ARM FINANCIAL GROUP, INC. 515 WEST MARKET STREET LOUISVILLE, KENTUCKY 40202 March 20, 1998 Mr. Martin H. Ruby ARM Financial Group, Inc. 515 West Market Street Louisville, Kentucky 40202 Dear Marty: This letter amendment (this "AMENDMENT") sets forth our mutual understanding concerning an amendment to your Employment Agreement with ARM Financial Group, Inc. (the "COMPANY") dated as of July 1, 1996, as amended December 4, 1997 (the "EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT"). 1. Section 5.1.1 is hereby amended by deleting the words "the penultimate sentence of this Section 5.1.1 and" in the first line of Section 5.1.1. 2. Section 5.1.1 is hereby further amended by deleting the penultimate sentence in such Section 5.1.1. 3. This Amendment shall be governed in accordance with the laws of the State of New York. 4. Except as modified hereby, the Employment Agreement remains in full force and effect. 2 Please evidence your agreement with this Amendment by executing the acknowledgment set forth below. ARM FINANCIAL GROUP, INC. /s/ Colin F. Raymond -------------------- Name: Title: ACKNOWLEDGED AND AGREED AS OF THE DATE FIRST ABOVE WRITTEN /s/ Martin H. Ruby - --------------------- Martin H. Ruby