EXHIBIT 21 FARM FAMILY HOLDINGS, INC. SUBSIDIARIES OF THE REGISTRANT Subsidiaries State - -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Farm Family Life Insurance Company is a wholly-owned subsidiary of Farm Family Holdings, Inc. NY Farm Family Financial Services, Inc. is a wholly-owned subsidiary of Farm Family Holdings, Inc. NY Farm Family Casualty Insurance Company ("FFCIC") is a wholly-owned subsidiary of Farm Family Holdings, Inc. NY Rural Agency and Brokerage, Inc. ("RAB") is a wholly-owned subsidiary of FFCIC. NY Rural Insurance Agency and Brokerage of Massachusetts, Inc. is a wholly-owned subsidiary of RAB. MA R.A.A.B of W. Va., Inc. is a wholly-owned subsidiary of RAB. WV E-51