proposed business,  the reasons therefor, and other specified
matters.  Any  shareholder  may obtain a copy of the Company's  Bylaws,  without
charge,  upon written  request to the  Secretary  of the Company.  Based upon an
anticipated  date of May 14, 2005 for the 2005 annual  meeting of  shareholders,
the Company must  receive any notice of  nomination  or other  business no later
than March 15, 2005 and no earlier than February 13, 2005.


                         HOUSEHOLDING OF PROXY MATERIALS

         SEC  regulations  permit  the  Company  to send a  single  set of proxy
materials,  including this Proxy Statement and an Annual Report to shareholders,
to two or more shareholders  that share the same address.  Each shareholder will
continue to receive his or her own  separate  proxy.  The Company  will  deliver
promptly  upon written or oral  request a separate  set of proxy  materials to a
shareholder  at a shared  address  that  only  received  a  single  set of proxy
materials for this year. If the  shareholder  would prefer to receive his or her
own copy,  please  contact  Sylvia  Bowman.  Ms.  Bowman's phone number is (540)
896-8941,  and her  address  is P. O. Box  1111,  Timberville,  Virginia  22853.
Similarly,  if a  shareholder  would like to  receive  his or her own set of the
Company's proxy materials in future years or if a shareholder  shares an address
with another shareholder and both would like to receive only a single set of the
Company's proxy materials in future years, please contact Ms. Bowman.


                                          By Order of the Board of Directors



                                          Larry A. Caplinger, Secretary

April 2, 2004

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                                   Appendix A

                                F & M Bank Corp.
                             Audit Committee Charter

I.   Purpose

     The  primary  purpose  of the Audit  Committee  is to  assist  the Board of
Directors in fulfilling its oversight responsibility by: reviewing the financial
reports and other financial information provided by the organization;  assessing
the systems of internal controls;  and monitoring the  organization's  auditing,
accounting,  financial reporting and loan review functions. Consistent with this
function,  the Audit Committee  should encourage  continuous  improvement in and
should  foster  adherence  to,  the  organization's  policies,  procedures,  and
practices   at  all   levels.   The  Audit   Committee's   primary   duties  and
responsibilities are to:

     Serveas an independent  and objective  party to monitor the  organization's
     financial reporting process and internal control system.

     Review and appraise  the audit  efforts of the  organization's  independent
     accountants and internal auditing firm.

     Review  and  approve  the  loan  review   function  as   conducted  by  the
     organizations loan review officer(s).

     Provide an open avenue of communication among the independent  accountants,
     senior management, the internal auditing firm, and the Board of Directors.

II.  Composition

     The  Audit  Committee  shall be  composed  of three  or more  directors  as
determined by the Board, each of whom shall be independent  directors,  and free
from any  relationship  that, in the opinion of the Board,  would interfere with
the exercise of his or her independent judgment as a member of the Committee.  A
Director will be considered independent if, he or she:

     Has not been employed by the  Corporation  or its affiliates in the current
     or past three years;

     Receives no significant  compensation  from the bank,  other than Directors
     fees.

     Does not have an  immediate  family  member who is, or has been in the past
     three years,  employed by the Corporation or its affiliates as an executive
     officer;

     Has not been a partner,  controlling shareholder or an executive officer of
     any  for-profit  business to which the  Corporation  made, or from which it
     received, payments (other than those which arise solely from investments in
     the  Corporation's  securities)  for providing  major services to the bank,
     holding company or affiliates in any of the past three years; or

     Has not been  employed as an executive  of another  entity where any of the
     Corporation's executives serve on that entity's compensation committee.

     All members of the Committee  shall have a working  familiarity  with basic
     finance and accounting practices,  and at least one member of the Committee
     shall have accounting or related financial management expertise.  Committee
     members may enhance  their  familiarity  with  finance  and  accounting  by
     participating  in educational  programs  conducted by the Corporation or an
     outside consultant.

     The  members of the  Committee  shall be elected by the Board at the annual
     organizational meeting of the Board or until their successors shall be duly
     elected and  qualified.  Unless a Chair is elected by the full  Board,  the
     members of the Committee may designate a Chair by majority vote of the full
     Committee membership.

III. Meetings

     The Committee shall meet at least four times  annually,  or more frequently
as circumstances  dictate. As part of its job to foster open communication,  the
Committee  should meet at least  annually with the  independent  accountants  to
discuss any matters that the Committee believes should be discussed privately.

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IV.  Responsibilities and Duties

     To fulfill its responsibilities and duties the Audit Committee shall:

     Review  and  update  this  Charter  periodically,  at  least  annually,  as
     conditions dictate.

     Review quarterly  financial  information  prior to filing with Securities &
     Exchange Commission.

     Review the organization's  audited financial statements with Management and
     the independent auditors.

     Recommend to the Board of Directors that the audited  financial  statements
     be included in the Company's Annual Report on Form 10-K.

     Review the regular internal audit reports prepared by the internal auditing
     firm as well as Management's responses.

     Review the regular internal loan review reports prepared by the loan review
     officer(s) as well as management's responses.

     Recommend to the Board the selection of the independent accountants and the
     internal  audit  firm,  considering  independence  and  effectiveness,  and
     approve the fees and other compensation to be paid to these firm(s).

     On an annual  basis,  the  Committee  should  review and  discuss  with the
     accountants all  significant  relationships  the accountants  have with the
     organization to determine the accountants' independence.

     Review the  performance of the independent  accounting  firm(s) and approve
     any proposed  discharge of the independent  accountants when  circumstances
     warrant.

     Periodically  consult with the  independent  accounting  firm(s) out of the
     presence  of  Management  about  internal  controls  and the  fairness  and
     accuracy of the organization's financial statements.

     Periodically  consult  with  internal  loan  review  officer(s)  out of the
     presence  of  management   about  loan  policies,   procedures  and  credit
     administration practices.

     Consider and approve,  if appropriate,  major changes to the organization's
     auditing  and  accounting  principles  and  practices  as  suggested by the
     independent  accounting  firm(s),  Management,  or  the  internal  auditing
     department.

     Discuss  with  the  independent   auditors  the  "Matters  Required  To  Be
     Discussed"  by the  Statement of Auditing  Standards No. 61 relating to the
     conduct of the audit.

     Review  activities,  organizational  structure,  and  qualifications of the
     internal audit firm.

     Perform  any  other   activities   consistent   with  this   Charter,   the
     organization's  By-laws and  governing  law, as the  Committee or the Board
     deems necessary or appropriate.

     While the Audit Committee has the  responsibilities and powers set forth in
this  Charter,  it is not the duty of the  Audit  Committee  to plan or  conduct
audits or to determine that the Company's financial  statements are complete and
accurate and are in accordance with generally  accepted  accounting  principles.
This is the responsibility of management and the independent auditors. Nor is it
the  duty  of  the  Audit  Committee  to  conduct  investigations,   to  resolve
disagreements,  if any,  between  management and the  independent  auditor or to
assure compliance with laws and regulations.

     This Audit  Committee  Charter has been  reviewed and approved by the Audit
Committee and Board of Directors of F & M Bank Corp. December 18, 2003.

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                                     PROXY

                                F & M BANK CORP.

                   Annual Meeting of Shareholders, May 8, 2004

           THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

          The undersigned  hereby appoints  Lawrence H. Hoover,  Jr., Richard S.
Myers and  Ronald E.  Wampler,  any or all of whom may act,  with full  power of
substitution,  as proxies to vote, as designated below, at the Annual Meeting of
Shareholders to be held May 8, 2004 at 5:30 P.M. and at any adjournment thereof,
the shares of F & M Bank Corp. common stock held of record by the undersigned as
of March 19, 2004.

          The shares to which this proxy relates will be voted as specified.  If
no  specification  is made,  such shares will be voted in favor of the proposals
set forth on this proxy.

PROPOSAL ONE
                              ELECTION OF DIRECTORS


                                                
|_| FOR all nominees listed below                  |_| WITHHOLD AUTHORITY to vote for all
       (except as marked to the contrary below)             nominees listed below


            Thomas L. Cline, Robert L. Halterman and Michael W. Pugh
                     for three-year terms to expire in 2007.

         (INSTRUCTION: To withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee,
write that nominee's name in the space below.)

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PROPOSAL TWO

          RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF S. B. HOOVER & COMPANY, L.L.P.
                        AS INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

         |_| FOR                     |_| AGAINST             |_| ABSTAIN

IN THEIR DISCRETION, THE PROXIES ARE AUTHORIZED TO VOTE UPON SUCH OTHER BUSINESS
AS MAY PROPERLY COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING.

         Please  complete,  date and sign the  proxy  and  return  it as soon as
possible in the enclosed postage prepaid envelope.  Please sign the Proxy in the
name or  names  shown  on your  stock  certificate.  If  signing  as a  trustee,
executor, etc., please so indicate.

                                            Date Signed:
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